കുട്ടികളെ വേണ്ടവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക, അവരെ ശെരിയായ രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താൻ അറിയുന്നവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക ആർക്കോ വേണ്ടി എന്തിനോ വേണ്ടി കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി ഇട്ടിട്ട് അവരുടെ ജീവിതം നശിപ്പിക്കാതിരിക്കുക
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്... സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
This is my 7th year of marrige, iam married to my collage senior after 4years of relation ship കുട്ടി മെല്ലെ മതിന്ന് അന്നേ decide ചെയ്തതാണ് when we were marrierd i was 20&he was 22,so we give importance to study now both of us are well designated&financially stable with a 7mnth old boybaby ഞനിത് പറയാൻ കാരണം കുട്ടി അത് നമുക്ക് ഏറ്റവും convinient ആയ ടൈമിൽ മതി അപ്പോളേ ആ happiness poornamay എൻജോയ് ചയ്യാൻ പറ്റൂ
ആധുനിക സമൂഹത്തിൽ ആളുകൾക്ക് പേറ് അല്ല പ്രധാനം. വരുമാനവും തൊഴിലും ഒക്കെ ഉണ്ടായിട്ടു മതി പ്രസവം. ദാരിദ്ര്യവും ദുരിതവും സഹിച്ചു സഹിച്ചു ഇവിടെ ആളുകൾ പിള്ളേരും കൊന്ന് ആത്മഹത്യ ചെയ്യുകയാണ്. കുറെ പേറു നടന്നാലേ ഡോക്ടർക്ക് ബിസിനസ്‌ നടക്കുകയുള്ളു.
പ്രസവം നടന്നില്ലെങ്കിൽ അടുത്ത തലമുറയിലെ ആളുകളുടെ എണ്ണം കുറയും. അതോടെ തൊഴിലും വരുമാനവും കുറയും. വീണ്ടും ദാരിദ്ര്യം ഉണ്ടാകും. ചൈനക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ സംഭവിച്ച് കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നത് അതാണ്
@@RIYAD28😂😂😂ഒരു നേരത്തെ അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തവൻ, നല്ല ഭക്ഷണം സമൃദ്ധിയായി തിന്നുന്നവനെ നോക്കി, ‘ഇങ്ങനെ തിന്നാൽ നിനക്ക് ഭാവിയിൽ കൊളെസ്ട്രോൾ വരും ’എന്ന് പറയണപോലെ ഉണ്ട്. China ഇപ്പോൾ compete ചെയുന്നത് സാക്ഷാൽ US ആയിട്ടാണ്. ..
@@whiteangel3333 കൊമ്പിറ്റ് ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ട്, പക്ഷെ ചൈന ഇപ്പൊൾ നേരിടുന്ന സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധിയെ പറ്റി പഠിച്ചാൽ മതി. ഇന്ത്യയിലേക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ ഒരുപാട് ഫോറിൻ ഇൻവെസ്റ്റ്മെൻ്റ് വരുന്നുണ്ട്, അതിന് കാരണം ഇവിടത്തെ യുവതലമുറ തന്നെയാണ്. ഇന്ത്യൻ ജനസംഖ്യയുടെ 47% 27 വയസ്സിന് താഴെയുള്ളവരാണ്. അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തത് കയ്യിലിരിപ്പ് കൊണ്ടല്ലേ. പുതിയ പാർലമെൻ്റ്, കാക്കക്ക് അപ്പി ഇടാൻ 3000 കോടി ഇങ്ങനെ കുറെ നശിപ്പിക്കുന്നതിന് പകരം കൃത്യമായി ഉപയോഗിച്ചിരുന്നു എങ്കിൽ പട്ടിണി ഒക്കെ എന്നെ മാറിയേനെ
Any distressed couple going to meet her surely will come out totally depressed after hearing her merciless and blunt counseling, in a way also shaming them which one can make out the way she talks.
സാമ്പത്തികമായി ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുന്ന പാവപ്പെട്ടവരോക്കൊക്കെ Doctor ചിലവിനു കൊടുക്കും കേട്ടോ. സാമ്പത്തികമില്ലെങ്കിൽ ഒരു കൊച്ചിനെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി നരകിക്കാൻ വിട്ടാൽ ദൈവം പൊറുക്കില്ല. വളർത്താൻ പറ്റുന്നവര് ഉണ്ടാക്കിയാൽ പോരെ. ഒന്നില്ലെങ്കിലും കഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നത് സ്വന്ത മക്കളാണെന്ന ബോധമെങ്കിലും ഉണ്ടാവണം
😄 Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
@@0708im so what? What if your parents had decided not to have you! Every one have problems and stress in life. There are people who go to govt hospital and there are people who go to luxury hospitals. There are children who study in low fees schools and there are some whi study in high fees schools. There is always someone who is higher or lower than you. That doesn't qualify anyone to decide not to have children, in the same way problems in life doesn't mean you can kill yourself.
@0708im What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they are middle class!! What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they had to earn and have responsibilities!! What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos medical science had not developed much back then!! Every generation has work stress. Previous generation had even more problems, less social security, medicine was not this advanced, no formal education(not to say schools). Its not someones need that a person to have kids. Being a parent in itself is rewarding.
Good discussion. But, why are you setting templates for people on how to live their life? Sorry, I don't agree with everything the Dr is saying. It's up to you what you want in life and how you define you family. It's important to spend quality time with your family.
Doctor is saying people go behind to make house so it means instead of making a house we should be concentrating only on sex, if no house then do in the road also.
@@Ronin-bt1fj.. it means who got early all have kids and it is 100% true..that means there is no need of doctor for the couples who don't have kids .it's couples mistake that you didn't marry at early stage
Nice talk... What this doctor saying is very true... There is no sex education in this place.... I think this doctor and Dr anitha mani,, should sit together and give an awareness to the young generation...
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Aggressive and regressive at the same time. No matter how many years expertise she has, she needs to be an empathetic human in the first place as a doctor.
She has a point...and she is talkn about couples who wana have kids not about someone who has decided not to have kids due to financial instability Pinne, kutty undayal matre couples hold on cheyu nu ila..it depends on how much u like each other's company..
I dont think it's right to force a couple to have kids when they dont want.i myself had a kid when I was not ready due to unbearable pressure from people and I dont like my motherhood stage at all.infact everytime my child throws a tantrum I curse the people who forced me to hv kids.there are so many families who have marital problems even with kids and that gets passed onto them and they grew upto be miserable.
Throughout your pregnancy, you didn't want the child. To fullfill other people's wishes that you are having that child. These thoughts of yours will effect the child's personality. The child is sure to become troublesome and throw tantrums. Parenting begins with pregnancy.
Ente ponnu chechi ningalkku vattundo. Aarelum nirbandhichal ningal ningalude kuttiye konnu kalayumo? Illa enkil pinne inganathe varthamanam parayaruth. Und enkil daivathe orthu aa kuttiye valla orphanagil kondupoyi aakkuka. allenkil divorce cheyyuka. Be realistic.
It seems that this doctor isn't empathetic to her patients. She is setting templates and asking people to fit into that, irrespective of their psychological distress or financial situation. Excuses like back pain or smell are signs of some underlying fears. It should have been addressed empathetically by a doctor.
Kindky dont say that this doctor is an experienced person, she has been seeing people for more than 25+yrs .... കണ്ട് കണ്ട് she herself is feeling the Saddness inside of Couple.... empathetic അല്ലാത്ത ആളുകൾ എന്ന group അല്ല this Doctor.... നിങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് ഇത് unorthodox ആകും the way she is talking....
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Those who find the missionery position difficult should try the soldier position. Keep the woman on the table and log in the standing position. This position requires much less energy than the missionery posture and can also delay the climax.
