alhamdulillah proud to be a Pakistani, I have never seen any other Muslim country this level of islamic speakers and researchers with great wisdom ,Pakistan is really blessed having a lot of religious scholars who are the same levels but with different approaches they are really brought the level of religion and humanity and Islam into a very simple way to a common person .
Isy kehty Hain ilm ek smjhdar insan k Pas 😍 Allah Apko apky is Kam Ka ajar dy or Apko seht wali zindgi dy apky ilm mein mazeed izafa farmay Ameen sum ameen
I can’t believe how clean and clear his approach is towards Islam in such a less age comparatively. He understands Quran Al-Karim & teachings of Prophet Mohammad PBUH as they should be, Subhan Allah.. There are many gems in Pakistan so competent yet humble…Alhamdolillah Ya Rabbal Alimeen.
SubhanAllah! The understanding this man has over deen and dunya is phenomenal. Sahil bhai, may Allah grant you happiness of both worlds. I’m not saying this because you took our women’s side but because you proved everything so good in a scientific and religious point of view k dil phir mazboot ho jata hy besides facing the hardships of marriage. Jazakallahu khairan katheera.
Orat jazbati ha or mard smajhdar tbi talak ka zima mard ko dea but qurban jau apni society ki ammaon py jinho ny yehe mardon k demagh mein dal dea k mard jazbati ha or orat smjhdar
Such a great and very clear explanation ! This is what Islam is. We need more people like Sir Sahil to talk about the real Islam, what we are practicing in our country is far away from our religion.
Precious precious precious jem for us.... Allah lambi zindagi de sehat kai saath .hum ko aur hamare bachoon ko bahat zaroorat hai aap kii ...Allah bohat asaaniyaan fermae is rah me aap kii...
What a way to put this concept into perspective. May Allah grant you all the power to share knowledge which makes people understand with clarity and neutrality. Beautifully expressed !
Wah Ma Sha Allah Sahil bhai Allah pak apko nazar e bad sy bachaye Ameen sume Ameen..meri 30 sal umar hy..lkn zindagi me fast time pehly bar itna clear nd cut lecture suna hy ..maza aya..
Loved his explanation!!! I wish that one could ever understand the peak of that distress and pain... When she starts acting against her nature, values and ethics... And after that the regrets and remorse she faces after having arguments or fight
My mother said after my divorce that once you knew your husband and in laws are not in better terms, why you produced second child and since 16 years i am living with my parents and my mother pushed me and my kids out from home multipal times. Atlast afer 15 years i said this is my father home and i cant go anywhere resultantly my mother stoped talking me .ex husband never ever payed a single penny and met with children. I know now nody will believe on it
یہی سوچ جو آپکی ماں کی ہے معاشرے نے ، علماء نے مدرسے کی باجیوں نے ان میں ڈالی ہے کہ عورت کو شوہر کے ساتھ ہر حال میں گزر کرنا چاہیے چاہے وہ جیسا بھی رکھے جیسا بھی ہو۔ آپکی والدہ کا ایسا رویہ قابل افسوس ہے لیکن انکی ذہنی تربیت ہی ایسی کی گئی ہے۔ ہو سکتا ارد گرد کے لوگ انہیں آپکے لئے اکساتے ہوں ۔ آپکے شوہر پر آپکے بچوں کی ذمہ داری تھی ۔ آپ قانون سے ان کے لیے خرچ کا کہہ سکتی تھی ۔ میری والدہ نے بھی سخت تکلیف دہ زندگی گزاری طلاق نہ لی۔ لیکن ہم جیسے جیسے بڑے ہوتے گئے ہم یہی کہتے رہے کاش آپ طلاق لے لیتی تاکہ معاشی نہ سہی ذہنی سکون تو ہوتا آپکے پاس۔ اسی زندگی کو ہمارے بچوں کے لیے سہتے سہتے وہ ہمیں چھوڑ کر اللہ کے پاس چلی گئی۔ ساحل صاحب بول تو رہے ہیں عورت کو رحم بنا کر رکھنا چاہیے لیکن وہ لڑائی جھگڑے اور ذہنی و جسمانی اذیت جو وہ سہتی ہے اسکے بچے سب دیکھتے ہیں۔ اور یہ سب ان بچوں کو نفسیاتی انسان بنا دیتا ہے اور وہ رویوں میں اپنے باپ سے بھی بدتر ہو جاتے ہیں۔
Outstanding lecture thank you so much Sahil Adeem Bhai you are great person... Salute to your parents.. May Allah Gives you long and prosperous life.. Ameen
Mashallah he is a Man On a Mission 🔥 ..this video must be made compulsory to watch for everyone before getting married.. irrespective of any religion...
