Recognizing signs of PTSD and TBI
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- Relating to civilians was a challenge for Schuyler after he got out of the Army. He felt on edge, and sometimes he had trouble managing his frustration. He didn't believe he had PTSD, but he knew something wasn't right. Learning he had a traumatic brain injury led him to VA and Vet Center resources that helped him turn his life around.
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Thank you for sharing this video! It helps me to understand more. My brother was in the Army in Iraq. He had the same illness. He ended up taking his own life. I always do my rosary prayers and St Anthony of Padua novena prayers for of you military men and women that God help you especially your loved be able to help. My heart goes out to all of you! May God bless you all!
Am Iraq and Afghanistan veteran am still fighting the war within. Dealing with a civilian life at times is differcult.
I wish you all the best...be health and strong...Great respect for you mission and strong 🕊️
It will always be with you, so live according to your limits and get VA help, but be careful there
I just got diagnosed with PTSD and TBI from Iraq and Afghanistan. It’s scary this guy is literally speaking my day to day life.
Gulf War Veteran here. Diagnosed 2013 and just realized last year that... Wow, I due have an issue (PTSD)... PEACE
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You ain't alone man. I hope you find peace and closure. My prayers are for you.
It's crazy hearing it word for word the exact same for myself.
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Thanks mate for your service your a Hero!😊
This young man reminds of my own son, there are no ward to express to help them. May God help you to a total recovery.
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The best explanation to what I'm feeling I've heard since I was forced to get help by the National Guard. I lost my mother while on duty about 20 months ago. My new unit had enough of the things I was doing but was unaware of or at least I though I was ok. (Thank you so much for having the courage to speak) I feel like submitting to my authorities may have kept me from hurting myself/life in one way or another.
I know it's probably not a good idea, but I'd love to give this man a hug. I truly hope you get better
It's definitely not a bad idea.....it actully is a good idea, if your around someone that suffers with this.
Man, PTSD and TBI sucks. I served active for ten years. Hadn't slept since Iraq in 2003 till this year 2017. Just layed there, always on guard. Never got help until I got out in 2014 on a med board. I cut ties with family and old friends. They tended to judge me instead of just let me be, or so I projected. Really I looked like shit and looked totally deppresed and freaked out all the time. I've seen pics from before so I understand their concern now. But I learned through CPT therapy that I tended to think negatively and self preserve instead of thinking about the big picture. I didn't want to leave the house or trust anyone. Seeing what humans can ultimately do to each other in a war zone has everlasting effects but if you don't sleep or try to understand it and let the things we can't change just comfortably be, you'll end up in a vicious cycle. I use to engage into other's trauma and problems to mask my own. Thought I was trying to help them but most people aren't willing to get help and you end up sabotaging a relationship. Cause when attacked I attacked back. I don't feel attacked now. I sleep thanks to Nefazadone and eating healthy. No projecting or waiting for a fight. I'm still isolated a bit but I'm crawling out of my hole. Archery us new to me and I've been addicted to it. It gets me outside in the sun and interacting with others.
I need a POC, I was a military wife for 20yrs, both daughters served, was a Psych Counselor & worked for the Depts of Army & Navy. I permanently live in the mountains of the AMAZON JUNGLE. Vets with PSD can be cured here with my amazing Ayahuascadaro. Stop treating symptoms - it''s not a psych or brain problem in is a soul & spirit problem. A serious Vet needs to contact me & to help get Vets here. (NOT all Ayahuasca centers know what they are doing except creating a web page & collecting money.) Read about it here: Ayahuasca. By Nick Polizzi, Guest writer for Wake Up World
Angela Chi I need to detox from pills I'm on first?
I pray you get well it must be hard to just switch off from fearing for your life our protecting your friends it doesn't switch off . Own person to know what you want through is someone in same profession as you . My dad used to cry in his room he never spoke about war . Which i guess i could never ever understand he was my dad not someone who was paid to go kill someone in a different country. You stay strong you didn't nothing wrong if America is not recognized you for the hero you are let me say thank you for being brave and honourable. I salut .
Jesus is the good shepherd the light of the world the prince of peace..have faith in him he as power to change anything empower you to survive anything 😊😊😊Just pray daily
My dad was in Iraq too in 2003 the base next to him had bombs hidden in it and when he was sleeping he woke up to a loud bang and there were sirens when he got outside to his turret station there was fire the entire base in flames, and my mom told me one year after he got out of the military they were at a campground for the 4th of July and when fireworks started going off he yelled get down and pushed my mom down to the ground, and when there are loud bangs or gunshots he still has those reactions sometimes
I have the same diagnosis and I’m only 40 seconds in and already tearing up. Bless our troops.
