This shit hits different 😭 ex ended up getting pregnant during covid decided she wanted to keep the kid when i wasnt sure we were ready, has the kid then realizes she isnt ready so she drops custody to me and now im a full time single dad whos having a great life with his son who i wouldnt trade for the world, meanwhile the ex is broke, doesnt drive, and doesn't wanna see her own kid smh 😂 crazy world we live in
@whendaybreaks8836 yeah but people are idiots and reckless and if you ever even gently suggest they should plan ahead, be responsible and accountable they EXPLODE feeling attacked at the 'criticism'.
@@kevin4680Abstinence ain’t always easy. Locking yourself in a dungeon until someone gives you a wife is about the only way to practice abstinence nowadays
@ then don’t rush the relationship. You should go on many MANY dates before you have sex, if you don’t just wait til marriage but so many people both men and women just wanna rush into the hot stuff. Commitment is a two-way street
Just like cheating , if you no longer have feelings for your parter leave and go with somebody else right? Nah mfs like to have two people at the same time shit is weird
@@endlesshaze5647that's fine women has the right to decide on abortion man has the right to decide if he wants to be in the babies life regardless. Fair is fair.
Became a father at 14 with a girl 3 years older. I begged her not to keep it, she did anyway. I tried everything I could to be in the baby’s life after she was born. After a year the mother got together with one of my closest friends and left the country. Haven’t seen my daughter since… this video hit hard
Gotta keep it a tho wow with u, did u get a blood test on the baby? If she was messin with your friend it could be his and if shes that skankish she coulda been hitting a few different dudes...she might of disappeared because she knew it wasnt even yous, u never know with some of these skanks.
My friend... I'm sorry to say this, but you got groomed. She might be 'only' 3 years older than you -- but a 17 year old is at an entirely different stage in life than a 14 year old. In many states in the US, that would be considered statutory rape. That was unfair to you, you were still a kid yourself.
@@abnormalee93It's recommended to have it as young as possible. Having a baby at 40 is asking for a kid with downs, and asking for complications and a bad life for the kids
@@galaxyjfoster4554It would be an easy fix. They already have cards that they force you to only spend it on certain items. Just apply that to child support and problem solved
Like when Blake Griffin had to pay 250k per child to his baby mama. Dude, i may have went from 0-18 and only had around 300k if that even invested in me. 250k a month is crazy 😂
Okay, here's my opinion : If the man used a condom, the woman gets pregnant anyway, and she chooses to keep the child but he doesn't want it, then he's not responsible for it, financially or emotionally. If a man sleeps with a woman and asks her if she's on birth control, and she says yes regardless of whether she is or not, and she gets pregnant anyway, and keeps it, again, same solution. If she isn't and she lied intentionally, that is vile and manipulative. If neither of them used protection, and both of them agreed to have unprotected, consensual sex, both knowing that there was a possibility for the woman to get pregnant, THEN whether the woman keeps or doesn't keep the child is ENTIRELY HER DECISION AND THE MAN SHOULD SUPPORT IT. You decided to have unprotected sex, you can't force her to keep the child OR get an abortion, both of them are physically taxing on a woman's body. Key word though : consensual. If you are underage and she is of legal age, if you were coered or manipulated into it, if you were raped, assaulted, if 'consent' was dubious at best, then it is not your responsibility and you should report it to the authorities ideally. Stay safe everyone and take care of yourselves, incredily sorry to all the men who have to deal with enotional manipulation from disgusting women like this.
Never mind the fact that men can still get suckered into paying child support even if the baby isn’t theirs. Ask those “fathers” if they ever get their money back afterwards 😓
Yep. You gotta literally track The real dad down, sue him. And THEN MAYBE they’ll drop the support order. You ain’t getting none of that money back tho
@@NinniNkip777 A woman doesn’t have to worry since she can abort it. Men, however, can’t control someone else’s body so YOU need to be careful where you put your seeds
yeah most dudes dont have the motivation to actively participate anyway considering how its considered a virtue to beat down on them for being male whenever possible
@princeproductions8599 yall won't say anything or do anything about it. You women like the double standards that benefit yall. Just like with family courts and child custody. And don't get me started on how women can lie about rape and face no punishment. Women agree with the horrible treatment of men which is why they stay silent.
How about we all have some accountability and start caring for the child that was created instead of being selfish and only caring about what we want. Or better yet, be responsible in the first place, and don't do the action that potentially creates the child if you're not willing to care for it. Regardless if you're a man or a woman.
@AYTM1200 I'm directing it at both, not one or the other, because both men and women do this. Maybe there are more women who do it than men, I don't know, but as someone whose father did not take responsibility for his four children, I can say with certainty that men do it too. Let's not play the blame game or argue about who's worse. The point is that everyone needs to be responsible, regardless of gender. This battle of the sexes isn't getting us anywhere.
@@AYTM1200 🎯 most of them have been manipulated to think abortion is an option but never deep dive to see is true nature I bet mostly women who got an abortion didn’t know that their facility got a quota of how many baby’s they pull out to send them to university to get experience on the abortion company see more value than the woman themselves not the best but you get it
I think I woman should be able to choose if she wants an abortion or to keep the baby- but if she keeps it and it’s clear the guy doesn’t want it then he should NOT be responsible financially or emotionally
Or how about this? Before a man have unprotected sex, it’s his responsibility to trust the woman beforehand that she really will abort it. The law about both parents having to pay is for the child’s sake after all
@@quillclock Griffy had his misses, but it was his own opinion within his comedy. Mans bounces around a lot on topics lol I can't expect him to be as consistent/steady as Dave Chapelle with social stances/etc in his comedy. So it is what it is 🤷🏽♂
@@kilisloe3474 I'm just saying that there is a lot more nuance to the situation that makes it more complicated than what is shown in the video. Most of his newer content in general is geared towards a specific target audience (redpill, edgy humor for teenagers). People claim that Griffy makes fun of everyone, but that isn't really the case. For example, he cradles the views of people who identify as "redpill" with silk gloves because that's where the money is for him.
