I enjoy your masculinity videos. People don’t understand that being in tune with your masculinity, really, is the key to life. Having the ability to not be controlled by your emotion, having self respect, standing up for your self, and most importantly loving yourself is the embodiment of “Will Power”. From Arnold Schinegger (can’t spell his name) to Steve Jobs, to Micheal Jordan, to Will Smith... all of those men have different stories, looks, and body types. What all those men have in common is “Will Power”.
Weak willed men raised by single mother or poor male role model did not have the opportunity to develop inner power or as you say, self-control. When a man's ego is attacked by the mother, which is very common, mostly in her view to protect her son, he loses his masculine edge. He loses the ability to stand alone in his power. But when women see that the man can stand alone in his power, they want to be in his company...he makes her feel safe and she can let go and surrender to him. Needy men need to forget women for a while and focus on getting stronger and more authentic, more upfront and less concerned with being rejected by women or offended by the words and actions of other men. A man must know how to roar like the solitary lion he is meant to be.
It was always a conundrum for me. Growing up people called me a “pretty boy”, yet at the same time people would tell me that Ive always came off as very strong, direct and on many occasions I would rub people the wrong way at first greeting. The way I walk and talk especially (I walk with my shoulders lol). This made me seem “cocky” to a lot of people. It used to mind boggle me because I always thought I was laid back and cool. Never felt any need to compete. But apparently others always put up a guard around me. Even girls that liked me would keep it secret because they would tell me that they were shy around me and I seemed “stuck up”.
Sometimes I don’t feel like have masculine energy because of anxiety or how I feel my emotions over come and I try to stay centered. But this video helps me realize I have something in me. I stand up for myself even when I feel myself shaking, even when I feel like freezing. I want to tuffen up my aura.
This podcast is right on time! Being a man who can control himself is rarely talked about. And doesn't receive the respect it deserves. Control and discipline is POWER. Discipline breeds freedom...
I can say that I can respect a man that has raw masculine energy. And its not in the height, body build or looks, it's comes from the inside like you said Rom . And I'm not around it much, even in a male dominated work environment. Once I come across it, I'd never try to compete with it or disrespect that energy. It's rare, but I feel it, even as a Lesbian. Most Studs may not admit this, because some are too caught up in trying to be like men. But it's refreshing, because he sees the woman in me. Beta men love to assume, I'm trying to be a man, until my energy comes out, or they get to know me as a person . Great topic.
Sis, thank you for providing all the details. Your entire post was very insightful, not to mention, revealing about the dominant energy influence. A woman disclosed this about my lesbian neighbor, but I was dismissive. I "know" the look per se, but I disassociated the look, due to the fact she was very lesbian. My gut told me to take her inspection at face value but, my mind did a factory override, so to speak. I felt her submissive feminine energy and it was ironically pleasant.
I'm in full agreement about what you said about that critical mass of masculine energy being one of the components for revolution. That raw masculinity makes women wanting you to father their children, makes children wanting you to be their fathers, and its that leader energy! Chumps recognize it too. As always you're on point and inspiring my brotha! Your videos be coming right out my head! Well done.
right here playing with children and reading your comment. there's this beautiful energy when we connect with children to human level.. and how people around are astonished by the attention I give to children and how they appreciate. it make them feel self and can be themself to the fullest
I would like to see a video on how to deal with people questioning your masculinity and sexuality and shaming you for either refusing to get married or not being married yet because you have not met a woman worth marrying.
Just Dealt With This Getting Into It With Manager At My Night Job Because Of I Won’t Allow Mfs To Control Me & Will Not Allow Disrespect Of Any Sort I Had To Stand On Principle And He Said I Respect It And Still Didn’t Get Fired
Funny you mention how it's always the quiet ones. Reminds me of a scene in Enter the Dragon where Bruce Lee was confronted by a guard for not wearing the gi that was given to him at the tournament. The look Bruce gave the guard said it all....needless to say, the guard backed off.
Out of the three main protagonists in Enter The Dragon, Jim Kelly is the loud guy, the seemingly hard one, and he dies first. Bruce Lee and John Saxon are the low key quiet guys, and they prevail.
