If your reading this in your not ok just know God has a special plan for you life in the pain you are going through you will overcome in walk into joy & purpose
I'm a man and I can say this song hits deep I get emotional cry everytime I hear it. I can't even help it , just brings so many thoughts and memories and current feelings out. Wishing I had a real support system or friends. Y'all pray for a brother
She's talking about God it's crazy how people don't see it hear what she's saying she's losing herself and she feels her relationship with God slipping away. I feel this in my soul
Yah Dula well u better get it right before he comes. He’s coming for a church without spot wrinkle or blemish. He ain’t going to wait up for u... or me or anyone. So we gotta get it right, everyday he grants us mercy to wake us up is anthr day to read the bible, pray get to know him more. Don’t waste that time :)
This song is about her admitting to her feelings of uneasiness and discomfort about her relationship. In the live performances of this song on the ”I Used to Know Her” tour, H.E.R. explains how this generation likes to hide their true feelings and pretend like everything is fine. She wants the listeners to know “it’s okay not to be okay”.
I appreciate H.E.R. music because it has authentic substance and that's what got my attention. It's not even about hits, it's about she's giving us music✌❤
@@kimberlylauryn2773 it seem like everyone else just making song's but I like the way she gives honest perspective that's relatable to everyone. I believe that she will be around as long as she chooses to be✌
She's setting the tone for ppl to keep it 💯 unapologetically. It's okay to not be okay which is the first step in getting better. People need to be unafraid and forthcoming to receive help instead of shouldering the weight of things by themselves. Many wifey in silence however There's a lot of support in sharing with people that are worthy and care for you. This is a great song to teach great lessons 👍 kudos! ❤
Nicosha Greer This song is a whole mood. I love it when you can finally admit you’re not ok. Going through things on your own is hard and it messes up your mental to the point where you don’t want to deal with people anymore. That is where I’m at, I’m not ok but I’m ok with myself being unapologetically honest and true.
Nicosha Greer For real!!!!! Prayer works, we also have to find our balance between ourselves and others. Know when to say no and when to choose ourselves in a world full of choices.
Such rare quality in a younger people. It's so appreciated, beautiful and worthy of our acknowledgment hat H.E.R doesn't just have talent but gifted. Thanks for sharing your musical world with us. ❤️
I’ve been going through mental breakdowns lately my life hasn’t been the best! Many people that are blood have turned their backs towards me. The only person I have is my wife. Money is NOT EVERYTHING ladies and gents it does NOT buy you happiness!!! thank you for this song it speaks when I can’t. It’s the kind of pain where you drive off and rethink your entity of life. Cry in silence. Cry when nobody is looking. Literally slipping away and loosing faith. You know the kind of laugh that’s full of Guilt when I’ve cried all damn day. Heavy burden. Hurts my chest. I’ve been going through it all and I’m not okay at all. Thank you for this song,words & the voice.
I, too am lost. Your words resonate with me, bring me to tears. I hope like you for the light at the end of the tunnel and do know it is all of Gods plan, somedays are just hard!! I will stay strong so you have to, too!
Man I remember going through some really rough times in the last 10 years in my life especially battling with depression and anxiety and so much life things. I'm so thankful I never discovered this song during that time, because I woulda been one basket case 😂. But no seriously this song helps me reflect on those times, and I'm thankful to God at age 23, because it's a reminder that I made it to the light at the end of that tunnel and it truly serves a reminder God is good. I guess what I'm trying to say is it's ok to not be ok, and don't be afraid to talk to your family and friends whenever you going through something. Just remember at the end of the day, God put you here for a reason. This ain't the time to give up, this the time to keep going. Keep your heads up. LOVE IS LOVE 🫶🏾
Hey ladies and gentlemen👋 Just a message to all with partners. If you constantly have anxiety about your partner cheating and always fight yourself on whether they are good for you or not then 9 times out of 10 they're bad for you, not good. And especially if you can't be yourself around this person. That's not real love.
@@nicolec825 You just have to be strong and confident. Know your worth. There's a lot of guys who will tear all of that down but you have to be strong minded and always trust your gut.
@@nicolec825 I'm telling you. You may be thinking about all the bad signs but then switch back to the good. If you can't choose which one it is, then let go.
Hi y'all. if you're not okay I got u, take time for you right now, it's ok to cry, it's ok to feel weak, to be sad. But please don't give up. You're strong, you're a beautiful human being and you're here for a reason. I love you and you're going to make it. One day you'll be okay I swear. Just stay strong and keep walking, one step after another you'll go threw the darkness, depression, anxiety, mourning or anything you're going threw right now. You are strong. You are good. You can achieve it. One day somebody told me: "Look how far a car can go by night just with 2 meters of light ahead." You don't need to see far to go far, even if you think you won't never be able to move on, I swear you will. Just don't give up. Love
[Verse 1] Sick to my stomach Four in the morning, I can't sleep In another city I'm worried 'bout where you may be Feels like I've been here Stressing the things that I can see Where do you go? What do you do? Without we, without me [Chorus] I'm not OK, I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith Slipping away, you're slipping away I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK [Verse 2] Feel a little guilty, uh I feel like it's written all over me Tryna find a balance, trusting you, trusting me Feel a little heavy Holdin' onto something that I don't need I've been going through it, yeah I've been going through it [Chorus] I'm not OK, I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith Slipping away, you're slipping away I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK [Bridge] All I want (all I want) Take me home Hold me close (yeah) Please don't let me go I don't know, I don't know Can you call from wherever you are? Swear I feel (yeah) Hold me tight, hold me tight Makes me cry She run so far, here we are, here we are [Chorus] I'm not OK, I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith Slipping away, you're slipping away I'm not OK, no I'm not OK I'm not OK
This was me almost 2 years ago. Things do get better. Surround yourself with people who truly love you and if not...this may be a journey you have to do alone which is what I had to do...alot of hard work but you'll see how strong you truly are, how special you truly are...God be with you all who are struggling with depression , sadness and abuse. 😇 up 💖💖
This song is a whole mood 😩🥰💕. I love it when you can finally admit you’re not ok. Going through things on your own is hard. It messes up your mental to the point where you don’t want to deal with people anymore. That is where I’m at, I’m not ok but I’m ok with myself being unapologetically honest and true.