Aik mother 9 months tak aik takleef main rahti hay or phir jus takleef se guzar kar aik mard ko bap ka rutba tak puhnchati hay Allah kay hukam se... Or phir apnay bachay ko god main lay ker her takleef bhool jati hay..." Aik kmzor orat" or phir palti din rat aik kerti hay ghe bhi sanbhalti hay doosray bachon ko bhi sath proper menage kerti hay.. Aik kamzor be aqal shaki mizaj or sab kgamion se bharpoor orat or bardasht karti hay her takleef or mushkil halat main apnay husband ka ghusa.,rudness carelessness or disrespect or sab kuch.... Or phir ager kabhi orat ki berdasht khtam ho jay to halat ki zimadar bhi wohi tharai jati hay. Kunkay mardon ko islam ka knowledge bus itna hi hay.
Excellent explanation ! Please give an speech on why husband getting title of " majazi khuda" it is another type of associating partner with Allah SWT i saw many religious girls changed after marrige as husband don't like hijjab or viel for her they removed to please him only disobeying Allah order , husband taking advantage of this title of Majazi khuda never given by Our Religion neither in Quran nor in hadees and start abusive behaviour with wife if she didn't listen him ......even not cooking well or not negligence in house chores due to her nature ....or any mental or physical illness like depression or weakness she got Constantly torture of verbal abuse
MashaAllah jazzakAllah khair for increasing my knowledge ab8 women how powerful thay are from this lecture i will be more polite with may family and become more sabir inshaAllah
May Allaah SWT bring out more such people who speak fair enough. Aameen. May Allaah SWT bless Sahil Adheem sir with jannatul Firdouse for his great work. Aameen.
Subhaan allah ye level super se b opper ka hai allah pak aap jesay muallam hazraat ko salamat rhkay or allah pak aap ko isi terha sahi maanou mei deen.e.islam beyan kernay ki toufeeq atta fermaye ameen
I agree but sometimes things are not that simple. you blame wife wrong doing on man and If a man has the authority then he can use all mean to correct it but now a days if you take some hard stance to correct things its women who ask for Talak, it mean she does not allowed you to use your authority your Insaf and this way kids also get affected.
Feeling very relaxed Allah bus mujhe aise hi raham par qayam rakhe baqi to ab Allah hi jawaab lega meri mummy bolti hain ki bete patthar ho jaao to kya ye jaayaz hai main yeh nahi kehti ki mere husband mujhe marte peette hain nahi magar unki zabaan aise alfaaz chunti hai jo dil hilane ke liye kafi hai aur dus saalo mein mera dil kya dimaag bhi hil Chuka hai aur mere shauhar ko bada guroor hai iss baat par to ab Allah hi hamara hisaab lega
La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin (Ayat E Kareema) keep reciting plus surah kausar kasrat say perhain.. May Allah SWT ease your difficulties ameen
Indian Muslim women are also or more simple, dedicated, clean, creative, educated, homely wives and mothers. Also to be noted that we didn't see any me-too movement in India.
Zebdust.shuker Allah ka hmari is mn pkr nhi honi .phir b hmm females apna ap khtm kr deti hn shohr ghr ar bchon k liy.apni himmt se khin ziada boj utha kr
bohut acha lecture hai, lekin pata nai lagta hai amal mai 88% people will not do even after knowing and believing these things, they will not put it into actions.
Alhumdulillah ksi male ny realize kya k bardasht ko is inteha tk ly jaya jata hai k nobat yhan tk aie. Allah kry pakistani males ki smajh main bhi kuch a jaye .