Its Good ppl pointed this out to him and he went to go get help for it! Like minded ppl understand eachother. They understand the things you've gone through and can help you better. Thanks for sharing your story!
Thank God someone understand what I'm going through,but still I like helping other's that have even worst problems. I think it's high time I focus on what's important to me.Thanks for hearing me out.Yours truely.Charles Wesley Marks.
As a recovered alcoholic who faced 20 years of relapse & horrific consequences , I am amazed that professionals refuse to consider life altering diseases like alcoholism to produce PTSD symptoms. Because Although I've been sober 4 years, I still have no emotions, I have next to no interest in social activities, I do experience strong emotions while dreaming .. which is a symptom of PTSD ... and by that alcoholic trauma I mean for example, black out drinking and waking up in jails, the Trauma of losing jobs and apartments leading to homeless shelters , the loss of reputation, of a career , of your self .. maybe it's not fashionable talking about severe addictions in terms of PTSD, but I think the facts do bear out that survivors of addictive diseases experience these symptoms. & the fact that professionals and "12 step" groups don'tt even mention this possibility does a great disservice to those who continue to suffer even after they've had their last drink or drug
You are absolutely right!
I suggest looking into nootropics. It sounds like you are experiencing anhedonia- a lose of interest and general apathy. In a way, PTSD can also be an addiction because you feel alive only in stressful situations. Situations that are not stressful leave you feeling board. Try taking on hobbies and do dopamine fasting. This will help you abstain from escapist behaviors you may have developed to give you a dopamine high you might have had during alcohol use. The brain is plastic and soon you will find boring things more pleasant because your synapses will restructure themselves. For starters try lithium orotate as a nootropic.
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Not been to war, but have complex ptsd. And I can totally relate. It’s an everyday struggle. Be strong.
Recruit training alone will do it.
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I started with the star program but I'm having problems with using because were I'm living Ive all but stopped using except when it's giving to me by my roommates or being over stressed about bills that not my on responsible for I don't like using it makes me sick and cry there's no time to think about it before doing it because it in the house if I have to go out to get it I always do the right thing and not use at home there's no time to think about it I'm trying to get a place but I have anxiety really bad and can't get out much to look for a place or even going to the store is a really hard thing at times and my doctor won't put me back on anxiety meds because he thinks I drink to much and I don't even drink what should I do I have problems explaining myself and don't have anyone to help me anymore I can't talk on the phone most the time or being in walmart lol get sick or pass out because of the anxiety how can explain it to the doctor when I have problems explaining myself I us to have someone to help me but she stopped and I have problems trusting people I don't have any friends or family to lean on for help any idea what I can do the va wants me to do expensive outpatient but I have problems getting there sometime I can't even leave my house or bedroom alone if I'm with someone it keeps me from turn and running back to the house please advise if possible thank you God Bless
“Not going to war” should not matter.
I’ve been to Iraq and Afghanistan, two combat deployments in the corps and have friends who were in the air force that were sexually assaulted.
The sht they deal with in not trusting others, not feeling safe, the anxiety, and the panic attacks is very real and they didn’t even hop on any plane to any combat zone.
I have PTSD myself and the same symptoms I get are the same as they get.
PTSD is different for everyone and our brothers and sisters in arms should be encouraged and empowered to get help because help is indeed there.
How do you even get PTSD anyway?
You just have to be really really scared by something hu?
I be fighting a way bloodier and tougher war then them yet no PTSD. How? Are they just weak minded or something? Please do explain. I used to think PTSD was just crazy people but he doesn't look scared nor crazy. @@steverogers7601
Thank you to all the veterans who served in combat...You offered up your peace of mind to serve your country. I personally feel your gift was and is being exploited by politicians in ivory towers who can't hold a candle to the bravery and honor you have shown. Your all heroes
I had PTSD but I'm thinking forward, and I belive that the positive changes in my routine and mental state are having an effect... I still have memory issues... and what I do wanna learn or retain is hard too keep.
I was in for 14 years, and been out for 5 years, I’m still adjusting.
thank you for your service brother
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I've been out for 17 years now... You're life will constantly be an adjustment. I recently lost everything and the most amazing loving wife. Because I didn't get the help I need and deserve.
Reach out BEFORE you do something that will feel life your life is over. Ask me how I know...
Me too I started 2 weeks after Highschool at 18 and I grew up in the Army by 20 we was going to war
@Pink Salt wow... Some people just don't understand. YOU pinky are certainly one of them. Best of luck in life!
