Same here my mom is missing out on my life, hurts alot but i cant keep letting her hurt me, my self esteem was torn down bc she wanted me to look like a boy watching jeannie and mama mai helps me feel better
Daniel is a therapeutic communicator... he starts off relatable like a virus and boom serves you hard core truth ... it's way to go. Enquires, compliments then criticism... it's cool💕
@@dannyboy900102 cos real virus mimic natural defensive cells of the body at penetration and eventually invade the colonies and probably win or ur immunity suppress it or u bounce back as a healthy carrier depending on the kind of virus.
@@elizamonay6178 definitely the reason for me. You can tell someone something and they dont get offended but someone else could say the same thing but in a rude condescending way so they dont take it well. It's not what you say with parents or elders, its HOW you say it
Hello Hunnay with Jeannie Mai whenever your just like someone your bound to butt heads but at the same time have such a real relationship once your older.
Yeah but also Jeannie said she was working three jobs at the same time in high school so she could've been dealing with the stress of that different to others.
Don’t you think TH-cam may be the better route though? No fake story lines, others controlling to make more money, ads and on and on and on... they are the most entertaining around, but I feel like we could lose the authenticity with outside company involved?
@@MsPrettyPrettyPlease Yes, you make a good point. They would get more exposure if they were on TV, though, because not everyone goes on TH-cam. But I agree with you.
I feel like Jeannie still carries some unresolved feelings toward her mom due to their rocky past which is why she has a hard time communicating with her without coming off as aggressive. Her mom saying she has a favorite doesn't help either. I think Mama mai just says that Daniel is her favorite as a defense mechanism and a way to let Jeannie know how she wished they could communicate. Or....I could be completely wrong...nevertheless, wish nothing but the best for this beautiful family...
She already addressed the fact that she used to be aggressive with her mum cause she hadn't forgiven her yet on the real and that she has let it go, quite a while ago actually
@@Ebunoluwa13 I remember that episode very well. However, in my personal opinion sometimes you forgive but it takes time to mend those wounds and learn how to communicate differently with someone that hurt you. They are a lovely family and every time I watch an episode with them I see growth and I'm so glad they share with us their journey.
dimple pascua dooooo it! Lmfao I’m 42yrs old! I do this w/my mother. Works!!! Some times we have to remember that our elders are pretty set in their ways. I did her way then I switched liked the brother lol
I think not just defensive people benefit but people who like the idea of independence and control. They would like getting to reach the conclusion themselves or feeling like they have the chance to work things out for themselves versus being confronted or told what to do
I’m sorry but I like his style. Not “mind playing” just reading the person and how their communicative style is. He’s sweet to her definitely a mamas boy 🙂
Here’s why Jeannie and her mom argue: they are basically the same person. Both are blunt. Both are type-a. Both are assertive. Women especially don’t like other strong assertive women,
@@senorgato70 No There Is Many Strong Assertive Women Who Love Seeing/Knowing That There Are Other Women Out There That Are Just As Strong & Assertive As Them... That Doesn't Make You A Lesbian For Loving/Being Accepting Of Other Strong Women.
I agree coz mum and I are like this. I am mum's mini version. My young sis is her favorite coz they are total opposite. Mum and are literally best friends but worst enemies its crazy
imma be honest, I felt bad for Jeannie. It sounds pretty sad that your family does not congratulate you and bluntly tells you they love your sibling more even after all she has been through. Damn sis it hit me in the feelings.
Jeannie, I don't know if you're going to read this but here's the thing, this is very simple. This is not a situation of going straight to the point. This is a situation of being confrontational. Nobody likes to feel stupid or feel like they are being talked down on even if they are completely in the wrong. What your brother did was align himself with how y'alls mom was feeling so she did not feel pressured or bullied. So when she was able to be receptive to what he had to say she was able to think logically on the subject. That right there is the first chapter in How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. read that book
That's the exact same thing I say to my kids. The hate it my daughter goes I'm your only daughter so that doesn't count and my sons follow. But they get no other response from me then that. I actually have no favorite out of them but I have my favorite thing about each of them.
Omg Jeannie I can definitely relate to you! I was my dad’s Favorite, he did express how proud he was of me. My mom on the other hand is similar to mama mai, she does not express how she is proud of me. I graduated college with a bachelors in Biology, I recently just opened my own business as Life coach, I am dating an amazing Christian man, my mom does not seem impress. She is so happy for my sister and definitely approves her relationship and list goes on. Jeannie I feel you! Keep being you, you bring a lot of Joy and blessing to your family, especially with Hello Hunnay show, expressing emotions from childhood, it’s very healing, congratulations on all your success love!
