6 Common Mistakes When Talking with Young Children

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  • @Lomie32
    @Lomie32 3 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I watched the original video and always say “feet on the floor please” to my toddler instead of “dont stand on the chair, youll fall” i try to remember to apply it to other situations too. 👍🏻

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thanks for your comment. That change for me was so eye-opening. I'm glad it has worked for you too!

  • @suzanneedmonds1566
    @suzanneedmonds1566 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Giving a directive in the form of a question is one I hear so often. The result is that teacher/para pro/adult often then reacts with frustration etc. when students do not comply with the implied directive. However, the children who are not complying are not ignoring the implied directive but are acting on the question they heard. "It's time for circle, who wants to come to the circle?" The message being received by a child is "I only have to stop drawing and go to circle time if I want to". They make the choice and then are told off for making the wrong choice. This situation can be very confusing for children.

  • @laura8324
    @laura8324 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    These are great tips for older kids, also. Also sometimes with adults.

  • @kyndellstewart8955
    @kyndellstewart8955 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I am a first time PreK 3 teacher as well as young childhood nanny and this video helped me learn some simple yet effective tips on how to re-navigate student behavior. It saves not only me heartache and stress but also the student. This was so helpful and timeless! Thank you ☺️

  • @renwinchester4465
    @renwinchester4465 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm a first time preschool assistant teacher and I start next Monday. This is going to save my sanity 🤣 Thank you

  • @fayeweatherspoon8359
    @fayeweatherspoon8359 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're a lifesaver!😅 Thank you so much for keeping this content up. I'm teaching my first preschool class tomorrow and stumbling on your page has given me an extra boost of confidence and I'm forever grateful🙌🏾🤗💯

  • @amelia881
    @amelia881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i'm 15 and doing a part time traineeship at my local daycare (haven't gotten any training/experience) meaning i was super daunted, but your videos are lifesaving! childcare is my dream and your tips make going into my daycare a lot less stressful and way more fun :)
    love from australia

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amelia, thank you for your comment! I'm glad you found the videos helpful. Please don't hesitate to reach out if you ever have any questions or looking for suggestions. Good Luck on your childcare journey!

    • @amelia881
      @amelia881 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@positivepreschooltips thank you so much your channel is amazing

  • @MsMynameisHope
    @MsMynameisHope 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love your channel! I have learned to focus on positive like saying"thank you for walking " instead of"don't run". Tone of voice and cadence also matter very much.Thank you .

  • @MissSuesSkills4Success
    @MissSuesSkills4Success 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm guilty of #4 sometimes at clean up time 😬 Glad I watched this.
    What do you do when a child doesn't want to clean up and even says "no I don't want to, or wait just one more minute" or just totally ignores you and keeps playing?

  • @HKLee-dn1fh
    @HKLee-dn1fh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I teach older 2s. Your channel helps me a lot. Thank you!!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm so glad you find it helpful! Thank you for your comment.

  • @MikeSpaa
    @MikeSpaa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Hi Cindy, I also watched that original video years ago when you first posted it. Especially rule #1 has stuck with me all that time. And now I have a 2 year old son and still try to use that rule every time. Thank you very much for these very useful tips!

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you so much for continuing to tune in! I'm glad the video has been helpful to you.

  • @pure_sweetheartvibz1793
    @pure_sweetheartvibz1793 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are the best trainer for me definitely. Thank you so much for your tips again maam

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for watching and commenting. It's nice to hear that it has been helpful to you.

  • @ellabella7071
    @ellabella7071 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video, thanks. Great for working with children and parenting.

  • @mohdshahnawaz.australia
    @mohdshahnawaz.australia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Absolutely loved this video. Thank you so much for this valuable information. Lots of love from an Australian 🇦🇺❤

  • @nayanafernando8570
    @nayanafernando8570 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It's so helpful. Thank you.

  • @dudzaimhute8635
    @dudzaimhute8635 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Very helpful thank you so much 💓

  • @meskeremanteneh1452
    @meskeremanteneh1452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you, it's helpful.

