You some people learn the hard way in life.. You are one of them but you have come a long way. Don't give up just keep on trying cause you have a destiny.
Kaum hnub tsaus ntuj los ib hnub yuav tsum tshav ntuj. U can't change the past but u can change the future. Be a better person from now on. Use your past to learn from it. If u die, u lose. U must fight for a better future. There will be better days. Thats my encouragement for u brother. Have faith, be good and good will come to u.
Koj hloov tau hnub no ces zoo lawm zoo dua qhov ib sim neej koj tsis hloov os mog tij laug. rau siab ua koj lub qhov no txog thaum laus kom Zoo pauj thaum hluas tsis tau ua kev zoo nawb
Tsi ua cas koj yog tus txhaum. Txhob tu siab rau koj tus phooj ywg. Koj twb hloov lawm. Koj zaj dab neeg zoo kawg. Koj tus poj niam tam sim maam thiaj yuav tau paab koj.
Los ntseeg Vajtswv nws yuav zam txim rau koj thiab nws yuav pab koj kom koj zam txim rau koj tus kheej mog thiab nwg yuav pab koj kom tus dab uas uas pheej ua kom koj xa tuag kom ploj mus lawm ib ntxhis nawb. Only the blood of Jesus Christ could set you free and deliver you from that voice that keeps telling you to commit suicide . Jesus name is above every name And there is power in the name of Jesus he will set you free brother don’t wait too long.Jesus loves you.
Ua tsaug rau koj tu kheej ua koj tau ua kev txhaum koj thiaj txawj xav yog koj tsi ua kev txhaum tej zaum koj tsi paub koj lub neej tiag txhob tsim yus tu kheej vim nag hmo koj mus daw tsi tau kav tsij ua yam hnub no kom zoo tshaj xwb
Kuv zoo siab tus txiv tsev ntawm no uas koj pom koj tus kheev yuam Kev los ua tau neeg zoo os koj tưb ua zoo lawm thov txhob ntxub koj es thiaj muaj qne Nawb muaj tej tus lawv mus yim lub xyoo los lawv tus niam tseem ngob tawv tseem tias tsi zoo nkauj thiaj tsi mus yuav txiv thiab no mam poj niam chim heev
Txhob ntxub koj tus kheej lawm.. Txawm tsis vim qhov koj twb nyob tag koj lub txim los twb vim qhov koj twb ua tau tus zoo neeg lawm. Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej qhov koj hloov ua tau ib tug zoo koj, Tshaj tug koj yav tag los.. nawb. Xav txog lub neej nag hmo yuav nrhuav lub neej luag ntxhi hnub no, Es koj xav txog koj thiaj tsis yog tus zoo li tug thaum ntawv dua ib lwm ntxiv lawm.. Yim kho kom koj muaj kev hlub es kom koj lub neej zoo tshaj lub qub ces txhua yam thiaj yuav tsis tshua tshua pes tsawg lawm. "Time will heal” Tug phem koj nag hmo yuav slowly fade away nawb.
Tsis txhob tu2 siab os because now koj twb change lawm. You should not think about killing your self you should live koj lub neej thaum lauj no to pay ua kev zoo rau lub ntiaj teb nawb. Live a long live too do Good Deed for your children. May God bless...🗽🗽🗽🗽🗽🗽
Yus qhia yus yus thiaj ris siab hos, Kim niam koj txiv qhia koj koj twb tsis yuav ces tsam no lig lawm hos. Neeg tsis tsim txiaj ces tsam no pab tsis tau lawm
Txhob nco txog koj tus niam qub lawm .es hlub hlub koj tus niam tshiab .. txhob nroo txog lub qub neej rau tus tshiab hnov es nws thiaj hlub koj es koj thiaj tsis xav dai tuag os mog ..tus qub yog lawv tus lawm es koj txhob tos tos lawm ..hlub koj tus xwb os mog .hos yog koj pheej nco txog tus qub ces koj tsis haum tus tshiab li nawb .koj yim nco ces ..tus txiv tod yim hlub xwb nawb .
Tus nus, txhob tu siab. Lub neej yav tag los ces tag lawm tsis txhob khuv xim lawm. Hlub koj tus poj niam ua nyob ntawm koj ib sab xwb. Look at your time in prison as a mistake and as a learning experience for you where you don’t want to repeat it again. I hope you forgive your self and love your self again. You are valuable and many people in your family loves you and cherish you. I hope you find peace within your self and except your past, and move on.
Mi tub tsis txhob tub siab nawb mog kuv twb muaj ib tub lub neej zoo ib yam li Koj thiab es nws tus poj niam twb mus yuav txiv lawm thiab kuv tus mi tub mam yuav dua tus tshiab lo nrog nws ua dua neej ciav nws twb ua lub neej Zoo lawm thiab es koj tsis txhob tu siab rau koj tus kheej nawb kav tsij ua koj lub neej es hlub koj poj niam mi nyuam ces yog ib qhov zoo lawm mog os tsis txhob muab koj tus kneej rau txhim nawb cia li zoo siab os mog
Me brother hnub no koj muaj qhov chance to restart all over again. Vim koj yeej muaj lub siab zoo es VajTswv thiaj tsis pub the dark side come close to you. Nws yeej tiv thaiv koj txhua lub sij hawk, only if you Except him into your heart and let him guide you. Every time when you pray you must said my father UP in Heaven. Because there’s so many GOD everywhere. I hope that you be safe and stayed beside what you have in front of you. Amen.
Lub ntuj pub yus los ua 1 zaug neeg nyob 6 lub world 1 zaug xwb muaj tes taw muaj lub zog es txhob tuag os mog cov g muaj tes taw qhov muag luag tseem xav ua neej mog ua neej nyob g perfect tas2 os mog
Blood is thicker than water. Just remember that! You were young and made a mistake in your past. Now it's time to move on with your current life. You're a good man if you can forgive you wife and your best friend.
Tos tej laus hais tias lwm tus qhia yus tsis yuav tabsi yus qhia yus tus kheej mas yua lawm tau zoo heev, zoo siab hnub no koj kawm koj lub school tiav tag lawm thov kom los ua neeg zoo hlub koj tus niam tshaj xwb nawb mog.
Things happened for a reason. Don't hate yourself. It could be that God gave your past wife to someone who can love her more than you can. If you love her, you would want the best for her, even if it means to let her go. This is the hardest for people to do and you have overcome that. Be proud of yourself for being able to do what so many can't. We can't change our past, but we can create a better ending. Love your current wife the way you should have loved your past wife. That's a way you can be a better version of yourself. Dying don't solve problems. It just transfer the problems to someone else. Keep fighting for the ending you want for your life. Don't give up. You have overcome so much already. You still have time to make up the love you didn't give to your kids when they were little. Thank you for sharing your story and stay strong.
