If You Make These Mistakes You Will Not Survive In A Street Fight

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  • @justanothercayleb820
    @justanothercayleb820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +256

    “Appear weak when you’re strong, strong when you’re weak.” -Sun Tzu

    • @CarlJohnson-zw4vq
      @CarlJohnson-zw4vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I appear weak but I'm strong asf

    • @MFbaZz
      @MFbaZz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@CarlJohnson-zw4vq am stronk 💪🏽😳

    • @CarlJohnson-zw4vq
      @CarlJohnson-zw4vq 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MFbaZz OHhH yEs My mOoSclEs aRe groWiNg vErY strOnK😳💪🏽

    • @w.s8676
      @w.s8676 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly!!!

    • @themaster1147
      @themaster1147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Technoblade

  • @tahmidchowdhury
    @tahmidchowdhury 5 ปีที่แล้ว +447

    Never show your stance.
    Don't wait to be attacked.
    Do not showboat.
    Do not underestimate your opponent.
    Never lose focus.
    Don get too close.

    • @tahmidchowdhury
      @tahmidchowdhury 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Shaan Peace infinite welcome.

    • @RetroSleet
      @RetroSleet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      But you kind of have to wait to be attacked or else you are the attacker not them. If you throw the first punch, its your fault. Dont be the first to punch you have to be ready for that punch and be ready to move out of the way and then go in for the punches.Then its their fault that they started it and you are just defending youself.

    • @timj4601
      @timj4601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      "I can't let you get close"

    • @Milton0526
      @Milton0526 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      @@RetroSleet if youre staying a distance away and he walks up to you aggressively within arms reach thats free game

    • @RetroSleet
      @RetroSleet 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@Milton0526 but he might just be intimidating you. Its best just to wait and see but obviously get ready for anything by tensing your body up or even prepare to dodge

  • @AutryLee
    @AutryLee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +141

    This guy has enormous stage presence and personality; love this guy!

  • @shshh-fw9eh
    @shshh-fw9eh 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Your experience as a doorman turns your knowledge and skills in aikido into something that we can apply in real life danger situations. Not much aikido related content on YT helps with self defence like yours do. Stay humble and focused.

  • @cephelps6339
    @cephelps6339 5 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    This man is the TRUTH. Everything he says is facts💯✊🏾💯

    • @santomessina908
      @santomessina908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Lol

    • @metingordu627
      @metingordu627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@santomessina908 😂

    • @metingordu627
      @metingordu627 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂

    • @Jmbr-eh6xr
      @Jmbr-eh6xr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He was an Ex-Door Steward, dealing with violent punks every night was his job, but he seems such a gentle giant despite his skills, he has been taught well

    • @annepowell1666
      @annepowell1666 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      True man!! Just need some help with not panicking!!

  • @stevesmeltzer6126
    @stevesmeltzer6126 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Hey, Buddy, I'm a retired doorman & bar manager from 1977 - 2012. I like your approach great stuff!

  • @DR-JOHN-DEJAVU-1984
    @DR-JOHN-DEJAVU-1984 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're a very smart lad in this situation. Some time ago back in the day, I was caught up and attacked in a fight and a dude was threatening me with this ridiculous stance-- I took some courses in hand-to-hand combat and was able to quickly restrain the chap and calm him down. You never take a ridiculous praying mantis or wide pose in a street fight in the moment because you can waste your energy and mess up your pattern.

  • @ironmikehallowween
    @ironmikehallowween 5 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    I was a bouncer for many years in Baltimore city where we had over a 1000 customers a night. Now, where I work, we only have a few hundred people a night or less. We have no bouncers. So, bartenders do both jobs. I will tell you that you have to keep them at distance. I hold my hand out fully extended towards the center of their chest with that shoulder raised to guard my chin. if they attempt to escalate and bypass my hand by force, you need to understand that it’s on. We do not punch or kick people unless absolutely necessary. I have never done that unless I am out numbered. If You are outnumbered, you absolutely cannot go to the ground. I have been hit with chairs, pool sticks, beer bottles, etc., when doing so. With one person, I always take them down, but unfortunately, sometimes they have friends that I was unaware of. You must to be able to box, kick, throw, and submit. I have literally spent weeks finding glass in my scalp or having it fall out when I brush it. My advice: Avoid street fights. They are stupid beyond reason. Always remain calm and keep your wits about you. Always have friends who will fight with you if needed. If you are outnumbered, you need to take out at least one of them quickly. I have used punches and kicks to do this. Be advised, that kicks require a lot more room. So, train to box, kick, and grapple. And, avoid places that are known to have altercations. Always go out with friends, especially if attractive girls are with you.

    • @1625GEE
      @1625GEE 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Good advice.