A.o.a Sir us pr video b bnain k larky k parents lai gai beti ko zalil o ruswa kr k chor dyty..or zruri to nhi k hr baar bahu e galat ho ..jitna mrzi sabr krlo jitna un logo sy ho skta hai wo ruswa krty hain...end main without any reason divorce tag lga k aik beti ko chor dia jata...pls hmari society k liye koi esa kam hona chahiye jahan esy logo ko saza honi chahiye
Punishment brings out revenge. In ko saza hogi to wo phir apse pyaar karne lag jaenge? Family structure rules pe nahin chalta, compromise aur give &take par chalta hai. Aur jo kaam hikmat se hota hai wo zabardasti ni hosakta.
I agree jis tra aj kl log ksi ki beti ko la l uski zndgi taba krte r fraud krte shadi k nam p lalchi aese logo k lie separate courts honi chae Jo I ki saza de
@@deebakapadia to saza hi na mile saza milegi to kam se kam doosrj ladkiya bach jayengi sazayein nahi mili isiliye hum mard apni auqat ke bahar niqal aaye hai aapko Allah ne haq diya hai uska istemaal kare khud b taqatwar bane aur baakiyo ko b banaye
What you said about girl just in Pakistan happened like this everyone say girl sabar Kar. But now overseas Pakistani girls don't have any sabar or shukar they directly beating husbands and call police what you said about that .don't show girls is always poor they also responsible for everything.
@@irshanaseer4176 abuse could be anything be it physical or verbal, financial there is no statistics about men being abused because they don’t tell to anyone or feel insecure. Laws are made to favor women but men are also victims and must be protected
There is an extreme need to teach son to be kind and insaf pasand ho .to phir maa jub sass bunti hay to is ka reham kanha jata hay or who appny son ko julm keun sikhati hay .
کیونکہ مردوں میں صبر اور تحمل ہوتا ہے عموما غصے میں طلاق نہیں دیتے حالانکہ مردوں کا غصہ عورتوں کے غصے سے دگنا ہوتا ہے مگر اس کے باوجود عموما ان عورتوں کو طلاق ہو ہی جاتی ہے جو روز روز شوہر کو غصہ دلاتی ہیں۔ کیونکہ روز روز صبر کر کے بالآخر ایک دن شوہر پھٹ جاتا ہے اور اکھٹی تین طلاق دے دیتا ہے ۔ جبکہ عورتیں معمولی سی بات پر شوہر کو چھوڑ کر ماں کے گھر چلی جاتی ہیں اگر عورت کے پاس طلاق کا اختیار ہوتا تو نوے فیصد گھر تباہ ہوجاتے۔ اور آج کل تو حد ہی ہوگئی ہے عورتیں خود خلع مانگتی ہیں اور ایک طلاق کے بعد ہی دوسری جگہ منگنی کر لیتی ہیں اور پھر پہلے والا واپس بلائے تو اب یہ دوسری محبت بھی ختم منگنی بھی ختم
Nice and interesting discussion. In case of Continues poor performance of subordinates after efforts put in place by the Leader, there is a firing rule as well. That’s why reward and punishment (ajjar aur jazza) rule is set by almighty Allah. You can’t held leader responsible if a subordinate wasn’t well trained by the original trainers (parents of subordinate/wife) on ethics of behaving with her leader. There are instances that if poor performers are kept for long will spoil not only the career of the leader but the whole organization So, there are many instances that men have very ethical and respectful but the woman got married although had a lot ethical issues before the marrying a man. So should not 💯 % blame the men or the leader
yes true everything has a limit, if some subordinates overdo, very stubborn or bent on destruction then maybe leader has to take action to bring peace...... above is true if the leader is just and merciful to his subordinates and vice versa for wife to let go o if husband is stubborn and hard to live with.
