The Power in Practicing Silence as A Feminine Woman

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  • Hi loves! In this video we discuss the importance and power of practicing and moving in silence as a feminine woman in dating, marriage, work and in other aspects of life. Enjoy!
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    0:00-1:45 Feminine Silence
    1:46 -6:17 In Dating
    6:18-13:22 In Marriage
    13:23- 17:37 At work
    17:38- 19:52 Being Silent With Your Thoughts
    19:53-22:00 Spending Time With God
    22:01- 26:41 When You Shouldn’t be Silent
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  • @erind2261
    @erind2261 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    I pray to God to tell me when to speak & when to be silent. I cannot tell how many times I went silent & avoided disastrous situations.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It truly works. He will help you!

    • @LB-ku6ry
      @LB-ku6ry ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you.

  • @mrs.britt.s
    @mrs.britt.s ปีที่แล้ว +28

    This was a good topic! I’m married and learned how important it is to think about what I’m going to say first. It’s so important to voice your opinion in a respectful way. Never damage your spouse. Please more marriage related content. 💕💐

  • @carolrichardson3764
    @carolrichardson3764 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I do struggle with saying too much when I’m upset. Thank You and Happy Mother’s Day

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      It's normal, just something to work on for as you remember. Thank you honey 🤍

    • @user-qm5sb7rd8w
      @user-qm5sb7rd8w ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Me 2 I’m learning

  • @practicallyheidi8505
    @practicallyheidi8505 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Where there are many words, sin abounds. I need to remind myself of this a lot because it is true.

  • @KarineAlourde
    @KarineAlourde ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Wonderful messages and gorgeous in pink. This is my favorite look 😍😍

    • @s.crockett5457
      @s.crockett5457 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      She looks GREAT riggght?!😊
      What a B-E-A-U-T-Y, inside and out. God continue to bless her💛🤎🤍✨️

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you my loveeee 🤍 it's my favorite colorrr💕🎀

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@s.crockett5457 thank you honey 🤍💕

  • @bupe_mukuka
    @bupe_mukuka ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You look amazing in pink!
    I love this video, I think sometimes, we get scared to be silent because society portrays it as weakness and failure to stand up for yourself. I used to argue a lot with my siblings over everything and they knew they couldn't get a conversation going with me because I was always trying to prove myself right. But after I started learning about femininity, being soft, being silent, it's like I became I knew person. My brothers appreciate me more and even when we have differing opinions, I always try to understand them and be kind still.
    Also, being silent about what im up to has helped me achieve many goals as compared to the times when I shared all plans. It's not been easy being this way, but it's one of the best things to experience.
    Thanks again for reminding us the importance of this rare gift.

  • @lonnierashid6812
    @lonnierashid6812 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “ALWAYS SPEAK LESS THAN NECESSARY 🗣”

  • @azucarweber2456
    @azucarweber2456 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    I’m a Hispanic being following you for over 2y, thank you for providing such a beautiful content you have an amazing aura 💕💕

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Thank you for your support honey. I truly appreciate it. God bless you 💋

  • @kharyzma4u
    @kharyzma4u ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Thanks for this video. In the past year the Lord prompted me to start moving in silence a little more. I discovered that with some people, if I wasn't the one initiating a conversation, we really had nothing to talk about. All along it was me initiating a topic. When I stopped talking as much, some people felt uncomfortable that I wasn't sharing so much about myself and they were now scrambling to find something to say. So it taught me that there needs to be a balance of two people sharing in a conversation. Silence is very powerful.

    • @quietandmildone
      @quietandmildone ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @kharyzma4u I could have written this. The worst part is that it left me emotionally exhausted from trying to “carry” conversations and relationships. Thanks for sharing your thoughts

    • @kharyzma4u
      @kharyzma4u ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@quietandmildone Yes! This was a big revelation for me this year.

