I just smiled at myself in the mirror, for maybe the first time in my life. I felt the love for myself that the people who love me must feel. You freaking rock
Girl i just took off all my clothes, and walked around my house in my drawls and bras...you made me do that...the blinds was open 😂😂 It kills me, people think cse im fat im not supposed to be happy. Paaaleese! I am a happy fat. ALWAYS smiling, ALWAYS laughing. Gives no fukks whats goin on around me.
I started watching your videos because I love all the confidence. I just get so tired of ppl telling your face is so beautiful for you to be so big. That I even had gastric bypass surgery so ppl started saying that I was to skinny or I looked like if I was on drugs so I just started loving me for me. I'm so happy you did a video like this. Love u girl.
That’s hard...People that say those things are just projecting their own fears and insecurities within themselves. Of course, I still condone working out and eating decently for everyone to live as their best self, but no one should ever be that rude and comment on appearance like that.
8. Love yourself first. "Date myself". In the mirror, "I appreciate YOU" 7. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Pep talks. Be your own cheerleader in your head/mirror. 6. Stand taller. Smile back, at those who aren't smiling towards you. 5. Try different clothes. Break fashion "rules". Get out your comfort zone. 4. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit/0 time with those who don't support you. 3. Embracing negative feedback. Make people uncomfortable. If people are hating on you for no reason, you're doing something right. 2. Find online communities who supports you. TH-cam, fans can become friends, and friends can become fans. (Make friends online). 1. Be patient in the process of falling in love with yourself, and your body.
You are one of the closest person on TH-cam that has the same body shape as me and I love that bc most pluse size TH-camrs have no tummy and I love seeing how the close fits you bc I can see how it would look in meeeee 😘😊💕
Dear Stella, You are such a wonderful, wise person. I am sending you lots of love. I am way, way older than you. However, that doesn't matter to me. I have always felt that I can learn from anyone. The fact that I could be your grandmother is beside the point. You have so much wisdom and compassion that anyone, anyone can learn from you if they are willing to be humble and listen. People in some faiths talk about "Old Souls". I think you are one of those. The messages you so freely offer the world far transcends whatever year you were born. Thank you for all that you do, Stella! Chris
Thank you so much. I'm having a really hard time with understanding who I am and that I'm even good enough to show my face in public let alone my body. I've been dealing with thoughts of worthlessness and disgust. I don't talk to my family anymore for the sake of my mental health and I'm trying really hard to find a community where I feel better afterwards instead of worse. I'm going thrifting today for summer outfits because I left literally all of my clothes at my mom's when I left. I gained a significant amount of weight trying to self medicate. I think this summer I'm going to try being in love with myself. I can't even look at myself in the mirror right now but I know I have to learn to love myself. Thank you for coming into my life this morning and giving me the pep talk I really needed. I'm going to wear a skirt instead of black leggings ;) thank you thank you.
Stella...you are an amazing person (from what I see)...I want to catch a drink and hang out with you! You are such a positive personality that is so kind, happy and loving! Love the way you spin the worlds negativity. Beautiful inside and out! Xo
A meet n greet wit Stella... that would be amazing I live in New York and I will travel to meet her because she energy is just so amazing her positivity a personality you know and she's representing all plus-size women women in general and influencers... even men can relate to this video. Remain positive tell yourself you're worthy do things that make you happy...just really motivational. 🌷💎
I am so happy that you did this video. For so many years, I struggled with what people thought of me. I’m still a working progress, but I believe that these are the tools that we need to move forward in the journey to gaining self-esteem and confidence. Thank you for taking the time to do this😘
These advices are extremely useful. For example when I look into the mirror I cringe and begin berrating and criticising myself and putting myself down for not meeting my own expectations, for not being the person I have in my mind that I should be/look like. I truly thank you for helping all of us with our struggles. 🤗🤗
Loving yourself is a fundamental birthright! Its sad we are taught to feel not love ourselves for who we are. My family grew up where food was important part of life. My mom didnt have alot of it growing up so she always made sure we were well fed and had extra. My mom and dad also had a bar and restuarant. She came from Korea and is chinese/korean and makes some of the best authetic oriental food. People in MN would travel long distances to eat there. People still to this day talk about it 35 years later. That's what I grew up with! When my daughter goes to her dads him and his mom make comments to her about her weight all the time at 12 years old. "She shouldn't eat so much, she needs to eat healthier." I feel so sad. I can have the healthiest food around but what she wants is grandmas food! And grandma always gave one extra scoop for love! Her dad was in the military and so he can be disciplined. We were just taught to eat til we were content.