1. Find a right partner ( similar and compatible to you in all walks of your life. ) 2. Have frequent checkup with gp and gynaec and rectify if any issues. Freeze eggs. 3. Have a good lifestyle. Keep your intimacy in check with your partner. Understand each other well. 4. Whenever you both are ready to take that big step of becoming parents(apart from any external pressure), plan it accordingly. Consider finance, mental health, initial supports available, career challenges. 5. Consult doctor and take folic acid and know your ovulation date. Try to conceive. But don't stress out. God bless and you will conceive., else try and check with doctors. Still you have your beautiful life ahead. Live peacefully with or without child. ❤
No. Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
ഇതുപോലത്തെ കുറേ വെളിവില്ലാത്തവരും കുറേ മത നേതാക്കളും ഒക്കെ പ്രസംഗിക്കും കുറേ കുട്ടികളെ പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ.. അവസാനം അഷ്ടിക്ക് വകയില്ലാതെ കുട്ടികളുടെ ജീവിതം ദുരിതമാകും.. കുറച്ചു വളരുമ്പോൾ അവർ തന്നെ തിരിച്ചു ചോദിക്കും നോക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തിനാ ഞങ്ങളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ പോയതെന്ന്... പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ പറയുന്നവർ ആരും ചിലവിനു തരില്ല.. സാമ്പത്തികം മാത്രമല്ല, കുട്ടികൾ വളരുന്നതിനനുസരിച്ചു അവരോട് ഒപ്പം സമയം ചിലവഴിക്കാനും നല്ല രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താനും അറിയണം.. അത് വലിയ ഉത്തരവാദിത്തം തന്നെയാണ്.. അതിനു കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ ദയവ് ചെയ്ത് കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാതിരിക്കുക...
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്... സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
I see many comments about her being regressive, unempethetic etc. I feel she is not generalising. She is talking about couples who come to her for treatment/IVF being an infertility specialist and she blame them because they come for IVF without having proper frequent sex. It is an individual choice to have children or not. But if you are planning dont delay to 35+ and wait for “well settled” to have children and go for treatment even without ‘trying’ properly.. Hope criticisers get her point.
Dr. Please study about Christian pre marriage course and comment on it. They cover almost all aspects of family life, such as moral, physical, spiritual etc.. etc .. in deep. Doctors take classes for physical matters including sex. Psychologist teach about the psychological matters and religious take classes about spiritual matters. In a short we can say that they cover all the aspects related to family life. Not like you think and told 😢
നാട്ടില്‍ ജോലി ഇല്ല . 2 masters എടുത്ത് 6 വര്‍ഷത്തോളം work experience ഉള്ള എനിക്ക് kittunnath 17000 rs ആയിരുന്നു... in lawsinte പോരും ശുഷ്കിച്ച salary um support ഇല്ലാത്ത ജോലിയുമായി valanju... ഒടുവില്‍ എല്ലാരെയും പോലെ ഞങ്ങളും vidhesheshathekk പോന്നു. ഇവിടെ ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ ജനിപ്പിച്ചു വളര്‍ത്താനുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട്‌ വളരെ വലുതാണ് . സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധി ഉള്ള sadharanakkarkk ഇതൊക്കെ vichaarikaan മാത്രമേ nadakkullu...
ഞാൻ പത്തു വരെ പഠിച്ചുള്ളൂ. Psc പഠിച്ചു റെയിൽവേയിൽ ജോലി കിട്ടി 8yrആയി സാലറി 45+ഉണ്ട്. നാട്ടിൽ ജോലി ഇല്ലാത്ത കൊണ്ട് അല്ല. സാലറി കുറവ് ആണ്. അതാണ് ആളുകൾ പോകുന്നത്. പിന്നെ നല്ല ലൈഫ് ആസ്വദിക്കാനും
@@marigoldtalks6774 ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ വളര്‍ത്തുമ്പോള്‍ അതിനോട് ചെയ്യുന്ന krooratha ആകരുത് അല്ലോ. സാമ്പത്തികമായി secure അല്ലാത്തത് കൊണ്ട് ജോലി രാജി വയ്ക്കാന്‍ സാഹചര്യം ഇല്ല... രണ്ട് പേരുടെ കാര്യം മാത്രം aanel ok. പക്ഷേ രണ്ട് പേരുടെയും parentsine നോക്കുന്നതും ഞങ്ങൾ തന്നെ ആണ്.
Nammal Physically, Mentally, Financially ellam ok aayi enn namukk thanne thonnumbol maathram oru kunjine kurich chinthikkunnath aan nallath. Allathe veruthe oru jeevane koodi bhoomiyilekk kond vann kashtappeduthano? Oru kunj undayal athine valarthaan ulla saambathikam ellavarkkum undennu varilla. Avarkkokke ee parayunna doctors chilavinu kodukkilla. 💯
life is one only.We should be happy in living the life. This is 21st centuary.The living expense is very high.nowadays,if both ones work only, we can meet our daily needs.So many sicknesses,even the covid vaccines also affected people’s health so seriously.Sadly,Old people will never understand the challenges what this generation are facing today!Why should we have kids when we have no enough money or health? It will affect our kids’ mental and physical state in different ways.I know personally some kids are feeling alone at home because their parents have no quality time to spend with their kids and they will do some mischiefs to get attention from their parents.And that will make the situation worse. think practically and logically.
Dont have kids in hurry, people say that have children at right time, but if that time is not right in financial t rms th n both you and kid will suffer
ഉണ്ടാക്കി തന്നാൽ മതി നോക്കാം എന്ന് പറയുന്നവർ തിരിഞ്ഞ് നോക്കിയില്ല maternity leave kazhinj pinnem extended ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റുന്നത്രയും കാലം extent ചെയ്ത് കുഞ്ഞിനെ നോക്കും. പിന്നെയും കുഞ്ഞിനെ നോക്കുന്നത് അമ്മയുടെ മാത്രം കടമ എന്നോണം ഒന്നും കണ്ടില്ല എന്ന് ഭാവിക്കുന്ന husband രണ്ട് പേരും ജോലിക്ക് പോയാൽ മാത്രം ജീവിക്കാൻ കഴിയുന്ന സാമൂഹിക ചുറ്റുപാട്. ഇതൊക്കെ ഫേസ് ചെയ്യുന്ന ന്യു ജൻ അമ്മ മാരുടെ അവസ്ഥ ഡോക്ടർക്ക് അറിയില്ല എന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു. അതൊക്കെ ഫേസ് ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റാത്തത് കൊണ്ടാണ് marriage Venda എന്ന് പെൺകുട്ടികൾ തീരുമാനിക്കുന്നത്
The younger generation don't want more kids because of all the overpopulation issues we all faced growing up. It is terrible. We have no more room to breathe or live a good quality of life. less kids , more greenery its better that way
Exactly. Not everyone need to breed and overpopulate the country. Parenting is a burden for those who are not willing to take it as a challenge. Live free and enjoy the life without hurting the nature or it's living beings.
ഡോക്ടർസ് എങ്ങനെ ഓക്കെ പറഞ്ഞാൽ അല്ലേ നിങ്ങൾക്ക് business ഉണ്ടാകൂ. കുട്ടികൾ വേണം എന്നവർക്ക് ആകാം, വേണ്ട എന്ന് തീരുമാനിക്കുന്നതിലും തെറ്റില്ല. കല്യാണം കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ കുട്ടികൾ ഉണ്ടായേതീരൂ എന്നൊന്നും ഇല്ല.. Pressure തരുന്ന വീട്ടുകാരും നാട്ടുകാരും ഈ പ്രസംഗിക്കണ ഡോക്ടറും ചിലവിനു തരില്ല. നമ്മൾ തന്നെ കഷ്ടപ്പെട്ട് അദ്ധ്വാനിച്ചാലേ നടക്കൂ. അതിനു വരുമാനം വേണം . അതുകൊണ്ട് കുട്ടി ഉണ്ടാക്കുന്നതും, ഇല്ലാത്തതും, വേണ്ട എന്ന് വെക്കുന്നതും, adopt ചെയ്യുന്നതും എല്ലാം personal choices ആണ്. എല്ലാരുo വിശേഷം ആയില്ലേ എന്ന ചോദ്യം കേട്ട് കൊച്ചു ആയാൽ ആ കൊച്ചിന്റെ കാര്യത്തിൽ തീരുമാനം ആകും. പിന്നെ Gynecologists' നെ കാണാതെ psychiatrist നെ കാണാൻപോകാം .