    • @ianwattsOfficial
      @ianwattsOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Read your story,it happens everywhere, Bruce Lee said Run away from a fight, Your best advice is Walk away as is mine, I hope everyone reads your story and learns from it. Big thank you

    • @ironmikehallowween
      @ironmikehallowween 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Grossmesser1 that will definitely reduce your chances of an altercation. Bars and clubs are sexually charged environments. Both men and women, are involved in a hotly contested competition. men against other men, and women against other women. Some will fight for dominance, and the stakes are high. Plus, alcohol has lowered their inhibitions, and their ability to make the more logical decisions. It’s basically a powder keg in search of a spark: Every single night.

    • @ianwattsOfficial
      @ianwattsOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ironmikehallowween It is just like the animal kingdom for a watering hole, instead of a family night out, it is a shame the world is getting like this.. Thanks again Ian

    • @ianwattsOfficial
      @ianwattsOfficial 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ironmikehallowween I think it is much nicer to walk away from any situation

  • @helenkeller7127
    @helenkeller7127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    That guy's fainting is on point 😂 great acting man

  • @JennyG.COW5
    @JennyG.COW5 5 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    I'm glad you're teaching us that the first step is to be humble and "play dumb" with the amount of skills.
    This is especially important if you really don't have any experience.
    Thanks for the tips! 😁👍

    • @BelloBudo007
      @BelloBudo007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In short don't show your cards.

    • @tilipitappio
      @tilipitappio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No experience = best to run away

    • @gmork1090
      @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tilipitappio Even with experience = best to run away (except maybe with a throat jab or eye gouge to keep them from catching up to you).

    • @katarinatibai8396
      @katarinatibai8396 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I will allways go for the troath quich as possible - I'm a 1,63m short woman 55kg doaking wett - so I can't wrestle with a biger guy or take some hits - will not go for a long dance - no mercy.

    • @Jmbr-eh6xr
      @Jmbr-eh6xr 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, for Aikido to work, you best act as if you don't have a clue how to fight, it is not great as a form of attack, it is more of a defensive and surprise motion

  • @LifeIsThePrayer
    @LifeIsThePrayer ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Extra appreciation for the straightman.
    Never had to say a word.
    Even scored a hit close to the end.

  • @thechrisbutner
    @thechrisbutner 6 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    Love when Azu comments on the psychology of real fights because it's based on real world experience. And most of his solutions are simple, which to me, seems to be the best self defense strategy.

    • @katreyu1440
      @katreyu1440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Definitely in a real situation trying to be complicated will get u messed up

    • @Snarkapotamus
      @Snarkapotamus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Simple is absolutely the key. That, and staying calm...

  • @mieralunarlunishion
    @mieralunarlunishion 6 ปีที่แล้ว +246

    About getting too close: they might pull a knife and stab you a couple of times before you even know what hit you.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Mieralunar Lunishion While I agree, most kats will brandish the knife before that close quarters tangle.

    • @salahad-din4114
      @salahad-din4114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      Definitely, I've trained for over thirty five years, I've still been stabbed twice. Made me learn to keep a wall behind me, never know what their mate will do. Learnt that the hard way

    • @aspenrebel
      @aspenrebel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Head butt u in the nose or eye!!

    • @aspenrebel
      @aspenrebel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@salahad-din4114 There you go!! Like they say in prison ... .keep your back to the wall and DON'T BEND OVER TO PICK UP THE SOAP!!

    • @r.ouellette6192
      @r.ouellette6192 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Glass bottles or improvised knives... You get in to close it takes three seconds. For that shit to be in your gut.

  • @spaceage69
    @spaceage69 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    just got in to a schirmish found myself going in to a stance at the same time remembered never show your stance it changed everything then he showed me his weakness just like you described fantastic teaching

  • @markelmslie6832
    @markelmslie6832 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A nice man showing you can be strong and still have integrity!

  • @MetalHeadKitchen
    @MetalHeadKitchen 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Having also been a doorman (bouncer for those for you who think we are talking of the guy who opens the door for you at a fancy hotel) for a couple of decades, and training in various martial styles, this guy iis SO RIGHT. Psychology is a human condition we must bear in mind in combat. Your attitude reflects on so much more than just your level of adrenaline, which can be raised effectively by proper focus and awareness. Well said Aikidoflow! -- Aikidoflowguy?!

    • @cand1ss
      @cand1ss 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did think he meant he opened doors at a hotel, thanks for the clarification.

    • @scottzappa9314
      @scottzappa9314 ปีที่แล้ว

      Is that a British thing? Always heard the term bouncer but not "doorman."

  • @JokerScribe
    @JokerScribe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    '...and boom, I'm takin' him down.' After every sentence in all videos. lol

    • @marsbase3729
      @marsbase3729 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everyone needs a catchphrase! 😅

    • @goncalobaia1574
      @goncalobaia1574 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You forgot to note that it has to be said with a lowering voice

  • @manman80trillion40
    @manman80trillion40 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    "Woah whatcha doin there mate?" SO COOL!!!!!!