BTW, who said I took any lives?! Typical uneducated individual...
You seem like a really nice guy - hope things are going well for you. - Australia.
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@@jonwiththeshot2525 I was suffering with grief until i got on the carnivore diet. Its amazing the difference diet can make to mental health. People in my carnivore group who have suffered with depression and anxiety all say the same thing. I hope you give it a 30 day try - see if it makes a difference for you.
My husband is going through some mental health issues, but the bad thing is that he doesn't admit that he needs help and refuses to get help. Many people don't speak about the struggles that we as wives go through as well. It is very hard, and overwhelming.
Hello Miriam,
Standing by a Veteran you care about is truly admirable, and having important conversations can be difficult.
Coaching Into Care is a telephone service that provides assistance to family members and friends trying to encourage the Veteran in their lives to seek care and support for readjustment and mental health issues. Call 1-888-823-7458 between 8 a.m. and 8 p.m. Eastern time or go to www.va.gov/coachingintocare.
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I'm so sorry I can relate I have ptsd cptsd anxiety and severe anger and hypervigilence from a war that was not like yours exactly but I still understand it. I am a survivor of domestic violence and I totally get it. All of it. God bless you and thank you sir. My dad served and also was in Vietnam War. When around him I feel "safe & home" and understood. Thank you so much💜🙏🏼
What war?
@@The-Black-Serpent-Syndicate Emotional war and a physical war of one I had no control of at the time. I was in a coma. I was put in a coma because he tried to kill me
I enjoyed the this very much. I have CPTSD and TBI. 2 huge things.
Hello thartman123,
Thank you for writing and for your service. Traumatic brain injury (TBI) is most often known as a concussion, although some TBIs can be much more serious. Depending on the individual’s experience, TBI can cause changes in a person’s ability to think, control emotions, walk, or speak, and can also affect sense of sight or hearing.
That is a great journey. Congratulations and thanks for showing it can be done.
He speaks what took me years to realize. 16 years after my first deployment to Iraq in 2003, i made an attempt on my life. I didn't leave the military until 2007 with a second deployment on my chest. I never sought help while in the military. I saw it as a weakness. I thought that it could keep me from getting promoted, or being selected for special schools and training. Year's after being out of the military, is when i made a claim at the VA. Which then was denied, and not long after that i woke up in the hospital mad at myself because i wasn't dead.
It's 2024 now, i still have the same issues, some stagnant and some worse. I've found the courage and strength again to contact the VA again. It's exceptionally hard taking care of VA business here in Germany where i live. Time zones, German doctors etc... I will see it through though. Can't be worse than a 20k march in the sand with a full load😅
My dad was a soldier during the civil war in El Salvador. Whenever we were eating, he would finish his food so fast, like if he was rushed. I asked him why he was always eating so fast, but he didn't say anything. My mom later told me that during the war they only had like 1 or 2 minutes to eat or they won't be able to eat since they would get attacked. 😞 I always try to talk to him, so he can slow down, but it stayed with him.
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@@jlei1995I do the same thing but I was never in the service. But have had many traumatic experiences. Hope you pop is doing alright.
@@robertlennihan3113 Hes doing fine and healthy. :)
Sending healing prayers to all affected by trauma. God is with you in the pit. Even when you don’t feel Him. You matter. You are not alone. 🙏🙏🙏
Much respect!! I definitely can relate…from hearing this story, I guess I definitely have this issue, but I haven’t been blasted that many times. Also can relate to the portion where he speaks about not fitting in, the adjustments on coming back home etc
Thank you for sharing GOD BLESS you thank you for all you went through.
I thought I only had bad depressions...on my way up, doing all I can. Thank you for your testimony, wishing you all the best for the future! Take care. (A French woman who did not go to war zones)
Best thing is Vets working with Vets. My brothers and sisters need the contact and support of others who have “been there done that”…
Excellent commentary. Good to show that there are different levels of TBI & PTSD. And with the help of battle buddies that he could still use some help with reintegration into the civilian life.
Thank you for your service, and I thank your family for their own sacrifice for you to serve. PTSD is a constant battle with ourselves
I struggle with ptsd everyday now I don’t trust the va process scared everyday I’m service connected.
TBI and PTSD never leaves you... we are all messed up trying to rejoin Civilian life
Jesus can Heal everyone who seeks him, he healed me and set me free from addictions and other problems that no one could help me with! He is real and He is Alive.. Pure truth! ( find you yourself seek to see)
@@FreefromFear13 hail Satan
Wow! I have some friends that went through combat. They shared their stories with me..and I have learned alot. but I have learned 59th become more appriciative of out Veterans.Thank you for your service guys. Love you all
I love you brother...be well. YOU DESERVE a good like, man!
