Great video. Narcissists need deliverance from demons. They are dangerous. I wonder how many people have committed suicide at the hands of the demons within the narcissists.
God taught me they are possessed by izebel spirits. They manipulated, lied and worked against the work of God just like Izebel manipulated Ahab and worked against Elijah. But God's power is even greater than the evil spirit
I know people that have committed suicide, due to the extreme narcissistic abuse though-out thier entire life. This is not to be taken lightly. Leave, run & go no contact forever!!!
@@anonymousreviewer5035 I agree, run and don’t go back. There needs to be more awareness of the dangers of narcissists, they can be extremely dangerous. God bless Shaneen for putting out these vids.
I nearly wore myself out praying for him for decades to change. Things only got worse, especially when I fasted with my praying. It’s a relief to turn him over to God and move on with my life. It makes sense that it’s not best for me to pray for him because it keeps me connected. I have a lot of healing to do and I will focus on praying for me.
I fasted and prayed too I began to feel oppressed and weary. Things got worse and worse I finally asked God what he was showing me to do. He led me to Matthew 18 17-18, 1 Timothy 5:8, and Proverbs 17-18. Shaneen's video is spot on. When I let go and let God. My ex left the marriage I am healing. God is good and faithful.
I did the same without knowing I was dealing with a Toxic demonic disorder person. Healing has been hard. The answer from God to praying so hardwas the removal of the Narcissist out my life.
I think one can find ways to divorce a husband. But when these people are living with you in one place, they are your parents, or you have some legal contract between you. When you don't have enough money to rent an own apartment. Not praying 24/7 will let them try to be burning you alive full force 24/7. Attacks, tantrums, scolding you are coming the first second you enter the apartment or they enter. God helps a lot with holding down, stopping the attacks, but definitely not more than at least 60% of attacks. On some days my mother was close to normal when you don't expect. On some days psychopathic when you don't expect. Sometimes the prayer was helping to make her gradually more sane. Sometimes I couldn't see it did. But i haven't prayed deeply for half a year, because I had another situation revolving and another tragedy and other affairs. So the demons got back to approximately where it was
Few channels mention the spiritual aspects of narsisist, let alone the demons. Thanks for addressing this exactly, because I know narsisist whom have to be full of demons
There is another scripture that says "pray for your enemies because by so doing it will reap coals upon their head." It's probably a prayer you may only want to pray once otherwise it could make us as bitter and twisted as the narcissist.
@@dawnshively6731 Congratulations on moving forward It has been a year since I have blocked my ex, it wasn’t easy at first but it will get better. It’s going to take a lot time to heal different stages of emotional will start to takes place. What helped me was reading the Bible and listening to gospel/Christian music on going… it helped me so much
I used to pray so much for him that he kept me from healing because I kept thinking my prayers would change him. I learned to give him over to God but I still need to let go completely.
I never knew why I didn't have a desire to pray for him. I just lifted up my hands one day and said, "God, you can have him." After that, It has been a relief not to worry about him.
I think you are talking to me. It has been 7 months since no contact. I started praying again, but I’m finding myself in a roller coaster of emotions when I pray now for her. I’m going to sit with God tonight and listen to what He wants me to do. Thank you for your obedient heart 🙏🏻😊
Omg. You have literally just freed me from her. I have been praying for her for 16 months now. November 8th is the court date to finally end this once and for all. She's a vicious, atheist, and I am hoping that God will work in my favor. She's so full of hate, and yet I've been praying my heart out for her salvationm Thank you so much. God bless you 🙏 Ma'am.
@@kelsiwalters2839 well I saw Him tell them your sin will never be forgiven, for blaspheming the Holy Spirit. And he told them they were children of Hell. So I don’t know if He was talking to them when He said ‘forgive them because they don’t know what they’re doing’. I think this is definitely worth researching and praying about, to be sure.
I’m praying for my ex, I’m praying that he can learn how great the love of God is. I think of how empty he must feel, I know that inside is a little boy who wasn’t loved and there’s no greater love than the love of God 🙏
Such a GREAT and VERY helpful informative message. I left narcistic VERY ABUSIVE husband 2.5 years ago. I prayed for him to change, say he was sorry, be remorseful, show empathy, etc etc. I got NOTHING. That was very early after leaving him, before I understood he will NEVER change. After about more than year of that, I stopped. It just didn't feel right to continue. But I also felt bad/guilty for stopping. I've been healing for more than 2 years, and I am very close to healing completely but not yet 100%. I am still a little trauma bonded even after all our separation time... But I am not sure WHY.. Your wonderful explanation of why we should not pray and/or stop praying for the narcisst, has brought me closer to PERMANENTLY ENDING this NIGHTMARE in my life, and walking away with NO CONTACT, with no prayers for him; and just allow God to do His thing... Honestly, Sheneen, I'm tired, and my soul is tired of him telling me that I'm not good for his salvation. I've defended my self all the time against his verbal and mental abuse and CONSTANTLY putting me and my feelings down, and CONSTANTLY projecting HIS feelings and thoughts onto me. I NO LONGER want to be connected to narcistic soon to be ex-husband, in any way shape or form. I, once thank you, for your easy to understand explanation of this type of trauma bond. I am beginning to feel FREE of him and that twisted "connection" to him. May you be blessed with a continuous growing and successful channel.
My friend's ex is a narcissist. The priest at our church tells us not to hate anyone but to pity them. I just go far from him when I see him in public and speak to my friend on the phone. I never discuss him
forgive and forget. I pray for their past, current and future victims here and there when the thought arises. praying for them keeps them on your mind. if they want forgiveness and healing they have to do the work
Jesus said "Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.” Luke 17:3-4 NKJV Notice he said If he repents, forgive him.
Forgive to free yourself, not for the narcissistic. People lie, and “I repent” could be one of the many lies they tell over and over, especially when it comes with another opportunity to continue inappropriate behavior.
The former half of that scripture Luke 17:1-3 says: 'There will always be something that causes people to sin. But anyone who causes them to sin is in for trouble. A person who causes even one of my little followers to sin would be better off thrown into the ocean with a heavy stone tied around their neck. 3 So be careful what you do.' This is why a narcissist will always reap what they have sown. Thanks for sharing.
@@interestinglyenough7601 You nailed it forgive to free your heart, a narcissist cannot and will not apologise, no contact is the only way out of demonic narcissistic relationships. NO CONTACT!
We forgive actually anyway... that's only a paragraph. We have to forgive if anyone repents or not or God cannot forgive us. Forgiveness doesn't mean you keep taking abuse. It's so you can be forgiven and understand you're not perfect. None of us are
@@Angelface11 Its been a month since I left the last comment, it's easier said than done trying to go no contact when it's impossible to rent accommodation. Getting no help from family members doesn't make things easier. ( In agreement with your comment we have to forgive and even pray for our enemies, Jesus says a man's enemies will be the members of his own household ?.)
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
I agree there are so many estranged adult children that are narcissist. You don’t hear much about this. They tend to be spoiled and whatever goes wrong they blame the parents
Correct. And then there are times when their actions or what they do proves that they still, "hate you, hate you, hate you" like they told you they did when they were teenagers.
"Galatians 6:7, KJV: Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." ~ I pray the narcissist be blessed with a plentiful harvest.
Oh thank God for you doing this. As an intercessor I have been getting asked if I am praying for him. But every time I pray I hurt all over again. Then I fight resentment all over again. Jude says these people are “clouds without water” and God has told me I prayed enough. 18 years was enough prayer. The Lord showed me that He already has those prayers and heard them. I need to have my life. You freed me tonight. Praise God!
This video has been a God send as im leaving the narc and acted in obedience to what God wants for me in my life and after he had a stroke i have been feelimg conflictrd about prayer for their healing. However this content makes so much sense that i feel the internal conflict over praying for them Thank you so much for such a succinct and powerful video
I will never ever pray for narcissists, especially those professionals and know what they are doing but purposely do not want to address the issues they create after knowing the truth. Those usually pretend as if nothing has happened. Never listen to them again. Others can pray but not me. Praying come from the heart not being forced to do so. Anything that is forced will never last for even 1 minute. Then was impressed to read psalm 37. Didn't know what is in it but it really speaks to my situation when I started reading.
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Also psalm 35 is good since narcs are wicked. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
This all makes so much sense. People tell me to pray for my Ex. But it does not help my healing. Yes it keeps me connected to him. Need to break free for my own healing. Thanks for all of this information. 🤗❤️✝️
My ex-asst cell leader was a Covert Narcissist and Sociopath, went all her way out to damage and destroy me just when i was growing in my spuritual journey. Up till now i still can't get over it.
I have a lot of narcissists at my job , I pray Matthew 5:44 before going to work. It's a general prayer to include several people. I find that when I pray for a specific person they start to ignore me or become very toxic. I don't want the drama! GOD BLESS! 🙏🔥💜
We truly need the Bible and God’s perspective and His divine wisdom. I am so grateful for you for bringing the truth of God with these narcissistic people and the abuse and neglect that they operate in. It’s good to the professional aspects BUT God’s ways are far above our ways
This is so true that a few times I questioned my prayers for my Narc husband.I have been just working on my healing and working with God on getting through each day Stronger and stronger until I was ready to leave and before I left I heard a saying " You can't heal where you were broken" and that so resound with me that 1 month later I heard God telling me it time to go and here I am 4 months later and LOVING God's amazing Grace and revelation after revelation of Truth that has set this Girl free😊
@@starryskiesstarrynights9565 You will be free. As long you feel trapped it will feels like you are trapped, you are not trapped. I felt the same because I believed in his lies so much I felt that I couldn’t leave. One year later, I left and has been focusing on healing. You can do it!
I wrote this when I was still living with the person, right after my mom and a friend prayed for me- I was angry at the person for just being so hurtful. Again. I went to the Lord. Praying, trusting God, and giving thanks for who God is is the main thing that has given me the strength to go on. I will share the song I wrote that came from my prayer of grief, frustration, and pain. V1)“Help me now to see Your grace alive in me. The gentle Way of Peace, praying for my enemies. When I’m driven to my knees I see You. C) Bless them in their heart, bless their very soul. Open all our eyes, only You can make us whole. The Weary and the Weak, the Broken and the Proud. We all will face Your glory. Your ways and will be done. V2)We are all part of Your story my Rock and now my Song. One day we all will bow before You so I bow bow and lay it down, and while by grace there is still time I will pray C) Bless them in their heart. Bless their very soul. Open all our eyes only You can make us whole. The Weary and the Weak. The Broken and the Proud. We all will face Your glory. Your ways and will be done. B)I’m thankful You’ve forgiven me. Holy, Holy, Holy. And that You have adopted me. Worthy, worthy, worthy. Repeat Chorus C). V3)I’m going to keep that steady pace my eyes on You. Rejoicing I raise up my face, letting You take care of me. Such joy someday to hear You say ‘Well done”. Repeat Chorus last time.