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
What Dr says is a fact and we should respect that. Circumstances and choices can vary. Even in poor countries ladies are giving birth. May find social fabric rigid here could be an added fact.
Having a kid is ones option esp in a populated country like India....but the couples who have approached her is to treat for infertility...and she has seen so much cases ....whatever she said is absolutely true...biological clock and career clock is absolutely the same time
ഡോക്ടറേ ഞാനും premarriage കൗൺസിലിംഗിനു പോയതാ... അവരെല്ലാം പറയുന്നേ നല്ല പ്രായത്തിൽ കെട്ടണമെന്നു ആണ്, പിന്നെ സില്ലി റീസൺസിനു വേണ്ടി intimacy കുറക്കരുത്തുമെന്നു ആണ് പറയുന്നേ... 😍😍😍
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
For most people, life is just about sex and creating children to pass on their family trauma. Time pass because they cannot conceive of anything else that is worthwhile in this short life. Live and die like any animal.
Get married at a young age, have a couple of children and spend rest of the life in their upbringing is not the cup of tea for the present generation. The world is definitely changing. For today's youth, marriage is a hurdle which is best avoided, or atleast, delayed.
താങ്കളുടെ സംസാരം പഠിപ്പുള്ളവർക്കു മനസ്സിലാകു. കൂടുതലും ഇംഗ്ലിഷ് ആണ് ഞങ്ങളെപ്പേലെയുള്ളവർക്കുമനസ്സിലാകില്ല ദയവു ചെയ്ത ഇനീയുള്ള ചർച്ചകളെങ്കിലം മലയാളത്തിലാക്കിയാൽ ഞങ്ങൾക്കുകൂടിമനസ്സിലാക്കാം
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Parasparam manasilakate kutty undayttu oru use um ila. Take tym, get to knw each other, go for trips..compatable aya go for kids...eniku inganeye chindikan patu.. aftr 5 yrs of weddn, ipo settled aay tudangi..now I'm 6 mnths pregnant..first preg, post 30 yrs. itonum issue ala.financial stability is imp. Kuttikal akan time akumbo thanne aakum.Mental health is v important. Now I can comprehend better than the age of 24( if i were pregnant then)
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Ee pareyunath correct aanu bcz ipo ellarkum stress aan job stress money stress sandhoshm and samadhanam valare vilakuranj varua 30's avumpo thane shareerikamayi vayyayika ayi thudangunu todays generation And kalynm kutti ennathan bhadhyatha evn thought nml ipo padikukauan or work cheyyanu engil polum awidethe nmlle mentorsum ithane alle feed cheyunath family life importance mati veyka work life importance kodukua athin avar ittirikuna per hardword. Sherikum ndhinanu ee hardwork nalla food kazhikan nalla dress idan humansnte basic need is vasthram and aharam ipo needs elaborate ayi poykond irikua veed car kuttikale better education insurance so everything is depend on money. Paisa illenkil sandhoshm illan ulla avastha ayi. Inipo njn ulpede maranm enn vicharichal polum ee samoham athin anuvadhikeyumilla
Everything has its positives and negatives. Why does it feel like the doctor is trying so hard to insist on her ideology of making children must to people's minds. If people want to let them make kids, if not leave them alone. Don't make it sound like it's a mistake to not have kids.
ഡോക്റ്റർ പറഞ്ഞത് മനസ്സിലാകാതെ ആണ് പലരും കമന്റെഇടുന്നത്, ഇവരുടെ ക്ലിയിന്റെ ഒക്കെ സെറ്റിൽഡ് ആയി ജോബ് ഉള്ളവരാണ് അത്തരക്കാർ പോലും കുട്ടികൾ ഉണ്ടാകാൻ മടിക്കുന്നു എന്നും എല്ലാരും പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടണം എന്നെന്നും പറയുന്നില്ല, കപ്പിൾസ് ടെസ്റ്റിന് ശേഷം reproducing health ഓക്കേ ആണെങ്കിൽ നീടിവെച്ചോളും എന്നും പറയുന്നു, എനിക്ക് തോനുന്നു കുട്ടികൾ ഇല്ലാത്തവർക്ക് ആണ് ഡോക്ടർ പറയുന്നതിനോട് എതിർപ്പ് എന്ന്, കാരണം ജീവിതം എന്നത് 40 വയസിൽ തീരുന്നത് അല്ല അവിടെ തുടങ്ങുന്നത് ആൺ, അപ്പോഴേക്കും കുട്ടികൾ ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ ജീവിതം അലസമായി തോന്നുന്ന പലരും ഉണ്ട്, അപ്പോഴത്തേക്കും നേരം വൈകിയിരിക്കും, കുട്ടികൾ late ആയിട്ട് മതി എന്ന് കുട്ടികൾ ഉള്ള ആർക്കെങ്കിലും അഭിപ്രായം ഉണ്ടെങ്കിൽ ഇതിന് റിപ്ലൈ ചെയ്യുക
Ideally an arranged marriage happens in late 20s for a male. If the female partner is also in late 20s , people say , chance for complication in pregnancy or fertility issues are very high. The partners wont get enough timw to understand each other , and also settle with their lives. Career , House etc . On top of that brining a kid isnt it a burden ? In these scenario , how to maintain fertility ? Diet , exercise , regular sex Is it fine ? Kindly suggest doctor
Pinneyille. You don't need to understand anything in case of an arranged marriage. All understanding is done before the marriage by your family. You know them inside out. Me and my wife both are It professionals got married when we were 26 and conceived when we were 28-29. Ellaam aayittu kochundaakaan nokkiyirunnaal baakiyellaam kaanum. kuttikal mathram undakilla. We were lucky to get married early on. All of my friends asked us why are you getting married so early. But all of them are now depressed because pennu kittunnilla. Mookkil pallu mulachu pakuthiyennathinum . Marriage kazhinju oru kollam mathrame kaanoo ee curiosity and love okke. pinne if you're a woman and plan to be a mother you must get pregnant before you hit 30. House career okke ath kazhinju ishtam pole samayam und. And if you think bringing a kid to the world is a burden, please don't do it. That'll be the biggest injustice you can do to a kid.
@@knowledgeiswealth.Lineage?😂 What on earth you're talking about. We aren't living in those Mughals period. We aren't maurya's lineage. Your dispute atleast even makes some sense if you've said about the sthiram dialogue "kuttikal undengil relationship strong aagum"😮💨
മറുപടി മലയാളത്തിൽ ആക്കണം, ഇതൊരു മലയാളം ഇന്റർവ്യൂ എന്നല്ലേ പറയുന്നത്, ചോദ്യം മാത്രം മലയാളത്തിൽ പോര, മലയാളികളായ അത്ര വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം ഇല്ലാത്ത ദമ്പതികളോട് എങ്ങനെ സംസാരിക്കും, അവർ എങ്ങനെ മനസ്സിലാക്കും
ഞാനും എന്റെ വൈഫും എല്ലാ ദിവസവും sexa അത് കുറക്കണോ ഞങ്ങളുടെ ലൈഫ് തുടങ്ങിയിട്ട് 2 year ആയി എപ്പോളാ അവൾ ഒന്ന് എല്ലാകാര്യവും അറിഞ്ഞു പഠിച്ചു വന്നത് 🎊🎊🎊 ദൈവത്തിന് നന്ദി..