Letting go is not easy. Thank you for sharing. Stay strong man
For anyone that is struggling right now, there are inpatient programs that the VA can help you get into for PTSD and substance abuse. It’s 100 percent free to get into for veterans. For example there is a PTSD rehabilitation center in Batavia, NY. You are not alone ❤️
Thank you all for your service and as life continues know you are not alone ... Researching has taught me so much and I'm willing to learn all it takes to be the friend and loving partner my man needs , been dating over a year and I know it's going to take time , the problem is with all the new ways of modern dating more emphasis is put on negative aspects like bread crumbs gas lighting etc creates the false narrative of what dating truthfully is with PTSD in vets who have been in combat, going with my instinct and having the faith and trust and patience I knew deep down there was more to him and I'm grateful to have the knowledge thankyou all for sharing your stories so that others understand
Everything is about the mission. Everything is life or death. Always waiting for what can happen. Everyone is suspect. Still don’t like being around too many civilians. Va and group helps you to cope.
Why is it after 10 years of being home we forget what veterans go through... Don't ever give up on a fellow brothrr
or sister or non-binary relative
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I am retired not my drivers license back but McGuire polytrauma unit had it yanked WHY
bless u guys and thank u great souljas in active duty and ones that are home amen to my protecters of usa
Wow this fellow soldier is speaking to me and the struggles I deal with everyday.
Thank you for this. I have ABI and PTSD from an operation in hospital. This subject needs to be more widely known about.
Your words have the more wise meaning to me. You learn every day. thank you. ✌
You seem like a nice guy. I'm sorry you had to go through all this.
I am a (female) civilian. I was in Israel during the Second Intifada where buses would constantly get blown up, plus lots of terror attacks. I never saw an attack, but I heard the explosions & gun shots and a friend of mine was killed. I also worked at a dangerous location. I eventually moved to Canada and suffered from ptsd, I got no help. One interesting symptom that I noticed is that I missed the explosions. I also needed bad things to happen, in order to calm down. The reason for that is that every time after a terror attack, there is a period of calm. Once I was on a train and it hit a truck, that made me feel great. (obviously rationally I knew this is wrong and I felt bad for the truck drivers) Its as if the terror attack just happened and now I am safe for a few days. I met a young woman in Jerusalem who had the same symptom. A terrorist shot people in the store where she worked, (she was inside the store when it happened) so everyday she waited, she wanted him to enter the store and shoot, to get it over with, so she can feel safe. I don't know if only civilians get these type of symptoms or also soldiers. I wish therapists would talk about this.
I Grew Up In Chicago.. I Needed This Video Man
Same with me. I can't be more grateful to my friend Joe who pointed out that I have that.
Not in military. But I’ve had lots of head trauma. And c PTSD. I’m so sorry for our warriors coming back home. At least they were fighting for our country
That was a great. You go Schuyler (sp?)! My wife in a behavioral therapist, though she specializes in treating children from traumatic backgrounds, it's about the same thing, with a different clientele. But seriously, good job, Brother. Nice going.
When I first got diagnosed I struggled too accept it but once I did it started to help me recover.
Was told I have a TBI in 2005 (by a neurologist) from the war, my c&p doctor (general practitioner) told me that PTSD and tbi have similar symptoms and denied my claim. Now 13 years later my doctor is getting me tested for TBI again. I just wish I was normal, but hopefully I can get treatment or figure out what's going on.
Wounded Warrior Gaming, best of luck to you.
I wish i was too..severe anxiety and ptsd is what i have. Im getting tested for tbi next month. The price we pay.
Bro can u tell me exactly what symptoms do u have? I had brain concussion 2 years ago and i cant bring my life to normal, i wonder if these symtops i have are caused by tbi
I had visit with neurologist and she said if i didnt lose my conciousness after accident there is no reason to have tbi so i should visit psychiatrist, and i dont believe this bullshit because everything was fine with me before accident
@@bartoszwojciechowski2600 I'm just now getting my life normal again, I think I should go get tested just to be safe.
I was in for 6 years and as a 75th Ranger, everything he is saying is true I fight with this everyday
I was diagnosed with PTSD in 2004 after my first Iraq deployment. Instead of telling me I had it and treating me for it, they instead sent me on a second deployment to Iraq which made it worse.
My dad was in Vietnam . At that time there was not the help through VA,that is available presently.