Forgive us our sins, as we forgive others… If we do not forgive others, than neither will we be forgiven The narcs in my family appear to be unable to forgive, besides being hypocritical and willing to believe lies and slander spread about me. I adopted prayers from Psalms- David asked God to break their teeth, among other requests. I’ll pray for them in the same manner! That song does resonate with me. Our God will judge us all, for all have sinned - but not all forgive others.
@@salauerman7082 ne,ER hat doch schon am Kreuz das Gericht vollzogen...wenn du es annimmst oder überhaupt jemand das glaubt, braucht man sich nicht mehr vor dem Gericht zu fürchten, denn den Gerechtigkeitsmantel dürfen wir wegen das anziehen. Jesus erwarb ihn uns und in Jesus ist Gott...lies Johannes 1 dann wird es klar.
@@indolight … For those who don’t read German, “no, he already carried out the judgment on the cross. if you accept it or anyone believes that, you no longer need to fear the court, because the mantle of justice is allowed to [be] put on [us] because of that. Jesus bought {him for us ~ us for him} and in Jesus is God...read John 1 then it will be clear.” You are correct, that God placed our judgment on Jesus. I stated poorly that God will judge us all. “Will” judge is incorrect- “has” judged is right. Jesus did pay the price, our debt, for our sins - for which we should be so thankful that we are glad to trust God and follow directions in His Word, that He gives us out of love. It’s good that you corrected me ☺️ God has not given us a spirit of fear- we enter His courts with -through- praise and thanksgiving. He promises to guide us. The concept of “guide” is with gentleness, not force -or with punishment if we stumble. “But God has a way to make people right with him without the law. And God has now shown us that way which the law and the prophets told us about. People are made right with God by his grace, which is a free gift. They are made right with God by being made free from sin through Jesus Christ. God sent him to die in our place to take away our sins. We receive forgiveness through faith. And all of this is because of the blood of Jesus’ death. This showed that God always does what is right and fair. God was right in the past when he was patient and did not punish people for their sins. And God gave Jesus to show today that God does what is right. God did this so that he could judge rightly and also make right any person who has faith in Jesus. So do we destroy the law by following the way of faith? No! Faith causes us to be what the law truly wants.” Romans 3:21, 24-26, 31 ICB bible.com/bible/1359/rom.3.21-31.ICB For those who don’t read English: Für diejenigen, die kein Englisch lesen: Sie haben Recht, dass Gott unser Urteil über Jesus gelegt hat. Ich habe schlecht gesagt, dass Gott uns alle richten wird. „Will“ urteilt ist falsch - „has“ urteilt ist richtig. Jesus hat den Preis, unsere Schuld, für unsere Sünden bezahlt - wofür wir so dankbar sein sollten, dass wir froh sind, Gott zu vertrauen und Anweisungen in Seinem Wort zu folgen, das Er uns aus Liebe gibt. Gut, dass du mich korrigiert hast ☺️ Gott hat uns keinen Geist der Furcht gegeben - wir betreten Seine Höfe mit Lob und Dank. Er verspricht, uns zu führen. Das Konzept des „Führens“ ist mit Sanftheit, nicht mit Gewalt - oder mit Bestrafung, wenn wir stolpern. „Aber Gott hat einen Weg, die Menschen ohne das Gesetz mit ihm in Ordnung zu bringen. Und Gott hat uns nun den Weg gezeigt, von dem uns das Gesetz und die Propheten erzählt haben. Die Menschen werden durch seine Gnade, die ein freies Geschenk ist, mit Gott in Einklang gebracht. Sie werden vor Gott gerecht gemacht, indem sie durch Jesus Christus von der Sünde befreit wurden. Gott hat ihn gesandt, um an unserer Stelle zu sterben, um unsere Sünden wegzunehmen. Wir empfangen Vergebung durch Glauben. Und all dies ist wegen des Blutes von Jesu Tod. Dies zeigte, dass Gott immer das Richtige und Faire tut. Gott hatte in der Vergangenheit recht, als er geduldig war und die Menschen nicht für ihre Sünden bestraft hat. Und Gott gab Jesus, um heute zu zeigen, dass Gott das Richtige tut. Gott tat dies, damit er richtig urteilen und auch jede Person, die an Jesus glaubt, richtig stellen kann. Zerstören wir also das Gesetz, indem wir dem Weg des Glaubens folgen? Nein! Der Glaube bewirkt, dass wir das sind, was das Gesetz wirklich will.“
From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. God has given you a new song to sing to him, to glorify him to the world. They overcame the enemy by the power of the blood of Jesus, and by their testimony. Your song is your testimony. God bless you!"
I pray and meditate regularly to sustain wellness, alongside help to gain clarity when reflecting on life. I prayed for 6 years in hopes that my current narcissistic boyfriend would improve and accept God. Recently, I concluded that I should take a break from praying for my narcissistic boyfriend as this provides a sense of hope for reconciliation to occur which causes a roller coaster dynamic. To specify, I take movements forward in life as being self-sufficient (financially independent), lively, social w/ friends, and less emotionally drained when my narcissistic partner and I have disconnected or broken-up regarding the roller coaster dynamic. I prayed for God to send me a man who met my reasonable expectations. Soon after, I entered into a healthy, stable, and collaborative relationship w/ the man who also held Christian values. I began to feel nostalgia regarding my ex-boyfriend who is a narcissist. Hence, I began to pray again for God to help the narcissist improve. I soon after received a text from the narcissist. And all of the feelings over-flooded as I had difficulty remembering all of the traumatic times (ex: homelessness, financial pickle, being thrown from the 3rd to the 2nd floor, being dragged across the rocks, belongings being thrown including food, bruises that I showed officers but I refused to report in fear that the narcissist's business reputation would be tarnished). Thus, I chose to end my relationship w/ the healthy, stable, and collaborative Christian man to reconcile w/ the narcissist. Now, my financial path has sunken-down again and I find myself emotionally drained nearly on the daily since my current narcissist boyfriend and I reconciled. My narcissist boyfriend doesn't have employment externally from the home as of the past 3-4 months. And this has caused his frustration from boredom to initiate disputes. For example, he hid our vehicle keys for the vehicle that we share and both pay for. He has 2 trucks and we share the 3rd vehicle. I'd admit that I was a fool to reconcile w/ the narcissist. And I regret my choice as I wasn't wanting to leave the familiar, comfortable narcissist behind and I deeply wanted for he and I to reach and sustain common ground. God fulfilled my prayer of inviting a Christian man into my life. I hoped that God had answered my prayers to help the narcissist. And now, the Christian man who had been friendly, healthy, stable, and collaborative is gone because I was too scared of the unknown. God can only help those who are willing to accept help. And the narcissist isn't a Christian nor does he promote self-improvement. I'm tired of placing myself in a financial pickle every single time I choose to reconcile w/ my narcissist boyfriend. It has been 6 years since we first met.... all of my prayers for him to improve and accept God have all been a complete waste of energy. I'd love nothing more but to leave my narcissist boyfriend but have (once more) placed myself in a financial pickle since our reconciliation. Recently, I was hired-on at a company that would be only a 3-min drive. So, I'll have a short commute. And this'll allow for me to rebuild my savings by refraining from substantial gas rates as to leave the narcissist in the past where he was meant to stay. I only pray that God provides the strength for me to have the discipline to not even offer platonic friendship as my narcissist boyfriend is quite manipulative when he mistreats me to only apologize. Cons: 6 Years Down-the-Drain (learning harsh lessons should not have been so time-consuming), Financial Pickle, Expedited Aging (at least for the first 5 years) Pros: Hard Lessons Learned (I was forced to confront my childhood trauma and I have learned self-love), Body Image (I reduced weight from 126-ish lbs to 102.2 lbs as I began fasting and exercising to help w/ stress and to prevent depression from the narcissist's hostility), Homemaker Lifestyle (I'll be able to say that I had the privilege of enjoying the Homemaker Lifestyle... until I can find a traditional Christian man), Deep Love has Faded w/ Narcissist (he isn't husband or breadwinner material; there is no interest to remain patient w/ him as he doesn't provide financial security nor does he have a nice personality... he is very prone to anger and is manipulative per narcissistic tendencies) Lastly, I've also learned how to choose guarantees rather than the potential. Hence, better to choose a mature partner compared to a narcissist who is full of potential. Thank you for providing informative insight.
Had to watch twice to understand this. Now, i can understand what you mean, it is counter productive to my healing. I did pray after going no contact in 2019. Now, i know the reason why, i returned to him after a year. Thanks, again. I will not repeat the same mistake by praying for my narc friend during the healing process. Got it. God knows what's best. Got it.
I’m glad you realized why, read 1 John 5:15-17, I got a better understanding from this also and so I stopped praying for him altogether. It hurt me at first but once I continue to read and understand, I stopped. I do however continually pray for all victims daily because this isn’t something I’d never wish on my worst enemy. God Bless and stay strong! ❣️❣️🙌🏾
I fully agree with this message. However personally prayer is my way of coping...the hope that my prayers might change this person from their wicked ways, gives me peace.
When I finally prayed for his heart to be changed from stone to flesh , God flooded me with peace. That was enough for me for now. I now ask for massive healing for me as I was left on deaths door. I’m focusing on bringing the light back in my eyes with Jesus my best friend. Maranatha x
Thank you for this video, I am out of this relationship with a narcissist, I am being healed from him and I gave him to the Lord Jesus Christ! God Bless You 🙌💜💋😎🦋🌈
During my in home seperation I was praying hard for my now soon to ex I heard God say stop praying!. He brought the conversation back to mind that he had when Samuel was praying for narassist Saul. God told Samuel to stop praying and how long will he mourn for him. God doesn't want us wasting our precious energy on folks that are not going to change Fast forward 8 months. I recently started praying God helps him to be a safe dad for my 13 year old son and to be fair in our divorce settlement
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all soul ties with any one not serving God in Jesus name. Sadly narcs are full of demons that have a mind of a 2 to 12 year old that can not be trusted and they have to want to get free of their demons. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
100% truth the victory belongs to the Lord because narcissists are demonic. I am a born again Christian 27 years, my dad passed away 13 years ago and warned me before he died my mother is a control freak, that was an understatement as mother is a full blown narcissist who manipulated the whole family for years until the truth came to light slowly after my dad passed away whom my mother used to blame for everything. I am a carer for my narcissistic mother as the rest of the family went no contact, now I am going no contact for the sake of my own personal sanity and moving forward to what God will have in his will for the rest of my life as staying in a toxic, living nightmare day and night most assuredly is not God's plan for the remainder of my life. God bless you.