I try these self love exercises and I still can't love myself enough my confidence withered away when I gained weight which makes me depressed and I look in the mirror and see flab idk .. I struggle with this everyday
There are two options. To start loving yourself by talking to yourself (it sounds crazy but u have to do it) in a loving way. Or to change yourself. Try to find a middle and don‘t be too harsh to yourself.
I used to be there too. I had to take action and get a personal trainer at the gym to start feeling strong/good about myself (by no means am I a skinny gal, I still got a tummy and thick thighs that jiggle, but I feel physically and mentally stronger from doing the work). And while you don’t have to go that far, doing something as simple as taking a walk everyday or being mindful about what you eat for dinner that night can really help your mindset about being overweight. taking action towards a goal, even if it is small, can be very freeing.
Wow this really moved me! I felt your positive & embracing energy. I’ve never loved & accepted myself but your tips have really opened me to embrace me 💗.
I am sorry it took me so long to find your channel. This talk was amazing and you are beautiful inside and out. Enjoy and appreciate everything you're doing Lots of Luv
I'm trying to lose weight not only to gain more confidence (because I still don't feel comfortable wearing a skirt) but also because my health is at risk. Me being obese has caused heart problems like chest pain and trouble breathing which is most likely caused by being too big. My goal right now is to get below 250! I'd probably cry when I get there because I haven't been that weight for the last 2-3 years (I'm 272 rn). I'm doing all the tricks I know of which is taking multivitamins, fiber tablets, osmotic laxatives when I need it, drinking green tea, and eating less and healthier. I still hate exercise but I wanna try doing pole dancing because 1) it's great full body exercise and 2) to impress my boyfriend :)
i know this is an older video but i really needed to hear everything you said. thank you for making this, i hope one day i can truly feel confident like you. ❤❤❤
This was an amazing video and a lot of people needed to hear it you know to help us feel better about ourselves regardless of what anybody say or think
Hi Stella, you just gained a new subscriber today☺️ your words really changed everything for me. You are truly beautiful and I hope I can learn to love myself and be more confident the way you are🥺💕
I love this video it giving me some new looks and ideas to change my clothes wear and style. I never even like to think of my body in a bikini and now I'm trying to embrace my body and going to buy and show myself that i am prefect in my right and own skin. Thank you Stella I love your videos especially the clothes hauls.
My son called me fat today and honestly it hurt a little.. Mostly bc i know i am after having 2 babies within 2 years i don't feel the same.. I have been struggling so much lately but I'm gonna get my confidence back. I'm making a promise to myself as of now 🤞🏾
I know exactly what you are talking about.I'm finally happy with my body.I use to shower with my eyes closed but now when I get home from home and close that door I'm naked.😊💯
I am plus size, but even veing plus size I never thought a bigger type of plus size women could be beutiful becuase I had never seen one blossom and wear what they want, and not coward. And you completely changed my way if thought. After all we are all in a process. And you showed me how beutifull you and others can be💕
Need date my self... soon i gain a little financial stability... part of me why i feeling down... I need to look in the mirror more often to but I don't smile at myself I dont smile at myself because I'm thinking about everything else that's going on around me like how people feel I'm going to pay my car note how long I have to stay at work and when going to finally graduate so I tried to get like little pieces of clothing to make me feel better about myself but I'm not going nowhere and I'm not doing anything so I guess I could start with smiling in the morning at myself every time I come home it's dark every time I go to work in the morning is dark but thank you for this video its really inspirational and sometimes I feel like I'm over sensitive to stuff and maybe it's because I need to know what's right and what's wrong when it comes to stuff. I need set up my own boundaries like listening to my feelings there's a reason why I'm sad there's a reason why I feel uncomfortable and I have to figure out why
Does the bra fit, bc looks like it isn't holding you up..id be interested in buying ..im bigger in thighs and butt and wonder what size you are wearing. I fluctuate between a 2 and 3x
I have an old classmate who owns a gym, has his own brand of clothes, supplements, anti bullying program and podcast. He is always nice to me when he is single. When he gets a new gf, he goes on a spree of telling me there is no excuse for not going to the gym or for being fat. I am disabled due to my back, which makes it harder for me. Other "friends" see it too and just don't comment. I know I am "fat". I am a SAHM and don't get out much at all. I feel like it does matter what size I am, if I am unhappy inside. I am slowly working on the inside. I want to feel good on the inside and then let it shine out. Is that a bad thing?