Im with Daniel 👌🏽I think that encouraging someone to realise their own faults is a good way to go especially if that persons already upset and isn't in the mind state to hear anyone else's opinion. When you are upset sometimes you can be defensive so when someone yells at you or comes at you more aggressively it makes you wanna be even more defensive instead of calmly coming towards a resolution. Idk some people are fine with being direct but others need the hypnotize🤣Your being honest while still taking the persons feelings and the situation into consideration
yes so true! condemning someone for their bad action instead of talking it through with them and helping them feel comfortable admitting a mistake. like of course they'll be on the defensive if that's how you're approaching!
@@ramonabrunswick1259 sometimes, especially with difficult people, it's advantageous to try and appeal to someone so that you can get your point across. When you want someone to acknowledge their mistake, it's better to make someone feel less bad about the situation so that they accept their mistake and resolve it.
When Jeannie was talking about how she feels that her brother easily makes their parents proud while she doesn’t, and how she thinks it’s the ultimate form of happiness Mama Mai comes running in to tell her that jeannie makes her happy always. A mother loves all her children, no matter if she’s loud about it or not. Even if mama mai and Jeannie clash so much (they’re pretty much the same personality, of course they would fight lol) mama mai definitely feels proud of her. For sure. And she loves her deeply. In the end, she is her precious daughter. Not to mention her firstborn. That ish hits different.
This is true I have 5 olders & I'm the only girl & mom does Not really doesn't listen to what I hve to say & she also has a favorite. I make sure I treat my girls equally & show them love
WHAT??? Jeannie in the belly of the beast??? Two whole months??? Do tell Jeannie!!! I’m a newbie, but my heart is so full listening to you and your funny family. After listening to momma Mai’s heartbreaking life story I will never look at any of you the same again. I’m Black and I related so much.......I was 😢😢😢. Anyway, keep em coming Mai Family 😉. I’d rather watch this than “The Real” any day. YOU DOIN THE DAMN THANG JEANNIE!!!!!
You're on point ..Jeannie it's all about "Her" and she's a little aggressive sometimes. . .and when she acts like that in my culture that's being disrespectful
@@NewNew44519 Being assertive and being a boss is not a bad thing. I am not dissing her in any way. Wanting the spotlight on yourself is not a flaw either. At the beginning of the video.she disses her brother for "sucking up" to her mom. She throws it to the audience to opine if Daniel's way of talking to Mama Mai is better or Jeannie's...JUST SAYIN my opinion.
Yes but Jeannie didn't let her finish her sentence. She needs to be more focus when someone says something coming from heart, so she could hear that she is loved too.
I’ve noticed that too but I don’t really blame her. She went through something extremely difficult at a young age and never had her mom’s support through any of it. I think that’s where her tough attitude for her mom comes from.
I like Daniel’s approach to communicating with mama Mai.. Like Tamera says “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it”. It’s not that he is not direct but he seems to use the approach that mama Mai is most receptive to. I am also the youngest and my siblings would think I was buttering up my parents when I would communicate with them, but I was simply approaching them in a way that they would be more receptive to what I was saying. I too, like Daniel, got privileges my older siblings didn’t get, but to be fair I was also more responsible in many respects. Thank you so much for bringing Daniel on. He is so warm, grounded, and well rounded.. A lovely young man. You are a wonderful tight knit family and always keeping it real real. Much love to you all.
I don't think he plays with her mind, I think he's just more compassionate and patient in the way that he talks to her and deals with people - I don't think that's being fake. And I think Mama Mai dealt differently with you, Jeannie, because she knew what you were going to do lol
I think so too. I'm not sure for everybody else but for my family it's almost blasphemous to talk back to our elders, even if they are in the wrong (I don't like this mindset either but it is what it is for now). So I think we have to go about a different way on communicating our point because for them being "too direct" is disrespectful, even if you have no intention to disrespect them. It is very frustrating because most of the time you just want to help out but they'll take it the wrong way.
Ugochi Daniel I’m starting to see that. I know Libras are so charming because they’re diplomatic. But for a blunt person like me and Jeannie I guess it’s like “Why can’t you just take the truth?” I think like “aren’t you admitting that you can’t handle the straight truth without being babied or nursed first 😅?” Idk I feel like it’s commendable to be able to take things cold Turkey instead of being coerced before you create a change.
Jeannie, I get what Daniel said. They know you are capable of doing it so they are not surprised that you accomplished those things and I am sure they are proud of you. ❤️
Sometimes were so worried about calling things out in a negative manner we forget that what we would say is "kissing ass" is really just genuinely trying to see where someone is at before approaching them about a problem... Or "just being nice to mom". I think its good to take your time with someone when they have a genuine problem..especially when it is a a family member...
Breanna Hernandez I agree, I take that approach as well. My sister is a straight to the point BUT when she is approached.... she doesn’t like being approached in a straight to the point type of waaaaay?