I am 20 years+ on a full recovery path. God has spoken to my heart several times, once that He has healed me completely. To " release " is difficult....because I don't want them to be progressively dangerous and I hate that they miss God's best, as done everyone. AND YET I find the more I call on God's strength and action, the safer and more at peace I remain. This work continues as I grow, in the valleys and the mountain tops. I cannot even begin to thank you enough. I thank you,, my spouse thanks you, my children thank you for your work, commitment, and excellence.
Shaneen, I'm the primary caregiver for my narcissistic 80+ year old mother. I would love to see a video from you about that... since going no-contact is NOT an option. Help please!!
Consider “Hope for the Caregiver” with Peter Rosenberger TH-cam channel or podcast. He has written 3 books on caregiving. His wife Gracie has had over 80 surgeries during the last 35 years plus of which Peter has been her caregiver. He speaks from a Biblical standpoint. For myself I helped my wife for many years, her narcissistic parents did a lot to her, trying to find and uncover what happened in the early 80’s nearly impossible. We survived, we were married 43 years, she passed on 2 years ago. From my experience be aware of and understand “Reactive Abuse”, Complex-PTSD, nutrition, sleep. For me the best analogy about caregiving related matters with narcissists or survivors is in the rodeo - the eight second bull ride, it is a lot of work staying on. Psalm 10 and Psalm 73 were helpful for me.
I agree We as a church(20+ members) prayed for 20+YEARS for a person to change and it never gappened The church fell apart after the pastor passed away.And she was part of the "leaders/elders taking over. Its like trying to make a stone melt in a freezer.
I have decided to forgive the covert narcissist for everything she did in the past and I trust God to act. I specifically asked that God deal with the covert narcissist for all false accusations made against me and others in the future; at the same time I left the narcissist and went full no-contact.
Thank you Shaneen for mentioning how Praying for the Narcissist when you finish with them can be counter productive,I think it's very true and has the potential to leave you vulnerable to the hoover etc.🙌
I'm listening to every one of your videos. I just discovered your Channel, they are an answer to my prayers. Every one hits me right at home. I was praying for wisdom. I'm not just a listener but also a doer. I pray to God he can use what I'm learning to help me be in his perfect will, that I may bless and help others. I thank God for using your teaching, experience and this technology to help people like me. 👍 🙏😇🙌
I know what you mean about that spiritual connection. I used to be in a place where I couldn't pray for my narcissist. Due to trauma I went through I feared keeping any kind of tie with them (even after years of limited/no contact). When I've not been able to pray for my narcissist myself I've asked God to raise up intercessors for them. I now am able to pray daily for my narcissist and I also lift up other narcissists for victims who are not yet able to. Praying for my narcissist has helped accelerate my healing and I'm comforted that God is in control and protecting me as I do. When I pray I release all expectations and trust that God will bring about His perfect plan in His perfect way in His perfect time.
@@ShaneenMegji Thank you! God bless you too! Your videos contain much wisdom and they are a God send and a blessing. I've healed a lot but there are still some areas that need working on. We are all a work in progress. There's a lot of fear that comes with these relationships which can be paralyzing. I've found that praying for my narcissist is helping to loosen the bonds of fear.
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
@@brendarewan7441 I prefer to ask God to strengthen me to overcome fear. Also not all fear should be disregarded as it's also our inborn survival mechanism. When fear shows up wisdom and discernment are needed to determine whether it's there to protect us or to stop us from doing God's will. If it's the former we should listen to it but if it's the latter then we need to overcome it. That's the approach I prefer to take. God bless you.
I have prayed that the church protecting this covert bully, will get discernment and that God will soften the hearts of the leaders. This narcissist is in hospital with Covid.....I didnt feel the Lord wanted me to pray for physical healing.... but rather that this sickness will change hearts
I always had hope for my narcissistic mom so everytime she came to me i tried to be supportive but every single time i was either betrayed or used or manipulated for her agenda...so i went no contact and even stopped praying for her anymore 💔 😔...its been 6 months now...
I'm 60 years old and just learned about narcissism... I never knew what was wrong with my relationship with my mother before now. My grown children can't understand why I went no contact even though she's my next door neighbor. They tell me I will regret it when she dies, but I find the more I try to repair, and talk to her about the relationship, the worse it gets. I'd like to know how to deal with my grown children who love their grandmother, but can't understand my position. I don't want to "gossip", and they don't want to hear about old hurts and whatnot.... It's a difficult position to be in.
Thanks. It's very helpful. I've been praying for him during the past year without realizing what it meant. I'm gonna change the way I pray from now on.
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name. The narc has to want to get free from their demons. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Thank you thank you THANK YOU for this video. I felt guilty for not praying for my ex on my journey draw closer to God and develop myself in the Kingdom. So I was praying for the narcissists healing. This video came right on time.
Shaneen God has used you to comfort my heart. I have tried to pray for my husband, the prayers wouldn't come I felt guilty and asked God to forgive me. Now I understand why God wanted me to care for myself and break these trauma bonds. When I am strong enough God Will Lead Me In Prayer. Thank you for your Insight, thank you for allowing God to use you. I pray the Holy Spirit will continue to give you wisdom to help people like myself.
6:13 “God is capable of raising up someone to pray for the narcissist.” Amen! I can pray that IF it’s God’s will to lead someone to pray for the narc, that He do so, while I can also pray in the same manner that David did in Psalms, for those who were doing him wrong.
@Sa Lauerman 10 months ago 6:13 “God is capable of raising up someone to pray for the narcissist.” Amen! "I can pray that IF it’s God’s will to lead someone to pray for the narc, that He do so, while I can also pray in the same manner that David did in Psalms, for those who were doing him wrong." I know I'm late to the game, but your comment has me thinking. I've always wondered about the command to pray for our enemies. In the old testament that was often a prayer to God to go get 'em. Recently I did a mini word study on the word bless, as in bless those who persecute you. Elsewhere we're told to bless God. How do I bless God who has everything? The word actually has the meaning of bowing the knee to. So I wonder if that doesn't mean, as the Scripture says, resist not the evil man. In other words, not to run out and try and inflict vengeance on that person, but also don't resist/wrestle with or engage them, and pray to God to get justice for you.
Great words and important points. You have a wonderful balance of grace and strength. Thank you for your labors of love to put your talks together with such compassion. Please keep up your good work. We need you!!
Thanks for all of your videos!! I had been praying for my narc parent, and I felt like I was being called to do so. That if they did turn to God that it would be because of me. That I was trying to play God's part. I had started a fast and and was praying before bed. The next day in prayer, I just felt so strongly that something was pulling me to look at the reasons behind the prayer fast I was doing. I was trying to control the narrative, that belonged to God. I apologized to God and now if I pray for my narc parent , it's because I love them. Not because I was trying to play God. It's hard to watch someone you love who won't open the door to Christ. It's so easy but so hard. What fools these mortals be! Thanks again!
This was so helpful! I must emotionally detach from him which is already difficult because of in-house separation. I can't and get strong and stable if I'm praying, hoping, looking for change.
Me too. Married 17 years and I’m planning very strategically on leaving. My son is in high school and I want him to finish, then I’m out! Narc husband sleeps on the couch. He has withdrawn from me. Only superficial conversations. No sex in 2 years. He’s had multiple affairs. There is no way God has called me to continue carrying this burden. Under the same roof like roommates. It has been so gut wrenching but with God my healing is slowly building strength. I’m getting stronger and thinking of my son. I don’t feel led to pray for husbands narcissistic ways. Instead I’m watching videos like this and working on my healing. I’m so happy we have this kind of content from a biblical perspective. I workout, go to the beach, long walks, seeing a counselor and get outdoors as much as possible. I love it! The narc has no more real estate in my mind. Tired of the disrespect for my feelings everytime I find another woman’s phone number in his phone but disguised with a man’s name. He gaslights me and downplays it then switches the confrontation around like I’m wrong. So hurtful and humiliating. Well I’m done!
I gave up on the narc(dad). He expects me to forget his abusing me. He expects me to let him off the hook. It isn't working for me. I don't pray for the narcissist/enablers(most), for my well-being.
What consumes my thoughts and causes so much pain is that my ex cut me off from our son. I haven’t seen him for 2 1/2 years. I pray constantly for her heart to be softened and even for her to be saved. I’m trying to forgive her but it still hurts so much. I don’t know what to do. Please pray for me.
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind all demons keeping me from my kid in Jesus name. Narcs are full of demons that have the mind of 2 to 12 year old that can not be trusted so target the demons in prayer. Pray Lord make a way from me to see my kid in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Thank you so much for your wise counsel.I've been in no contact for four months now and for the first time I can really speak God's blessing on the narcissist and new supply, who are both Christians.I have forgiven both and I'm on a tremendously exciting new path of freedom and discovering who I am in Christ again,knowing there is hope and a future for me.The key is to really break all ties on every level and to regularly chat to someone who has knowledge about NPD and to spend time in God's presence every day...The best counselor is definitely the Holy Spirit!If it weren't for Him in my life I would've been completely destroyed!Greater is He in you than he that is in the world(evil one,the destroyer)
The best way to get the narcissist’s demons off your mind is to pray out loud for the salvation of the narcissist, every time the demons attack you with a memory or a criticism. From experience, this works because Satan does not want the narcissist saved. I have found this to work 100%. Keep a forgiving heart and you will be ok. Trust in Jesus
I don't have years of trauma like most people. The woman I liked from Church might be a narcissist. Other people have had to deal with her. I pray for her every day especially when I'm sad or mad and miss her and wonder why we're not together. I pray she is healed even if it doesn't include me as part of her life. She doesn't know I pray for her so she can't get mad at me.
The place in this video where you’re talking about separating from the narcissist and looking for your path forward and you show a car going down a road stretched out before it was extremely meaningful to me. There are days when I think that I am healing and healthy and days when I don’t, this video helped me to realize that the process of looking forward and putting distance between myself and my abuser is of the upmost of importance.
I was thinking i should not pray for my narcissistic ex as well because God has to work with him and he has to want to change. If i pray for him I could end up still in that demonic energy
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Thank you. I so needed this right now. I cant express enough, how amazingly helpful and supportive you are to me and so many others. You are a gift from God!