  • @alexansari2138
    @alexansari2138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great advise..... I remember a few years ago in New Orleans I had a friend who got into a street fight outside a bar. He started to showboat'in, pushing the other guy and then looking around to see if the girls were watch'in him and boom he got sucker punched in the head and he was KO. Everyone was laughing and I had to pull him up. The guy who punched him out was very nice to him afterwords. My friend was so embarrassed that he went back to the hotel. I don't like to get into fights, but being a show promoter and in show biz fights happen. I even hired a bodyguard once when I was doing back to back shows. One must always be alert.

  • @stuartwest8836
    @stuartwest8836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I am a 72 year old Christian street Preacher who stands alone in the street, I am grateful for this information, I am not an aggressor, but I will defend myself if attacked .......I'll turn the other cheek, but I am not about to be stomped on .......Thanks again guys...........

    • @anilphilip546
      @anilphilip546 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @stuart west where do you preach?

    • @stuartwest8836
      @stuartwest8836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@anilphilip546 In North Devon.......West Country

    • @anilphilip546
      @anilphilip546 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @stuart west God bless you! you may also find my post here helpful juwo.blogspot.com/2018/08/can-christian-practice-martial-arts.html and also sites.google.com/site/mydreamchurch/

  • @jimmyESSEXUK
    @jimmyESSEXUK 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Who ever says this doesn’t work in real life on the streets... well 9/10 it does work!

    • @gmork1090
      @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This always works. Always.

  • @angoor101
    @angoor101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    My martial arts master taught me to always chose to walk and if needed run away. Only time I fight is if all has failed and I’m cornered and have left with no choice. Even then, drop your opponent and run. Remember that no mater how good or strong you are, you can still get hurt or worse.

    • @danielbarretto3757
      @danielbarretto3757 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Goldwing Pilot all of mine to..and this is true...but all to often violence finds you and you HAVE TO FIGHT...I agree strike hard and overwhelm your opponents...martial arts is just that “arts” ..fighting is survival

  • @ratnoinamaew7822
    @ratnoinamaew7822 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is great advice. However sometimes, its best to avoid a fight if you can and only fight if absolutely necessary. Few years ago, I was in Manila in a bar, on my own, lots of girls around. I saw some nasty looking dudes, one white guy and a big black guy who accused me of taking his seat. I went over to talk to this lovely girl and asked her if that stool was taken, she said no, so I took it. I kept calm, he was really up for it, but I just said "I didn't know it was yours, take it", he then said "What????", I just remained calm and repeated the same thing. His mate was watching all of this, then, black guy looked at his mate and his mate gave a gesture to leave it alone. Black guy then just quietly stepped back and sat down. I lost a bit of face, but, what would the alternative be? A messy bar fight in a foreign country? Similar thing happened in Phuket many years ago. US marines were in town, I was in a club, some guy tries to push in front of me, I just kept walking but turned around for a look, again some black guy wants to get aggressive, I just remained calm and thought to myself "I can either take this up a notch or go and talk to that bird over there?". In both cases I took the gorgeous birds home.

  • @KuyVonBraun
    @KuyVonBraun 6 ปีที่แล้ว +251

    Azu uses smile-fu and nice guy-do...followed by choking you out 😂

    • @sicko5821
      @sicko5821 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You made me LOL

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KayleeBrowncoat Lol. :) Very true.

    • @wedongo
      @wedongo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😆😀😁

    •  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Best martial arts for a doorman. Win the fight by avoiding the fight.

    • @bobbyhill4118
      @bobbyhill4118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      KayleeBrowncoat truly the most deceptive art out there. Nice guy-do... “hey, calm down man, don’t hit me, you can have some cash if you want...”
      *yeets himself on top of attacker and chokes him out*

  • @philcoassociates3145
    @philcoassociates3145 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You're awesome! Love the videos! Funny, but deadly serious. It's those little details that will keep you alive. You provide a great service. Thanks so much!

  • @adila7071
    @adila7071 6 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Great video Azu. I appreciate your sharing the wealth of your experience as a doorman. This is really valuable stuff. Staying humble and focused really is the way to handle confrontations.

  • @BookofTerrors
    @BookofTerrors 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the first things we do in Jiu Jitsu is close the gap...get so close that the opponent can NOT punch us, ideally. (Managing the distance)

  • @moomoopuppy5810
    @moomoopuppy5810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    These videos are not only really entertaining, its also very good common sense.

  • @Beef850
    @Beef850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    That was a great tuition, I found that video extremely knowledgeable. The demo's are great cause they are flowing. Fantastic video thank you, I hope to see more of your videos Jason.

  • @tebiestiberiualin1741
    @tebiestiberiualin1741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I'm laughing with tears!!!..."what are you doing mate?!you know what i'm saying?!"...so funny!good stuf!

  • @geff4122
    @geff4122 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    All great advice - '' Never get too close to your opponent '', wise words indeed.

  • @williamschramm2761
    @williamschramm2761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The man speaks truth!! I worked as a bouncer until is was 57 yrs. old. Did this work for almost 30 years (part-time). Do not know martial arts, however when I had to get physical used my common sense and physical strength which I have.