Dang. Truth be hurting sometimes. Although it's not just child support. The entire family court system is against you and the only one over them judges is the governor of the state....
2:38 the way he slows down his speaking like he trying to be as clear as and possible trip over his words to explain the ridiculousness adds to the video in a way i just can't describe.........Griffy's good like that.
he's literally just ridiculing women. you should discuss both situations BEFORE the fucking sex, i say this as a long time subscriber of his, use a braincell or two and criticize him
Yes! Y’all be handing out money to anyone as long as she takes her clothes off or you feel like she will if you send it so it’s a win win for women and lose lose for men lol
That should be a thing where, in exchange for choice, men should be able to opt out of child support only before birth and not live with the spouse anymore and nulled permanently if he decides to be a part of the child's life.
You can’t force someone else to give birth so it’s men’s responsibility to have unprotected sex with someone you trust. Talk and get to know someone beforehand. The law about both parents having to pay is there to protect the child
"The law about both parents having to pay..." WRONG, only the father is forced to pay, if the father gets custody then the mother is rarely if ever forced to pay child support, and when they're given the order to, it's never properly enforced like how it is for fathers
A few weeks, over a month-- really, the fact that they even developed a heart at all and will become a newborn absent a tragedy like being spawncamped by their own mother is proof enough they're a living human being. Nobody needs to appeal to their heartbeat unless that heartbeat stopped.
My favorite part about Griffy’s comedy is the fact every line of the jokes are so diabolically hilariously executed and yet the whole scenario is actually realistic to how it works irl 😂
i know it’s probably just a joke but i feel a lot of people are gonna think it’s serious (especially with how the comments look🙃) either way i don’t think a lot of people realise how difficult having a baby is and how easy it is for a man to walk away vs for a woman to do so. i feel the second case is more difficult to talk about since it’s not as common though
@ having to raise a child alone for 18 years is also difficult. if the man really did not want the child and the woman insisted, then yeah it isn’t fair for him. but i think we should also consider that abortion isn’t a viable option for a lot of women and i think paying money isn’t as much work as raising a child alone (and still having to work and pay her part)
@ Yeah, well women go through that too. Imagine that. They went through months of pregnancy, hours of child birth, now they’re raising that child on their own, *taking accountability*… and men are complaining about having to do the bare minimum, which is provide financial support. A dead beat mom has done more for a child than a dead beat dad has. Let’s be real…
@@ashantitjt2547so then you just made the case that it is unfair for a woman to terminate the life of a child in utero if the father does want the child and doesn’t care if she supports it or not. As the temporary physical labor being the bare minimum for a pregnancy to go to term. 😂
@@ashantitjt2547 But the woman _chose_ to keep it... Like even if she couldn't do an abortion, she could still give it up for adoption and not raise the child. The man has no such say in the decision and it's pretty fucked that the woman can drag him into her decision against his will.
its situations like this is what makes me feel like theyre should be willingly signed papers to impose responsibly of a child on a person biological or not. Not just giving women all the power to force fatherhood on someone.
If you don’t sign the birth certificate you don’t have to take care of it but if you sign it even if you aren’t the dad you have to take care of it but if
@ exactly like a contract but given from the moment the women finds out she’s pregnant so she’s given the option to still have an abortion if she feels like the dad isn’t serious, so they can both have an option but once the agreement is settled you can’t go back on it easily.
Men want to have it, women most affected. Basically i am saying women will fight to the death to maintain this power and we should do everything we can to equalize it by holding them accountable for all their actions.
What I appreciate about you is how you express your views through stories that don’t just wine. You set up the characters, you explain the situation clearly, and you make it very apparent of the issue. If you had made just another channel to whine and complain for 10 minutes straight, you wouldn’t be where you are today. Thank you for what you’ve done and will do.
Isn’t it crazy how a woman can decide to terminate a pregnancy if she doesn’t want the baby but if a man doesn’t want the baby & she still has it, he owes 18 years of child support….?
If a guy dosnt want a child they can just... not make it? If you truly really did not want a child just make sure to always use protection, and if some bs like a woman poking holes occurs, clearly that's a sign that you laid with some crazy person and I'm sure the court will side with you
@@awatcher4965The argument isn’t really that men should be allowed to be deadbeats, but that women should not be allowed to unilaterally decide on an abortion. Both parents should be legally forced to have and be responsible for the child they made, for 18 years, or neither should be.
The fact that A man can say he doesn't want the kid & A woman wants to put him on child support having the kid anyways & you have no say at all is crazy
I’m 18, a virgin, and have never been on a date. I have anger issues, and I don’t mean yell a lot, I mean throwing shit and needing to punch something if I get pissed enough. I’m still living at home, and every time I see a video like this, a judge Judy case like this, a video on how no cop believes a woman can abuse a man, I feel genuine fear and my brain just says “losing my virginity isn’t worth this, raising a family isn’t worth this”.
This is far from being the only double standard that men get, there are yet way worse situations that has double standards on double standards that keep piling up on each other to create living hell for men, it's interesting to think about from a philosophical pov, but no one's ever actually gonna give a shlt about any of this since it's a "man's problem"
What this woman 🙋♀️ with sense thinks about that double standard. I've said things like that for years and got a lot of negative reaction from other women. I have four brothers, so I think about things that could affect them negatively.