കുട്ടികളെ വേണ്ടവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക, അവരെ ശെരിയായ രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താൻ അറിയുന്നവർ മാത്രം ഉണ്ടാകുക
ആർക്കോ വേണ്ടി എന്തിനോ വേണ്ടി കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി ഇട്ടിട്ട് അവരുടെ ജീവിതം നശിപ്പിക്കാതിരിക്കുക
ഒരു ലൈക് അടിച്ചു. അത്രയേ പറ്റൂ.
👌👌👌👌
Exactly.. Athinte avasyam e ullu..
Satyam bro 😢
it's true bro
വളരെ ഉപകാരപ്രദമായ വീഡിയോ👍 മൂന്നുവർഷം മുമ്പ് അപ്‌ലോഡ് ചെയ്തതാണെങ്കിലും ഇന്നാണ് കാണുന്നത്.
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Mee too 😊
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്...
സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
മത പൊട്ടൻ എത്തിയല്ലോ
😂😂😂
Yes, Exactly👍🏽
Yess
This is my 7th year of marrige, iam married to my collage senior after 4years of relation ship കുട്ടി മെല്ലെ മതിന്ന് അന്നേ decide ചെയ്തതാണ് when we were marrierd i was 20&he was 22,so we give importance to study now both of us are well designated&financially stable with a 7mnth old boybaby ഞനിത് പറയാൻ കാരണം കുട്ടി അത് നമുക്ക് ഏറ്റവും convinient ആയ ടൈമിൽ മതി അപ്പോളേ ആ happiness poornamay എൻജോയ് ചയ്യാൻ പറ്റൂ
Kutty ath ningada prayam athayath kondanu ..hm athipo ningal paranjamansilakila
@@anjanakrishna9585 😁ആയിരിക്കാം ബട്ട്‌ ഹെൽത്ത്‌ ഇഷ്യൂസ് ഒന്നും ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ എടുപിടീന്ന് കുട്ടി ആവാതിരിക്കുന്നതാണ് നല്ലത് especialy പെൺപിള്ളേർക്ക്😁
@@anjanakrishna9585 late marrige ആണെങ്കിൽ പോലും ഹെൽത്ത്‌ ഇഷ്യൂ ഒന്നുമില്ലെങ്കിൽ ബേബി planned ആവുന്നതാണ് നല്ലത് especially in the case of women😁
Sathym aanu
Poli wowww
ആധുനിക സമൂഹത്തിൽ ആളുകൾക്ക് പേറ് അല്ല പ്രധാനം. വരുമാനവും തൊഴിലും ഒക്കെ ഉണ്ടായിട്ടു മതി പ്രസവം. ദാരിദ്ര്യവും ദുരിതവും സഹിച്ചു സഹിച്ചു ഇവിടെ ആളുകൾ പിള്ളേരും കൊന്ന് ആത്മഹത്യ ചെയ്യുകയാണ്. കുറെ പേറു നടന്നാലേ ഡോക്ടർക്ക് ബിസിനസ്‌ നടക്കുകയുള്ളു.
പ്രസവം നടന്നില്ലെങ്കിൽ അടുത്ത തലമുറയിലെ ആളുകളുടെ എണ്ണം കുറയും. അതോടെ തൊഴിലും വരുമാനവും കുറയും. വീണ്ടും ദാരിദ്ര്യം ഉണ്ടാകും. ചൈനക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ സംഭവിച്ച് കൊണ്ടിരിക്കുന്നത് അതാണ്
Exactly
ഇപ്പോഴും കുറെ പേർക്ക് കല്യാണവും ഭാര്യ ട്രോഫി അവരെ വളർത്തൽ പിന്നെ മരിക്കുക ഇത് തന്നെ
@@RIYAD28😂😂😂ഒരു നേരത്തെ അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തവൻ, നല്ല ഭക്ഷണം സമൃദ്ധിയായി തിന്നുന്നവനെ നോക്കി, ‘ഇങ്ങനെ തിന്നാൽ നിനക്ക് ഭാവിയിൽ കൊളെസ്ട്രോൾ വരും ’എന്ന് പറയണപോലെ ഉണ്ട്.
China ഇപ്പോൾ compete ചെയുന്നത് സാക്ഷാൽ US ആയിട്ടാണ്. ..
@@whiteangel3333 കൊമ്പിറ്റ് ചെയ്യുന്നുണ്ട്, പക്ഷെ ചൈന ഇപ്പൊൾ നേരിടുന്ന സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധിയെ പറ്റി പഠിച്ചാൽ മതി. ഇന്ത്യയിലേക്ക് ഇപ്പൊൾ ഒരുപാട് ഫോറിൻ ഇൻവെസ്റ്റ്മെൻ്റ് വരുന്നുണ്ട്, അതിന് കാരണം ഇവിടത്തെ യുവതലമുറ തന്നെയാണ്. ഇന്ത്യൻ ജനസംഖ്യയുടെ 47% 27 വയസ്സിന് താഴെയുള്ളവരാണ്. അഷ്ടിക്ക് വക ഇല്ലാത്തത് കയ്യിലിരിപ്പ് കൊണ്ടല്ലേ. പുതിയ പാർലമെൻ്റ്, കാക്കക്ക് അപ്പി ഇടാൻ 3000 കോടി ഇങ്ങനെ കുറെ നശിപ്പിക്കുന്നതിന് പകരം കൃത്യമായി ഉപയോഗിച്ചിരുന്നു എങ്കിൽ പട്ടിണി ഒക്കെ എന്നെ മാറിയേനെ
Dr Vijayalakshmi speech such a pure truth 💎
Infertility issue even in late 20s is something related to lifestyle because in older gen women used to be pregnant in their 30s and 40s.
3yr aayi upload chaithatt. Ellavarum kaanunnathu ipol aanu..
Financially it's important to raise a child, havings kids is not fun, it's a huge responsibility to raise the next generation
Any distressed couple going to meet her surely will come out totally depressed after hearing her merciless and blunt counseling, in a way also shaming them which one can make out the way she talks.
സാമ്പത്തികമായി ബുദ്ധിമുട്ടുന്ന പാവപ്പെട്ടവരോക്കൊക്കെ Doctor ചിലവിനു കൊടുക്കും കേട്ടോ. സാമ്പത്തികമില്ലെങ്കിൽ ഒരു കൊച്ചിനെ ഉണ്ടാക്കി നരകിക്കാൻ വിട്ടാൽ ദൈവം പൊറുക്കില്ല. വളർത്താൻ പറ്റുന്നവര് ഉണ്ടാക്കിയാൽ പോരെ. ഒന്നില്ലെങ്കിലും കഷ്ടപ്പെടുന്നത് സ്വന്ത മക്കളാണെന്ന ബോധമെങ്കിലും ഉണ്ടാവണം
😄 Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
you know she is talking about people who are calling her asking for a baby, right ? not the other way round.
@@0708im so what? What if your parents had decided not to have you!
Every one have problems and stress in life. There are people who go to govt hospital and there are people who go to luxury hospitals. There are children who study in low fees schools and there are some whi study in high fees schools. There is always someone who is higher or lower than you. That doesn't qualify anyone to decide not to have children, in the same way problems in life doesn't mean you can kill yourself.
വളർത്താൻ പറ്റില്ലെങ്കിൽ, സാമ്പത്തികം ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ പിന്നെ എന്തിനാ വിവാഹം കഴിച്ചേ!
@0708im What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they are middle class!!
What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos they had to earn and have responsibilities!!
What if your parents had decided not to have you bcos medical science had not developed much back then!!
Every generation has work stress. Previous generation had even more problems, less social security, medicine was not this advanced, no formal education(not to say schools).
Its not someones need that a person to have kids. Being a parent in itself is rewarding.
Good discussion.
But, why are you setting templates for people on how to live their life?
