Who you have children with and who you decide to marry are 2 of the most important decisions in your life. Choosing wrong can set you back years if not decades and yet people play with it everyday
Exactly what I thought about Judge Judy. I wished Judge Mathis would’ve held her equally to task after verbally acknowledging that the video was evidence that she has indeed been withholding the child.
Self defense is not being abusive. If you have to defend yourself then that’s what you have to do. Not only that but if he was so abusive why bring a child into the world with him?
Yesss. Then "a unknown location"? She don't have to know every place he goes with THEIR child. I'm more than positive she don't tell him everywhere she goes. Your right. Go thru the court. Same way she document payments, he need to document refused visits. In VA is a misdemeanor.
The fact that he felt the need to butter her up to see his own child speaks volumes! Meanwhile there’s so many of us that would love to have another involved parent!
I definitely didn't see it that way seemed like he was trying to butter her up or sweet-talk her to get lower payments he even admitted he reached out trying to talk about getting lower payments
1000% AGREED! Some women are MAD desperate. Me personally, I don't like family and friends over my house, even just to visit. What the hell do I look like MOVING A STRANGER into my house, smh.
She tried to be messy in front of his girlfriend presenting that transcript and video, but it actually helped his case. They need to just coparent, especially with the past abuse history.
Yeap, all said "after" she won her case. Her stated reason is understandable ( the father going out of state with child and blocking the mother's calls), but her revelation shows she's dishonest. During the trial, she told JM she never kept the child from him. She says she let him see her, but under her guidelines. What she displayed after the ruling was embarrassing and childish. She still has feelings for him, but is disgusted that he doesn't consistently pay child support. And, I think she is jealous of his new relationship. A mature, classy woman would have walked out of court and said nothing. To win and then turn to him and ask him why he lied and banter back and forth with him was childish, classless and screamed, "I still want your attention." To the father: pay court ordered child support and fight for visitation rights. To the mother: when court order visitation is granted, let the father see his child, she is not a pawn. To both: choose better next time, be intentional in who you date. Vet them. Study them to see if you would want to produce and parent a child with them.
I've been in a relationship with a violent woman b4. I never knew what would ser her off. One thing about them and others I know of is it's never their fault. This sounds like mutual combat in this relationship and I think JM realized that too. They just weren't good for each other. And he asked "was SHE lookin good?" Not you're lookin good.
I was married to a physically abusive woman. She spoke convincing and made up good stories just like this woman. I had to let her mark me up one night and restrain from touching her at all just for the police to believe me about the abuse. They will always get the benefit of the doubt
@@FinDom1 I believe she keeps the kid away from him because he's got a new girlfriend. I also believe she's an aggressor and I also believe that his dumb self has been giving her money without going through the court. ALWAYS go through the court because these little ass bitter girls will lie and lie some more.
So true. At least the Judge will come down on women like the plaintiff who deny visitation. The defendant has to go back to court to establish visitation(this is an old case, that child is almost 10 now). Women(like the plaintiff)want their money but dont want the dads to be in the children's life. SMH!!🤦🏾♂
@@ayannadaws8480 Your gaslighting will not work. Often, males like to push boundaries of and minimize inappropriateness as a means to excuse or normalize their own bad behaviors.
I have to agree with you. At 10:58 he said was SHE looking good...he didn't say YOU looking good. The plaintiff just wants to believe he wants HER when he doesn't..he wants to see his CHILD.
She gave no indication of being jealous of the new woman. If anything, he’s immature and petty to parade the new woman in her face. But no one wants to talk about that.
Whew she’s something else!!! Y’all better vet these people you’re reproducing with better! She sounds difficult as hell to co parent with and I mean that! Glad she won so she’s able to take care of her child. The children deserve the best! Not a mess! SMH
Just make the payments. Why fall deeper into debt with it . She wanted that video played for the girlfriend to see that he was "hitting," on her and it didn't help. I agree with Mathis's opinion on that. I can't stand the terms "baby mama & baby daddy.