Literally just like my Asian family. 😂 There’s the dumb one, the smart one, the rich one, the rebel, the favorite, etc. Girls gotta jump over the moon to get the same respect as the boys who get applauded over doing their own laundry. We all blunt as hell. 😂
Jeannie, as a daughter who also tends to butt heads with her mother, I can see where Daniel is coming from and why his approach works more. On The Real, you seem to approach others in a similar manner that Daniel does (presenting your opinions in a manner that allows others to come to their own realizations themselves) while with your mom, you perhaps don’t give her the same grace. I’m guilty of this too.😩 If you’ve read Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends & Influence People” he encourages us to use Daniel’s approach. If we all sought to understand where someone else is coming from FIRST, before seeking to be understood - AND we approach people based on THEIR love language, then you’ll get a better result. It’s easier for someone to change when you lead them to come to the revelation themselves, versus telling them or commanding them to see things your way. You win more bees with honey Jeannie.🤗 You can’t change your Mom, and your brother understands this. You both love your mom and want the same end result. Just treat Mama Mai like you would treat someone else’s mom, and approach her in HER love languages (showing concern first, talking about shopping, etc.) and maybe you’ll get a better result. It’s both what you say AND how you say it.😊 That’s not manipulation, it’s WISDOM. (Now let me save this message and apply it for myself with my own Momma!😂 )
“You have your own show, what more do you want” Aggressively pats her on back, 😂 😂😂 that’s really family for you, they won’t let your head get too big, keeps you grounded. Of course they realize how awesome you are J.
Jeannie your brother was 9 when you would sneak out. It's interesting that your family could sit down and talk about anything. Glad your family just see you as Jeannie, and a celebraty.
For the people who think is sad to have a favorite It’s normal lol at the end of the day we are all people. The love is all the same but personality wise some people just click better than others. I’m sure she’ll still defend them both when needed.
I’m my fathers only daughter. For years I’ve signed all his cards “love you favorite daughter” it became a cute ongoing joke. Now it’s a sweet memory. RIP Papa Leggs
@@star_light_kid Thats so sweet.. I tell all my kids their my favorite.. I have 4 sons and 1 daughter... I hope all goes well for you.. God bless you.. :-)
Thats mother's and daughter's. The older they get the table turns and we take care of them. We can see their strength and weaknesses and it's protective. It's much love and respect. I'm her age and my mother always says....she's the mom now! A joke but sort of true.😛
Ms. Blue dang u have never been abused, u can forgive but not forget. Did u read the comment I replied to? WHY do her and her brother treat their mum differently? If u think u can just be A-Okay with that ur up a gum tree 🍃
Fam, I wanna hear ur stories. Where do u fall in your family?
I am the oldest of 3 girls...
Im a black sheep in the family :/ my mom adores my brothers more then i
@@monicafischer6095 girl me too but it's ok... I'm sorry for them because they didn't get to know the wonderful person I am today!
Same here my mom is missing out on my life, hurts alot but i cant keep letting her hurt me, my self esteem was torn down bc she wanted me to look like a boy watching jeannie and mama mai helps me feel better
I’m the youngest, but kind of the only child. My sister is 10 years older than me
It’s like what Tamara says all the time; it’s not what you say, it’s HOW you say it!
FamMondragon yes!!
My auto correct always changes Tamera to Tamara 😂😂
My Mum too since like I was Young.. Am 40 now..lol
Exactly
@anders damin CNN
Daniel makes people feel heard - a skill we don't value enough in society...
Yes, he validates their feelings.
Yes💙💙
Yesss exactly!!
I agree completely
They way more entertaining than the Kardashians.
Yes they are because they're absolutely real!
Omg yes!!!!!!
J K omg yessss
So true and the issues they go through are real and are not to gain popularity.
I know!! They need their own show on E!
Daniel is a therapeutic communicator... he starts off relatable like a virus and boom serves you hard core truth ... it's way to go. Enquires, compliments then criticism... it's cool💕
Doris ogbonnaya lmao Jeannie called it manipulation 😂😂
@@nidiraa7462 🤣🤣 ogaghí aghota..
@@nidiraa7462 it's called being diplomatic 😂
How's a virus ever relatable -.-
@@dannyboy900102 cos real virus mimic natural defensive cells of the body at penetration and eventually invade the colonies and probably win or ur immunity suppress it or u bounce back as a healthy carrier depending on the kind of virus.
he is more compassionate. thats why he is the favorite. just like me
suuban star hmmmmmm naaahhh People who typically get what they want to learn pretty quickly how to manipulate what they want
@@elizamonay6178 that's a great skill.
suuban star faxxx
Oh no! Thats is not why...
@@elizamonay6178 definitely the reason for me. You can tell someone something and they dont get offended but someone else could say the same thing but in a rude condescending way so they dont take it well. It's not what you say with parents or elders, its HOW you say it
I once said to my sister that “I’m just a side dish in the family” and she said “you’re not even on the plate” 😂😭
🤣🤣🤣🤣
Rabbiha Mahmood meanwhile as the eldest I feel I am the plate 😭
LOL I’m the fruitcake that ends up in the garbage right after dinner, so at least you on the table girl!!!