He is not your friend. I don't care what he owns, he has no right to try and shame you or make you feel down about yourself. It's fine to work on the inside but be sure to surround yourself with people that love and uplift you. Life is too short to be miserable at the hands of someone else. Best wishes to you. We are all on a journey. You are not alone 😘
Sweetie. That right there is his own insecurity speaking out loud. He himself has not found a way to love himself enough to be ok with himself. His problem is when he gets a girlfriend he starts questioning himself even more and that is also being reflected on u. Let him know u are well aware of what u look like. He doesn't need to remind u, and that if he continues to feel the need to do so, to not speak to u at all. He either is your friend or he is not and a friend, no matter what he says, does NOT put their friends down, especially when they know they r self conscious about it. He simply is trying to make himself feel better by putting u down. Do not listen to him.
I'll try that tomorrow usually I smile at myself when I have a nice piece of clothing on the actually said that I didn't have to struggle with that made me feel better that's not even like in the morning when it's just my head I go into my mirror and I bet you could look at myself and feel sad and then when I put clothes on I feel happy especially when it came in a box that I just started I really need help mentally emotionally financially.... one day I will have the confidence and be able to appreciate appreciate myself better and really be financially stable where I can go on a date with myself instead of just getting a bottle of wine and touching myself.....yeahhhhhhh....lovely video 💖💖💎💎🌷🌷
Yesss i need find a online community.... please delete negative comments.... people shouldn't treat people like that you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all but yet they still watch the video and they still like And subscribe only to be negative and that's not helping anybody's cause they just want to feel better bout them selves cuz haters hate. I was reading some of the comments and one in particular was really rude and disgusting and that's not how people should treat people especially if they don't want to be treated like that. But that's only one person's opinion compared to all the others that show love and support
A meet n greet wit Stella... wine n chat...that would be amazing I live in New York and I will travel to meet her because her energy is just so amazing her positivity her personality you know and she's representing all plus-size women women in general and influencers... even men can relate to this video. Remain positive tell yourself you're worthy do things that make you happy...just really motivational. 🌷💎💖
I love your video it was so inspirational keep up the great work we love you over here no matter what size we are always remember you are all beautiful. Hugs to everyone 💖⚘
You are SO BEAUTIFUL & YOU SHINE SO BRIGHT from w/in, Stella, I'm in awe. Mwah. Love to ALL women. We have these incredible bodies (Goddamned it, we can actually make other people!!) and we're taught to hate our bodies by society??? That's just not on!!! Thankyou for your AMAZING, INSPIRATOINAL video xxoo
I would love to take a picture with you with us representing Calvin Klein I never did that before and I'm a little scared but you know I heard the message and I want to try it out it seems like a great confidence builder be great in your own skin I did take one picture of me in some Lane Bryant I guess pieces when I was on a cruise ship vacation and that's when I was smaller now I'm a little bit bigger but I love this video I love the picture that you took I heard good things about Calvin Klein and maybe one day I'll get to try on some pieces not really model but like at least take a good picture and feel like you said comfortable and loved with my body. This was very motivating
Hindu gurus have been teaching loving urself first for many years. Lots of books r written about it. Did u go to a guru for direction? Or a new age organisation?