Always have this conversation before you do anything that can make a kid. I think it’s ok to be pro life or pro choice but in case something happens ask what would happen before you even do anything to make a kid yo
The double standard is awful. The solution... always have the child and take on the responsibility for your actions. No one is ready to be a parent. It is extremely hard, but it is also extremely rewarding, and if you both put in the effort, it is truly something that changes your life for the better.
I actually appreciate women who admit they don’t want a baby because not enough income, they still want to party, or etc. If they’re not ready, they’re not ready!
Hmmm... interesting. It seems we are all running away from having a responsibility that is caused by us, yet, we don't commit s---cide because life is a big whole responsibility... very interesting. Must be our selfishness that wants an easy way out so we can have an easy life or rather pleasurable life for a certain amount of time. How great it is to be a person who runs on fear, selfishness and/or greed. Tsk tsk tsk.
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773 I'd say its the womans fault for taking that action, yeah you could say its the mans fault for not being discerning, but its time to start holding women accountable for every action they take, they are equal after all.
I genuinely believe a woman gives a man the right to tell her when and where to create one, the moment they BOTH decide to have consensual intercourse. If it takes two people to make a child, then one isn't entitled to an opinion over the other, and if one IS entitled then they have no right to force the other to make a decision about THEIR life. "It's a woman's body, so it's her choice to have the child". All well and good, but why decide to have the child on your own, then FORCE the man to pay you for having it? Is it not also his time, money, mental and emotional input?
@@blackban4689Because men and women aren't equal, therefore their opportunities to make good and/or bad decisions aren't either. Also, the government doesn't want to pay for your kid---this is especially important when you consider the fact a man can typically create more children in a single year than a woman.
I don’t think men shouldn’t be forced to pay. But if you as a man risk to have unprotected sex and then opt out? You’re horrible. Don’t have unprotected sex if you’re not ready and TALK to your partner so you are in the same page!
Solution: Have a form prior to the sexy time to be filled, indicating either party's interest in having a child because of the impending sexy time. If they go against their agreement, they be sued.
Adult fun comes with adult responsibilities. If you’re not ready for the responsibility, you don’t get to have the fun. Easy way to avoid this happening to my fellow gentlemen out there is wrap up or avoid getting into a relationship with a woman who doesn’t match your goals. Good luck out there
Just seen a post on Faebook of a young single mom who had an abortion and first thing she did was post smiling selfies asking for advice on still finding a way to trap the deadbeat to pay for her apartment. Like ?????
In my country there was in 2013 a national vote (meaning everyone can vote on the law on a poll like a national election) to abolish the mandatory military service for men. It was declind with 73.2% of voters saying no. Unsurprisingly most of the no voter were women. In 2024. There was a national vote of reforming the pension system. One of the changes would be to increase the pension age of women from 64 to 65. On the same age than man. The reform was barely accepted. By 50.22% saying yes. Now you can imagine of how the feminist organistations reacted. From "this is an attack against women" to "why are men allowed to vote on laws that only affect women?" And this all came from women. Which 10 years ago voted to keep sending men and ONLY men to the army. So there we have it. Women have no problem to send men for 1-2 years into military service. And use them as human shield to protect themself in war. While they don't even want to have the same Pension age than man do. Even if it means to only work a single year longer. While they live 5 years longer than average than men do.
Imma show this to my sons. One's gay so I ain't too worried but him getting railed by crippling financial burdens while some hoe goes n party on his dime. Other one, though. He gottah learn to be careful. Some of these crazy b1tches'll ruin a mans life over a perceived slight. They eff'd, man. ~a random canadian subscriber dude
This made me laugh, but on a serious note, of course it isn't fair. Not everything in life can be. Mother Nature should've gifted men as well with 9 months of pregnancy, nausea, childbirth, afterbirth pains, and permanent undesirable changes to their body. Then we can talk about fairness!
My dude didn’t feel like breaking out the wigs for this one.
He just threw some draws on his head like lol
I wonder if he threw on the drawls on and then thought of this idea or the drawls came on after the idea
It’s a bonnet
It’s a hood burka.
@@Poe-007 No it’s not 😂
I love how when Griffy has to play a woman in his skits, his wig changes, from an actual wig, a shirt and now boxers.
He has wigs but a dirty boxer is better lol
I'm an old fan bro, he's used boxers before😅
He switches between all 3 😂
im going home
😊
This shit hits different 😭 ex ended up getting pregnant during covid decided she wanted to keep the kid when i wasnt sure we were ready, has the kid then realizes she isnt ready so she drops custody to me and now im a full time single dad whos having a great life with his son who i wouldnt trade for the world, meanwhile the ex is broke, doesnt drive, and doesn't wanna see her own kid smh 😂 crazy world we live in
I am glad the child is doing well.
Looks like a win-win in the end!
Blessing in disguise ❤
Kudos to you sir.
You won my man....in absolutely every sense of the word.
If there ever a time to say "Griffy may not be pregnant but he always delivers"....
Fucking UNDERRATED comment of 2025
I mean, we off to a bangin' start X'D
~a random canadian subscriber dude
🤡
@@mukkah🤡
I’m crying 😂
@@trashboat115 yes, you are indeed a clown. I’m glad you know this.