Something I would've said to my youngest brother for sure lol I told him he was adopted all the time just to piss him off lol
Sounds like something my brother would say
Daniel isn't playing mind games, it's interpersonal skills!!
Jeannie is the most like her mom so of course she’s not her favorite 😭😂
Yo...That's so true...!!!
I have that same problem Jeanie We are both Gemini’s and it can get hectic
This too real hahahaha!!
Hello Hunnay with Jeannie Mai whenever your just like someone your bound to butt heads but at the same time have such a real relationship once your older.
😂😂😂
You can definitely see a sense of respect and pride in Daniel's eyes when he talks about Jeannie. That is so sweet ❤️
The middle child is always the forgotten one. The last on is always the favourite and the first one in one with the most pressure.
Facts 😉 lol
C O L O U R M poor Dennis:(
Middle child 🧒
🙋♀️
Middle child here you speak tge truth.
His tactic is farrr better, because when emotions are running high people don't think rationally. You have to calm them down for them to hear you out.
Yeah but also Jeannie said she was working three jobs at the same time in high school so she could've been dealing with the stress of that different to others.
Facts! 👌🏾
It just hit me: You guys need a reality tv show. It would be hilarious.
Don’t you think TH-cam may be the better route though? No fake story lines, others controlling to make more money, ads and on and on and on... they are the most entertaining around, but I feel like we could lose the authenticity with outside company involved?
@@MsPrettyPrettyPlease Yes, you make a good point. They would get more exposure if they were on TV, though, because not everyone goes on TH-cam. But I agree with you.
They will get one eventually watch
@@vivianmicheau3125 A lot of people have stopped watching traditional TV.
They can call it Mai Life Stories.
i still can’t believe jeannie is 40. she looks so young but also has such a young spirit/personality!
twistedblktrekie god bless her
She looks younger than a young 40 because she most likely looked younger than everyone, even at 20. She just has a young look.
priscilla darling No kids driving her crazy & giving her daily heart attacks. 🤪
priscilla darling 40? wow, she looks great!
@@jaylarose she does look great and has a childlike quality, which makes her look even younger.
Wait. Lmao. Why when Daniel said, “Jeannie always wants to argue w her” I said “I agree” then Mama Mai said “I agree” 😂😂
Qiyas Denae' Lmaoo
Sorry Jeannie but your brother IS RIGHT '""""""🙄 Been straight up doesn't work all the time
It could be hurtful. You have to finesse people 😂
@@sarahgbadebo9415 which my problem lol
I feel like Jeannie still carries some unresolved feelings toward her mom due to their rocky past which is why she has a hard time communicating with her without coming off as aggressive. Her mom saying she has a favorite doesn't help either. I think Mama mai just says that Daniel is her favorite as a defense mechanism and a way to let Jeannie know how she wished they could communicate. Or....I could be completely wrong...nevertheless, wish nothing but the best for this beautiful family...
mtzara You are absolutely completely right!
I think they have the same temperament Jeannie and the Mom and like it is said, two bulls cannot live in the same kraal🤣😁😁😁
She already addressed the fact that she used to be aggressive with her mum cause she hadn't forgiven her yet on the real and that she has let it go, quite a while ago actually
I dont like when parents have a favorite child.
@@Ebunoluwa13 I remember that episode very well. However, in my personal opinion sometimes you forgive but it takes time to mend those wounds and learn how to communicate differently with someone that hurt you. They are a lovely family and every time I watch an episode with them I see growth and I'm so glad they share with us their journey.
His way is not dishonest, it’s what works for her because she is defensive
I should probably do this with my mom.
dimple pascua dooooo it! Lmfao I’m 42yrs old! I do this w/my mother. Works!!! Some times we have to remember that our elders are pretty set in their ways. I did her way then I switched liked the brother lol
Thats so true!
I think not just defensive people benefit but people who like the idea of independence and control.
They would like getting to reach the conclusion themselves or feeling like they have the chance to work things out for themselves versus being confronted or told what to do
I’m sorry but I like his style. Not “mind playing” just reading the person and how their communicative style is. He’s sweet to her definitely a mamas boy 🙂
Jessa Morsicato lol if her own daughter was sweet to her she’d still count him as a mamas boy what a joke
I like Mama Mai but I feel bad for whatever girl he marries because he's a mama's boy
“He has a girlfriend!”
“Put her on the side, he’s single today!”
Lmao Mama Mai 🤣🤣🤣
Mama Mai is crazy! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Samoan Poly I died😂😂😂
That put her on the side was so funny lol
🤣🤣🤣
Damn Mama Mai made Daniel's girlfriend sidekick for a day! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
He is respectful to his mama. He’s not a kiss ass. He’s respects his elders and is trying to not be abrasive and speak to the heart.
After what Jeannie has gone through, she doesn’t deal with authority well. Especially since her mother didn’t believe or protect her.