I feel...kind of..shocked ? ..to see someone of your size be so confident. I sometimes feel like I don't have the right to be happy or confident because of my size (which is the same or quite close to yours) and replies I see on the internet and lol... bad friends. Cause I want to be confident but then there's that whole thing where they're like if you want to be confident and love yourself THEN LOSE THE FKING WEIGHT and it's like...so I can only be confident if I'm healthy? I acknowledge that I'm unhealthy but...why does that mean I can't be confident and...sexy! I was told by my friend once that I won't get a guy cause guys don't look at big girls...I have been so self conscious and I cut a lot of people out of my life and don't take as many pictures cause I'm embarassed to be seen on camera but especially videos and it sucks cause I wanted to be a singer and make music videos but now I don't want to be in it. I'm afraid about how I'm gonna be seen...anyway, I'm just happy to see you confident, interestING and full of life! You're not hiding yourself and your advice is inspiring! I'm interested to see your other videos, I feel like I have a lot to learn from you. Just wanted to say that.. thx 💜
I wonder if doctors told her that she's obese would she still think it's normal to be that size and lose weight I mean it's not normal for your stomach to hang past your pubic area
"It's not normal, for your stomach to hang past your pubic area". No. Its not normal for a complete stranger, to be thinking about a youtubers pubic area. 🙈
If you Are bodypositive , dosent that mean that you should love yourself and your body enough , too Try too loose some weight.All you bodypositive people out there.Some of you Are still young , and have not get any issues yet , but that Will come when you get older.
“I don’t need to lose weight or be pretty and be happy, I’m pretty now and can be happy now.” 🙏🏾
I just smiled at myself in the mirror, for maybe the first time in my life. I felt the love for myself that the people who love me must feel. You freaking rock
Girl i just took off all my clothes, and walked around my house in my drawls and bras...you made me do that...the blinds was open 😂😂
It kills me, people think cse im fat im not supposed to be happy. Paaaleese! I am a happy fat. ALWAYS smiling, ALWAYS laughing. Gives no fukks whats goin on around me.
getboogie1950 truth
🤣🤣🤣u said in a funny way
#happyfattygang
I started watching your videos because I love all the confidence. I just get so tired of ppl telling your face is so beautiful for you to be so big. That I even had gastric bypass surgery so ppl started saying that I was to skinny or I looked like if I was on drugs so I just started loving me for me. I'm so happy you did a video like this. Love u girl.
That’s hard...People that say those things are just projecting their own fears and insecurities within themselves. Of course, I still condone working out and eating decently for everyone to live as their best self, but no one should ever be that rude and comment on appearance like that.
Congratulations young lady! Calvin Klein is big time. Proud of you :-) Love your channel.
8. Love yourself first. "Date myself". In the mirror, "I appreciate YOU"
7. Smile at yourself in the mirror. Pep talks. Be your own cheerleader in your head/mirror.
6. Stand taller. Smile back, at those who aren't smiling towards you.
5. Try different clothes. Break fashion "rules". Get out your comfort zone.
4. Surround yourself with positive people. Limit/0 time with those who don't support you.
3. Embracing negative feedback. Make people uncomfortable. If people are hating on you for no reason, you're doing something right.
2. Find online communities who supports you. TH-cam, fans can become friends, and friends can become fans. (Make friends online).
1. Be patient in the process of falling in love with yourself, and your body.
I’ve been so down on myself lately. This is the exact video I needed. Thank you for being you!
♥
Ur like woah sheesh
You are one of the closest person on TH-cam that has the same body shape as me and I love that bc most pluse size TH-camrs have no tummy and I love seeing how the close fits you bc I can see how it would look in meeeee 😘😊💕
Your mentality is so beautiful and refreshing 💚💚
Dear Stella,
You are such a wonderful, wise person. I am sending you lots of love. I am way, way older than you. However, that doesn't matter to me. I have always felt that I can learn from anyone. The fact that I could be your grandmother is beside the point. You have so much wisdom and compassion that anyone, anyone can learn from you if they are willing to be humble and listen.
