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She only thought she was going to dinner why should she be scared? Why are we blaming her for a man preying on her? Her naivety is immature but she expected a gentleman, she got a rapist, she thought she was going to dinner.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@theuzumakikay8647👈 This b - - - h is not a bloody saint, going along with a stranger to his place with her kid, knowing the risk N inspite of that she hopped in a stranger’s car . ZERO sympathy for such 3rd grade craps 💩
@@pickles5132 same. And I’m usually very much a believe the victim. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But I was really concerned with all the holes in her story. Just goes to show you that even if you make bad decisions, doesn’t mean the other person didn’t do the same.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
This rape story did sound suspicious in the beginning . But the lesson here is be careful with who you meet on the internet . Because we never know who they truly are or whatever their attentions are in the end . That guy was a perfect example of having true attentions like rapping women or whatever . However my only issue about the situation is why didn’t she have her son dropped off to his father or any other family member ? He could’ve been in danger for crying out loud .
@@Blue_SeaSmoke i agree with you when it comes to that baby because he could’ve been in danger as I said . But I don’t agree with she had it coming . Nobody deserves to be rapped .
@@Blue_SeaSmoke WOW!! No one deserves to be raped. I don't care..NO is always NO. I think that it's seriously 😳 bad judgement to take your child to meet a stranger off the internet. Bad decisions, don't justify rape though.
I hate how the crowds laughing and how Steve handled this entire situation . As an adult you’re allowed to date she made a mistake but she’s crying out for help and instead she’s being judged.. this is why most victims don’t like coming forward and hold it in for so long smh
You DAMN RIGHT!!! Exactly what was said and how Steve was talking to her, is 100% why actual victims NEVER speak up. Victim shaming, and blaming... smh Made me sick to my stomach.
Im glad someone said this. She messed up but they continuously just make fun of her and she was assaulted. She made a huge mistake but even if she was scared she would have to wait for someone to get there, which could take a while. It’s not a good thing but a lot of women just play along until they can get to a safe place. If she had a car I feel like it would have been different
@@holliewalther7174 EXACTLY... Also being a young woman, a young mom- there's a tendency to look on the bright side of things, while getting back to feeling like yourself. NO ONE ever says- "oh, this will DEFINITELY lead to me being violated, COOL....." Too many times the VICTIM is blamed... Why did you even go with? Why were you there? Nobody asks a rapist WHY they took the person there...WHY THEY DID WHAT THEY DID... It made me feel sick to my stomach when Steve was asking her all those questions... If I'm on a nude beach, does that give Everyone or Anyone the right to force me down? NO. Just like going to a party, is NOT Consent...
That's how rape victims must feel in court. The way Steve was questioning her really pissed me off. Some people are just bad judges of character, which she was. And being trustworthy of someone doesn't make you guilty Steve.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 "don't put yourself in that position again" the victim blaming is sooo horrible. He could have said "I hope you get some form of therapy to help you heal" or "I hope you can move on with your family" or something that didn't just basically blame her. Ugh.
I was assaulted by a stranger I met online when I was 17. I was afraid for my life but I didn't react because I thought that might put me in a more dangerous situation It's really disheartening to see Steve badgering her the way he is I understand wanting to get both sides of the story but making us feel stupid for being put in a situation where we feel endangered is not okay. As women we are literally told to be passive and be nice
I don't know what you're situation was like but the girl in this story basically walked into a serial killer's hideout and she was texting the whole time she could have gotten help
@@isaaclopez8472 You don't know what it's like for somebody if you're not in their shoes. I'm not saying she exercised the best judgment I'm not saying I exercise the best judgment. But I can tell you this Everything that led to me being abducted and assaulted happened because of the environment I was raised in And it's entirely possible the same thing happened to her I know it may not seem like it Especially from an outside perspective But remember all of our experiences are unique and they shape us They help us make decisions And unfortunately some of us are not raised to make good decisions and end up learning the hard way
@@kykycupcake1 EXACTLY... Hearing Steve made me SICK to my stomach.... When we're young, we can't see around corners and have life knowledge and experience... It doesn't make you at fault....for something a Predator does. It was never your fault, love, Never.
@@crimsonmckenzie98 exactly! The fact that we constantly try to find ways to pin responsibility on victims in general is wrong And it took me almost 10 YEARS in therapy to finally stop blaming myself And honestly I still struggle So I thank you for your kindness 🙏❤️
@@kykycupcake1 It Never goes away... Just know it was NOT your damn fault for the actions of Predators. Therapy helps, but girlie- just know you are blameless. Rock this world! You have experience and time, make the damn most of it!!!! Sending you loads of love, hugs, health, and peace ❤️🌟🤗
At her age I made similar mistakes & put myself in dangerous situations. Fortunately I wasn’t raped, but my point is, she’s young and yes she made dumb decisions, but rape is rape & it’s disgusting.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
Me too, that's why people used to have to have to go meet someone's family especially dad, uncle, or man in their family before they went out. You meet someone's family especially father first I feel that you're unlikely to try something like that on them. Also, don't go straight to someone's house on the first date.
they set him up to fail...look at the questions...of course she didnt verbally consent to sex...nobody rarely ever does...my girl doesnt verbally ask me to fuk her...she gives hints and sets the mood...i dont like this one...he got set up
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Steve owes that girl a major apology. He showed the world why victims don't come forward! Shame on you, Steve. You always say it's not just for TV. I don't believe you anymore.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
Exactly! She made horrible decisions but that doesn't mean she deserved to get raped. He is absolutely disgusting. He only wants to believe someone when HE wants to.
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413he absolutely does. All he did was degrade this victim. If he’s preaching that people should be brave, then he should be compassionate. This was disgusting of him and honestly disgusting that you can’t clearly see that.
I feel super old asking this (I'm not even 40 yet), but why are we still talking to strangers online? Why are we taking our babies into horrible situations like this? She absolutely did not deserve what happened to her, but holy shit ladies, MAKE SMARTER CHOICES.
I met my boyfriend online, on a dating app, during the pandemic. She however put herself and her baby in danger, absolutely! The baby being the main concern because you definitely don’t meet a person for the first time with your child. Meeting people online can be dangerous, just as dangerous as meeting someone in the store. But you don’t tell them where you live, you don’t bring your child with you, you don’t go to their house and you don’t get in their car. She’s very young and she is lacking that sort of judgment because she’s still a kid. She’s gotta keep that guard up to protect herself, no matter how “nice” they seem. I didn’t tell my boyfriend where I lived for a good two months. Besides the fact that I lived with my family, I don’t trust anyone I just met to know where I live.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
So much victim blaming in this episode. Poor girl. She made a mistake. “You let him take your phone?” I don’t think men can imagine the fear women have for men. Many are unpredictable, and if they’re stronger than you and you deem them threatening, what are you supposed to do? It’s like walking on eggshells. I hope she gets help and he gets locked up.