Rom today us women are taught to fear the masculine man.We are brainwashed to see him as an abuser, basically the Ray Ray. I have always been attracted to a masculine man; friends always describe my partner s as being "rough looking"..some even go as far as to say the person looks like a criminal.It is just insane.Black males who are of a darker complexion gets it the worst.All my ex partners are amazing guys; would be the last person to deal in illegal activity are be disrespectful to a lady.My ex; a very dark complexion guy who also loves to wear all black, gets the look all the time; he is not even a big guy.We would go places and people would just stare at us.He prides himself on being a masculine guy; says no way he could ever wear things like skinny jeans..called it feminine...lol.Men like yourself Rom who are masculine; are viewed by many women today as a guy with "anger issues" and hard to deal with.To be honest though; many don't want the masculine guy because he will not tolerate some of the bs that we will try to pull like going in his phone or demanding passwords.. LMAO!!!!
Re: 8:20 The energy is like light. Light can be a floodlight...a spotlight...or a laser. All depends on how focused it is. Those two polarities of masculine/feminine energy...shit is primal. Visceral. Instinctive. When I'm around some women, I can feel my pupils dilate lolll. It's a reflex.
When I look around in today's climate, I just don't see a lot of males with a real MASCULINE POSTURE. It's very disheartening to see so many young Brothers walking around carrying themselves in a feminine way... based on my observations this is precisely why so many of these young and older males complain about not attracting some of the women that they have interest in.
Rom right on point again! I don’t care what you classify your self as, if you can’t bring your masculine energy to women ... your gonna lose more then you ever win! Masculine energy is a big key to success with all types of women ! So thanks my brother for bringing that to life!!
Peace to the field master, big brother, and uncle. You dropped some great jewels thank you for highlighting it's our natural "internal " masculine energy that draws, attracts and stimulates women to us. And it's something we as men must logically understand and constantly cultivate to be better men for ourselves, our women and our communities. Than you again brother Rom.
Real to the point video Rom! We've talked about this before. Like I always say as well as yourself, raw masculinity cannot be faked or fronted, it has to flow natural and come from within! Women definitely know when men are putting on a fake raw masculinity core, trust me. Once again, you have to be willing to do whatever it takes to display that raw masculinity core energy like you want to and do it naturally! That's why it's so important to work on developing certain traits as man that makes you a real true alpha not that fake as alpha who wants to be on some so called tough shit trying to make himself seem like he's raw and masculine or because he has some money, hell no, doesn't do it and it won't, people like that like you've mentioned, we'll see through those type of guys real quick! It takes a combination of things and developing certain traits including staying on your purpose that'll give you raw masculinity where you can display that energy naturally. Just having money definitely won't do it at all, the money should just add on to all the other attributes you're supppsed to have in order to have that raw masculinity that'll enable you to display that type of energy around women like you want to, just in general period but let's keep it on the topic of women. Raw masculinity cannot be faked around women period, so my advice to all men is do whatever it takes to put yourself in the position to develop that raw masculinity trait where you can display it naturally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Of course your presence makes always the difference. I gonna be honest when i feel warm inside it can mean 2 things i'm ready to go with a women or ready to fight.
Thanks to the knowledge you provide to many men who didn't get it is helping tho grow more wolves. I am cultivating it and i already see the changes in myself and I see how others especially women are responding. I believe the world is becoming more aware. But we have to take the Action to build it
Uncle rom. I was motivated by the movie "shooter" by mark wahlberg. And some of your video it struck a nerve. I always thought of having a secret coalition of brothaz ready for all facets of life from a physical to mental standpoint just raw solid cats like us and start changing things immediately. Rang some bells thank you
8:10 - 8:35 you just described me. I’m 5’6 and 120 lbs (I’m not skin and bones though, I work out as much as possible and people usually describe me as slim) so it’s common for me to get into confrontations because people assume since I’m quiet AND small I’m a easy target, but I haven’t lost a fight yet lol. The thing I hate most is a dude that will get in my face and say he’s going to fuck me up or something like that and NOT do it, I’ll tell them to do it just to see if they really mean what they’re saying. If I didn’t have so much going for myself right now and didn’t have to risk getting a assault charge I’d get into alot more fights.