  • @marywood5676
    @marywood5676 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hi Cindy, I am a preschool teacher ages 3-4. I have a question, how do you feel about teachers using manners when talking to children? Let's say for example, giving a direction. On one hand i feel it is important for us as teachers to model good manners when communicating but on the other hand you want to keep your directions simple. I'm in a bit of a funk right now as it's that time of the year when the kids start to get antsy before summer and i love all of the great tips on you channel! ❤ ~Mary~

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mary, I think it is important to teach (and model) manners just like any other skill. I encourage children to use their manners with adults and other children. A simple "Please" and "thank you" goes a long way :).

  • @MrEric23
    @MrEric23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    brilliant! thanks Cindy

  • @xaralambiavaitsopoulou4434
    @xaralambiavaitsopoulou4434 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are so very right.Thank you for the precious advice.Happy new year.

  • @nhassan89
    @nhassan89 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just came across your channel, and I absolutely love the content!! So so useful!!

  • @fayrouzghalib6609
    @fayrouzghalib6609 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Interesting.. , I find it so helpful, thanks a lot 🌺

  • @achernev
    @achernev 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love it . Thanks! I would add some teachers change their voice as a child’s one when talking to students. Also use very simple and limited words in order for children to understand( talking about English as a second language). I never limit my students to be exposed to rich natural language environment. Thanks Again for your awesome videos and tips. I would like to see some online tips and resources. Thanks Cindy

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Alexander Gao I have been doing some virtual teaching and although it is not my forte, I have learned a few tricks that I could share. Thanks for the suggestion.

    • @achernev
      @achernev 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@positivepreschooltips thanks. Looking forward to it. I’m using all your tricks in my classroom 👍

  • @naomiluvgodandfamily
    @naomiluvgodandfamily 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are soooo good. Thank you!! 🥰

  • @LifeAsMegan
    @LifeAsMegan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO HELPFUL! thank u

  • @maryelisabeth752
    @maryelisabeth752 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    These are so helpful!

  • @boricuamom87
    @boricuamom87 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice. Number one is something I already do. Had to teach my husband.

  • @rebeccamleprince
    @rebeccamleprince 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy New Year 🥳
    Thanks a lot and very helpful

  • @live_the_lifeyoulove
    @live_the_lifeyoulove 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m going to share this with my niece she’s entering a mom to a toddler stage

  • @stephcurry4199
    @stephcurry4199 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please make some more videos Cindy😊

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the encouragement! I just posted another video today.
      th-cam.com/video/pRI4wrjO63I/w-d-xo.html

  • @wanderluster04
    @wanderluster04 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are amazing!!! Thank you very much for all your tips. Do you have an online training program? 🙂

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I currently do not have an online training program, but the idea has been one I have tossed around.

  • @wungmalingmakang7129
    @wungmalingmakang7129 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    It's was informative but will be more satisfied if you also give examples for the solution

  • @Brickswithjon
    @Brickswithjon 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You’re amazing

  • @nabilahamza5680
    @nabilahamza5680 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kindly post new videos on morning warm up sessions

  • @Vokal_StimmZ
    @Vokal_StimmZ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I model correct behavior first, incorrect next, and finish with correct. But it’s ineffective if they don’t understand WHY which is good Vs bad

  • @evgeniiaiskrenok4777
    @evgeniiaiskrenok4777 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi, I love your video, it is so interesting) I worked in russian kindergarten, and I would like to compare Russian and USA way of teaching. What books do you recommend me about USA teaching way? Thanks 👍

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don't know if I have an actual book but I describe my teaching style as developmental with positive practices. Thanks for your comment !

  • @lynngriffiths927
    @lynngriffiths927 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Missing your videos!!!!!

  • @autumnjohnson9
    @autumnjohnson9 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    If you ask everyone to join for an activity and a child says, no. And sits in the spot they’re in without moving, what should I do?

    • @positivepreschooltips
      @positivepreschooltips  2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Again, sorry for the delayed response. I would offer choices and be very direct. Here's a video that describes those strategies in more detail: th-cam.com/video/EkZDHNQqCdE/w-d-xo.html

  • @astaahmed4143
    @astaahmed4143 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks a lot but me my students they don't listen when I'm talking so tell me how can i do 💖💖💖