Tus me nus, lub neej yuam kev tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb, sawdaws yeej txawj yuam kev. Tsuas yog qhov yus yuam kev nws tsis zoo ib yam. Zoo li kuv na tseem yuav kev ntau tshaj koj ob peb npaug. Thaum kuv tig los ua neeg zoo, kuv xyaum mus church, try koom cov ntseeg, make friends, and ask them to tell me who love me beside my parents and family. They told me God loves me more than i know in this world. And when read the bible, kuv thiaj zoo siab ua kuv lub neej yam kaj siab lug. Txawm yog yus yuav yuam kev yam twg, vajtswv xav kom yus siv yam ntawv coj mus pab coob leej kom txhob taug yus txoj kev. Nco ntsoov tus uas twb ploj lawm tabsis nws peem tau rov los, vajtswv hlub nws tshaj plaws. Los ua ib tus ntseeg, twb tsis yog zoo siab xwb, tab sis tseem ua rau koj muaj siab ntev zam tau txim, muaj peev xwm mus fim txhua tus tsis ntshai vim vajtswv yog tus dawb huv thiab nws yog kev hlub. Tus twg los nyob ntawm nws lub xub ntiag, vajtswv txoj lus yuav pab nws kov yeej txhua yam. Tsuas sau li no txhawb koj zog xwb mog. Vim kuv twb dim kuv thiaj paub tseem muaj tus hlub kuv. God loves u.
Txhua yam yog Kev kawm xwb.Zam txim rau koj tus kheej .Zam txim rau koj tus poj Niam yav dhau Los thiab vim nws yeej txom nyem dhau lawm tiag o.koj cov me nyuam Los koj yuav Tau pab nyiaj ib leeg ib nrab sib pab tsa yim rau tej me nyuam .hlub hlub uas Tam sim no koom lub neej nrog koj txhob pheej hais txog yav tag Los thiaj li tsis mob koj Siab lawm o hmoob e
Zoo ntxov ces zoo rov , zoo lig thiaj zoo mus 1 txhis txhob tu siab yam dhau lawm rub tsis tau kom tig rov , lub neej tshiab thiaj yog lub neej tiag li cas los thov kom koj txhob yog 1 leeg tias yuav raug xa rov qab xwb tus me kwv es mam npaj yam zoo2 tuaj rau yav lao mam qhia tej me nyuam txhob coj li koj lub neej dhau los ces yuav pab tau koj 1 kao ruam
Lub neej dhau ces dhau lawm, kho tsis tau lawm, xam tias twb tuag lawm, tshuav koj cov menyuam es sib hlub tau li cas los yuav li ntawv xwb, yav tom ntej yog qhov tseeb thiab tseem yuav ua tau zoo, kav tsij hlub koj tus ntawm xub ntiag xwb txhob khuv2 xim yam uas twb dhau lawm os
Tus txiv tsev aw....txhob tu siab txhob chim thiab txhob ntxub koj tus kheej vim tias thaum yus hluas tsis tau paub tab. Nws yog ib txog kev kawm kom koj ua neeg zoo xwb. It's part of life learning lesson for u to change to be a better person for your future. You need to be happy that you change and u got good life. Also it will make u become good father and teach your children not to be in your footstep. You should forgive yourself and love yourself. ...move on with your new life. If you dont make mistake...u wont learned, rite? May god bless you n your family.
Tiag tiag mas koj tus phooj ywg yeej tsis tsim nyog yuav koj tus poj niam li nawb...vim nej cov laib ko yeej muaj ib txoj cai tswj nej...tab sis txhob tu siab tus kwv yus txoj hmoo yeej los li no Kuv qhia koj koj ntxub koj tus kheej xwb..yeej pab tsis tau koj dab tsi qhov zoo ces cia li xav txoj zoo ua zoo los mus pauj txoj kev thaum hluas es tsis paub qab paub hau xwb ces tau lawm los mas tus kwv...kuv ntseeg hais tias ib hnub twg koj lub neej yeej yuav zoo xwb xwb li os
Dej ntws tsis rov qab lawm os mog. Koj tus poj niam tshiab tsis tau ua dab tsi txhaum es koj txhob nroo nroo txog koj tus niam ib tsam nws tu tu siab os. Kav tsij hlub hlub koj poj niam tshiab thiab cov menyuam xwb es neej thiaj tsis piam zaum ob os
Cov neeg liam li nej no mas twb tsis tsim nyog muaj poj niam xwb, tsim nyog rau nej txhua tus ncaim hauv lub nriaj nteb no mus vim nej nyob los hnyav av nkaus xwb. Nej cov neeg liam rov ua rau nej ces tab tom rau nej ua sib npauj yam tsis khaus cov neeg zoo tawv. Tab sis nej mus ua rau cov neeg zoo mas luag ntshav muag poob lawm yam tsis muaj leej twg yuav tauv tau.
Txhob tag Kev cia siab koj niam koj txiv hlub y koj txhob tuag .let go the past and stop calling your ex you don't want to cause problems for her or your current wife
Qhov dhau ces dhau lawm os.hlub koj poj niam tshiab thiab cov me nyuam xwb.rov saib taus koj tus kheej es koj niam koj txiv thiaj tsis xav tias nkim lub zog yug koj los ua ib tus neeg liam txwv.twb rov caum tau ua neej li luag lawm ces,tuav ko lub neej ruaj ruaj mog.
Hais rau tu kwv ua zaj neej neeg koj yeej vim koj tau kuv Poj Niam tias txhua yam ntawm nws lub neej kom nws muab laim rau txoj hmoo thiab nws daim ntawv lo ua neej vim li cas thiaj hais li lub neej tsis yog ib tug qauv paj ntaub es koj ua raws li tu qauv ntawv es thiaj zoo nkauj .lub neej tsis pom tom ntej thiaj lo taug tau txoj kev zoo li no twb ua kev kawm rau nws lawm nws thiaj tig ntxub nws tu kheej es lub neej Tom ntej thiaj txawj pauv txawj hloov.hais txog tu poj Niam thiab nws tu phooj ywg ntawv kom txhob xav tias yog nws tu qub poj Niam thiab nws tu phooj ywg no tsuas muab xav tias ntawv yog hmoob xwb.hlub tu nyob ntawm kj tes koj yeej nkawv
Man, u was a gangsta BUT u are loyal and faiful to people who u care and love. I'm a bad mouth : 1) Koj lub neej yuav tsis puas yog hais tias koj niam koj txiv yuav tsis ntxub, tsis ua phem rau tus neeg koj hlub thiab koj cov me nyuam. 2) Ur wife and ur Friend ntxeev siab rau koj lawm os. U are so kind to wish them ''HAPPY LIFE''. If it's me, I couldn't. Koj muab ib lub siab dawb huv thiab siab ntev ntev. U change to become someone new. Zoo siab hais tias tig neeg txhawj hloov paub.
Anyone can change bro. I was in the same shoe as you. I change I my life around. People and my family hated me. Now I have a big house and lots of land. Now you know what? All the people hated me they all wish they were me. All the good people my parents talked about they don’t even own anything besides their car. Now I worked my butt off and I’m the superior if my company. If I can change you can too. God bless my friend.
