School is starting again. Anxiety is starting again. Girls who judge other girls, who put them down, they don't understand. Grils should stick up for each other. We should be a group, not divided, into the populars, and the others.
You are right, but Tell me, why everybody say "girls", im boy, but not like others, i mean why i cant fit in. Every day i feel so lonely :-( i would be happy if i have some friends but i dont
Yes thank you I am really skinny and people always say being skinny is better but it's not I hate being skinny I eat more than my whole family and I can't gain any weight in anyways the way I feel about being skinny is not good boys always saying they want a big thick girl they also want a girl with some curve to her in a butt that's one reason why I hate being skinny and then people even talk of make jokes about you being skinny
yeah the other day i weared a dress to school because i wanted to feel good and try something different then everyone thought i was dressing up for my crush which i was not
I personally believe that both ends of the spectrum (of body weight) are bad/not healthy. But the most important thing is that you eat healthy, and that you’re active.
Most guys will pick wives that are pretty to them, we don't expect perfect 10's. Most would prefer a girl who is just friendly and kind to them, willing to hangout and talk.
@80's music lover They’re just examples btw obviously some girls think they need to be rich and successful to every be loved or to succeed in life but what the comment’s trying to say is that there’s more important things than they way you look and the amount of money you possess. Friendship, love, kindness and living life to the fullest are way more important. People should prioritise those things instead.
I’m overweight and I’m actually really confident in myself. In 2019 I went through a little bit of a rough patch but I’m terrific now. They’re just stereotypes and you don’t have to listen to that.
I think the title should be what the society of this time should here Be nice don’t dudge were different and that’s what makes everyone special in there own way like damn bruh Go look in ur mirror first..fr take a good look at urself
Girls we really need to grow up.... And stop thinking about others... Just do whatever u want to do.... Freedom is everyone's self right..... Go girl get ur goal
Whoever Reading this Your skin isn’t a paper don’t cut it Your body isn’t a book don’t judge it Your heart isn’t a door don’t lock it Your life isn’t a movie don’t end it You’re beautiful Be you..Stay Safe
@Craig Davidson no tf, they should never get any toxicity but u play have made it like it is an embarrasment to play some games, so fr just su nd mind ur bussiness
@Craig Davidson This is their EXACT problem. Whats wrong if they like Gacha? People can do what they want and love. If you have a negative opinion about Gacha, fine. But at least don't publicly say it to put people down. Gosh.
"you have to be sexy for the boys" nobody needs to look 'sexy' for anybody else. Be who you enjoy to look like whether that look is sexy or messy or nerdy or weird. You are amazing just the way you are
@@MisterKzzt What i meant is that sometimes good people end up never getting a job and bad people get jobs that pay really well. (it also depends on your perspective on the terms "good" and "bad", since how you perceive it can result in a different view of things)
@@halicusnguyen8864 They still don't have to do that. They could work harder at a lower paying, honest job. It'd be harder, but then you wouldn't be harming other people with said drugs and aiding them in their addictions. Mostly speaking, actions speak louder than words, your actions are a better judge of who a person is rather than most measures. A job and financial status, riches, etc don't determine your worth, you don't have to have a 'good' job to be good. But, if you are a person of good character and heart, your actions wouldn't be stabbing people or kicking puppies, cheating on your spouse, etc. Crazy example, but hopefully makes sense. Doesn't mean you have to be perfect, as none of us are. As a Christian I think everyone has immeasurable inherent worth, every human life is precious and should be fought for, but at the same time, what kind of person you become (good or bad) or your character is largely if not fully dependent on your actions. Do you lie, steal, cheat? What kind of person are you when you think no one is watching? Do you give up your values when it's inconvenient? Either way, the good thing about human life is that we can change, and it's never too late to find and turn to God and repent (aka turn your life around from the bad/sin to good/God). And it's not fully on us, it's asking God to help change us at the core, then incrementally moving in line with what He says is right, true, and good.
Ye true but girls only go through popularity issues they put a stereotype on themselves like men dont get rapped or judge or try to kill themselves...its not fair
@@diedsquid bruh I was army since 2017 .the much I know u wouldn't know abt them idc if u watch or not to much bts go and search on google rm quote idiots toxic ppl u guys just need to spread hate.. For small mistakes.. Omg I m so ashamed to call u even a army toxic people
Honestly, your grades do matter but think that it is easy and it will become easier for you. This video doesn’t mean “Quit school.” It means to break every chain holding you back, everything that keeps you connects to your past, break it, and you will have a great future.
As a music kid that was too relatable. When she kept hitting the bow on her thigh, i felt that. When you never get the part right and you KNOW u'll fail. Yeah. *That feeling*
@@MisterKzzt I Don't Really Know But If The Person Who Wrote The Comment Could Just Explain Why Because Now It Is Kind Of Annoying. Ok, I Need To Stop But I Cant And I Dont Know Why. Why Can I Not Stop? Ok I Have Now Stopp-
You can have yourself, love yourself and live with compassion and you will find so many people who live the same way and will befriend you. Be patient, for now, talk to someone in need, join activities, take risks but most importantly, know that you are worth it and be yourself. :)
p g don't worry about people making u feel better, just be happy, do u want, and dont let anyone bring u down, ignore the bullies, u only live once, why spend ur life worrying?
"But really, you're just alone." I don't think so. There's a difference between alone and lonely. Alone is when you're all by yourself, no one's around and you're surrounded by complete silence, absolutely nothing. Lonely, however, is different. You could be surrounded by hundreds of people each day and yet, still feel empty and lost... like you're not you. You could have everything you've ever asked for and yet still feel lonely, as if a part of you is just gone; disappeared and forever lost.
I use to want to make everyone love me. I mold myself to be the perfect girl designed for each and every person. I can be calm, energetic, shy, bold, anything you like. Just mix and paint your palette. Little did I know, every time I get fitted into my new mold, part of me gets chipped away. I lost myself, who am I? I look into the mirror, point to myself with tears streaming down my face “Who are you?”. It gets better, I sit alone in the busy street. Once taking notes on what type and personality each person likes, I just close my eyes. I am not your doll anymore. The path for me is uncertain, I am still on the way to rediscover me, beautiful me.
"Once taking notes on what type and personality each person likes" U don't have to do what others like, do what u like u...just be yourself believe in yourself and love yourself!!!!
That is one of the reasons that Muslim women put the Hijab. The hijab covers the women body in order to be looked the same way as an human and not something else. We want to be valued /judged not from the outside the but in the inside, in other words our morals . Also, they feel more comfortable in their skin because they used to compare less their self with other because the look its not that important but I know its difficult because our society we value the beauty of women... :( - Be beautiful your own way and be comfortable being you
Iman EL-Rahim thank you for your input! It is such a great thing to hear from cultures other than our own. The hijab indeed offers the opportunity for a woman to be seen for her character rather than her physicality.
Thank you Iman for sharing! We loved learning about the value behind the Hijab. There is definitely something we can learn from the focus on morals and character first, rather than outer appearance.
this is, beautiful, just beautiful, and while yes I am a guy, I feel these same pressures, I'm having trouble finding my worth, but this really boosted my spirits thank you
Bless you and your entire being. I say that sincerely. I say that because it's hard to find guys that openly admit that, and you are a hero for that. So thank *you* for stepping up and helping us girls know we aren't alone, just because we're girls.
*Here's to the girls* To all the girls who don't wake up with perfect hair. Who don't mind eating a burger instead of a salad. Who doesn't wear 50 pounds of makeup. Who'd rather spend the day in sweatpants rather than skinny jeans. Who doesn't get all the guys. Who's not popular but feels like it when with their friends. Who sticks to sneakers instead of heels. Who doesn't get everything they want. To all the girls who doesn't need a guy to tell them that they are beautiful.