I'm so sick of these women that just want money from these men they choose to lay down with. As long as ur child is safe It doesn't matter what the other parent is doing. If there's no court order on visitation u can bring ur kid anywhere u want. Dude go to court get shared custody and just pay ur child support and go through a 3rd party to communicate with her. She seems to me like she's playing victim in this case bc jm is always hard on dudes when it comes to c.s
My parents weren't together when I was growing up. I was actually raised by my Gramma, but both of them were so important to me. I saw them both, with restriction of course, but they both played a part in me becoming the person I am today. I think I'm doing pretty well. Now that I have a son and his father and I aren't together, we both co-parent exceptionally. Sometimes people can't understand how we do it with no drama. We both love our child and he comes first. I wish more people were like that. ❤ It turned out great for me.
@@deja14 yeah she doesnt care that why she's being a great mom withholding the daughter from him.Of course the new gf is just waiting to get punched when the judge asked her whether he abused or not.
@@anushrajapaksha5098 he has a documented history of abuse, so you tell me anush. Would a man w his past be a good candidate for your daughter? NO! wake up! And these are the men who are supposed to be leaders in society but look at the type of women they go after and release their seed into? Without marrying. Yes some leaders. 😂
@@anushrajapaksha5098 hasn’t abused her YET. But I see you just might be an abusive man yourself. The fact he has documented history of abuse means nothing to you now? No, it only matters when a woman is killed and THEN you’ll blame her for being with a man who had a documented history of using women as punching bags. And admits it!
"He moved into my apartment"... yeah, someone had to open the door though. The assault sounds like it went both ways. Men, don't allow yourselves to be baited into these altercations. Both parties shouldn't be having babies with no plans to actually be a family. This is just reckless. The video literally shows him begging via sweet talk to see his own kid and she's eating it up. Smh. Should be illegal.
He needed somewhere to stay , so how was she the problem? She allowed his access too soon & he obviously took advantage eventually resenting her because of his own shortcomings .... Yall always blame women when you aren't prepared for your OWN life ..zmh
Child. Support payments should not be a prerequisite for seeing and interacting with one's child, but child support is mandatory for the care of a child. Producing children outside of a legal, loving, moral, and committed relationship is rife with UNNECESSARY problems and is a fertile ground for children growing up without stability and consistency. Hence an unstable society.
The new girlfriend is classy, I like how she just stays out of it, usually I see the new gf that doesn’t know the real deal being all ghetto and loud and sounding ignorant while not knowing what’s really going on.
Sooooooo, he can’t afford $204 in child support a month but can afford a girlfriend??? From observation they are both planning games to spite each other. The plaintiff isn’t squeaky clean. I’m sure she has maliciously kept their child from him. Co-parenting has absolutely nothing to do with their personal issues with one another. Their child deserves to have a relationship with her father even IF he isn’t upholding that very fair child support ruling. Withholding visitation ultimately effects the child, NOT the parents.
I don't believe a word that the ex-girlfriend, the plaintiff, is saying. I believe she's jealous of his beautiful new girlfriend. The fact that he openly admitted and even apologized to the judge about his actions on one occasion tells me that he is more convincing than she is anyway. I literally hate women that use their children as weapons and pawns against the child's father. Believe me Judge Mathis is going to see right through her momentarily. I believe this young man is a stand-up man and he's probably not paying this child support since he's not getting the right to see his child which is not permissible but understandable by the courts. I wish him the best because she's a real loser. Sadly the only person that's going to suffer is this precious child 😭🙏💯
I believe him! The same thing happened to me. She's jealous of his new girlfriend and using the child to get back at him. Been there and done that. Be careful who you have children with!
I believe her. It happens to women at far greater rates than it happens to men. He’s mad she left him; that’s why he parades his very new woman around every opportunity he gets to stir the pot. Since males think they carry their precious, most high “seed”, they should choose better.
She had a child by HERSELF you kidnapped HER CHILD. It got to be convenient FOR ME …MEN LISTEN to those key words at the end. Protect your seed Men leave em alone there’s other feminine women out here that will cherish you.