Me tub es koj twb yug dua tus ntshiab lawm es muab koj lub neej qub tshem tawm mus mog txhob xav txog lawm koj xav tias hnub no kuv yuav ua kom zoo tshaj hnag hmo no mas koj thiaj xav ua neeg mog ua lub siab loj2 ua koj lub neej kom zoo2 txhob cia koj tus pojniam dhau thiab tus phoojywg nyog tau koj txoj kev zoo yog yus xav tias ua kom zoo ces zoo xwb txhob yuam kev lawm mog xav tias yav tas yog ib qho npau suav phem xwb nawb
Peb ua neeg nyob txhua yam uas peb xaiv ua nyias yeej muaj nyias nqi. Thaum koj txiav txim siab ua yam dab tsi lawm twb txhais tau hais tias koj txaus siab them tus nqi ntawv lawm. Yam koj tau ua dhau los yuav hloov tsis tau vim twb tag dhau lawm qhov yuav pab tau koj rau tab sim no ces lees koj txoj kev txhaum thiab txhob ua li qub ntxiv lawm xwb. Vajtswv tsim koj muaj ib txoj sia lawm txawm koj yuav zoo li cas los nws yeej tseem hlub koj. Qhov nws hais rau peb sawv daws ces yog hais tias "Go and sin no more". Cia siab hais tias koj txawj feel bad ces koj yuav tsis dag koj tus kheej es koj yuav dhau los ua ib tug neeg zoo no nawb mog.
Koj txhob tsim kev nyuaj siab rau koj tu niam tsev ntawm koj ib sab xwb ces zoo lawm....ua txoj kev zoo lo npog qhov phem koj ua dhau lo xwb...hlub cov me nyuam koj tu niam coj lo ...hlub koj cov me nyuam nrog leej niam mus lawm...
Mistakes are lesson learned. You either repeat it or grow from it. You shouldnt regret anything bc life is not perfect. If it wasnt for your friend, your ex wife would of end up in a worst situation. Blame your parents, if they didnt treat your wife like that.. she would probably stay. But again, it's your fault for putting your thug life before your wife and children. Your ex wife is your biggest regret bc you lost her. Be good to your new wife so you wont loose her too.
Tus mi kwv kuv zoo siab uas koj tau laus txaus thiab pom tias koj yog ib yug neeg txhaum yav yah los lawm es Hnub no koj twb hloov ua neeg zoo lawm yog li Hnub no koj kav tsij ua ib yug txiv zoo rau koj tus poj niam muaj Hnub no lawm yav Tom ntej xwb thiab ua ib leej txiv zoo lawm yav Tom ntej rau koj cov minyuam thiab hlub lawv li koj hlub tau xwb mog es txhob muab kev chim kev npau yav yah los coj los siv lawm nawb
You need to forgive yourself! Everything that had happened in your past is for a reasons. Nothing is too late as long as you are still alive and breathing. What you can do now is love yourself and move on and live on so u can love your current wife and your kids!
I understand that he’s a gangsta but let’s all be real here. His friend n ex wife betrayed him.. He was loyal from the start to the end. This kind of story should wake up everyone out there to open up their eyes not to trust a friend 💯. Sometimes your best friend is your worst enemy.. Coward is weak and Pussy is power!
Learn from life and move on bro. Suicide won't solve your personal problems. Now that you have a new beginning, work hard and use the past as a motivation towards a better life. You can't keep counting on negative thoughts or hating yourself. It will drag you down, so change your mindset that you can do better and you deserve better!
Tus Brother mus saib koj tus kheej hauv Daim iav es cev tes rov los phws koj lub tob hau hais tias koj hlub nws nyob hauv Daim iav kom koj tus me plig txhob tu tu siab kom nws zoo siab yus yuav tau hlub yus vim koj twb rov muaj lub neej muaj tus niam tsev zoo zoo lawm txaus siab hlub nws nrog rau koj tus me duab hauv Daim iav xwb Txhob xav txog lub neej dhau los lawm nws yog ib Zaj npau Suav thaum koj mus pw es koj pom lawm xwb mog zoo siab hlob xwb yog koj tsis ntsib tej yam zoo li no xyov hnub no koj puas tau los ntsib niam ntsuab teev es nws puas yuav tau tham koj lub neej rau peb mloog os mog hlub koj tus kheej nawb???
Ask your former wife to see if she can forgive verbally so you can work on forgiving yourself. Otherwise, forgive yourself and move on even if your new marriage don't work in the future. We will never lose if we don't die. Please, love yourself so your children can find values in you. Good luck brother.
tus phooj ywg kuv xav los teb koj me me lus vim koj tau noog lawm 1 koj yuav tsum tso txoj kev ua koj pheej xav tuag no tseg yog koj tseem tuag lawm thiab ces koj cov me nyuam ua koj tus niam 2 ntaw tseem yuav txom nyem ntxiv thiab 2 koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntxub koj tus kheej lawm vim koj twb paub tia koj tau ua yuav kev yav tas los lawm koj yuav tsum rau siab nrog nrog koj poj niam neb ua neej sib sib hlub xwb 3 rxhob hu foos koj poj niam tus dhau los ntxiv lawm li no xwb koj yeej yuav rov txais kev zoo siab xwb
You want a piece od advise, I give you some ok. A psychologist Adler said, an inferiority leads to superiority, a mistake in the past helps you get better in the future. You need to let it go and resume the best of you in the future by learning all the hmong culture and traditions and hard working one day you will be the leader to your family and extended families. That is what Maslow said, " Self Actualization." But you must willing to work hard when people are seeking advise from you and if you are financially indepedent. That will make you an important person. You ex- will some how regret to herself.
Me nus qhov koj saib koj tu kheej TSI zoo thiab koj ntxub koj tu kheej no qhia Tau Tia koj yog Ib tu neeg zoo thaum koj UA phem koj thiaj TSI xav UA ntxiv kuv txaus siab qhov koj xav li no
Me tub es, koj lub txim ces cia tag nrog lub sib hawm lawv tso koj ntawm mus mog! Koj tub ua tau zoo lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab es koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias yav tag los cia ua ib txoj kev kawm los kho lub neej pem suab xwb no nawv mog!!
Txhob ntxub koj tus kheej vim koj twb paub los ua tus neeg zoo lawm. Rau rau siab los khwv rau tus poj niam koj yuav nrog koj ntawm ko hlub hlub nws xwb ces yog qhov zoo. Tus poj niam uas nws mus yuav koj tus phooj ywg lawm ces koj txhob nco txhob khuv xim lawm. Yeej meem hlub tus koj tau ntawm koj xwb.
Thank you for sharing your story. God loves you very much and sent His one and only Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins. You have been given a second chance...live to the fullest and love those you have now...
