This triggered so much in me. After I graduated from college, my mother pushed me to get a job and move out of the house (only child). I found a job in another state. When she retired at 55, 33 years ago, her tune changed. She wanted me to move back "so we could take care of each other." My mother is a narcissist and raised me to be a doormat, but distance helped me develope a spine. That did not stop my mother from begging me to move back EVERY TIME WE TALKED OVER THE PHONE. It sounded just like this. It evolved to me moving back into the house to her helping me buy a house in the neighborhood to her giving me the house when she moved into an independent living home to me moving into the home too " because there is so much we could do together" (no there isn't). No thought to me moving, selling my own house, what would do with my own pets. After her living in the home for 5 years, I have learned that she has no friends there. No one eats with her in the dining room. At this point, she wants me as her audience, someone to listen to her rants, her errand girl. When I told her I was going no contact with her, the first thing she said was "who will take care of meeeee?" The home has a good support staff. She is in a safe place. It won't be me.
Your mother took a sledgehammer to the life you were trying to build. Every time you laid a brick she would smash it. Thank God you moved away so she couldn't destroy what you built any more. Some people just can't stand the idea that they aren't in control. They usually end up miserable and alone when their families drop kick them out the door.
When I left for college, it took my mother all of one week to turn my bedroom into her African Violet room. I was regulated to the guest bedroom/laundry room when I would come home for a visit. I never had to take care of her as I could barely keep up with her. She was a total class A personality as was my father.
@@pauladautremont1728 my mother turned mine into her den. Had a sleeper sofa in there for me until she sold it. The next time I came to visit she had a loveseat too small for me, so I told her I would sleep on the couch in the livingroom. "Oh, no, you would be too heavy for it. You may break it." Last time I visited her.
It is the parents responsibility to support their children but never demand them to support you as payback time. If they will good but if not fine. Evil MIL.
We love our grandchildren. We love them when they arrive, and we love them when leave. We also love our grandchildren in the country we used to live in, including the two babies we haven't met yet! And yes, I got terribly depressed when we had to live with my inlaws for over a year... We actually moved countries to look after both sets of parents, without living with them...
My mum has just moved to sheltered accommodation. In her first week she joined a quiz team which had never won, they then won. She is already popular as all out because she is a lovely person. A dog will always be a dog !
I was an only child and really close to my mother. When I was very young my mother was a single parent and she took me everywhere she went, so I had an interesting childhood. Since mom took me everywhere with her I was exposed to a lot of different things & people that I probably wouldn’t have experience otherwise. Mom raised me to be very independent and since she took me with her everywhere it made me kinda like a “little adult” when I was little. Mom always said that people would always comment on how amazed they were at how “adult” I acted. I was lucky with my mother even though we were very close she thought it was very important that I be independent, hell I started working at the age of 12. Also my husband was always thankful that my mom wasn’t like the “typical MIL” and they got along very well with each other. When we were looking at houses it was my husband’s idea that we get a 4 bedroom so that we would have room for my mom when she needed it. R.I.P. Mom
If the mother in law wasn't so wound up about wanting her son, daughter in law and grandchildren to move in with her and her husband while ignoring her own daughter wanting to move in with her, she wouldn't be in this mess. I swear to god she wasn't told no when she was growing up.
people really need to understand when they've been rejected and the word NO it's a huge annoying problem for everyone else when they refuse that answer
"The answer is no. N. O. That's a technical term we use. It means, no. Not happening. Un-uh. Nein. Nyet. Forget it. Is that a sufficient explanation of my answer?"
As a parent, it's your job to reach them the necessary skills to deal with life. My son left home for uni last year. He has his own place. I was so happy for him, that was the next stage in life for him. Yes, he's phoned a few times for advice, has stayed a few weeks in the holidays, but has gone back to his own place happily. People have asked if I'm sad....Nope. Do I miss hin....yes, but that's normal.
my mom was a bit apprehensive about me moving out , just standard worried mom. We now do more fun things together because we are not tired of seeing each other everyday lol.