"We taking shots out of baby bottles" was so foul 😂
So fucked up 😂
She my type tho
I've seen it. Celebrating over abortions... crazy
Hard R activity for sure😂
Get help@@jwatwater
Having a baby should be a conversation wayyy before living together, getting married, or dare I say, having unprotected sex 😭
"Dare I say" I feel like its common sense when dealing with stuff like this to tread carefully and take it extremely seriously.
Crazy thing is it still can change once it happens and shii get real.
NOOOO PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY NOT THAT
It should be but a lot still don't want to bc they feel like it's controlling what they do and most are defensive@@whendaybreaks8836
@whendaybreaks8836 yeah but people are idiots and reckless and if you ever even gently suggest they should plan ahead, be responsible and accountable they EXPLODE feeling attacked at the 'criticism'.
Best birth control commercial I ever seen.
All condoms are for his pleasure no matter what the box says
Birth control fails
Abstinence is better than cure?
@@kevin4680true, but nobody's doing that... So we gonna need a more feasible strategy...
@@kevin4680Abstinence ain’t always easy. Locking yourself in a dungeon until someone gives you a wife is about the only way to practice abstinence nowadays
“I…….want a father, as well. Just something me and the baby wont have.” I was like”AAAYYYEEEEOOOOOOO😭”
“Nobody cares what men waant, who cares, men are NOT ppl”😭😭😭
Same 🤣😂🤣 I was like "Oh shit!!"
Holy shiiii 😂😂😂😂
Same 🤣🤣🤣
It's 2025 fellas. We gotta stop using the unga bunga brain for some quick snoo snoo. May the upper head guide us, brothers.
May the upper head guide us😤
Wait a sec did you just make a futurerama reference. You are a goat.
This comment section is the best😂
this entire skit is avoided with a condom, u can still have ur snoo snoo dw boys
Here's hoping you all succeed! 🍻
0:09 Calling uterus a gas chamber is wild 😭
@firstname697i thought he said juice
Better not be a juice
Literally 10 seconds into the video 😂
Wild! 😂
That's why it's called a baby shower .
Be careful who you're laying with gentlemen
Fr
I shit you not, i deleted the number of my crazy but hot ex BEFORE EVEN FINISHING THE VIDEO.
Too bad you don't see this shit until it's too late. You could be with someone you thought you knew.
@ then don’t rush the relationship. You should go on many MANY dates before you have sex, if you don’t just wait til marriage but so many people both men and women just wanna rush into the hot stuff. Commitment is a two-way street
@@VolrathMTG You're telling me...🙄😒
If you want a child and your partner does not want one, choose a different partner how is this a complex topic for so many people
Money
Just like cheating , if you no longer have feelings for your parter leave and go with somebody else right? Nah mfs like to have two people at the same time shit is weird
What a loser , I totally disagree with this. Get a job
People like to have their cake and eat it too. It’s the root of all problems facing men and women.
Cuz people want to smash
This video would start a war in the tik tok comment section lol
This video would just get removed all together tbh
They are clearly fighting about the wrong things
@@paulinelmnl real talkkkk
Instagram too
@ true
Im scared to start the video
That’s the correct response wanted 😂
*I’m
U scared of the truth
I'm scared to reply
We all took the fucking risk
Yeah, if you haven't had the baby convo before, AND you're having unprotected patty cake, both parties are responsible.
keep believing that
Yeah but only woman carrying the baby
@@endlesshaze5647that's fine women has the right to decide on abortion man has the right to decide if he wants to be in the babies life regardless. Fair is fair.
Became a father at 14 with a girl 3 years older. I begged her not to keep it, she did anyway. I tried everything I could to be in the baby’s life after she was born. After a year the mother got together with one of my closest friends and left the country. Haven’t seen my daughter since… this video hit hard
That girl did not care about you. But I hope you meet your daughter
So basically, you got raped and the pedo is getting to live a good life?
Gotta keep it a tho wow with u, did u get a blood test on the baby? If she was messin with your friend it could be his and if shes that skankish she coulda been hitting a few different dudes...she might of disappeared because she knew it wasnt even yous, u never know with some of these skanks.
My friend... I'm sorry to say this, but you got groomed. She might be 'only' 3 years older than you -- but a 17 year old is at an entirely different stage in life than a 14 year old. In many states in the US, that would be considered statutory rape. That was unfair to you, you were still a kid yourself.
I dont think that girl will have a good upbringing
How do you start out of pocket and then ESCALATE
LOL
Yes that the Griffy formula 😂😂
Griffy always did that. He was never IN pocket.
That’s griffy man 😂
First time here??
Moral of the story: Everyone should be able to decide they aren't ready.
As a man, if you don’t want kids… that’s something you should think about before trying to pressure a woman into having an abortion.
@@ashantitjt2547 dawg when did I say anything about making a woman get the abortion
@@ashantitjt2547as a women, if you don’t want kids you shouldn’t be easy to pressure.
As a baby you shouldn't have sex if you don't want a child , u won't die go have fun in other ways
@@xkf_alilxkf5381 As someone with sense, you shouldn’t be pressuring anyone into doing anything with their bodies they don’t want to do.
" im 37, im still young on my prime " diabolical 😅
Too old to have kids
I think 40 is the limit
It's recommended to have the 1st pregnancy by 40 but women can and do have babies after that
@@abnormalee93It's recommended to have it as young as possible. Having a baby at 40 is asking for a kid with downs, and asking for complications and a bad life for the kids
@@abnormalee93yeah usually witu more complications
The worst part is some mothers get the child support, and spend it on everything except the child.
Yeah I hate shit like that and needs to be looked into.