Tus brother you are blessed to be given a second chance at life to make up for your mistakes, cherish it. Don't think about your past but live for the future, your past made you better so cherish your family and your life. Death won't erase your past mistakes, you will end up hurting the ones who love you. Good luck to you
Hi my fellow young brother; I hardly listened and paid tension to these story somehow this morning my wife got me through your while we had our lunch. My gratitude in appreciation for sharing your life. I was an CEO for non-profit assisting Hmong and all Asian who migrated to USA all my life. Your story has inspired me dearly because the Hmong was hit hard on gang issue nationwide during your time. I was involved with many young boys and girls individually who was caught up to be a gang member and also worked with local, state and national community. Zoo siab heev rau koj uas koj hloov tau koj tug kheej los ua tug neeg tshiab thiab lub neej tshiab, willing to let past becoming history even very painful. Qhov kuv yuav hais tau rau koj ces...koj twb yog tug neeg tshiab, nyob lub neej tshiab, muaj dua ib lub neej lawm.. you were able to transform yourself into better life with bitter memory, learning and coping to allow your thought and pain flown life wind blowing up and down. Move up yourself with a family life that you are holding in your hand. Don't let it go again "This is your destiny" My most admiration is your understanding your x-wife and friend. It mean to be that you are the one to set this tone and life for them because they both are your best friend in life. Koj txhawj xav heev li lawm os tug me kwv..tsim nyog lub neej los zoo li no koj thiaj muaj lub caij zoo li hnub no los tau taub txog YAM PHEM uas KOJ TAU UA dhau los THIAB TAU UA MOB LWM TUG SIAB yav dhau lawm vim li you have no other alternative but let the past life go and maintain your bright thought who you are best for the moment. Tij laug zoo siab rau koj lub SIAB ZOO THIAB TXAWJ XAV LAWM thiab VIM MUAJ NKAWV taug txoj kev no thiaj li ua rau KOJ MUAJ HNUB NO yam xav tsis txog tiag KOJ TWB YOG TUG NEEG TSHIAB LAWM. Wishing you very best for your life and family.
Nyob zoo os tus tij laug tsis txhob ntxub Koj tus kheej thiab txhob xav tuag lawm os ua neeg nyob tsuas muaj ib zaug xwb hlub yus tus kheej thiab ua neeg nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no tsis yog koj ib leej thiaj ua txhaum xwb txhua tus tib neeg yeej txawj ua txhaum thiab os muab yam tsis zoo pov tseg nrog rau dej mus mog tag kis pib dua tshiab tseem tsis tau lig os tij laug.
Thanks for sharing your story brother. You have to let go of the past, forgive yourself and move on. From now, focus on what you can do to better your life now.
Forgive yourself and forgive the past to be able to move forward. The past is history. the present and future is now and you have the chance and opportunity to fix the things you missed or haven’t done. If you choose death, your opportunity is gone. The choices have be given to you. Enjoy what you have and cherish the things you love.
Matthew 11:28-29 Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
Don't hate yourself. Forgive yourself. Take it as a lesson learned. I was a little gang banger when I was younger, too. Don't let your past define you. Your past made you who you are today. Strong. Resilient. Kind. It's time to let go. It's ok to forgive yourself. Trust God and let go.
First stop bothering your ex and friend. Second, forgive yourself and focus on your current relationship. What has happened you can never change but only change your future for the best. Quit dwelling onto your past because that past can never be changed no matter how much you regret and think about it. Your future days are what you should ONLY look forward to and better yourself. Goodluck brother!
Tus me txiv tsev, koj twb zam txim rau lwm tus vim li cas koj ho zam txim tsis tau rau koj tus kheej. Peb ua neej nyob yeej muaj yuam kev, tabsis yog peb pom peb txoj kev rxhaum es hloov los ua neeg zoo li koj lawm yog ib txoj koob hmoov zoo kawg li. Zam txim rau koj tus kheej.
Reflect on your past experiences. Acknowledge your wrongdoings and mistakes and accept it. Continue to plan and strive for a future with your current wife and family. Let go of the past mistakes and continue living no matter what. You've still got a long road ahead to change and show yourself as a better person.
Stay strong and positive! Learn from your mistakes. The past is past! Your future is still bright ahead. Be happy and make every moments worth it with your families. Have faith .
Brother aw, ua ib siab txhob xav txog yav tas los. Learn to forget and let go so you can enjoy & behappy for whatever you have now. Forget the past, the past is just a dream come & go only.
Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Make a commitment to move on. The pass can't b change. The future is still bright n sunny but YOU got to make it happen. You are in control of YOUR FUTURE. And last your kid still gonna need YOU. When they're go threw their hard time, let your past be the strength for you to teach n guide them. YOU DON'T WANT TO BE THE FATHER THAT REGRETS NOT ABLE TO SAVE YOUR CHILD.
Don’t feel sad and hate yourself. We all make mistakes in our life. Try to accept your mistakes and be a better person tomorrow. The past is the past, there’s nothing you can do to change that, but you can still change the future. You must learn to love yourself and move forward.
Koj txawj xav kawgl liilawm ua neeg zoo mus cais yeej yuav tsu ghov zoo mus li os
Good job
Ane give you peace
Txhua tus yeej txawj ua txhaum os
You some people learn the hard way in life.. You are one of them but you have come a long way. Don't give up just keep on trying cause you have a destiny.
Kuv ngiam koj cov da neeeg tiag o
Kaum hnub tsaus ntuj los ib hnub yuav tsum tshav ntuj. U can't change the past but u can change the future. Be a better person from now on. Use your past to learn from it. If u die, u lose. U must fight for a better future. There will be better days. Thats my encouragement for u brother. Have faith, be good and good will come to u.
Koj hloov tau hnub no ces zoo lawm zoo dua qhov ib sim neej koj tsis hloov os mog tij laug. rau siab ua koj lub qhov no txog thaum laus kom Zoo pauj thaum hluas tsis tau ua kev zoo nawb
Tsi ua cas koj yog tus txhaum. Txhob tu siab rau koj tus phooj ywg. Koj twb hloov lawm. Koj zaj dab neeg zoo kawg. Koj tus poj niam tam sim maam thiaj yuav tau paab koj.
Los ntseeg Vajtswv nws yuav zam txim rau koj thiab nws yuav pab koj kom koj zam txim rau koj tus kheej mog thiab nwg yuav pab koj kom tus dab uas uas pheej ua kom koj xa tuag kom ploj mus lawm ib ntxhis nawb. Only the blood of Jesus Christ could set you free and deliver you from that voice that keeps telling you to commit suicide . Jesus name is above every name And there is power in the name of Jesus he will set you free brother don’t wait too long.Jesus loves you.
Ua tsaug rau koj tu kheej ua koj tau ua kev txhaum koj thiaj txawj xav yog koj tsi ua kev txhaum tej zaum koj tsi paub koj lub neej tiag txhob tsim yus tu kheej vim nag hmo koj mus daw tsi tau kav tsij ua yam hnub no kom zoo tshaj xwb
Tus txiv tsev, koj twb zam txim rau lwm tus os, rov qab zam txim rau koj tus kheej os, koj thiaj kaj siab nawb.
Yuav zam txim rau yus tus kheej Vajtswv thiaj zam txim rau yus nawb mog, tej laus ib txhis hais tias tsis pom dej dag siab tsis qhig no mog.ib qhov tseem ceeb txhob tua yus tus kheej mog yog ua li ntawd Vajtswv yuav tsis zam txim rau yus nawb mog.