I think men can under-estimate how much stronger they are, and/or how much weaker women can (with it being plausible) percieve themselves to be than men.
I'm Actually Upset With The Way Steve Handled Her Because If She's A Victim.. Her Story Is Her Story. Regardless Of If We Believed Her From The Beginning Or Not... Making A Woman Feel Like HER Actions Lead To HIS DECISION TO RAPE HER.. Is Freaking Crazy.
It’s no one’s fault besides the rapists, but this girl absolutely made a chain of idiotic decisions that lead up to what happened to her. She’s an idiot but I’m glad the dude got exposed.
He was a cop, so his form of asking questions is more like an interrogation. Questioning to the point. To get the answers we all want. It may seem harsh, but necessary
You have to be honest the story sound extremely unbelievable from start to finish. There was one too many red flags that you would think is common sense and she disregarded every single one of them. She was scared but texting her boyfriend the entire time in a trailer park in the middle of no where WITH HER BABY. I understand why steve didn’t believe her especially if her boyfriend said she always lies and has cheated and meet the guy on a dating site while in a relationship. He probably thought she didn’t want her boyfriend to think she cheated like some girls on the show have done
The amount of victim blaming steve did here pisses me off. As a victim of SA, this is WHY we dont come forward about it. Because people love to blame and judge.
Just because she put herself and her child in an extremely dangerous position that directly resulted in something horrific does not mean she deserved it or asked for it. Some people just don't know any better and that's why these things happen.
I saw through his pathetic crocodile tears. He was afraid he was about to get caught. If a person says no, and intercourse continues, that’s rape. It could be a few minutes into intercourse and if she says no, it stops. If it doesn’t, it’s rape. Not a hard concept. I wish she would’ve made better decisions and she shouldn’t have taken her child. I’m sorry she had to learn that the hard way. I hope she seeks justice.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382Sorry, but her story didn’t add up. It’s unfortunate, nobody ever should be raped. But she still made a bad decision by bringing HER CHILD on a date with a man she doesn’t know. Steve, as a father, was probably thinking about how stupid that is. Because it is stupid. He NEVER blamed her for being raped. He was harsher because she was a very irresponsible mother.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
I have to admit I was actually kinda shocked that he was gonna fail so miserably no wonder he looked so nervous and scared I'm glad to see that Harlin was exposed for who he really is hoping and praying that she gets justice and have this guy put in jail where he needs to be but she also needs to start making better choices for herself.
I think Steve questioned her like that because she brought her son along I think we woulda been more understanding if she hadn’t done that but I think that really made Steve feel some type of way because she’s never even met the man before but is gonna bring her son along
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
She is clearly very young and naive, she thought her and the baby were going on a little outing. I remember my Mom told me a story of how she brought me everywhere with her after she divorced my Dad. Some Women keep their babies with them as much as possible. I'm giving this young lady some grace. I see Steve as talking to her like he would fuss at his own kids...so I am giving him some grace as well...
I wish so bad that I could have Steve’s help with my case… I live in Canada and even though he admitted through text what he did and that “it killed” him “that he did that” to me…. I have to let the judicial system take its course. Steve is amazing and I gain strength through each and every story of SA that I watch of his. A jury of his peers will determine the case in February…. Please send me prayers and positive feelings because the anxiety/panic attacks still have a hold of me…. I just want peace and accountability.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Love me some Steve Wilkos!! Hopefully I’ll be in the audience one day!! Edit: Was not expecting this ending!! Be careful who your talking to online people!! And absolutely do not bring your children with you when meeting someone for the first time!! Find someone you 100% trust to watch your baby.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 to be fair, I really thought she was lying at first just like Steve did I assume. And she brought her baby!! So he was already irritated that a mother would be that stupid. Crazy episode.
Steve doesn’t owe her an apology, he was giving her a much needed reality check. Hopefully she knows now to never do anything that stupid involving herself or her kid again! Glad the creep was exposed as a rapist!
I am so disgusted by all these people who bring their children around people they don't know, bring their kids from the beginning to meet every person they're dating.. that's sacred them babies are precious.. NO ONE SHOULD BE NEAR YOUR CHILDREN UNTIL THEY HAVE PROVEN THEMSELVES WORTHY OVER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME! it's disgusting and abusive and look at all of what could've happened to that child. This generation is so fkd up, no condoms and bring your baby around anybody 🤮
I’m shocked he lied, I thought it was definitely going to go the other way. And shame on her for bringing your infant on dates with STRANGERS! 🤦🏻♀️ SMH bad choices win bad prizes 🏆
She should have never left with him! He's so wrong an nasty for what he did but she's wrong for leaving with him then she had her baby what if he did something to her baby. My son is 4 and knows stranger danger smh.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
The girl made some stupid decisions. However, I feel like Steve’s interrogation was unnecessary. She was wrong for meeting up with him and bringing her baby. But Steve is not a woman, I don’t think he understands how intimidating and scary it could be, being alone with a man. “Why did you let him take your phone?” Like really. I just think it was a bit insensitive and it’s evident he never believed her and was shocked at the results.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she has learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
I am so sorry this happened to her. Rape is inexcusable and entirely the fault of the rapist. Dating online is fine for some. Period. That being said poor decision making is inexcusable and dangerous. Even at 18.
💯 I feel sorry for what happened to her. And rape is always the rapist fault. But the series of events and decisions that put her and her child in danger was her fault no matter the age.
@@tricktracy2254 she is still a teenager yall blame everything on victims, and wonder why we don't come out. "Why you didn't tell anyone " because of this shit
@lia-dc9sx just in case you haven't noticed teenagers go to prison. So some amount of accountability is given to teenagers. It's not victim blaming. The other victim the child is being ignored
@@lia-dc9sxu have to admit she did make very stupid decisions that easily could’ve been avoided like not bringing your kid or go into a strangers house
I mostly believed her. With fight or flight everyone reacts differently. I can understand her anxiety making her feel compelled to go inside. Her mistake was giving her address instead of meeting in a public place and taking her kid with her.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
this irritates tf out of me. was she in the wrong for putting her baby in that situation? yes. but to laugh and ridicule her when, from the beginning, this dude bro talks about how she's out to try ruining his life. like this guy ruined her life by taking advantage of her. i'm just disgusted by this audience and steve too. especially since there are other situations of guests lying about being raped and being treated with way more respect than shawna.