I went out and shovelled the deck, the sidewalks and driveway came back in to find a new story! Great reward for getting rid of all that snow! Hello from Prince George, BC, 🇨🇦! I hope everyone’s having a great Sunday! 😊
@@rogerrabbit80 ❄️😂❄️😂 i’ve lived in this country all my life just about and I’ve seen lots of the white stuff! Shovelled a lot of it too! I keep thinking I’m going to invest in a snowblower one day before I get too much older! lol
"My son is a push-over that does whatever other people tell him to do, so he need to live with me." - translation - "I want my son to live with me because he is a push-over and will do whatever I tell him to do."
I understand cutting Judy off form her grandchildren. Given her history of favoring her son over her daughter, I can see her favoring her grandson over her granddaughter as well, and the whole cycle perpetuating for another generation.
Omg this mil is so darn pushy she needs to understand that her son is his own man not just her baby anymore. Leave him and his family alone let them grow up an be who their meant to be. Anabelle needs to keep her back bone an leave her in laws in the dust the sil did good telling her what the mom said about Brian not making a good choice about his wife wth get over yourself asap before you loose all of them period.
I know there are many cultures and families that do have many generations living under one roof, and if that works for them then that's awesome. Personally, I agree with Anabelle, most children grow up and leave the nest to build their own lives and families; also they love their children equally. I would never want to live with my in-laws and definitely not one like Judy.
When I first got married to my husband, he was a total mama's boy. Over the last 18 yrs (16 married), I have taught him how to do laundry, cook & shop for groceries. This man lived off of fast food & delivery. 😔 Recently, he has started to do most of the housework & cooking because I have severe back issues along with RA & fibromyalgia. It is almost impossible to stand for more than 5 - 10 minutes before my back cramps up & I feel like it is being twisted by a vice grip. I haven't been able to work since 2016, so he makes the money as well. I do receive disability but it isn't even a third of what I made when I was working. Before my RA diagnosis, I was the main source of income, did the shopping, took care of two kids (from first marriage) & did most of the cleaning. It hurts me to see how the roles have reversed but I am also happy & very grateful that I found a partner that helps me & takes care of me. (And the girls - but they are both in their 20's now & don't live at home any longer)
@@susanmcpeak7267 that is the meaning of family. Taking care of your own, not being forced because it was tradition. Tradition only works for those of you who can deal with the quirks of others
Maybe most North American children. I know people living in countries like Italy and Spain where adult children don't move out of their family home until after they get married. I know other families where three generations of the same family live together in one house... The only culture where adult children are expected to leave home at the age of 18 to fend for themselves are American.
Uh…for a minute I thought the fil was dead or something because the way Judy was insisting on Brian and his daughter moving in while excluding both her daughter and dil…I was expecting something gross
He could have left her whenever he wanted. If he hasn't, that is his decision. Whatever trauma she inflicted on him, he could have gotten therapy or done many other things to mitigate the damage. Not blaming an abused victim, but a man who has a narc housewife with a shrill, entitled, and inflated sense of self could just walk away. Judy as a human is a net negative. Nothing she brings is worth what she takes away.
Nummy, they know that. Pretty sure he couldn't if he was a child and his dad was gone....his mother was toxic so it makes sense she forced him to stay (although you claim that not possible for some reason considering how trash and manipulative she is). You acting like he didn't get out when he ACTUALLY had the chance to when he got married
Sometimes living with In-laws is a good thing especially if they have health problems but then there's times where they just want to spend your hard earned money so they don't have to work for it. Of course I'm only guessing this is the reason the MIL is trying so hard to get OP into moving in with her before I finished this video. Hello from Utah
Taking care of my mom will be my honor.. she is AWESOME 🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️.. she would NEVER try to force any of us to move in with her and take care of her.. MIL act like she's wheelchair bound and can't take care of herself
This makes me glad for how my parents raised my siblings and I. They were happy to see us start our own lives, but when the situation called for it, their house was always open for us kids when we needed to regroup after a setback or when a weather event temporarily forced us out of our own places.