All I can say is she’s the fire & he’s the gas he knew if he brought the new girlfriend with him to pic up his child that was gonna set the mom off classic example don’t have a kid with a stranger she didn’t know this guy
Its clear the defendant low key kissing butt in that video. He saying what he needs to try and get his baby. Thats sad. The plaintiff comes off as vindictive and manipulative. She definitely withholding visitation. He needs to go to court and fight for his rights.
We would coparent through court and not see each other. Drop offs at the police station and only talking through third parties unless it was an emergency
The plaintiff needs some anger management therapy ! She’s the abuser!! The defendant needs to go to court get visitation and set up child support! The plaintiff is not going to be an adult. Hopefully they can coparent for the sake of the baby.
If self incrimination was a person, she will be standing in the courtroom. She obviously doesn't respect him at all and sounds and talks like a stubborn person who will initiate a n argument and then claim she was attacked. Folks, take some time to set clear boundaries in a relationship and don't parent kids with folks that don't respect the relationship.
Lmao girl tried to make it seem like he got off work just to come over and hit on her when all he was doing as a man was respect her as a lady and the mother of his child so that she will allow him rights to their daughter and when judge mathis broked it down to her she calmed her hyper azz down with that mustache😂😂😂😂😂😂
To help her show us who she really is... 😂 She won the money, but lost respect! I hope he goes to court and petition them for 50/50 based off her testimony in her!
Watching my ppl go through this constant battle of child support and visitation rights is an ongoing epidemic. I once was in their shoes and I’ve allowed myself to forgive myself for prior actions, apologize to those I’ve affected and move more in genuine maturity
She bought the abuse up. Bcuz she knew he would look bad in the circumstance. That's the double standards of this society honestly. But I believe she was the aggressor in everything. And probably was jealous he moved on from her. That poor child!!
Stuff like this angers me. I'm not gone get into the support situation I feel away about it anyways. Women( most I've met, seen or encountered) claim they love their kids so much but deny them of bonding/building with their father and claim to be great mothers. You have no idea what that does to a man's mental state. Then it's go to court fir visitations. You have to defend beg and plead why you should or deserve to see your own child. Then for some to tell you what days you may be able too. This a fucked up cold world we live in
Here in California, child support and visitation are not bound together, you can not pay a dime and still have visitation. The state may take away your privilege to drive or attach wages or tax returns but still does not affect visitation. Sounds fair to me.
The defendant checked off 2 of my pet peeves. 1) Can't stand men who don't financially support their children. 2) Can't stand cowards who beat on women.
Males should protect and covet their precious, most high “seed”, but alas, they toss it around like old urine bags. So that says a lot about your “seed”.
He needs to go to court and do his payments and his visitation that way. She conniving. And you could tell toward the end of the case she deafly spoke their situation out loud. It’s up to her when he can see their child. She keeps saying my child my child my child. She’s trying to dictate the type of relationship and the visitation he can have with their child. Grimy and conniving.
Hell has no fury like a woman scorned the will throw every book at you especially when they get them ppl involved oh and yo new girl look better fam 💥 BOW 😂
Defendant, please go to court & get visitation rights. You shouldn't have to beg the plaintiff or flatter her to see your child. Your relationship with the child is for the child's benefit & wellbeing.
Judge never awarded the Father for her withholding his child…and anytime a woman says she allowed you to see his own child u already know there will be issues!
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Who you have children with and who you decide to marry are 2 of the most important decisions in your life. Choosing wrong can set you back years if not decades and yet people play with it everyday
Exactly! Alot of people still don't get it...just having innocent kids with any and everybody 😒
@sheilae.9670 I keep hoping for the best but it's been 40+ years
@@williamharris5976 Unfortunately, it's not going to get any better soon. It's actually getting worse...smh
This is so true!!
This is true,but people can change up at any moment. It happened to me. Took me completely by surprise, and a whole bunch of bs
See at the end she definitely proved that she’s with holding their child. Had this been Judge Judy she would have checked her.
Exactly what I thought about Judge Judy. I wished Judge Mathis would’ve held her equally to task after verbally acknowledging that the video was evidence that she has indeed been withholding the child.
