Im waiting for the day : everyone knows Frank ocean , every station plays his songs on the radio , & when Frank wins a million grammy's and is for once nominated. I can't wait for this day ♥
"You can't miss what you ain't have, well i can. I'm sad." Always makes me burst into tears. This song is beautiful and cathartic - I have to come back to it every once in a while.
JosephTheDreamer stay strong man, it’s alright to to feel grief and pain. It’s part of healing, part of becoming the best version of yourself. If you need to talk hmu
I recently lost my father on the 15 of July, and im 14 atm and it hurts so much because he took care of me and my brothers as a single parent now I dont know what to do. It feels like Ive lost a big part of me, it hurts so much words cant describe. Imagine the person you love the most not even being able to see your kids or watch you develop.
my grandpas had cancer for the last few months and ive been taking care of him. lately hes been doing real bad and half conscious half not. Ive trained myself to lucid dream, and astral project sometimes in my sleep throughout the years. and a few lines in this song really are just perfectly timed for my life
"There Will Be Tears" there will be tears i've no doubt there may be smiles but a few and when those tears have run out you will be numb and blue i can't be there with you but i can dream i can't be there with you but i can dream i can't be there with you but i can dream i can't be there with you but i can dream i can't be there with you but i can dream i can't be there with you but i can dream i still dream dream dream i still dream my grandaddy was a player pretty boy in a pair of gators see i met him later on think it was 1991 the only dad i'd ever know but pretty soon he'd be gone too hide my face hide my face can't let em see me crying cause these boys didn't have no fathers neither and they weren't crying my friend said it wasn't so bad you can't miss what you ain't had well i can i'm sad and there will be tears i've no doubt there may be smiles but a few and when those tears have run out you will be numb and blue i can't be there that's all you had to say to me was you couldn't be there why couldn't you say to me you won't be there you could've warned me you wouldn't be here right here you wouldn't be here for me
i listened to this song over and over again after I had a miscarriage with a baby I didn't know i was carrying and wouldn't have wanted at the time. But still felt pain for.
Listening to this song for the first time in 8 years bought tears to my eyes. One of Frank’s best songs IMO. Not sure how I managed to forget about it for so long, I used to listen to it over and over.
Daniel Kay real boys are not afraid to show human emotions sometimes. Show they are man....not robots. But there’s more men that Cary too much hurt on their back then we can ever imagine. They learned to survive without shutting tears. Instead they turn their hearts into a rock. Which make others judge them to be cold hearted asses
My homie is in a mental hospital after nearly ending his life. We're only in 9th grade. His parents took his phone and he's been in there for about 2 weeks. I listen to this and think how he's doing wishing you luck josh
I loved this song when I first heard it freshman year of HS; in fact, I only listen to it on this video, since it’s the OG. however, until recently, I subconsciously was not able to listen to it anymore. now that I’ve grown up & worked through all the mental muck of my life, I’m realizing that the actual lyrics hit way too close to home. having lost my Lolo, who was a G & the closest I’ve had to a father figure (even moreso than my actual father), I relate to close to this whole song. yet, I choose to listen to it now as a sign of moving on with my life. hope everyone reading this can achieve the same.
This song is absolutely the best song ever made. My dad is not really in my life and this song just speaks to me and I am 49 yrs. old. I still would love to have him in my life, and I am sad, I hold that in. This song just is my song...I love it. Please release this song, I have to have this in my life. Thank you Frank Ocean for making a real song, a soul song, a perfect release of emotions.
amen, i used to hear this song before i was Christian and i felt so sad and bad for my nephews with no dads, but now i can tell them that God is their heavenly father, happy Fathers day
this dude right here and The Weeknd write songs with feeling, emotion, and heart if this song made you think about somebody you love that passed then Frank Ocean did his job :)
One of my favorite songs to cry to. I love this song. i can't be there that's all you had to say to me was you couldn't be there why couldn't you say to me you won't be there you could've warned me you wouldn't be here right here you wouldn't be here for me no, no, no, no, no, no
I've always loved this song but i fear in time i might be able to relate to this song more than i would like to. My GF has been having a lot of frequent chest/heart pain recently and i can recall a friend of my mother passing away from a heart attack after similar symptoms. I'm praying she'll be ok :(
There are many nutritional foods and stuff to make help with heart pains and heart attacks . If u want to take time out of your day for her . U look some stuff up ! And also there are things to not eat that cause heart attacks such as meat . Cut out red meat . If it's an option for her
It’s quarantine and I’ve had time to read through the comment section of some of my favorite songs. You guys are amazing! The love & the respect shared here in this comment section is beautiful. Although most of it was like yeeeeears ago. It’s still beautiful. Thank you all for your stories 😭❤️❤️ I don’t know why I never interacted w/ people in the comments section. this is everything
"I can't be there with you, but I can dream." I accidentally found this song 5 years ago I've always loved it. My grandma who I love and miss dearly passed away 4 months ago on St. Patrick's day. I've played this song almost every day since. This happened when I was in a really dark place and I'm still coming out of it. I'm trying my hardest to make her proud.