Their different approaches create a balance or at least give Momma Mai ‘food for thought.’ 😀
Jennies brother “ yeah I can finish my own sentence”
Lmaoooo
Jessica Tapia so funny when he said that!!!
Jeannie's reaction when Daniel said "I can finish my own thought" is priceless :D
Yup I liked that 😍
Here’s why Jeannie and her mom argue: they are basically the same person. Both are blunt. Both are type-a. Both are assertive. Women especially don’t like other strong assertive women,
Johari Larosa What do you mean. She always lets her mom shine.
I'm a woman that loves strong woman.
R12Joy I’m assuming you mean you’re a lesbian. That is a completely different scenario
@@senorgato70 No There Is Many Strong Assertive Women Who Love Seeing/Knowing That There Are Other Women Out There That Are Just As Strong & Assertive As Them... That Doesn't Make You A Lesbian For Loving/Being Accepting Of Other Strong Women.
I agree coz mum and I are like this.
I am mum's mini version. My young sis is her favorite coz they are total opposite.
Mum and are literally best friends but worst enemies its crazy
"you smart but he's smarter" 😂😂I still enjoy this video to this day... I love your family Jeannie
When mama mai says “Yeah idk why I have kids for.” I laughed so hard.
Same 🤣😂😂
😂😂😂😂
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I love him. He's a listener and understands his mother in the way no one would
No. I get him! He comes with peace in mind and Jeannie can be combative even though she wants peace. He uses honey while Jeannie uses a stick.
He makes Mama Mai feel heard and validates her feelings before trying to change her mind.
Charity Stout that is a wise thing to do actually
Awwwwww, I’m so glad Mama Mai came back in at the end to tell Jeannie she was proud of her. ☺️
Yes I am proud of my daughter inside very much😂
imma be honest, I felt bad for Jeannie. It sounds pretty sad that your family does not congratulate you and bluntly tells you they love your sibling more even after all she has been through. Damn sis it hit me in the feelings.
It’s diplomacy. Even when you want to be direct and to the point, softening your tone can transform the energy
Yes! Tone and word choice is everything
He talks about the problem and he helps her understand the problem. That’s good!
Jeannie, I don't know if you're going to read this but here's the thing, this is very simple. This is not a situation of going straight to the point. This is a situation of being confrontational. Nobody likes to feel stupid or feel like they are being talked down on even if they are completely in the wrong. What your brother did was align himself with how y'alls mom was feeling so she did not feel pressured or bullied. So when she was able to be receptive to what he had to say she was able to think logically on the subject. That right there is the first chapter in How to Win Friends and Influence People by Dale Carnegie. read that book
Correct 💯
My mom tells me that I'm her favorite daughter and my older brother is her favorite son... There's only two of us😂❤
That's so cute lol
Awwwwww 😂😂😂
I like that better than telling a child to there face who mommy and daddy think is there favorite, your mom is great God bless 💜
I have one boy 4 years and one girl 2 years and that seems like a good idea
That's the exact same thing I say to my kids. The hate it my daughter goes I'm your only daughter so that doesn't count and my sons follow. But they get no other response from me then that. I actually have no favorite out of them but I have my favorite thing about each of them.
"no, yeah, no I can finish my own thought" 🤣 I need that energy in my life
Omg Jeannie I can definitely relate to you! I was my dad’s Favorite, he did express how proud he was of me. My mom on the other hand is similar to mama mai, she does not express how she is proud of me. I graduated college with a bachelors in Biology, I recently just opened my own business as Life coach, I am dating an amazing Christian man, my mom does not seem impress. She is so happy for my sister and definitely approves her relationship and list goes on. Jeannie I feel you! Keep being you, you bring a lot of Joy and blessing to your family, especially with Hello Hunnay show, expressing emotions from childhood, it’s very healing, congratulations on all your success love!
Im with Daniel 👌🏽I think that encouraging someone to realise their own faults is a good way to go especially if that persons already upset and isn't in the mind state to hear anyone else's opinion. When you are upset sometimes you can be defensive so when someone yells at you or comes at you more aggressively it makes you wanna be even more defensive instead of calmly coming towards a resolution. Idk some people are fine with being direct but others need the hypnotize🤣Your being honest while still taking the persons feelings and the situation into consideration
yes so true! condemning someone for their bad action instead of talking it through with them and helping them feel comfortable admitting a mistake. like of course they'll be on the defensive if that's how you're approaching!
Daniel just seems like he knows how to talk to people better Jeanie lol
Not better, differently. He says what they wanna hear vs need to hear.
@@ramonabrunswick1259 sometimes, especially with difficult people, it's advantageous to try and appeal to someone so that you can get your point across. When you want someone to acknowledge their mistake, it's better to make someone feel less bad about the situation so that they accept their mistake and resolve it.
SPECIFICALLY his mom
It's called diplomacy.
yaaaa it’s not manipulative. it’s more so knowing how to talk to people effectively. can’t approach everyone the same way to get good result.