Its a free choice you can utilize those tools and overcome. Or continue on a path of self destruction.
This is what a hero looks/acts like !
My son is going through complex PTSD from the 2020 riots in Chicago against the police. I love that the VA offers so many resources to Vets; but I struggle trying to find similar resources for 1st responders. Mental health is so stigmatized in the Police environment and there are no resources offered or encouraged. While experiences are similar to that of vets, the VA doesn't extend their resources to first responders. It breaks my heart to watch him struggle daily.
God Bless our Troops and ALL 1st Responders that put their life's on the line daily to keep America safe from threats outside and within our country.
In 2011 I Talked to VA about taking a IED hit twice ( Christmas day is ruiened) and being the dude who shot 2 AT4's in combat, plus going red on
.50 cal, M240B, and M249 in TIC. Never will I admit I was scared as hell, but that is what they want to hear
God's love for all OUR VETERANS WHO SERVED IN OUR MILITARY. WE ARE BLESSED TO HAVE SUCH WONDERFUL PEOPLE ❤💖
I worked for the army for 8 years I'm from Iraq , i was the the BN S2 linguist/ combat translator / special missions interpreter , after i settled in the U.S few months later in civilian life i start to fell different i was diagnosed with ptsd , i start to have flash backs nightmares anxiety and spicing out like there is no end sometimes the flash back is so strong that make me sleepy and tired , i can not sleep like other normal people for some reason i can not sleep at bed i feel more convertible to sleep in my car i think this because i spent most of the 8 years in the Humvees . now this is the bad part no one helping me , my wife can not understand what im having , no help from anyone , and the strangest thing that i can not understand that i feel i will feel better if i go work in the warzone , i don't get it all my flash backs and nightmares are about the missions i did in the past but yet i feel i will be better if i do the missions again. I'm confused , i don't know what to do .
Hello, Sabah, thank you for writing and for your service. Hundreds of thousands of Veterans have gotten treatment for PTSD-and treatment works. Whether you just returned from a combat deployment or experienced another kind of traumatic event, it’s never too late to get professional treatment or support for PTSD.
Overall, cognitive behavioral therapies such as Prolonged Exposure and Cognitive Processing Therapy are considered first-line treatments for PTSD and have strong evidence bases.
Find resources near you to help: www.maketheconnection.net/resources/ For more information on Trauma and PTSD, including treatments available for PTSD: www.ptsd.va.gov/PTSD/public/treatment/therapy-med/index.asp
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Make the Connection but i was civilian contractor linguist i don't think the VA will give any attention to the linguists who help the U.S forces in iraq .
Sabah Abdulameer hello May the good Lord Jesus continue to bless you and your family.
Make the Connection between the 7
Honestly working the first step with sponsor process can take longer than others, thats okay.
no worries, good job
Thank you… you have beautiful spiritual Christmas Story for Americans who so love our military…please share…you are such a great inspiration!!! Slk ❤🎉😅
Thanks for sharing.
Thank you!
Wonderful man sharing his honest feelings.
Having a PTSD Dr is the best, help, i am still making progress at 60
Married for 14 years and the first 10 years , My USMC Combat Veteran was in complete denial of anything connected with PTSD. The last 4 he was diagnosed with PTSD.
Many times I have been told I will be buried out back in a hole. Its horrendous and somewhat controlled now but even now its just scary and I feel alone and afraid of what is coming. I need counseling .
Thank you for writing.
The U.S. Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) is committed to supporting those who served our nation and their families by providing them with the benefits and services they have earned. Use the resource locator on our website to find VA and community-based services near you: www.MakeTheConnection.net/Resources
It's life affecting, you're normal, yet it still lives in u
Great respect for all soldiers who fight PTSD ❗
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I got 3-4 concusions within 1 month. concusion was on the swing drop apparatus at airborne school, 2nd was on the night jump. My lateral speed was very high do to wind, my feet touched the ground and I smashed the back of my head on the ground. As soon as I graduated jump school my CO signed me up for combatives. I got knocked out by someone way bigger than me (I'm 215lb Lean) so that punch rlly dazed me. I saw a doc saying I felt sick and had severe headaches. He said I was fine and sent me back to comabtives. I took another hard hit to the head which put me out for 3 months. I was extremely I'll, vomiting, trouble balancing. I had rlly bad memory issues along with severe depression, suicidal thoughts and uncontrollable aggression. I lost 20lb of muscle, my social life due to headaches and agitation, and couldn't work for a while. I've physically recovered and gained all of the muscle hack but I'm still struggling mentally 6 months later. Every day is a battle with suicidal thoughts and anxiety.