Why my thoughts went straight to the "economic help" that a lot of people feel entitled to? You know, since Brian and Annabelle do well for themselves while Sophie and Greg are still really young and not stable financially (Judy said so herself).
I encouraged my daughter to take advantage of an opportunity to get away from our home state, and have new experiences. The payoff for me, many years later, is that I am retiring soon and will be catching up again with her and her family. (I have been visiting, but it's a lot of traveling.)
"Judy, why would we move in with you? There is no benefit for us to do so. Our children are kids, and yours are adults. Do you see the differences? *WE ARE NOT MOVING IN WITH YOU.* Bring it up again, and we are going no contact with you."
Like many that relate to this story, I was the black sheep of the family. At 16 I was out of my parents home, living were I could. But still be shit on my my relation. Finally I moved 5 states away, when I did return 8 years later , it was to plan to move to a coast state, that pissed off everyone in my family as they had no control over my life, or I ignored them when they made the" you should do this crap". The strangest thing happens , my job feels thru due to a recession on the west coast, I found a beautiful with. I dad got sick and found not longer keep up the house. I both the family home, my father was cool, he mellowed with age. But my mother still though she could boss around anyone in My home. That lasted one Holiday. Whoa, my wife told her off. That was 32 years ago. Things change in life. And narrassitic mother must relise they have no power
What's the point of getting married if you're not gonna let them be independent?? A young family needs privacy, the oldies shouldn't invite themselves over to live until they are much older...especially if they want to be grandparents!!
It always makes me angry when the grandmother wants the baby too. Like nuh no no no lady. That's HER baby. Sure it's the man's too but as long as she's not an unfit mother you can't take her child. If you want a grandchild from your son you gotta deal with the fact that it's gonna come with a daughter in law. Of course except in cases like adoption and what not of course but let's face it those kind of women wouldn't count them.
Here we go with the snobby voice for the MIL again; it fits but gets a bit tiresome. Again, the mother won't willingly let go of her son; at least he's not a Mama's boy and pulled away from her.
Ugh; she doesn't want her 'baby boy' back, she wants a sonsband! This woman is trying to make Brian into her full-time carer, emotional support animal, and basically replacement hubby. Gross; Jocasta much~?
I don’t like all of these endless dramas, negative energy and excessive bullying. I just love the hummingbird. Maybe if all of the negative drama was reduced, we could tolerate the texting from a modest standpoint and maybe have a more approachable experiences like a positive family interaction, and of course, endless memories that can be shared and witnessed by multiple generations.
“I’m a leftover mother who made my son my whole life and took care of every little thing. I don’t know what else to do with my life, so I will keep trying to control his life as if he is a perpetual five-year-old. I’m scared, lonely, and I want you to obey me.” There, I fixed it.
Omg🤦🏽♀️ why do these women always bend over backwards for their so called mother in laws & not stand up for themselves & tell her that they are old enough to be living on their own & not w the in laws or her parents 😡😡🤦🏽♀️
Stop giving reasons and speak what you have to. Reasons only allow others to find more reasons for the conversations. Be precise and stern about what you think and what you want to say. It is better to kill than hurt.
Let me say this, unfortunately, being clingy is natural. I think it's from her fear of not seeing her extended family, possibly from a personal trauma. I remember I was being especially clingy to my mom as a young girl, and also right now, to my brother who I haven't seen for ages. There is a lingering fear that one will never see their sibling, mothers, daughters, sons, due to unexpected sets of circumstances leading to irreversible loss. I am sure that Anabelle's mother in law is needy, and wanted to be part of the moment especially with her first born child who's married to his wife who is having a baby on the way. I am clingy after when Teddy the labradoodle that I cared for was adopted by another family because of the way she used to be clingy to me. and my late mother who was terminally ill. Sometimes, being clingy is more than a personality trait, it can be a physical trait. And yes, it was pretty much to my paternal grandmother who has a personality that made her more sociable, she gets clingy after her husband died. With a person who is not that clingy, then of course she may not be persistent in trying to get her son and daughter in law to get to live with her.