@@galaxyjfoster4554and if you don’t pay, you get locked up, smh if men dominate government why tf haven’t we changed that
No lies
@@galaxyjfoster4554It would be an easy fix. They already have cards that they force you to only spend it on certain items. Just apply that to child support and problem solved
Like when Blake Griffin had to pay 250k per child to his baby mama. Dude, i may have went from 0-18 and only had around 300k if that even invested in me. 250k a month is crazy 😂
As a black woman, this hits hard because no matter how hard you try to explain this stupidity and hypocrisy they just don't get it...
Why would they care to change if it gives them power. It's how you differentiate between good and evil people.
Yeah, it's almost like women are selfish narcissists only care about what benefits them
@@captainobvious8037 nah, putting the shopping cart back is how you tell
Even with example and evidence that they still do t get it. They are blind.
Its more evil than stupid. They know it's wrong but they lie to themselves to justify it because it gives them "power"
This wasn’t a skit - it was a goddamn reenactment 😂
you're not joking
Bro is definitely paying child support as we speak 😭
You ain't neva lie!
Salute
Okay, here's my opinion :
If the man used a condom, the woman gets pregnant anyway, and she chooses to keep the child but he doesn't want it, then he's not responsible for it, financially or emotionally. If a man sleeps with a woman and asks her if she's on birth control, and she says yes regardless of whether she is or not, and she gets pregnant anyway, and keeps it, again, same solution. If she isn't and she lied intentionally, that is vile and manipulative. If neither of them used protection, and both of them agreed to have unprotected, consensual sex, both knowing that there was a possibility for the woman to get pregnant, THEN whether the woman keeps or doesn't keep the child is ENTIRELY HER DECISION AND THE MAN SHOULD SUPPORT IT. You decided to have unprotected sex, you can't force her to keep the child OR get an abortion, both of them are physically taxing on a woman's body. Key word though : consensual. If you are underage and she is of legal age, if you were coered or manipulated into it, if you were raped, assaulted, if 'consent' was dubious at best, then it is not your responsibility and you should report it to the authorities ideally.
Stay safe everyone and take care of yourselves, incredily sorry to all the men who have to deal with enotional manipulation from disgusting women like this.
Wait till he finds out its not his but he still has to pay child support.
hahaha. Like the song Gold Digger "18 years, gotchu for 18 years, and on the 18th birthday he found out it wasnt his"
that is the hardest truth to learn
Never mind the fact that men can still get suckered into paying child support even if the baby isn’t theirs. Ask those “fathers” if they ever get their money back afterwards 😓
Where a condom, simple
Yep. You gotta literally track The real dad down, sue him. And THEN MAYBE they’ll drop the support order. You ain’t getting none of that money back tho
The injustice system is incentivized to put men on child support because they get a percentage of the $ from EVERY payment
@@NobodyHasToAgreeAllTheTimeactually wild that it works that way
She took EVERYTHING!!!! 😫
If u as a dude ain't ready to be a dad why u hittin' it raw?
tru but the point is that shit's supposed to go both ways, yet it doesn't
@@NinniNkip777 A woman doesn’t have to worry since she can abort it. Men, however, can’t control someone else’s body so YOU need to be careful where you put your seeds
What if the condom breaks and up having someone like you situation
@mhmmhm5995🎯🎯
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The fact that this is absolutely on point is why society is a train wreck.
yeah most dudes dont have the motivation to actively participate anyway considering how its considered a virtue to beat down on them for being male whenever possible
As a woman, the double standards are INSANE💀
You don't know what a double standard is
Facts
@princeproductions8599 yall won't say anything or do anything about it. You women like the double standards that benefit yall. Just like with family courts and child custody. And don't get me started on how women can lie about rape and face no punishment. Women agree with the horrible treatment of men which is why they stay silent.
And this is why women have been suppressed by men in the past. Yall are just to complicated for your own good
As a woman, I agree 🥲
Y’all got it all wrong. He isn’t using the boxers as a wig. He’s using it as a bonnet.
The first line was Alr wild
😂it was downhill from there
"I'm 37....I'm in my prime" 😂 too real
"Accountability?! Not I!" 😂 fucking dead
Society is chill like that 😂😂
How about we all have some accountability and start caring for the child that was created instead of being selfish and only caring about what we want. Or better yet, be responsible in the first place, and don't do the action that potentially creates the child if you're not willing to care for it. Regardless if you're a man or a woman.
🎯 w comment
It's not men who you need to tell this to, they're already taking accountability.
It's your fellow women this should be directed towards.
@AYTM1200 I'm directing it at both, not one or the other, because both men and women do this. Maybe there are more women who do it than men, I don't know, but as someone whose father did not take responsibility for his four children, I can say with certainty that men do it too. Let's not play the blame game or argue about who's worse. The point is that everyone needs to be responsible, regardless of gender. This battle of the sexes isn't getting us anywhere.
@@AYTM1200 🎯 most of them have been manipulated to think abortion is an option but never deep dive to see is true nature I bet mostly women who got an abortion didn’t know that their facility got a quota of how many baby’s they pull out to send them to university to get experience on the abortion company see more value than the woman themselves not the best but you get it
The problem is people want casual sex and there is nothing casual about sex.
You know, I never once considered how messed up this actually is.
You never considered that baby sacrifice is messed up?
You never realized how much power women have in those scenarios?
@@sukumuieywang8058 I'm talking about how it's perceived when a guy turns down having a baby after having one.
@@captainobvious8037 sometimes, all it takes is for someone to walk you through something that in hindsight should have been obvious.
You never noticed u were always canon fodder since the day u were born male?