I love when I be in the gym doing what I do throwing the weights up making it look easy their all ways some bitch made dude that get on the bench next throw a lot of weight on the bar and barely get one rep making hella grunting noises. That shit cracks me up every time.
There are somerhings men will do that women won't. That's part of masculinity. That flow. The other thing is self respect and work ethic so he can do right and think right.
I've always been told I have great potential, but I'm not sure how to focus my energy. How do you stir that masculine energy and bring it to the surface so it shows? That's what I wanna know. It's not just about getting women for me either, although, thats a big thing, but I also just straight up want my respect. I wanna have such a strong presence that people just look at me and know, "Don't come at that guy sideways..." without me needing to speak or even get upset. I wanna be seen as dependable (being as though I am, it's extremely frustrating that that isn't the case sometimes), and I want my opinion to have value even amongst my seniors. If I could get to that level, I'd be satisfied.
Everything you want, comes with time. After a while, what you become is what you’ll be known for. You have to go the extra mile, you can’t be average. Become a hero. Pick up garbage, help when it’s needed, volunteer. Create the world you want
Just a question rom , would say that some cases a woman is not grounded in her feminine energy enough to even feel your masculinity ? Or am I misunderstanding something to a degree?
2 points elder No civilized society wants a truly masculine man. We aren’t needed until hellfire and brimstone kicks off Point 2 Cashing those checks are now illegal lol ( writing checks with your mouth) you know the saying lol I know from experience. Surprised I can still chew or have fronts. Different times and I’m not even that old Salute. It’s all energy fellas
Hey, Rom. I don't have kids yet, but still wondering: As a father, how did you raise your sons to be connected to their masculine energy, in this current culture/society? ...
I enjoy your masculinity videos. People don’t understand that being in tune with your masculinity, really, is the key to life. Having the ability to not be controlled by your emotion, having self respect, standing up for your self, and most importantly loving yourself is the embodiment of “Will Power”.
From Arnold Schinegger (can’t spell his name) to Steve Jobs, to Micheal Jordan, to Will Smith... all of those men have different stories, looks, and body types. What all those men have in common is “Will Power”.
Darron Brown facts brother
That's true brotha. You have that at a young age.
Haha except for Will Smith
@@Rawyalty220 lol I feel you on that, came here 2 months after the slap
Weak willed men raised by single mother or poor male role model did not have the opportunity to develop inner power or as you say, self-control. When a man's ego is attacked by the mother, which is very common, mostly in her view to protect her son, he loses his masculine edge. He loses the ability to stand alone in his power. But when women see that the man can stand alone in his power, they want to be in his company...he makes her feel safe and she can let go and surrender to him. Needy men need to forget women for a while and focus on getting stronger and more authentic, more upfront and less concerned with being rejected by women or offended by the words and actions of other men. A man must know how to roar like the solitary lion he is meant to be.
Great advice.
Amen
It was always a conundrum for me. Growing up people called me a “pretty boy”, yet at the same time people would tell me that Ive always came off as very strong, direct and on many occasions I would rub people the wrong way at first greeting. The way I walk and talk especially (I walk with my shoulders lol). This made me seem “cocky” to a lot of people. It used to mind boggle me because I always thought I was laid back and cool. Never felt any need to compete. But apparently others always put up a guard around me. Even girls that liked me would keep it secret because they would tell me that they were shy around me and I seemed “stuck up”.
You just confident in yourself. Many people are intimidated by that.
Sometimes I don’t feel like have masculine energy because of anxiety or how I feel my emotions over come and I try to stay centered. But this video helps me realize I have something in me. I stand up for myself even when I feel myself shaking, even when I feel like freezing. I want to tuffen up my aura.
This podcast is right on time!
Being a man who can control himself is rarely talked about. And doesn't receive the respect it deserves.
Control and discipline is POWER. Discipline breeds freedom...
Discipline is life.
Truth! It's like working out, good to have a strong core. Don't budge from it. Reinforce your core to your principles.
Boom.