People in some faiths talk about "Old Souls". I think you are one of those. The messages you so freely offer the world far transcends whatever year you were born.
Thank you for all that you do, Stella!
Chris
“you can wear whatever you want to wear.” AMEN SIS
Thank you so much. I'm having a really hard time with understanding who I am and that I'm even good enough to show my face in public let alone my body. I've been dealing with thoughts of worthlessness and disgust. I don't talk to my family anymore for the sake of my mental health and I'm trying really hard to find a community where I feel better afterwards instead of worse. I'm going thrifting today for summer outfits because I left literally all of my clothes at my mom's when I left. I gained a significant amount of weight trying to self medicate. I think this summer I'm going to try being in love with myself. I can't even look at myself in the mirror right now but I know I have to learn to love myself. Thank you for coming into my life this morning and giving me the pep talk I really needed. I'm going to wear a skirt instead of black leggings ;) thank you thank you.
Stella...you are an amazing person (from what I see)...I want to catch a drink and hang out with you! You are such a positive personality that is so kind, happy and loving! Love the way you spin the worlds negativity. Beautiful inside and out! Xo
Kristine J lol are you in LA? Let’s hit it!
@@StellaKittrell girl I wish! I'm up here in cold ass Toronto, Canada! Come pass by this way. Bring your parka tho!
A meet n greet wit Stella... that would be amazing I live in New York and I will travel to meet her because she energy is just so amazing her positivity a personality you know and she's representing all plus-size women women in general and influencers... even men can relate to this video. Remain positive tell yourself you're worthy do things that make you happy...just really motivational. 🌷💎
I am so happy that you did this video. For so many years, I struggled with what people thought of me. I’m still a working progress, but I believe that these are the tools that we need to move forward in the journey to gaining self-esteem and confidence. Thank you for taking the time to do this😘
These advices are extremely useful. For example when I look into the mirror I cringe and begin berrating and criticising myself and putting myself down for not meeting my own expectations, for not being the person I have in my mind that I should be/look like.
I truly thank you for helping all of us with our struggles. 🤗🤗
Stella I love you. everytime I watch one of your videos i feel good. thank you.
Love you Stella! ... Always get the best vibes from you!
Amazing! Thank you ☁️
Your makeup is great!!!
I feel like I really needed to hear this!! Thank you! Much love
Loving yourself is a fundamental birthright! Its sad we are taught to feel not love ourselves for who we are. My family grew up where food was important part of life. My mom didnt have alot of it growing up so she always made sure we were well fed and had extra. My mom and dad also had a bar and restuarant. She came from Korea and is chinese/korean and makes some of the best authetic oriental food. People in MN would travel long distances to eat there. People still to this day talk about it 35 years later. That's what I grew up with! When my daughter goes to her dads him and his mom make comments to her about her weight all the time at 12 years old. "She shouldn't eat so much, she needs to eat healthier." I feel so sad. I can have the healthiest food around but what she wants is grandmas food! And grandma always gave one extra scoop for love! Her dad was in the military and so he can be disciplined. We were just taught to eat til we were content.
aw girl you are so inspirational and beautiful !!! thank you for sharing these tips 🥺
Feeling so inspired and positive after this video, thanks!
You are such an inspiration. Keep doing what you do.
I try these self love exercises and I still can't love myself enough my confidence withered away when I gained weight which makes me depressed and I look in the mirror and see flab idk .. I struggle with this everyday
show love to your body by feeding it nutritious and energizing foods, trust me it'll thank you💓
There are two options. To start loving yourself by talking to yourself (it sounds crazy but u have to do it) in a loving way. Or to change yourself. Try to find a middle and don‘t be too harsh to yourself.
I used to be there too. I had to take action and get a personal trainer at the gym to start feeling strong/good about myself (by no means am I a skinny gal, I still got a tummy and thick thighs that jiggle, but I feel physically and mentally stronger from doing the work). And while you don’t have to go that far, doing something as simple as taking a walk everyday or being mindful about what you eat for dinner that night can really help your mindset about being overweight. taking action towards a goal, even if it is small, can be very freeing.