I was at a party at 14yrs old and when i was leading the restroom someone body slammed me. My head hit the wall. I blacked out. Woke up in another room, undressed with semen everywhere. I didn't know what to do. I never told anyone. Thank goodness I never had a period yet, so not worried there. I went to plan parenthood without my mom knowing. I was scared of diseases. Im so glad Steve tries to educate while telling these peoples story. I wish i could go back in time. I always think of the situation and wonder how many more girls were hurt.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, but just to spread some knowledge, you can still have a pregnancy without your period. You should research young cases of pregnancy, it’s girls as young as 6 who had to go with having a child because they were to young to have an abortion. I hope lifes treating you well ❤.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 talk about copy and paste I've seen you comment this exact same thing under countless comments even here where your comment makes no sense I didnt believe a word she said too
This is why people who have gone through this shit don’t come forward. No one believes us, we become a laughing stock for people’s entertainment. And Steve seems to do this with so many victims… shame
Everyone is against Steve, but Steve is right to question her. She was dumb for not meeting at a more public place. She was dumb for getting in a stranger's car. She was dumb to bring her son. She was dumb to give a stranger her address. She was dumb for STILL walking into his place after he lied about going to dinner. She was dumb to still STAY in the dude's trailer after he took her phone. As a woman myself, we need to start holding ourselves to a high standard of reading red flags. If anyone does online dating, meet up at a public place like a restaurant or bar, tell someone where you're going and who you will be with. Do not give out personal information until there has been an established connection to feel safe in doing so. Don't leave your drinks alone and stay sober. Take your own ride to and from the date spot. I also advise that if the date does go wrong, I would alert staff to let them know you feel unsafe. I have done this action one time when a date went bad and I asked bar staff to help me to my car, and they sent security to walk me to my car. We keep screaming rape culture and warning signs, but yet when someone mentions why some women are putting themselves in dangerous situations, its seen as a bad thing. No, she did NOT deserve what happened to her, no one does, rape is evil, disgusting and criminal but let's not sit here and act like she made logical moves either.
Sickening that Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
This is why I, and some people, are apprehensive about getting into relationships and dating. This is why we do our 🤬 research and become police officers ourselves before we meet someone: situations like this. Be careful out there! I can’t say this enough!
I feel horrible for this girl. As a woman, being alone with a man is terrifying. He’s stronger than her, he has brought her out somewhere remote. The thoughts that would run through my mind would be “If I demand that he takes me home, is he going to get mad? Is he going to hurt me? Maybe I can just get through the movie and he won’t hurt me.” This is a typical fawn fear response. This is more present in females then males and it’s a real issue. So it just pisses me off when Steve makes her feel stupid for going along with him despite being scared. She feared making him angry.
I was LITERALLY thinking just by looking at the guy: “ooooooh yep…..he is going to FAIL”….and he failed MISERABLY! He has what’s coming to him. Never would I put myself nor my young baby in that position in the first place.
Steve doesn't owe her an apology, she was stupid for bring her 11 month old BABY to a stranger with the intention to cheat on her boyfriend, and she should've told her boyfriend or someone where she was.
Being stupid or making a stupid choice is no an execuse to be raped. Steve was verbally making fun of her not just about her parenting but he was being verbally abusive toward her himself. There's a right way to handle situations like this and almost everything Steve said or did here was wrong.
na the way steve kinda handled the situation is fusturating. she is trying to tell her story but instead, steve is asking questions like hes making fun of her/not believing her at all ifykwim, like her story is full of shit. the way he handled the situation could have been better. i believe thats why victims dont come foward and thats why they rather just suck everything in than be judged like how she was towards the crowd and Steve.
She should have her kid taken away cause who meets a rando on the internet and goes off to some trailer in the middle of nowhere w/her baby. He could’ve murdered them both. What a moron. If you can’t use ur brain, then u shouldn’t be allowed to parent that baby. Parenting is a privilege, not an absolute right.
So she's going on some date with a stranger when she has a boyfriend? And bringing her baby along to said date with a person she never met before? And then she's texting her boyfriend for a decent amount of time while stuck with this guy? Yeah.. he's a messed up person and deserves to go to jail for not backing off when she said no.. but it also sounds like to me that she led this guy on and changed her mind at the end. The intention to cheat on her boyfriend.. because why else would she be on a date with someone else? It doesn't add up. Of course the moment she changed her mind he should've backed off but I'm sorry.. she's an idiot and put herself into this situation. So many opportunities to do SOMETHING. She was texting someone for pete's sake.. it was a clear opportunity to ask for help. Not to mention endangering herself AND HER BABY! So yeah.. I'm victim blaming. Sorry. But she had a part in this. The guy who raped her is definitely by far in the wrong and deserves to rot.. but I can't sympathize with this woman at all. I feel for her child and the boyfriend who's staying with a cheater.
Yeah, she is dumb as rock. Can't say she deserved it, but her boyfriend should leave her anyways. If you are in relationship you shouldn't meet strangers online for dates. Like wth?
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Stop letting people you don’t know be around your kids and stop letting people know pick you up from your address!!!!! Also, don’t get into strangers cars. This girl is so problematic.
Sick pig Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
This is the first Steve Wilkos episode where I was AGAINST Steve himself. Whether or not she was exaggerating or outright lying about being raped....the way Steve handled it was MESSED UP! He was mocking her, blaming her, making fun of her, basically calling her stupid, and insinuating that she was lying about this whole thing. As a former police officer, he should have had extensive training on taking reports from victims and not allowing his own personal beliefs/feelings weigh in on how he goes about investigating the report..ESPECIALLY for rape. This is exactly why so many rapes go unreported and un-investigated because victims fear they won't be believed - or they feel that the cops will blame THEM (like Steve did). I don't know, I really hope Steve looks back at this episode and gets himself more training on how to handle situations like these. This one was NOT COOL, Steve......not cool.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 stop saying that already! All he did was getting to the point of it. He didn't victim shame her! He may have say it in a harsh way but it was needed. But the baby was in danger that's what everyone is very upset at her for
@@eleanoraquitaine2966 Nobody deserves to be raped but as far as taking a child out on a date NEGATIVE. I wouldn't be looking to go on a date or trying to have another man this soon in the first place, the baby's only 11 months old let's just keep it real.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
nah why is steve talking like this to the victim? this is NOT ok. that poor woman needed his help not another person treating her like lying trash and victim blaming her. this really changed my entire perspective of steve, disgusted.
I'm not small sizing this man's behavior, but she has to take accountability.. you went on a date with a stranger and took your child and you went back to his place after giving a stranger your address... She got to take on accountability for these actions
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
I don’t understand why the audience is laughing or why Steve is making jokes. Even if you didn’t believe her, the fact he’s making jokes before he even had the results is disgusting.
I've never posted a comment on TH-cam. And I'm 28 and watch it everyday. And I love watching Steve. But watching this video it honestly bothers me. A victim should feel safe and comfortable talking to you. Not being judged and laughed at. I'm a victim myself from 7years ago. And this right here this judgment, is why I don't tell anyone. And why others don't come forward either, what's the point if were gonna get laughed at and told it's a lie? So we bottle it in, until we can't anymore either from a trigger or bc we felt safe telling someone..