First and foremost as it has been mentioned thank you for biblical side as it’s not much teaching on this. I believe this is a deep spiritual battle . I was in a 2year relationship with a narcissist. The last 8months of our relationship became a distant relationship due to our work occupation. Through this time she felt I neglected her , far from the truth. During that time she had already made up her mind . Never once did she communicate me about this . Then when she came home I had to discover myself a bombshell. Now I’m hurt. Of the both times after that before her full blown no contact she used me for her usual needs, which I didn’t realize until after the fact . I have never confronted her on wring doings or her behavior . I’m so confused . She is now completely mad at me because while I was out of town I change the door code . She only at that time contacted me out of the blue to get her things just showed up at my door step. We are in full no contact since then. I lover her dearly but I now realizing it’s the spiritual side of it . I want her back, I’m so confused. And totally depressed with no energy. I don’t know what to pray for or about . I tried , pleaded pour out my true love for her which only made her become more distant .
Thank you Woman of God. I pray that God will continue to bless your Ministry in the Mighty Name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ of Nasereth 🙏Stay Bless🙌🙌
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name. The narc has to want to get free from their demons. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
What a great video. Thank you so much. I'm feeling it. Maybe I can leave this bad man. I know I need my own life. Thanks for your spiritual guidance. Maybe I will be strong again and get my self back to being happy and not exhausted by these evil narcs that only use us and torture us for their own pleasures and gain.
I agree with you. People who are this sick will continue on their destructive path in this world. Enjoy your life and the few good people who contribute to it! Turn narcissists over to God. He will take care of keeping them out of your life.
Look l m waiting for a bus or two in a college town. I have time. I too was discarded after ten years. Look l want justice for all the devil did through this narc.l still don't see how l was a target...and didn't see red flags.l will pray for all of discarded and that we will use discernment in future. I m riding the bus and he has three vehicles l paid for. I plan to use shaneen outline for prayer. Let's focus on loving God. I think rewards now and heaven. I believe for justice.how he brings it is fine with me
I have a church protecting a perpetrator who wprks for them this woman exposed my whereabouts to my former abuser and his law enforcement family. I survived 3 near death experiences and now I'm being stalked and harassed by him and his family. The pastors sermon last week was about the wrong of churches who protect themselves as a victim gets destroyed. This pastor also tried to defend and make excuses even tho I have evidence amd national and state laws were broken. I feel so betrayed by the church. So alone having to fight for my life AGAIN bc of these people using God when truly they are false prophets. I cannot pray for evil. Gabby Petito is dead bc of people protecting the perpetrator instead of a victim. I don't know what God wants from me when society lies and victims die bc of liars and murderers.
@Welcome's House & @ES Dear ladies, (assuming ur women, my apologies if ur not w/ my assuming) I hope u can read this reply to both of you, in complete neutrality, and without personal criticism. First, I ask you both to re-read my original reply to the YT creator n her video content. Because if you both watched video, you would know that I am answering her question. If you re-read my comment, you can clearly read that I'm not confused about anything other than God. A. My dialogue also contains nothing of me asking for advice. B. My comment is stating nothing of the topic of that I didn't know what to do. C. My comment is nothing more than answering her question at the end of her video when she asked her audience to drop their experience in the comments, Re: Church Abuse. I ask both u ladies, if you might be seeing a pattern in yourselves? Each of you had an immediate codependent empathic need; and a emotional reaction-response to run to my rescue. Do you see? Ok... If you understand, Do you both recognize that you decided to manipulate the reality of my comment? You both gave identical advice to a comment, that clearly had nothing to do with me needing advice about a church. I was mad at God explaining a church abuse experience. _Again, I was answering the creators question at the end of her video.) By no fault of your own due to maybe yrs of gaslighting, a codependent empath BPD will do exactly what you both just did, and shockingly, it also is identical to the narcissist. Each of you changed my conversation topic to fit your reflex need, just as a Narcissist does. I know thats hard to hear. I hated hearing stuff like this too, when I 1st learned about codependent behavior mirroring a Narcissist. A codependent empath who developed BPD will have an immediate need to rescue someone from something. But bc of your entrainment via previous gaslighting, you both created a need, in your emotional reaction, unaware you're both doing this to control someone even tho they didn't ask or the topic wasn't ur topic. Please ask yourselves as codependent empaths, why both of you wanted to immediately help, fix, and drop knee jerk unsolicited advice that hasn't any part of my comment to begin with? Again, I am just asking these questions and making this reply incomplete neutrality, with no personal criticism whatsoever towards either one of you. Being aware of these unhealthy patterns, as codependent empaths, often most coming out of narc abuse, have levels of bpd that mirror what narcissists do. (I was once there ladies, and 3 years later, I have a core identity in tact.) I also have stability w a logical mind, AND regulated emotions. I've been immersed in tons of education n recovery, practice, growth, and advocacy work in this field. And I left a comment answering the YT lady was asking her audience n perplexed at God. Not a plea. Not w disregulation. Not in confusion about what to do. Logic told me weeks back to leave the church n begin proceedings to prosecute these people. When one survives what I did, you get immersed in education and recovery teams n resources. So ladies, 3 years ago I would have done the same thing you both did to me. Three years later, I am codependent no more, and teach and educate all over the world doing advocacy work. I cannot, nor will not say thank you for your advice for something I never asked for or needed. Please know, I left this comment for both of you, in hopes that you would be able to see yourself and your behavioral dysregulated patterns. Hoping it would give you more self-awareness on your recovery Journey, bc Healing from this is hard if you can't see your own behavior. And unfortunately, far too few will speak up when somebody exhibits Behavior like both of you identically did to me. Innocent yes. You both have big beautiful dysregulated hearts of emo wanting to run help anyone. I been there. But maybe these comments can be used as a teaching and educational tool in your narc abuse recovery tool box. Take care ladies. Lotsa strength on ur journey of recovery n healing from narc abuse.
@@forensicfaithinprofiling I'm sorry but I see you as the one that is overly reacting wrongfully here due to your own trauma and abuse. Because a true Christian is looking to help others out of love. True Christians and true love not only listens to a person in distress but they will go so far as to offer legitimate help. Mistakes are going to be made through social media because you can't see the body language the facial gestures and the tone of voice. There's nothing wrong with caring about fellow Christians and trying to help... it seems to me everyone here reacted without knowing the full situation. But how can you over social media comments?
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Girlfriend you are anointed 100% l was told by God this morning to start prayer for him. You confirmed it. I will use your use your outline I will use your your outline to to pray to pray for him while I do my workout while I do my workout you are a tremendous blessing to us who are serious who are serious about loving God obeying God and knowing God's word I realize that God's will is more important than my will and I'm willing to renew my mind and not allow bitterness and unforgiveness to keep me connected to Satan that does not please the Lord and anyone reading this please please go back to first John 3 and realize that you are beloved first and second know what Jesus is who he is cuz he's truth when you have the spirit and Truth working together you will heal fast I'm not knocking therapy but I just don't have the time and I just know the spirit will do what needs to be done if he tells you to go get counts I'm not knocking it but he has put shanay here to help us who are moving forward cuz we have lost a lot of time with the narcissist and resources but God is a restorer so God bless you shanae thank you
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Ms Shanned thank you for your work. Before i came to know that a friend was a narc (and i have no idea about this personality disorder) God called me to spiritually offer my Isaac. Four months after I left the narc not because i found out but i felt feed up and totally disrespected. Few weeks later i encounter a video about narcissism and that was my eureka moment. It was not an easy journey but God is just good!
Thank you so much for your video. My narcissist ex was very spiritual and will have others to pray for him. I'm going to continue on my healing journey.
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. th-cam.com/play/PLPNQdAefzkSNenmX0clUUdyZEr7m2AYte.html
"The spiritual realm is much more real than the physical realm."
Exactly!!!!!
Great video. Narcissists need deliverance from demons. They are dangerous. I wonder how many people have committed suicide at the hands of the demons within the narcissists.
God taught me they are possessed by izebel spirits. They manipulated, lied and worked against the work of God just like Izebel manipulated Ahab and worked against Elijah. But God's power is even greater than the evil spirit
@@NPDSurvivorIndonesia You mean Jezebel.
@@snowqueen24 That's what I mean, I wrote it on my language
I know people that have committed suicide, due to the extreme narcissistic abuse though-out thier entire life. This is not to be taken lightly. Leave, run & go no contact forever!!!
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I agree, run and don’t go back. There needs to be more awareness of the dangers of narcissists, they can be extremely dangerous.
God bless Shaneen for putting out these vids.
This narcissistic person knows everything spiritual. But still he is same
I nearly wore myself out praying for him for decades to change. Things only got worse, especially when I fasted with my praying. It’s a relief to turn him over to God and move on with my life. It makes sense that it’s not best for me to pray for him because it keeps me connected. I have a lot of healing to do and I will focus on praying for me.
I did to. Mines got worse to. So glad hes gone. I am healing!!!
I am also a witness to this
I fasted and prayed too I began to feel oppressed and weary. Things got worse and worse I finally asked God what he was showing me to do. He led me to Matthew 18 17-18, 1 Timothy 5:8, and Proverbs 17-18. Shaneen's video is spot on. When I let go and let God. My ex left the marriage I am healing. God is good and faithful.
I did the same without knowing I was dealing with a Toxic demonic disorder person. Healing has been hard. The answer from God to praying so hardwas the removal of the Narcissist out my life.
I think one can find ways to divorce a husband. But when these people are living with you in one place, they are your parents, or you have some legal contract between you. When you don't have enough money to rent an own apartment. Not praying 24/7 will let them try to be burning you alive full force 24/7. Attacks, tantrums, scolding you are coming the first second you enter the apartment or they enter. God helps a lot with holding down, stopping the attacks, but definitely not more than at least 60% of attacks. On some days my mother was close to normal when you don't expect. On some days psychopathic when you don't expect. Sometimes the prayer was helping to make her gradually more sane. Sometimes I couldn't see it did. But i haven't prayed deeply for half a year, because I had another situation revolving and another tragedy and other affairs. So the demons got back to approximately where it was
Few channels mention the spiritual aspects of narsisist, let alone the demons. Thanks for addressing this exactly, because I know narsisist whom have to be full of demons
Agreed
Thank u I just got discarded. Got my own place and keep telling God I'm sorry but can't and don't know what to pray for him
Thank u am in a broken place and need to heal and foucing on God is needed instead of him
There is another scripture that says "pray for your enemies because by so doing it will reap coals upon their head." It's probably a prayer you may only want to pray once otherwise it could make us as bitter and twisted as the narcissist.
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Congratulations on moving forward
It has been a year since I have blocked my ex, it wasn’t easy at first but it will get better.
It’s going to take a lot time to heal different stages of emotional will start to takes place.