Kuv zoo siab tus txiv tsev ntawm no uas koj pom koj tus kheev yuam Kev los ua tau neeg zoo os koj tưb ua zoo lawm thov txhob ntxub koj es thiaj muaj qne
Nawb muaj tej tus lawv mus yim lub xyoo los lawv tus niam tseem ngob tawv tseem tias tsi zoo nkauj thiaj tsi mus yuav txiv thiab no mam poj niam chim heev
Tus me kwv peb uas neeg ces yeej muaj yuam kev tab si thaum yuam kev yog koj twb paub lawm tias koj yuam kev lawm xwb koj twb tau koob Hmoov zoo kawg li los ntawm qhov twb paub lawm thov kom Vaj tswv ntuj foom koob Hmoov zoo rau koj Os mog peb txua tus yeej muaj ib yam tab si sib txawv xwb os mog mam pib dua tshiab rau yav tom ntej qhov txaum ntawv yog ib qho kev kawm ho!! Uas neeg nyob tsis muaj tus neeg twg uas yuav yog neeg dawb huv txawm yog li ntawv es tswv Yexus thiaj los tuag os mog me kwv thov VajTswv ntuj foom koob Hmoov rau koj nawb mog.
Txhob ntxub koj tus kheej lawm..
Txawm tsis vim qhov koj twb nyob tag koj lub txim los twb vim qhov koj twb ua tau tus zoo neeg lawm.
Zoo siab rau koj tus kheej qhov koj hloov ua tau ib tug zoo koj, Tshaj tug koj yav tag los.. nawb.
Xav txog lub neej nag hmo yuav nrhuav lub neej luag ntxhi hnub no, Es koj xav txog koj thiaj tsis yog tus zoo li tug thaum ntawv dua ib lwm ntxiv lawm..
Yim kho kom koj muaj kev hlub es kom koj lub neej zoo tshaj lub qub ces txhua yam thiaj yuav tsis tshua tshua pes tsawg lawm.
"Time will heal” Tug phem koj nag hmo yuav slowly fade away nawb.
Tsis txhob tu2 siab os because now koj twb change lawm. You should not think about killing your self you should live koj lub neej thaum lauj no to pay ua kev zoo rau lub ntiaj teb nawb. Live a long live too do Good Deed for your children. May God bless...🗽🗽🗽🗽🗽🗽
Yus qhia yus yus thiaj ris siab hos, Kim niam koj txiv qhia koj koj twb tsis yuav ces tsam no lig lawm hos. Neeg tsis tsim txiaj ces tsam no pab tsis tau lawm
Txhob nco txog koj tus niam qub lawm .es hlub hlub koj tus niam tshiab .. txhob nroo txog lub qub neej rau tus tshiab hnov es nws thiaj hlub koj es koj thiaj tsis xav dai tuag os mog ..tus qub yog lawv tus lawm es koj txhob tos tos lawm ..hlub koj tus xwb os mog .hos yog koj pheej nco txog tus qub ces koj tsis haum tus tshiab li nawb .koj yim nco ces ..tus txiv tod yim hlub xwb nawb .
Muaj ib hnub twg kv lub neej yuav zoo li no os lawv
Qhov zoo ces kav tsij hlub hlub koj tu poj niam ntawm koj ib sab ua niaj hnub nrog nraim koj ....ua ib tug txiv tsev zoo....txhob nco tu mus lawm nws tsis yog koj tu niam tsev lawm.....qhov tuag tsis daws teeb meem....
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Tus nus, txhob tu siab. Lub neej yav tag los ces tag lawm tsis txhob khuv xim lawm. Hlub koj tus poj niam ua nyob ntawm koj ib sab xwb. Look at your time in prison as a mistake and as a learning experience for you where you don’t want to repeat it again. I hope you forgive your self and love your self again. You are valuable and many people in your family loves you and cherish you. I hope you find peace within your self and except your past, and move on.
Mi tub tsis txhob tub siab nawb mog kuv twb muaj ib tub lub neej zoo ib yam li Koj thiab es nws tus poj niam twb mus yuav txiv lawm thiab kuv tus mi tub mam yuav dua tus tshiab lo nrog nws ua dua neej ciav nws twb ua lub neej Zoo lawm thiab es koj tsis txhob tu siab rau koj tus kheej nawb kav tsij ua koj lub neej es hlub koj poj niam mi nyuam ces yog ib qhov zoo lawm mog os tsis txhob muab koj tus kneej rau txhim nawb cia li zoo siab os mog
Me brother hnub no koj muaj qhov chance to restart all over again. Vim koj yeej muaj lub siab zoo es VajTswv thiaj tsis pub the dark side come close to you. Nws yeej tiv thaiv koj txhua lub sij hawk, only if you Except him into your heart and let him guide you. Every time when you pray you must said my father UP in Heaven. Because there’s so many GOD everywhere. I hope that you be safe and stayed beside what you have in front of you. Amen.
Lub ntuj pub yus los ua 1 zaug neeg nyob 6 lub world 1 zaug xwb muaj tes taw muaj lub zog es txhob tuag os mog cov g muaj tes taw qhov muag luag tseem xav ua neej mog ua neej nyob g perfect tas2 os mog
Blood is thicker than water. Just remember that! You were young and made a mistake in your past. Now it's time to move on with your current life. You're a good man if you can forgive you wife and your best friend.
Tos tej laus hais tias lwm tus qhia yus tsis yuav tabsi yus qhia yus tus kheej mas yua lawm tau zoo heev, zoo siab hnub no koj kawm koj lub school tiav tag lawm thov kom los ua neeg zoo hlub koj tus niam tshaj xwb nawb mog.
Kj tus poj niam yog neeg zoo neeg ncaj ncees ov tab sis thaum ntej kj pheej tss ua neeg zoo nev
Things happened for a reason. Don't hate yourself. It could be that God gave your past wife to someone who can love her more than you can. If you love her, you would want the best for her, even if it means to let her go. This is the hardest for people to do and you have overcome that. Be proud of yourself for being able to do what so many can't. We can't change our past, but we can create a better ending. Love your current wife the way you should have loved your past wife. That's a way you can be a better version of yourself. Dying don't solve problems. It just transfer the problems to someone else. Keep fighting for the ending you want for your life. Don't give up. You have overcome so much already. You still have time to make up the love you didn't give to your kids when they were little. Thank you for sharing your story and stay strong.
Tus me nus, lub neej yuam kev tsis yog koj ib leeg xwb, sawdaws yeej txawj yuam kev. Tsuas yog qhov yus yuam kev nws tsis zoo ib yam. Zoo li kuv na tseem yuav kev ntau tshaj koj ob peb npaug. Thaum kuv tig los ua neeg zoo, kuv xyaum mus church, try koom cov ntseeg, make friends, and ask them to tell me who love me beside my parents and family. They told me God loves me more than i know in this world. And when read the bible, kuv thiaj zoo siab ua kuv lub neej yam kaj siab lug. Txawm yog yus yuav yuam kev yam twg, vajtswv xav kom yus siv yam ntawv coj mus pab coob leej kom txhob taug yus txoj kev. Nco ntsoov tus uas twb ploj lawm tabsis nws peem tau rov los, vajtswv hlub nws tshaj plaws. Los ua ib tus ntseeg, twb tsis yog zoo siab xwb, tab sis tseem ua rau koj muaj siab ntev zam tau txim, muaj peev xwm mus fim txhua tus tsis ntshai vim vajtswv yog tus dawb huv thiab nws yog kev hlub. Tus twg los nyob ntawm nws lub xub ntiag, vajtswv txoj lus yuav pab nws kov yeej txhua yam. Tsuas sau li no txhawb koj zog xwb mog. Vim kuv twb dim kuv thiaj paub tseem muaj tus hlub kuv. God loves u.