@@Nov8th true I guess I need to be more mindful about what goes in my body
@@farahkadic5223 finding the middle is actually where i am trying to start but, maybe i should try option one first.
Wow this really moved me! I felt your positive & embracing energy. I’ve never loved & accepted myself but your tips have really opened me to embrace me 💗.
Sponsored by Calvin Klein!!! 🥳🥳🥳🥳
I love you girl! Everything you represent! You just seem like such a genuine soul!
Thank you so much for your video, as someone who has never really loved myself I found video very helpful and will try my best to apply the advice
Thank u for sharing ..I enjoyed..I love it. I see someone that LOOKS LIKE ME ..YEA FEELING GOOD..
I love her confidence 😍
I am sorry it took me so long to find your channel. This talk was amazing and you are beautiful inside and out. Enjoy and appreciate everything you're doing
Lots of Luv
I love this so much 💖 thank you for inspiring me to make my own videos 😊
I'm trying to lose weight not only to gain more confidence (because I still don't feel comfortable wearing a skirt) but also because my health is at risk. Me being obese has caused heart problems like chest pain and trouble breathing which is most likely caused by being too big. My goal right now is to get below 250! I'd probably cry when I get there because I haven't been that weight for the last 2-3 years (I'm 272 rn). I'm doing all the tricks I know of which is taking multivitamins, fiber tablets, osmotic laxatives when I need it, drinking green tea, and eating less and healthier. I still hate exercise but I wanna try doing pole dancing because 1) it's great full body exercise and 2) to impress my boyfriend :)
YOU MAKE ME PROUD
What size are your Calvin undies? I look similar to you on the bottom. Smaller at the top. Thanks for posting valuable stuff. Love from Sweden ❤️
Emelie Wesström 3X (:
i know this is an older video but i really needed to hear everything you said. thank you for making this, i hope one day i can truly feel confident like you. ❤❤❤
This was an amazing video and a lot of people needed to hear it you know to help us feel better about ourselves regardless of what anybody say or think
One day this will be natural for me and who I am!!!! 🎉 I name and claim it. I'm so thankful you made this video. ❤
Your makeup is amazing
Hi Stella, you just gained a new subscriber today☺️ your words really changed everything for me. You are truly beautiful and I hope I can learn to love myself and be more confident the way you are🥺💕
I love this video it giving me some new looks and ideas to change my clothes wear and style. I never even like to think of my body in a bikini and now I'm trying to embrace my body and going to buy and show myself that i am prefect in my right and own skin. Thank you Stella I love your videos especially the clothes hauls.
My son called me fat today and honestly it hurt a little.. Mostly bc i know i am after having 2 babies within 2 years i don't feel the same.. I have been struggling so much lately but I'm gonna get my confidence back. I'm making a promise to myself as of now 🤞🏾
Such an inspiration. Rock it girl.
Yessss you are amazing!!
I know exactly what you are talking about.I'm finally happy with my body.I use to shower with my eyes closed but now when I get home from home and close that door I'm naked.😊💯
Facts
Yesssss Queeeen
I am plus size, but even veing plus size I never thought a bigger type of plus size women could be beutiful becuase I had never seen one blossom and wear what they want, and not coward. And you completely changed my way if thought. After all we are all in a process. And you showed me how beutifull you and others can be💕
Love this!! 🎉🍾
This is such an amazing video that I really needed to see today!
I really love this video 🎥and thanks for doing this,
Your makeup is on point! I need a tutorial on this eye look ✨💛
You are amazing and inspiring to women of all ages. I just turned 50, and I'm starting to learn how to love myself.
I want everyone in the western world to watch this. Brilliant
You have a warm caring look in your eyes. And i love you. And you are the most beautiful person I have ever seen. Xxx
This was such a great video with excellent points! Thank you!