I can say that I can respect a man that has raw masculine energy. And its not in the height, body build or looks, it's comes from the inside like you said Rom . And I'm not around it much, even in a male dominated work environment. Once I come across it, I'd never try to compete with it or disrespect that energy. It's rare, but I feel it, even as a Lesbian. Most Studs may not admit this, because some are too caught up in trying to be like men. But it's refreshing, because he sees the woman in me. Beta men love to assume, I'm trying to be a man, until my energy comes out, or they get to know me as a person . Great topic.
Thanks for sharing that sis.
Sis, thank you for providing all the details. Your entire post was very insightful, not to mention, revealing about the dominant energy influence. A woman disclosed this about my lesbian neighbor, but I was dismissive. I "know" the look per se, but I disassociated the look, due to the fact she was very lesbian. My gut told me to take her inspection at face value but, my mind did a factory override, so to speak. I felt her submissive feminine energy and it was ironically pleasant.
@@marvincarter4730 I agree I love her description as well.
I'm in full agreement about what you said about that critical mass of masculine energy being one of the components for revolution. That raw masculinity makes women wanting you to father their children, makes children wanting you to be their fathers, and its that leader energy! Chumps recognize it too. As always you're on point and inspiring my brotha! Your videos be coming right out my head! Well done.
We need more brothers with a Fruit of Islam mindset.
Rom Wills You're one of them brotha Rom!
right here playing with children and reading your comment. there's this beautiful energy when we connect with children to human level.. and how people around are astonished by the attention I give to children and how they appreciate. it make them feel self and can be themself to the fullest
Yes sir,a lot of people fear this type of energy
This energy can't be controlled.
Just be true to yourself..A lot of those dudes who act “ruff” are really soft/sweet as hell
Exactly.
even if you have a lot of fears but you force yourself to stand when you all body is shaking a little but you still keep on standing
I would like to see a video on how to deal with people questioning your masculinity and sexuality and shaming you for either refusing to get married or not being married yet because you have not met a woman worth marrying.
I'll put that on the list.
Just Dealt With This Getting Into It With Manager At My Night Job Because Of I Won’t Allow Mfs To Control Me & Will Not Allow Disrespect Of Any Sort I Had To Stand On Principle And He Said I Respect It And Still Didn’t Get Fired
Funny you mention how it's always the quiet ones. Reminds me of a scene in Enter the Dragon where Bruce Lee was confronted by a guard for not wearing the gi that was given to him at the tournament. The look Bruce gave the guard said it all....needless to say, the guard backed off.
Out of the three main protagonists in Enter The Dragon, Jim Kelly is the loud guy, the seemingly hard one, and he dies first. Bruce Lee and John Saxon are the low key quiet guys, and they prevail.
Rom today us women are taught to fear the masculine man.We are brainwashed to see him as an abuser, basically the Ray Ray. I have always been attracted to a masculine man; friends always describe my partner s as being "rough looking"..some even go as far as to say the person looks like a criminal.It is just insane.Black males who are of a darker complexion gets it the worst.All my ex partners are amazing guys; would be the last person to deal in illegal activity are be disrespectful to a lady.My ex; a very dark complexion guy who also loves to wear all black, gets the look all the time; he is not even a big guy.We would go places and people would just stare at us.He prides himself on being a masculine guy; says no way he could ever wear things like skinny jeans..called it feminine...lol.Men like yourself Rom who are masculine; are viewed by many women today as a guy with "anger issues" and hard to deal with.To be honest though; many don't want the masculine guy because he will not tolerate some of the bs that we will try to pull like going in his phone or demanding passwords.. LMAO!!!!
Well said sista
Almondeyes Watching,
Well said sis. I get that anger issues every now and then even when I'm being quiet.
Re: 8:20
The energy is like light. Light can be a floodlight...a spotlight...or a laser. All depends on how focused it is.
Those two polarities of masculine/feminine energy...shit is primal. Visceral. Instinctive.
When I'm around some women, I can feel my pupils dilate lolll. It's a reflex.
Yep.
When I look around in today's climate, I just don't see a lot of males with a real MASCULINE POSTURE. It's very disheartening to see so many young Brothers walking around carrying themselves in a feminine way... based on my observations this is precisely why so many of these young and older males complain about not attracting some of the women that they have interest in.