  • @thequeenmidas
    @thequeenmidas ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The meek shall inherit the earth. Meekness is not weakness. It is strength under control.

  • @reachoperator212
    @reachoperator212 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Wow... beautifully said! This has been my significant other request for a while. I misconstrued his advise for ridicule. First time hearing it in this light. I pray for God to give me self-control & wisdom as I grow more into Femininity ❤🙏🏽

  • @ce_u
    @ce_u ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Please talk about postpartum; Weight loss, Loving yourself, finding time for yourself and for self care, your husband, your career, and finding time for God.
    Thanks ❤

  • @ZhaneAmali
    @ZhaneAmali 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I can't stop listening to you. This was so eye opening it made me cry. I subscribed to your podcast and downloaded a bunch to listen when I can. Keep me in your prayers as I make positive changes in my life.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Awww sweetie! Well I am thankful you enjoy the content and it is blessing you. Definitely praying for you!

  • @dahliadoll1110
    @dahliadoll1110 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    As someone who is always listening to something, I feel so called out right now 😬😢😂
    Thank you for getting it through to me that silence is necessary!

  • @JuliaShalomJordan
    @JuliaShalomJordan ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Love that! Feminine silence is not about being secret but being selective! ✨🤍✨
    🌸Pink is YOUR color! 🌸

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Yes my dear! 💕 And thank you it's my faveeee 💋 God bless you ✨✨

    • @JuliaShalomJordan
      @JuliaShalomJordan ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@drmichelledaf happy Mother’s Day!😘

  • @da6356
    @da6356 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    God is truly using you Dr Daf! So blessed! Watching from UK

  • @Maggs3
    @Maggs3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Love this video especially about not interrupting when my man or others are speaking. This has been my struggle, it's because I want to get my thoughts in and I don't mean to be disrespectful however I do understand that if they feel disrespected then my intentions don't matter much. I'm still working on this and tips from you would be helpful lol. Thank you for sharing your wisdom and knowledge with us. You're appreciated Dr. Daf❤

  • @blossoms9503
    @blossoms9503 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Finally, I’ve been waiting for a feminine to do a vid on silence. I figured out how beautiful this was for the feminine a couple of years ago. But not much was out there on this

  • @Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice
    @Listening_2_Still_Small_Voice ปีที่แล้ว +18

    As always Dr. Daf, this is a wonderful message on when to use silence and when to sound our voice. Thank you.

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are welcome love thank you for watching 💐

  • @perpsfav6607
    @perpsfav6607 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love your style. Can we please get a style video from you?

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you babe 💕 what kind of video exactly would you like to see?

    • @IyoniAdeMacy
      @IyoniAdeMacy ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@drmichelledaf feminine styles ways to dress & appear more sexy/feminine for ourselves for confidence

    • @perpsfav6607
      @perpsfav6607 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@drmichelledaf I'm inspired by your personal style and I will love to have lesson on style

  • @k.v.i8664
    @k.v.i8664 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This was such a great video. I’m married now, but back when I was dating I remember a scenario where being more observant and talking less revealed that the man was not for me! When I first met him I was so talkative and was over sharing. However my girlfriend told me to stop doing that and to speak less and listen more. On the next date I did just that. Guess what? This man had NO ability to start or carry conversations. In fact he was so anxious and didn’t know what to do bc I wasn’t over sharing and I wasn’t initiating all conversations. This was a quick red flag 🚩 Silence can be so so insightful when dealing with others. Thanks Dr. Daf

  • @aliyahguess8967
    @aliyahguess8967 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I needed this Dr. Daf. Thank you for helping women like me. I’ve been struggling with this for a while now.