What helped me was reading the Bible and listening to gospel/Christian music on going… it helped me so much
I used to pray so much for him that he kept me from healing because I kept thinking my prayers would change him. I learned to give him over to God but I still need to let go completely.
I never knew why I didn't have a desire to pray for him. I just lifted up my hands one day and said, "God, you can have him." After that, It has been a relief not to worry about him.
Relationships with narcisists are extremely destructive and should be cut. Thank you❤
I think you are talking to me. It has been 7 months since no contact. I started praying again, but I’m finding myself in a roller coaster of emotions when I pray now for her. I’m going to sit with God tonight and listen to what He wants me to do. Thank you for your obedient heart 🙏🏻😊
You’re so welcome Charl De Kock! God bless you as you sit with Him tonight. 🙏🏽🕊
He was My husband bless him we
We’re together since we were kids. He won’t change I’m done carrying it. I gave it all to
God. I was getting very sick.
I will never pray for either Narcs I had the misfortune of experiencing. I am already detached from them.
Omg. You have literally just freed me from her. I have been praying for her for 16 months now. November 8th is the court date to finally end this once and for all. She's a vicious, atheist, and I am hoping that God will work in my favor. She's so full of hate, and yet I've been praying my heart out for her salvationm Thank you so much. God bless you 🙏 Ma'am.
Thank you ! This takes the responsibilities off me. I’m not chained to him. I am chained to Christ ✝️
I was just thinking about this yesterday. I noticed Jesus never prayed for the Pharisees that I saw.
Wow
Other than, "forgive them, for they know not what they do"
@@kelsiwalters2839 well I saw Him tell them your sin will never be forgiven, for blaspheming the Holy Spirit. And he told them they were children of Hell. So I don’t know if He was talking to them when He said ‘forgive them because they don’t know what they’re doing’. I think this is definitely worth researching and praying about, to be sure.
@@LoveBeautyFun7 sure. Still learning about the "chosen" and... "not chosen". Thanks
@@kelsiwalters2839 me too, I’m gonna research to try to get a clear understanding on the topic...
I’m praying for my ex, I’m praying that he can learn how great the love of God is. I think of how empty he must feel, I know that inside is a little boy who wasn’t loved and there’s no greater love than the love of God 🙏
That’s where I’m at too. I can’t believe how dark it must be inside for him
This is brilliant! After my divorce, God firmly told me to stop praying for him. I was doing that for a long time. I wondered why. Now I understand.
Same here!!!!
Such a GREAT and VERY helpful informative message.
I left narcistic VERY ABUSIVE husband 2.5 years ago. I prayed for him to change, say he was sorry, be remorseful, show empathy, etc etc.
I got NOTHING.
That was very early after leaving him, before I understood he will NEVER change.
After about more than year of that, I stopped.
It just didn't feel right to continue. But I also felt bad/guilty for stopping. I've been healing for more than 2 years, and I am very close to healing completely but not yet 100%. I am still a little trauma bonded even after all our separation time... But I am not sure WHY..
Your wonderful explanation of why we should not pray and/or stop praying for the narcisst, has brought me closer to PERMANENTLY ENDING this NIGHTMARE in my life, and walking away with NO CONTACT, with no prayers for him; and just allow God to do His thing...
Honestly, Sheneen, I'm tired, and my soul is tired of him telling me that I'm not good for his salvation. I've defended my self all the time against his verbal and mental abuse and CONSTANTLY putting me and my feelings down, and CONSTANTLY projecting HIS feelings and thoughts onto me.
I NO LONGER want to be connected to narcistic soon to be ex-husband, in any way shape or form.
I, once thank you, for your easy to understand explanation of this type of trauma bond.
I am beginning to feel FREE of him and that twisted "connection" to him.
May you be blessed with a continuous growing and successful channel.
My friend's ex is a narcissist. The priest at our church tells us not to hate anyone but to pity them. I just go far from him when I see him in public and speak to my friend on the phone. I never discuss him
forgive and forget. I pray for their past, current and future victims here and there when the thought arises. praying for them keeps them on your mind. if they want forgiveness and healing they have to do the work
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Exactly They have to do the work !!!
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Yes God even told Samuel not to pray for Saul
Jesus said
"Take heed to yourselves. If your brother sins against you, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. And if he sins against you seven times in a day, and seven times in a day returns to you, saying, ‘I repent,’ you shall forgive him.”
Luke 17:3-4 NKJV
Notice he said If he repents, forgive him.
Forgive to free yourself, not for the narcissistic. People lie, and “I repent” could be one of the many lies they tell over and over, especially when it comes with another opportunity to continue inappropriate behavior.
The former half of that scripture Luke 17:1-3 says: 'There will always be something that causes people to sin. But anyone who causes them to sin is in for trouble. A person who causes even one of my little followers to sin would be better off thrown into the ocean with a heavy stone tied around their neck. 3 So be careful what you do.' This is why a narcissist will always reap what they have sown. Thanks for sharing.
@@interestinglyenough7601 You nailed it forgive to free your heart, a narcissist cannot and will not apologise, no contact is the only way out of demonic narcissistic relationships.
NO CONTACT!
We forgive actually anyway... that's only a paragraph. We have to forgive if anyone repents or not or God cannot forgive us. Forgiveness doesn't mean you keep taking abuse. It's so you can be forgiven and understand you're not perfect. None of us are
@@Angelface11 Its been a month since I left the last comment, it's easier said than done trying to go no contact when it's impossible to rent accommodation. Getting no help from family members doesn't make things easier.
( In agreement with your comment we have to forgive and even pray for our enemies, Jesus says a man's enemies will be the members of his own household ?.)
I prayed for the narcissist and was attacked. This video has been exactly what I needed. Thank you 🙏
Thank you so much for this. I knew it was a demonic attack. This is God’s battle 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name.
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OOOh I just realized it was demonic. Too long a story to tell
Maybe after I heal.i maybe will pray for this person again 😢
I would love a video when the narcissist is your adult child. Thank you for your clear and empathetic words, they are a comfort and help.
I agree there are so many estranged adult children that are narcissist. You don’t hear much about this. They tend to be spoiled and whatever goes wrong they blame the parents
Yes, yes, yes!
Exactly.....
Me too
Correct. And then there are times when their actions or what they do proves that they still, "hate you, hate you, hate you" like they told you they did when they were teenagers.
"Galatians 6:7, KJV: Be not deceived; God is not mocked: for whatsoever a man soweth, that shall he also reap." ~ I pray the narcissist be blessed with a plentiful harvest.
Oh thank God for you doing this. As an intercessor I have been getting asked if I am praying for him. But every time I pray I hurt all over again. Then I fight resentment all over again. Jude says these people are “clouds without water” and God has told me I prayed enough. 18 years was enough prayer. The Lord showed me that He already has those prayers and heard them. I need to have my life. You freed me tonight. Praise God!
This video has been a God send as im leaving the narc and acted in obedience to what God wants for me in my life and after he had a stroke i have been feelimg conflictrd about prayer for their healing. However this content makes so much sense that i feel the internal conflict over praying for them
Thank you so much for such a succinct and powerful video
I will never ever pray for narcissists, especially those professionals and know what they are doing but purposely do not want to address the issues they create after knowing the truth. Those usually pretend as if nothing has happened. Never listen to them again. Others can pray but not me. Praying come from the heart not being forced to do so. Anything that is forced will never last for even 1 minute. Then was impressed to read psalm 37. Didn't know what is in it but it really speaks to my situation when I started reading.
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Also psalm 35 is good since narcs are wicked.
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This all makes so much sense. People tell me to pray for my Ex. But it does not help my healing. Yes it keeps me connected to him. Need to break free for my own healing. Thanks for all of this information. 🤗❤️✝️
I am glad God has crossed my path with this channel. So many things I felt you are explaining to me in biblical way. May God bless you!!!
My ex-asst cell leader was a Covert Narcissist and Sociopath, went all her way out to damage and destroy me just when i was growing in my spuritual journey. Up till now i still can't get over it.
I have a lot of narcissists at my job , I pray Matthew 5:44 before going to work. It's a general prayer to include several people. I find that when I pray for a specific person they start to ignore me or become very toxic. I don't want the drama! GOD BLESS! 🙏🔥💜
We truly need the Bible and God’s perspective and His divine wisdom. I am so grateful for you for bringing the truth of God with these narcissistic people and the abuse and neglect that they operate in. It’s good to the professional aspects BUT God’s ways are far above our ways
3/3 videos watched - 5 Stars! Thank you for such quality content!!! Subbed!!
This is so true that a few times I questioned my prayers for my Narc husband.I have been just working on my healing and working with God on getting through each day Stronger and stronger until I was ready to leave and before I left I heard a saying " You can't heal where you were broken" and that so resound with me that 1 month later I heard God telling me it time to go and here I am 4 months later and LOVING God's amazing Grace and revelation after revelation of Truth that has set this Girl free😊
I wish I could be free. I'm trapped. No escape. Please pray for me. I'm also having trouble with bitterness...Will you pray for me?
@@starryskiesstarrynights9565 Father, deliver her from evil!!
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You will be free. As long you feel trapped it will feels like you are trapped, you are not trapped.
I felt the same because I believed in his lies so much I felt that I couldn’t leave.
One year later, I left and has been focusing on healing.
You can do it!
Amen! Praying wholeheartedly one or two times will do and then leave it in Gods hands for the outcome. And move on.
I wrote this when I was still living with the person, right after my mom and a friend prayed for me- I was angry at the person for just being so hurtful. Again. I went to the Lord. Praying, trusting God, and giving thanks for who God is is the main thing that has given me the strength to go on. I will share the song I wrote that came from my prayer of grief, frustration, and pain.
V1)“Help me now to see Your grace alive in me. The gentle Way of Peace, praying for my enemies. When I’m driven to my knees I see You. C) Bless them in their heart, bless their very soul. Open all our eyes, only You can make us whole. The Weary and the Weak, the Broken and the Proud. We all will face Your glory. Your ways and will be done. V2)We are all part of Your story my Rock and now my Song. One day we all will bow before You so I bow bow and lay it down, and while by grace there is still time I will pray C) Bless them in their heart. Bless their very soul. Open all our eyes only You can make us whole. The Weary and the Weak. The Broken and the Proud. We all will face Your glory. Your ways and will be done. B)I’m thankful You’ve forgiven me. Holy, Holy, Holy. And that You have adopted me. Worthy, worthy, worthy. Repeat Chorus C). V3)I’m going to keep that steady pace my eyes on You. Rejoicing I raise up my face, letting You take care of me. Such joy someday to hear You say ‘Well done”. Repeat Chorus last time.