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The fucklng girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
I thought she was going to fail. If the child wasn’t there, I would’ve felt terrible for her but the fact that you took your child to meet a complete stranger is unacceptable.
No one deserves to be s3xy assaulted. However Steve repeats the stupidity people do to people (I feel) so they get it in their thick ignorant heads. What she did was so ignorant. And being this guy is a creep he could’ve did something to her baby also. She played a dangerous game and better be lucky she got out alive! Also, just because someone cries doesn’t mean they are innocent. Many psychopaths cry for their OWN “suffering” (the delusion in their heads) that’s the only thing they feel.
This is the first time I've heard the results and have been shocked and I'm still having a hard time believing it. The story they both told I was piecing together and looking for verbal and non verbal cues and I still don't believe it.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Oh you can totally see the guilt on his face. Down to the tears and the shakiness in his voice. Like he’s trying to overcompensate his emotions to make himself seem credible. Or he’s afraid of being made. When Steve read the results he didn’t even try to deny it. He’s blinking away the tears as he reprimanded him. She may just be more passive, but I believed her from the beginning. I mean, she definitely shouldn’t have done several things in this story but she seemed credible.
Richard lie detector: 12:14 Richards DNA test 12:29 Shauna's lie detector test 12:31 Aarons lie detector test 13:16 Wow I wasn't expecting that I thought she was lying about it. I hope she makes better choices from now on about meeting people online but nobody deserves to be violated like that especially in front of their baby
This reminds me of the case where an American woman flew solo to Africa ( first time knew no one) ; met a man at the airport when she landed (never ever spoke to this man before ) agreed to go back to his house to save on accommodations; agreed to shower with him to “save water” (his request) ; and was SHOCKED. She was SHOCKED when he SA’ed her. As a victim of SA I do not like to victim blame. But we as women need to understand that even if someone’s nice; doesn’t mean they’re a nice person. A sane person would never invite you and you BABY over to hook up just like a sane person would never invite you to shower with them to save water.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
Generally speaking, it is very scary meeting people online, going off with them by yourself.. But to bring your child.. wow! He needs to be locked up for life.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
This woman should used better judgement even when a child involved because she could had called the police if she realized that she was going to a trailer instead of dinner that right there was a big red flag.
This one got me. I thought he was going to pass the test and she would fail it! TO BRING YOUR BABY on a online date is nuts !
Sameeee
She's nuts!
A female tried to bring her new born baby to a “rendezvous” so I blocked her.
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She only thought she was going to dinner why should she be scared? Why are we blaming her for a man preying on her? Her naivety is immature but she expected a gentleman, she got a rapist, she thought she was going to dinner.
I’m glad the guy got exposed! I also hope that girl makes better decisions moving forward! She put herself and her baby in danger.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
SERIOUS danger
Not her fault she gotten raped bro
@@theuzumakikay8647👈 This b - - - h is not a bloody saint, going along with a stranger to his place with her kid, knowing the risk N inspite of that she hopped in a stranger’s car . ZERO sympathy for such 3rd grade craps 💩
LIE DETECTOR TESTS ARE NOT RELIABLE
Dude I nearly died when he didn’t pass. Man those fake tears from him.
All that guilt
i really believed him. he could be an actor.
@@ALLTHINGSDIJAH exactly.. he’s crying bc he’s guilty
@@pickles5132 same. And I’m usually very much a believe the victim. I try to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But I was really concerned with all the holes in her story. Just goes to show you that even if you make bad decisions, doesn’t mean the other person didn’t do the same.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
This rape story did sound suspicious in the beginning . But the lesson here is be careful with who you meet on the internet . Because we never know who they truly are or whatever their attentions are in the end . That guy was a perfect example of having true attentions like rapping women or whatever . However my only issue about the situation is why didn’t she have her son dropped off to his father or any other family member ? He could’ve been in danger for crying out loud .
Get mad at me all you want. CALL IT EVEN AND MOVE ON...with her actions she had it coming and i hate her for putting that baby in danger.
@@silence6813 I never said it was wrong to meet somebody on a dating app but yeah people need to be more careful .
@@Blue_SeaSmoke i agree with you when it comes to that baby because he could’ve been in danger as I said . But I don’t agree with she had it coming . Nobody deserves to be rapped .
@@Blue_SeaSmoke WOW!! No one deserves to be raped. I don't care..NO is always NO. I think that it's seriously 😳 bad judgement to take your child to meet a stranger off the internet. Bad decisions, don't justify rape though.
You never know anyone, truly, no matter where you meet them. Rape has been around long before the internet.
I hate how the crowds laughing and how Steve handled this entire situation . As an adult you’re allowed to date she made a mistake but she’s crying out for help and instead she’s being judged.. this is why most victims don’t like coming forward and hold it in for so long smh
You DAMN RIGHT!!! Exactly what was said and how Steve was talking to her, is 100% why actual victims NEVER speak up. Victim shaming, and blaming... smh Made me sick to my stomach.
Im glad someone said this. She messed up but they continuously just make fun of her and she was assaulted. She made a huge mistake but even if she was scared she would have to wait for someone to get there, which could take a while. It’s not a good thing but a lot of women just play along until they can get to a safe place. If she had a car I feel like it would have been different
Stupid decisions create stupid outcomes…
@@Kojin1104 your opinion wasn’t needed we all know she made a mistake doesn’t mean you laugh at someone’s trauma
@@holliewalther7174 EXACTLY... Also being a young woman, a young mom- there's a tendency to look on the bright side of things, while getting back to feeling like yourself. NO ONE ever says- "oh, this will DEFINITELY lead to me being violated, COOL....."
Too many times the VICTIM is blamed... Why did you even go with? Why were you there? Nobody asks a rapist WHY they took the person there...WHY THEY DID WHAT THEY DID...
It made me feel sick to my stomach when Steve was asking her all those questions... If I'm on a nude beach, does that give Everyone or Anyone the right to force me down? NO. Just like going to a party, is NOT Consent...
That's how rape victims must feel in court. The way Steve was questioning her really pissed me off. Some people are just bad judges of character, which she was. And being trustworthy of someone doesn't make you guilty Steve.
He has to get both sides of the story she put that baby in danger
@@RoomShakerr agreed. She deserved to get shit for putting her baby's life at risk. He could have been a killer
@@RoomShakerr Get a life!
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 "don't put yourself in that position again" the victim blaming is sooo horrible. He could have said "I hope you get some form of therapy to help you heal" or "I hope you can move on with your family" or something that didn't just basically blame her. Ugh.
I was assaulted by a stranger I met online when I was 17.
I was afraid for my life but I didn't react because I thought that might put me in a more dangerous situation
It's really disheartening to see Steve badgering her the way he is
I understand wanting to get both sides of the story but making us feel stupid for being put in a situation where we feel endangered is not okay.