When Jeannie was talking about how she feels that her brother easily makes their parents proud while she doesn’t, and how she thinks it’s the ultimate form of happiness Mama Mai comes running in to tell her that jeannie makes her happy always. A mother loves all her children, no matter if she’s loud about it or not.
Even if mama mai and Jeannie clash so much (they’re pretty much the same personality, of course they would fight lol) mama mai definitely feels proud of her. For sure. And she loves her deeply. In the end, she is her precious daughter. Not to mention her firstborn. That ish hits different.
I would definitely watch a reality show of the Mai family! I think alot of people can relate to this authentic family dynamic.
“Mom all 3 of your kids have gone to jail”
Mama Mai: I know crazy kid
😂💕
WOW
Mama Mai: "That's why I don't know why i got a kid for."
Me: LOL!
I LOVE when Jeannie speaks English with an Asian accent, mimicking her parents! 😂 it's really cute!! 💕
Jeannie mimics her momma so well. I am always cracking up when she speaks with the Asian accent!🤣
Why is everyone ignoring those dinosaur earrings😂
jaimeet kour I didn’t notice 😂 I was too distracted by the yellow hat, blue hair and rainbow dress 😂😂
jaimeet kour The lady’s got CLASS!!!
@@matzohgirl she sure does....n a good heart
Love them, she's fun!!!
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Women have a tendency to neglect their daughters feelings/ opinions
This is so true!! 😫❤
I strongly agree that’s why a lot of woman put up with abuse and stick around we are not raise with love we are raise on discipline.
Cocoa Puffs they are lucky to have you💕
So true.
This is true I have 5 olders & I'm the only girl & mom does Not really doesn't listen to what I hve to say & she also has a favorite. I make sure I treat my girls equally & show them love
"I don't know why I have a kid for" yooo😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
Jeannie should do a video talking about her experience when she spent 2 months in jail
zynab Fayyad 🤣🤣🤣🔥🔥🙏 yes
Yes!
WHAT??? Jeannie in the belly of the beast??? Two whole months??? Do tell Jeannie!!! I’m a newbie, but my heart is so full listening to you and your funny family. After listening to momma Mai’s heartbreaking life story I will never look at any of you the same again. I’m Black and I related so much.......I was 😢😢😢. Anyway, keep em coming Mai Family 😉. I’d rather watch this than “The Real” any day. YOU DOIN THE DAMN THANG JEANNIE!!!!!
Daniel is like a leader. He knows how to talk to people. Jeannie is a boss n assertive and its all about her.
Typical Capricorn always bossy Smh LOL 😕😏😭
You're on point ..Jeannie it's all about "Her" and she's a little aggressive sometimes. . .and when she acts like that in my culture that's being disrespectful
@@NewNew44519 Being assertive and being a boss is not a bad thing. I am not dissing her in any way. Wanting the spotlight on yourself is not a flaw either. At the beginning of the video.she disses her brother for "sucking up" to her mom. She throws it to the audience to opine if Daniel's way of talking to Mama Mai is better or Jeannie's...JUST SAYIN my opinion.
Hey you are right🤣😂
I loved when mama mai came in to let Jeannie knows that she's proud of her and makes the convo a little lighter.
Yes but Jeannie didn't let her finish her sentence. She needs to be more focus when someone says something coming from heart, so she could hear that she is loved too.
I’ll tell you why mama Mai is the way she is to Jeannie. Cos Jeannie reminds her so much of herself. I can see it.
Marietta I trueeeee
No Jeannie you’re a little rough around the edges with your mom. We can see why your brother is the favorite but you’re my favorite Jeannie
D R yeah she is..sometimes she talks like she's joking but she drops some hurtful things on her mom
I’ve noticed that too but I don’t really blame her. She went through something extremely difficult at a young age and never had her mom’s support through any of it. I think that’s where her tough attitude for her mom comes from.
Yeah she is. I can definitely see how mama mai likes Dániel more
@@kayleen8037 ,yep! lol
Yes, that’s because Jeanie is just like her mama.
16:15 when mama Mai apparently "accidently" sits on Jeannie's leg then says "you called me an elephant; that's what elephants do"🤣🤣
Lmao
I like Daniel’s approach to communicating with mama Mai.. Like Tamera says “It’s not what you say, it’s how you say it”. It’s not that he is not direct but he seems to use the approach that mama Mai is most receptive to. I am also the youngest and my siblings would think I was buttering up my parents when I would communicate with them, but I was simply approaching them in a way that they would be more receptive to what I was saying. I too, like Daniel, got privileges my older siblings didn’t get, but to be fair I was also more responsible in many respects.
Thank you so much for bringing Daniel on. He is so warm, grounded, and well rounded.. A lovely young man. You are a wonderful tight knit family and always keeping it real real.
Much love to you all.