That song you wrote was heartfelt even without the tune, thank you for sharing.
Forgive us our sins, as we forgive others…
If we do not forgive others, than neither will we be forgiven
The narcs in my family appear to be unable to forgive, besides being hypocritical and willing to believe lies and slander spread about me. I adopted prayers from Psalms- David asked God to break their teeth, among other requests. I’ll pray for them in the same manner!
That song does resonate with me. Our God will judge us all, for all have sinned - but not all forgive others.
@@salauerman7082 ne,ER hat doch schon am Kreuz das Gericht vollzogen...wenn du es annimmst oder überhaupt jemand das glaubt, braucht man sich nicht mehr vor dem Gericht zu fürchten, denn den Gerechtigkeitsmantel dürfen wir wegen das anziehen. Jesus erwarb ihn uns und in Jesus ist Gott...lies Johannes 1 dann wird es klar.
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For those who don’t read German, “no, he already carried out the judgment on the cross. if you accept it or anyone believes that, you no longer need to fear the court, because the mantle of justice is allowed to [be] put on [us] because of that. Jesus bought {him for us ~ us for him} and in Jesus is God...read John 1 then it will be clear.”
You are correct, that God placed our judgment on Jesus. I stated poorly that God will judge us all.
“Will” judge is incorrect- “has” judged is right.
Jesus did pay the price, our debt, for our sins - for which we should be so thankful that we are glad to trust God and follow directions in His Word, that He gives us out of love.
It’s good that you corrected me ☺️
God has not given us a spirit of fear- we enter His courts with -through- praise and thanksgiving.
He promises to guide us.
The concept of “guide” is with gentleness, not force -or with punishment if we stumble.
“But God has a way to make people right with him without the law. And God has now shown us that way which the law and the prophets told us about. People are made right with God by his grace, which is a free gift. They are made right with God by being made free from sin through Jesus Christ.
God sent him to die in our place to take away our sins. We receive forgiveness through faith. And all of this is because of the blood of Jesus’ death. This showed that God always does what is right and fair.
God was right in the past when he was patient and did not punish people for their sins. And God gave Jesus to show today that God does what is right.
God did this so that he could judge rightly and also make right any person who has faith in Jesus.
So do we destroy the law by following the way of faith? No! Faith causes us to be what the law truly wants.”
Romans 3:21, 24-26, 31 ICB
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For those who don’t read English:
Für diejenigen, die kein Englisch lesen:
Sie haben Recht, dass Gott unser Urteil über Jesus gelegt hat.
Ich habe schlecht gesagt, dass Gott uns alle richten wird.
„Will“ urteilt ist falsch - „has“ urteilt ist richtig.
Jesus hat den Preis, unsere Schuld, für unsere Sünden bezahlt - wofür wir so dankbar sein sollten, dass wir froh sind, Gott zu vertrauen und Anweisungen in Seinem Wort zu folgen, das Er uns aus Liebe gibt.
Gut, dass du mich korrigiert hast ☺️
Gott hat uns keinen Geist der Furcht gegeben - wir betreten Seine Höfe mit Lob und Dank.
Er verspricht, uns zu führen.
Das Konzept des „Führens“ ist mit Sanftheit, nicht mit Gewalt - oder mit Bestrafung, wenn wir stolpern.
„Aber Gott hat einen Weg, die Menschen ohne das Gesetz mit ihm in Ordnung zu bringen. Und Gott hat uns nun den Weg gezeigt, von dem uns das Gesetz und die Propheten erzählt haben. Die Menschen werden durch seine Gnade, die ein freies Geschenk ist, mit Gott in Einklang gebracht. Sie werden vor Gott gerecht gemacht, indem sie durch Jesus Christus von der Sünde befreit wurden.
Gott hat ihn gesandt, um an unserer Stelle zu sterben, um unsere Sünden wegzunehmen. Wir empfangen Vergebung durch Glauben. Und all dies ist wegen des Blutes von Jesu Tod. Dies zeigte, dass Gott immer das Richtige und Faire tut.
Gott hatte in der Vergangenheit recht, als er geduldig war und die Menschen nicht für ihre Sünden bestraft hat. Und Gott gab Jesus, um heute zu zeigen, dass Gott das Richtige tut.
Gott tat dies, damit er richtig urteilen und auch jede Person, die an Jesus glaubt, richtig stellen kann.
Zerstören wir also das Gesetz, indem wir dem Weg des Glaubens folgen? Nein! Der Glaube bewirkt, dass wir das sind, was das Gesetz wirklich will.“
From the abundance of the heart, the mouth speaks. God has given you a new song to sing to him, to glorify him to the world. They overcame the enemy by the power of the blood of Jesus, and by their testimony. Your song is your testimony. God bless you!"
I pray and meditate regularly to sustain wellness, alongside help to gain clarity when reflecting on life. I prayed for 6 years in hopes that my current narcissistic boyfriend would improve and accept God. Recently, I concluded that I should take a break from praying for my narcissistic boyfriend as this provides a sense of hope for reconciliation to occur which causes a roller coaster dynamic. To specify, I take movements forward in life as being self-sufficient (financially independent), lively, social w/ friends, and less emotionally drained when my narcissistic partner and I have disconnected or broken-up regarding the roller coaster dynamic.
I prayed for God to send me a man who met my reasonable expectations. Soon after, I entered into a healthy, stable, and collaborative relationship w/ the man who also held Christian values. I began to feel nostalgia regarding my ex-boyfriend who is a narcissist. Hence, I began to pray again for God to help the narcissist improve. I soon after received a text from the narcissist. And all of the feelings over-flooded as I had difficulty remembering all of the traumatic times (ex: homelessness, financial pickle, being thrown from the 3rd to the 2nd floor, being dragged across the rocks, belongings being thrown including food, bruises that I showed officers but I refused to report in fear that the narcissist's business reputation would be tarnished). Thus, I chose to end my relationship w/ the healthy, stable, and collaborative Christian man to reconcile w/ the narcissist.
Now, my financial path has sunken-down again and I find myself emotionally drained nearly on the daily since my current narcissist boyfriend and I reconciled. My narcissist boyfriend doesn't have employment externally from the home as of the past 3-4 months. And this has caused his frustration from boredom to initiate disputes. For example, he hid our vehicle keys for the vehicle that we share and both pay for. He has 2 trucks and we share the 3rd vehicle. I'd admit that I was a fool to reconcile w/ the narcissist. And I regret my choice as I wasn't wanting to leave the familiar, comfortable narcissist behind and I deeply wanted for he and I to reach and sustain common ground.
God fulfilled my prayer of inviting a Christian man into my life. I hoped that God had answered my prayers to help the narcissist. And now, the Christian man who had been friendly, healthy, stable, and collaborative is gone because I was too scared of the unknown. God can only help those who are willing to accept help. And the narcissist isn't a Christian nor does he promote self-improvement. I'm tired of placing myself in a financial pickle every single time I choose to reconcile w/ my narcissist boyfriend. It has been 6 years since we first met.... all of my prayers for him to improve and accept God have all been a complete waste of energy. I'd love nothing more but to leave my narcissist boyfriend but have (once more) placed myself in a financial pickle since our reconciliation.
Recently, I was hired-on at a company that would be only a 3-min drive. So, I'll have a short commute. And this'll allow for me to rebuild my savings by refraining from substantial gas rates as to leave the narcissist in the past where he was meant to stay. I only pray that God provides the strength for me to have the discipline to not even offer platonic friendship as my narcissist boyfriend is quite manipulative when he mistreats me to only apologize.
Cons: 6 Years Down-the-Drain (learning harsh lessons should not have been so time-consuming), Financial Pickle, Expedited Aging (at least for the first 5 years)
Pros: Hard Lessons Learned (I was forced to confront my childhood trauma and I have learned self-love), Body Image (I reduced weight from 126-ish lbs to 102.2 lbs as I began fasting and exercising to help w/ stress and to prevent depression from the narcissist's hostility), Homemaker Lifestyle (I'll be able to say that I had the privilege of enjoying the Homemaker Lifestyle... until I can find a traditional Christian man), Deep Love has Faded w/ Narcissist (he isn't husband or breadwinner material; there is no interest to remain patient w/ him as he doesn't provide financial security nor does he have a nice personality... he is very prone to anger and is manipulative per narcissistic tendencies)
Lastly, I've also learned how to choose guarantees rather than the potential. Hence, better to choose a mature partner compared to a narcissist who is full of potential.
Thank you for providing informative insight.
Had to watch twice to understand this. Now, i can understand what you mean, it is counter productive to my healing. I did pray after going no contact in 2019. Now, i know the reason why, i returned to him after a year. Thanks, again. I will not repeat the same mistake by praying for my narc friend during the healing process. Got it. God knows what's best. Got it.
I’m glad you realized why, read 1 John 5:15-17, I got a better understanding from this also and so I stopped praying for him altogether. It hurt me at first but once I continue to read and understand, I stopped.
I do however continually pray for all victims daily because this isn’t something I’d never wish on my worst enemy. God Bless and stay strong! ❣️❣️🙌🏾
I fully agree with this message. However personally prayer is my way of coping...the hope that my prayers might change this person from their wicked ways, gives me peace.
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When I finally prayed for his heart to be changed from stone to flesh , God flooded me with peace. That was enough for me for now. I now ask for massive healing for me as I was left on deaths door. I’m focusing on bringing the light back in my eyes with Jesus my best friend. Maranatha x
thank you. i will stop praying for him until i’m healed.
Thank you for this video, I am out of this relationship with a narcissist, I am being healed from him and I gave him to the Lord Jesus Christ! God Bless You 🙌💜💋😎🦋🌈
So glad to hear that. God bless you! 🙏🏽🕊
Thank you and God Bless You too💋💜🕊😘
During my in home seperation
I was praying hard for my now soon to ex I heard God say stop praying!. He brought the conversation back to mind that he had when Samuel was praying for narassist Saul. God told Samuel to stop praying and how long will he mourn for him. God doesn't want us wasting our precious energy on folks that are not going to change
Fast forward 8 months. I recently started praying God helps him to be a safe dad for my 13 year old son and to be fair in our divorce settlement
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all soul ties with any one not serving God in Jesus name. Sadly narcs are full of demons that have a mind of a 2 to 12 year old that can not be trusted and they have to want to get free of their demons.
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Just hand them over to God. His will be done. I am already forgiven by the blood of Jesus. No “soul ties”. In the mighty name of Jesus.
Amen...