"Think it was 1991 The only dad I ever known pretty soon he'd be gone too". That line hits me hard because it was the same for me RIP Grandpa I will make you proud to carry on your last name.
I cant be there with you but i could dream.....this song makes me remember my fiance that died...almost four years ago i hope our daughter does not feel this way.... how he felt
Becoming a man when you are fatherless is ..... very painful, I wish my dad could have been there... but my grand daddy was a player and my dad was one too
Was this song released? This is genuinely the only place I can find it and listen and I've loved this song for years.... Every now and again I will remember it randomly and end up back here
this gets so fucking rough when i replayed it and realized odd future was probably one of franks closest friends...mainly tyler. chances are he was quoting tyler, since they both don’t have dads. they clearly both took it differently, peep inglorious vs this song. both have their dads as the subjects. fuck this is sad. so GOOD THOUGH
love the intro, and the sentiment in the song as a whole: you can miss something you "never" had. and the resulting sadness can be spiritually draining.
I can’t be there.. that’s all you had to say to me was.. you couldn’t be there.. why couldn’t you say it to me ..you won’t be there? YOU COULD’VE WARNED ME
Im waiting for the day : everyone knows Frank ocean , every station plays his songs on the radio , & when Frank wins a million grammy's and is for once nominated. I can't wait for this day ♥
You we're right all along.
@cokebeezel that means it aged badly, this aged like wine
the day has come
This happened long ago lolllll
you were right :)
RIP Ryan. This song hits harder and harder in the feels as time passes by
Timothy Dale Mendoza it truly does.
Ryan was taken from us to early
Who's that?
@@MarkH.2018 ryan breaux, his little brother
@@paulfranco9673 Oh💔thanks for informing me
I love how the beat is very uptempo but the lyrics are so emotional
Listen to Kanye West 808s & Heartbreak , it's a similar vibe
Craig Bouder Jr no it sounds more like a flying lotus beat, search the song "tiny tortures" by flying lotus
👏🏽👏🏽
Just like Hey Ya!
"You can't miss what you ain't have, well i can. I'm sad." Always makes me burst into tears. This song is beautiful and cathartic - I have to come back to it every once in a while.
"My friends said it weren't so bad.
You can't miss what you ain't had.
Well, I can..."
+Shania Deville and im sad )':
Great one liner
and im sad and there will be tears
Haha assjole
😭😭😭💙💙💙
"My friend said it wasn't so bad, you can't miss what you ain't had. Well I can, I'm sad" omg 😭😭😭
Jim Reaper right ..., ugh
My father had passed away yesterday , and I can’t stop playing this song . I’m in the process of healing still
JosephTheDreamer stay strong man, it’s alright to to feel grief and pain. It’s part of healing, part of becoming the best version of yourself. If you need to talk hmu
Rip bro…stay strong, pain is a sign of progress so never give up
hey man, wherever you are hope you doing okay
hope youre doing well brother
I recently lost my father on the 15 of July, and im 14 atm and it hurts so much because he took care of me and my brothers as a single parent now I dont know what to do. It feels like Ive lost a big part of me, it hurts so much words cant describe. Imagine the person you love the most not even being able to see your kids or watch you develop.
i know we don’t know each other but i got much love for you bro , plz stay strong
I hope you and your brothers are okay. 🖤
UMboredd Stay strong ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending all my love
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️Sending all My Love hope y'all are getting along okay
my grandpas had cancer for the last few months and ive been taking care of him. lately hes been doing real bad and half conscious half not. Ive trained myself to lucid dream, and astral project sometimes in my sleep throughout the years. and a few lines in this song really are just perfectly timed for my life
im sorry to hear
rolex2136 I know i'm very late but, good lcu kwith everything and hopefully everything will get better for you!
rolex2136 going through the same thing. he just passed away Sunday and I've yet to really understand how I'm going to go on.