He’s so cute!!! He’s honest too Jeannie lol he’s just more tactical with the truth. We could all learn from him.
True
That's true
I'm an only child and sometimes I question if I'm the favourite. Lol
Nordia Mcanuff 😂😂😂😂
If I laugh one more time.
That's toooo funny 😂 "But" a lil sad 🤔🙁
Hilarious
This is the best comment ever!!
I don't think he plays with her mind, I think he's just more compassionate and patient in the way that he talks to her and deals with people - I don't think that's being fake. And I think Mama Mai dealt differently with you, Jeannie, because she knew what you were going to do lol
Yeah Jeannie was a wild child. Of course her mom wouldn't trust her.
Exactlyyyyyy she was making me mad trying to make him seem shallow but he has way more empathy. It’s not about what you say but how
I think so too. I'm not sure for everybody else but for my family it's almost blasphemous to talk back to our elders, even if they are in the wrong (I don't like this mindset either but it is what it is for now). So I think we have to go about a different way on communicating our point because for them being "too direct" is disrespectful, even if you have no intention to disrespect them. It is very frustrating because most of the time you just want to help out but they'll take it the wrong way.
You are correct💜🙏
@@ivy456 you are correct, she is wilder child hard head starburn, make me upsad angry all the time😰❤️
Jeanie is called diplomacy, that is Daniel ‘s tactics. It works all the time😊
Ugochi Daniel I’m starting to see that. I know Libras are so charming because they’re diplomatic. But for a blunt person like me and Jeannie I guess it’s like “Why can’t you just take the truth?” I think like “aren’t you admitting that you can’t handle the straight truth without being babied or nursed first 😅?” Idk I feel like it’s commendable to be able to take things cold Turkey instead of being coerced before you create a change.
@@jadorejas and when you are like that ppl automatically put up a wall of defense.
Where's the disability?
Jeannie, I get what Daniel said. They know you are capable of doing it so they are not surprised that you accomplished those things and I am sure they are proud of you. ❤️
She should hear it, though.
When Daniel says "okay I can finish my own thought" 😂😂😂
Mrs. Mia needs to do that!
He's honest and more patient. I love Daniel too!!! I'm 33 too!
that is called diplomacy. great skill. great virtue.
Circles for sure. He has the knowledge and the wisdom.
I am the David in my family lol
I can never get over how gorgeous jeannie is.
I could stare at her forever.
I freakin love her mother’s vibrancy omg yaaaassssss
People don’t resist change. They resist being changed.
Great point. 😄
Gotta write that one down.
deep
Sometimes were so worried about calling things out in a negative manner we forget that what we would say is "kissing ass" is really just genuinely trying to see where someone is at before approaching them about a problem... Or "just being nice to mom".
I think its good to take your time with someone when they have a genuine problem..especially when it is a a family member...
Breanna Hernandez I agree, I take that approach as well. My sister is a straight to the point BUT when she is approached.... she doesn’t like being approached in a straight to the point type of waaaaay?
Your brother have a great result to settle things slowly and kindly. Your family are GOALS!
Jeannie was not having it😂look at the way she was crossing her arms, she bout tired of the favoritism😂😂😂
your brother is such a humble person.. i an see why he's the fave... he'd be my fave too if he's my son.. always lifting everybody around him...
Literally just like my Asian family. 😂 There’s the dumb one, the smart one, the rich one, the rebel, the favorite, etc. Girls gotta jump over the moon to get the same respect as the boys who get applauded over doing their own laundry. We all blunt as hell. 😂
That's not entirely true. The girls got all kinds of gifts, n were spoiled rotten. while the boys had to go out n work to feed the family
Rose Nancy I was talking about my own family. 🙂 Not generally.
That sounds rrally toxic. I hate that.
I love how Jeannie is holding a picture of herself after her brother tells how she used to hold pictures of herself when taking pictures 😂😂😂😂
Jeannie, as a daughter who also tends to butt heads with her mother, I can see where Daniel is coming from and why his approach works more. On The Real, you seem to approach others in a similar manner that Daniel does (presenting your opinions in a manner that allows others to come to their own realizations themselves) while with your mom, you perhaps don’t give her the same grace. I’m guilty of this too.😩
If you’ve read Dale Carnegie’s “How To Win Friends & Influence People” he encourages us to use Daniel’s approach. If we all sought to understand where someone else is coming from FIRST, before seeking to be understood - AND we approach people based on THEIR love language, then you’ll get a better result. It’s easier for someone to change when you lead them to come to the revelation themselves, versus telling them or commanding them to see things your way.
You win more bees with honey Jeannie.🤗 You can’t change your Mom, and your brother understands this. You both love your mom and want the same end result. Just treat Mama Mai like you would treat someone else’s mom, and approach her in HER love languages (showing concern first, talking about shopping, etc.) and maybe you’ll get a better result. It’s both what you say AND how you say it.😊 That’s not manipulation, it’s WISDOM.