  • @DzignrGrl
    @DzignrGrl ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Happy Mother's Day Michelle! You are so beautiful and feminine in your pink wardrobe! I especially love your eye makeup! Thank you for this value video. The key thing I have had to work on is to stay silent and not interrupt those I am comfortable with. I saw a lot of family members interrupting each other when I grew up. I was very silent then but when I got older, I was worried I wouldn't get a chance to speak. A lot of times I know what they are going to say, but I cannot assume that. I would worry I would forget something I wanted to tell them, and interject. I have been working on this for the past year, and your videos have been a wonderful reminder to keep at it! If I take a deep breath, it helps me get more comfortable with staying silent and properly wait for when it is time for me to speak. Adversely, I used to be silent and not speak up when I was in an abusive situation, but I learned that I was harming myself by not speaking up.

  • @watchmelinerose
    @watchmelinerose ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're my favorite person to listen to on TH-cam. Your wisdom and words always resonates with me. Thank you.

  • @shamikiabanks3946
    @shamikiabanks3946 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Mother's Day Beautiful Dr. Daf❤ 💜 💖 💗 💘.Thank you for your great content 🎉

  • @meeknessmasukume7217
    @meeknessmasukume7217 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have been following your podcasts and I’m so inspired

  • @bm-zy3gv
    @bm-zy3gv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this. Thank you so much for holding us accountable. Phew 😮‍💨

  • @lakeishasmith3569
    @lakeishasmith3569 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank u for disciplining me with such love and correction! ❤ I appreciate your great work sis❤ ive been following you a year and you have silently help transform our relationship! ❤ I thank Yah for such a strong feminine and gorgeous lady

  • @chobleu
    @chobleu ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amazing , simply amazing episode. Thank you Dr. Daf ❤️

  • @divinelymade4721
    @divinelymade4721 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great work Dr Michelle❤ I’d really like a video on having a gentle spirit

  • @laurlee4992
    @laurlee4992 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    God is on our side ❤❤❤ great advice by saying go to him.

  • @lolytar.1271
    @lolytar.1271 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for another amazing and inspiring video! I love your channel and the helpful advice you provide! May God always bless you! Greetings from Panama!!

  • @tabi1010
    @tabi1010 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I needed to hear this.. especially when you mentioned about talking to your children

  • @politaaaaa
    @politaaaaa ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It always makes me happy whenever I watch your videos ☺️ Later, we're having a familiar lunch and I do thing this video is right on time!!! God is so GOOD!
    Sending blessings your way, dear Dr. Michelle! 💕

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's wonderful! Enjoy your lunch love! Blessings and love to you honey 🎀

  • @takera7
    @takera7 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Yes we would like a video on a gentle & quiet spirit. Thank you for the content lovely!

  • @comfortplacehome6242
    @comfortplacehome6242 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dr. Michelle, I love your content!! Yes, please do another video on practicing feminine silence. Thank you for all that you do. 🙂

  • @Destiny-cy8qs
    @Destiny-cy8qs ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yes! Would love a video on quietness and gentle spirit

  • @jill616
    @jill616 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohh em gee! I super love your pink outfit and head accessory gurl! You look so girly and fabulouss!

  • @chinasexybunny18
    @chinasexybunny18 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this beautiful informative video. Needed to hear it ❤

  • @LianaHakobyan_
    @LianaHakobyan_ ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, God.I’ve found the TH-cam channel I’ve been looking for.❤

  • @Elinal23567
    @Elinal23567 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this soulful video, you answered some of the questions that I had for God...Thank you! ❤️

  • @jucxox
    @jucxox 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This video was made for me. I needed so much help thank you!

  • @juliediaz9978
    @juliediaz9978 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes, please make a video of gentle and quiet spirit. Love all your videos.

  • @Myythandle782
    @Myythandle782 ปีที่แล้ว

    Just clicked on - haven’t watched yet but have to tell you, you look (and are) absolutely gorgeous) love you!!! I always love your content and I appreciate you. Xxx

  • @GR-fs3vj
    @GR-fs3vj ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Men are always asking me why I’m not happy and smiling while I’m at work I’m like isn’t it obvious? I never know what to say.