what about if a man keeps a woman in nikkah after rukhsati at her parents place, because he does not want to pay for her groceries , or give her a home, and her husband only cares about spending his entire salary on his brothers friends and brother's children. and he just leaves her on streets, and sometimes asks random acquaintances (non mehrams) to take care of me while he is busy having affairs, he is also allowing access to another man to take care of his wife. what do you mean aurat ka kaam thappar maar k raham dikhana ? LOL what are you guys talking about. people minimize the real conflicts a lot. aurat ka kaam hai maar kha k raham dikhaana ? chahay uska mard usko dusro mardon ko baich aaye ? ya apnay bhai ko kahay k meri biwi ka kheyal rakho, iskay guardian bano. I am telling you this about a very strict Syed family, jis mai mahram na mahram ka 1% concept clear nehi hai. but no one will ever find that out because ? A so called Syed , jethani aur devar ki frankness dekh ker aur unkay darmayaan ka flirt dekh ker aap heraan reh jayen gey. also this is not a modern family, this is family that lived near Shahi Mohalla, androon shehar, but they behave in a way even other races like "goray" also dont behave in such frankness with the wives of their brother. even white people dont cross their lines or flirt with their jhetaani . what is this fakeness of wearing a mask of religion , but this is the reality of syeds behind closed doors.
ALHAMDULILLAH ALHAMDULILLAH I HAD HEAD PHONES ON ........ BUSY IN MY WORK AND THIS VIDEO AUTOMATICALLY STARTED PLAYING..... ITS AN EXCELLENT ONE ...... THANK YOU SIR FOR PRAISING US ......😥I HAVE CRIED THROUGH OUT😥😥 .......HEART TOUCHING
Salaam Sir! Bless you! May you get more than you wish for here and here after ameen sumameen! First time hearing a man talking like a sane man not just biological male wearing crown of patriarchy and misogyny high on his head! Apologies for being so bitter in praise as well. But sadly been disappointed since beginning hearing educated men religious men putting whole blame on women for not putting up with all the challenges of marriage and parenting alone. Thanks for taking ownership of responsibility given to the man to keep the family structure intact by Allah the Almighty! I agree it’s always two to tango but man completely loses the balance of dance by being ignorant of his responsibility. Only prayers can save our nation from further doom. Hope keeps us going!
He is another level... May Allah bless his knowledge... Salute to u sr.. from india
Male ne dil jeetna hota ha ort ka pr yha mard ko sirf lalch hota ha
Tum merea liyea kya kr skti ho
alhamdulillah proud to be a Pakistani, I have never seen any other Muslim country this level of islamic speakers and researchers with great wisdom ,Pakistan is really blessed having a lot of religious scholars who are the same levels but with different approaches they are really brought the level of religion and humanity and Islam into a very simple way to a common person .
Isy kehty Hain ilm ek smjhdar insan k Pas 😍 Allah Apko apky is Kam Ka ajar dy or Apko seht wali zindgi dy apky ilm mein mazeed izafa farmay Ameen sum ameen
I can’t believe how clean and clear his approach is towards Islam in such a less age comparatively. He understands Quran Al-Karim & teachings of Prophet Mohammad PBUH as they should be, Subhan Allah..
There are many gems in Pakistan so competent yet humble…Alhamdolillah Ya Rabbal Alimeen.
Haa bilkul sahi kaha aapne itni young age may itna saara cleansing stuff hai sir kay pass kay main speechless hojati hoon
This guy is legend speaking with facts and backup
SubhanAllah! The understanding this man has over deen and dunya is phenomenal. Sahil bhai, may Allah grant you happiness of both worlds. I’m not saying this because you took our women’s side but because you proved everything so good in a scientific and religious point of view k dil phir mazboot ho jata hy besides facing the hardships of marriage. Jazakallahu khairan katheera.
A very unbiased clarification on the subject of Talaq. Men are leaders and solely responsible and answerable for the end results.
Orat jazbati ha or mard smajhdar tbi talak ka zima mard ko dea but qurban jau apni society ki ammaon py jinho ny yehe mardon k demagh mein dal dea k mard jazbati ha or orat smjhdar
You convert a complex topic into simple one.
Great job sir, Hats off.ALLAH bless you and ua family. Ammen
Such a great and very clear explanation ! This is what Islam is. We need more people like Sir Sahil to talk about the real Islam, what we are practicing in our country is far away from our religion.
Precious precious precious jem for us.... Allah lambi zindagi de sehat kai saath .hum ko aur hamare bachoon ko bahat zaroorat hai aap kii ...Allah bohat asaaniyaan fermae is rah me aap kii...
What a way to put this concept into perspective. May Allah grant you all the power to share knowledge which makes people understand with clarity and neutrality. Beautifully expressed !