A clingy person can not expect another adult to disrupt their own lives, just to appease your own disproportionate clingyness. In fact, if it's that bad, then the clingy person should really be talking to their doctor or therapist about their problem. Because truly, it's a problem.
MIL: "Sophie is getting married." Dumbass Main Character: 🫠 (a couple seconds letter) MIL: "Sophie is engaged." Dumbass Main Character: "Oh, wow! I didn't know!" It like the writers have amnesia, think the characters are developmentally delayed, or write one sentence, then come back in a day and keep writing without bothering to reread what they have written. Normal people (of average intelligence) do not talk like this. They have better social skills. And have a memory that is slightly better than a goldfish. (In case the writers aren't piecing the bits together, saying that two people are getting married is the same as saying they're engaged. It's not a new information.)
I am a mother-in-law. Three times over. All sons-in-law are terrific 💯 guys. I'm awaiting one to replace a ceiling light bulb. So blessed.
This triggered so much in me. After I graduated from college, my mother pushed me to get a job and move out of the house (only child). I found a job in another state. When she retired at 55, 33 years ago, her tune changed. She wanted me to move back "so we could take care of each other." My mother is a narcissist and raised me to be a doormat, but distance helped me develope a spine. That did not stop my mother from begging me to move back EVERY TIME WE TALKED OVER THE PHONE. It sounded just like this. It evolved to me moving back into the house to her helping me buy a house in the neighborhood to her giving me the house when she moved into an independent living home to me moving into the home too " because there is so much we could do together" (no there isn't). No thought to me moving, selling my own house, what would do with my own pets. After her living in the home for 5 years, I have learned that she has no friends there. No one eats with her in the dining room. At this point, she wants me as her audience, someone to listen to her rants, her errand girl. When I told her I was going no contact with her, the first thing she said was "who will take care of meeeee?" The home has a good support staff. She is in a safe place. It won't be me.
It’s terrible you had a mother like that. My mom was over protective, but I was taken good care of. I’m sorry you had to endure that.
I’m sorry you experienced that!! Good you decided to live YOUR life!! 💯
Your mother took a sledgehammer to the life you were trying to build. Every time you laid a brick she would smash it. Thank God you moved away so she couldn't destroy what you built any more. Some people just can't stand the idea that they aren't in control. They usually end up miserable and alone when their families drop kick them out the door.
When I left for college, it took my mother all of one week to turn my bedroom into her African Violet room. I was regulated to the guest bedroom/laundry room when I would come home for a visit. I never had to take care of her as I could barely keep up with her. She was a total class A personality as was my father.
@@pauladautremont1728 my mother turned mine into her den. Had a sleeper sofa in there for me until she sold it. The next time I came to visit she had a loveseat too small for me, so I told her I would sleep on the couch in the livingroom. "Oh, no, you would be too heavy for it. You may break it." Last time I visited her.
It is the parents responsibility to support their children but never demand them to support you as payback time. If they will good but if not fine. Evil MIL.
Was I the only one yelling, "NO!" at my monitor?
😂😂😂 you are not alone! I do the same thing! Some of these stories are hard on my blood pressure! 😂😂
I don't understand how this conversation went on so long after the first NO. No one in this story understands what Insanity is.
@@Tzaddi15 it's that algorithm. This one is cutting it pretty close at nineteen minutes, they usually try to aim for 25 to 27😂
We love our grandchildren. We love them when they arrive, and we love them when leave. We also love our grandchildren in the country we used to live in, including the two babies we haven't met yet! And yes, I got terribly depressed when we had to live with my inlaws for over a year... We actually moved countries to look after both sets of parents, without living with them...
"I know my Brian since the day he was born!" I certainly hope so ma'am!!
Apparently she didn't know her son very well. What she "knew" was what she wanted, not him.