No lies detected
I think I woman should be able to choose if she wants an abortion or to keep the baby- but if she keeps it and it’s clear the guy doesn’t want it then he should NOT be responsible financially or emotionally
Finally a sensible comment
Yeah pretty much
Agree. You shouldn’t be forced to be involved BUT!!!!!!! Always talk about pregnancy before having unprotected sex. Always. That’s your responsibility
Or how about this? Before a man have unprotected sex, it’s his responsibility to trust the woman beforehand that she really will abort it. The law about both parents having to pay is for the child’s sake after all
@ precisely
Bruh…why are your videos so on point
because he has no filter.
just saying shit out loud everyone is thinking.
he's the best
@@quillclock Griffy had his misses, but it was his own opinion within his comedy.
Mans bounces around a lot on topics lol
I can't expect him to be as consistent/steady as Dave Chapelle with social stances/etc in his comedy.
So it is what it is 🤷🏽♂
I like Griffy, but he's biased and not perfect. He heavily panders to a redpill audience. This video is a great example of that.
@@AnnaHans88 He's biased because he speaks the truth on heavy topics and does not sugarcoat what he says? This video is one of that obvious truth.
@@kilisloe3474 I'm just saying that there is a lot more nuance to the situation that makes it more complicated than what is shown in the video.
Most of his newer content in general is geared towards a specific target audience (redpill, edgy humor for teenagers). People claim that Griffy makes fun of everyone, but that isn't really the case.
For example, he cradles the views of people who identify as "redpill" with silk gloves because that's where the money is for him.
Dang. Truth be hurting sometimes. Although it's not just child support. The entire family court system is against you and the only one over them judges is the governor of the state....
Yea it needs to be changed since men and women have more of an equal wage now compared to when those laws were created
@xkaiokenx10 it won't be changed you just need to fight for custody
@animeuploader However, if you decided to have an attorney you would pay thousands in fees over a drawn out custody battle.
She can also convince buddy across the street that he is the father just because you know... She feels like it.
New Years toast to all the real Dads out here. I see you King
2:38 the way he slows down his speaking like he trying to be as clear as and possible trip over his words to explain the ridiculousness adds to the video in a way i just can't describe.........Griffy's good like that.
he's literally just ridiculing women. you should discuss both situations BEFORE the fucking sex, i say this as a long time subscriber of his, use a braincell or two and criticize him
Weird how so many people can relate to sleeping around with people they barely know 💀💀
Why is this such a hard concept? If you want baby, do baby-making things. If you *NO WANT* baby, *NO DO* baby-making things! Simple!
you’ve never been near a woman, have you? you’re body shouts over your brain “do it”! when you’re in that situation
Those two couples were so nice for allowing Griffy to record their convo for a parody! :)
Their body, their Choice
Our Wallet, our Choice!!!!
Yes! Y’all be handing out money to anyone as long as she takes her clothes off or you feel like she will if you send it so it’s a win win for women and lose lose for men lol
Actually, the government will take your wallet, basically you should just claim you're not the father hahaha
As a pro choice woman I agree with both those statements. There shouldn't be a legal obligation for men to have to pay for a child they don't want
That should be a thing where, in exchange for choice, men should be able to opt out of child support only before birth and not live with the spouse anymore and nulled permanently if he decides to be a part of the child's life.
Not really😂 The government will stop you from getting an ID, garnish your wages, take your tax refunds, and band you from getting your passport.
You can’t force someone else to give birth so it’s men’s responsibility to have unprotected sex with someone you trust. Talk and get to know someone beforehand. The law about both parents having to pay is there to protect the child
I see a future nursing home resident in you
"The law about both parents having to pay..." WRONG, only the father is forced to pay, if the father gets custody then the mother is rarely if ever forced to pay child support, and when they're given the order to, it's never properly enforced like how it is for fathers
@@hiro_444 do you have a source? anyone who’s familiar with the legal system knows about the huge bias against women, and what you said makes no sense
“This child has developed a heartbeat within a few weeks, to me their free trial to life has already expired.” -The Mother
😂
A heartbeat takes over a month and are you going to carry that baby for 9 damn near 10 months? You won't. Neither party is right but don't do that
A few weeks, over a month-- really, the fact that they even developed a heart at all and will become a newborn absent a tragedy like being spawncamped by their own mother is proof enough they're a living human being. Nobody needs to appeal to their heartbeat unless that heartbeat stopped.
@@beautifulnightmares7655 Say you're a mistake without saying you're a mistake
My favorite part about Griffy’s comedy is the fact every line of the jokes are so diabolically hilariously executed and yet the whole scenario is actually realistic to how it works irl 😂
i know it’s probably just a joke but i feel a lot of people are gonna think it’s serious (especially with how the comments look🙃) either way i don’t think a lot of people realise how difficult having a baby is and how easy it is for a man to walk away vs for a woman to do so. i feel the second case is more difficult to talk about since it’s not as common though
having the money you work for taken from u for 18 yrs would also be difficult.
@ having to raise a child alone for 18 years is also difficult.
if the man really did not want the child and the woman insisted, then yeah it isn’t fair for him. but i think we should also consider that abortion isn’t a viable option for a lot of women and i think paying money isn’t as much work as raising a child alone (and still having to work and pay her part)
@ Yeah, well women go through that too. Imagine that. They went through months of pregnancy, hours of child birth, now they’re raising that child on their own, *taking accountability*… and men are complaining about having to do the bare minimum, which is provide financial support. A dead beat mom has done more for a child than a dead beat dad has. Let’s be real…
@@ashantitjt2547so then you just made the case that it is unfair for a woman to terminate the life of a child in utero if the father does want the child and doesn’t care if she supports it or not. As the temporary physical labor being the bare minimum for a pregnancy to go to term. 😂
@@ashantitjt2547 But the woman _chose_ to keep it... Like even if she couldn't do an abortion, she could still give it up for adoption and not raise the child. The man has no such say in the decision and it's pretty fucked that the woman can drag him into her decision against his will.