(Now let me save this message and apply it for myself with my own Momma!😂 )
Exactly that is NOT manipulation at all, it’s kindness
Love ur theory
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I love Jeannie she’s so beautiful and her ENERGY is EVERYTHING 🥺♥️
Jeannie has pictures of herself holding pictures of herself 😂
Haha haha...crazy
“You have your own show, what more do you want” Aggressively pats her on back, 😂 😂😂 that’s really family for you, they won’t let your head get too big, keeps you grounded. Of course they realize how awesome you are J.
Families are crazy ,they brag about you behind your back too🤣😂🤣.
Exactly! I sure Daniel is always like, do you know my sister Jeanie? As in, Jeanie Mai? He'd just never let her know it. 😂
I thinks he is just MORE respectful....any Mother would LOVE ❤ that🥰
“I don’t know why I have the kid for” 🤣🤣🤣Mama Mai❤️
You are right, Straight to the point is better and I am that way also. I am the oldest and my little brother is my mom's favorite.
“Yeah no I can finish my own thought” 😂👍🏻
“I can finish my own thought” 😂❤️
I thought it was amazing momma mai came back to tell Jeannie she was proud of her. Shows the progress they are making. ❤️🥰
Brittney B. Williams me too!! She could tell that even though they were joking around Jeannie needed to hear it ❤️❤️❤️ beautiful moment
I would love to see a show of a conversation with the 3 siblings :) Loving the authenticity and honesty.
“But rewrapped from the Christmas before, as if I’m pretending that I’ve never seen it before” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I CAN’TTTTTTT 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Jenny is 40?!?!?!?! HOLY CRAP. SHE'S SO 🔥🔥🔥🔥 She looks like she's 20-22 🙀🙀🙀
Can you imagine how old she was on the Suite Life of Zach and Cody? She must've been in her 20s.
@@cherylmedeiros6287 That's Brenda Song 😏
@@cherylmedeiros6287 lmao
@@cherylmedeiros6287 oml 😂😂😂
Well Jeanie is daddy’s girl. Boys are for mom.
I like Daniel's strategy he get OG points for that
I’ve loved Jeannie since “how do I look.” I think they should have their own reality show.
Jeannie your brother was 9 when you would sneak out. It's interesting that your family could sit down and talk about anything. Glad your family just see you as Jeannie, and a celebraty.
"I can finish my own thought" and the look afterwards had me DYING! 😂😂😂😂
He’s so adorable but Jeannie is clearly the golden child because she ate the goldfish.
😂
lolololol
epic comment!!
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I laughed so hard!...it's the middle of the night so I had to hold it in. I was chocking and gagging from it! It kind of hurt lol
For the people who think is sad to have a favorite It’s normal lol at the end of the day we are all people. The love is all the same but personality wise some people just click better than others. I’m sure she’ll still defend them both when needed.
I love how mama mai comes in to tell you that she is proud of you although you might not be her favourite child you’re her child!💕😘
We need to see a link up with uncle Ted , Mama Mai, Jeannie, Dennis & Daniel
“Put her on the side, he’s single today”😂😂😂
I’m my fathers only daughter. For years I’ve signed all his cards “love you favorite daughter” it became a cute ongoing joke. Now it’s a sweet memory. RIP Papa Leggs
Both my parents died when I was a Baby.. I have five brothers.. They say Im their favorite sister.... Mind you... Im their only sister... ;-)
Aww
my bros do the same thing, im their only sister
Maria Roman I have one son. I call him my favourite son.😄
@@star_light_kid Thats so sweet.. I tell all my kids their my favorite.. I have 4 sons and 1 daughter... I hope all goes well for you.. God bless you.. :-)
Maria Roman Thank you. God bless your too my sister❤️
One of my favorite episodes! Your brother is strategic in how he has conversations with Mama Mai. That's not bad. I feel like a mix of you two ;)
Look at Jeanie body language. Her arms crossed..... Lmaooo the jealousy 🤣🤣🤣
Jeanne handles her mom like she's her child.. Brother treats mom with more kindness and RESPECT
Ms. Blue cause her mum let her be abused and didn’t believe her. I would NEVER speak to her far less respect her
I treat my mom with Kindness and Respect n she treats me like shit! Shit shit shit! Bt I do get the difference with Jeannie n her bro towards MaMa!
Thats mother's and daughter's. The older they get the table turns and we take care of them. We can see their strength and weaknesses and it's protective. It's much love and respect. I'm her age and my mother always says....she's the mom now! A joke but sort of true.😛
@@soulsecrets12789 That has been solved between. They have moved on front. They spoke on it. Dang!!!
Ms. Blue dang u have never been abused, u can forgive but not forget. Did u read the comment I replied to? WHY do her and her brother treat their mum differently? If u think u can just be A-Okay with that ur up a gum tree 🍃
Hats off to Jeanie. ..she has such a loving and forgiving spirit. ...