"What do you not like about my house?"
YOU ARE IN IT!
My mum has just moved to sheltered accommodation. In her first week she joined a quiz team which had never won, they then won. She is already popular as all out because she is a lovely person. A dog will always be a dog !
Let's give Judy a medal for her persistence. And smack it on her forehead! LOL!!!
I rather we make the medal out of lead and have her swallow it :)
@@elarafae3887 🤣🤣🤣
I was thinking, nail it on, with a railroad spike.
@@rogerrabbit80 Wohhh Savage!
Nah. Pull a Martin Luther and nail it to her head.
Judy/MIL:
“What don’t you like about my lovely house?”
- The unlovely monster living there. 👹
I was an only child and really close to my mother. When I was very young my mother was a single parent and she took me everywhere she went, so I had an interesting childhood. Since mom took me everywhere with her I was exposed to a lot of different things & people that I probably wouldn’t have experience otherwise. Mom raised me to be very independent and since she took me with her everywhere it made me kinda like a “little adult” when I was little. Mom always said that people would always comment on how amazed they were at how “adult” I acted. I was lucky with my mother even though we were very close she thought it was very important that I be independent, hell I started working at the age of 12. Also my husband was always thankful that my mom wasn’t like the “typical MIL” and they got along very well with each other. When we were looking at houses it was my husband’s idea that we get a 4 bedroom so that we would have room for my mom when she needed it. R.I.P. Mom
If the mother in law wasn't so wound up about wanting her son, daughter in law and grandchildren to move in with her and her husband while ignoring her own daughter wanting to move in with her, she wouldn't be in this mess. I swear to god she wasn't told no when she was growing up.
people really need to understand when they've been rejected and the word NO it's a huge annoying problem for everyone else when they refuse that answer
"The answer is no. N. O. That's a technical term we use. It means, no. Not happening. Un-uh. Nein. Nyet. Forget it. Is that a sufficient explanation of my answer?"
No way! If you can't live on your own you are too young to get married.
I love all the birds! 🦢🦅🦆🐧🕊️🐓🦉🦃🦩🦜
It’s really easy to see why no one wants to live with Judy who is so annoying, persistence and won’t take no for an answer
Talking to Judy is like talking to a wallpaper. I rather talk to myself. Persistent at the wrong level.
It's a miracle that Brian ever made it out of the house and got married. Those apron strings seem to be waaaaaay longer than needed or wanted
As a parent, it's your job to reach them the necessary skills to deal with life. My son left home for uni last year. He has his own place. I was so happy for him, that was the next stage in life for him. Yes, he's phoned a few times for advice, has stayed a few weeks in the holidays, but has gone back to his own place happily. People have asked if I'm sad....Nope. Do I miss hin....yes, but that's normal.
Yes that is how it should be :D
my mom was a bit apprehensive about me moving out , just standard worried mom. We now do more fun things together because we are not tired of seeing each other everyday lol.
I went out and shovelled the deck, the sidewalks and driveway came back in to find a new story! Great reward for getting rid of all that snow! Hello from Prince George, BC, 🇨🇦! I hope everyone’s having a great Sunday! 😊
Make sure u have a great bkf n ☕ while u listen to this story😁. Good morning
Hello from Las Vegas, Nevada!
What's this "snow" stuff you're talking about?
@@rogerrabbit80 ❄️😂❄️😂 i’ve lived in this country all my life just about and I’ve seen lots of the white stuff! Shovelled a lot of it too! I keep thinking I’m going to invest in a snowblower one day before I get too much older! lol
@@rogerrabbit80 what up.
Judy was getting my blood pressure up, up, and up!! She is sounds so exhausting!!! Jesus Christ!!!!
"My son is a push-over that does whatever other people tell him to do, so he need to live with me."
- translation -
"I want my son to live with me because he is a push-over and will do whatever I tell him to do."
I understand cutting Judy off form her grandchildren. Given her history of favoring her son over her daughter, I can see her favoring her grandson over her granddaughter as well, and the whole cycle perpetuating for another generation.