Wow I'm so sorry. But I wouldn't lucid dream unless your okay with demons and spirits going into you
Mallery A what kinda bs is that. do explain
Even when you think you have heard everything from this man then you find other song that squash it
Bro nostalgia ultra comprises some of his best work, and it’s a mixtape…incredible.
REALL ASF
808s & Heartbreak ALL over it. love it, love it all
+Victor Abreu mr hudson was a big player in 808s
+Victor Abreu totally agree!!!
Yeah Mr Hudson did the original. He had a huge hand in 808s
@@AQGOAT24 these are the original Hudson vocals sampled
RIP Ryan Breaux, I only pray for healing for the Ocean/Breaux family
"You couldn't be there, thats all you had to say to me"
😳😳
Toni Y. chills from this song and wiseman
"There Will Be Tears"
there will be tears
i've no doubt
there may be smiles
but a few
and when those tears
have run out
you will be numb and blue
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i can't be there with you
but i can dream
i still dream dream dream
i still dream
my grandaddy was a player
pretty boy in a pair of gators
see i met him later on
think it was 1991
the only dad i'd ever know
but pretty soon he'd be gone too
hide my face hide my face
can't let em see me crying
cause these boys didn't have no fathers neither
and they weren't crying
my friend said it wasn't so bad
you can't miss what you ain't had
well i can
i'm sad and there will be tears
i've no doubt
there may be smiles
but a few
and when those tears
have run out
you will be numb
and blue
i can't be there
that's all you had to say to me was
you couldn't be there
why couldn't you say to me
you won't be there
you could've warned me
you wouldn't be here
right here
you wouldn't be here for me
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Nostalgia from 2011 I was 19 now I’m 26 with a 3 yr old.. this life really does flash before your eyes 😪💔
Same here! 27 this year and my daughter is nearly 3.
I’m 25 wishing it was 2011 again 💔
Same
It's been 4 years.. hope you're well? Be good 👍
i listened to this song over and over again after I had a miscarriage with a baby I didn't know i was carrying and wouldn't have wanted at the time. But still felt pain for.
+Day Red Sorry to hear that, sending love your way
❤️❤️
I been listening to Frank Ocean for almost 2 years now, and still it's the only music where my heart finds peace. ♥
Exactly
I envy you who knew about frank for more than 12 years.
This song brings me to tears every single time and nothing else can do it..
Listening to this song for the first time in 8 years bought tears to my eyes. One of Frank’s best songs IMO. Not sure how I managed to forget about it for so long, I used to listen to it over and over.
BOYS DO CRY
Daniel Kay real boys are not afraid to show human emotions sometimes. Show they are man....not robots.
But there’s more men that Cary too much hurt on their back then we can ever imagine. They learned to survive without shutting tears.
Instead they turn their hearts into a rock.
Which make others judge them to be cold hearted asses
Duh
One Thou Wou how you on a frank ocean song saying “gay” LMAO
Hahaha sort of, waaaanker
Boy's don't cry, men do
My homie is in a mental hospital after nearly ending his life. We're only in 9th grade. His parents took his phone and he's been in there for about 2 weeks. I listen to this and think how he's doing wishing you luck josh
Edit they freed him
@@hodgy5610how's it going now?
I loved this song when I first heard it freshman year of HS; in fact, I only listen to it on this video, since it’s the OG. however, until recently, I subconsciously was not able to listen to it anymore. now that I’ve grown up & worked through all the mental muck of my life, I’m realizing that the actual lyrics hit way too close to home. having lost my Lolo, who was a G & the closest I’ve had to a father figure (even moreso than my actual father), I relate to close to this whole song. yet, I choose to listen to it now as a sign of moving on with my life. hope everyone reading this can achieve the same.
MY GRANDADDY WAS A PLAYAAAAAAAA
Who is listening 2019 summer?
eve spotify needs to upload this stat! Can’t believe they still don’t have this!
oh yea
Anousha Dewan they can’t because it’s part of a free mixtape.
timeless
hell yes
This song gets to me. Makes me want to cry when I hear it.
m.barnesandnoble.com/w/fairy-tales-tragedies-reality-tv-mr-nathaniel-bush-jr/1127001555?ean=9781974649112
I haven't heard this song IN A MINUTE----BOYS DO CRY FAM
I've cried so many times to this song ..
The way Frank Ocean experiments with sound is truly an artistic achievement!!!
I'm listening to this song in November 2024 after 13yrs
I'm still in love with it😊
This song is absolutely the best song ever made. My dad is not really in my life and this song just speaks to me and I am 49 yrs. old. I still would love to have him in my life, and I am sad, I hold that in. This song just is my song...I love it. Please release this song, I have to have this in my life. Thank you Frank Ocean for making a real song, a soul song, a perfect release of emotions.