100% facts about judge Judy checking her
If he was violent with her, she shouldn’t make her daughter available.
Sorry if the man I had a child with was hitting me I’m not letting him see his daughter or son cause who knows what happens when I’m not there
Self defense is not being abusive. If you have to defend yourself then that’s what you have to do. Not only that but if he was so abusive why bring a child into the world with him?
Brotha pay your child support and go to court and get visitation, and leave this nonsense and drama alone.
Yesss. Then "a unknown location"? She don't have to know every place he goes with THEIR child. I'm more than positive she don't tell him everywhere she goes.
Your right. Go thru the court. Same way she document payments, he need to document refused visits. In VA is a misdemeanor.
Facts these dudes try so hard to stay out of court I put myself on child support got set days cut off most communication unless my son was sick
I dont think he abused her tho
@@christiandilday7543man stfu. You definitely relate to him in some ways and thats sad for u.
He doesn't care about seeing the baby
The fact that he felt the need to butter her up to see his own child speaks volumes! Meanwhile there’s so many of us that would love to have another involved parent!
I definitely didn't see it that way seemed like he was trying to butter her up or sweet-talk her to get lower payments he even admitted he reached out trying to talk about getting lower payments
He was trying to butter her up to get his way with those payments. 🙄
@@tiaswayExactly! 😂
@@tiaswayExactly!!! He was tryna kiss her ass to get lower payments or to take him off child support altogether
Bitter baby mama mad because this young man moved on 😡😡😡
Judge shut the dude down before really hearing him out. But later found out some stuff wasnt true.
The judge was prejudiced in his approach. He should have been more objective and impartial😢
Once he heard there was DV he was done with him.
Exactly the Judge jumps men so quick at times when there is a hint of neglect and don’t fully allow the men to fully explain
@@hebrewking6040 facts
He hears buzz words and instantly goes into his male feminist anger
This is a whole mess, maybe you shouldn’t move a man in your apartment right after meeting them. Please pray for their child. 🙏🏽
💯
Praying 🙏🏾
1000% AGREED! Some women are MAD desperate. Me personally, I don't like family and friends over my house, even just to visit. What the hell do I look like MOVING A STRANGER into my house, smh.
@@msarmstrong410 Absolutely!🙌🏽🙌🏽
She tried to be messy in front of his girlfriend presenting that transcript and video, but it actually helped his case. They need to just coparent, especially with the past abuse history.
Exactly she helped his case out that's what she gets. She sounds like she's difficult and she's jealous of his new girl
@@RougeStromyou probably a deadbeat too
new girl sittin by him waitin on him to get her pregnant too ,
She better as one month old cottage cheese😂
It didn’t help his case , u need to pay attention
“Who would let their child go with you?” “Why would I bring her to you?” Well…. That does sound Ike withholding lol.
Yeap, all said "after" she won her case. Her stated reason is understandable ( the father going out of state with child and blocking the mother's calls), but her revelation shows she's dishonest. During the trial, she told JM she never kept the child from him. She says she let him see her, but under her guidelines. What she displayed after the ruling was embarrassing and childish. She still has feelings for him, but is disgusted that he doesn't consistently pay child support. And, I think she is jealous of his new relationship. A mature, classy woman would have walked out of court and said nothing. To win and then turn to him and ask him why he lied and banter back and forth with him was childish, classless and screamed, "I still want your attention." To the father: pay court ordered child support and fight for visitation rights. To the mother: when court order visitation is granted, let the father see his child, she is not a pawn. To both: choose better next time, be intentional in who you date. Vet them. Study them to see if you would want to produce and parent a child with them.
I’ve been with an abusive woman. She always played victim after attacking me!
I've been in a relationship with a violent woman b4. I never knew what would ser her off. One thing about them and others I know of is it's never their fault. This sounds like mutual combat in this relationship and I think JM realized that too. They just weren't good for each other. And he asked "was SHE lookin good?" Not you're lookin good.