    • @harleyme3163
      @harleyme3163 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      honestly I'm probably just as affective at 130 pounds soaking wet.... its called a 10 gauge. for some reason I pull this thing out and the fighting and arguments stop DEAD. I'm just not built to duke it out or throw 300 pounds drunks down a flight of steps (wink) lol

    • @williamschramm2761
      @williamschramm2761 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      You do what works for you!!

  • @caminhaoraizes
    @caminhaoraizes 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Very easy to understand and use. Anything this man is teaching whether you have martial arts experience or not it is worth learning. And I am glad to have found this amazing source of information. Thank you 🙏

  • @edi9892
    @edi9892 6 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Another big mistake: calling the cops after you successfully defended yourself...
    In some countries it's damn hard to prove that you acted in self-defense and that you didn't use excessive violence.
    Moreover, if you go to the cops and admit that you punched some dudes (albeit in self defense), they have an easy time of achieving their arrest quote whereas searching the random punks that attacked you, will be very difficult unless they got seriously injured.

    • @Kevin-fj5oe
      @Kevin-fj5oe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      edi a guy got attacked by 2 guys, they have machete. The dude defend himself, somehow take the machete and kill one of the attacker. He has expirience in silat, and he got awarded by the police

    • @edi9892
      @edi9892 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Where was that?
      I know only the situation from Germany, Austria and a bit Britain. I know of cases where people fought against far stronger attackers (either weight class, numbers or equipment) with tiny Swiss army knives, blunt replica swords or even their bare fists and got thrown into prison or had to pay the hospital bills for the assailant (and lost their job, or couldn't study since they're now regarded as a criminal themselves now...).
      Heck, an acquaintance of my mother was threatened with a gun by a rapist and managed to bash it out of his hand and break his jaw (KO) and she was treated like scum: pay the hospital bill; a fine on top, loosing her job and not being allowed into any martial arts school... (in several places schools have no-felon rules). That's what you get for being a blackbelt in Karate and defending yourself against a physically stronger opponent that is armed and beyond doubt wanted to hurt her...

    • @Kevin-fj5oe
      @Kevin-fj5oe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@edi9892 in indonesia, pretty old news

    • @aspenrebel
      @aspenrebel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      TRUE!! Also, IF you call the cops, and they arrest your attacker(s) then they most likely will arrest you too for mutual offense or for "Disorderly Conduct", "Disturbing the Peace", "Public Fighting", etc. But the main thing is, the cops will get your name and all your info, where you live etc. Then IF your attacker(s) get prosecuted then their Attorney have a right to all of your info, to know everything about you, so do your attackers!!! You don't know who they are. Maybe just one or two punks, or maybe they in a gang, a dangerous gang with machine guns, have a lot of friends or a big family. They figure the easiest way to get out of being prosecuted is to have you dead!! So defend yourself, make sure guy can't come after you, and walk home. Don't even go to your car right away, if right there or close by, cuz there will always be 1 or more witnesses who will only see what you did and not what the attacker did to you. Then they will get your plate number, then you are the one being arrrested. walk away, clear the area, come back for your car later. Any day you can go home, in one piece, is a good day!! If you a foreigner in Mexico and you the victim or witness of a crime they will lock you up along with the attacker until HIS trial ..... in who knows how many years!!!

    • @aspenrebel
      @aspenrebel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@Kevin-fj5oe Nice country!! I heard, on the radio, of a case here not too long ago. A guy got his License to Carry a Concealed Firearm, and he had just bought a hand gun that day!! He went into a convenience store in a "not very nice place" just outside major city, here. I think it was 2 punks and a girl in the car, got out and attacked him (he'd never seen them before). I think one had a machete or a large knife and other had something else, I forget, but not a gun. I think they were attacking this guy to try to "make their bones" to join a gang or something. I think the guy got hit and cut first, then he pulled out his gun and shot one guy dead, and may have shot the other guy who may have gotten away in vehicle with girl. Not sure if they found him, but I'm thinking they did. But the cops arrested the guy who defended himself with the gun, took away his gun, charged him with murder, and locked him up. I think they said it took him a long time to get out on bail and he has to wear an ankle bracelet, as he's still being charged. No doubt the cops still have his gun, revoked his License to Carry, searched his home and vehicle for any other guns or weapons, etc.. So now he is defenseless if friends, gang members, family of these two punks want to kill him. That is how it works in this State. He can be under this cloud until "The end of the 2nd sitting of the Grand Jury", if and once they refuse to Indict. That can take close to 1 year!!! There was another case in which a man came to the defense of a woman outdoors who was being attacked by an ex bf who was trying to kill her. The guy ended up killing her attacker. He was charged with murder and held without bail until the Grand Jury refused to Indict. That was nearly one year. The guy had a wife and family and ran his own business, all of which suffered greatly. All due to how corrupt the police, prosecution, courts, judges, and system is in this State.