Hi..I would like to share something with you. I'm a 9th grader. I'm not lonely. I have loving parents and have really a lot of friends and also a bestfriend whom I can rely on. I started wearing eyeliner from 5th grade. Here, where we live, eyeliner is considered as make-up...I mean there are only a little students who wear lipstick, foundation etc. So as I was saying, I started applying eyeliner to school every single day because I wanted to look more beautiful of course. But then I started watching these kinds of inspirational vedios on TH-cam saying that "you should be just the way your are" etc. So I too felt a desire to be free without any make-up. I hate makeup actually...but I still applied it because I didn't look nice without it. But after watching these types of vedios, I decided to stop wearing eyeliner in 8th grade. I went on like that for a weak. But I started wearing make-up because of the comments of my own friends, teachers etc. But this year finally I decided to stop it. I wanted people to love me for who I am and not for my external features. I stopped wearing it for about 2 weeks now and ofcourse I got many comments from my friends and even teachers saying that "you should really start applying it again", "you look so dull without your eyemakeup" etc. One friend even told me that I was looking like a zombie. But I didn't care. I just stopped wearing makeup. And see where it brought me now. When people saw that they could no more change my decision, they gradually stopped. And I'm happy now. And I suggest everyone to do the same. It's ok if you wear makeup or you don't wear it. But you should not let people put you down. If you have a desire to do anything, go for it. Don't care what people say. You don't have to change yourself for other people. Let them change thier opinions. And all that inspired me to stop caring about what people say are TH-cam vedios like these. Keep it up. Thankyou😊.
You brave little angel. If I consistently wore eyeliner for three years in school, I don't think I'd have the courage to take on the negative comments I got from people if I stopped. I'd just have to keep being late for school, and handing in homeworks late because I need to make sure that my face looks the same as always. And my skin always looks clear, even though it never is. Far from it actually. But I wore eyeliner for about a year in school. People judged me for it. But more people would have judged me if I stopped. So I kept wearing it. Until I found videos like these, and comments like yours. And I thought to myself : "If people don't like me for who I am, their comments aren't worth listening to." and so I stopped wearing eyeliner. But I still haven't gone into school without wearing concealer everyday for about 3-4 years because I'm too ashamed of my skin. When my skin gets better, I will stop wearing makeup altogether unless I want to. Unless I want to try out some new eyeshadow or something that I really like. I'm not really sure why I wrote this, I guess I just saw your comment and related to it. Sorry for rambling. 😊 xx
Sneezing Panda Thankyou so much for your support. And I hope your skin gets better. But you should never be ashamed of your skin. Because God gave it to you and he looks into people's soul, not beauty. I'm actually glad that I have someone to relate to. Nowadays I do wear eyemakeup on special occassions but I don't wear it everyday. By the way, you are not rambling😉😊.
Dear girls Don't let anyone ruin your dreams.Don't let anyone say anything to you to make you feel bad.Some boys just don't understand that how much a little thing can gurt a girl.Boys prefer to call a girl "hottie" "sexy" rather than "beautiful".They judge a girl by her shape..But guess what it is her body so shut up.Like she said 100 years earlier womens couldn't vote..Why?Because no one knows how worth it we are..I have seen in some works they pay a men more than a women and they are in the same posicion..And why do they pay the women less..Because she is a women..Many boys said that womens can't do mens work.But guess what a girl can do it to..They think that womens are only worth about cleaning the house,making the dinner..It is our time to speak..RAISE YOUR VOICE GIRLS.THE WORLD WANTS TO HEAR IT❤
Thank you we are not just wipes at home we can do anything a man can do I know I sure can and we are not just for sex or for your pleasure to look at once in my life but to hear guy compliment looking saying you look beautiful and not just because I'm wearing makeup but we can't do anything I can do and do it better
@@nadezhdanedeva9953 hey. He doesn't hate you. He lives you so much, he created you! Your'e alive today because he has created a beautiful purpose for you life. Take it from someone who understands how you feel. God really loves you. Please give your life to him, so you can be free.
@@nadezhdanedeva9953 maybe he separated you because he heard what they said about you when you stepped out of the room, what if he separated you because he saw how they treated you, he loves you more than anything, he loves everyone, even those who don't believe in him, heck even the devil himself, all things happen for a reason whether it hurt you or not, something's end for the better or for the worse, but we shouldn't blame it on anyone not even ourselves, cause we don't know what a person will like or dislike from us. God bless you.
@@addisonphillips4913 I'm an atheist. Ok, so God created us. Fun. You realize that, if he loved us, he wouldn't let us carve into our own skins the words other people call us? I've had "FREAK" carved into my arm for months, I just go over and over it, I can't stop. Shouldn't he stop me? Also I'm bisexual. My first kiss was a girl. My only kiss was a girl, actually. So technically I'm going to go to hell, right? God's gonna punish me because of the way he made me? It makes sense, doesn't it! "God loves you... Unless you're gay. Or depressed. Or you don't believe in him." Right. Makes sense.
I keep hearing voices and i wonder if they're talking about me, and it just tears my heart apart it irritates me and it stops me of being who i want to be. And that doesn't only happen to me it happens to every single person in this world, that's how the world is different. We hide our true identity. We try be perfect for everybody but sometimes we can succeeded. Once i wanna stand in front of the whole world and just let everybody listen that we are not perfect. Most of the 50% of the world are against bullying, or the other 50% are just too shy to come up to a person and say 'you are strong.' or just stand up for them for once. Trust me, you don't wanna be the person facing all the fears. You don't wanna be the person who is seeing someone getting bullied, but as you look around everyone tries to avoid it and apparently it's not their 'business' Just look around and you'll recognize and understand what the word is really is. Like if you agree.
Anytime you hear a bad thought, imagine you eating your favorite food/ favorite place and you there, feeling the pleasure of being alive and having happiness.
Hi Chizuru! Thank you for watching, we wish the magic mirror was a real thing too! How lovely would that be?! I hope we can continue to encourage you more and connect over at our instagram @girlabove
Finally, something that says the truth. Because you are not accepted by people ,doesn't mean you're not accepted by GOD. THE creation cannot be higher than the creator. You are beautifully and wonderfully made ,says the BIBLE. stop bugging yourself, because only you ,will be there for you. So don't let people drain you,before you finally use YOU for something great.
Craig Davidson can you tell me all the issues girls go through and the issues boys go through? I would like to know your viewpoint from this. I would also like to know how you think girls suffer more than boys or vice versa
@@sunisii Do not go there!!! women have suffered so much and I don’t want to hear “what about men” shut up I get that you guys have gone through things but please stop!! this is a video about women!!
For once, I came down here expecting sexist comments about women, but there were none, yasss people let’s keep it that way. Ps this was beautiful and right in every way possible
Well I am tomboy girl... I hate makeup and cute clothes or dresses or nail polishes and fashion.. I don't care about it.. And everyone in my school says I am so beautiful, even bullies... You don't have to be someone for someone you have to be someone for yourself💜💜I Purple you...
I don't know who needs to hear this but you are ENOUGH and you deserve MOORE so LOVE yourself and put yourself first DON'T be afraid to be alone you gonna be OK 👑❤😘
I always look at the mirror and think I'm ugly ,I'm fat,I'm not good enough, and after this video I just realised your not alone and this video is so inspiring that all girls should watch because your not alone in life.
I know right I know how you feel about it I'm ugly to I'm fat too I'm not good enough nether whether or not I am trying I'm going to lose the weight and going to eat right
"You are worthless if you don't get good grades" is what I hear everyday. I could totally relate to this video, I am insecure everytime I go to school. Thank you so much for uploading this awesome video, I cried in the end. ❤️
I just wish I had someone to talk to. My family deals with a lot of problems and they think that I'm not going through anything because I never talk about it. I just don't feel comfortable talking to my family about this sort of stuff. Sometimes I can't hold it in anymore and just start crying. I told myself to NEVER get any social media because I know what it can do to people and I don't want to go through that, because I wouldn't be able to take it. My family doesn't know how sensitive I am, my friend says to me "it's not like words can hurt you" but he's wrong..I can start crying if someone just says a cuss word me. I also told myself to never say a cuss word because my sister gave me an inspiring speech about how cuss words don't make you cool. I really look up to her. I've thought about talking to her about stuff but I'm just too scared to. I don't know why.. Sometimes I talk to my friend about stuff but not like my problems. I know I shouldn't just be thinking about myself and I'm not trying to but I just really wish j could talk to someone, I think if I had someone to talk to then I would feel better. I keep everything to myself, and it's not healthy. I lost all three of my friends to corona, and I miss them but I miss only one of my friends the most. She was a true friend, she always stuck by me and didn't care about what other people thought about her and she didn't care about a popularity. She was one of the people that inspired me to not care about that stuff too. I miss her a lot.. I still have this one friend though, we didn't hang out at school though. I met him when our teacher put me and him next to eachother in one of our classes. We did talk then but as soon as the teacher moved us around again, we didn't talk at school, we only talked online. I don't feel comfortable enough telling him personal things about myself, and I wish I did but even if I did, he wouldn't know how to talk to me about it because he seems like the type that doesn't know the words to comfort someone. Yeah, so it just feels like I don't have any friends now. It feels like I'm all alone. But even so, I keep going, keeping positive thoughts in my head. Everyone at school used to call me nice and stuff because I was nice to everyone, but I was never myself at school. I can only be myself around my friends and it feels so good to be myself. And it feels so good typing all of this out now. I just hope I don't grow up to be a horrible person. I try everyday to not be the judging type. I don't care about looks, popularity, I don't care about any of that. All I want is to have true friends that can truly talk to me and trust me enough to be themselves around me. I don't want to end up around mean people, I want to end up with people that trust me with all their heart because that would make me so happy to know that. I've read some of the comments and honestly, I agree with a lot of them. I just wish their wasn't any judgmental people in this world. I just wish people would accept others for who they are in the inside and out. But that's not how it works, people have to judge others to be "popular" and they have to look pretty. But I just wish people would know that you don't have to be popular to fit in... I didn't realise how long I made this but I'm glad I got it all out, it feels so good to talk about it. Especially to people you don't know.. There is a high chance that no one is going to see this but I just had to let it all out. If anyone sees this, God bless you and I hope you live the happiest life. You only get one chance to live, so live life to the fullest.