Frank Ocean is amazing... So excited that I found him!
Cant believe this video is still up. First listened to it in 2011…….I was 14 years old. Timeless.
dude Frank is literally underrated member of OFWGKTA. he should make more music and be more known
Well it happened
holy fack
Little did you know…he will be very well known for making very little but excellent music here in the future
bro predicted it
God is the father of the fatherless..God bless Ocean.
:)
God? Never heard of her.
+Marlowe Brandt How'd you know?
Well then, the fatherless is being led by a fictional character. Jeez that's insensitive.
amen, i used to hear this song before i was Christian and i felt so sad and bad for my nephews with no dads, but now i can tell them that God is their heavenly father, happy Fathers day
All these sad comments.
I love all of you..
I love you too friend
Yeah I love you guys
What I like about Frank's songs is that I can see poetry in his lyrics. His songs are real deep.
My dad died. This finally hits me like he intended. Thanks Frank
i need more of these older songs on spotify ):
When Frank Ocean said "my friend said it wasn't so bad, you can't miss what you ain't had well I can..... IM SADDDDDD" I felt that
RIP Pop. I still hold on to the memories. I forgive you. You couldn't be here. I still dream...
Best Frank Ocean song ever!!!! My parents used to play this for me when I was a little bean :)
this dude right here and The Weeknd write songs with feeling, emotion, and heart if this song made you think about somebody you love that passed then Frank Ocean did his job :)
One of my favorite songs to cry to. I love this song.
i can't be there
that's all you had to say to me was
you couldn't be there
why couldn't you say to me
you won't be there
you could've warned me
you wouldn't be here
right here
you wouldn't be here for me
no, no, no, no, no, no
Had to randomly come listen to this. I miss this song
This song is a masterpiece. It touches me on so many levels...
This song brings my soul to such a level, it evokes feelings of sadness, happiness, and mixes these emotions to create a beautiful inspiring song.
On this track, Ocean sampled Mr. Hudson's There Will Be Tears.
Mr Hudson has such a unique voice. His vocals on Jay-z and Kanye West's song Why I Love You, are god-like. You should go listen man.
I've always loved this song but i fear in time i might be able to relate to this song more than i would like to.
My GF has been having a lot of frequent chest/heart pain recently and i can recall a friend of my mother passing away from a heart attack after similar symptoms.
I'm praying she'll be ok :(
Not well at all, her hands shake all the time and the pain happens more frequently
+VideoFanatic13 I pray for you man
+VideoFanatic13 i hope she will be okay :(
There are many nutritional foods and stuff to make help with heart pains and heart attacks . If u want to take time out of your day for her . U look some stuff up ! And also there are things to not eat that cause heart attacks such as meat . Cut out red meat . If it's an option for her
Praying for you man, hope she gets better
this song never gets old. listen to it at least 4 times 😅
Reminds me of my father.
It also reminds me of my father.
Me too.
Jessie Thompson reminds me of my nephew who doesnt have a father ...wish i could be his father
+malicious my dad died from cancer, i cry every time i listen to this song.
+ApexPredatorShit sorry man
The first few words give me chills.
Sounds like daft punk and 808s.
Incredible.
Such a powerful song, cried the other day with it. Still not sure why.
2020 and this song still makes me cry. 🤦♀️💔
Same . God bless and stay safe 🙏
@@jovaps88 Sending love and light your way. 💫
@@zeeyanda5850 like wise and happy Friday from nyc 🗽😷🤒🤕🦠😭
@@jovaps88 wow stay safe heard things crazy that side, happy Friday to you too from SA. 🇿🇦💃💫
Wish i could go back to the times when this song first came out. time flies.
It’s quarantine and I’ve had time to read through the comment section of some of my favorite songs. You guys are amazing! The love & the respect shared here in this comment section is beautiful. Although most of it was like yeeeeears ago. It’s still beautiful. Thank you all for your stories 😭❤️❤️ I don’t know why I never interacted w/ people in the comments section. this is everything
This picture really adds emotion to the song. Great choice. After hearing this song multiple times, this time its so much different with this visual.
The only song that ever made me cry. Boy did I bawl.