  • @glennridgewell546
    @glennridgewell546 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi brother i am Aikidoka a student of Ki Aikido and also a SIA Door Supervisor in regards to your video you mentioned about going for the throat , you should also mention REASONABLE FORCE USED TO DEFEND YOURSELF within the guide lines of the law , i mention this as those who dont know could go for the throat and cause serious damage when it was not needed , we both agree that there are times force to incapacitate an attacker should be used but with the legal system the way it is and cctv cameras / mobile phones recording we have to be very careful in what we do... peace love and respect to all of you at AIKIDOFLOW...

  • @jewels_rxannie611
    @jewels_rxannie611 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “Well I might get arrested”
    BRuhdksk😭😂

  • @jfl100
    @jfl100 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    OK, Akidoflow, can I call you Bob? Watched a couple of your
    vids and subscribed because of your obvious knowledge, and
    charisma. To the ignorant laity, every thing you say makes
    much sense [even if we'll never be in the same situations].
    Your experience in the work you profess do is so very different
    than any experience of the rest of us. Thanks very much for
    taking the trouble to pull it a together and present it in a
    professional manner. Ciao, James.

  • @3veggetta
    @3veggetta 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Your videos are so informative. I appreciate them alot.

  • @dwried
    @dwried 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    His first words were pretty much the gold of the whole video. Stay calm and focused. You can assess the situation much better. When something actually starts the adrenaline rush is crazy. Good video.

  • @mackattack5299
    @mackattack5299 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That musical ending though 8:39 ...almost made me reach into my pocket for the offerin'. Preach it, brother!

  • @studfinderball
    @studfinderball 6 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    Avoid street fight environments, like alleys and rowdy bars. Change your lifestyle. Some guys go to bars JUST SO they can fight. If you have to be there on business, be packing.

    • @BROOKLYN1977
      @BROOKLYN1977 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Best advice my man 👏👏👏

    • @Adrianpublandlord
      @Adrianpublandlord 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Haha shouldn't avoid. just be aware of the environment your in. Drunks dont care about consequences and joint manipulation locks wont work on someone who is drunk or coked up. I managed bars all of my adult life and yes they can be dangerous but most of the time they are friendly fun environments. Choosing a bar with a doorstaff/secuirty who are decent helps on a weekend as they keep most of the arseholes out. My advice would be any problems speak to the doorstaff about it and be aware of what's going on around you.

    • @doctormcgoveran2194
      @doctormcgoveran2194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Adrianpublandlord the best suggestion I heard all week was right there. "Any problems speak to the door staff."That is critical, you are not right or wrong no one cares you are co operative.When I was door man, a pretty woman had some personal difficulties and did not wan to talk to any horny guys. I said "sit right there, and if anybody speaks to you say. "that is my husband at the door, I am wating for him to get off work and take me home"".If you think some one doped your drink race to the door man with the drink tell him you might have been drugged and ask him to check on you in ten minutes.If you wait until you are slurring and stumbling the door man will think you are drunk, if you were bright eyed and bushy tailed ten minutes ago and now you can't walk, the door man will know something is up.

    • @alohathaxted
      @alohathaxted 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Some guys will cross the street and bump into you to start a fight. Happened to me twice lucky I recognized the ruse and just walked away.

    • @tilipitappio
      @tilipitappio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @ronbo36316 Veteran it helps if you want to go to prison for manslaughter

  • @maddila3570
    @maddila3570 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your work ..... will follow your advice, be humble, respect and never lose focus - thanks!

  • @theman2017inc
    @theman2017inc 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Watching this 3 and half years later
    Being trained, being aware and using one’s WISDOM/ Common Sense
    Many thanks sir 🙏🏿

  • @Jmbr-eh6xr
    @Jmbr-eh6xr 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Big Man, you are the man; because you were a door man, you have actual combat experience using Aikido, it does work, I went to one class of Aikido once and I was sold,
    Prior to that I thought nah, how can you drop anyone like that, but I realise oh yes you can, and it is scary
    It gives you a huge advantage if you know how Aikido works, you can drop someone with one finger if you hit them on the right spot, but like all styles, it all just needs to be practiced against resisting punks, that is the only way you will be effective

  • @phamptom
    @phamptom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    If you see someone reaching for something in their clothes, don't wait and don't stop until they're out.

    • @gmork1090
      @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Go full Batman on them and put them in the hospital. Don't be like Jackie Chan who ends up fighting the same guy 6 times while running away because he just gives a little jab and lets the bad guy catch up to him again. Maybe not go Tony Jaa and break 60 bones, but crack a couple ribs at least.

  • @phx4closureman
    @phx4closureman 5 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    2:33 *he DROPS* lol

  • @danielrodgers6939
    @danielrodgers6939 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love watching these. Well done bruv

  • @titaniumman_22
    @titaniumman_22 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love your videos brother!

  • @tomhaliburda2007
    @tomhaliburda2007 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Some of us know this but most do not.Very informative and appreciate your knowledge.Thank you..

  • @cjsansoo7
    @cjsansoo7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I ran a Kung Fu school in Ohio and I taught my students to strike first. Nobody is going to take you to the principals office for hitting first in a street fight. Great video. Keep up the great work 👍

  • @hypersmudge1
    @hypersmudge1 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great advice. Many thanks!