Don't lose hope. They are always some people who care about who you truly are. I don't even know you, and I do care. You are not just "nice", you are good person. It's obvious to me. You deserve to be loved. It's perfectly normal to feel lonely right now. It's perfectly okay to cry. It doesn't mean it's over. Feel free to open up. I'm sure your secrets are made of gold... 'cause you are a sensitive soul, and all you want is being your true self. That's a truly precious thing. This confession prooves that you have a beautiful light inside, and well feel better, it"s going to shine bright, no matter your looks or you're popularity (because they're not YOU). I'd like to see it. I'd like to know you, and I give you my warmest hug
I am just like the girl with piano Everyone tells me to be perfect It makes me feel like I'm not perfect yet It makes me stressed To be good at everything
I am the same I think so badly about myself and my family and friends get mad so that's how I know they love me for me but I think badly about myself no matter what
So, so many year's of teaching. But yet no one taught us how to love ourselves. Edit 1: dear girls: we are more powerful than we believe we need to change the way we see ourselves we are unique! Just be you because that's who u r going to be!!! We're used to being judged so we begin to judge ourselves it doesn't matter what other people think. The only thing that matters is your opinion about yourself. Be comfortable with your body! Don't waste most of your life pretending to be someone your not! Show you're true self! 💕
I cried so hard watching this. I used to have a lot of close friends and be happy..... but there was a problem I "watched anime and was fat" none like me and all judged me. So I stopped watching anime. I sold and got rid of everything that had to do with it. I then began to cry and step in the scale. Every free second I got I was on that scale. All for him. This dick popular boy who thought he was better than everyone else. I loved him though, what girl wouldn't.. he was hot and funny, but in the inside he was just shallow and mean. He made fun of me tonight and I am crying my eyes out. I JUST WANT TO BE ACCEPTED 😭😭😭😭😭😭
i watch anime and I'm fat, keep watching anime ,stop stepping on the scale , a number doesn't define you and you know what!? screw that guy you know he's mean, don't like him because he's popular and everyone else likes him too. what you need to do is get the right friends do whatever you enjoy and ignore that scale!!!!!
My Petty Ass Tea Bags Bitch I'm sorry for u but why do some people always make fun of Chinese Asian Koreans and other cultures/ places that's not theirs just because that culture has their own way they are stupid and u should just be yourself and not care. I have fast metabolism and that means I'm really skinny and I watch Korean dramas and 90s show I listen to old music because I don't like today's music and I'm really weird sometimes my friends judge me but guess what I don't care I love myself if I have a crush on someone and they don't feel the same way I tell myself I deserve better. I don't know anyone who have the same things in common (for what I like) so this year in 7th grade I talk to my friends but I'm trying to focus more on my studies/ school. Just be yourself and love for who u are ❤🌸💐 you are beautiful and so is everyone else who doubts themselves they just don't see it because ppl tell them things that aren't true. People that judge others are just jealous that you are better than them and when they judge people they should know that not everyone is the same (if that makes sense)
Awww! You are way better than all of this! you don't deserve all of this! there will one day be a man that will truly love and care about you. Be yourself and never give up on your dreams, don't care what others say or think about you, you are beautiful just the way you are, no one can take that away from you.
Om gosh, this is actually a TRUE video that describes women. Finally! Just becuase the number on the scale is high doesnt mean u wont find a partner, just becuase ur boyfriend left u doesnt mean u arent good enough, and just becuase u arent super popular doesnt mean ur future isnt bright - weight, appearance, "popularity/social status", "relationship status" - none of those define who u are. U are a women, u are strong, u are worth it.
SPEAK YOURSELF, NO MATTER WHERE YOURE FROM, YOUR GENDER IDENTITY, YOUR SKIN COLOR, JUST SPEAK YOURSELF. SPREAD POSITIVITY, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE MYSELF AND THIS WILL HELP YOU TO SHOW THE REAL YOURSELF...BTS AND ARMYS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE WORKING ON THAT...IM PROUD BECAUSE I AM NOT ALONE AT THIS LONG...I CAN SAY THAT I. HAVE MY FAMILY. I CAN PURPLE YOU...LIKE PURPLE IS THE LAST COLOR OF THE RAINBOW I WILL LOVE AND STAY BESIDE WITH YOU FOR EVER... WHO EVER READING THIS REMEMBER, I PURPLE YOU! YOURE NOT ALONE, LET THE WORLD KNOW WHO YOU ARE....BECAUSE NO ONE IS BORN UGLY WE'VE BORN IN A JUDGEMENTAL SOCIETY AND I WANNA SAY , YOURE BORN TO BE REAL NOT TO BE PERFECT -FROM BTS & ARMY
Everyone needs to hear that we are never perfect and we all are going to have popularity and insecurity issues. It’s life. No madder your gender, color, sexuality, body type, career thoughts, or anything in the end we just need to remember we live once and this is something I like to say; Life is a game and it’s beatable by everyone even if you need to become an outcast to do so. For everyone out there go beat life’s butt and conquer your world no matter what anyone says. There is people who will support you and love you for who you are and you may have to dig deep. Never give up on finding them, life, and your dreams. Love everyone out there. Keep smiling and remember you can beat this world. ❤️
Even my own mother does that.. but she's judging others yet.. even my childhood friend.. she always laughs and say how ugly she is... but the truth is that she's even prettier than I can ever be, so... if she's ugly for you.. WHO AM I FOR YOU, MOTHER??"
These videos make me feel empowered, well it lasts for a day or two at the most. I remember when I was in 7th grade a girl in my class said "my face looks like a bottle." Also regularly my so called friends are reminding me that I'm fat and heavy. My brother does the same. I said nothing to them, just smiled and I felt I was strong. But I cried when they weren't there. I've realized one thing though, no matter what anyone else calls you as, your true worth is how you define yourself.
*This message is telling us that we don't have to be perfect we don't have to be what other people wants ignore people that are judging they can't control us.... Just be You*
There should be a national meeting for young teenage females or females in general struggling with self worth. I think it’d give us an insight on other people’s lives and how they differ from thinking that they are too skinny and will never be loved vs. thinking that you are too fat and will never be pretty and loved. Being able to hear the different stories and comfort one another without a male picking and choosing will help us build our confidence back. We need this. This needs to be a real thing and I wouldn’t mind donating and setting it all up so that everyone has food and a place to stay while at the world wide or america-wide meeting.
If you feel like you lost yourself, take a break. Maybe on the weekends? When no one is watching, find what you love to do and do it. No one's watching so there's nothing to judge. When you feel comfortable, keep repeating and repeating. Your life are your own decisions right? Choose what you want to be and be it.