@MCPlatinum-MCP829 There are VA employees that can help right away. Call the Veterans Crisis Line by dialing 988 (and Press 1) OR go to their live chat service by visiting www.veteranscrisisline.net and click on the red button in the top right corner of the page. It says, “Confidential Veterans Chat.” You can also send a text message to them at 838255. A responder will talk with you anonymously. We urge you to contact Veterans Crisis Line now. Don’t wait.
Solid. Thank you brother.
So I have a question, I feel like my time in the service was Kindergarten compared to my time after service as a PMC. I did one deployment as military then almost a decade as a PMC. The vast majority of the trauma I suffered. The intense combat, IDF, IEDs, and being exposed to significant, blasts ( talking about structures I was in being blown up and hearing people say I was dead as I was tying to find my way out of the wreckage as rockets and mortars are still going off around me) happened while I was a contractor, now I am a Federal CIV and I would love to figure out where and how I am supposed to figure this shit out? Does anyone have an idea on where I should start. I have been home for 7 years I get brought back to day zero very easily. I spent 10 years in active combat zones and it seems like there is nothing out there for me because all the real shit that happened, happened when I became a contractor after my first deployment?
God bless and your family
great looking guy. wish you all the best.
I served in Iraq from 2006-07 with the 1st calvary division. I was a recovery specialist. I have struggled with Alcoholism and drug abuse for years afterwards. I have been sober now for about 3yrs. But lately I feel like I don't matter and I feel constantly angry. My wife feels like it's her job to " fix" me and it's not. I've dealt with the va for years and lately everything pisses me off
Hello, Timothy,
Thank you for writing and for your service.
No matter what you may be experiencing, there is support for getting your life on a better track.
Many Veterans have found the strength to reach out and Make the Connection. You can, too. Use the resource locator on our website to find VA and community-based services near you: www.MakeTheConnection.net/Resources
Please explore the information and resources on this page and learn about treatment and recovery support for Veterans: maketheconnection.net/resources/treatment-recovery
I truly understand these men
thank you , helpful
I am unsure what to say here... But I want to start off by saying thank all of you for your service to our country... I live with my boyfriend who suffers from PTSD and it is hard cause he won't tell me what's going on in his mind... He zones out and I have to ask him several times if he heard what I said before he comes back and says no... He has night sweats and he nightmares and he gets up several times in a matter of hours and just paces our floors... from one room to the other... Well will be watching a movie and his legs bounce to the point I have to reach over and just touch them and tell him 5 seconds please... He has flashbacks and everyone says those don't happen but I know I have been trapped and couldn't move cause it wasn't him... He thinks it's a sign of weakness and I try to convince him it's not... He is great with our children and great to me... But I just don't know what else to do... whenever we are in our house it has to be locked cause he thinks someone is going to invade our house... I have gotten rid of firearms... But I know it's hard on men and women of the military but it's hard being the husband or wife of someone that suffers from it as well...
Hello, Audrey Syer,
Thank you for writing and for your boyfriend's service. Hundreds of thousands of Veterans have gotten treatment for PTSD-and treatment works. Whether he just returned from a combat deployment or experienced another kind of traumatic event, it’s never too late to get professional treatment or support for PTSD.
Overall, cognitive behavioral therapies such as Prolonged Exposure and Cognitive Processing Therapy are considered first-line treatments for PTSD and have strong evidence bases.
Find resources near you to help: www.maketheconnection.net/resources/
For more information on Trauma and PTSD, including treatments available for PTSD: www.ptsd.va.gov/.../treatment/therapy-med/index.asp
+edwin acevedo I will always Love you
you will always be in heart now and for ever since your Love one
+edwin acevedo honey take careyourself
I'm a 3 tour oif vet I've Witness
Things I soundnt of.
I was diagnosed for PTSD n sucks because you battling constantly. I have meds daily to manage my symptoms.
I might have TBI as well. VA is wonderful place for veterans. Take care....
Trying hard to love this now, mean and angry Vet of mine...
I understand... the angry is blinding and once peaceful now mean ... you're not alone...
It’s hard to watch this . I got in at 17 and stayed in til 39. I’m in law school with kids, and older than some professors. I’m so fucking lost. All I know is Military, and I’m fucking lost. You get hazed in L School, and I takes all I have to not rip into the young professors that never spent a day in the service.