I have never seen talking on this topic in such a logic way
Good talking Mashallah ❤
ALLAH HOO AKBAR - This is video of the century - may ALLAH bless Mr. Sahil Adeem in dunya & aakhirah. AMEEN
Wah Ma Sha Allah Sahil bhai Allah pak apko nazar e bad sy bachaye Ameen sume Ameen..meri 30 sal umar hy..lkn zindagi me fast time pehly bar itna clear nd cut lecture suna hy ..maza aya..
Loved his explanation!!!
I wish that one could ever understand the peak of that distress and pain... When she starts acting against her nature, values and ethics... And after that the regrets and remorse she faces after having arguments or fight
Excellent delivery of a very complex topic. Masha Allah, bless you and Allah swt increase your knowledge.
My mother said after my divorce that once you knew your husband and in laws are not in better terms, why you produced second child and since 16 years i am living with my parents and my mother pushed me and my kids out from home multipal times. Atlast afer 15 years i said this is my father home and i cant go anywhere resultantly my mother stoped talking me .ex husband never ever payed a single penny and met with children.
I know now nody will believe on it
I believed
Same happened with me
☹️😢
یہی سوچ جو آپکی ماں کی ہے معاشرے نے ، علماء نے مدرسے کی باجیوں نے ان میں ڈالی ہے کہ عورت کو شوہر کے ساتھ ہر حال میں گزر کرنا چاہیے چاہے وہ جیسا بھی رکھے جیسا بھی ہو۔ آپکی والدہ کا ایسا رویہ قابل افسوس ہے لیکن انکی ذہنی تربیت ہی ایسی کی گئی ہے۔ ہو سکتا ارد گرد کے لوگ انہیں آپکے لئے اکساتے ہوں ۔ آپکے شوہر پر آپکے بچوں کی ذمہ داری تھی ۔ آپ قانون سے ان کے لیے خرچ کا کہہ سکتی تھی ۔ میری والدہ نے بھی سخت تکلیف دہ زندگی گزاری طلاق نہ لی۔ لیکن ہم جیسے جیسے بڑے ہوتے گئے ہم یہی کہتے رہے کاش آپ طلاق لے لیتی تاکہ معاشی نہ سہی ذہنی سکون تو ہوتا آپکے پاس۔ اسی زندگی کو ہمارے بچوں کے لیے سہتے سہتے وہ ہمیں چھوڑ کر اللہ کے پاس چلی گئی۔ ساحل صاحب بول تو رہے ہیں عورت کو رحم بنا کر رکھنا چاہیے لیکن وہ لڑائی جھگڑے اور ذہنی و جسمانی اذیت جو وہ سہتی ہے اسکے بچے سب دیکھتے ہیں۔ اور یہ سب ان بچوں کو نفسیاتی انسان بنا دیتا ہے اور وہ رویوں میں اپنے باپ سے بھی بدتر ہو جاتے ہیں۔
@@bluemoon1521 bilkul sahi kaha ap ne
Outstanding lecture thank you so much Sahil Adeem Bhai you are great person... Salute to your parents.. May Allah Gives you long and prosperous life.. Ameen
Mashallah he is a Man On a Mission 🔥 ..this video must be made compulsory to watch for everyone before getting married.. irrespective of any religion...
Such a great speaker may Allah give you long Healthy happy life Ameen
No words for your knowledge. Mashallah
Subhan Allah Alhamdulillah tareef sirf uss khuda ki jisne insaan ko ye illm atta kiya Allah tera jitna shukar ada karen kam hi hoga jajak Allah.
Amazing elaboration of mother's love
Asalamokem mashallah subhanallah you are very right thanks for sharing jazakhallah
Excellent knowledge really appreciate your work. Allah bless you and your family ameen.
Sir you are amazing. May Allah bless you with all blessings.
Aik mother 9 months tak aik takleef main rahti hay or phir jus takleef se guzar kar aik mard ko bap ka rutba tak puhnchati hay Allah kay hukam se... Or phir apnay bachay ko god main lay ker her takleef bhool jati hay..." Aik kmzor orat" or phir palti din rat aik kerti hay ghe bhi sanbhalti hay doosray bachon ko bhi sath proper menage kerti hay.. Aik kamzor be aqal shaki mizaj or sab kgamion se bharpoor orat or bardasht karti hay her takleef or mushkil halat main apnay husband ka ghusa.,rudness carelessness or disrespect or sab kuch.... Or phir ager kabhi orat ki berdasht khtam ho jay to halat ki zimadar bhi wohi tharai jati hay. Kunkay mardon ko islam ka knowledge bus itna hi hay.