Sorry, I don't agree with everything the Dr is saying.
It's up to you what you want in life and how you define you family.
It's important to spend quality time with your family.
then dont cry when you dont have kids, doctor is saying its important to have kids at right time. Only the new generation have this quality time bs 😂
Doctor is saying people go behind to make house so it means instead of making a house we should be concentrating only on sex, if no house then do in the road also.
@@Ronin-bt1fj.. it means who got early all have kids and it is 100% true..that means there is no need of doctor for the couples who don't have kids .it's couples mistake that you didn't marry at early stage
Nice talk... What this doctor saying is very true... There is no sex education in this place.... I think this doctor and Dr anitha mani,, should sit together and give an awareness to the young generation...
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
സത്യം..... പണ്ടൊക്കെ വീട്ടുകാർ ആയിരുന്നു എല്ലാം.. ഇപ്പൊ എല്ലാം കൂട്ടുകാർ....
Question is, how many friends will be there, when we fall into a problem
കൂട്ടുകാരെ നമ്പി ഇരുന്നാൽ ഊമ്പിച്ചു നിന്റെ കൈയിൽ തരും... വധംമേ.. 😂വീട്ടുകാർ എന്തൊക്കെ അവറതം പറഞ്ഞലും നമ്മുടെ ഉയർച്ച ആണ് അവര്ക് ഇഷ്ടം
@@srijithg6761how many parents will understand inter personal problems. Ultimate solution where get ..people go that way..
Aggressive and regressive at the same time. No matter how many years expertise she has, she needs to be an empathetic human in the first place as a doctor.
My thoughts exactly!
Truth hurts. She isn't regressive. She's just truthful to her profession.
@@zenjm6496 Whatever you say 🤦🏼♀️
What's exactly regressive about what she says. Trying to understand your thought process.
@@rprprprprprp712 You are posting same comment on everyone here opposing her differently. You might need to take a moment to look at yourself first.
She has a point...and she is talkn about couples who wana have kids not about someone who has decided not to have kids due to financial instability
Pinne, kutty undayal matre couples hold on cheyu nu ila..it depends on how much u like each other's company..
Culture is changing slowly....
Yea westernism
Do you heard about vatsyayan and Kamasutra. Khajuraho sculpture???
Good thing
Thats reality
Great Doctor, Excellent Interview ❤
I dont think it's right to force a couple to have kids when they dont want.i myself had a kid when I was not ready due to unbearable pressure from people and I dont like my motherhood stage at all.infact everytime my child throws a tantrum I curse the people who forced me to hv kids.there are so many families who have marital problems even with kids and that gets passed onto them and they grew upto be miserable.
True
U r too un lucky, motherhood is always pleasurable , marital problem s is not a mistake of kids , U should decision before having kids.
Absolutely right
Throughout your pregnancy, you didn't want the child. To fullfill other people's wishes that you are having that child. These thoughts of yours will effect the child's personality. The child is sure to become troublesome and throw tantrums. Parenting begins with pregnancy.
Ente ponnu chechi ningalkku vattundo. Aarelum nirbandhichal ningal ningalude kuttiye konnu kalayumo? Illa enkil pinne inganathe varthamanam parayaruth. Und enkil daivathe orthu aa kuttiye valla orphanagil kondupoyi aakkuka. allenkil divorce cheyyuka. Be realistic.
Sex is not a crime, but youths must be protected with proper guidances...
I disagree
It seems that this doctor isn't empathetic to her patients. She is setting templates and asking people to fit into that, irrespective of their psychological distress or financial situation. Excuses like back pain or smell are signs of some underlying fears. It should have been addressed empathetically by a doctor.
Pullikkariyude aduth consult cheyyaathe engane parayum empathy illaann..mandanmaarude comment box..
Kindky dont say that this doctor is an experienced person, she has been seeing people for more than 25+yrs .... കണ്ട് കണ്ട് she herself is feeling the Saddness inside of Couple.... empathetic അല്ലാത്ത ആളുകൾ എന്ന group അല്ല this Doctor.... നിങ്ങള്‍ക്ക് ഇത് unorthodox ആകും the way she is talking....
Patients seek empathy from their Doctors, but they actually need solution for their issues.
Remember, never expect life to be fair.
ഒരു ഗൈനകോളജിസ്റ്റിന് ലൈംഗീകതയെ പറ്റി എല്ലാം അറിയാം എന്ന് ചിന്തിക്കുന്നത് തന്നെ ഏറ്റവും വലിയ അബദ്ധം
Pne thanikk anoo ariyvnn....avr mbbs edth verthee allaa
Ni aanalo kodathi aneech poda
Reality! Well said doctor 💯
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Doctor doesn't understand job stress😂
Wow. I respect this lady
Those who find the missionery position difficult should try the soldier position. Keep the woman on the table and log in the standing position. This position requires much less energy than the missionery posture and can also delay the climax.
@@Vinnyz98yes and also eat less before sex. Full stomach makes you tired😌
1. Find a right partner ( similar and compatible to you in all walks of your life. )
2. Have frequent checkup with gp and gynaec and rectify if any issues. Freeze eggs.
3. Have a good lifestyle. Keep your intimacy in check with your partner. Understand each other well.
4. Whenever you both are ready to take that big step of becoming parents(apart from any external pressure), plan it accordingly. Consider finance, mental health, initial supports available, career challenges.
5. Consult doctor and take folic acid and know your ovulation date. Try to conceive. But don't stress out.
God bless and you will conceive., else try and check with doctors. Still you have your beautiful life ahead. Live peacefully with or without child. ❤
Doc your are very right talking 👍
Wow how well spoken she is!!! She’s excellent in her field!
ആധുനിക കാലo കേൾക്കേണ്ട വാക്കുകൾ, ഇന്നത്തെ തലമുറ ഇത്തരം ഡോക്ടർസിനെ പോലുള്ളവരുടെ വാക്കുകൾ നിർബന്ധമായും കേൾക്കുക, തീർച്ചയായും ഉപകാരപ്പെടും.❤
Baavi thalamurayk vendi kuttikale indakenam en parayunavarod parayan uleth - ranjyathin vendi prasavikan njn gandhi ala.
😂
തലമുറ അവിടെ തീർന്നു പോകില്ലേ എന്ന് ചോദിക്കുന്നവരോട്;
"ഞങ്ങൾ മൗര്യ വംശമല്ല"
😅
Well said Doctor 💯🔥👍🏻👍🏻
No. Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
ഇതുപോലത്തെ കുറേ വെളിവില്ലാത്തവരും കുറേ മത നേതാക്കളും ഒക്കെ പ്രസംഗിക്കും കുറേ കുട്ടികളെ പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ.. അവസാനം അഷ്ടിക്ക് വകയില്ലാതെ കുട്ടികളുടെ ജീവിതം ദുരിതമാകും.. കുറച്ചു വളരുമ്പോൾ അവർ തന്നെ തിരിച്ചു ചോദിക്കും നോക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ എന്തിനാ ഞങ്ങളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ പോയതെന്ന്... പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടാൻ പറയുന്നവർ ആരും ചിലവിനു തരില്ല.. സാമ്പത്തികം മാത്രമല്ല, കുട്ടികൾ വളരുന്നതിനനുസരിച്ചു അവരോട് ഒപ്പം സമയം ചിലവഴിക്കാനും നല്ല രീതിയിൽ വളർത്താനും അറിയണം.. അത് വലിയ ഉത്തരവാദിത്തം തന്നെയാണ്.. അതിനു കഴിയില്ലെങ്കിൽ ദയവ് ചെയ്ത് കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാതിരിക്കുക...
സാമ്പത്തികം ഇല്ല, കുട്ടിയോടൊപ്പം സമയം ചിലവാക്കാൻ കഴിയില്ല. പിന്നെ എന്തിനാ വിവാഹം കഴിച്ചേ. ചില വിട്ടുവിഴിച്ചകൾക്കൊക്കെ തയാറാകണം.