  • @jameslaiola4976
    @jameslaiola4976 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your humility. Yes i do realize that an oponent is going to be narcissistic. But you always make people feel comfortable. And i apreciate that.

  • @deanbaker9031
    @deanbaker9031 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for being realistic. I've watch a lot of your videos. You have brought to light how realistic things become for the practice of this art and the arts in general. I really like how you broke this down.
    Aikido is not as deadly without the feared Sword.
    The art was to prepare your mind and body to be as sharp as a Samurai Sword.
    First lesson, maai. Proper distance.
    If you draw a sword without proper distance, it can be turned on you.
    End of fight.

  • @MrBassflute
    @MrBassflute 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Brilliant and you are one funny dude. Thank you for this.

  • @CC-gf3nt
    @CC-gf3nt 18 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    All great advise. People, we are ALL in this TOGETHER. Unless drunk, then all bets are off.

  • @michaelsims1322
    @michaelsims1322 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I watched one video and subbed. This is good stuff.

  • @taekwondomaster4609
    @taekwondomaster4609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great video Sensei. Thank you so much I learned a lot.

  • @Beef850
    @Beef850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Great video with great demo. Please do a video about your days as a doorman back in the day that'd be great. Your a great teacher. 💪🙂🤘🤙

  • @amosmoses8718
    @amosmoses8718 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just found your channel, thanks for the videos.

  • @Kededian
    @Kededian 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stance is somewhat important. I had a fight recently and lost my balance and fell with my belly on a low fence. The guy jumped on me when i was down(he was like 95 kg, im 78kg) and started punching my head hard. Its a miracle i survived. I couldnt do anything at that moment. So i gues make sure you wont be pushed down.

  • @raulnsherah
    @raulnsherah 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “I’m going for a throat or something “ 😂😂😂

  • @katreyu1440
    @katreyu1440 4 ปีที่แล้ว +52

    Someone just tryed to stab me So glad I remembered this thank you for your videos lucky to be alive definitely some lifesaving content 🙏🙏🙏

    • @perrypelican9476
      @perrypelican9476 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How did this prevent you from being stabbed?

    • @blackperson8045
      @blackperson8045 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Perry Pelican the knowledge on how to defend against a person with a knife dumbass

    • @annepowell1666
      @annepowell1666 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG hope that you're ok!! I got mugged and I panicked the bastard had 20quid off me. Gotta work on not freaking out!!

    • @uversalgamer7888
      @uversalgamer7888 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      -_- pp

    • @iniuram8231
      @iniuram8231 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      now they stab his ass in jail

  • @mizomizo500
    @mizomizo500 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    welcome back team, i missed you so much, i really like your videos, please do it every week as the past times, i wish you all the best

  • @wissenschaftler6721
    @wissenschaftler6721 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great video! Funny and informative. Thank you 😁👍

  • @Cab0408
    @Cab0408 6 ปีที่แล้ว +117

    Looking at these comments...it always comes back to either “that won’t work in real life” or “Prove it in the cage”
    We already know what works best in the cage. MMA is now about who the best athlete is. NOT about individual fighting style. If I’m learning an art for self defense, I’m not training myself to fight against pro athletes or spec op ninjas. I’m training to defend myself against the average attacker who is probably not well trained in a martial art.
    Yes, Aikido principals can be used in real life. But not PURE defensive Aikido. You have to put a little dirt on it in the streets.

    • @UnexpectedWonder
      @UnexpectedWonder 6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Michael C. Exactly. Streetfighting is a WHOLE Different animal than the Cage, Ring, or Octogan.

    • @Aikidoflow
      @Aikidoflow  6 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Agreed

    • @AhmedSaad-fe3hg
      @AhmedSaad-fe3hg 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      r

    • @YosefHaAriaBenIssacharIsrael
      @YosefHaAriaBenIssacharIsrael 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/r3C4oI4Hzow/w-d-xo.html

    • @salahad-din4114
      @salahad-din4114 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I am 50, I've trained in several martial arts since my early teens and still train in two martial arts.
      Always someone putting down a style. As Bruce Lee said, use what is useful and forget the rest.
      Most people are great at fighting and defending against their style. Add something in the mix from another style gaps open in every style. I have been pinned by a couple of guys in Aikido and it is effective in the street. Saying any martial art can't be is nonsense.
      Any advantage in a street fight is worth having under your belt so to speak.
      I have had body builders think twice after kicking off in a night club, attitude goes a long way in a potential fight without a word being spoken.
      I definitely rate aikedo as a defence for the street.
      I always respect others knowledge, training and ability if they are white belt or seventh Dan.
      I'd never put anyone down.
      Fitness also goes a long way in a fight as many are over in a minute or two.
      Everyone should learn a palm strike just to the side of the chin and up towards the back of the opposite eye. Hit just right they always go down. Fight over. Give that a try. Soft to hard and hard to soft. Works for me at least.
      I'd still never step in a cage, I've nothing to prove. Fair enough to the guys who do, we all still like it

  • @SS-bu1hy
    @SS-bu1hy 6 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank you for your efforts 💪👍

  • @shadowbanned5164
    @shadowbanned5164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    *VERY VERY IMPORTANT IN A STREET FIGHT....EVEN IF YOU THINK THE FIGHT IS OVER DO NOT TURN YOUR BACK ON YOUR OPPONENT KEEP AN EYE ON THEM UNTIL YOU ARE WELL AWAY*

  • @mmtruckingllc657
    @mmtruckingllc657 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent advice!