1:20 Thought crime detected
Yk sumn. 👀
Absolute facts
George Orwell entered the chat 😂
This man put draws on his head…keep up that dedication Griffy!
its situations like this is what makes me feel like theyre should be willingly signed papers to impose responsibly of a child on a person biological or not. Not just giving women all the power to force fatherhood on someone.
If you don’t sign the birth certificate you don’t have to take care of it but if you sign it even if you aren’t the dad you have to take care of it but if
@ exactly like a contract but given from the moment the women finds out she’s pregnant so she’s given the option to still have an abortion if she feels like the dad isn’t serious, so they can both have an option but once the agreement is settled you can’t go back on it easily.
The conversation no one wants to have sadly...
Men want to have it, women most affected. Basically i am saying women will fight to the death to maintain this power and we should do everything we can to equalize it by holding them accountable for all their actions.
" we taking shots out of baby bottles." That's cold AF😂
What I appreciate about you is how you express your views through stories that don’t just wine. You set up the characters, you explain the situation clearly, and you make it very apparent of the issue. If you had made just another channel to whine and complain for 10 minutes straight, you wouldn’t be where you are today. Thank you for what you’ve done and will do.
Isn’t it crazy how a woman can decide to terminate a pregnancy if she doesn’t want the baby but if a man doesn’t want the baby & she still has it, he owes 18 years of child support….?
So fckd up... i dont understand how thats legal
So messed up... i dont understand how this is legal
If a guy dosnt want a child they can just... not make it? If you truly really did not want a child just make sure to always use protection, and if some bs like a woman poking holes occurs, clearly that's a sign that you laid with some crazy person and I'm sure the court will side with you
The court will not side with you and you will suffer@@awatcher4965
@@awatcher4965The argument isn’t really that men should be allowed to be deadbeats, but that women should not be allowed to unilaterally decide on an abortion. Both parents should be legally forced to have and be responsible for the child they made, for 18 years, or neither should be.
Having a kid before you get married is a legitimate skill issue
Jit comment.
dood getting married is a major failure ! she can destroy you now financially when she leaves, good luck you gonna need ton of luck.
How hard is it to find a wife and wait till you're married to have babies
Some ppl get married and don’t want kids then they end up wanting kids and the other partner still doesn’t.
Yeah, more like stable enough to have a family. Like practice safe sex and discuss abt it bruh its not that hard
Modern females aren't wife material, so it's damn near impossible to find a wife in today's day in age.
Finding a wife is already a difficult task in this day and age
HARD
The fact that A man can say he doesn't want the kid & A woman wants to put him on child support having the kid anyways & you have no say at all is crazy
Then don't make a baby
Sign away your parental rights then.
@@VixxKong2 that's not the point smart@$$
Or this could also be avoided if ppl literally stopped having sex unprotected
@@Teefarr Yes ofc & nobody will deny that fact im just saying tho
Griffy coming into 2025 with some heat. 🔥
Looking forward to him going into the studio with this 🔥🔥
‘I ….. wanted a father as well….’ Getting too real lol 😢
Shots outta baby bottles is absolutely loco
This actually just hurts
how does it affect you?
3:31😂😂😂😂😂im dying
This is such a well made video essay, im going to present this to my class
his women impressions are so accurate it's crazy 😭
I’m 18, a virgin, and have never been on a date. I have anger issues, and I don’t mean yell a lot, I mean throwing shit and needing to punch something if I get pissed enough. I’m still living at home, and every time I see a video like this, a judge Judy case like this, a video on how no cop believes a woman can abuse a man, I feel genuine fear and my brain just says “losing my virginity isn’t worth this, raising a family isn’t worth this”.
"It's an evil world"
Lmao 💀💀💀 1:42
Man i didn’t know you were chill like that👋😏
Paying child support should also be optional 🤷♂️
@1:00 That ain’t right 😂
So all these years I haven’t been crazy for highlighting this POV
No
This is far from being the only double standard that men get, there are yet way worse situations that has double standards on double standards that keep piling up on each other to create living hell for men, it's interesting to think about from a philosophical pov, but no one's ever actually gonna give a shlt about any of this since it's a "man's problem"
2:38 What every man thinks about this double standard.
What this woman 🙋♀️ with sense thinks about that double standard. I've said things like that for years and got a lot of negative reaction from other women.
I have four brothers, so I think about things that could affect them negatively.
Ain’t seen LBG in a minute. Gotta catch back up with the 🐐
I had to do a double check, I thought you was talkin bout gay people 😂
Always have this conversation before you do anything that can make a kid. I think it’s ok to be pro life or pro choice but in case something happens ask what would happen before you even do anything to make a kid yo
The double standard is awful. The solution... always have the child and take on the responsibility for your actions. No one is ready to be a parent. It is extremely hard, but it is also extremely rewarding, and if you both put in the effort, it is truly something that changes your life for the better.
It’s a life if it’s convenient for me. If not it’s a clump of cells. I just love to move the goal post wherever I want it to be at any given moment. 🥰
How many of these girls do you hit raw with or do you have a condom and plan B ready for these encounters?
1:26 "i dont have to take responsibility... for ANYTHING!... EVER!" would b more accurate 😂
I actually appreciate women who admit they don’t want a baby because not enough income, they still want to party, or etc. If they’re not ready, they’re not ready!