കുട്ടികളെ ഉണ്ടാക്കാൻ മാത്രം അല്ല സെക്സ്
സെക്സ് ചെയ്താൽ ഇപ്പത്തന്നെ കുട്ടിയുണ്ടാവും എന്ന് ആരാ പറഞ്ഞെ,, കുട്ടി വേണ്ടെങ്കിലും വേണങ്കിലും സെക്സ് ചെയ്യാം,,വേണ്ടെങ്കിൽ മുൻകരുതൽ എടുത്താൽ മതി,, 👍🏼
മര്യാദക്കു കേൾക്കാൻ പോലും തയ്യാറാകാതെ comment വർക്കേഴ്സ് ഇവിടെയും ഉണ്ട്. എന്താണു പറയുന്നതെന്നോ അത് എന്തുമാത്രം ഗുണകരമാണെന്നോ അല്ല നോക്കുന്നത്.അവിവേകം ആഘോഷിക്കലാണല്ലോ ഇപ്പോഴത്തെ ട്രെൻഡ്...
സത്യത്തിൽ ഡോക്ടറുടെ ഈ ക്ലാസ്സ് ദൈവികമായ ഒരിടപെടൽ ആയിട്ടു കാണേണ്ടതാണ്.Thank you so much 🙏
Exactly
I see many comments about her being regressive, unempethetic etc. I feel she is not generalising. She is talking about couples who come to her for treatment/IVF being an infertility specialist and she blame them because they come for IVF without having proper frequent sex. It is an individual choice to have children or not. But if you are planning dont delay to 35+ and wait for “well settled” to have children and go for treatment even without ‘trying’ properly.. Hope criticisers get her point.
She literally said "one should have a child to have a stable relationship".
സന്തോഷായി ഡോക്ടർ🎉
Dr. Please study about Christian pre marriage course and comment on it. They cover almost all aspects of family life, such as moral, physical, spiritual etc.. etc .. in deep. Doctors take classes for physical matters including sex. Psychologist teach about the psychological matters and religious take classes about spiritual matters. In a short we can say that they cover all the aspects related to family life. Not like you think and told 😢
Well well said 💯
Well done Dr.
Unmarried aaayitulla enikk ithokke enthinaavo notifications varunnathu 😂😂
Practical easy akum bro. 😅
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@@RajeshKumars-gm1rz 😜
നാട്ടില്‍ ജോലി ഇല്ല . 2 masters എടുത്ത് 6 വര്‍ഷത്തോളം work experience ഉള്ള എനിക്ക് kittunnath 17000 rs ആയിരുന്നു... in lawsinte പോരും ശുഷ്കിച്ച salary um support ഇല്ലാത്ത ജോലിയുമായി valanju... ഒടുവില്‍ എല്ലാരെയും പോലെ ഞങ്ങളും vidhesheshathekk പോന്നു. ഇവിടെ ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ ജനിപ്പിച്ചു വളര്‍ത്താനുള്ള ബുദ്ധിമുട്ട്‌ വളരെ വലുതാണ് . സാമ്പത്തിക പ്രതിസന്ധി ഉള്ള sadharanakkarkk ഇതൊക്കെ vichaarikaan മാത്രമേ nadakkullu...
btech grad from government University... same അവസ്ഥ
പണ്ടത്തെ ആളുകളെ പോലെ കൂടുതൽ ചിന്ദിക്കാതെ അങ്ങ് ചയ്യുക. എല്ലാം പടച്ചോന്റെ കയ്യിലാണ് 👌☺️
ഞാൻ പത്തു വരെ പഠിച്ചുള്ളൂ. Psc പഠിച്ചു റെയിൽവേയിൽ ജോലി കിട്ടി 8yrആയി സാലറി 45+ഉണ്ട്. നാട്ടിൽ ജോലി ഇല്ലാത്ത കൊണ്ട് അല്ല. സാലറി കുറവ് ആണ്. അതാണ് ആളുകൾ പോകുന്നത്. പിന്നെ നല്ല ലൈഫ് ആസ്വദിക്കാനും
@@prajithkarakkunnel5482 PSC listil വന്നതാണ്.. പക്ഷേ 3 വര്‍ഷത്തോളം ചുമ്മാ pooyii...
@@marigoldtalks6774 ഒരു കുട്ടിയെ വളര്‍ത്തുമ്പോള്‍ അതിനോട് ചെയ്യുന്ന krooratha ആകരുത് അല്ലോ. സാമ്പത്തികമായി secure അല്ലാത്തത് കൊണ്ട് ജോലി രാജി വയ്ക്കാന്‍ സാഹചര്യം ഇല്ല... രണ്ട് പേരുടെ കാര്യം മാത്രം aanel ok. പക്ഷേ രണ്ട് പേരുടെയും parentsine നോക്കുന്നതും ഞങ്ങൾ തന്നെ ആണ്.
Nammal Physically, Mentally, Financially ellam ok aayi enn namukk thanne thonnumbol maathram oru kunjine kurich chinthikkunnath aan nallath. Allathe veruthe oru jeevane koodi bhoomiyilekk kond vann kashtappeduthano? Oru kunj undayal athine valarthaan ulla saambathikam ellavarkkum undennu varilla. Avarkkokke ee parayunna doctors chilavinu kodukkilla. 💯
life is one only.We should be happy in living the life. This is 21st centuary.The living expense is very high.nowadays,if both ones work only, we can meet our daily needs.So many sicknesses,even the covid vaccines also affected people’s health so seriously.Sadly,Old people will never understand the challenges what this generation are facing today!Why should we have kids when we have no enough money or health? It will affect our kids’ mental and physical state in different ways.I know personally some kids are feeling alone at home because their parents have no quality time to spend with their kids and they will do some mischiefs to get attention from their parents.And that will make the situation worse. think practically and logically.
I second that 👍
Glad someone spoke about this ❤
എന്നും പറ്റുന്നൊരു patnere തേടുന്നു
Svantham makante oru karyavum nokkatha oru husband anu enikkullath.....adhehathintem chilavu nammalu nokkandath kond gathikett veedupekshich irangiyavalanu njanum ente makanum.........innadheham koode jeevikkan chellan case koduthekkanu...thalparyamillannu paranju,makante education nu vendi cash venam ennu paranjapo koode ninnal cheyyam ennu....inne vare onnum cheyyatha aal ini enth tharana....alkk vendath nammale onnum alla, food indakki kodukkanum,vazhakadilkanim,chilavu nokkanum aalu venam....athra thanne........
Dr well said
Dont have kids in hurry, people say that have children at right time, but if that time is not right in financial t rms th n both you and kid will suffer
True atleast one should have a stable job
I was enjoying the interview because of Dr's way of explanations.
ഉണ്ടാക്കി തന്നാൽ മതി നോക്കാം എന്ന് പറയുന്നവർ തിരിഞ്ഞ് നോക്കിയില്ല
maternity leave kazhinj pinnem extended ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റുന്നത്രയും കാലം extent ചെയ്ത് കുഞ്ഞിനെ നോക്കും. പിന്നെയും കുഞ്ഞിനെ നോക്കുന്നത് അമ്മയുടെ മാത്രം കടമ എന്നോണം ഒന്നും കണ്ടില്ല എന്ന് ഭാവിക്കുന്ന husband
രണ്ട് പേരും ജോലിക്ക് പോയാൽ മാത്രം ജീവിക്കാൻ കഴിയുന്ന സാമൂഹിക ചുറ്റുപാട്.
ഇതൊക്കെ ഫേസ് ചെയ്യുന്ന ന്യു ജൻ അമ്മ മാരുടെ അവസ്ഥ ഡോക്ടർക്ക് അറിയില്ല എന്ന് തോന്നുന്നു.