Yep, just got out of a relationship with one and that's exactly it
I was married to a physically abusive woman. She spoke convincing and made up good stories just like this woman. I had to let her mark me up one night and restrain from touching her at all just for the police to believe me about the abuse. They will always get the benefit of the doubt
I think she is the aggressor. She look sneaky as hell.
She may not be the aggressor but she’s damn sure not innocent.
definitely
@@FinDom1 I believe she keeps the kid away from him because he's got a new girlfriend. I also believe she's an aggressor and I also believe that his dumb self has been giving her money without going through the court. ALWAYS go through the court because these little ass bitter girls will lie and lie some more.
@@Shellygrrl2573 she was way too happy to show the video of him saying she looked good. She’s definitely not over him.
Yes, she is a nasty woman.
“He immediately moved in with me “ SMDH 🤦🏽♀️
Chuld support cases are terrible to Judge Mathis. If you do not pay you will lose your case.
So true. At least the Judge will come down on women like the plaintiff who deny visitation. The defendant has to go back to court to establish visitation(this is an old case, that child is almost 10 now). Women(like the plaintiff)want their money but dont want the dads to be in the children's life. SMH!!🤦🏾♂
Simple as that, smh.
His new boo seems like a catch classy n sweet thats why shes jealous af
Y'all mad at everybody but him .
@@temdaileyNah,you are just typical and mad because a man finally received some sympathy for a change in these comment sections..
@temdailey if he so violent why tf she so pressed n trying so hard to interfere with his new relationship
@kgames1748 , How so?? Where to you hear her saying that?
@@kgames1748 Amen
Choose wisely, young men.
Don't have sex until you are serious about the person your with
She thought she ate him up with that secret recording 😂 whole time it backfired didn’t seem like he was flirting at all
When a man is with a new woman and physically compliments his ex on how good she looks, that is flirting.
@@God-Love-Freedom that was not flirting y’all think too deep
@@ayannadaws8480
Your gaslighting will not work. Often, males like to push boundaries of and minimize inappropriateness as a means to excuse or normalize their own bad behaviors.
@@God-Love-Freedom no gaslighting over here 😂 I’m just not thinking deep I don’t care how YOU felt he wasn’t overstepping his boundaries so🤷♀️
@@ayannadaws8480
Yes. I’m very sure you don’t think deeply.
She messy af. Poor kid
😢 facts and she trying to play victim it's sick. I'm sure he has his faults but I'm sure she a fire starter
He does not want her at all. The video does not show that, but she’s jealous of the new gf.
I have to agree with you. At 10:58 he said was SHE looking good...he didn't say YOU looking good. The plaintiff just wants to believe he wants HER when he doesn't..he wants to see his CHILD.
She gave no indication of being jealous of the new woman. If anything, he’s immature and petty to parade the new woman in her face. But no one wants to talk about that.
No, nothing that great looking about the GF, the guy has no money anyway and he will ha e less now.
They both like the drama and the toxic back and forth..
Whew she’s something else!!! Y’all better vet these people you’re reproducing with better! She sounds difficult as hell to co parent with and I mean that! Glad she won so she’s able to take care of her child. The children deserve the best! Not a mess! SMH
I wish that child could live him at least 50/50. He appears to have the better temperament for raising a child
When you restrict access to a child, it is the child you are hurting not the one you are trying to spite 😮
If it’s true, then he shouldn’t hit the mother of his children.
She’s such a good story teller
Just make the payments. Why fall deeper into debt with it . She wanted that video played for the girlfriend to see that he was "hitting," on her and it didn't help. I agree with Mathis's opinion on that. I can't stand the terms "baby mama & baby daddy.
I'm so sick of these women that just want money from these men they choose to lay down with. As long as ur child is safe It doesn't matter what the other parent is doing. If there's no court order on visitation u can bring ur kid anywhere u want. Dude go to court get shared custody and just pay ur child support and go through a 3rd party to communicate with her. She seems to me like she's playing victim in this case bc jm is always hard on dudes when it comes to c.s
Exactly!!! Which is why folk have to be more selective on who they have children with.
You’re ok with men moving in with women and just want “love” from these women they chose?