Omg this mil is so darn pushy she needs to understand that her son is his own man not just her baby anymore. Leave him and his family alone let them grow up an be who their meant to be. Anabelle needs to keep her back bone an leave her in laws in the dust the sil did good telling her what the mom said about Brian not making a good choice about his wife wth get over yourself asap before you loose all of them period.
I enjoyed the hummingbirds in the background.
I know there are many cultures and families that do have many generations living under one roof, and if that works for them then that's awesome. Personally, I agree with Anabelle, most children grow up and leave the nest to build their own lives and families; also they love their children equally. I would never want to live with my in-laws and definitely not one like Judy.
When I first got married to my husband, he was a total mama's boy.
Over the last 18 yrs (16 married), I have taught him how to do laundry, cook & shop for groceries. This man lived off of fast food & delivery. 😔
Recently, he has started to do most of the housework & cooking because I have severe back issues along with RA & fibromyalgia. It is almost impossible to stand for more than 5 - 10 minutes before my back cramps up & I feel like it is being twisted by a vice grip. I haven't been able to work since 2016, so he makes the money as well. I do receive disability but it isn't even a third of what I made when I was working.
Before my RA diagnosis, I was the main source of income, did the shopping, took care of two kids (from first marriage) & did most of the cleaning.
It hurts me to see how the roles have reversed but I am also happy & very grateful that I found a partner that helps me & takes care of me. (And the girls - but they are both in their 20's now & don't live at home any longer)
@@susanmcpeak7267 that is the meaning of family. Taking care of your own, not being forced because it was tradition.
Tradition only works for those of you who can deal with the quirks of others
Maybe most North American children. I know people living in countries like Italy and Spain where adult children don't move out of their family home until after they get married. I know other families where three generations of the same family live together in one house... The only culture where adult children are expected to leave home at the age of 18 to fend for themselves are American.
Talking to Judy is like talking to a brick wall.
Brick walls aren't that dense.
@@Dusk.EighthLegion 😂 true
No, you'd have a better conversation with a brick wall.
More like to patrick from SpongeBob
Meddling MIL who feels she's entitled to have the world revolve around her.
I could never live with my Mom or Mother-in-law nor could l live with my daughters. I love them all but living with them is different.
Uh…for a minute I thought the fil was dead or something because the way Judy was insisting on Brian and his daughter moving in while excluding both her daughter and dil…I was expecting something gross
The one I feel sorry for the most is Judy's husband.
He could have left her whenever he wanted. If he hasn't, that is his decision. Whatever trauma she inflicted on him, he could have gotten therapy or done many other things to mitigate the damage.
Not blaming an abused victim, but a man who has a narc housewife with a shrill, entitled, and inflated sense of self could just walk away. Judy as a human is a net negative. Nothing she brings is worth what she takes away.
Nummy, they know that. Pretty sure he couldn't if he was a child and his dad was gone....his mother was toxic so it makes sense she forced him to stay (although you claim that not possible for some reason considering how trash and manipulative she is). You acting like he didn't get out when he ACTUALLY had the chance to when he got married
My favorite evil MIL voice actor. Love her!
MIL is like a broken record. The outcome is of her own making.
"I'm disinclined to acquiesce to your request. Means no".
Talking to Judy is like talking to a grass hut.
Sometimes living with In-laws is a good thing especially if they have health problems but then there's times where they just want to spend your hard earned money so they don't have to work for it. Of course I'm only guessing this is the reason the MIL is trying so hard to get OP into moving in with her before I finished this video. Hello from Utah
I feel bad that Brian’s father doesn’t get to see the children, however, it doesn’t seem like he stopped this favouritism either.
Taking care of my mom will be my honor.. she is AWESOME 🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️🤸🏾♀️.. she would NEVER try to force any of us to move in with her and take care of her.. MIL act like she's wheelchair bound and can't take care of herself
This makes me glad for how my parents raised my siblings and I. They were happy to see us start our own lives, but when the situation called for it, their house was always open for us kids when we needed to regroup after a setback or when a weather event temporarily forced us out of our own places.