Skinny doesn’t mean cute. No matter what body type you have, you will always look beautiful! Don’t let anyone make you feel worthless. Yes you reading this comment. You are beautiful and strong! I know being confident is hard, but I assure you everything you have worked for, will pay off. You might not feel recognized by your actions, but I am with you on this journey! Keep working hard and keep positive thoughts in your head! Stay true to yourself and be happy! Thank you for reading my comment, I feel some of you needed to hear this. Have a wonderful day ❤️
To be honest I changed a lot when I got to know BTS because they told me to love myself and now I just say what's on my mind and I do what I want to I wear what I want to ....... I have accepted the real me and the world is trying to accept soon they will too accept the real me...... It barely matter how pretty you look but it really matters how much pretty your heart is?...... Don't be scared of what others will think just love yourself believe yourself ...... I read it somewhere that we have 2 lifes 1 you are living and other when you realize that you only got 1 .........And if everyone needed to be same like each other why would there be so many........ PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF 💜❤
FINALLY A video that actually describes the best of the girls. I strongly agree with those messages. Even tho i am a boy, I just wanna say that there is no gender better than other. Girls and boys need to stay at the same level. The girls should have the same rights as boys. #girlabove
I have to admit, I used to judge girls, I’m getting better, I never meant anything I said about them, I just put my insecurities on others, as a girl, this truly hurts our confidence, if a girl wears something out, she’s not looking for attention, she just feels happy wearing it, and we shouldn’t point it out, there is no such thing as skinny or fat, there’s only such thing as beautiful, stick together ladies, we’ll get through this, and finally be our true selves 💛💛
This literally made me cry. I have no self confidence, and this just made me believe in myself. Not to listen to what people tell me, dont listen to people that tell me I'm not good enough or I need to change. Thank you love♥️
This is amazing. Very inspiring. Stay true to yourself everyone and stop caring what other people think. You may think that everyone's judging you but in reality there not.❤️
Its 12 47 just ignore everything I say I won't remember anything after a few days and its frickin cold winter yayyyyy not so fun when you dont have a heater thats a good one im blushing a little cause of how embarrassing this will be to find what ive commented youtube real life shit wattpad jokes i forgot i wrote and someone comments that that was funny and i laugh at what i said cause i forgot that i had commented anything my phones dying nooooooo
I loved this message, it was so beautiful and true!!! Girls and woman, do not judge yourself or others, you are perfect just the way you are. Share this video!!!
What every boy and girl needs in this world is Love and Respect. And this can only be possible if we stop judging others. The society is mostly filled with people who make us feel insecure but we should have the Right Understanding about the reality.
Everyone is a piece of art. All unique in their own ways, All beautiful in their own ways. Some people may think they are beautiful, Some may not. But those opinions do not define your worth. All art is beautiful and unique and special. *y’all gorgeous😘*
"A real girl is not perfect and a perfect girl is not real"
-Harry Styles
This is why I love Harry
Why a perfect girl is not real?
@JIMIN Park Ya.. SURE
And then he dated kendall Jenner. So called perfect🙂
@@animeandk-pop9184 no one is perfect. The word perfect shouldn’t exist
School is starting again. Anxiety is starting again.
Girls who judge other girls, who put them down, they don't understand.
Grils should stick up for each other. We should be a group, not divided, into the populars, and the others.
That's why girls never grew. Men support each other. Women cut each other
!!!!!!
True words
Ah yes *GRILS*
I'm now hungry..
You are right, but Tell me, why everybody say "girls", im boy, but not like others, i mean why i cant fit in. Every day i feel so lonely :-( i would be happy if i have some friends but i dont
“No one is born ugly. We just live in a judgmental society” - Kim Namjoon of BTS
yesssssssssss💜💜💜💜💜💜
Army !!!
And here I capture an Army again
Army is everywhere💜
Omg exactly
OMG YEAAAAAAAAAA
This is me almost everyday. My anxiety makes me hide who I really am, and I am ready to stand up. Are You?
nO
YeS
No I’m not ready to stand up the voice in my head tells me to keep quiet and not speak your mind
Yes
Yess
People need to stop judging. Skinny is not the ideal body type. If we dress cute it doesn’t mean we want men, it means we want to feel good.
Yes thank you I am really skinny and people always say being skinny is better but it's not I hate being skinny I eat more than my whole family and I can't gain any weight in anyways the way I feel about being skinny is not good boys always saying they want a big thick girl they also want a girl with some curve to her in a butt that's one reason why I hate being skinny and then people even talk of make jokes about you being skinny
I'm the same and I understand
yeah the other day i weared a dress to school because i wanted to feel good and try something different then everyone thought i was dressing up for my crush which i was not
I personally believe that both ends of the spectrum (of body weight) are bad/not healthy. But the most important thing is that you eat healthy, and that you’re active.
I am skinny n wanna gain weight
''Girls: We have to be super models....
Boys: We have to be rich and successful ..
Put them together: Loneliness ''
We need to be alive, thought no one.
Most guys will pick wives that are pretty to them, we don't expect perfect 10's. Most would prefer a girl who is just friendly and kind to them, willing to hangout and talk.
@Anthony ramsis
So true and so sad! 😭
Um girls can also want to be rich and successful wth. Otherwise they’d be in the gym all day and not study or go to college.
@80's music lover
They’re just examples btw obviously some girls think they need to be rich and successful to every be loved or to succeed in life but what the comment’s trying to say is that there’s more important things than they way you look and the amount of money you possess. Friendship, love, kindness and living life to the fullest are way more important. People should prioritise those things instead.
Is anyone here dead inside???
Oh it’s just me 😞😭
Not only you my friend 💔
But we must believe that things will change and get better ❤
Me:( btw we have the same name:)))
I Dont feel dead, i dont feel alive,i feel as though Im partly here because Im dreaming and none of this is real.
@@Skatepakistan what do u mean ?
@@Skatepakistan yes same i sometimes feel like i am in a coma
I’m overweight and I’m actually really confident in myself. In 2019 I went through a little bit of a rough patch but I’m terrific now. They’re just stereotypes and you don’t have to listen to that.
you go girl
Period
Hello Hello!
I'm also overweight and sometime they treat inhuman as if I have no feeling as if I'm no one
*the world is proud of you*
I think the title should be
what the society of this time should here
Be nice don’t dudge were different and that’s what makes everyone special in there own way like damn bruh
Go look in ur mirror first..fr take a good look at urself
Inga Trusova Everyone*
Respect bro
S O T R U E
WHEN A GIRL WEARS SOMETHING CUTE SHE ISN'T TRYING TO IMPRESS YOU BITCH xD
No what everybody*
Nade Nedeva girls can fight too😂💪🤜
Girls we really need to grow up.... And stop thinking about others... Just do whatever u want to do.... Freedom is everyone's self right..... Go girl get ur goal
thankyou
Feminists think they can have everything just because they are a girl.
Do You- Rm
Women empowerment is needed not Feminism.
I wish it was that easy to get my goal
Whoever Reading this
Your skin isn’t a paper don’t cut it
Your body isn’t a book don’t judge it
Your heart isn’t a door don’t lock it
Your life isn’t a movie don’t end it
You’re beautiful
Be you..Stay Safe
@FruityWatermelon well i am sorry if that offended you but i didnt mean it
Really true words
Why do I see this evry where ?
@MelonWorld Some people needed a comment like this. It's different for everyone. They might see it as a reason to live
Your messages does bring happiness in someone heart
Thank u
Girl: you are so fat
*few months later*
Same girl: you are so skinny
Me: ...why can't I be me..?
@Craig Davidson bro u mad or sum? Ppl can play whatever they want, learn to respect other ppl my dude
Youre perfect. Youre you.
@Craig Davidson no tf, they should never get any toxicity but u play have made it like it is an embarrasment to play some games, so fr just su nd mind ur bussiness
U ppl have made it*
@Craig Davidson This is their EXACT problem. Whats wrong if they like Gacha? People can do what they want and love. If you have a negative opinion about Gacha, fine. But at least don't publicly say it to put people down. Gosh.
"you have to be sexy for the boys" nobody needs to look 'sexy' for anybody else. Be who you enjoy to look like whether that look is sexy or messy or nerdy or weird. You are amazing just the way you are
Toby Wafflez thanks
тнanĸѕ and ιм ѕυre υ r 2
Yep. If thats your bf. Talk to him if he dont listen then dump him. He should love you as you with all your flaws and stuff.
Toby Wafflez yo
Thanks Toby wafflez
FINALLY, a video that actually describes a woman and how to make her life better.
You are so right
Hayley Jones ikr
Yessss right ❤️
+Tyrone Mahnigga wtf is wrong with you👿
What about men
"Everyone is beautiful. The fact is we r just in a judgemental society "
- kim namjoon ( BTS )
Army
@@skyleroliver923 u r welcome dear
💜💜
Army ⟬⟭💜
@@nupurjatap5199 💜💜💜
Never judge people about what they are doing...
Because you never know where they will end up ..