May Allah grant & increase your knowledge. May Almighty be pleased with you
Excellent explanation !
Please give an speech on why husband getting title of " majazi khuda" it is another type of associating partner with Allah SWT i saw many religious girls changed after marrige as husband don't like hijjab or viel for her they removed to please him only disobeying Allah order , husband taking advantage of this title of Majazi khuda never given by Our Religion neither in Quran nor in hadees and start abusive behaviour with wife if she didn't listen him ......even not cooking well or not negligence in house chores due to her nature ....or any mental or physical illness like depression or weakness she got Constantly torture of verbal abuse
MashaAllah jazzakAllah khair for increasing my knowledge ab8 women how powerful thay are from this lecture i will be more polite with may family and become more sabir inshaAllah
Subhan Allah very true
SubhanAllah,,,,,, speechless,,, big fan of yours
May Allaah SWT bring out more such people who speak fair enough. Aameen. May Allaah SWT bless Sahil Adheem sir with jannatul Firdouse for his great work. Aameen.
Assalam Sir,,no words to say,,very very Excellent Explanation
You gave words and assemble my scattered thoughts ❤️❤️❤️ thankyou
You literally clear my mind JazakAllah🥰
Subhaan allah ye level super se b opper ka hai allah pak aap jesay muallam hazraat ko salamat rhkay or allah pak aap ko isi terha sahi maanou mei deen.e.islam beyan kernay ki toufeeq atta fermaye ameen
Sahil Adeem is an outstanoding teacher
Great speaker Sir Saahil Adeem, Please speak about the domestic violence in detail.
اللہ ساحل کو عمل بھی عطا کر اورمیرے زریعے سے امت کو ایسے ہی سپوت دے جو با عمل بھی ہوں۔امین
Beautifully explained... Its a relief
I agree but sometimes things are not that simple. you blame wife wrong doing on man and If a man has the authority then he can use all mean to correct it but now a days if you take some hard stance to correct things its women who ask for Talak, it mean she does not allowed you to use your authority your Insaf and this way kids also get affected.
May Allah bless you 😇❣️❣️ bhtt h khubsurt batin.. Allah pak sub Muslims ko ap jesi soch r smhjny ki taqat dy.ameen
Dude is a genius 💯
Subhan Allah
Salute to u Sir
U r the next level Allah app ko khush rakha
MashAllah Allah kry apki batain sun kr bki ghar bach jaain
Very nice sahil Bhai jezaak Allah Khair
May Allah bless you what a beautiful mind you have I really appreciate you sir.
Feeling very relaxed Allah bus mujhe aise hi raham par qayam rakhe baqi to ab Allah hi jawaab lega meri mummy bolti hain ki bete patthar ho jaao to kya ye jaayaz hai main yeh nahi kehti ki mere husband mujhe marte peette hain nahi magar unki zabaan aise alfaaz chunti hai jo dil hilane ke liye kafi hai aur dus saalo mein mera dil kya dimaag bhi hil Chuka hai aur mere shauhar ko bada guroor hai iss baat par to ab Allah hi hamara hisaab lega
La ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin (Ayat E Kareema) keep reciting plus surah kausar kasrat say perhain.. May Allah SWT ease your difficulties ameen
Indian Muslim women are also or more simple, dedicated, clean, creative, educated, homely wives and mothers. Also to be noted that we didn't see any me-too movement in India.
Level hai bhaaee.. Maa Shaa ALLAH.
Jazakallah Khair 💞💞💞
Remarkable analysis on the topic !
Bht khoob, jazaakallah bhai
Like the way he explains... beautiful
Allah Kareem apko dunea or akhrat may kamyabi day ameen ❤
MASHAALLAH boht hi achche se samjhaya
Allah hu Akbar Haqh baat
Zebdust.shuker Allah ka hmari is mn pkr nhi honi .phir b hmm females apna ap khtm kr deti hn shohr ghr ar bchon k liy.apni himmt se khin ziada boj utha kr
Zabardst Sir.....mindblowing lecture...