Txhua yam yog Kev kawm xwb.Zam txim rau koj tus kheej .Zam txim rau koj tus poj Niam yav dhau Los thiab vim nws yeej txom nyem dhau lawm tiag o.koj cov me nyuam Los koj yuav Tau pab nyiaj ib leeg ib nrab sib pab tsa yim rau tej me nyuam .hlub hlub uas Tam sim no koom lub neej nrog koj txhob pheej hais txog yav tag Los thiaj li tsis mob koj Siab lawm o hmoob e
Av tsij ua neeg zoo pauv koj tu kheej kom zoo tshaj ntawm koj ces tom ntej no koj yuav tau lub neej zoo2 xwb mas
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Zoo ntxov ces zoo rov , zoo lig thiaj zoo mus 1 txhis txhob tu siab yam dhau lawm rub tsis tau kom tig rov , lub neej tshiab thiaj yog lub neej tiag li cas los thov kom koj txhob yog 1 leeg tias yuav raug xa rov qab xwb tus me kwv es mam npaj yam zoo2 tuaj rau yav lao mam qhia tej me nyuam txhob coj li koj lub neej dhau los ces yuav pab tau koj 1 kao ruam
Lub neej dhau ces dhau lawm, kho tsis tau lawm, xam tias twb tuag lawm, tshuav koj cov menyuam es sib hlub tau li cas los yuav li ntawv xwb, yav tom ntej yog qhov tseeb thiab tseem yuav ua tau zoo, kav tsij hlub koj tus ntawm xub ntiag xwb txhob khuv2 xim yam uas twb dhau lawm os
Tus txiv tsev aw....txhob tu siab txhob chim thiab txhob ntxub koj tus kheej vim tias thaum yus hluas tsis tau paub tab. Nws yog ib txog kev kawm kom koj ua neeg zoo xwb. It's part of life learning lesson for u to change to be a better person for your future. You need to be happy that you change and u got good life. Also it will make u become good father and teach your children not to be in your footstep. You should forgive yourself and love yourself. ...move on with your new life. If you dont make mistake...u wont learned, rite? May god bless you n your family.
Tiag tiag mas koj tus phooj ywg yeej tsis tsim nyog yuav koj tus poj niam li nawb...vim nej cov laib ko yeej muaj ib txoj cai tswj nej...tab sis txhob tu siab tus kwv yus txoj hmoo yeej los li no
Kuv qhia koj koj ntxub koj tus kheej xwb..yeej pab tsis tau koj dab tsi qhov zoo ces cia li xav txoj zoo ua zoo los mus pauj txoj kev thaum hluas es tsis paub qab paub hau xwb ces tau lawm los mas tus kwv...kuv ntseeg hais tias ib hnub twg koj lub neej yeej yuav zoo xwb xwb li os
Dej ntws tsis rov qab lawm os mog. Koj tus poj niam tshiab tsis tau ua dab tsi txhaum es koj txhob nroo nroo txog koj tus niam ib tsam nws tu tu siab os. Kav tsij hlub hlub koj poj niam tshiab thiab cov menyuam xwb es neej thiaj tsis piam zaum ob os
Cov neeg liam li nej no mas twb tsis tsim nyog muaj poj niam xwb, tsim nyog rau nej txhua tus ncaim hauv lub nriaj nteb no mus vim nej nyob los hnyav av nkaus xwb. Nej cov neeg liam rov ua rau nej ces tab tom rau nej ua sib npauj yam tsis khaus cov neeg zoo tawv. Tab sis nej mus ua rau cov neeg zoo mas luag ntshav muag poob lawm yam tsis muaj leej twg yuav tauv tau.
Txhob tag Kev cia siab koj niam koj txiv hlub y koj txhob tuag .let go the past and stop calling your ex you don't want to cause problems for her or your current wife
Tsuav koj pom koj txoj Kev phem es think xav Los UA neeg zoo
Qhov dhau ces dhau lawm os.hlub koj poj niam tshiab thiab cov me nyuam xwb.rov saib taus koj tus kheej es koj niam koj txiv thiaj tsis xav tias nkim lub zog yug koj los ua ib tus neeg liam txwv.twb rov caum tau ua neej li luag lawm ces,tuav ko lub neej ruaj ruaj mog.
Hais rau tu kwv ua zaj neej neeg koj yeej vim koj tau kuv Poj Niam tias txhua yam ntawm nws lub neej kom nws muab laim rau txoj hmoo thiab nws daim ntawv lo ua neej vim li cas thiaj hais li lub neej tsis yog ib tug qauv paj ntaub es koj ua raws li tu qauv ntawv es thiaj zoo nkauj .lub neej tsis pom tom ntej thiaj lo taug tau txoj kev zoo li no twb ua kev kawm rau nws lawm nws thiaj tig ntxub nws tu kheej es lub neej Tom ntej thiaj txawj pauv txawj hloov.hais txog tu poj Niam thiab nws tu phooj ywg ntawv kom txhob xav tias yog nws tu qub poj Niam thiab nws tu phooj ywg no tsuas muab xav tias ntawv yog hmoob xwb.hlub tu nyob ntawm kj tes koj yeej nkawv
Man, u was a gangsta BUT u are loyal and faiful to people who u care and love.
I'm a bad mouth :
1) Koj lub neej yuav tsis puas yog hais tias koj niam koj txiv yuav tsis ntxub, tsis ua phem rau tus neeg koj hlub thiab koj cov me nyuam.
2) Ur wife and ur Friend ntxeev siab rau koj lawm os. U are so kind to wish them ''HAPPY LIFE''. If it's me, I couldn't.
Koj muab ib lub siab dawb huv thiab siab ntev ntev.
U change to become someone new. Zoo siab hais tias tig neeg txhawj hloov paub.
Nyias qhia nyias tus kheej thiaj li tsis chim rau leej twg
Anyone can change bro. I was in the same shoe as you. I change I my life around. People and my family hated me. Now I have a big house and lots of land. Now you know what? All the people hated me they all wish they were me. All the good people my parents talked about they don’t even own anything besides their car. Now I worked my butt off and I’m the superior if my company. If I can change you can too. God bless my friend.
Pro Xiong good job brother. Keep moving forward. Happy for your success.
Koj yuav tau mus thov txim rau cov neeg koj ua pheem rau lawv raws lis kuv xav os ces koj dim kev txhaum lawm Amen.