  • @patricksmith4860
    @patricksmith4860 6 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I can see azu taking someone down and being like "that's a nice tenchi nage" lol

  • @ElisabettaBruno
    @ElisabettaBruno 6 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's such a shame you guys are in London, you are a bit too far from me! I love your videos, you give the bad and the good of the art and I love that.

  • @justinl7795
    @justinl7795 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's being very real these are very important tips ama take note of if I do get into a fight eventually

  • @alandmcleod5988
    @alandmcleod5988 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great stuff Azu as always

  • @alanfreeman7374
    @alanfreeman7374 6 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    As always great work mates. Sounds like a page or should I say several Pages out of the Art of War Book.😉

  • @miraculousm2971
    @miraculousm2971 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Best, most tranquil intro/outro🎶. And thanks for the defensive teq. Be blessed. 👍

  • @georgeatkinson759
    @georgeatkinson759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brilliant video, all good advice based on experience. I am an ex secondary school teacher, l have seen all of these mistakes amongst the kids. Still, they are entertaining to watch

  • @seancurtis6979
    @seancurtis6979 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Anyone else keep rewinding 2:19 - 2:21, the look on his student's face is priceless.

  • @benfrancis9512
    @benfrancis9512 5 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    Very helpful, as always.
    Unrelated question, that’s one hell of a jacket, where’d you get it from?

    • @shadowbanned5164
      @shadowbanned5164 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He bought it from a place called *ZIPPERS R US*

    • @sexyboyonzecouch
      @sexyboyonzecouch 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      He took it off Bruce Lee's master after knocking him out.

    • @phamptom
      @phamptom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      He won it over a street fight.

  • @daisukiyuuki2557
    @daisukiyuuki2557 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    " Oh! This guy knows something! The preying mantis?! He must know moves straight out of kung fu panda! "

  • @richstone2627
    @richstone2627 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very good info in your videos. Comes from experience wedded with knowledge. As to the last point I never let someone get within arms length if they're looking to fight.

  • @williamrobinson1973
    @williamrobinson1973 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yoooo, very informative..I just subscribed. You're also funny as hell dude! I was rollin

  • @-westman3619
    @-westman3619 6 ปีที่แล้ว +185

    Does that mean I should cover up the "Jiu Jitsu Blackbelt" tattoo on my forehead?
    -

    • @Aikidoflow
      @Aikidoflow  6 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      YES!..lol

    • @bigkahuna8745
      @bigkahuna8745 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      - Westman 😂😂😂😂

    • @evanabbott2737
      @evanabbott2737 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hahahahaha

    • @Hey_me
      @Hey_me 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol

    • @elgatoalf
      @elgatoalf 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just put a Venum sticker on top of it

  • @johnsartain6464
    @johnsartain6464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Big tell that someone might have a high level of martial arts/combatives training and experience....
    They're not trying to fight you. They don't have to fight you. They don't want to fight you.
    Your head hurts, it's twenty minutes later, and they're gone.

    • @ryanlee6591
      @ryanlee6591 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      With your chick on their arm

    • @phamptom
      @phamptom 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And they are calm. You don't fight a calm person.

  • @Erv704
    @Erv704 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good points and thanks for sharing

  • @Vanillickathaspiritualweirdo
    @Vanillickathaspiritualweirdo 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    The way he passes out so good I sniggled everytime cus he just continues on🤣😂😂😂😭😭😭

  • @snoona001
    @snoona001 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    sir i respect your knowledge and skill. with all do respect it would be good to see more technique and how it is done in slow motion and in real time (without hurting you partner) I am always learning . i have trained in MMA for many years and i am always looking for ways to better my skills so i may pass them onto my students. thank you and God bless.

    • @jamescagney2713
      @jamescagney2713 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yum.
      I have 2 moves the are sacred to me that I will never disclose other than one will break a leg in one hit, and the other is likely to be far worse.

    • @snoona001
      @snoona001 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@jamescagney2713 yes , I am trained on some jujitsu, boxing and kickboxing. I don't like using any of my skills to harm unless it is necessary. I do like to self knowledge myself on skills I am not trained on to better my defense. I have trained MMA fighters for 9 years. I am retired from it now due to back injuries. Keep up your videos so someone like myself can pick up on some skills. Even if they are not perfect.

  • @MartialArtsTutorialsFighttips
    @MartialArtsTutorialsFighttips 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Your best tool is your charisma

  • @Catdaddy77302
    @Catdaddy77302 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    great message brother .