That's the real issue. Forget tactics. It's the raw energy that attracts a woman.
Rom Wills.. NO QUESTION!
why is that?
Luis Acosta .. it's Natural
but are there few men with real masculine energy nowadays? or has it always been like that?, has something change over the last years??
Rom right on point again! I don’t care what you classify your self as, if you can’t bring your masculine energy to women ... your gonna lose more then you ever win! Masculine energy is a big key to success with all types of women ! So thanks my brother for bringing that to life!!
That's how it is.
Raw Femininity is attracted to and willingly submits to Primal Masculinity.
Don't ever lose that rawness. ....I prefer to see that in a man.
Peace to the field master, big brother, and uncle. You dropped some great jewels thank you for highlighting it's our natural "internal " masculine energy that draws, attracts and stimulates women to us. And it's something we as men must logically understand and constantly cultivate to be better men for ourselves, our women and our communities. Than you again brother Rom.
Well said brotha.
Even until this day this very topic was and still is imperative especially in these times
Real to the point video Rom! We've talked about this before. Like I always say as well as yourself, raw masculinity cannot be faked or fronted, it has to flow natural and come from within! Women definitely know when men are putting on a fake raw masculinity core, trust me. Once again, you have to be willing to do whatever it takes to display that raw masculinity core energy like you want to and do it naturally! That's why it's so important to work on developing certain traits as man that makes you a real true alpha not that fake as alpha who wants to be on some so called tough shit trying to make himself seem like he's raw and masculine or because he has some money, hell no, doesn't do it and it won't, people like that like you've mentioned, we'll see through those type of guys real quick! It takes a combination of things and developing certain traits including staying on your purpose that'll give you raw masculinity where you can display that energy naturally. Just having money definitely won't do it at all, the money should just add on to all the other attributes you're supppsed to have in order to have that raw masculinity that'll enable you to display that type of energy around women like you want to, just in general period but let's keep it on the topic of women. Raw masculinity cannot be faked around women period, so my advice to all men is do whatever it takes to put yourself in the position to develop that raw masculinity trait where you can display it naturally!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
This is one part of a man that he can't fake.
Of course your presence makes always the difference. I gonna be honest when i feel warm inside it can mean 2 things i'm ready to go with a women or ready to fight.
I feel you brotha.
Thanks to the knowledge you provide to many men who didn't get it is helping tho grow more wolves. I am cultivating it and i already see the changes in myself and I see how others especially women are responding. I believe the world is becoming more aware. But we have to take the Action to build it
Uncle rom. I was motivated by the movie "shooter" by mark wahlberg. And some of your video it struck a nerve. I always thought of having a secret coalition of brothaz ready for all facets of life from a physical to mental standpoint just raw solid cats like us and start changing things immediately. Rang some bells thank you
That's what's up. Just make sure you stay off of any type of communication devices with such a group.
You are torally right about people suppressing masculine energy. Damn shame.
Truth.
Is this why a masculine women would be repelled by a powerful masculine aura?
And if not she would try to combat it until she’s tamed
8:10 - 8:35 you just described me. I’m 5’6 and 120 lbs (I’m not skin and bones though, I work out as much as possible and people usually describe me as slim) so it’s common for me to get into confrontations because people assume since I’m quiet AND small I’m a easy target, but I haven’t lost a fight yet lol. The thing I hate most is a dude that will get in my face and say he’s going to fuck me up or something like that and NOT do it, I’ll tell them to do it just to see if they really mean what they’re saying. If I didn’t have so much going for myself right now and didn’t have to risk getting a assault charge I’d get into alot more fights.
It's not the size of the body but the size of the heart.
U right bro that shit works like a charm
I love when I be in the gym doing what I do throwing the weights up making it look easy their all ways some bitch made dude that get on the bench next throw a lot of weight on the bar and barely get one rep making hella grunting noises. That shit cracks me up every time.
They trying to fake it.
It's a lot of wolf tickets being sold out here lol
Yep.