As women we are literally told to be passive and be nice
I don't know what you're situation was like but the girl in this story basically walked into a serial killer's hideout and she was texting the whole time she could have gotten help
@@isaaclopez8472 You don't know what it's like for somebody if you're not in their shoes.
I'm not saying she exercised the best judgment
I'm not saying I exercise the best judgment.
But I can tell you this
Everything that led to me being abducted and assaulted happened because of the environment I was raised in
And it's entirely possible the same thing happened to her
I know it may not seem like it
Especially from an outside perspective
But remember all of our experiences are unique and they shape us
They help us make decisions
And unfortunately some of us are not raised to make good decisions and end up learning the hard way
@@kykycupcake1 EXACTLY... Hearing Steve made me SICK to my stomach....
When we're young, we can't see around corners and have life knowledge and experience... It doesn't make you at fault....for something a Predator does. It was never your fault, love, Never.
@@crimsonmckenzie98 exactly! The fact that we constantly try to find ways to pin responsibility on victims in general is wrong
And it took me almost 10 YEARS in therapy to finally stop blaming myself
And honestly I still struggle
So I thank you for your kindness 🙏❤️
@@kykycupcake1 It Never goes away... Just know it was NOT your damn fault for the actions of Predators.
Therapy helps, but girlie- just know you are blameless. Rock this world! You have experience and time, make the damn most of it!!!! Sending you loads of love, hugs, health, and peace ❤️🌟🤗
Dang I actually didnt believe her at first. Now he's exposed
Nooooo. 😂😂 it was a spoiler. And No I didn't click on the comment section it was, I guess, the highlighted comment under the video. Ugh lol
Sad to say but same though
I still don't believe her I wonder if they drug test all the people they give the lie detector to she seems like she will neglect her child more
Ya ll listen lie detectors are not submissible in a court of law for they're faulty I still believe him then she is a liar
@@shaneaccented9682 wish they wouldn’t show the top comment
At her age I made similar mistakes & put myself in dangerous situations. Fortunately I wasn’t raped, but my point is, she’s young and yes she made dumb decisions, but rape is rape & it’s disgusting.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
She took her baby to a strangers home,she had a boyfriend.
At 18 I would put myself in some dangerous situations too so I get it. I would have NEVER brought a baby into it though
@@eh-i1841no it was the baby’s father
Me too, that's why people used to have to have to go meet someone's family especially dad, uncle, or man in their family before they went out. You meet someone's family especially father first I feel that you're unlikely to try something like that on them. Also, don't go straight to someone's house on the first date.
A lot of her decisions put her child in terrible danger and could’ve led to something else. I hope she heals and he’s punished.
they set him up to fail...look at the questions...of course she didnt verbally consent to sex...nobody rarely ever does...my girl doesnt verbally ask me to fuk her...she gives hints and sets the mood...i dont like this one...he got set up
Some people are super passive. I believe her. I hope she learned her lesson and she does not need to be left unattended with her child.
What? Your child needs to be taken from you! WHO ARE YOU TO SAY A MOTHER SHOULDN'T HAVE HER BABY UNATTENDED? PIGGISH WOMAN U ARE!
The woman has been through enough! Leave her alone!
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@Karen Morasco I thought that too. He let her abuser scream in her face and that wasn't cool at all.
Steve is pissing me off! How dare u victim shame and blame!!!!
Steve owes that girl a major apology. He showed the world why victims don't come forward! Shame on you, Steve. You always say it's not just for TV. I don't believe you anymore.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
Exactly! She made horrible decisions but that doesn't mean she deserved to get raped. He is absolutely disgusting. He only wants to believe someone when HE wants to.
@@Lizzymorasco4382 people in the background like the audience was laughing at her smh
No he doesn't
@@material-cheshirekhatter2413he absolutely does. All he did was degrade this victim. If he’s preaching that people should be brave, then he should be compassionate. This was disgusting of him and honestly disgusting that you can’t clearly see that.
This right here is EXACTLY why people don't come forward, people don't want to be judged and laughed at and mocked.
I feel super old asking this (I'm not even 40 yet), but why are we still talking to strangers online? Why are we taking our babies into horrible situations like this? She absolutely did not deserve what happened to her, but holy shit ladies, MAKE SMARTER CHOICES.
Probably because the way of the world is now virtual…. Literally everything is done online nowadays
I met my boyfriend online, on a dating app, during the pandemic. She however put herself and her baby in danger, absolutely! The baby being the main concern because you definitely don’t meet a person for the first time with your child. Meeting people online can be dangerous, just as dangerous as meeting someone in the store. But you don’t tell them where you live, you don’t bring your child with you, you don’t go to their house and you don’t get in their car. She’s very young and she is lacking that sort of judgment because she’s still a kid. She’s gotta keep that guard up to protect herself, no matter how “nice” they seem. I didn’t tell my boyfriend where I lived for a good two months. Besides the fact that I lived with my family, I don’t trust anyone I just met to know where I live.
Because it's often the only feasible way to meet someone. It doesn't mean you have to give them your address or get in their car
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
We?
Wow this one had me i thought he was really gonna pass all jokes aside but once she passed he knew what time it was! Hope gets JUSTICE!!!!
@@dverarde84
This weirdos under every comment don't pay him any mind👆🏾
@@dverarde84 You must be the guy in this episode.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
So much victim blaming in this episode. Poor girl. She made a mistake.
“You let him take your phone?” I don’t think men can imagine the fear women have for men. Many are unpredictable, and if they’re stronger than you and you deem them threatening, what are you supposed to do? It’s like walking on eggshells. I hope she gets help and he gets locked up.
I think men can under-estimate how much stronger they are, and/or how much weaker women can (with it being plausible) percieve themselves to be than men.
I'm Actually Upset With The Way Steve Handled Her Because If She's A Victim.. Her Story Is Her Story. Regardless Of If We Believed Her From The Beginning Or Not... Making A Woman Feel Like HER Actions Lead To HIS DECISION TO RAPE HER.. Is Freaking Crazy.
Heavy on this‼️‼️‼️
I feel the same way none of the questions he was harping on gives him the right to violate her!
It’s no one’s fault besides the rapists, but this girl absolutely made a chain of idiotic decisions that lead up to what happened to her. She’s an idiot but I’m glad the dude got exposed.
He was a cop, so his form of asking questions is more like an interrogation. Questioning to the point. To get the answers we all want.
It may seem harsh, but necessary
You have to be honest the story sound extremely unbelievable from start to finish. There was one too many red flags that you would think is common sense and she disregarded every single one of them. She was scared but texting her boyfriend the entire time in a trailer park in the middle of no where WITH HER BABY. I understand why steve didn’t believe her especially if her boyfriend said she always lies and has cheated and meet the guy on a dating site while in a relationship. He probably thought she didn’t want her boyfriend to think she cheated like some girls on the show have done
The amount of victim blaming steve did here pisses me off. As a victim of SA, this is WHY we dont come forward about it. Because people love to blame and judge.