What's Good JM fam hope everyone is having a awesome day
Thanks, same too, you 🫶🏾
You too 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽❤️🖤💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘
Blessings ❤
My parents weren't together when I was growing up. I was actually raised by my Gramma, but both of them were so important to me. I saw them both, with restriction of course, but they both played a part in me becoming the person I am today. I think I'm doing pretty well. Now that I have a son and his father and I aren't together, we both co-parent exceptionally. Sometimes people can't understand how we do it with no drama. We both love our child and he comes first. I wish more people were like that. ❤ It turned out great for me.
She made all that stuff up. You can hear it in their interaction afterwards. She's definitely the aggressor. This dude is very reserved.
shes mad because the brotha upgraded 😁
I doubt she cares. He upgraded to another punching bag. Whole police reports to prove his abuse
@@deja14 yeah she doesnt care that why she's being a great mom withholding the daughter from him.Of course the new gf is just waiting to get punched when the judge asked her whether he abused or not.
@@anushrajapaksha5098 he has a documented history of abuse, so you tell me anush. Would a man w his past be a good candidate for your daughter? NO! wake up! And these are the men who are supposed to be leaders in society but look at the type of women they go after and release their seed into? Without marrying. Yes some leaders. 😂
@@anushrajapaksha5098 hasn’t abused her YET. But I see you just might be an abusive man yourself. The fact he has documented history of abuse means nothing to you now? No, it only matters when a woman is killed and THEN you’ll blame her for being with a man who had a documented history of using women as punching bags. And admits it!
@@deja14 documented history where 😂😂 if he’s so abusive why’s he not in jail, when women are petty and mad there comes the abuse card like this lady,
I dont understand. If he’s having a hard time paying $200 a month how tf he gone pay a lump sum of $4,000?
"He moved into my apartment"... yeah, someone had to open the door though. The assault sounds like it went both ways. Men, don't allow yourselves to be baited into these altercations. Both parties shouldn't be having babies with no plans to actually be a family. This is just reckless. The video literally shows him begging via sweet talk to see his own kid and she's eating it up. Smh. Should be illegal.
Very well said.
Right
He needed somewhere to stay , so how was she the problem? She allowed his access too soon & he obviously took advantage eventually resenting her because of his own shortcomings ....
Yall always blame women when you aren't prepared for your OWN life ..zmh
@@pamelasmith496 Cap
Y moov a man in2 ur home wo noing each other 🤷🏾♀️
Why move a man into your home without knowing each other 🤷🏾♀️.
Coincidentally, the defendant is wearing the same salmon pink pants in court that he wore in the video clip 😂🤣
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂
😂😂😂
Them his going out pants.
@@tgrant6518 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Child. Support payments should not be a prerequisite for seeing and interacting with one's child, but child support is mandatory for the care of a child. Producing children outside of a legal, loving, moral, and committed relationship is rife with UNNECESSARY problems and is a fertile ground for children growing up without stability and consistency. Hence an unstable society.
When she said My Child… that sealed the story lol
The new girlfriend is classy, I like how she just stays out of it, usually I see the new gf that doesn’t know the real deal being all ghetto and loud and sounding ignorant while not knowing what’s really going on.
Sooooooo, he can’t afford $204 in child support a month but can afford a girlfriend??? From observation they are both planning games to spite each other. The plaintiff isn’t squeaky clean. I’m sure she has maliciously kept their child from him. Co-parenting has absolutely nothing to do with their personal issues with one another. Their child deserves to have a relationship with her father even IF he isn’t upholding that very fair child support ruling. Withholding visitation ultimately effects the child, NOT the parents.
Not surprised he has a girlfriend and not taking care of his child these young girls don't Want anything out of life anyway
I don't believe a word that the ex-girlfriend, the plaintiff, is saying. I believe she's jealous of his beautiful new girlfriend. The fact that he openly admitted and even apologized to the judge about his actions on one occasion tells me that he is more convincing than she is anyway. I literally hate women that use their children as weapons and pawns against the child's father. Believe me Judge Mathis is going to see right through her momentarily. I believe this young man is a stand-up man and he's probably not paying this child support since he's not getting the right to see his child which is not permissible but understandable by the courts. I wish him the best because she's a real loser. Sadly the only person that's going to suffer is this precious child 😭🙏💯
She’s very beautiful
Please stop..he should provide for his child regardless. He can go for custody. I am sure he hit her too..