Yeapp
but it doesn't matter where they end up. It just matters that they're a good person. Good people have downfalls in their life too.
@@MisterKzzt What i meant is that sometimes good people end up never getting a job and bad people get jobs that pay really well. (it also depends on your perspective on the terms "good" and "bad", since how you perceive it can result in a different view of things)
@@MisterKzzt Also sometimes good people do deal drugs for reasons, such as having no other choice but doing that to feet their family, etc.
@@halicusnguyen8864 They still don't have to do that. They could work harder at a lower paying, honest job. It'd be harder, but then you wouldn't be harming other people with said drugs and aiding them in their addictions.
Mostly speaking, actions speak louder than words, your actions are a better judge of who a person is rather than most measures. A job and financial status, riches, etc don't determine your worth, you don't have to have a 'good' job to be good. But, if you are a person of good character and heart, your actions wouldn't be stabbing people or kicking puppies, cheating on your spouse, etc. Crazy example, but hopefully makes sense. Doesn't mean you have to be perfect, as none of us are.
As a Christian I think everyone has immeasurable inherent worth, every human life is precious and should be fought for, but at the same time, what kind of person you become (good or bad) or your character is largely if not fully dependent on your actions. Do you lie, steal, cheat? What kind of person are you when you think no one is watching? Do you give up your values when it's inconvenient? Either way, the good thing about human life is that we can change, and it's never too late to find and turn to God and repent (aka turn your life around from the bad/sin to good/God). And it's not fully on us, it's asking God to help change us at the core, then incrementally moving in line with what He says is right, true, and good.
Not popular enough, not pretty enough this is how I feel but this video tells us woman that we are amazing and beautiful just the way u r
It depends on inside.they were pretty girl in my class and they were dumped because of thei uninteresting personality
You womans are beautifull 💗
What every girl AND boy needs to hear. Boys have insecurities too.
amen
Usually girls go through insecurity and unpopular issues more at school and idek why :V
Boys are not as harsh to eachother as girls are but I do agree
Ye true but girls only go through popularity issues they put a stereotype on themselves like men dont get rapped or judge or try to kill themselves...its not fair
@@Rellisinfinyx men get raped too, male suicide is more common, but you actually don't hear about it, double stereotypes. It's pretty sad.
I'm going to try to be confident more often 🥀
Great ...
Am still an under achiever
Shali Koi same
You go girl
Me too and as you should 💅
*No one is born ugly*
*You are just born in a judgemental society*
- Kim Namjoon
💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
Yeah 💜😌
He never said that
Stop spreading fake quotes please
@@diedsquid bruh I was army since 2017 .the much I know u wouldn't know abt them idc if u watch or not to much bts go and search on google rm quote idiots toxic ppl u guys just need to spread hate.. For small mistakes.. Omg I m so ashamed to call u even a army toxic people
@@Simiiya_ true
A.R.M.Y
I could relate to the part where the girl was playing the violin. Always told your grades will matter and you need to work harder. It's too much
Yep. Currently stressing over violin auditions and grades here. I have above a 4.0 and I still feel so much pressure to be better. :/
Honestly, your grades do matter but think that it is easy and it will become easier for you. This video doesn’t mean “Quit school.” It means to break every chain holding you back, everything that keeps you connects to your past, break it, and you will have a great future.
Me too
same
As a music kid that was too relatable. When she kept hitting the bow on her thigh, i felt that. When you never get the part right and you KNOW u'll fail.
Yeah. *That feeling*
I Wish This was a Movie For Girls.
Me too
this could be the trailer
For everyone
Damn, your grammar is errant.
@@MisterKzzt I Don't Really Know But If The Person Who Wrote The Comment Could Just Explain Why Because Now It Is Kind Of Annoying. Ok, I Need To Stop But I Cant And I Dont Know Why. Why Can I Not Stop? Ok I Have Now Stopp-
God loves you more than you can imagine! 💗
I'm sick and tired of girls judging other girls.
Tnx for this video
Thank god that Craig idiot hasn't replied to your comment
This. Is. Beautiful.
That is a amazing video
Belle Blevins yes !
+Tyrone Mahnigga I don't think so woman should be respected its about time we came out of the shadows
+Tyrone Mahnigga NO
So are you
This made me cry so hard, I understand how they feel... except I have no one to make me feel better.
You can have yourself, love yourself and live with compassion and you will find so many people who live the same way and will befriend you. Be patient, for now, talk to someone in need, join activities, take risks but most importantly, know that you are worth it and be yourself. :)
p g You have whole world to understand you!
Be with the true ones and surround yourself with nature.
You will never feel alone!😊
p g don't worry about people making u feel better, just be happy, do u want, and dont let anyone bring u down, ignore the bullies, u only live once, why spend ur life worrying?
Awww honey (gives virtual hug)
p g you are beautiful. You are strong. You are capable. You are worthy. You are enough. There is no one “youer” than you. Sending hugs your way today.
"But really, you're just alone."
I don't think so. There's a difference between alone and lonely. Alone is when you're all by yourself, no one's around and you're surrounded by complete silence, absolutely nothing. Lonely, however, is different. You could be surrounded by hundreds of people each day and yet, still feel empty and lost... like you're not you. You could have everything you've ever asked for and yet still feel lonely, as if a part of you is just gone; disappeared and forever lost.
I use to want to make everyone love me. I mold myself to be the perfect girl designed for each and every person. I can be calm, energetic, shy, bold, anything you like. Just mix and paint your palette. Little did I know, every time I get fitted into my new mold, part of me gets chipped away. I lost myself, who am I? I look into the mirror, point to myself with tears streaming down my face “Who are you?”. It gets better, I sit alone in the busy street. Once taking notes on what type and personality each person likes, I just close my eyes. I am not your doll anymore. The path for me is uncertain, I am still on the way to rediscover me, beautiful me.
Raine UWU thank u soooooo much bro this really helped me get my shit together
So relatable ❤️
"Once taking notes on what type and personality each person likes"
U don't have to do what others like, do what u like u...just be yourself believe in yourself and love yourself!!!!
That is one of the reasons that Muslim women put the Hijab. The hijab covers the women body in order to be looked the same way as an human and not something else. We want to be valued /judged not from the outside the but in the inside, in other words our morals . Also, they feel more comfortable in their skin because they used to compare less their self with other because the look its not that important but I know its difficult because our society we value the beauty of women... :(
- Be beautiful your own way and be comfortable being you
Iman EL-Rahim thank you for your input! It is such a great thing to hear from cultures other than our own. The hijab indeed offers the opportunity for a woman to be seen for her character rather than her physicality.
Girl above thank you for supporting Islam and Muslims .you are supportive and your channel is great
That’s so beautiful
Its the first time someone says it
Thank you Iman for sharing! We loved learning about the value behind the Hijab. There is definitely something we can learn from the focus on morals and character first, rather than outer appearance.
this is, beautiful, just beautiful, and while yes I am a guy, I feel these same pressures, I'm having trouble finding my worth, but this really boosted my spirits
thank you
Order 56
Bless you and your entire being. I say that sincerely.
I say that because it's hard to find guys that openly admit that, and you are a hero for that. So thank *you* for stepping up and helping us girls know we aren't alone, just because we're girls.
EmmaLine ShadowCaller what would a man be without honor
Commander Neyo wow Ive only heard or known like2 or 3 guys that are like that
Kamryn Rivera humans without feeling are not humans, society is not kind to people like us
We are born to be real , not to be perfect
Me:Do I look fat?
"Girl,loose weight"
Me:I dont wanna eat....
"You're overeacting"
Me:Im innocent,right?
"You call yourself innocent?!"
Me:Can I jump now?
"You won't survive so NO"
Exactly...
Life has some bad times... but never forget abt the good ones!
liiiiiiterally
"You won't survive so NO"
THAT'S WHAT I WANTED
@@smile_faker2607 do you not know how to fly ?
i literally cried watching this
Abby Chapman I
Abby Chapman LMAO
Abby Chapman I'm "the tuff girl" and I cried watching this😭
Abby Chapman same
Abby Chapman I didnt but it was beautiful
The title should be more like, "what everybody needs to hear"
Crying everywhere and locked in your room squad where you at?
I needed to cry, it's nice to just let it all out..