Hello Harley,
Thank you for writing and for your service. Returning to civilian life presents new opportunities as well as challenges for Veterans. The Veteran Combat Call Center is an around the clock, confidential call center where combat Veterans of all eras and their families can call to talk about their military experiences or any other issue they are facing in their readjustment to civilian life. Call 1-877-927-8387.
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It's hard for me also I got a terrible TBI from the blast of an airbag in a car wreck I was in when I was 3 years old!
PTSD and TBI's are both a very terrible thing!!
I don't have PTSD but I do have a TBI and now I have struggles in my life!! >physically
I got hit in the face with a howitzer breach due to a hang fire while over seas. Since getting off active duty and transitioning into the guard...im starting to notice things that are different about me
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Ur very strong! As a suffering lady ptsd I can say that, but your mood is not stable, you can be a winner! Treat yourself it’s not your fault
You know guys , I was born in Israel
We have terror experiences and still it’s not group specific for ptsd!
I wish you found in the stAtes and I will love to join
MY DAD WENT INTO THE KOREAN WAR AT 16, SENATOR CRANSTON OPENED THE WAY INTO THE ARMED SERVICE Korean War .FOR MY Dad for GRANDMA. He was a Undercover spy for America. AS SOON as he came home at 23, he was a Mad Man beating All of us kids and My Mom in 1956 I was 3 at that time . HE retired with us 5 kids in Los Angeles to run from the armed service sending my dad to Vietnam.it was like being mauled by a grizzly Bear when he attacked mom or me. at 4 years old, He would throw me over his head, He was out of his mind. he threw channel locks at my legs @ 16 yrs sticking into my leg. calf. He Bit me in between the shoulder blade at 16.
I was so shit faced scared of him. up until My Mom was 70 years old, He looked at her sitting watching TV. ang squeezed her neck around the throat leaving Black and Blue on her neck. I finally grabbed my mom with her clothes moved to a undisclosed house, Filed for legal separation so she did not loose her half of dad's pension from the air force. As I grew up, along comes PTSD in my life, never serving in the military. all the items i swore My Kids would never experience, Well at 17 having a wife screwing every one who looked at her just right. I was going to Kill myself to kill this Demon who was passed onto my life. My mom came into my garage said what was i doing on a ladder in the rafters, I told Mom i hated who I grew up to be and How it was effecting every Minute of my existence. If I walked through a Hall and the Door swung open, I stood in a defensive mode to kill the person who opened the door.. .,, was it hate or anger or? PTSD
so it took my own Soul SEARCHING RIGHT TO LIVE RIGHT< MY DAD SAID I was not His Son. He met mom in Canada, A one night affair. I would be held responsible for his coming back to Mom. Mom immediately went to His Base Commander showing my birth certificate the Commander said to dad, "you will not ever be recommended for another stripe on your shirt if you turn your back on this little boy.. Well He truly regretted Me and my sister and brother. It was All My fault He had to stay with Mom. or So he stated.
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My attorney sent me a john boy letter not realizing the damaged he created. The letter triggered an emotional upset. When I read the letter I was traumatized. Extreme physical tremors, confusion and disorientation. I felt like he personal and deliberately wanted to pain me. Stop pain of abuse
That's fcd up smh
I flew dust off's in Beirut during Marg 24 in 1982-3. I experienced blow ups three times. I got out in 85 and struggled alot for about five years. Sudden loud noises, or my kids pointing toy guns or fireworks, they all brought on some troubles for me. I get hyper ventilated and the shakes. Just today I went to my son's house for a first communion for his kid. There were some rowdy kids shooting nerf guns in the house, but I was aware of this, which is like my safety so I was okay. I just put up with it. Still I was uncomfortable and was getting ready to leave when my older son rounded the corner with a nerf rifle and began firing it at the kids in the next room right beside me. This caught me way off guard and my safety failed. Even though there were several people around me in the same room, nobody saw me begin to lose my breath. I was for the first time in several years having an attack. My chest tightened up and I felt like glass was exploding in my face. I left telling my younger son that I was experiencing a situation, My youngest son understands my condition. I called my counselor, but he was not able to answer me, so I called a trusted friend who talked with me for a while and calmed me down. This was just a few hours ago. I feel better now, but the idea that I was cured is gone. I am not cured and never will be. I am 65 now. This never ends for me. I know this is a long read and most people will skip it but it helps me to write it down. It's just like I'm saddled with this for life and my own kid doesn't stop to think, hey maybe I shouldn't do this around dad. I know he meant no harm, but SOB!!! What do I have to do? Should I wear a MF'ing sign around my neck? Like I said it's been just a few hours ago. Did anyone miss me all of a sudden? My phone has not rung. I am home now and okay. I don't want to tell my kid he freaked me out. It's his house. He didn't mean any harm. SFPS!