Just because she put herself and her child in an extremely dangerous position that directly resulted in something horrific does not mean she deserved it or asked for it. Some people just don't know any better and that's why these things happen.
She took steps that got herself in that extremely dangerous situation. Let's not act like she made logical moves here.
I saw through his pathetic crocodile tears. He was afraid he was about to get caught. If a person says no, and intercourse continues, that’s rape. It could be a few minutes into intercourse and if she says no, it stops. If it doesn’t, it’s rape. Not a hard concept. I wish she would’ve made better decisions and she shouldn’t have taken her child. I’m sorry she had to learn that the hard way. I hope she seeks justice.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382Sorry, but her story didn’t add up. It’s unfortunate, nobody ever should be raped. But she still made a bad decision by bringing HER CHILD on a date with a man she doesn’t know. Steve, as a father, was probably thinking about how stupid that is. Because it is stupid. He NEVER blamed her for being raped. He was harsher because she was a very irresponsible mother.
Same! When he said “I promised her I wouldn’t hurt her”, I knew then.
She is lucky that she is alive. I don't know wtf she was thinking. I've never seen so many red flags.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
@@Lizzymorasco4382shut up
I have to admit I was actually kinda shocked that he was gonna fail so miserably no wonder he looked so nervous and scared I'm glad to see that Harlin was exposed for who he really is hoping and praying that she gets justice and have this guy put in jail where he needs to be but she also needs to start making better choices for herself.
I think Steve questioned her like that because she brought her son along I think we woulda been more understanding if she hadn’t done that but I think that really made Steve feel some type of way because she’s never even met the man before but is gonna bring her son along
No seriously not with the baby
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
She seemed out of it honestly that’s sad she doesn’t have the common sense
She is clearly very young and naive, she thought her and the baby were going on a little outing. I remember my Mom told me a story of how she brought me everywhere with her after she divorced my Dad. Some Women keep their babies with them as much as possible. I'm giving this young lady some grace. I see Steve as talking to her like he would fuss at his own kids...so I am giving him some grace as well...
@@ammcd2012I’m sure she knows going to a strangers house especially with a baby is dangerous like she wasn’t born yesterday
I wish so bad that I could have Steve’s help with my case… I live in Canada and even though he admitted through text what he did and that “it killed” him “that he did that” to me…. I have to let the judicial system take its course. Steve is amazing and I gain strength through each and every story of SA that I watch of his. A jury of his peers will determine the case in February…. Please send me prayers and positive feelings because the anxiety/panic attacks still have a hold of me…. I just want peace and accountability.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
God bless you. I never got justice. I couldn't even tell mu family as it was a family member..I'm sending you strength, healing and prayers. Xxx 💜😇🙏😇💜
Love me some Steve Wilkos!! Hopefully I’ll be in the audience one day!!
Edit: Was not expecting this ending!! Be careful who your talking to online people!! And absolutely do not bring your children with you when meeting someone for the first time!! Find someone you 100% trust to watch your baby.
He gives out free tickets you should go ! Lol fr
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 to be fair, I really thought she was lying at first just like Steve did I assume. And she brought her baby!! So he was already irritated that a mother would be that stupid. Crazy episode.
The victim blaming and the laughing at her is disgusting. I knew he was lying out of his ass
Steve doesn’t owe her an apology, he was giving her a much needed reality check. Hopefully she knows now to never do anything that stupid involving herself or her kid again! Glad the creep was exposed as a rapist!
I am so disgusted by all these people who bring their children around people they don't know, bring their kids from the beginning to meet every person they're dating.. that's sacred them babies are precious.. NO ONE SHOULD BE NEAR YOUR CHILDREN UNTIL THEY HAVE PROVEN THEMSELVES WORTHY OVER A LONG PERIOD OF TIME! it's disgusting and abusive and look at all of what could've happened to that child. This generation is so fkd up, no condoms and bring your baby around anybody 🤮
Damn. He had me fooled BIG TIME! I was upset when Steve started reading her results first. That's always a giveaway.
I’m shocked he lied, I thought it was definitely going to go the other way. And shame on her for bringing your infant on dates with STRANGERS! 🤦🏻♀️ SMH bad choices win bad prizes 🏆
She should have never left with him! He's so wrong an nasty for what he did but she's wrong for leaving with him then she had her baby what if he did something to her baby. My son is 4 and knows stranger danger smh.
still doesn't justify him raping her
She’s a P.O.S. for endangering her child for dick. The baby daddy should take the boy away from her she’s not fit to be a parent
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
What Steve seems to be forgetting is that the girls that say no end up on forensic files or are still missing
Steve has a problem with victim blaming that makes some of these shows really difficult to watch
The girl made some stupid decisions. However, I feel like Steve’s interrogation was unnecessary. She was wrong for meeting up with him and bringing her baby. But Steve is not a woman, I don’t think he understands how intimidating and scary it could be, being alone with a man. “Why did you let him take your phone?” Like really. I just think it was a bit insensitive and it’s evident he never believed her and was shocked at the results.
Fr like especially because it’s his house he knows his way around it more than she does
Why would she go on a date while she's got a boyfriend!
This threw me off as well you were on the phone with your boyfriend in a date with someone else? I’m so lost but she passed and he failed 😪
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she has learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
@@Lizzymorasco4382 Hello Youngling 👋 I think that you have a lovely picture.
I am so sorry this happened to her. Rape is inexcusable and entirely the fault of the rapist. Dating online is fine for some. Period. That being said poor decision making is inexcusable and dangerous. Even at 18.
💯 I feel sorry for what happened to her. And rape is always the rapist fault. But the series of events and decisions that put her and her child in danger was her fault no matter the age.
@@tricktracy2254 she is still a teenager yall blame everything on victims, and wonder why we don't come out. "Why you didn't tell anyone " because of this shit
@lia-dc9sx just in case you haven't noticed teenagers go to prison. So some amount of accountability is given to teenagers. It's not victim blaming. The other victim the child is being ignored
@@lia-dc9sxu have to admit she did make very stupid decisions that easily could’ve been avoided like not bringing your kid or go into a strangers house
I mostly believed her. With fight or flight everyone reacts differently. I can understand her anxiety making her feel compelled to go inside. Her mistake was giving her address instead of meeting in a public place and taking her kid with her.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382
You literally comment this same word for word in other comments. Chill out, we get it.
this irritates tf out of me. was she in the wrong for putting her baby in that situation? yes. but to laugh and ridicule her when, from the beginning, this dude bro talks about how she's out to try ruining his life. like this guy ruined her life by taking advantage of her. i'm just disgusted by this audience and steve too. especially since there are other situations of guests lying about being raped and being treated with way more respect than shawna.
u can’t always trust people from the internet at first this story sounded weird i’m glad she’s getting heard he deserves time i hope she ok
Has sa victim this so hard watch. Before she came out he judge her, second she came out the victim blaming and ableism
Why would she hang out or even be looking for another guy if she has a man. He can't protect you from evilness if you're sneaking around
I was at a party at 14yrs old and when i was leading the restroom someone body slammed me. My head hit the wall. I blacked out. Woke up in another room, undressed with semen everywhere. I didn't know what to do. I never told anyone. Thank goodness I never had a period yet, so not worried there. I went to plan parenthood without my mom knowing. I was scared of diseases. Im so glad Steve tries to educate while telling these peoples story. I wish i could go back in time. I always think of the situation and wonder how many more girls were hurt.