Cov no yog cov Trump yuav xa rov qab mus nws lub teb chaws ntag lauj
Me tub es koj twb yug dua tus ntshiab lawm es muab koj lub neej qub tshem tawm mus mog txhob xav txog lawm koj xav tias hnub no kuv yuav ua kom zoo tshaj hnag hmo no mas koj thiaj xav ua neeg mog ua lub siab loj2 ua koj lub neej kom zoo2 txhob cia koj tus pojniam dhau thiab tus phoojywg nyog tau koj txoj kev zoo yog yus xav tias ua kom zoo ces zoo xwb txhob yuam kev lawm mog xav tias yav tas yog ib qho npau suav phem xwb nawb
Peb ua neeg nyob txhua yam uas peb xaiv ua nyias yeej muaj nyias nqi. Thaum koj txiav txim siab ua yam dab tsi lawm twb txhais tau hais tias koj txaus siab them tus nqi ntawv lawm. Yam koj tau ua dhau los yuav hloov tsis tau vim twb tag dhau lawm qhov yuav pab tau koj rau tab sim no ces lees koj txoj kev txhaum thiab txhob ua li qub ntxiv lawm xwb. Vajtswv tsim koj muaj ib txoj sia lawm txawm koj yuav zoo li cas los nws yeej tseem hlub koj. Qhov nws hais rau peb sawv daws ces yog hais tias "Go and sin no more". Cia siab hais tias koj txawj feel bad ces koj yuav tsis dag koj tus kheej es koj yuav dhau los ua ib tug neeg zoo no nawb mog.
Koj txhob tsim kev nyuaj siab rau koj tu niam tsev ntawm koj ib sab xwb ces zoo lawm....ua txoj kev zoo lo npog qhov phem koj ua dhau lo xwb...hlub cov me nyuam koj tu niam coj lo ...hlub koj cov me nyuam nrog leej niam mus lawm...
Mistakes are lesson learned. You either repeat it or grow from it. You shouldnt regret anything bc life is not perfect. If it wasnt for your friend, your ex wife would of end up in a worst situation. Blame your parents, if they didnt treat your wife like that.. she would probably stay. But again, it's your fault for putting your thug life before your wife and children. Your ex wife is your biggest regret bc you lost her. Be good to your new wife so you wont loose her too.
Kev ua zoo yeej los yeej txoj kev ua pem os kj ua yog lwm.
Tus mi kwv kuv zoo siab uas koj tau laus txaus thiab pom tias koj yog ib yug neeg txhaum yav yah los lawm es Hnub no koj twb hloov ua neeg zoo lawm yog li Hnub no koj kav tsij ua ib yug txiv zoo rau koj tus poj niam muaj Hnub no lawm yav Tom ntej xwb thiab ua ib leej txiv zoo lawm yav Tom ntej rau koj cov minyuam thiab hlub lawv li koj hlub tau xwb mog es txhob muab kev chim kev npau yav yah los coj los siv lawm nawb
You need to forgive yourself! Everything that had happened in your past is for a reasons. Nothing is too late as long as you are still alive and breathing. What you can do now is love yourself and move on and live on so u can love your current wife and your kids!
I leaned to forgive myself .... God is amazing love
I understand that he’s a gangsta but let’s all be real here. His friend n ex wife betrayed him.. He was loyal from the start to the end. This kind of story should wake up everyone out there to open up their eyes not to trust a friend 💯. Sometimes your best friend is your worst enemy.. Coward is weak and Pussy is power!
Learn from life and move on bro. Suicide won't solve your personal problems. Now that you have a new beginning, work hard and use the past as a motivation towards a better life. You can't keep counting on negative thoughts or hating yourself. It will drag you down, so change your mindset that you can do better and you deserve better!
For give your self and keep up the good life and move on ask God to for give you . God is good all the time.
Tus Brother mus saib koj tus kheej hauv Daim iav es cev tes rov los phws koj lub tob hau hais tias koj hlub nws nyob hauv Daim iav kom koj tus me plig txhob tu tu siab kom nws zoo siab yus yuav tau hlub yus vim koj twb rov muaj lub neej muaj tus niam tsev zoo zoo lawm txaus siab hlub nws nrog rau koj tus me duab hauv Daim iav xwb Txhob xav txog lub neej dhau los lawm nws yog ib Zaj npau Suav thaum koj mus pw es koj pom lawm xwb mog zoo siab hlob xwb yog koj tsis ntsib tej yam zoo li no xyov hnub no koj puas tau los ntsib niam ntsuab teev es nws puas yuav tau tham koj lub neej rau peb mloog os mog hlub koj tus kheej nawb???
Sad Story..but good at the end
kav ntsij rau2 siab ua neej lom zoo xwb mas tus nus
Ask your former wife to see if she can forgive verbally so you can work on forgiving yourself. Otherwise, forgive yourself and move on even if your new marriage don't work in the future. We will never lose if we don't die. Please, love yourself so your children can find values in you. Good luck brother.
Thov qhuas koj tias koj tau thim Xauv lawm vim muaj ntau yam koj xav yog tag lawm , Koj lub neej yav Tom neej tseem muaj nuj nqi xws li tias koj yuav tsim ua ib tug neeg zoo, siab loj siab dav, siab dawb siab ncaj rau zej tsoom neeg.....,
tus phooj ywg kuv xav los teb koj me me lus vim koj tau noog lawm 1 koj yuav tsum tso txoj kev ua koj pheej xav tuag no tseg yog koj tseem tuag lawm thiab ces koj cov me nyuam ua koj tus niam 2 ntaw tseem yuav txom nyem ntxiv thiab 2 koj yuav tsum tsis txhob ntxub koj tus kheej lawm vim koj twb paub tia koj tau ua yuav kev yav tas los lawm koj yuav tsum rau siab nrog nrog koj poj niam neb ua neej sib sib hlub xwb 3 rxhob hu foos koj poj niam tus dhau los ntxiv lawm li no xwb koj yeej yuav rov txais kev zoo siab xwb
You want a piece od advise, I give you some ok. A psychologist Adler said, an inferiority leads to superiority, a mistake in the past helps you get better in the future. You need to let it go and resume the best of you in the future by learning all the hmong culture and traditions and hard working one day you will be the leader to your family and extended families. That is what Maslow said, " Self Actualization." But you must willing to work hard when people are seeking advise from you and if you are financially indepedent. That will make you an important person. You ex- will some how regret to herself.
Be successful and be strong!! It’s not meant to be!! Love your life to the fullest
A story for some to learn from
Me nus qhov koj saib koj tu kheej TSI zoo thiab koj ntxub koj tu kheej no qhia Tau Tia koj yog Ib tu neeg zoo thaum koj UA phem koj thiaj TSI xav UA ntxiv kuv txaus siab qhov koj xav li no
Me tub es, koj lub txim ces cia tag nrog lub sib hawm lawv tso koj ntawm mus mog! Koj tub ua tau zoo lawm ces nrog koj zoo siab es koj yuav tsum nco ntsoov tias yav tag los cia ua ib txoj kev kawm los kho lub neej pem suab xwb no nawv mog!!
Zam txim rau koj tus kheej, ua neeg nyob zoo li taug ib txog kev koj yuav kawm ua neej ib ntu zuj zus everythin is about learn
Bother! God love you !