  • @andrewpratten
    @andrewpratten 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I respond with: hips forwards, bring my right arm fast behind me while turn my right shoulder down and round with the arm.. grab the left sudd of the attacker's side and throw him over the top.
    Option 2: i can pull the karambit from my pocket.. end of story.
    All great points in this video.

  • @walkertongdee
    @walkertongdee 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Logic dictates if your attacker makes the same mistakes you just might survive lol

  • @thorpemusic2019
    @thorpemusic2019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    when someone's gonna attack you, act submissive, punch them in the throat, then say "what are you doing step bro?"

    • @gmork1090
      @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's always been my playbook in any combat situation.

  • @GrzlyBeard
    @GrzlyBeard 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Solid advice, thank you very much. That banging chests aka the monkey dance is quite a popular intimidation tactic. Be careful guys if the person looks about their surroundings but is still within attacking range, 2 possible risks remain 1) To check there aren't any onlookers/witnesses that show the bad guy about to cause you harm 2) To disarm you, you think okay, maybe they don't want none and then Boom! Haymaker surprise.

  • @naturalstrongman81
    @naturalstrongman81 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    very helpful and entertaining too. This guy makes some really good points and hits the nail on the head, a lot of people underestimate their opponent, everyone seems to think they are unbeatable.

  • @brianhardaway9716
    @brianhardaway9716 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    As a Ranger we practiced exactly the principles you suggested Brother Man. The passive stance is the most important, in my opinion, because you have the chance to use the opponents adrenaline to your advantage. You also have the element of surprise. It’s kind of funny to see the idiots face when he’s on the ground getting punched in the face. In Europe many of these techniques are beneficial, but unless someone starts kicking your Ass, always try to clear it up with conversation. Many people end up dead trying to save face, when it could have been squashed another way. I am not saying you should be a Pussy, it’s just that you should choose your own fights. The Streets are getting dirtier and meaner all the time. Thanks for the good video. Peace

    • @USBP464
      @USBP464 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well said, Ranger!

    • @aspenrebel
      @aspenrebel 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      The "passive stance" essentially comes from Aikido. "Go With The Flow". Work off of what the attacker gives you. Actually, the best thing is not to say anything. Just give him a look that conveys the message to him that this is going to be the final dance!! Then he may walk away, or you walk away if you can, or then HE attacks YOU. Then you defend.

    • @MetalHeadKitchen
      @MetalHeadKitchen 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fully support the passive stance. I am always positioned properly, but not noticeably, hands are up and ready but open and palms forward like I am giving up or giving in. Never give up the advantage of surprise.

  • @gmork1090
    @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oh my god. SUCH GOOD ADVICE HOLY HELL. Like the beloved Master Ken once said. "Better to be tried by twelve (jury) than carried by six (pall bearers carrying your coffin to your grave)." If arrested after acting humble when being confronted and bullied, then attacking first when they're off guard, you're more likely to get off on self-defense if you put any real hurt on someone.

  • @sergiosmith2327
    @sergiosmith2327 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You hold beautiful words, no mercy for the enemies, when they try to attack you.

  • @muhammaddarwish7909
    @muhammaddarwish7909 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Reminds of big smoke lol, we are blessed aaaand cursed

  • @SamanthaWeitzel
    @SamanthaWeitzel 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    What do you do when your opponent is super aggressive? How do you keep your distance then? How do you defend or counter attack against multiple punches instead of just one punch?

    • @ultraisheretocomment8234
      @ultraisheretocomment8234 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Karate Sidekick to the knee...
      *SNAP!*

    • @jasonm4927
      @jasonm4927 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Samantha....deal with super aggressive?....attack on his or her forward progression...doubles your strike power!
      How to deal with multiple punches/combos, learn to box!...in doing so you will learn to avoid them.
      I’m not joking, there’s your ‘real’ answers.

    • @SansAziza
      @SansAziza 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      To any question you may have: there's far too many variables. Just try not to curl up or something where you can't see.

    • @MetalHeadKitchen
      @MetalHeadKitchen 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Maybe this guy will make a video regarding that topic someday. Is there a request box or something?

    • @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN
      @OTOWN2STOCKTOWN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Protect your head and eyes by crouching in, front kick your opponent hard to get your requested distance attack or take your opponent out

  • @LosoIAm
    @LosoIAm 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    I like the tip "Do not showboat" which can aggravate people!
    You're also very funny ... two chickens fighting, bumping chests.

  • @arthurdavidfrench-stgeorge1001
    @arthurdavidfrench-stgeorge1001 ปีที่แล้ว

    He is so much fun. Very good teacher.

  • @TempestMaximus
    @TempestMaximus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    you're sound like optimus prime. I wanna listen every word you're saying

    • @randomtube8226
      @randomtube8226 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It all began with the cube

    • @gmork1090
      @gmork1090 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@randomtube8226 Nononononono. The REAL Optimus Prime. "Autobots! Transform and rrrrroll out!"