Why my thoughts went straight to the "economic help" that a lot of people feel entitled to? You know, since Brian and Annabelle do well for themselves while Sophie and Greg are still really young and not stable financially (Judy said so herself).
i liked my mother in law. it was my ex, her family, that i could not stand. i was a good thing i took and raised my sons
Hafiz of Persia lived around 1200 AD. He wrote, "It's easy to rob a tiger's cubs. It's rather more difficult to remove a delusion from Judy's brain"
I encouraged my daughter to take advantage of an opportunity to get away from our home state, and have new experiences.
The payoff for me, many years later, is that I am retiring soon and will be catching up again with her and her family. (I have been visiting, but it's a lot of traveling.)
Lol. Why do these mothers think kids want to live with them
It was done in earlier years, but not so much now. They are stubborn that they don't want those ways to die out. Boy am I glad to have a great mil 😊
These days it depends on housing costs and availability and economy/job status.
"Judy, why would we move in with you? There is no benefit for us to do so.
Our children are kids, and yours are adults. Do you see the differences?
*WE ARE NOT MOVING IN WITH YOU.*
Bring it up again, and we are going no contact with you."
Change her contact entry to Unknown Number and never answer any Unknown Numbers
Like many that relate to this story, I was the black sheep of the family. At 16 I was out of my parents home, living were I could. But still be shit on my my relation. Finally I moved 5 states away, when I did return 8 years later , it was to plan to move to a coast state, that pissed off everyone in my family as they had no control over my life, or I ignored them when they made the" you should do this crap". The strangest thing happens , my job feels thru due to a recession on the west coast, I found a beautiful with. I dad got sick and found not longer keep up the house.
I both the family home, my father was cool, he mellowed with age. But my mother still though she could boss around anyone in My home. That lasted one Holiday. Whoa, my wife told her off. That was 32 years ago. Things change in life. And narrassitic mother must relise they have no power
another MIL text story good evening everyone happy sunday 6th
What's the point of getting married if you're not gonna let them be independent?? A young family needs privacy, the oldies shouldn't invite themselves over to live until they are much older...especially if they want to be grandparents!!
Goodeveing, hope everyone is having a nice Sunday?
Omg that's a lot of strings to tangle up lol
I'm not going to live with my in-laws. You get to decide how that happens.
Good evening everyone
I'm losing the will to watch this until the end.... OMG. No means no !!!!
I love how the video shows owls. I love it
Them and the zebra finches. So cute! 😍
@@TheEmpressReborn Yeah they were! :)
People don’t know their place at all. Brain is family too. It’s her child first. The storyline is always the same!
Gret an unlisted number or move far far far far far way far away? An island you have to swim to???
It always makes me angry when the grandmother wants the baby too. Like nuh no no no lady. That's HER baby. Sure it's the man's too but as long as she's not an unfit mother you can't take her child. If you want a grandchild from your son you gotta deal with the fact that it's gonna come with a daughter in law. Of course except in cases like adoption and what not of course but let's face it those kind of women wouldn't count them.
Afternoon All 👋 😃
You're not living with us Judy. *Click.*
*ring ring ring* no answer, I'm busy. :)
I’m confused
They’re talking in circles
What happened
Velcro mother. Brian and Annabelle would be better off moving to the other side of the world
Here we go with the snobby voice for the MIL again; it fits but gets a bit tiresome. Again, the mother won't willingly let go of her son; at least he's not a Mama's boy and pulled away from her.
Thank you so much for saying Brian and I not me and Brian😊
Um that mother sort of reminds me of Robert barone..
Birds. 👍😁🤗
Another mother who is in love with her child, this is sick, these mothers need to stop being so clingy when their son gets married it weird and gross
i've never wanted to hit my head against a wall before but .....
Second story featuring a female protagonist named Annabelle
By Judy's logic, she must have lived with her MIL, right?