Masha Allah boht acha boly ap
GOD blesse u
bohut acha lecture hai, lekin pata nai lagta hai amal mai 88% people will not do even after knowing and believing these things, they will not put it into actions.
This is the bestest video I had ever seen
Wow, man.. What realias about females. So so amazing. Allahu Akbar.
Alhumdulillah ksi male ny realize kya k bardasht ko is inteha tk ly jaya jata hai k nobat yhan tk aie. Allah kry pakistani males ki smajh main bhi kuch a jaye .
A.o.a
Sir us pr video b bnain k larky k parents lai gai beti ko zalil o ruswa kr k chor dyty..or zruri to nhi k hr baar bahu e galat ho ..jitna mrzi sabr krlo jitna un logo sy ho skta hai wo ruswa krty hain...end main without any reason divorce tag lga k aik beti ko chor dia jata...pls hmari society k liye koi esa kam hona chahiye jahan esy logo ko saza honi chahiye
Punishment brings out revenge. In ko saza hogi to wo phir apse pyaar karne lag jaenge?
Family structure rules pe nahin chalta, compromise aur give &take par chalta hai. Aur jo kaam hikmat se hota hai wo zabardasti ni hosakta.
I agree jis tra aj kl log ksi ki beti ko la l uski zndgi taba krte r fraud krte shadi k nam p lalchi aese logo k lie separate courts honi chae Jo I ki saza de
@@deebakapadia to saza hi na mile saza milegi to kam se kam doosrj ladkiya bach jayengi sazayein nahi mili isiliye hum mard apni auqat ke bahar niqal aaye hai aapko Allah ne haq diya hai uska istemaal kare khud b taqatwar bane aur baakiyo ko b banaye
What you said about girl just in Pakistan happened like this everyone say girl sabar Kar. But now overseas Pakistani girls don't have any sabar or shukar they directly beating husbands and call police what you said about that .don't show girls is always poor they also responsible for everything.
Why you people want have patience for woman do not beat them
Exactly they always portray woman as victim
@@zaackhan2559 but we always take about majority check how many women beaten by hasbant
@@irshanaseer4176 abuse could be anything be it physical or verbal, financial there is no statistics about men being abused because they don’t tell to anyone or feel insecure. Laws are made to favor women but men are also victims and must be protected
@@zaackhan2559 very one have rights to speak their rights but there should be solution
Subhan ALLAH.
Wow .you are living legand
ماشا الللہ جگ جگ جیو بیٹا🌹🌹🌹🌹🤲🤲🤲🤲👍👍👍
Behtreen
Very very well explained sir….
Great speech,allaha lookafter u
Excellent sir
Well said
Very well explained👍👍👍
May Allah bless you....
Plz share full video
Salute your knowledge
There is an extreme need to teach son to be kind and insaf pasand ho .to phir maa jub sass bunti hay to is ka reham kanha jata hay or who appny son ko julm keun sikhati hay .
I mean zulm
Great 👍🏼
MashaAllah
Authentic hadees hae jis ki biwi kaj ikhlaq ho aur wo use talaq na de, us ki koi dua qabool nahein hoti.
کیونکہ مردوں میں صبر اور تحمل ہوتا ہے عموما غصے میں طلاق نہیں دیتے حالانکہ مردوں کا غصہ عورتوں کے غصے سے دگنا ہوتا ہے مگر اس کے باوجود عموما ان عورتوں کو طلاق ہو ہی جاتی ہے جو روز روز شوہر کو غصہ دلاتی ہیں۔ کیونکہ روز روز صبر کر کے بالآخر ایک دن شوہر پھٹ جاتا ہے اور اکھٹی تین طلاق دے دیتا ہے ۔
جبکہ عورتیں معمولی سی بات پر شوہر کو چھوڑ کر ماں کے گھر چلی جاتی ہیں اگر عورت کے پاس طلاق کا اختیار ہوتا تو نوے فیصد گھر تباہ ہوجاتے۔
اور آج کل تو حد ہی ہوگئی ہے عورتیں خود خلع مانگتی ہیں اور ایک طلاق کے بعد ہی دوسری جگہ منگنی کر لیتی ہیں اور پھر پہلے والا واپس بلائے تو اب یہ دوسری محبت بھی ختم منگنی بھی ختم
Hahaha so innocent ... Beta apko lagta ha ky apki maa bhen beti wali behti hoti ha larne ky lea waja hoti ha hr cheez ki
This is the video of Millennium. Allahu Akbar.