"Hide My Face Hide My face cant let Em see Me Crying"
"I can't be there with you, but I can dream." I accidentally found this song 5 years ago I've always loved it. My grandma who I love and miss dearly passed away 4 months ago on St. Patrick's day. I've played this song almost every day since. This happened when I was in a really dark place and I'm still coming out of it. I'm trying my hardest to make her proud.
he really gave us three separate all time great bodies of work
This is such a damn genius song. Glad to knw Im not the only one getting emotional here. Amazing song!
This was originally Mr. Hudson's song but Frank Ocean added a nice touch to this song.
whats the priginal song?
Gardy Banks It's called There Will Be Tears By Mr. hudson.
Lol pringle song
Anthony Boame sounded like bon iver at first
Love Frank but mr.hudson was the only one who could make this song , any other version isn't remotely close to his or better in my opinion
I had just lost my grandfather when I heard this song.I couldn't help but be comforted by it when he says the line about the gators. r.I.p paw paw
one of those songs that just don't get old no matter how many times you listen to it
"Think it was 1991 The only dad I ever known pretty soon he'd be gone too". That line hits me hard because it was the same for me RIP Grandpa I will make you proud to carry on your last name.
I cant be there with you but i could dream.....this song makes me remember my fiance that died...almost four years ago i hope our daughter does not feel this way.... how he felt
Found this song after so many years and still loving it.
I just lost my soulmate, the love of my life and we love
Frank Ocean... Rest Well #angelbaby
I always come back to this specific upload whenever I find myself going through some heavy shit.
I miss you Mother & Daddy!!🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️🕊️
I miss my grandfather as hell, and this song is the only one who can make me feel better.
I remember hearing this 11 years ago my gosh😖
Almost 8 years ago and I still love this
i swear this song breaks my heart everytime i listen to it
god i wanna download like.....all of his albums...
Like two and a half
But yeah I agree
Becoming a man when you are fatherless is ..... very painful, I wish my dad could have been there... but my grand daddy was a player and my dad was one too
holy crap all these sad comments. :( this song is just nostalgia for me
Same here
+Chris Donsbach I feel you this is just terrible (Andrue Everett)
samee
Here in 2024 ❤️🔥
Was this song released? This is genuinely the only place I can find it and listen and I've loved this song for years.... Every now and again I will remember it randomly and end up back here
Mann! i love FrankOcean's Music , This has helped me get through all my Struggles
I'm crying so hard on this ohgod
Why this ain’t on Spotify, I don’t know
Because he will get sue for the sample
RIGHT????? This is such a JAM!
this gets so fucking rough when i replayed it and realized odd future was probably one of franks closest friends...mainly tyler. chances are he was quoting tyler, since they both don’t have dads. they clearly both took it differently, peep inglorious vs this song. both have their dads as the subjects. fuck this is sad. so GOOD THOUGH
its actually mr hudson song that he remixed
This is abt his grandpa lol
love the intro, and the sentiment in the song as a whole: you can miss something you "never" had. and the resulting sadness can be spiritually draining.
My favorite song from FRANK OCEAN
Came here when it's August 1st 2015 when frank said Boys Dont Cry will come out in July
April 28 2016 album still hasn't dropped
Came here when it's July 2016 when frank said Boys Dont Cry will come out in July
Anyone else with bad Daddy issues listen to this and cry?
yes
I MAY NOT KNOW YOU BUT I HOPE YOU'RE DOING GOOD & KNOW THAT THINGS WILL GET BETTER. I LOVE ALL OF YOU, DON'T BE SAD.💗💗
thank you
Crystal Salinas woah
This helped
props for uploading this the exact day nostalgia,ULTRA was released
Tolerance is so difficult for the fearful. Applause to Mr Ocean for his courage and brilliant display of living FEARLESSY. God Bless you sir.
Reminds me of my grandpa.
I love seeing how many people predicted his come up
I can’t be there.. that’s all you had to say to me was.. you couldn’t be there.. why couldn’t you say it to me ..you won’t be there? YOU COULD’VE WARNED ME
I remeber listening to this when my uncle passed and I remember just breaking down and crying
i love tht this sad song has such an upbeat tempo. thinking out the box. it makes u feel all the anxiety tht accompanies grief.
Still my favorite frank ocean song in 2017
Actual crime this is my first time hearing this
Literally how I feel right now
real!!! 😂
anyone else miss the old frank ocean? I like all his music. But I 'felt' some of his older stuff more.
TheZackw419 i definitely "feel" blonde
init
This is a remix of another song lol
this song makes me cry every time. i can relate to every single verse:(
PUT IT ON APPLE MUSIC GOODNESS I’VE BEEN WAITING FOR YEARS