It’s nice to know people won’t hear me
@@thresher_coz yasss sooo trueee
*Here's to the girls*
To all the girls who don't wake up with perfect hair. Who don't mind eating a burger instead of a salad. Who doesn't wear 50 pounds of makeup. Who'd rather spend the day in sweatpants rather than skinny jeans. Who doesn't get all the guys. Who's not popular but feels like it when with their friends. Who sticks to sneakers instead of heels. Who doesn't get everything they want. To all the girls who doesn't need a guy to tell them that they are beautiful.
Thank you so much! I read this out loud with Confidence❤️🙌🕊
Hi..I would like to share something with you. I'm a 9th grader. I'm not lonely. I have loving parents and have really a lot of friends and also a bestfriend whom I can rely on. I started wearing eyeliner from 5th grade. Here, where we live, eyeliner is considered as make-up...I mean there are only a little students who wear lipstick, foundation etc. So as I was saying, I started applying eyeliner to school every single day because I wanted to look more beautiful of course. But then I started watching these kinds of inspirational vedios on TH-cam saying that "you should be just the way your are" etc. So I too felt a desire to be free without any make-up. I hate makeup actually...but I still applied it because I didn't look nice without it. But after watching these types of vedios, I decided to stop wearing eyeliner in 8th grade. I went on like that for a weak. But I started wearing make-up because of the comments of my own friends, teachers etc. But this year finally I decided to stop it. I wanted people to love me for who I am and not for my external features. I stopped wearing it for about 2 weeks now and ofcourse I got many comments from my friends and even teachers saying that "you should really start applying it again", "you look so dull without your eyemakeup" etc. One friend even told me that I was looking like a zombie. But I didn't care. I just stopped wearing makeup. And see where it brought me now. When people saw that they could no more change my decision, they gradually stopped. And I'm happy now. And I suggest everyone to do the same. It's ok if you wear makeup or you don't wear it. But you should not let people put you down. If you have a desire to do anything, go for it. Don't care what people say. You don't have to change yourself for other people. Let them change thier opinions. And all that inspired me to stop caring about what people say are TH-cam vedios like these. Keep it up. Thankyou😊.
You brave little angel. If I consistently wore eyeliner for three years in school, I don't think I'd have the courage to take on the negative comments I got from people if I stopped. I'd just have to keep being late for school, and handing in homeworks late because I need to make sure that my face looks the same as always. And my skin always looks clear, even though it never is. Far from it actually. But I wore eyeliner for about a year in school. People judged me for it. But more people would have judged me if I stopped. So I kept wearing it. Until I found videos like these, and comments like yours. And I thought to myself :
"If people don't like me for who I am, their comments aren't worth listening to." and so I stopped wearing eyeliner. But I still haven't gone into school without wearing concealer everyday for about 3-4 years because I'm too ashamed of my skin. When my skin gets better, I will stop wearing makeup altogether unless I want to. Unless I want to try out some new eyeshadow or something that I really like.
I'm not really sure why I wrote this, I guess I just saw your comment and related to it. Sorry for rambling. 😊 xx
Sneezing Panda Thankyou so much for your support. And I hope your skin gets better. But you should never be ashamed of your skin. Because God gave it to you and he looks into people's soul, not beauty. I'm actually glad that I have someone to relate to. Nowadays I do wear eyemakeup on special occassions but I don't wear it everyday. By the way, you are not rambling😉😊.
jessejuicer thanks😊
Little Angel
Thank you. 😊
Yeah same I only normally wear it for special occasions.
Fries before guys sisters before misters
That's grade 9 by the way😊
Dear girls
Don't let anyone ruin your dreams.Don't let anyone say anything to you to make you feel bad.Some boys just don't understand that how much a little thing can gurt a girl.Boys prefer to call a girl "hottie" "sexy" rather than "beautiful".They judge a girl by her shape..But guess what it is her body so shut up.Like she said 100 years earlier womens couldn't vote..Why?Because no one knows how worth it we are..I have seen in some works they pay a men more than a women and they are in the same posicion..And why do they pay the women less..Because she is a women..Many boys said that womens can't do mens work.But guess what a girl can do it to..They think that womens are only worth about cleaning the house,making the dinner..It is our time to speak..RAISE YOUR VOICE GIRLS.THE WORLD WANTS TO HEAR IT❤
Thank you we are not just wipes at home we can do anything a man can do I know I sure can and we are not just for sex or for your pleasure to look at once in my life but to hear guy compliment looking saying you look beautiful and not just because I'm wearing makeup but we can't do anything I can do and do it better
@Bacon Bandito if what she says makes sense,then yes I believe she does have the right to speak for all of us girls.
@Bacon Bandito the fact that you like your own comment says it all😂
@Bacon Bandito if you don't want to understand then fine. It's your problem
@Bacon Bandito 🤦♀️
" No matter what Love your self cause no one is going to do it for u "
Just be yourself, God created u unique. Stop seeking peoples' approval. It's not worth it. Seek God's approval, you'll be set free. 🤷♀️🇦🇺
You dont kniw how much better u made my day❤
@@nadezhdanedeva9953 hey. He doesn't hate you. He lives you so much, he created you! Your'e alive today because he has created a beautiful purpose for you life. Take it from someone who understands how you feel. God really loves you. Please give your life to him, so you can be free.
@@nadezhdanedeva9953 maybe he separated you because he heard what they said about you when you stepped out of the room, what if he separated you because he saw how they treated you, he loves you more than anything, he loves everyone, even those who don't believe in him, heck even the devil himself, all things happen for a reason whether it hurt you or not, something's end for the better or for the worse, but we shouldn't blame it on anyone not even ourselves, cause we don't know what a person will like or dislike from us. God bless you.
U made me realize.. next time I'll be who I am. But maybe I'm gonna find who I rlly am and what I am worthed for!
@@addisonphillips4913 I'm an atheist.
Ok, so God created us. Fun. You realize that, if he loved us, he wouldn't let us carve into our own skins the words other people call us? I've had "FREAK" carved into my arm for months, I just go over and over it, I can't stop. Shouldn't he stop me?
Also I'm bisexual. My first kiss was a girl. My only kiss was a girl, actually. So technically I'm going to go to hell, right? God's gonna punish me because of the way he made me? It makes sense, doesn't it! "God loves you... Unless you're gay. Or depressed. Or you don't believe in him."
Right. Makes sense.
All the girls in this are beautiful.
The entire message is beautiful.
THIS ENTIRE THING IS BEAUTIFUL!
So beautiful it gave me goosebumps
Anna Schmelz Ew
i get those goosebumps every time :)
Quetzalcoatlus how is that " ew "
yeah it did
Anna Schmelz OMW you should check out this video as well th-cam.com/video/9g9-TIEjbkU/w-d-xo.html
I keep hearing voices and i wonder if they're talking about me, and it just tears my heart apart it irritates me and it stops me of being who i want to be. And that doesn't only happen to me it happens to every single person in this world, that's how the world is different. We hide our true identity. We try be perfect for everybody but sometimes we can succeeded. Once i wanna stand in front of the whole world and just let everybody listen that we are not perfect. Most of the 50% of the world are against bullying, or the other 50% are just too shy to come up to a person and say 'you are strong.' or just stand up for them for once. Trust me, you don't wanna be the person facing all the fears. You don't wanna be the person who is seeing someone getting bullied, but as you look around everyone tries to avoid it and apparently it's not their 'business'
Just look around and you'll recognize and understand what the word is really is.
Like if you agree.
Anytime you hear a bad thought, imagine you eating your favorite food/ favorite place and you there, feeling the pleasure of being alive and having happiness.
This is beautiful
So are you🤗
I cried so hard! this is so beautiful... i wish a had that magic mirror
a normal mirror is a magic mirror if you believe it is when you look at your reflection
Chizuru Yukimura You do! It's any mirror you look into. You just have to look into it differently.😊
I like the thought of not seeing my stretch marks.
Hi Chizuru! Thank you for watching, we wish the magic mirror was a real thing too! How lovely would that be?! I hope we can continue to encourage you more and connect over at our instagram @girlabove
Ya right ya cried liar
Finally, something that says the truth.
Because you are not accepted by people ,doesn't mean you're not accepted by GOD.
THE creation cannot be higher than the creator.
You are beautifully and wonderfully made ,says the BIBLE.
stop bugging yourself, because only you ,will be there for you.
So don't let people drain you,before you finally use YOU for something great.
