I'm so happy for you. I know it's a rough road for persons like us who have to hide the tru us. I lived all of my younger years being someone I did know just to pleased people. It hurted me so bad. Not that I was living a lie, but the people who I was faking for never knew the real me. Its ashame we have to go through this. Welcome to the tru you.🙂
Awesome video. I know I learned to lie at a very early age from the pressure of church, family, and even the government when I was growing up. I used to watch all the guys my age going to communion when I was a boy and see which ones I liked. But if you had ever asked me I was straight. And I felt so guilty, not only sitting in church but all the time. I got engaged but fortunately put a stop to it. (She didn't take it as well as you ex and basically outed me to my friends) Good luck to you and hope you find all the happiness you deserve.
Richard, thank you for your heartfelt story. In case you are still in doubt about God and the "abomination" issue, I don't think you have anything to worry about. There are books and articles and even discussions on You Tube about the spiritual ramifications on being gay. I recommend you pick up a copy of "God and the Gay Christian" by Matthew Vines for a fully rounded analysis. It helped me understand a lot.
I'm happy for you Richard. My father is in denial about my being gay and is pressuring me to get married, but I refuse to do that to someone else. I totally understand your side of the story and admire you for being honest with her and your family. I'm glad they all support you, especially her. You're a very attractive man and I wish you much happiness! Much love from New York.
The hard part for you was after you get married is the guilt if wasting someone's life. But you got out early. Some never come out. Proud of you. You are a genuine person and can feel your compassion in your voice. Do not settle for less than love.
Bro, I want you to know that you are now on the right path and no experience is wasted in terms of your growth. You are now exactly where you are meant to be, you are being guided by LOVE which is God. Anyone who is negative now towards you, is not of God, pay them NO heed. All the best, you are loved.........Ray [I just subbed]
There is only love and support for you. You are an amazing human being and so is Tabby. You're not going to hell; you've done too many good things that greatly outweigh the "bad". It's unfortunate that you had to hide and be unhappy most of your life up to this point but you are done with that. It's just a lesson for you to look back on, knowledge and experience gained. You have the rest of your life to be who you truly are and be happy. No more hiding, no more being afraid. I'm overjoyed for you and this new chapter! Criticism will always be there. We just have to learn how to tune out the noise and listen to the music. Best wishes and great big internet hugs to you. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
Your story is so touching, and this had to be one of the hardest things you’ve ever done (aside from coming out to yourself in the first place). And you’re right, your story is so important for the thousands of guys in the same situation. Ed Smart is a friend of mine, and as you may have heard, he, too, recently came out to his friends and family. While it’s sad that we have to come out at all, it’s brave individuals like you, Ed, and others who are now standing up and saying to the world, “This is who I am. I’m the same person you’ve always known and loved. Only one thing has changed, and that’s that you now know this one small part of me that I was afraid to share.” Here’s what I hope your message will convey to those who don’t understand homosexuality. In reality, we don’t understand it either. We’re just attracted to other guys and it seems perfectly normal to us. We actually LEARN that what we feel is wrong, and often we learn that from those we love the most - parents, friends, family. So please, friends, family, parents - be mindful of what you’re “teaching” us when we’re young. Because if growing up we’d heard “some boys like girls, some boys like boys, and some girls like girls”, so much heartache, depression, and confusion could be avoided in what is already a tumultuous time (adolescence). It’s getting better and I’m thankful for honest, courageous individuals like you who have the guts to put out this kind of content. This is where TH-cam really shines and can be a true public service. As you and countless others have said over and over, “I felt so alone, there was no one to talk to.” Your story WILL BE that someone they need to talk to, so thank you for sharing with the world. You’ve made an awesome contribution to countless lives going forward, and you can be very, very proud of that. You deserve all the best in the future...
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I remember you were such a kind teacher! Glad to see you have the courage to come out!
I'm so happy for you. I know it's a rough road for persons like us who have to hide the tru us. I lived all of my younger years being someone I did know just to pleased people. It hurted me so bad. Not that I was living a lie, but the people who I was faking for never knew the real me.