Prayers to help
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100% truth the victory belongs to the Lord because narcissists are demonic. I am a born again Christian 27 years, my dad passed away 13 years ago and warned me before he died my mother is a control freak, that was an understatement as mother is a full blown narcissist who manipulated the whole family for years until the truth came to light slowly after my dad passed away whom my mother used to blame for everything. I am a carer for my narcissistic mother as the rest of the family went no contact, now I am going no contact for the sake of my own personal sanity and moving forward to what God will have in his will for the rest of my life as staying in a toxic, living nightmare day and night most assuredly is not God's plan for the remainder of my life.
God bless you.
I am 20 years+ on a full recovery path. God has spoken to my heart several times, once that He has healed me completely.
To " release " is difficult....because I don't want them to be progressively dangerous and I hate that they miss God's best, as done everyone.
AND YET I find the more I call on God's strength and action, the safer and more at peace I remain.
This work continues as I grow, in the valleys and the mountain tops. I cannot even begin to thank you enough.
I thank you,, my spouse thanks you, my children thank you for your work, commitment, and excellence.
Shaneen, I'm the primary caregiver for my narcissistic 80+ year old mother. I would love to see a video from you about that... since going no-contact is NOT an option. Help please!!
Consider “Hope for the Caregiver” with Peter Rosenberger TH-cam channel or podcast. He has written 3 books on caregiving. His wife Gracie has had over 80 surgeries during the last 35 years plus of which Peter has been her caregiver. He speaks from a Biblical standpoint.
For myself I helped my wife for many years, her narcissistic parents did a lot to her, trying to find and uncover what happened in the early 80’s nearly impossible. We survived, we were married 43 years, she passed on 2 years ago. From my experience be aware of and understand “Reactive Abuse”, Complex-PTSD, nutrition, sleep. For me the best analogy about caregiving related matters with narcissists or survivors is in the rodeo - the eight second bull ride, it is a lot of work staying on.
Psalm 10 and Psalm 73 were helpful for me.
Your right, amen. I turned her over to God, because I know man can do nothing for them
I agree
We as a church(20+ members) prayed for 20+YEARS for a person to change and it never gappened
The church fell apart after the pastor passed away.And she was part of the "leaders/elders taking over.
Its like trying to make a stone melt in a freezer.
I have decided to forgive the covert narcissist for everything she did in the past and I trust God to act. I specifically asked that God deal with the covert narcissist for all false accusations made against me and others in the future; at the same time I left the narcissist and went full no-contact.
Thank you Shaneen for mentioning how Praying for the Narcissist when you finish with them can be counter productive,I think it's very true and has the potential to leave you vulnerable to the hoover etc.🙌
I'm listening to every one of your videos. I just discovered your Channel, they are an answer to my prayers. Every one hits me right at home. I was praying for wisdom. I'm not just a listener but also a doer. I pray to God he can use what I'm learning to help me be in his perfect will, that I may bless and help others.
I thank God for using your teaching, experience and this technology to help people like me. 👍 🙏😇🙌
Lord please fill my places, please heal me, I think he needs to get back what he’s given me
I know what you mean about that spiritual connection. I used to be in a place where I couldn't pray for my narcissist. Due to trauma I went through I feared keeping any kind of tie with them (even after years of limited/no contact). When I've not been able to pray for my narcissist myself I've asked God to raise up intercessors for them. I now am able to pray daily for my narcissist and I also lift up other narcissists for victims who are not yet able to. Praying for my narcissist has helped accelerate my healing and I'm comforted that God is in control and protecting me as I do. When I pray I release all expectations and trust that God will bring about His perfect plan in His perfect way in His perfect time.
You sound like a healed woman, and I have no doubt that your prayers are availing much! God bless you! 🙏🏽💕🕊
@@ShaneenMegji Thank you! God bless you too! Your videos contain much wisdom and they are a God send and a blessing. I've healed a lot but there are still some areas that need working on. We are all a work in progress. There's a lot of fear that comes with these relationships which can be paralyzing. I've found that praying for my narcissist is helping to loosen the bonds of fear.
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name.
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Pray against the unholy spirit of fear in the Mighty Name of Jesus. . I have to do that sometimes.
We KNOW fear is not from God!!!!
@@brendarewan7441 I prefer to ask God to strengthen me to overcome fear. Also not all fear should be disregarded as it's also our inborn survival mechanism. When fear shows up wisdom and discernment are needed to determine whether it's there to protect us or to stop us from doing God's will. If it's the former we should listen to it but if it's the latter then we need to overcome it. That's the approach I prefer to take. God bless you.
I have prayed that the church protecting this covert bully, will get discernment and that God will soften the hearts of the leaders.
This narcissist is in hospital with Covid.....I didnt feel the Lord wanted me to pray for physical healing.... but rather that this sickness will change hearts
I always had hope for my narcissistic mom so everytime she came to me i tried to be supportive but every single time i was either betrayed or used or manipulated for her agenda...so i went no contact and even stopped praying for her anymore 💔 😔...its been 6 months now...
I'm 60 years old and just learned about narcissism... I never knew what was wrong with my relationship with my mother before now. My grown children can't understand why I went no contact even though she's my next door neighbor.
They tell me I will regret it when she dies, but I find the more I try to repair, and talk to her about the relationship, the worse it gets.
I'd like to know how to deal with my grown children who love their grandmother, but can't understand my position. I don't want to "gossip", and they don't want to hear about old hurts and whatnot.... It's a difficult position to be in.
Thank you. This came at the right time.
Thanks. It's very helpful. I've been praying for him during the past year without realizing what it meant. I'm gonna change the way I pray from now on.
Yes this is what I felt God was saying to me.
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name. The narc has to want to get free from their demons.
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Thank you thank you THANK YOU for this video. I felt guilty for not praying for my ex on my journey draw closer to God and develop myself in the Kingdom. So I was praying for the narcissists healing. This video came right on time.
Shaneen
God has used you to comfort my heart. I have tried to pray for my husband, the prayers wouldn't come I felt guilty and asked God to forgive me. Now I understand why God wanted me to care for myself and break these trauma bonds. When I am strong enough God Will Lead Me In Prayer. Thank you for your Insight, thank you for allowing God to use you. I pray the Holy Spirit will continue to give you wisdom to help people like myself.
6:13 “God is capable of raising up someone to pray for the narcissist.” Amen!
I can pray that IF it’s God’s will to lead someone to pray for the narc, that He do so, while I can also pray in the same manner that David did in Psalms, for those who were doing him wrong.
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6:13 “God is capable of raising up someone to pray for the narcissist.” Amen!
"I can pray that IF it’s God’s will to lead someone to pray for the narc, that He do so, while I can also pray in the same manner that David did in Psalms, for those who were doing him wrong."
I know I'm late to the game, but your comment has me thinking. I've always wondered about the command to pray for our enemies. In the old testament that was often a prayer to God to go get 'em.
Recently I did a mini word study on the word bless, as in bless those who persecute you. Elsewhere we're told to bless God. How do I bless God who has everything? The word actually has the meaning of bowing the knee to. So I wonder if that doesn't mean, as the Scripture says, resist not the evil man. In other words, not to run out and try and inflict vengeance on that person, but also don't resist/wrestle with or engage them, and pray to God to get justice for you.
Wow now that is some truth! Oh how I wish I had this 15 years ago!
Praying for my narcissist helps with my healing,my narc has got no chance with me again.
Great words and important points. You have a wonderful balance of grace and strength. Thank you for your labors of love to put your talks together with such compassion. Please keep up your good work. We need you!!
Thanks for all of your videos!!
I had been praying for my narc parent, and I felt like I was being called to do so. That if they did turn to God that it would be because of me. That I was trying to play God's part.
I had started a fast and and was praying before bed.
The next day in prayer, I just felt so strongly that something was pulling me to look at the reasons behind the prayer fast I was doing.
I was trying to control the narrative, that belonged to God.
I apologized to God and now if I pray for my narc parent , it's because I love them. Not because I was trying to play God.
It's hard to watch someone you love who won't open the door to Christ. It's so easy but so hard.
What fools these mortals be!
Thanks again!
Great comment section 🙏
I appreciate your faith, and knowledge of these poor souls. God bless you.
Your Videos have really helped me with my situation This is powerful and soothing at the same time. I really thank you
Thank you Shaneen you explain things so beautifully and clearly.♥️
This was so helpful! I must emotionally detach from him which is already difficult because of in-house separation. I can't and get strong and stable if I'm praying, hoping, looking for change.
Dear Penny, I pray for much grace from God as you navigate this difficult journey. God loves you so much and has a beautiful plan for your life.🙏🏽💕
Me too. Married 17 years and I’m planning very strategically on leaving. My son is in high school and I want him to finish, then I’m out! Narc husband sleeps on the couch. He has withdrawn from me. Only superficial conversations. No sex in 2 years. He’s had multiple affairs. There is no way God has called me to continue carrying this burden. Under the same roof like roommates. It has been so gut wrenching but with God my healing is slowly building strength. I’m getting stronger and thinking of my son. I don’t feel led to pray for husbands narcissistic ways. Instead I’m watching videos like this and working on my healing. I’m so happy we have this kind of content from a biblical perspective. I workout, go to the beach, long walks, seeing a counselor and get outdoors as much as possible. I love it! The narc has no more real estate in my mind. Tired of the disrespect for my feelings everytime I find another woman’s phone number in his phone but disguised with a man’s name. He gaslights me and downplays it then switches the confrontation around like I’m wrong. So hurtful and humiliating. Well I’m done!
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I gave up on the narc(dad). He expects me to forget his abusing me. He expects me to let him off the hook. It isn't working for me. I don't pray for the narcissist/enablers(most), for my well-being.
What consumes my thoughts and causes so much pain is that my ex cut me off from our son. I haven’t seen him for 2 1/2 years. I pray constantly for her heart to be softened and even for her to be saved. I’m trying to forgive her but it still hurts so much. I don’t know what to do. Please pray for me.
I pray for you Michael. That is awful.
@@redskyalice2529 thank you so much. I’m so grateful for that Alice. God bless you.
@@michaelalten9524 Welcome!
Can’t you do something by law ? If yes then do it
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind all demons keeping me from my kid in Jesus name. Narcs are full of demons that have the mind of 2 to 12 year old that can not be trusted so target the demons in prayer. Pray Lord make a way from me to see my kid in Jesus name.