Girls, we are who WE are if people try to bring us down we can rise back up TOGETHER
@CarminaKalula yeah, I'm not a boy but boys and girls are humans and we suffer the same things, its not just girls
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Ano tank. Allah who. Why snls amla
Npab. Smh. An cfanow. Envy cam a
Bueno. Am v. Sbycts Allah anlwb wma
He'll. 🌷🌲🌵🌻🌿🍀🐾🐿bus smñw
@@paolaflores5179 did your mom let you borrow her phone
Craig Davidson can you tell me all the issues girls go through and the issues boys go through? I would like to know your viewpoint from this. I would also like to know how you think girls suffer more than boys or vice versa
@@sunisii Do not go there!!! women have suffered so much and I don’t want to hear “what about men” shut up I get that you guys have gone through things but please stop!! this is a video about women!!
For once, I came down here expecting sexist comments about women, but there were none, yasss people let’s keep it that way. Ps this was beautiful and right in every way possible
Every one needs to see this
Well I am tomboy girl... I hate makeup and cute clothes or dresses or nail polishes and fashion.. I don't care about it.. And everyone in my school says I am so beautiful, even bullies... You don't have to be someone for someone you have to be someone for yourself💜💜I Purple you...
I purple you too💜 stay strong we all need to stay strong 💜💜
I don't know who needs to hear this but you are ENOUGH and you deserve MOORE so LOVE yourself and put yourself first DON'T be afraid to be alone you gonna be OK 👑❤😘
I love this. It will make me think more about myself and believe in myself more. Thank You
It really is such a strong message, and I feel so inspired by this!
When you are famous, let me know
I always look at the mirror and think I'm ugly ,I'm fat,I'm not good enough, and after this video I just realised your not alone and this video is so inspiring that all girls should watch because your not alone in life.
YOURE SO BEAUTIFUL! TAKE CARE STAY STRONG
Tyrone Mahnigga lmaoooo
I know right I know how you feel about it I'm ugly to I'm fat too I'm not good enough nether whether or not I am trying I'm going to lose the weight and going to eat right
We all are unique, beautiful and strong! 💖💪💞
"You are worthless if you don't get good grades" is what I hear everyday. I could totally relate to this video, I am insecure everytime I go to school. Thank you so much for uploading this awesome video, I cried in the end. ❤️
Incase someone hasn't told you this yet your gorgeous no matter what anyone says it's what's in the inside that really counts 💚
libs Main you are physically not gorgeous if ur just not gorgeous
It’s not like that for the boys in my class ☹️😭
This video brought out the best in me
"I want to feel like I'm worth something" I WANT. But I don't.
I just wish I had someone to talk to.
My family deals with a lot of problems and they think that I'm not going through anything because I never talk about it. I just don't feel comfortable talking to my family about this sort of stuff. Sometimes I can't hold it in anymore and just start crying. I told myself to NEVER get any social media because I know what it can do to people and I don't want to go through that, because I wouldn't be able to take it. My family doesn't know how sensitive I am, my friend says to me "it's not like words can hurt you" but he's wrong..I can start crying if someone just says a cuss word me. I also told myself to never say a cuss word because my sister gave me an inspiring speech about how cuss words don't make you cool. I really look up to her. I've thought about talking to her about stuff but I'm just too scared to. I don't know why.. Sometimes I talk to my friend about stuff but not like my problems. I know I shouldn't just be thinking about myself and I'm not trying to but I just really wish j could talk to someone, I think if I had someone to talk to then I would feel better. I keep everything to myself, and it's not healthy. I lost all three of my friends to corona, and I miss them but I miss only one of my friends the most. She was a true friend, she always stuck by me and didn't care about what other people thought about her and she didn't care about a popularity. She was one of the people that inspired me to not care about that stuff too. I miss her a lot.. I still have this one friend though, we didn't hang out at school though. I met him when our teacher put me and him next to eachother in one of our classes. We did talk then but as soon as the teacher moved us around again, we didn't talk at school, we only talked online. I don't feel comfortable enough telling him personal things about myself, and I wish I did but even if I did, he wouldn't know how to talk to me about it because he seems like the type that doesn't know the words to comfort someone. Yeah, so it just feels like I don't have any friends now. It feels like I'm all alone. But even so, I keep going, keeping positive thoughts in my head. Everyone at school used to call me nice and stuff because I was nice to everyone, but I was never myself at school. I can only be myself around my friends and it feels so good to be myself. And it feels so good typing all of this out now. I just hope I don't grow up to be a horrible person. I try everyday to not be the judging type. I don't care about looks, popularity, I don't care about any of that. All I want is to have true friends that can truly talk to me and trust me enough to be themselves around me. I don't want to end up around mean people, I want to end up with people that trust me with all their heart because that would make me so happy to know that. I've read some of the comments and honestly, I agree with a lot of them. I just wish their wasn't any judgmental people in this world. I just wish people would accept others for who they are in the inside and out. But that's not how it works, people have to judge others to be "popular" and they have to look pretty. But I just wish people would know that you don't have to be popular to fit in...
I didn't realise how long I made this but I'm glad I got it all out, it feels so good to talk about it. Especially to people you don't know.. There is a high chance that no one is going to see this but I just had to let it all out. If anyone sees this, God bless you and I hope you live the happiest life. You only get one chance to live, so live life to the fullest.
Don't lose hope. They are always some people who care about who you truly are. I don't even know you, and I do care. You are not just "nice", you are good person. It's obvious to me. You deserve to be loved. It's perfectly normal to feel lonely right now. It's perfectly okay to cry. It doesn't mean it's over. Feel free to open up. I'm sure your secrets are made of gold... 'cause you are a sensitive soul, and all you want is being your true self. That's a truly precious thing. This confession prooves that you have a beautiful light inside, and well feel better, it"s going to shine bright, no matter your looks or you're popularity (because they're not YOU). I'd like to see it. I'd like to know you, and I give you my warmest hug
@@feliciemignon4107 Tysm 💜
Great film.. But just imagine yourself looking in the mirror seeing your reflection, then your reflection moves but you don't 😂
😂
That would be scary...
id be freaked out
Nonononono
I was being dramatic then I saw this comment😂
I-
Exactly 🤣🤣
Im 14 and this has Helped me
Sameee
Your beautiful
Namjoon said in a speech
"You are not born Ugly,you just lived in a judgement society"
Army💜
I am just like the girl with piano
Everyone tells me to be perfect
It makes me feel like I'm not perfect yet
It makes me stressed
To be good at everything
I thought the magic mirror gonna change their looks.. they are beautiful anyways
Pretty Rene
LITERALLY WHAT IM THINKING
Brought tears to my eyes
I am the same I think so badly about myself and my family and friends get mad so that's how I know they love me for me but I think badly about myself no matter what
So, so many year's of teaching. But yet no one taught us how to love ourselves.
Edit 1: dear girls: we are more powerful than we believe we need to change the way we see ourselves we are unique! Just be you because that's who u r going to be!!! We're used to being judged so we begin to judge ourselves it doesn't matter what other people think. The only thing that matters is your opinion about yourself. Be comfortable with your body! Don't waste most of your life pretending to be someone your not! Show you're true self! 💕
This video made me break down in tears... I don't know how to feel anymore
I cried so hard watching this. I used to have a lot of close friends and be happy..... but there was a problem I "watched anime and was fat" none like me and all judged me. So I stopped watching anime. I sold and got rid of everything that had to do with it. I then began to cry and step in the scale. Every free second I got I was on that scale. All for him. This dick popular boy who thought he was better than everyone else. I loved him though, what girl wouldn't.. he was hot and funny, but in the inside he was just shallow and mean. He made fun of me tonight and I am crying my eyes out. I JUST WANT TO BE ACCEPTED 😭😭😭😭😭😭
My Petty Ass Tea Bags Bitch your okay baby you’ll make it!
i watch anime and I'm fat, keep watching anime ,stop stepping on the scale , a number doesn't define you and you know what!? screw that guy you know he's mean, don't like him because he's popular and everyone else likes him too. what you need to do is get the right friends do whatever you enjoy and ignore that scale!!!!!