അതൊക്കെ ഫേസ് ചെയ്യാൻ പറ്റാത്തത് കൊണ്ടാണ് marriage Venda എന്ന് പെൺകുട്ടികൾ തീരുമാനിക്കുന്നത്
Kaliyakkan allathe thanne….i would like to know about her family timeline vs profesion sincerly
Doctor കിടു ആണ്..... Straight to the point..... Busy schedule oru pride aayi kond nadakunna mandanmaar
Doctor pwoli...❤ really appreciate her words 🙏🏼
All men and women must undergo a comprehensive medical checkup before marriage. This is necessary to avoid getting saddled with infertile partners
Will women agree to it ?
So infertile people didn't want marriage?
do you think this will help in love marriages ?
😮 so you are someone looking to get married according to the best checklist, think about having a trial run 🏃♀️ 😂
Kuttikal undakkaan matram kalyanam kazhikkunnu enna 17aam noottaandile chintha
D3 ,Omega 3, B vitamins. All are important.. Keep insulin low.. For more
The younger generation don't want more kids because of all the overpopulation issues we all faced growing up. It is terrible. We have no more room to breathe or live a good quality of life. less kids , more greenery its better that way
This video don't make sense to me... there are alot of things in this generation...which is beyond having children
Exactly. Not everyone need to breed and overpopulate the country. Parenting is a burden for those who are not willing to take it as a challenge. Live free and enjoy the life without hurting the nature or it's living beings.
Spouse മായി spend cheyyaan മടിയുള്ള ഒരു വലിയ തലമുറ ഇപ്പോൾ ഉണ്ടെന്നു തോനുന്നു
ഡോക്ടർസ് എങ്ങനെ ഓക്കെ പറഞ്ഞാൽ അല്ലേ നിങ്ങൾക്ക് business ഉണ്ടാകൂ. കുട്ടികൾ വേണം എന്നവർക്ക് ആകാം, വേണ്ട എന്ന് തീരുമാനിക്കുന്നതിലും തെറ്റില്ല. കല്യാണം കഴിഞ്ഞാൽ കുട്ടികൾ ഉണ്ടായേതീരൂ എന്നൊന്നും ഇല്ല.. Pressure തരുന്ന വീട്ടുകാരും നാട്ടുകാരും ഈ പ്രസംഗിക്കണ ഡോക്ടറും ചിലവിനു തരില്ല. നമ്മൾ തന്നെ കഷ്ടപ്പെട്ട് അദ്ധ്വാനിച്ചാലേ നടക്കൂ. അതിനു വരുമാനം വേണം . അതുകൊണ്ട് കുട്ടി ഉണ്ടാക്കുന്നതും, ഇല്ലാത്തതും, വേണ്ട എന്ന് വെക്കുന്നതും, adopt ചെയ്യുന്നതും എല്ലാം personal choices ആണ്. എല്ലാരുo വിശേഷം ആയില്ലേ എന്ന ചോദ്യം കേട്ട് കൊച്ചു ആയാൽ ആ കൊച്ചിന്റെ കാര്യത്തിൽ തീരുമാനം ആകും. പിന്നെ Gynecologists' നെ കാണാതെ psychiatrist നെ കാണാൻപോകാം .
Dr. parayunnathu valare correct anu ipol ulla aninum penninu time illa avaru ellam vere oru lokathu anu
What about the role of Covid vaccine on infertility?
Possiblity Undo
Yes
Possibility ond
അതിൻ്റെ പിന്നിൽ പോയാൽ corporate nte ചതി മനസ്സിലാവും
Bill gates
❤❤dr.mama.talking real .truths..grate job
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
18:28
After 50,there’s no sex ennu paranjathu moshamayi poyi. I wish to have even after 50.
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We men have physical needs.
Evar nthokeya parayne . Evarda parachil kettit ntho frustration ulla pole thonunu
അതേ
What Dr says is a fact and we should respect that. Circumstances and choices can vary. Even in poor countries ladies are giving birth. May find social fabric rigid here could be an added fact.
Having a kid is ones option esp in a populated country like India....but the couples who have approached her is to treat for infertility...and she has seen so much cases ....whatever she said is absolutely true...biological clock and career clock is absolutely the same time
ഡോക്ടറേ ഞാനും premarriage കൗൺസിലിംഗിനു പോയതാ... അവരെല്ലാം പറയുന്നേ നല്ല പ്രായത്തിൽ കെട്ടണമെന്നു ആണ്, പിന്നെ സില്ലി റീസൺസിനു വേണ്ടി intimacy കുറക്കരുത്തുമെന്നു ആണ് പറയുന്നേ... 😍😍😍
26:50 26:50
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Right
True
abstinence is said against abortion if it's an unwanted pregnancy
കാര്യങ്ങൾ ഓപ്പൺ ആയിട്ട് തന്നെ തുറന്നു പറഞ്ഞു 🙏🏻
Ithokke oroorutharude personal choice alle ?! Sex and kuttykal mathram aano life ?!
Ith randum matty nirthyal dambathya jeevithathil vere enthanu
Vere yenthund saho😂
You'll understand if you're married.
For most people, life is just about sex and creating children to pass on their family trauma. Time pass because they cannot conceive of anything else that is worthwhile in this short life. Live and die like any animal.
പിന്നേ എന്തിനാ കല്ല്യാണം കഴിക്കുന്നത്.... വല്ല ലിവിംഗ് together ന് പോയാൽ പോരെ 😂
Early marraige right partnere kandpidikkanum kurach paadavum...oru long lasting relationshipum venallo...
Like doctor said these ppl arent normal & my question is if these ppl become parents will they be able to parent their kids well.
Ath pinne ivarude department alallo 😂
Fruitful discusion
I watched this when i was 18 first and now here im again❤
Doctor sathyam vilich parayunu elarkum ath pidikanm aennila
Get married at a young age, have a couple of children and spend rest of the life in their upbringing is not the cup of tea for the present generation. The world is definitely changing. For today's youth, marriage is a hurdle which is best avoided, or atleast, delayed.
Super content.. great vedio 👍👍
Ivar angne palathum parayum,life secure akkan nokkuka
Pett perukal all nammude Lakshyam
Pinne nammal kashtappetta pole nammude makkale undakki avarude thalayil badhyathakal aakkan nilkaruth
One of the most informative interviews that I have seen! Thank you doctor for addressing such relevant issues. 🙏♥️
Maria this issue ur lifeil undoo😍😍
Congrats 🎉 well said doctor 👏
But having baby when we are in our goodhealth and age is much more better than delaying purposefully for some other gains is not a good idea
Such a Great information with Reality
താങ്കളുടെ സംസാരം പഠിപ്പുള്ളവർക്കു മനസ്സിലാകു. കൂടുതലും ഇംഗ്ലിഷ് ആണ് ഞങ്ങളെപ്പേലെയുള്ളവർക്കുമനസ്സിലാകില്ല ദയവു ചെയ്ത ഇനീയുള്ള ചർച്ചകളെങ്കിലം മലയാളത്തിലാക്കിയാൽ ഞങ്ങൾക്കുകൂടിമനസ്സിലാക്കാം
Doctor ree. 23rd agil kuttikal aayavar , avarude kuttikalleyokkevidheshethekk ayachu. Kaaranam saambhathikam. Ippol avar ottakkanu
Rathri poyi kanunna doctor sabine
Future le indayillle lo nne karuthi ippo thannea indavanda we can adopte
💯 agree with this doctor
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Parasparam manasilakate kutty undayttu oru use um ila. Take tym, get to knw each other, go for trips..compatable aya go for kids...eniku inganeye chindikan patu.. aftr 5 yrs of weddn, ipo settled aay tudangi..now I'm 6 mnths pregnant..first preg, post 30 yrs. itonum issue ala.financial stability is imp. Kuttikal akan time akumbo thanne aakum.Mental health is v important.