  • @Vessel_of_God
    @Vessel_of_God ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I would love if you did that video on a gentle and quiet spirit

  • @tamaragatling2809
    @tamaragatling2809 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is so good.

  • @ccb6013
    @ccb6013 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The pink and the bow are too _cute!_ 💗

  • @iwonan-k
    @iwonan-k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this! You are very intelligent and classy ❤❤❤ greetings from Poland 😘

  • @DonDiariesNYC
    @DonDiariesNYC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love love this video! & love love your style and colors in the video ❤️

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much sweetie!

  • @ifyalexis
    @ifyalexis ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for this! You’re such a blessing xx

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you for watching sweetie 💋

  • @thobekamantshongo4458
    @thobekamantshongo4458 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you so much for this content, I sometimes speak a lot and then after I kind of regret it a bit

  • @natashaparker8128
    @natashaparker8128 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much this video is very informative . Lots of wisdom 🩷✨

  • @maryvallarta
    @maryvallarta 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This really spoke to me. Thank you so much Dr. Michelle. ❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so grateful🩷 thank you for watching

  • @netsanetsortland2367
    @netsanetsortland2367 ปีที่แล้ว

    I just find you on TH-cam, and I really feel God led me to you… I love you channel, thank you for sharing helpful material 💕 I would really love to watch a video more about gentle and quiet spirit .
    God bless you 🌹

  • @briggettmumphrey3226
    @briggettmumphrey3226 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Please do a video on a gentle and quiet spirit

  • @alhassanfirrdous7292
    @alhassanfirrdous7292 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Infact this is the best video, I have watcted on sillence!

  • @lorrainetate07
    @lorrainetate07 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hey Michelle, thank you for all you do for us. Please could you make a video or provide tips on how to be a fierce business woman and still remain feminine. I find that the more I get interested in chasing success the more I get concerned that I’ll start to appear very masculine

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love this topic.

  • @efuasenchery3
    @efuasenchery3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Doc, I would love the gentle and quiet spirit video.🙏🏿

  • @sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926
    @sekhohliweyisraelmoloto8926 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Dr Michelle 🌸, thank you for this content, can you please do a video on a gentle and quiet spirit.

  • @EarCandyAsmr
    @EarCandyAsmr ปีที่แล้ว

    I love the eyeshadow hair bow and top combo so pretty 💕🎀

  • @alhassanfirrdous7292
    @alhassanfirrdous7292 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Todays make up us excellent!

  • @ravenwatts01
    @ravenwatts01 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello Gorgeous! I love your life changing videos. I would love if you did a video about having a quiet and gentle spirit. ❤

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Thank you sweetheart, I will!

  • @Forthekingdom548
    @Forthekingdom548 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This reminds me of the book “Getting to I do “

  • @keedasingz
    @keedasingz 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Lovely video

  • @Nomvula26
    @Nomvula26 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you so much, you look amazing 😍

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thanks love and thank you for watching 🎀

  • @kenamasunsmith3976
    @kenamasunsmith3976 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Girl, You look fabulous! And you are fabulous!

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wow thank you so much!🩷

  • @Lovelykwamby
    @Lovelykwamby ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy Mother’s Day

  • @Iamkarensafo
    @Iamkarensafo ปีที่แล้ว

    There she is ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @chinasexybunny18
    @chinasexybunny18 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do a video about gentle and quiet spirit ❤

  • @erinashannon3288
    @erinashannon3288 ปีที่แล้ว

    Good morning lady ❤❤❤❤

  • @TheRealMsBlu
    @TheRealMsBlu ปีที่แล้ว

    You look so pretty in pink 🌸

  • @HassanJalloh-er6om
    @HassanJalloh-er6om 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shalom Strategic beautiful ❤Dr Michelle Daf, Interesting teaching,, what feminist and mascunist, trust ur Concern Dr shalom,, Amen,.