I’m so sorry this happened to you, but just to spread some knowledge, you can still have a pregnancy without your period. You should research young cases of pregnancy, it’s girls as young as 6 who had to go with having a child because they were to young to have an abortion. I hope lifes treating you well ❤.
Oh I’m so sorry 😪 I hope you get justice
oh wow I'm sorry you went through that. it's absolutely heartbreaking. I hope you're doing well and healing now, sending love to you ❤️
The girl looks like she's one of the twin babies from the Rugrats 😂
I’m actually shocked at the results on this one
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 talk about copy and paste I've seen you comment this exact same thing under countless comments even here where your comment makes no sense I didnt believe a word she said too
@@isaaclopez8472 It's a bot.
@@isaaclopez8472 typical Karen eh
This is why people who have gone through this shit don’t come forward. No one believes us, we become a laughing stock for people’s entertainment. And Steve seems to do this with so many victims… shame
Only a cop who has a show glamorizing this stuff would continuously victim blame a teenage mom. Disgusting
Everyone is against Steve, but Steve is right to question her. She was dumb for not meeting at a more public place. She was dumb for getting in a stranger's car. She was dumb to bring her son. She was dumb to give a stranger her address. She was dumb for STILL walking into his place after he lied about going to dinner. She was dumb to still STAY in the dude's trailer after he took her phone. As a woman myself, we need to start holding ourselves to a high standard of reading red flags. If anyone does online dating, meet up at a public place like a restaurant or bar, tell someone where you're going and who you will be with. Do not give out personal information until there has been an established connection to feel safe in doing so. Don't leave your drinks alone and stay sober. Take your own ride to and from the date spot. I also advise that if the date does go wrong, I would alert staff to let them know you feel unsafe. I have done this action one time when a date went bad and I asked bar staff to help me to my car, and they sent security to walk me to my car. We keep screaming rape culture and warning signs, but yet when someone mentions why some women are putting themselves in dangerous situations, its seen as a bad thing. No, she did NOT deserve what happened to her, no one does, rape is evil, disgusting and criminal but let's not sit here and act like she made logical moves either.
You missed one thing, the right to bare arms!
@@catalinaladdshit, that is the main thing, in all honesty! 😄
@@IntrovertedOreo lol yes!
Damn!!!! Definitely a Lifetime serial killer movie!!!
Sickening that Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢
This is why I, and some people, are apprehensive about getting into relationships and dating. This is why we do our 🤬 research and become police officers ourselves before we meet someone: situations like this. Be careful out there! I can’t say this enough!
I feel horrible for this girl. As a woman, being alone with a man is terrifying. He’s stronger than her, he has brought her out somewhere remote. The thoughts that would run through my mind would be “If I demand that he takes me home, is he going to get mad? Is he going to hurt me? Maybe I can just get through the movie and he won’t hurt me.” This is a typical fawn fear response. This is more present in females then males and it’s a real issue. So it just pisses me off when Steve makes her feel stupid for going along with him despite being scared. She feared making him angry.
I was LITERALLY thinking just by looking at the guy: “ooooooh yep…..he is going to FAIL”….and he failed MISERABLY! He has what’s coming to him. Never would I put myself nor my young baby in that position in the first place.
Idc what anyone says you don’t bring a baby on a date with a stranger. That being said he should be ashamed of what he did to her sick pos
Steve doesn't owe her an apology, she was stupid for bring her 11 month old BABY to a stranger with the intention to cheat on her boyfriend, and she should've told her boyfriend or someone where she was.
Being stupid or making a stupid choice is no an execuse to be raped. Steve was verbally making fun of her not just about her parenting but he was being verbally abusive toward her himself. There's a right way to handle situations like this and almost everything Steve said or did here was wrong.
You're way off
na the way steve kinda handled the situation is fusturating. she is trying to tell her story but instead, steve is asking questions like hes making fun of her/not believing her at all ifykwim, like her story is full of shit. the way he handled the situation could have been better. i believe thats why victims dont come foward and thats why they rather just suck everything in than be judged like how she was towards the crowd and Steve.
She should have her kid taken away cause who meets a rando on the internet and goes off to some trailer in the middle of nowhere w/her baby. He could’ve murdered them both. What a moron. If you can’t use ur brain, then u shouldn’t be allowed to parent that baby. Parenting is a privilege, not an absolute right.
What kind of idiot takes their child with them on a date with a perfect stranger? If you want to date, fine. Just leave your kids out of it.
So she's going on some date with a stranger when she has a boyfriend? And bringing her baby along to said date with a person she never met before?
And then she's texting her boyfriend for a decent amount of time while stuck with this guy?
Yeah.. he's a messed up person and deserves to go to jail for not backing off when she said no.. but it also sounds like to me that she led this guy on and changed her mind at the end. The intention to cheat on her boyfriend.. because why else would she be on a date with someone else? It doesn't add up.
Of course the moment she changed her mind he should've backed off but I'm sorry.. she's an idiot and put herself into this situation. So many opportunities to do SOMETHING. She was texting someone for pete's sake.. it was a clear opportunity to ask for help. Not to mention endangering herself AND HER BABY!
So yeah.. I'm victim blaming. Sorry. But she had a part in this. The guy who raped her is definitely by far in the wrong and deserves to rot.. but I can't sympathize with this woman at all.
I feel for her child and the boyfriend who's staying with a cheater.
I don't really think that in this case it is victim blaming there were so many red flags she ignored
Yeah, she is dumb as rock. Can't say she deserved it, but her boyfriend should leave her anyways. If you are in relationship you shouldn't meet strangers online for dates. Like wth?
He truly believed his own lies, and that the test would believe it too.
When I first watched this Episode I thought she was lying but he didn’t have the Right to rape her My heart ♥️ goes out to her
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Haven't seen the result yet but who the hell takes a kid on a date😱
Stop letting people you don’t know be around your kids and stop letting people know pick you up from your address!!!!! Also, don’t get into strangers cars. This girl is so problematic.