Thanks I really need to hear this sending hugs
Need date my self... soon i gain a little financial stability... part of me why i feeling down... I need to look in the mirror more often to but I don't smile at myself I dont smile at myself because I'm thinking about everything else that's going on around me like how people feel I'm going to pay my car note how long I have to stay at work and when going to finally graduate so I tried to get like little pieces of clothing to make me feel better about myself but I'm not going nowhere and I'm not doing anything so I guess I could start with smiling in the morning at myself every time I come home it's dark every time I go to work in the morning is dark but thank you for this video its really inspirational and sometimes I feel like I'm over sensitive to stuff and maybe it's because I need to know what's right and what's wrong when it comes to stuff. I need set up my own boundaries like listening to my feelings there's a reason why I'm sad there's a reason why I feel uncomfortable and I have to figure out why
Stella💗💗💗💗💗💗your freedom, I am not there yet. I support you.
I love your videos and confidence 😍❤️
Damn...facts... love this
Does the bra fit, bc looks like it isn't holding you up..id be interested in buying ..im bigger in thighs and butt and wonder what size you are wearing. I fluctuate between a 2 and 3x
Thank you Sis
I have an old classmate who owns a gym, has his own brand of clothes, supplements, anti bullying program and podcast. He is always nice to me when he is single. When he gets a new gf, he goes on a spree of telling me there is no excuse for not going to the gym or for being fat. I am disabled due to my back, which makes it harder for me. Other "friends" see it too and just don't comment. I know I am "fat". I am a SAHM and don't get out much at all. I feel like it does matter what size I am, if I am unhappy inside. I am slowly working on the inside. I want to feel good on the inside and then let it shine out. Is that a bad thing?
He is not your friend. I don't care what he owns, he has no right to try and shame you or make you feel down about yourself. It's fine to work on the inside but be sure to surround yourself with people that love and uplift you. Life is too short to be miserable at the hands of someone else. Best wishes to you. We are all on a journey. You are not alone 😘
Sweetie. That right there is his own insecurity speaking out loud. He himself has not found a way to love himself enough to be ok with himself. His problem is when he gets a girlfriend he starts questioning himself even more and that is also being reflected on u. Let him know u are well aware of what u look like. He doesn't need to remind u, and that if he continues to feel the need to do so, to not speak to u at all. He either is your friend or he is not and a friend, no matter what he says, does NOT put their friends down, especially when they know they r self conscious about it. He simply is trying to make himself feel better by putting u down. Do not listen to him.
It’s not a bad thing. If it would benefit your mental health, do it.
GIRL where’s your jewelry from??! 🥵
Love this 💜 iv shared with my girls to think we can all take something from your video 💋💖
Such great tips! Glad I found you
I'll try that tomorrow usually I smile at myself when I have a nice piece of clothing on the actually said that I didn't have to struggle with that made me feel better that's not even like in the morning when it's just my head I go into my mirror and I bet you could look at myself and feel sad and then when I put clothes on I feel happy especially when it came in a box that I just started I really need help mentally emotionally financially.... one day I will have the confidence and be able to appreciate appreciate myself better and really be financially stable where I can go on a date with myself instead of just getting a bottle of wine and touching myself.....yeahhhhhhh....lovely video 💖💖💎💎🌷🌷
Yesss i need find a online community.... please delete negative comments.... people shouldn't treat people like that you have nothing nice to say don't say nothing at all but yet they still watch the video and they still like And subscribe only to be negative and that's not helping anybody's cause they just want to feel better bout them selves cuz haters hate. I was reading some of the comments and one in particular was really rude and disgusting and that's not how people should treat people especially if they don't want to be treated like that. But that's only one person's opinion compared to all the others that show love and support
blonde hair suits you much!
Thank you for this.