I watch anime but im a girl😂😂
My Petty Ass Tea Bags Bitch I'm sorry for u but why do some people always make fun of Chinese Asian Koreans and other cultures/ places that's not theirs just because that culture has their own way they are stupid and u should just be yourself and not care. I have fast metabolism and that means I'm really skinny and I watch Korean dramas and 90s show I listen to old music because I don't like today's music and I'm really weird sometimes my friends judge me but guess what I don't care I love myself if I have a crush on someone and they don't feel the same way I tell myself I deserve better. I don't know anyone who have the same things in common (for what I like) so this year in 7th grade I talk to my friends but I'm trying to focus more on my studies/ school. Just be yourself and love for who u are ❤🌸💐 you are beautiful and so is everyone else who doubts themselves they just don't see it because ppl tell them things that aren't true. People that judge others are just jealous that you are better than them and when they judge people they should know that not everyone is the same (if that makes sense)
Awww! You are way better than all of this! you don't deserve all of this! there will one day be a man that will truly love and care about you. Be yourself and never give up on your dreams, don't care what others say or think about you, you are beautiful just the way you are, no one can take that away from you.
Om gosh, this is actually a TRUE video that describes women. Finally! Just becuase the number on the scale is high doesnt mean u wont find a partner, just becuase ur boyfriend left u doesnt mean u arent good enough, and just becuase u arent super popular doesnt mean ur future isnt bright - weight, appearance, "popularity/social status", "relationship status" - none of those define who u are. U are a women, u are strong, u are worth it.
SPEAK YOURSELF,
NO MATTER WHERE YOURE FROM, YOUR GENDER IDENTITY, YOUR SKIN COLOR, JUST SPEAK YOURSELF.
SPREAD POSITIVITY, LOVE YOURSELF, LOVE MYSELF AND THIS WILL HELP YOU TO SHOW THE REAL YOURSELF...BTS AND ARMYS ALL OVER THE WORLD ARE WORKING ON THAT...IM PROUD BECAUSE I AM NOT ALONE AT THIS LONG...I CAN SAY THAT I. HAVE MY FAMILY. I CAN PURPLE YOU...LIKE PURPLE IS THE LAST COLOR OF THE RAINBOW I WILL LOVE AND STAY BESIDE WITH YOU FOR EVER...
WHO EVER READING THIS REMEMBER, I PURPLE YOU!
YOURE NOT ALONE, LET THE WORLD KNOW WHO YOU ARE....BECAUSE NO ONE IS BORN UGLY WE'VE BORN IN A JUDGEMENTAL SOCIETY AND I WANNA SAY ,
YOURE BORN TO BE REAL NOT TO BE PERFECT
-FROM BTS & ARMY
Be a girl and show the society what you are.. All the best dear😊🤗
*Thank God for the blessing of Islam alhamdulillah* ♥♥♥♥♥♥♥♥
Are you muslim..???
And why?
Can y'all stop judging her like damn
@@carlosbarigon9297 we are not judging her.. lmao
Shagor Media I am
Everyone needs to hear that we are never perfect and we all are going to have popularity and insecurity issues. It’s life. No madder your gender, color, sexuality, body type, career thoughts, or anything in the end we just need to remember we live once and this is something I like to say;
Life is a game and it’s beatable by everyone even if you need to become an outcast to do so.
For everyone out there go beat life’s butt and conquer your world no matter what anyone says. There is people who will support you and love you for who you are and you may have to dig deep. Never give up on finding them, life, and your dreams.
Love everyone out there. Keep smiling and remember you can beat this world. ❤️
As kids we were told pulled hair and pushes meant love and now when we’re asked ”why won't she leave” it's because we were taught abuse was love.
More people should see this❤️
don't judge a book by its cover lv urself
Even my own mother does that.. but she's judging others yet.. even my childhood friend.. she always laughs and say how ugly she is...
but the truth is that she's even prettier than I can ever be, so... if she's ugly for you.. WHO AM I FOR YOU, MOTHER??"
girls are so much more than what is on the outside. we are worth so much more
whoever disliked this video is telling girls that they don't deserve to feel good about themselves.
These videos make me feel empowered, well it lasts for a day or two at the most. I remember when I was in 7th grade a girl in my class said "my face looks like a bottle." Also regularly my so called friends are reminding me that I'm fat and heavy. My brother does the same. I said nothing to them, just smiled and I felt I was strong. But I cried when they weren't there.
I've realized one thing though, no matter what anyone else calls you as, your true worth is how you define yourself.
Yes you are right
GBU
everyday I always hiding my true self when I listen to this message I stand up for my self you guys need to stand up for yourself
*This message is telling us that we don't have to be perfect we don't have to be what other people wants ignore people that are judging they can't control us.... Just be You*
There should be a national meeting for young teenage females or females in general struggling with self worth. I think it’d give us an insight on other people’s lives and how they differ from thinking that they are too skinny and will never be loved vs. thinking that you are too fat and will never be pretty and loved. Being able to hear the different stories and comfort one another without a male picking and choosing will help us build our confidence back. We need this. This needs to be a real thing and I wouldn’t mind donating and setting it all up so that everyone has food and a place to stay while at the world wide or america-wide meeting.
I'm a guy and I decided to show to this to a friend of mine and she broke out to tears.
Thank you for sharing it with her! We hope
It was encouraging and opened up some meaningful conversation
@@GirlAbove it really did
I keep lying to myself, change to the personality that everyone love, and now I don't even know myself anymore.
If you feel like you lost yourself, take a break. Maybe on the weekends? When no one is watching, find what you love to do and do it. No one's watching so there's nothing to judge. When you feel comfortable, keep repeating and repeating. Your life are your own decisions right? Choose what you want to be and be it.
Don't
Don't judge yourself don't change your personality however you are
Being imperfect is what perfect means to me. So be who you are!
Skinny doesn’t mean cute. No matter what body type you have, you will always look beautiful! Don’t let anyone make you feel worthless. Yes you reading this comment. You are beautiful and strong! I know being confident is hard, but I assure you everything you have worked for, will pay off. You might not feel recognized by your actions, but I am with you on this journey! Keep working hard and keep positive thoughts in your head! Stay true to yourself and be happy! Thank you for reading my comment, I feel some of you needed to hear this. Have a wonderful day ❤️
To be honest I changed a lot when I got to know BTS because they told me to love myself and now I just say what's on my mind and I do what I want to I wear what I want to ....... I have accepted the real me and the world is trying to accept soon they will too accept the real me...... It barely matter how pretty you look but it really matters how much pretty your heart is?...... Don't be scared of what others will think just love yourself believe yourself ...... I read it somewhere that we have 2 lifes 1 you are living and other when you realize that you only got 1 .........And if everyone needed to be same like each other why would there be so many........ PLEASE LOVE YOURSELF 💜❤
FINALLY
A video that actually describes the best of the girls. I strongly agree with those messages.
Even tho i am a boy, I just wanna say that there is no gender better than other. Girls and boys need to stay at the same level. The girls should have the same rights as boys.
#girlabove
FINALLY a boy who thinks that way
I have to admit, I used to judge girls, I’m getting better, I never meant anything I said about them, I just put my insecurities on others, as a girl, this truly hurts our confidence, if a girl wears something out, she’s not looking for attention, she just feels happy wearing it, and we shouldn’t point it out, there is no such thing as skinny or fat, there’s only such thing as beautiful, stick together ladies, we’ll get through this, and finally be our true selves 💛💛
This literally made me cry. I have no self confidence, and this just made me believe in myself. Not to listen to what people tell me, dont listen to people that tell me I'm not good enough or I need to change. Thank you love♥️
This is amazing. Very inspiring. Stay true to yourself everyone and stop caring what other people think. You may think that everyone's judging you but in reality there not.❤️
yeah I love the message but eAsiEr sAiD thAn dOnE
Exactly
they can't change you, you have to change your own mind :)
That's fax
Its 12 47 just ignore everything I say I won't remember anything after a few days and its frickin cold winter yayyyyy not so fun when you dont have a heater thats a good one im blushing a little cause of how embarrassing this will be to find what ive commented youtube real life shit wattpad jokes i forgot i wrote and someone comments that that was funny and i laugh at what i said cause i forgot that i had commented anything my phones dying nooooooo
facts
I loved this message, it was so beautiful and true!!! Girls and woman, do not judge yourself or others, you are perfect just the way you are. Share this video!!!
What every boy and girl needs in this world is Love and Respect. And this can only be possible if we stop judging others. The society is mostly filled with people who make us feel insecure but we should have the Right Understanding about the reality.
This got me crying 😭😭😭 jesus bless all women
This is phenomenal..... 😍I started to cry because the message you'all sent was heatlrt touching n true 💝....
Everyone is a piece of art.
All unique in their own ways,
All beautiful in their own ways.
Some people may think they are beautiful,
Some may not.
But those opinions do not define your worth.
All art is beautiful and unique and special.
*y’all gorgeous😘*