Its ashame we have to go through this. Welcome to the tru you.🙂
Awesome video. I know I learned to lie at a very early age from the pressure of church, family, and even the government when I was growing up. I used to watch all the guys my age going to communion when I was a boy and see which ones I liked. But if you had ever asked me I was straight. And I felt so guilty, not only sitting in church but all the time. I got engaged but fortunately put a stop to it. (She didn't take it as well as you ex and basically outed me to my friends) Good luck to you and hope you find all the happiness you deserve.
Thank you for sharing your experience.
I was married too. Married for 16 years proud of you. I did not have a supportive ex. Congrats.
Thank you
Richard, thank you for your heartfelt story. In case you are still in doubt about God and the "abomination" issue, I don't think you have anything to worry about. There are books and articles and even discussions on You Tube about the spiritual ramifications on being gay. I recommend you pick up a copy of "God and the Gay Christian" by Matthew Vines for a fully rounded analysis. It helped me understand a lot.
Thanks for the recommendation
I'm happy for you Richard. My father is in denial about my being gay and is pressuring me to get married, but I refuse to do that to someone else. I totally understand your side of the story and admire you for being honest with her and your family. I'm glad they all support you, especially her. You're a very attractive man and I wish you much happiness! Much love from New York.
Thanks for the encouragement!
velascor2003: You're welcome!
I remember you, being my teacher! Congratulations 🎉proud of you
you probebly don't remember me but its pk, just want you to know that I miss you. you were a pretty neat teacher and a coolio guy
The hard part for you was after you get married is the guilt if wasting someone's life. But you got out early. Some never come out. Proud of you. You are a genuine person and can feel your compassion in your voice. Do not settle for less than love.
Bro, I want you to know that you are now on the right path and no experience is wasted in terms of your growth. You are now exactly where you are meant to be, you are being guided by LOVE which is God. Anyone who is negative now towards you, is not of God, pay them NO heed. All the best, you are loved.........Ray [I just subbed]
Thank you for living in your truth and sharing openly! I love your story; Freedom is a blessing!
There is only love and support for you. You are an amazing human being and so is Tabby. You're not going to hell; you've done too many good things that greatly outweigh the "bad". It's unfortunate that you had to hide and be unhappy most of your life up to this point but you are done with that. It's just a lesson for you to look back on, knowledge and experience gained. You have the rest of your life to be who you truly are and be happy. No more hiding, no more being afraid. I'm overjoyed for you and this new chapter! Criticism will always be there. We just have to learn how to tune out the noise and listen to the music. Best wishes and great big internet hugs to you. ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜
What a very brave man you are!
Thanks for sharing this Richard.
Your story is so touching, and this had to be one of the hardest things you’ve ever done (aside from coming out to yourself in the first place). And you’re right, your story is so important for the thousands of guys in the same situation. Ed Smart is a friend of mine, and as you may have heard, he, too, recently came out to his friends and family. While it’s sad that we have to come out at all, it’s brave individuals like you, Ed, and others who are now standing up and saying to the world, “This is who I am. I’m the same person you’ve always known and loved. Only one thing has changed, and that’s that you now know this one small part of me that I was afraid to share.”
Here’s what I hope your message will convey to those who don’t understand homosexuality. In reality, we don’t understand it either. We’re just attracted to other guys and it seems perfectly normal to us. We actually LEARN that what we feel is wrong, and often we learn that from those we love the most - parents, friends, family. So please, friends, family, parents - be mindful of what you’re “teaching” us when we’re young. Because if growing up we’d heard “some boys like girls, some boys like boys, and some girls like girls”, so much heartache, depression, and confusion could be avoided in what is already a tumultuous time (adolescence).
It’s getting better and I’m thankful for honest, courageous individuals like you who have the guts to put out this kind of content. This is where TH-cam really shines and can be a true public service. As you and countless others have said over and over, “I felt so alone, there was no one to talk to.” Your story WILL BE that someone they need to talk to, so thank you for sharing with the world. You’ve made an awesome contribution to countless lives going forward, and you can be very, very proud of that. You deserve all the best in the future...
you are a beautiful guy. I hope you find a guy who will love you completely.
I'm PROUD of you!
I hate to say it but you ruined your ex-wife life. She does not deserve this. Why did you marry her when you knew you are gay?