Ugh; she doesn't want her 'baby boy' back, she wants a sonsband! This woman is trying to make Brian into her full-time carer, emotional support animal, and basically replacement hubby. Gross; Jocasta much~?
I don’t like all of these endless dramas, negative energy and excessive bullying. I just love the hummingbird. Maybe if all of the negative drama was reduced, we could tolerate the texting from a modest standpoint and maybe have a more approachable experiences like a positive family interaction, and of course, endless memories that can be shared and witnessed by multiple generations.
If she regularly refers to her adult son as “my boy” then she wants to marry him. EVERY SINGLE TIME.
“I’m a leftover mother who made my son my whole life and took care of every little thing. I don’t know what else to do with my life, so I will keep trying to control his life as if he is a perpetual five-year-old. I’m scared, lonely, and I want you to obey me.” There, I fixed it.
OH FOR ARCEUS'S SAKE, JUDY!! NO MEANS NO!! DID YOUR PARRNTS NEVER TEACH YOU THE MEANING OF CONSENT?!
Omg🤦🏽♀️ why do these women always bend over backwards for their so called mother in laws & not stand up for themselves & tell her that they are old enough to be living on their own & not w the in laws or her parents 😡😡🤦🏽♀️
The answer is hell no
Stop giving reasons and speak what you have to. Reasons only allow others to find more reasons for the conversations. Be precise and stern about what you think and what you want to say. It is better to kill than hurt.
And Judy wonders why she won't see the grandkids
Translation : I want you to move in so Dil is the slave and son gets brainwashed. End result : Divorce. Mil wins.
My mom paid for my college with the agreement I would come back home and help with the house bills and my younger brothers college expenses.
This went on for way too long. OP definitely should have blocked MIL.
NO means NO, Judy!
The story would be shorter if the wife would of just said, call Brian, and quit calling me.
Stop engaging and let Brian deal with mommy
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Why are the pregnant women in these such fuss pots?
Let me say this, unfortunately, being clingy is natural. I think it's from her fear of not seeing her extended family, possibly from a personal trauma. I remember I was being especially clingy to my mom as a young girl, and also right now, to my brother who I haven't seen for ages. There is a lingering fear that one will never see their sibling, mothers, daughters, sons, due to unexpected sets of circumstances leading to irreversible loss. I am sure that Anabelle's mother in law is needy, and wanted to be part of the moment especially with her first born child who's married to his wife who is having a baby on the way. I am clingy after when Teddy the labradoodle that I cared for was adopted by another family because of the way she used to be clingy to me. and my late mother who was terminally ill. Sometimes, being clingy is more than a personality trait, it can be a physical trait. And yes, it was pretty much to my paternal grandmother who has a personality that made her more sociable, she gets clingy after her husband died. With a person who is not that clingy, then of course she may not be persistent in trying to get her son and daughter in law to get to live with her.
A clingy person can not expect another adult to disrupt their own lives, just to appease your own disproportionate clingyness. In fact, if it's that bad, then the clingy person should really be talking to their doctor or therapist about their problem. Because truly, it's a problem.
First?
Yep!
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Lady please leave them alone
Let your son be a man
The only decision Judy has take is which gimp room to work in!
Judy may have to change her name to Judy Gimphumpmuyhtmeister!
Don’t say anything Judy, just GULP, assiduously, consistently, frequently and copiously!
MIL: "Sophie is getting married."
Dumbass Main Character: 🫠
(a couple seconds letter)
MIL: "Sophie is engaged."
Dumbass Main Character: "Oh, wow! I didn't know!"
It like the writers have amnesia, think the characters are developmentally delayed, or write one sentence, then come back in a day and keep writing without bothering to reread what they have written.
Normal people (of average intelligence) do not talk like this. They have better social skills. And have a memory that is slightly better than a goldfish.
(In case the writers aren't piecing the bits together, saying that two people are getting married is the same as saying they're engaged. It's not a new information.)