I wish i could LIKE this video a MILLION times
Nice and interesting discussion.
In case of Continues poor performance of subordinates after efforts put in place by the Leader, there is a firing rule as well. That’s why reward and punishment (ajjar aur jazza) rule is set by almighty Allah.
You can’t held leader responsible if a subordinate wasn’t well trained by the original trainers (parents of subordinate/wife) on ethics of behaving with her leader. There are instances that if poor performers are kept for long will spoil not only the career of the leader but the whole organization
So, there are many instances that men have very ethical and respectful but the woman got married although had a lot ethical issues before the marrying a man. So should not 💯 % blame the men or the leader
yes true everything has a limit, if some subordinates overdo, very stubborn or bent on destruction then maybe leader has to take action to bring peace......
above is true if the leader is just and merciful to his subordinates and vice versa for wife to let go o
if husband is stubborn and hard to live with.
Agar Kisi case mei mard pagal ho toh kya Karen
کمال....
Kamal hai sahil bahi apeyes open kar detey hai
Yep. But I feel it's a bit unjust for men I think. Yaar girls bhi bahot chalu type ki hoti hain kabhi ekdum sazishi dimag wali
Outstanding
Sir what about those women jin main rehem ka eik zarra bhi na ho aor mard say bhi ziyadah zalim hoon?
what about if a man keeps a woman in nikkah after rukhsati at her parents place, because he does not want to pay for her groceries , or give her a home, and her husband only cares about spending his entire salary on his brothers friends and brother's children.
and he just leaves her on streets, and sometimes asks random acquaintances (non mehrams) to take care of me while he is busy having affairs, he is also allowing access to another man to take care of his wife. what do you mean aurat ka kaam thappar maar k raham dikhana ?
LOL what are you guys talking about. people minimize the real conflicts a lot. aurat ka kaam hai maar kha k raham dikhaana ? chahay uska mard usko dusro mardon ko baich aaye ? ya apnay bhai ko kahay k meri biwi ka kheyal rakho, iskay guardian bano.
I am telling you this about a very strict Syed family, jis mai mahram na mahram ka 1% concept clear nehi hai. but no one will ever find that out because ? A so called Syed , jethani aur devar ki frankness dekh ker aur unkay darmayaan ka flirt dekh ker aap heraan reh jayen gey. also this is not a modern family, this is family that lived near Shahi Mohalla, androon shehar, but they behave in a way even other races like "goray" also dont behave in such frankness with the wives of their brother. even white people dont cross their lines or flirt with their jhetaani . what is this fakeness of wearing a mask of religion , but this is the reality of syeds behind closed doors.
Sir ap say apnay maslay par mashwara kesay Kiya Jay
ALHAMDULILLAH ALHAMDULILLAH
I HAD HEAD PHONES ON ........ BUSY IN MY WORK AND THIS VIDEO AUTOMATICALLY STARTED PLAYING..... ITS AN EXCELLENT ONE ......
THANK YOU SIR FOR PRAISING US ......😥I HAVE CRIED THROUGH OUT😥😥
.......HEART TOUCHING
Salaam Sir!
Bless you! May you get more than you wish for here and here after ameen sumameen!
First time hearing a man talking like a sane man not just biological male wearing crown of patriarchy and misogyny high on his head!
Apologies for being so bitter in praise as well. But sadly been disappointed since beginning hearing educated men religious men putting whole blame on women for not putting up with all the challenges of marriage and parenting alone.
Thanks for taking ownership of responsibility given to the man to keep the family structure intact by Allah the Almighty! I agree it’s always two to tango but man completely loses the balance of dance by being ignorant of his responsibility.
Only prayers can save our nation from further doom. Hope keeps us going!
Rehm'less+insaf'less+efficient=devastation_trueee
Sahil Veere Love you a tuhanu. Dilon Duawan vaddeyo
😭😭😭😭jazak Allah