Now I can comprehend better than the age of 24( if i were pregnant then)
Marriage cheyndavar chyuka ...allathavar chyenda no issue.Better to be peaceful rather than in toxic relationship
Super class👍👍👍
Finally I heard someone with sense talking on the Internet
Doctor is still living in 19th century. Doctor can blame because she is a doctor who earns a lot of money as she is also a business owner. Her clients are mostly rich people. So she is generalising the people from what she sees everyday. Look at normal people who have to work, earn and have responsibilities. These days we need a lot of money to run a family and take care of kids and their needs. It is impossible in middle class and lower class. Also health issues are higher in these days as more women are working these days to meet the ends and they get health issues from sitting in a chair for a whole day or working in normal shifts. They get literally tired when they hit home. Doctor doesn't understand the job stress, financial stress and family stress. Not everyone has helping maids to help at home or parents at home to help them. People have loans to repay, people have health issues and hospital bills are huge. School fees are high. This lady is comparing rich celebrities with normal people. This doctor needs some counselling.. Madam you need to step down from your tower and walk among normal people to understand their life, needs, issues and more. Very Bad observation, Doctor 👎.
Informative discussion...👍🏻
Correct chila family il sex illa🥰🥰
Awesome listening to u ma'am. I hope youngsters listen to this
Ee pareyunath correct aanu bcz ipo ellarkum stress aan job stress money stress sandhoshm and samadhanam valare vilakuranj varua 30's avumpo thane shareerikamayi vayyayika ayi thudangunu todays generation
And kalynm kutti ennathan bhadhyatha evn thought nml ipo padikukauan or work cheyyanu engil polum awidethe nmlle mentorsum ithane alle feed cheyunath family life importance mati veyka work life importance kodukua athin avar ittirikuna per hardword. Sherikum ndhinanu ee hardwork nalla food kazhikan nalla dress idan humansnte basic need is vasthram and aharam ipo needs elaborate ayi poykond irikua veed car kuttikale better education insurance so everything is depend on money. Paisa illenkil sandhoshm illan ulla avastha ayi. Inipo njn ulpede maranm enn vicharichal polum ee samoham athin anuvadhikeyumilla
Everything has its positives and negatives. Why does it feel like the doctor is trying so hard to insist on her ideology of making children must to people's minds. If people want to let them make kids, if not leave them alone. Don't make it sound like it's a mistake to not have kids.
ഡോക്റ്റർ പറഞ്ഞത് മനസ്സിലാകാതെ ആണ് പലരും കമന്റെഇടുന്നത്, ഇവരുടെ ക്ലിയിന്റെ ഒക്കെ സെറ്റിൽഡ് ആയി ജോബ് ഉള്ളവരാണ് അത്തരക്കാർ പോലും കുട്ടികൾ ഉണ്ടാകാൻ മടിക്കുന്നു എന്നും എല്ലാരും പെറ്റ് കൂട്ടണം എന്നെന്നും പറയുന്നില്ല, കപ്പിൾസ് ടെസ്റ്റിന് ശേഷം reproducing health ഓക്കേ ആണെങ്കിൽ നീടിവെച്ചോളും എന്നും പറയുന്നു, എനിക്ക് തോനുന്നു കുട്ടികൾ ഇല്ലാത്തവർക്ക് ആണ് ഡോക്ടർ പറയുന്നതിനോട് എതിർപ്പ് എന്ന്, കാരണം ജീവിതം എന്നത് 40 വയസിൽ തീരുന്നത് അല്ല അവിടെ തുടങ്ങുന്നത് ആൺ, അപ്പോഴേക്കും കുട്ടികൾ ഇല്ലെങ്കിൽ ജീവിതം അലസമായി തോന്നുന്ന പലരും ഉണ്ട്, അപ്പോഴത്തേക്കും നേരം വൈകിയിരിക്കും, കുട്ടികൾ late ആയിട്ട് മതി എന്ന് കുട്ടികൾ ഉള്ള ആർക്കെങ്കിലും അഭിപ്രായം ഉണ്ടെങ്കിൽ ഇതിന് റിപ്ലൈ ചെയ്യുക
Stable relationship venel kutti undavanam ennnu!
😂
😂 presnam starts there
Ideally an arranged marriage happens in late 20s for a male.
If the female partner is also in late 20s , people say , chance for complication in pregnancy or fertility issues are very high.
The partners wont get enough timw to understand each other , and also settle with their lives.
Career , House etc .
On top of that brining a kid isnt it a burden ?
In these scenario , how to maintain fertility ?
Diet , exercise , regular sex
Is it fine ?
Kindly suggest doctor
Pinneyille. You don't need to understand anything in case of an arranged marriage. All understanding is done before the marriage by your family. You know them inside out. Me and my wife both are It professionals got married when we were 26 and conceived when we were 28-29. Ellaam aayittu kochundaakaan nokkiyirunnaal baakiyellaam kaanum. kuttikal mathram undakilla. We were lucky to get married early on. All of my friends asked us why are you getting married so early. But all of them are now depressed because pennu kittunnilla. Mookkil pallu mulachu pakuthiyennathinum . Marriage kazhinju oru kollam mathrame kaanoo ee curiosity and love okke. pinne if you're a woman and plan to be a mother you must get pregnant before you hit 30. House career okke ath kazhinju ishtam pole samayam und. And if you think bringing a kid to the world is a burden, please don't do it. That'll be the biggest injustice you can do to a kid.
Apo kalynm kazhikathe singles nte oke avasthayo😢
Doctor mar paisakku vendi door turannu kodukannatu kondanu aalkar varunnatu..
Already population is Very high than why should make more children
Population kuravaayadh kond raajyathin vendiyaano ithrem naal aalkaar kuttigale indaakkiyirunnadh 👀👀
Its not about population its about your lineage
അതാവും മോദിജി single🦅ആയി നടക്കണേ..
@@knowledgeiswealth.nobody cares about your lineage
@@knowledgeiswealth.Lineage?😂 What on earth you're talking about. We aren't living in those Mughals period. We aren't maurya's lineage. Your dispute atleast even makes some sense if you've said about the sthiram dialogue "kuttikal undengil relationship strong aagum"😮💨
Interesting discussion
മറുപടി മലയാളത്തിൽ ആക്കണം, ഇതൊരു മലയാളം ഇന്റർവ്യൂ എന്നല്ലേ പറയുന്നത്, ചോദ്യം മാത്രം മലയാളത്തിൽ പോര, മലയാളികളായ അത്ര വിദ്യാഭ്യാസം ഇല്ലാത്ത ദമ്പതികളോട് എങ്ങനെ സംസാരിക്കും, അവർ എങ്ങനെ മനസ്സിലാക്കും
Come to clinic or go to school
അതിനു dr Malayalam ആണല്ലൊ പറയുന്നത്
English ariyarthorokke vidyabhyasam illathoraanenkil lokath 90 percentage janangalum vidyabhyasam illathoraanu...!
ഡോക്ടർ പേരിന് മലയാളം പറയുന്നുണ്ട് മുഴുമലയാളം ഡോക്ടരെ വിലയിടിയും നിങ്ങൾക് മനസ്സിലായില്ലെങ്കിലും ഡോക്ടർക് മനസ്സിലാകുന്നുണ്ട്
@@tomthomas3746😂😂😂😂 you nailed it man...
Dr avarude nalla arivugal parayumbho arivillatha moota karyam parayale
ഞാനും എന്റെ വൈഫും എല്ലാ ദിവസവും sexa അത് കുറക്കണോ
ഞങ്ങളുടെ ലൈഫ് തുടങ്ങിയിട്ട് 2 year ആയി എപ്പോളാ അവൾ ഒന്ന് എല്ലാകാര്യവും അറിഞ്ഞു പഠിച്ചു വന്നത് 🎊🎊🎊 ദൈവത്തിന് നന്ദി..