His or Her money | Transforming Finances in Marriage
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.ค. 2023
- What if managing finances in your marriage was not a source of tension, but a pathway to unity and freedom? Join us as we shine a light on the significance of a shared mindset in financial matters within a marriage, and discover how transforming your perspective on money can create harmony. We discuss ways to shift from individualistic attitudes towards money to a team mindset, guided by the teachings of the Bible on the love of money. Also don't miss our invite to our annual conference, where we'll explore this topic of shared finances in marriage even further!
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Single person here taking notes DILIGENTLY 💯
Same
Am here taking note because am preparing for marriage thanks for sharing this,
Y’all speaking my language. My husband and I will be married 15 years (Lord’s will ) in a couple of weeks and we had to learn the money principles that you share here.
Also, likewise he helped me to improve my credit score.
My advice to single ladies…Get your financial house in order before marriage. It’s right up there with your spiritual, mental and physical health. It’s so important!
You guys are awesome my marriage is better now because of you…May God continue to bless you all
We are glad to hear that!!
Newly wed here, and my wife and I are figuring it out, lots of value added here, you guys just earned a new subscriber, so glad y’all are people of faith as well.
Hey! Me and my fiancé love yalls videos. we’re getting married this October. We actually live in Ocala!!! Thank you guys for putting out great Christ centered content. It’s super valuable stuff. I’m taking notes lol!
I am glad y'all love our videos. Come visit us at Alive Church in Orlando or Gainesville Campus!
You guys are such a blessing! I was not looking for you guys , But GOD lead me to watch you guys, I am a newly wed and this is my 2 nd marriage to my first at 13yrs old and now we married at 40, you guys podcast is definitely blessing us in our new blended family journey together coming as one in GODs way. THANKU JESUS! Born and raised and Holy Ghost filled and THIS TIME IS NOTHING BUT BLESSINGS , I’m reaping everything Devil stole from me. Hallelujah 🙏🏽🙌🏽💪🏽
So much knowledge here! I typically use Excel to create our monthly budget but since watching this episode I’ve downloaded the Every dollar app to save on time & have a more in-depth look at our finances. I’m definitely more like P. Tabitha in regards to our financial upbringing & in that my Husband also helped build my credit. I am learning to steward better. This episode was so on time. I literally needed this information today! Thank you so much!
I looked up marriage finances because of some things that were said in a heated argument this morning. I’m going to have my spouse check it out too. Really insightful. Thank you!
Oh….. my …. Lord….. not only do you both look like me and my fiancé….. but i am him and she is her 😳…… y’all are speaking to my soul this is bizzare 😳😳😳😳
Oh man! Every video is so timely and feels like an answered prayer. Ken & Tabitha your channel is such a God sent. We absolutely love the realness and unfiltered content, my husband and I always talk about you guys like we’ve known you for years haha. We feel like you guys are literally our closest friends. We are learning so much about marriage, parenting and everything in between. Keep it coming! Wish we could attend the conference but God willing one day. Lots of love & blessings from your friends in Australia Barnet and Sinèad.
We are glad this channel can be a blessing for you two! Definitely come to Orlando soon and visit us at Alive Church. Thank you for watching us faithfully Barnet and Sinèad from Australia!!
You guys are just awesome 👏. This is my first time watching you guys. I’m really grateful
Excellent content and informative! Thanks for being transparent. You guys are a blessing! New subscriber..❤
I just found this video. You are talking about finances but I see respect, love submission, mutual agreement, and love here. I am your newest subscriber who feels so blessed to have found you. God bless you.
God bless you guys i enjoy that video…..I love giving back to the Lord it’s very rewarding, putting God first in your finances….you will never lose.🙏👍
I just found you and decided to watch it!! you two are in sync and I love the content!! God bless you thanks for making time to do this. I am a new subscriber!!
26:18 Bingo! This is so true! 💯
I never heard it quite put that way but if God hasn’t intervened I don’t think He expects us to.
This has set my free😂
Cause sometimes there’s a little bit of guilt knowing you have it but just don’t have it to loan or even give in some cases.
Co-signing is a No No …even from a biblical standpoint! People often overlook that.
My own dear mother is resting in Heaven but she always told me to never co-sign for anyone including her if she asked. Lol 😂
That has stuck with me and since then have read it in the Bible myself.
My standpoint is this:
I can help you or assist you better by showing you how to manage your money 💰 but throwing money at the problem never helps the problem. Sometimes people have the money they just not using it wisely.
I’ve had to learn this so I now believe EVERYONE should.
I really really needed this wisdom-- my Husband and I are totally not on the same page with money, it's one of the biggest points of contention in our marraige. I'm a saver/budgeter, he's a have it spend it type. I see us as a team like you talked about, I do see it as "our money", but it hurts me when he spends large amounts of our money to cover a debt he got himself in without considering that there just was a big expense with the car that nee that needed to be fixed or the house just had roof damage and we have to pay the deductible.. I would love to connect with you guys, my hearts desires are to be a team when it comes to money and it stop being a sour point in our marraige
28 years married, headed toward divorce for some of these very reasons. Glad I stumbled upon your channel. Thank you.