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I enjoy this and praying for your help to work and hate this for you God Bless you .May you be blessed in Jesus Name .Thank You
Amen.🎚️
I think you've explained enough. But you're name isn't written in the video. Dogtags are honorable, right? Think of the alternative, dog collars. Whoever you are, thank you.
I think help from VA has changed & not as approachable in Houston. My son needs help but he is not comfortable talking to the pet in the VA. Any advice?
Hello Randee,
Standing by a Veteran you care about is truly admirable.
Coaching Into Care is a telephone service that provides assistance to family members and friends trying to encourage the Veteran in their lives to seek care and support for readjustment and mental health issues. Call 1-888-823-7458 between 8 a.m. and 8 p.m. Eastern time or go to www.va.gov/coachingintocare.
Make the connection with other stories of Veterans and their loved ones on our website: www.MakeTheConnection.net/family-friends
Thanks, This helps understanding these folk as a civilian, I have come across PTSD in some co-workers that were in the military, and the scenario he described about being late to a movie and blowing up I've seen all too well and he's right it does alienate you; many people don't want to deal with it or are mentally unstable themselves lol. I just say my peace and then they take the rest of the day off then next day its like it didn't happen. My only question in understanding is why not just stay in military for life, make it a career become an officer and use the GI bill if you were enlisted etc etc. You're already conditioned to be a weapon and de-sensitized. Why do these people go back to civilian world? If I enlisted I would never come out. If unable to be field ready there has to be other office based jobs in bases or elsewhere, hire them up and continue with the ranking and treatment etc. etc. if they come down with alcohol or drug problems rehab them instead of kicking them out etc etc open up bases with everything you need let them observe rank in their workplace and yell at each other when needed and support each other. I think working and living with others with PTSD will help them with their own as they see the triggers in their un triggered state
God bless you but i want you to know you're not alone in the civilian world either. my ptsd comes from a lifetime of physical and mental abuse. as a child i feared death every day. so there's alot of us out here. i'm very open about it . telling people that you have this thing that you fight everyday doesn't make you weak anybody that's had it can tell you the amazing amount of courage it takes to just live. i tell because i want to raise awareness. i want people to know it's not our fault.
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Amen
Got PTSD when I was 17 years old, all from war zone incidents.
8 weeks ago, I was involved in a car accident, hit by a car who got away from the "accident".
Fall into coma at the hospital, and barely survived. Suffer from brain damage, and more.
Hopefully I don't evolve TBI.
Thought you have to be 18 to deploy?
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Not back then, many 17 year old boys and girls got killed, by sniper bullets and explosions, civil war actually.
Was informed 3.5 years ago about the traffic accident, it happened, all rigged, because of infos I revealed.
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Thank You All!
This video really helped
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I know that feeling way too well
Hello, Ala,
Thank you for writing.
No matter what you may be experiencing, there is support for getting your life on a better track.
Many Veterans have found the strength to reach out and Make the Connection. You can, too. Use the resource locator on our website to find VA and community-based services near you: www.MakeTheConnection.net/Resources
Please explore the information and resources on this page and learn about treatment and recovery support for Veterans: maketheconnection.net/resources/treatment-recovery
I was in Vietnam in 1967 & 68 I remember seeing people getting killed and seing soldiers get drowned crossing streams or rivers not a good thing to remember
Felt like I was looking at myself in the mirror listening to him. 2 deployments 1 to Iraq 1 to Afghanistan.
I have nightmares frequently about war, battle, one being last night but I've never been in the service.
Over the past few years I havent been able to keep a full time job. I'm a good worker, multi tasker but not able to make it everyday. Nerves wear me out and leave me fatigue and have recently hit the wall.
PTSD only made sense to me as soldiers explain their experiences and how it effects daily life. This stuff is weird!
Hello, Jason,
Thank you for writing.
If you have PTSD, it doesn’t mean you just have to live with it.
Only a trained mental health professional can diagnose PTSD; however, our website explains the symptoms of PTSD and some of the treatment options and resources that are available: www.MakeTheConnection.net/conditions/PTSD
You may want to see PTSD Coach Online. It contains 17 self-help tools to help manage symptoms following trauma. If you have an iPhone or Android smartphone, you may also want to download the free PTSD Coach app: www.ptsd.va.gov/appvid/mobile/ptsdcoach_app.asp
It’s never too late to get professional treatment or support for PTSD. Find resources near you to help: www.MakeTheConnection.net/resources
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