Sick pig Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
This is the first Steve Wilkos episode where I was AGAINST Steve himself. Whether or not she was exaggerating or outright lying about being raped....the way Steve handled it was MESSED UP! He was mocking her, blaming her, making fun of her, basically calling her stupid, and insinuating that she was lying about this whole thing. As a former police officer, he should have had extensive training on taking reports from victims and not allowing his own personal beliefs/feelings weigh in on how he goes about investigating the report..ESPECIALLY for rape. This is exactly why so many rapes go unreported and un-investigated because victims fear they won't be believed - or they feel that the cops will blame THEM (like Steve did). I don't know, I really hope Steve looks back at this episode and gets himself more training on how to handle situations like these. This one was NOT COOL, Steve......not cool.
I’m actually shocked at the results 😮!!!
Me too
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382 stop saying that already! All he did was getting to the point of it. He didn't victim shame her! He may have say it in a harsh way but it was needed. But the baby was in danger that's what everyone is very upset at her for
Sounds like victim blaming
She took her son on a date?
She thought they were grabbing dinner. Did you actually watch the show? No.
Right
@@eleanoraquitaine2966
Nobody deserves to be raped but as far as taking a child out on a date NEGATIVE. I wouldn't be looking to go on a date or trying to have another man this soon in the first place, the baby's only 11 months old let's just keep it real.
@@BOSSLADY-cu8vs OMG
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
The guy when he came out the little rapist looked so guilty his hands sweating his whole body language made my radars go off.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
@@Lizzymorasco4382damn are you the pig in the video?
nah why is steve talking like this to the victim? this is NOT ok. that poor woman needed his help not another person treating her like lying trash and victim blaming her. this really changed my entire perspective of steve, disgusted.
Always meet in public if you dating someone online . Avoid situations like this both male and female.
I'm not small sizing this man's behavior, but she has to take accountability.. you went on a date with a stranger and took your child and you went back to his place after giving a stranger your address... She got to take on accountability for these actions
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Look at her face, she doesn't look all there, she's hardly an adult (19) she thought she was going to dinner, I'm sick of the victim blaming
@@wticherybut she’s old enough to know to not go in a strangers home especially with her kid
common sense does not have an age race or creed.@@brennathecatlover4360
if people were honest people wouldn't need to be paranoid, BRENNA@@brennathecatlover4360
I don’t understand why the audience is laughing or why Steve is making jokes. Even if you didn’t believe her, the fact he’s making jokes before he even had the results is disgusting.
I wouldn't be critical of an 18 yr old child who clearly wasn't parented well but I hope she learns her lessons from this.
I've never posted a comment on TH-cam. And I'm 28 and watch it everyday. And I love watching Steve. But watching this video it honestly bothers me. A victim should feel safe and comfortable talking to you. Not being judged and laughed at. I'm a victim myself from 7years ago. And this right here this judgment, is why I don't tell anyone. And why others don't come forward either, what's the point if were gonna get laughed at and told it's a lie? So we bottle it in, until we can't anymore either from a trigger or bc we felt safe telling someone..
She's full of excuses
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The fucklng girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
Talk about victim blaming…!
I thought she was going to fail. If the child wasn’t there, I would’ve felt terrible for her but the fact that you took your child to meet a complete stranger is unacceptable.
Still should feel bad for her, she still got raped
No one deserves to be s3xy assaulted.
However Steve repeats the stupidity people do to people (I feel) so they get it in their thick ignorant heads. What she did was so ignorant. And being this guy is a creep he could’ve did something to her baby also. She played a dangerous game and better be lucky she got out alive!
Also, just because someone cries doesn’t mean they are innocent. Many psychopaths cry for their OWN “suffering” (the delusion in their heads) that’s the only thing they feel.
Why was her BABY in his house??? WTF?
Are you not watching the fucklng video?
So if she's feeling unsafe especially with a baby at her side, why did she not call 911????????
i didnt believe her at first because the story sounded very sketchy but i’m happy he got exposed. he’s a monster in sheep’s clothing.
This is the first time I've heard the results and have been shocked and I'm still having a hard time believing it. The story they both told I was piecing together and looking for verbal and non verbal cues and I still don't believe it.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Oh you can totally see the guilt on his face. Down to the tears and the shakiness in his voice. Like he’s trying to overcompensate his emotions to make himself seem credible. Or he’s afraid of being made. When Steve read the results he didn’t even try to deny it. He’s blinking away the tears as he reprimanded him. She may just be more passive, but I believed her from the beginning. I mean, she definitely shouldn’t have done several things in this story but she seemed credible.
Richard lie detector: 12:14
Richards DNA test 12:29
Shauna's lie detector test 12:31
Aarons lie detector test 13:16
Wow I wasn't expecting that I thought she was lying about it. I hope she makes better choices from now on about meeting people online but nobody deserves to be violated like that especially in front of their baby
Steve was wrong for this one. He was victim blaming the WHOLE time. Regardless of what actions she took, it's not her fault she was assaulted.
cases like this are why victim blaming is okay sometimes.
I’m actually shocked how she wasn’t lying.
The number of people victim blaming in the comments makes me almost as sick as this story.
Steve, I thought we were past your victim blaming era?
This reminds me of the case where an American woman flew solo to Africa ( first time knew no one) ; met a man at the airport when she landed (never ever spoke to this man before ) agreed to go back to his house to save on accommodations; agreed to shower with him to “save water” (his request) ; and was SHOCKED. She was SHOCKED when he SA’ed her.
As a victim of SA I do not like to victim blame. But we as women need to understand that even if someone’s nice; doesn’t mean they’re a nice person. A sane person would never invite you and you BABY over to hook up just like a sane person would never invite you to shower with them to save water.
The poor girl made a very poor decision but she was treated very badly on this show by someone who should have known better.
Damn I'm early haha. I JUST WATCHED IT AND HE NEEDS TO BE JAILED the baby was next to her too
:(
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢😢😢 wow!!
Belive victims until prooven other wise..
Steve is reason we dont speak out.
Generally speaking, it is very scary meeting people online, going off with them by yourself.. But to bring your child.. wow! He needs to be locked up for life.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!😢
Those two hyenas cackling in the back gotta go. Extra for no reason.
Glad he was exposed but she made every bad decision possible
“If it’s not my baby imma still raise it” where do these women get such loyal men.
wow he had me convinced with those tears…
Always remember, sometimes people cry because they know they got caught, not because they are innocent.
Steve is degrading a raype victim, this is sickening. The girl is obviously not going to be as trusting next time. I think she learned her lesson steve. You are a piece of shyt for interrogation a victim. Asking her if the movie she was watching was good? Sickening!!!!
Whew this was an absolute rollercoaster.
I don’t blame Steve I didn’t believe her either. There’s an awful situation to be in, but it was also a avoidable situation in so many ways.
Him repeating “we both GAVE IN” was sus
Why steve care about stupid choice then her being rape victim
This woman should used better judgement even when a child involved because she could had called the police if she realized that she was going to a trailer instead of dinner that right there was a big red flag.