So good!! 9 and 10 are the ways I got out of debt.. I trust God and I give
Another great one and keeping it real at the same time ! Thank you Ken and Tabatha for sharing. And thank you Lord for bringing these podcasts across my path 🙏
Hall are preaching to me husbands soul atp. He’s all about saying no to birthdays, parties, trips etc. and I’ll all about saying yes we will worry about it later. Let me change my views ASAP. We want to be homeowners sooner than later.
OOOH YES. Thank you Jesus for this podcast. God bless the Claytor's always. 💖
Thanks for listening 🙌🏾
WOW! this video really helped me about budgeting money. God was like "this video is for you" hahah Conformation.
Thankyou for this video! Y’all have me fired up to get my husband and I’s budget straight.
Y'all got this!!!
I love this😊 this is so honest and real. I’m subscribing.
Thank you for your content and May the Great Lord continue to Bless you both.
Thank you so much for sharing. I am not married yet but this episode has inspired me to start taking care of my finances. Not just management of my budget but stewardship. That was a light bulb moment
Be blessed y’all
Glad to know it helped ❤
My God he checks her credit amazing. That’s love
Needs and wants .I need to pay with cash, I want to have debt. Nice interview.
This message resonate well with my situation right now...i have learnt quite alot God bless you guys ...following from Kenya 🇰🇪 Africa.
Thanks for the video! FYI the sound balance is heavily off to the right, so it sounds weird on headphones. Thought you’d want to know!
This is so good .
Love you guys!!!! Y'all are the best....Keep them coming!!!
Thank you for some clarity on our to steward finances as couple, instead of his or her it's ours, God Bless you Guy's Abundantly also Hoping God Blesses Tabatha with a $20 000.00 bike let's not limit our God he created everything under The sun what is bike to Him, Thank you once again in The Mighty name of Jesus Christ
This is one of those ones!
Powerful
Really love and appreciate this content! I love the focus on intentionality!
I use to do that with the envelopes lol budgeting my grandmother taught me well lol
I am all aboard with all you say but the issue is getting my husband on board. He constantly uses his credit card and refuses to give it up. I’ve shown him how to budget and explained it but he claims I’m being controlling. I’ve been praying that God transform his thinking.
I am from DC as well now living in Central Florida.
Come visit us in Orlando. We would love to see you!
Great information to share and thanks so much. Please what do you do if your spouse is the spending type and does not want to be in synch with you? For 13 years i have been pushing for us to live on a budget so we can pay our cards off but it's not working. I have tried every means possible, but she will agree for a week and revert back to her old ways of living.
Beautiful couple!
Thank you Mr.and Mrs I am blessed to know you guys I appreciate you Sir and Madam I pray God will give me second chance in Marriage so I can be the best gift to my Future husband , and be a blessing to Glorify God Amen❤
My mom cosigned for my first car i paid it off! She cosigned for me i think it is knowing the way people treat things and their character! I would only cosign for my child i should know by living with them whether they are responsible or not! I hardly ever borrow money i did that as a teen and it has to be someone i know is good with money who will pay me back still then i hesitate! I hate when people ask to borrow money i hardly trust it!
I CAN DO ALL THINGS THROUGH CHRIST WHICH STRENGTHENS ME
PHIL 4:13
I've been married 12 years now, and my husband and I are Christians. We have always had separate accounts. We both have a savings and checking account together , but my has his own personal account with his income from his checks, and I have my own personal account . He says he doesn't want our accounts together 😢.
Yesss to if you are stronger financial background help the other partner out But what if that partner does not want to listen!
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What are the scriptures on finance/money?
I’m a tither and sower! Overly so that I may give and be in lack… is that wrong?
Do you have an account for your family?
How do yall combine fiance.. do you just put it all together no matter who has the most money already?
THEY STRUGGLE BECAUSE IF THEY HAVE SEPARATE ACCOUNTS & THEY HAVE THE.MENTALITY THAT YOU MAKE YOUR MONEY, I MAKE MY MONEY- IN A NUTSHELL ITS STILL DIVISION- WHEN IT SHOULD BE OUR MONEY LIKE YOU SAY.
I think people lend money and don’t give a time frame of owed back 😂 like hey imma lend it but don’t give a due date
What does your major fast consist of?
Hi. Recently my husband has started to take out his wages and anything else that gets paid to him out of the joint account. He was leaving it in there. Apart from he would take two lots of money out each month and put it in his other accounts. So he would leave the rest in there. Now all of a sudden he is taking out everything that gets paid to him. Yet there are bills coming out this account and he is taking other money out of it like for his car service and mechanics payments out of there. Yet he isn't putting anything back in there. So it getting less in there. Why is he doing this. Why does he now love his money. He is Christian. Well meant to be. What has happened to him. Why is he doing this to us both
Hey. . . Have you asked him about this? What is he doing with all the money that he takes out?
I'm curious do you make less money and that's why you want his money into that account. Also sound like ready for divorce
AMOS 3:3 PS 133 BOTH NEED IF ALLOW ROMANS 12:2 JOHN 8:36 IT IS WRITTEN
The way she didn’t even know how he fixed her credit 😳😳 that’s embarrassing
Great video otherwise lollll
Good Lord 🤦🏽♀️
You can get a car for $10,000 dollars 😂 but
a bike 🚴 ….I don’t think so even if a millionaire.
BRO..... Ken, why are you putting your wife's business out like that.... You came across wrong bro
PLLEAAAASE, for the love of God... Stop interrupting your wife when she speaks!
She's a woman, so frequently guiding her will be necessary.
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