A meet n greet wit Stella... wine n chat...that would be amazing I live in New York and I will travel to meet her because her energy is just so amazing her positivity her personality you know and she's representing all plus-size women women in general and influencers... even men can relate to this video. Remain positive tell yourself you're worthy do things that make you happy...just really motivational. 🌷💎💖
I love your video it was so inspirational keep up the great work we love you over here no matter what size we are always remember you are all beautiful. Hugs to everyone 💖⚘
Great video sis
you are so beautiful , i love you sooooo much ❤️❤️❤️
oh my god u are amazing
You are SO BEAUTIFUL & YOU SHINE SO BRIGHT from w/in, Stella, I'm in awe. Mwah. Love to ALL women. We have these incredible bodies (Goddamned it, we can actually make other people!!) and we're taught to hate our bodies by society??? That's just not on!!! Thankyou for your AMAZING, INSPIRATOINAL video xxoo
Beautiful.
Stellaaaaa barely watching this n 2021- is that dress still available?
You’re beautiful 😍
Thank u for this video.
Awww 😊 your such a sweet person
how we gonna stand tall if we short
I would love to take a picture with you with us representing Calvin Klein I never did that before and I'm a little scared but you know I heard the message and I want to try it out it seems like a great confidence builder be great in your own skin I did take one picture of me in some Lane Bryant I guess pieces when I was on a cruise ship vacation and that's when I was smaller now I'm a little bit bigger but I love this video I love the picture that you took I heard good things about Calvin Klein and maybe one day I'll get to try on some pieces not really model but like at least take a good picture and feel like you said comfortable and loved with my body. This was very motivating
I have my mom and sisters talk about the way i look. They even would laugh at me at parties. Its just so weird
Yesssss I love me
WHAT A BABE YOU ARE OMG
My problem is that I LOVE myself naked but with clothes... Just ew, I feel out of place with clothes(?
I love uuuuu
How do you smile at people or even yourself when you hate your teeth? I hate my smile it makes me angry it hurts to see in the mirror
Hindu gurus have been teaching loving urself first for many years. Lots of books r written about it. Did u go to a guru for direction? Or a new age organisation?
Uhh. Hinduism take self love to a whole other level.
They teach you to see yourself as God. 🤦♀️
Hi 🙋♀️
I feel...kind of..shocked ? ..to see someone of your size be so confident. I sometimes feel like I don't have the right to be happy or confident because of my size (which is the same or quite close to yours) and replies I see on the internet and lol... bad friends. Cause I want to be confident but then there's that whole thing where they're like if you want to be confident and love yourself THEN LOSE THE FKING WEIGHT and it's like...so I can only be confident if I'm healthy? I acknowledge that I'm unhealthy but...why does that mean I can't be confident and...sexy! I was told by my friend once that I won't get a guy cause guys don't look at big girls...I have been so self conscious and I cut a lot of people out of my life and don't take as many pictures cause I'm embarassed to be seen on camera but especially videos and it sucks cause I wanted to be a singer and make music videos but now I don't want to be in it. I'm afraid about how I'm gonna be seen...anyway, I'm just happy to see you confident, interestING and full of life! You're not hiding yourself and your advice is inspiring! I'm interested to see your other videos, I feel like I have a lot to learn from you. Just wanted to say that.. thx 💜
tfs
Stella: Stand taller
Me who is 6 ft and a woman: 😰
Im fat and all porkchopped up yall give me likes like woah. #LARDLIFENLOVINIT
Nice video I like you're beautiful
Gorgeous women
Lol I'm finally first
Love it lol
part of your confidence is wanting the best for yourself. eat healthier, exercise regularly, etc.
I wonder if doctors told her that she's obese would she still think it's normal to be that size and lose weight I mean it's not normal for your stomach to hang past your pubic area
Wow, who asked you?!
Worry about yourself
You’re a miserable hag!
LMFAOOOOO
"It's not normal, for your stomach to hang past your pubic area".
No. Its not normal for a complete stranger, to be thinking about a youtubers pubic area. 🙈
If you Are bodypositive , dosent that mean that you should love yourself and your body enough , too Try too loose some weight.All you bodypositive people out there.Some of you Are still young , and have not get any issues yet , but that Will come when you get older.
Worry about yourself
@@Tom-xi5pq I am not worried .I am not fat
@@maybrittrnningen580 LMFAOOOOO