Txhob ntxub koj tus kheej vim koj twb paub los ua tus neeg zoo lawm. Rau rau siab los khwv rau tus poj niam koj yuav nrog koj ntawm ko hlub hlub nws xwb ces yog qhov zoo. Tus poj niam uas nws mus yuav koj tus phooj ywg lawm ces koj txhob nco txhob khuv xim lawm. Yeej meem hlub tus koj tau ntawm koj xwb.
Thank you for sharing your story. God loves you very much and sent His one and only Son, Jesus Christ, to die for our sins. You have been given a second chance...live to the fullest and love those you have now...
Tus brother you are blessed to be given a second chance at life to make up for your mistakes, cherish it. Don't think about your past but live for the future, your past made you better so cherish your family and your life. Death won't erase your past mistakes, you will end up hurting the ones who love you. Good luck to you
Sad story brother 😭😭😭
The only way you will be happy is to forgive yourself. You need to let the past go and move forward.
Hi my fellow young brother; I hardly listened and paid tension to these story somehow this morning my wife got me through your while we had our lunch. My gratitude in appreciation for sharing your life. I was an CEO for non-profit assisting Hmong and all Asian who migrated to USA all my life. Your story has inspired me dearly because the Hmong was hit hard on gang issue nationwide during your time. I was involved with many young boys and girls individually who was caught up to be a gang member and also worked with local, state and national community. Zoo siab heev rau koj uas koj hloov tau koj tug kheej los ua tug neeg tshiab thiab lub neej tshiab, willing to let past becoming history even very painful. Qhov kuv yuav hais tau rau koj ces...koj twb yog tug neeg tshiab, nyob lub neej tshiab, muaj dua ib lub neej lawm.. you were able to transform yourself into better life with bitter memory, learning and coping to allow your thought and pain flown life wind blowing up and down. Move up yourself with a family life that you are holding in your hand. Don't let it go again "This is your destiny" My most admiration is your understanding your x-wife and friend. It mean to be that you are the one to set this tone and life for them because they both are your best friend in life. Koj txhawj xav heev li lawm os tug me kwv..tsim nyog lub neej los zoo li no koj thiaj muaj lub caij zoo li hnub no los tau taub txog YAM PHEM uas KOJ TAU UA dhau los THIAB TAU UA MOB LWM TUG SIAB yav dhau lawm vim li you have no other alternative but let the past life go and maintain your bright thought who you are best for the moment. Tij laug zoo siab rau koj lub SIAB ZOO THIAB TXAWJ XAV LAWM thiab VIM MUAJ NKAWV taug txoj kev no thiaj li ua rau KOJ MUAJ HNUB NO yam xav tsis txog tiag KOJ TWB YOG TUG NEEG TSHIAB LAWM. Wishing you very best for your life and family.
Nyob zoo os tus tij laug tsis txhob ntxub Koj tus kheej thiab txhob xav tuag lawm os ua neeg nyob tsuas muaj ib zaug xwb hlub yus tus kheej thiab ua neeg nyob hauv lub ntiaj teb no tsis yog koj ib leej thiaj ua txhaum xwb txhua tus tib neeg yeej txawj ua txhaum thiab os muab yam tsis zoo pov tseg nrog rau dej mus mog tag kis pib dua tshiab tseem tsis tau lig os tij laug.
Thanks for sharing your story brother. You have to let go of the past, forgive yourself and move on. From now, focus on what you can do to better your life now.
Forgive yourself and forgive the past to be able to move forward. The past is history. the present and future is now and you have the chance and opportunity to fix the things you missed or haven’t done. If you choose death, your opportunity is gone. The choices have be given to you. Enjoy what you have and cherish the things you love.
zoo siab tus kwv tij uas koj hloov lawm, yeej meem ua neeg zoo mus mog, qhov zoo tshaj xav kom koj los nrog peb ntseeg VAJTSWV thiab yuav zoo dua mog
Matthew 11:28-29
Then Jesus said, “Come to me, all of you who are weary and carry heavy burdens, and I will give you rest.
Take my yoke upon you. Let me teach you, because I am humble and gentle at heart, and you will find rest for your souls.
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txhua tus neeg yeej txawj yuam kev tab sis muaj qee tus xwb thiaj txawj thim xav
Hnub no koj twb pauv tau lawm ce zoo lawm os mog me nus
Don't hate yourself. Forgive yourself. Take it as a lesson learned. I was a little gang banger when I was younger, too. Don't let your past define you. Your past made you who you are today. Strong. Resilient. Kind. It's time to let go. It's ok to forgive yourself. Trust God and let go.
First stop bothering your ex and friend. Second, forgive yourself and focus on your current relationship. What has happened you can never change but only change your future for the best. Quit dwelling onto your past because that past can never be changed no matter how much you regret and think about it. Your future days are what you should ONLY look forward to and better yourself. Goodluck brother!
You are so right!!
I hate to say this but I think he doesn’t realize that he still cannot let go
of his past
( To say it minimally )
Tus me txiv tsev, koj twb zam txim rau lwm tus vim li cas koj ho zam txim tsis tau rau koj tus kheej. Peb ua neej nyob yeej muaj yuam kev, tabsis yog peb pom peb txoj kev rxhaum es hloov los ua neeg zoo li koj lawm yog ib txoj koob hmoov zoo kawg li. Zam txim rau koj tus kheej.
Zoo siab rau yam koj muaj tam sim no os brother. Be thankful you're still breathing and healthy. God bless you!
Reflect on your past experiences. Acknowledge your wrongdoings and mistakes and accept it. Continue to plan and strive for a future with your current wife and family. Let go of the past mistakes and continue living no matter what. You've still got a long road ahead to change and show yourself as a better person.
Koj siab li phem dhau lawm os yus cov hmoob kiag es tsi sib hlub tseem mus sib ntaus thiab siab phem tiag2 li os hmoob mas tsi sawm zoo kiag li
Stay strong and positive! Learn from your mistakes. The past is past! Your future is still bright ahead. Be happy and make every moments worth it with your families. Have faith .
Forgive yourself n learn from the past-that’s all you can do
Brother aw, ua ib siab txhob xav txog yav tas los. Learn to forget and let go so you can enjoy & behappy for whatever you have now. Forget the past, the past is just a dream come & go only.
Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Make a commitment to move on. The pass can't b change. The future is still bright n sunny but YOU got to make it happen. You are in control of YOUR FUTURE. And last your kid still gonna need YOU. When they're go threw their hard time, let your past be the strength for you to teach n guide them. YOU DON'T WANT TO BE THE FATHER THAT REGRETS NOT ABLE TO SAVE YOUR CHILD.
Don’t feel sad and hate yourself. We all make mistakes in our life. Try to accept your mistakes and be a better person tomorrow. The past is the past, there’s nothing you can do to change that, but you can still change the future. You must learn to love yourself and move forward.
Me tub the past is passed please continue starts your new life okay
Go to God brother! He will ease ur pain and u will slowly forgive urself in time, time heals all things, but yes, the scars will always be there:(.
We all make mistakes brother we learn from them and we move on. Be there for your kids and make up the time lost and bond with your kiddos.
Tus phooj ywg peb ua neej nyob tsis rau yus tus kheej yog koj xav paub tej yam ua yav tas los hu los yog sau ntawv tuaj rau kuv wb mam tham