Mammie logic 🙄
All parents should have court ordered visitation agreement as well as child support.
Your honor that ain't me in the video, no face no case 😂😂😂
Those same salmon colored pants gave him away though 😂
Same Pants tho😹😹😹😹
that video didn’t do what she thought it was gonna do lol.
She's a whole problem and still is. Judge Mathis needed to check her. Now she got a little 4,000$. Honey, you're still broke and mad.
True.
I assumed she liked drama and arguments. She proved my assumption 😂
I believe him! The same thing happened to me. She's jealous of his new girlfriend and using the child to get back at him. Been there and done that. Be careful who you have children with!
Definitely.
I believe her. It happens to women at far greater rates than it happens to men. He’s mad she left him; that’s why he parades his very new woman around every opportunity he gets to stir the pot. Since males think they carry their precious, most high “seed”, they should choose better.
Been looking for this case for 3 years thank you so much 😅
Just curious. Why? Lol
She just move on and stop being jealous
I actually believe they are both toxic and abusive. But he is very physically abusive. She should be protecting herself and her children from him.
I’m so sick of him getting on men about child support
Take Care of Your Kids
She had a child by HERSELF you kidnapped HER CHILD. It got to be convenient FOR ME …MEN LISTEN to those key words at the end. Protect your seed Men leave em alone there’s other feminine women out here that will cherish you.
Exactly
It be your own evidence sometimes 😂
First of all the first time he hits you ,you need to BE DONE!! I need JM to not pre-determine thatthe person is already guilty 🙄🙄🙄
I need Judge Mathis not to shame women for keeping herself and her children away from abusive men, if the allegations are true.
All I can say is she’s the fire & he’s the gas he knew if he brought the new girlfriend with him to pic up his child that was gonna set the mom off classic example don’t have a kid with a stranger she didn’t know this guy
Its a thin line between daddy and deadbeat!!
When you need a break 🙄
No he was trying to sweet-talk her get a lower payment
Yup
Its clear the defendant low key kissing butt in that video. He saying what he needs to try and get his baby. Thats sad. The plaintiff comes off as vindictive and manipulative. She definitely withholding visitation. He needs to go to court and fight for his rights.
We would coparent through court and not see each other. Drop offs at the police station and only talking through third parties unless it was an emergency
The plaintiff needs some anger management therapy ! She’s the abuser!! The defendant needs to go to court get visitation and set up child support! The plaintiff is not going to be an adult. Hopefully they can coparent for the sake of the baby.
Im sorry but i believe she be on bs
If self incrimination was a person, she will be standing in the courtroom. She obviously doesn't respect him at all and sounds and talks like a stubborn person who will initiate a n argument and then claim she was attacked. Folks, take some time to set clear boundaries in a relationship and don't parent kids with folks that don't respect the relationship.
Lmao girl tried to make it seem like he got off work just to come over and hit on her when all he was doing as a man was respect her as a lady and the mother of his child so that she will allow him rights to their daughter and when judge mathis broked it down to her she calmed her hyper azz down with that mustache😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love how prepare she went to court !
To help her show us who she really is...
😂 She won the money, but lost respect! I hope he goes to court and petition them for 50/50 based off her testimony in her!
Always bring your receipts
Watching my ppl go through this constant battle of child support and visitation rights is an ongoing epidemic. I once was in their shoes and I’ve allowed myself to forgive myself for prior actions, apologize to those I’ve affected and move more in genuine maturity
Man go to court get visitations and pay your child support and be done with her! She can’t stop you from seeing your child
I pray they get along for the daughter...
She messy. I believe the defendant. She seems conniving.