Take us back to that old griffy, that cold griffy, that “Tanner and Dalton shootin up kids”, that bold griffy
No for real, I rewatched old videos and felt a little sad.
@@Andrea.P. I swear. It was untouchable then
Griffy’s got a kid now. He has to real himself in.
@@justsomeguy6336 i guess
@@justsomeguy6336 this isn't necessarily reeled in.
He don't miss!!!
"I'm a woman, I don't have to take responsibility for shit!" (FULL STOP)
I had an ex go get an abortion while I was at work then blamed me 6 months later lol
Hmmm... interesting. It seems we are all running away from having a responsibility that is caused by us, yet, we don't commit s---cide because life is a big whole responsibility... very interesting. Must be our selfishness that wants an easy way out so we can have an easy life or rather pleasurable life for a certain amount of time. How great it is to be a person who runs on fear, selfishness and/or greed. Tsk tsk tsk.
Your fault for not getting to know her better before the big bang
@@iamwhoyousayiam6773 I'd say its the womans fault for taking that action, yeah you could say its the mans fault for not being discerning, but its time to start holding women accountable for every action they take, they are equal after all.
@@DaOverman00it takes two to tango
@@bbhjvvbfhvv3357You mean, she should’ve stayed and had a conversation with him? I agree with you on that, good point.
Concentration camps is absolutely insane 😂😂😂
Damn, they'll hate this shit fr.
Potential to be the best video yet
The foolishness is already starting 10 seconds in😂
Nah you heard what 2pac said? “And since a man can't make one
He has no right to tell a woman when and where to create one”
i mean, you need 2 people to make a baby, don't you?
I genuinely believe a woman gives a man the right to tell her when and where to create one, the moment they BOTH decide to have consensual intercourse. If it takes two people to make a child, then one isn't entitled to an opinion over the other, and if one IS entitled then they have no right to force the other to make a decision about THEIR life. "It's a woman's body, so it's her choice to have the child". All well and good, but why decide to have the child on your own, then FORCE the man to pay you for having it? Is it not also his time, money, mental and emotional input?
point is men being held accountable for what happens to the kid while women aren't. Pac would comment on that shit if he were here.
@@blackban4689Because men and women aren't equal, therefore their opportunities to make good and/or bad decisions aren't either. Also, the government doesn't want to pay for your kid---this is especially important when you consider the fact a man can typically create more children in a single year than a woman.
I don’t think men shouldn’t be forced to pay. But if you as a man risk to have unprotected sex and then opt out? You’re horrible. Don’t have unprotected sex if you’re not ready and TALK to your partner so you are in the same page!
I bet Griffey being petty, trying to prove a point to a third-party 😂
It's like the primary sentiment around this topic is that line Jennifer Aniston said in Friends, "No uterus, no opinion."
"No uterus, no opinion."
Sounds transphobic /s
no sperm no opinion, also you did not had dad in you life but dont seek revenge on men cause of this
Moral of the story…. Don’t be hooking up if you don’t want to be a parent
My X-Wife owes me $10k child support
She gone in the wind
Solution: Have a form prior to the sexy time to be filled, indicating either party's interest in having a child because of the impending sexy time. If they go against their agreement, they be sued.
Lol bro holding women accountable? Hahaha
Prenups get thrown out of court all the time. Its literally just toilet paper. Worthless, less than worthless.
Not a solution. No matter what agreements you’re still fucked for the “best interests of the child” your agreement will be thrown out
@@Rex_1984bingo.
The judge will just dismiss it.
Adult fun comes with adult responsibilities. If you’re not ready for the responsibility, you don’t get to have the fun. Easy way to avoid this happening to my fellow gentlemen out there is wrap up or avoid getting into a relationship with a woman who doesn’t match your goals. Good luck out there
Just seen a post on Faebook of a young single mom who had an abortion and first thing she did was post smiling selfies asking for advice on still finding a way to trap the deadbeat to pay for her apartment. Like ?????
Say you're a mistake without saying you're a mistake
3:12 "youuu" got me..
In my country there was in 2013 a national vote (meaning everyone can vote on the law on a poll like a national election) to abolish the mandatory military service for men.
It was declind with 73.2% of voters saying no. Unsurprisingly most of the no voter were women.
In 2024. There was a national vote of reforming the pension system. One of the changes would be to increase the pension age of women from 64 to 65. On the same age than man.
The reform was barely accepted. By 50.22% saying yes. Now you can imagine of how the feminist organistations reacted. From "this is an attack against women" to "why are men allowed to vote on laws that only affect women?"
And this all came from women. Which 10 years ago voted to keep sending men and ONLY men to the army.
So there we have it. Women have no problem to send men for 1-2 years into military service. And use them as human shield to protect themself in war.
While they don't even want to have the same Pension age than man do. Even if it means to only work a single year longer. While they live 5 years longer than average than men do.
This is the perfect video to introduce my dad to your content with 😂😂 he'll definitely get a kick out of this
Imma show this to my sons. One's gay so I ain't too worried but him getting railed by crippling financial burdens while some hoe goes n party on his dime. Other one, though. He gottah learn to be careful. Some of these crazy b1tches'll ruin a mans life over a perceived slight. They eff'd, man.
~a random canadian subscriber dude
This made me laugh, but on a serious note, of course it isn't fair. Not everything in life can be. Mother Nature should've gifted men as well with 9 months of pregnancy, nausea, childbirth, afterbirth pains, and permanent undesirable changes to their body. Then we can talk about fairness!
“I wanted a father too”
Well that already explains alot
First video of the year and it's already wild af