  • @pearlfeather9326
    @pearlfeather9326 ปีที่แล้ว

    I definitely have an issue with this

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Y’all please pray for me bc I talk too Much about me😢😢😢

  • @maryammalik1374
    @maryammalik1374 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ beautiful

  • @lexiswanson8112
    @lexiswanson8112 ปีที่แล้ว

    Oof... she pegged me on the always having to have something on. If I'm left in quiet for too long my brain literally does not stop and it's like 10 people talking at the same time. I get flashbacks and my mind isn't kind to me. 8 have aloooot of inner child work to do, but I don't have time to break down that way.

  • @tialynn1111
    @tialynn1111 ปีที่แล้ว

    How to practice feminine silence when on Zoom date? I suppose it is the same thing? Pause when speaking, talk slowly, don’t reveal everything?
    Thanks for your valuable videos❤

  • @MrsAngulaHendrina
    @MrsAngulaHendrina ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank u soo much needed this, is it possible to make a video on how to pray as a feminine wife been married for two years and I think I'm a lukewarm Christian

    • @rubylove9475
      @rubylove9475 ปีที่แล้ว

      Why do you say you think your lukewarm hun?

    • @MrsAngulaHendrina
      @MrsAngulaHendrina ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rubylove9475 I believe that God does exist but I'm not truly fully following his ways

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    How MUCH TO SPEAK& when 2,SPEAK -1.ON DATES/BE STILL IN YOUR BODY/ No spilling info/ is he only about sex?/ use THAT SILENT X TO TAKE HIM IN!

  • @SkylitVirtue
    @SkylitVirtue ปีที่แล้ว

    Ugghh I really wanna purchase your perfume but it’s WAY TOO expensive in Canada. 😩 I hate being Canadian!😭😭

  • @sbusisiwebhengu5987
    @sbusisiwebhengu5987 ปีที่แล้ว

    You look stunning

  • @lilykangai1598
    @lilykangai1598 ปีที่แล้ว

    pretty in pink

  • @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984
    @liveeverydaylikeitsyourlas984 ปีที่แล้ว

    Looking so beautiful.

  • @sherrysunshinefreeman3434
    @sherrysunshinefreeman3434 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @tristybrooke33
    @tristybrooke33 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wish I could press like 10 times 🙏🏽❤️

  • @sheleania
    @sheleania ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol we have to get into that

  • @GARC1A996
    @GARC1A996 ปีที่แล้ว

    Omggggg❤❤❤❤

  • @WeLearnTODAYY
    @WeLearnTODAYY 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🥰🥰🥰

  • @brendacrawford343
    @brendacrawford343 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I. N😢Ever learned to flirt

  • @gtevda
    @gtevda ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤️

  • @roypatra1509
    @roypatra1509 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Is your perfume sold in russia?

  • @happy2bhere706
    @happy2bhere706 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    6:26

  • @briamonyae1396
    @briamonyae1396 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤👂🏾👏🏾🫰🏾

  • @janekadequay
    @janekadequay ปีที่แล้ว

    We can't be respected and cherished?

    • @drmichelledaf
      @drmichelledaf  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You can and should be. But with regard to gender differences in marriage, men value respect and see it as love whereas women value being cherished and see it as love. It like having a right and left hand. Both are needed but one is dominant. I'll talk more about this in the future because it takes more teaching to fully understand. Thanks for watching 💕

  • @sidneyibiom2867
    @sidneyibiom2867 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tou are like andrew tate but for women ❤

  • @Aye_cutie24
    @Aye_cutie24 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Wow. I actually just made this mistake BUT now I know better. Thank you for the wisdom. I’ve grown so much from your channel. 🤍

  • @beautyforashes23
    @beautyforashes23 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great tips Dr Michelle. The Lord really does help us in every area of our lives. Spending time with him DAILY allows us to know when to speak and when not to. I can literally feel him saying “zip it” sometimes.😂🙏🏽🩷