She bought the abuse up. Bcuz she knew he would look bad in the circumstance. That's the double standards of this society honestly. But I believe she was the aggressor in everything. And probably was jealous he moved on from her. That poor child!!
That's what happens when we get with somebody, it was a lust thing
All this happened after he admittly moved in. Don't be in a rush to live with someone and have a baby carelessly.
Plaintiff on that bs too 😅 new gf better have no baby it will get worse
YOU IMMEDIATELY GOT PREGNANT..😅😅
She didn't get herself pregnant 😒😑
Stuff like this angers me. I'm not gone get into the support situation I feel away about it anyways. Women( most I've met, seen or encountered) claim they love their kids so much but deny them of bonding/building with their father and claim to be great mothers. You have no idea what that does to a man's mental state. Then it's go to court fir visitations. You have to defend beg and plead why you should or deserve to see your own child. Then for some to tell you what days you may be able too. This a fucked up cold world we live in
Agree 100 percent. Straight extortion of men. Minimal rights to child, yet want our money and can do whatever they want with our money
Here in California, child support and visitation are not bound together, you can not pay a dime and still have visitation. The state may take away your privilege to drive or attach wages or tax returns but still does not affect visitation. Sounds fair to me.
I wonder how many of these judgments go unpaid.
The show pays the judgements
He’s aggressive
She is too
I’m so glad that video was in his favor.
$204??? She’s not innocent either
The defendant checked off 2 of my pet peeves. 1) Can't stand men who don't financially support their children. 2) Can't stand cowards who beat on women.
You're taking MY CHILD😂... the audacity
Whew Chile, Meagan ain’t no Good🤦🏽♀️🙆🏽♀️
Young men can keep their own records, if they pay
Aaron you got 18+ years with her----DAMN
That petty ass evidence she tried to throw in his new Gf face backfired 😂😂😅 goofy
They both look rough, l don't know who to believe smh🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽😘 blessings to the whole family especially the child😘
Mistakes the man made:
1. You move in with her
2. He gave an Agent of Chaos and Confusion his seed
3. He didn't know her long enough
It goes both ways you need to get to know people before sleeping together and producing children in your toxicity.
Shut up
Males should protect and covet their precious, most high “seed”, but alas, they toss it around like old urine bags. So that says a lot about your “seed”.
If you don’t want the government in your business, then get a money order or Western Union the payments , leaving a paper trail/receipts smh
&&& she definitely keep the child from him Willingly knowing he is decent father . .💔💔💔💔💔
Who has a child before marriage? That's the dumbest mistake ever. You have a child with somebody who swore to an oath, for better or worst.
He needs to go to court and do his payments and his visitation that way. She conniving. And you could tell toward the end of the case she deafly spoke their situation out loud. It’s up to her when he can see their child. She keeps saying my child my child my child. She’s trying to dictate the type of relationship and the visitation he can have with their child. Grimy and conniving.
I don’t understand why she thought she was doing something with that video?????
Hell has no fury like a woman scorned the will throw every book at you especially when they get them ppl involved oh and yo new girl look better fam 💥 BOW 😂
Yep and the new lady does look better than the liar..
Listen .. A deadbeat wouldn't even be in that courtroom or begging to see his child ijs 🤷🏾♀️
Young man please Run to the nearest court and file for joint custody. Wheeeeewwwww chile🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
Why she recording him though. This woman is a peace of work.
I told the courts that my sons father was giving money directly but since he nor i had proof, they couldnt go with that.
I believe the fighting was mutual.
She is the problem.
Don't eat where you shit . I had multiple chances of sleeping with woman I worked with, I could never go through with it. Thank God 😊 self control 🙏🏾
Defendant, please go to court & get visitation rights. You shouldn't have to beg the plaintiff or flatter her to see your child. Your relationship with the child is for the child's benefit & wellbeing.
Judge never awarded the Father for her withholding his child…and anytime a woman says she allowed you to see his own child u already know there will be issues!
Girl Go Home and take care your child and let the courts deal with him PERIOD!
This is what happens when two immature people come together.
She was and is the problem, glad you got away. Take care of your child and leave it at that.