Yessssssssssssssss you have have a will coupled with self control
The car vids are very entertaining and insightful. This vid was 100%
Thank you.
good way to start the day off!!
Thank you.
Well what i learned is Just be Yourself awesome video
Thank you.
It’s about having that dawg in you💯
Great message uncle ROM really need to hear that
Thank you.
This is a important message Rom, dudes need confidence to have sex.
Man you got make a paid masculinity series!!!
I should do something on Vimeo.
There are somerhings men will do that women won't. That's part of masculinity. That flow. The other thing is self respect and work ethic so he can do right and think right.
I've always been told I have great potential, but I'm not sure how to focus my energy. How do you stir that masculine energy and bring it to the surface so it shows? That's what I wanna know. It's not just about getting women for me either, although, thats a big thing, but I also just straight up want my respect. I wanna have such a strong presence that people just look at me and know, "Don't come at that guy sideways..." without me needing to speak or even get upset. I wanna be seen as dependable (being as though I am, it's extremely frustrating that that isn't the case sometimes), and I want my opinion to have value even amongst my seniors. If I could get to that level, I'd be satisfied.
Get into weight training and martial arts. Focus on your life mission. That will bring out your mission.
Everything you want, comes with time. After a while, what you become is what you’ll be known for. You have to go the extra mile, you can’t be average. Become a hero. Pick up garbage, help when it’s needed, volunteer. Create the world you want
I learned so much man, how do you be in tune with that raw masculinity?
Let your nature self flow.
Truth.
Thank you.
Just a question rom , would say that some cases a woman is not grounded in her feminine energy enough to even feel your masculinity ? Or am I misunderstanding something to a degree?
That's a dynamic. If the woman has masculine energy it can repel a man's energy.
That’s why it’s key to just find those ones that have what we need .
That's one reason I started my own business. Im a younger guy do you have anything I can read on improving my sales as a black business owner.
Create a community around your business in the sense returning customers who want to support you.
Great video Rom! Keep it up!
Thank you.
Great video! On point as always!
Thank you.
A dude once told me I have a Darth Vader like presence when I enter a room.
I'm not sure how you should take that.
LOL! I was a lil conflicted by that comment.
Real. Talk
Thank you.
Ah ha!
Raw Glory via Beloved Master Teacher Don Rom.
Rise and transform.
Thanks Rommyo.LOL
Thank you.
Amen for real
Yep.
Baba Rom, at the end of the day you need to get your economic game right. That really enhances your masculinity.
Money is just money. Some men have a calling that doesn't involve making making a lot money.
Good lesson.
Thank you.
Rom facts
Story of my life
I hate micro managers.
just folks with control issues.
im getting called arrogant when im not. only one?
People will try to put u down when they see you doing your thing. Unless you’re an asshole and put others down then what they say would be justified
2 points elder
No civilized society wants a truly masculine man. We aren’t needed until hellfire and brimstone kicks off
Point 2
Cashing those checks are now illegal lol
( writing checks with your mouth) you know the saying lol
I know from experience. Surprised I can still chew or have fronts. Different times and I’m not even that old
Salute. It’s all energy fellas
Good points fam.
Hey, Rom. I don't have kids yet, but still wondering: As a father, how did you raise your sons to be connected to their masculine energy, in this current culture/society? ...
Every single day. It's still tough in this culture.
uncle rom whats is it called the sets of 9?
Yeah. Look up "Sets of Nine" on Google.
So how would a guy actually GET the masculine energy if he is lacking in it?
Hit the gym, take a martial art, and change the mindset.
Rom Wills CHANGE THE MINDSET would be the most crucial instruction here for me.
Stop simping,i bet 5 yrs on now you are still beta cuck.
Shout out to Wesley Muhammad. One man can ignite another.
Yes.
Can you develop this energy
It's more of a case of unleashing it. It's already in you.
Dope
Thank you.
Rom how do I get in touch with you
Hit me up here, www.romwills.com/contact-rom.html
👍👍
CHURCH!!!!!!!!!!!
Thank you.
Uncle rom love them buffalo wings haha
Yes indeed. I can make Buffalo Wings on a restaurant level.
machismo
Yep.