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Thank you so much for your wise counsel.I've been in no contact for four months now and for the first time I can really speak God's blessing on the narcissist and new supply, who are both Christians.I have forgiven both and I'm on a tremendously exciting new path of freedom and discovering who I am in Christ again,knowing there is hope and a future for me.The key is to really break all ties on every level and to regularly chat to someone who has knowledge about NPD and to spend time in God's presence every day...The best counselor is definitely the Holy Spirit!If it weren't for Him in my life I would've been completely destroyed!Greater is He in you than he that is in the world(evil one,the destroyer)
The best way to get the narcissist’s demons off your mind is to pray out loud for the salvation of the narcissist, every time the demons attack you with a memory or a criticism. From experience, this works because Satan does not want the narcissist saved. I have found this to work 100%. Keep a forgiving heart and you will be ok. Trust in Jesus
Amen. Prayer is incredibly powerful.
I don't have years of trauma like most people. The woman I liked from Church might be a narcissist. Other people have had to deal with her. I pray for her every day especially when I'm sad or mad and miss her and wonder why we're not together. I pray she is healed even if it doesn't include me as part of her life. She doesn't know I pray for her so she can't get mad at me.
The place in this video where you’re talking about separating from the narcissist and looking for your path forward and you show a car going down a road stretched out before it was extremely meaningful to me. There are days when I think that I am healing and healthy and days when I don’t, this video helped me to realize that the process of looking forward and putting distance between myself and my abuser is of the upmost of importance.
I was thinking i should not pray for my narcissistic ex as well because God has to work with him and he has to want to change. If i pray for him I could end up still in that demonic energy
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name.
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Thank you. I so needed this right now. I cant express enough, how amazingly helpful and supportive you are to me and so many others. You are a gift from God!
Thank you so much for your insightful videos...May God continue using you.... they help so many of us get some mental clarity! Stay awesome.
In Christ
Thank u so much for your channel. It is exactly what I need right now. God bless your work Shaneen
What an awesome video! You touch on subjects no one does!
First and foremost as it has been mentioned thank you for biblical side as it’s not much teaching on this. I believe this is a deep spiritual battle .
I was in a 2year relationship with a narcissist. The last 8months of our relationship became a distant relationship due to our work occupation. Through this time she felt I neglected her , far from the truth.
During that time she had already made up her mind . Never once did she communicate me about this . Then when she came home I had to discover myself a bombshell. Now I’m hurt. Of the both times after that before her full blown no contact she used me for her usual needs, which I didn’t realize until after the fact . I have never confronted her on wring doings or her behavior . I’m so confused . She is now completely mad at me because while I was out of town I change the door code . She only at that time contacted me out of the blue to get her things just showed up at my door step. We are in full no contact since then. I lover her dearly but I now realizing it’s the spiritual side of it . I want her back, I’m so confused. And totally depressed with no energy. I don’t know what to pray for or about . I tried , pleaded pour out my true love for her which only made her become more distant .
Thank you Woman of God. I pray that God will continue to bless your Ministry in the Mighty Name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ of Nasereth 🙏Stay Bless🙌🙌
Thank you I have been praying for them. It is a connection, I will give it to God👍🙏❤️
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I bind the mouth of the demons speaking through person name in Jesus name. The narc has to want to get free from their demons.
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Wow... okay. ♡
What a great video. Thank you so much. I'm feeling it. Maybe I can leave this bad man. I know I need my own life. Thanks for your spiritual guidance. Maybe I will be strong again and get my self back to being happy and not exhausted by these evil narcs that only use
us and torture us for their own pleasures and gain.
I agree with you. People who are this sick will continue on their destructive path in this world. Enjoy your life and the few good people who contribute to it! Turn narcissists over to God. He will take care of keeping them out of your life.
Look l m waiting for a bus or two in a college town. I have time. I too was discarded after ten years. Look l want justice for all the devil did through this narc.l still don't see how l was a target...and didn't see red flags.l will pray for all of discarded and that we will use discernment in future. I m riding the bus and he has three vehicles l paid for. I plan to use shaneen outline for prayer. Let's focus on loving God. I think rewards now and heaven. I believe for justice.how he brings it is fine with me
Just letting you know how much I appreciate your work. God bless you.
I have a church protecting a perpetrator who wprks for them this woman exposed my whereabouts to my former abuser and his law enforcement family. I survived 3 near death experiences and now I'm being stalked and harassed by him and his family.
The pastors sermon last week was about the wrong of churches who protect themselves as a victim gets destroyed.
This pastor also tried to defend and make excuses even tho I have evidence amd national and state laws were broken.
I feel so betrayed by the church.
So alone having to fight for my life AGAIN bc of these people using God when truly they are false prophets.
I cannot pray for evil.
Gabby Petito is dead bc of people protecting the perpetrator instead of a victim.
I don't know what God wants from me when society lies and victims die bc of liars and murderers.
Leave the church and move to a different state get as far as you can change phone number get a P.O. box.
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Dear ladies,
(assuming ur women, my apologies if ur not w/ my assuming)
I hope u can read this reply to both of you, in complete neutrality, and without personal criticism.
First, I ask you both to re-read my original reply to the YT creator n her video content. Because if you both watched video, you would know that I am answering her question.
If you re-read my comment, you can clearly read that I'm not confused about anything other than God.
A. My dialogue also contains nothing of me asking for advice.
B. My comment is stating nothing of the topic of that I didn't know what to do.
C. My comment is nothing more than answering her question at the end of her video when she asked her audience to drop their experience in the comments, Re: Church Abuse.
I ask both u ladies, if you might be seeing a pattern in yourselves?
Each of you had an immediate codependent empathic need; and a emotional reaction-response to run to my rescue.
Do you see?
Ok...
If you understand,
Do you both recognize that you decided to manipulate the reality of my comment?
You both gave identical advice to a comment, that clearly had nothing to do with me needing advice about a church.
I was mad at God explaining a church abuse experience. _Again, I was answering the creators question at the end of her video.)
By no fault of your own due to maybe yrs of gaslighting, a codependent empath BPD will do exactly what you both just did, and shockingly, it also is identical to the narcissist.
Each of you changed my conversation topic to fit your reflex need, just as a Narcissist does.
I know thats hard to hear.
I hated hearing stuff like this too, when I 1st learned about codependent behavior mirroring a Narcissist.
A codependent empath who developed BPD will have an immediate need to rescue someone from something.
But bc of your entrainment via previous gaslighting, you both created a need, in your emotional reaction, unaware you're both doing this to control someone even tho they didn't ask or the topic wasn't ur topic.
Please ask yourselves as codependent empaths, why both of you wanted to immediately help, fix, and drop knee jerk unsolicited advice that hasn't any part of my comment to begin with?
Again, I am just asking these questions and making this reply incomplete neutrality, with no personal criticism whatsoever towards either one of you.
Being aware of these unhealthy patterns, as codependent empaths, often most coming out of narc abuse, have levels of bpd that mirror what narcissists do.
(I was once there ladies, and 3 years later, I have a core identity in tact.)
I also have stability w a logical mind, AND regulated emotions.
I've been immersed in tons of education n recovery, practice, growth, and advocacy work in this field.
And I left a comment answering the YT lady was asking her audience n perplexed at God.
Not a plea.
Not w disregulation.
Not in confusion about what to do.
Logic told me weeks back to leave the church n begin proceedings to prosecute these people.
When one survives what I did, you get immersed in education and recovery teams n resources.
So ladies,
3 years ago I would have done the same thing you both did to me.
Three years later, I am codependent no more, and teach and educate all over the world doing advocacy work.
I cannot, nor will not say thank you for your advice for something I never asked for or needed.
Please know, I left this comment for both of you, in hopes that you would be able to see yourself and your behavioral dysregulated patterns.
Hoping it would give you more self-awareness on your recovery Journey, bc Healing from this is hard if you can't see your own behavior. And unfortunately, far too few will speak up when somebody exhibits Behavior like both of you identically did to me.
Innocent yes.
You both have big beautiful dysregulated hearts of emo wanting to run help anyone.
I been there.
But maybe these comments can be used as a teaching and educational tool in your narc abuse recovery tool box.
Take care ladies.
Lotsa strength on ur journey of recovery n healing from narc abuse.
@@forensicfaithinprofiling I'm sorry but I see you as the one that is overly reacting wrongfully here due to your own trauma and abuse. Because a true Christian is looking to help others out of love. True Christians and true love not only listens to a person in distress but they will go so far as to offer legitimate help. Mistakes are going to be made through social media because you can't see the body language the facial gestures and the tone of voice. There's nothing wrong with caring about fellow Christians and trying to help... it seems to me everyone here reacted without knowing the full situation. But how can you over social media comments?
Thank you Shaneen. I'm learning lots from you.
This video was very informative. Unfortunately, I've been praying for her everyday since she left (8 weeks ago). Thanks for sharing 👍
Prayers to help and do not give up. Pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name. Pray I loose all trauma and stress from my heart in Jesus name.
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Girlfriend you are anointed 100% l was told by God this morning to start prayer for him. You confirmed it. I will use your use your outline I will use your your outline to to pray to pray for him while I do my workout while I do my workout you are a tremendous blessing to us who are serious who are serious about loving God obeying God and knowing God's word I realize that God's will is more important than my will and I'm willing to renew my mind and not allow bitterness and unforgiveness to keep me connected to Satan that does not please the Lord and anyone reading this please please go back to first John 3 and realize that you are beloved first and second know what Jesus is who he is cuz he's truth when you have the spirit and Truth working together you will heal fast I'm not knocking therapy but I just don't have the time and I just know the spirit will do what needs to be done if he tells you to go get counts I'm not knocking it but he has put shanay here to help us who are moving forward cuz we have lost a lot of time with the narcissist and resources but God is a restorer so God bless you shanae thank you
I was on bus using my new phone with voice recorder feature. Doesn't have grammar command
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name.
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Ms Shanned thank you for your work. Before i came to know that a friend was a narc (and i have no idea about this personality disorder) God called me to spiritually offer my Isaac. Four months after I left the narc not because i found out but i felt feed up and totally disrespected. Few weeks later i encounter a video about narcissism and that was my eureka moment. It was not an easy journey but God is just good!
Thank you so much for your video. My narcissist ex was very spiritual and will have others to pray for him. I'm going to continue on my healing journey.
Thank you so much for the validation ❤
I’m so glad this was helpful. Bless you. 🙏🏽💕
Excellent!! Always great videos. GOD Bless Shaneen Megji 👐
Thank you so much Resmi! Bless you too. 🙏🏽🕊
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name.
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You are Blessed to explain this difficult situation in our lives in a spiritual and sensible manner...
Prayers to help and do not give up.
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You are right. I see myself there. 😆
Now I got it. Thankyou!!!
I whish I had listened this years ago. This is closure of something I felt for a long time. Thank you.
You're most welcome. God bless you Maria. 🙏🏽💕
Prayers to help and pray I renounce all soul ties with person name in Jesus name. Pray I renounce all covenants with person name in Jesus name.
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