Crazy how music speaks to your situation and your soul...And then you read the comments and realize that you are not alone. Love and healing to us all! Thank you H.E.R and the writers for getting me through it with your work....and sharing your soul with us.
Lol I got confused b/c I didn't remember commenting b/c we have the same name.......then realised we have a different photo. Anyway Hi Hope You Feel Better!!!
This really helps when you need to just admit how you feel and stop being unrealistic abt it we’re human . I don’t understand why we follow the trend of not showing what you feel tht doesn’t make you weak it makes you real pain is real ,tears are real it’s not something to hide a lot of people push you towards tht and thts not healthy
Heard this live. I've seen a lot of artists in concert but nothing has ever moved me like this. Honestly, I'm not even sad or depressed, but the song is just so human. We all feel, or have felt like this at some point. It's just so vulnerable. Kudos to H.E.R.
She's talking about losing herself and feeling her relationship with God slipping away the voices in your head are trying to save you acknowledge the Lord and he shall direct your path
Yah Dula you should be careful w/ speaking for ppl. It’s a huge misconception and bad habit in the bad community thinking it’s God speaking. mental illness is a very serious thing what ahnya is saying could mean diff things.....nothing wrong seeking God Bt folks also cave going through diff experiences and that is OKAY to acknowledge and then seek help 😉
@@Cassykakes you're absolutely right I was caught up in the message of the song. Thank you for the advice and correction! I greatly appreciate it! God bless you beautiful soul
Why do you hold on to something you don't need? Sounds like self inflicted pain...what happened to happy music..up lifting...I like this groove and smoothness,,but....Im old school...back when things and music was happy,,some sad..but not dark...Love yourself more then ANYONE..EXCEPT GOD...dont give people the power over you to hurt and control your emotions,,, GO STRONG...
I WAS not ok, now I am. Thank u HER! This is everything! And if you’re someone that is going through a hard situation, believe in yourself. Everything will be alright ✨🙏🏽🌷
Listening to this on while getting dressed getting ready for work today. God bless this talented young lady and beautiful spirit. This song just has this amazing calming effect. Thank you H.E.R., your music is way before it's time sister.
im dealing with so much stress and anxiety that I feel like its affecting my relationship. I certainly feel like I had a close relationship with God, but everything just feels so clouded...I just pray everything will be okay. I think this covid pandemic brought out the worst in me...being inside my own negative thoughts towards myself. I need to learn how to trust God again and to have faith in myself. I need to love myself.
I cry soon as she starts 🤦🏽♀️ this song hits me like no other I can’t even describe the feeling I feel that goes threw me can’t even let this song play the whole time out I swear 😔
H.E.R is the best in the game right now, that is including your favourite! At this point she is level with Sade, Beyonce, Alicia Keys in terms of quality of music, uniqueness in sound and her pure hearted approach. And that is a fact! I just hope her team continues the excellent job they are doing and hopefully maintain this momentum.
I’m feeling this completely right now. Every step I take is in sync with this beat and ‘I’m not ok’ is repeating in my head but you know what it just goes to show it’s okay not to be ok. I’m not the only one I’ve been going through it but I’ll also get THROUGH it. Thank you H.E.R for this wonderful relatable anthem 🙌🏽❤️
I swear you come up with music that just speaks to my soul ... it's like you literally make music around moments in my life ... I'm not okay, is the perfect song to admitting that your simply not okay, and there is nothing wrong with realizing you need a break
In a industry full of quick fixes, ratchet ignant music and zero substance acts COMES A TALENTED BRILLIANT MYSTIQUE FILLED amazing young queen who's music is organic, original and enveloping.
I felt this song so deeply trying to get over someone. So emotionally attached, feeling hopeless but still continued pushing as he kept pulling away. Weeks went by with no contact and I felt like I couldn’t take it. I felt like I couldn’t live without him and I felt so empty. But still I took it day by day. Some days I felt okay others I sat and cried. But that’s all apart of healing. It takes time but I eventually got there. And I am still healing. I still feel sad sometimes but I also feel free. I feel more confident. I finally feel like I can live without him. And I realized it’s not healthy to be emotionally attached to people. People come and go as they please so it’s important to love yourself and let people be free if they choose to be. Work on loving yourself and becoming the person you need to be for YOU. Not only is that good for your health but that also attracts healthy people in your life. It will take time but it is possible. Take it from me.! I did it and before I felt like I couldn’t even breathe without this person.
I’m 3 months into trying to learn to live without her. Some days my best days are the ones I’m in denial the most. I’ve tossed out pride & begged for a second chance. I’ve hurt others by offering myself into a new relationship waaaay before I was ready. I realize there is a remedy to this heart break but I fight the only real solution to my problem: TIME. Your words from a year ago helps me now. I’ll screenshot them and refer to them tomorrow. And tomorrow’s tomorrow. You give me hope. For that I say thanks…😔
I dont think people understood the meaning of this song. She didn't trust him, she was always worried about what he was doing or where he was at when overall, he was probably working or doing something not harmful to the relationship. That sh** can be overwhelming to any man that is innocent but being accused of something. She's saying she isn't ok because she is mentally compromised and her actions is making him pull away from her. I'm in a relationship like that right now and I HAVE pulled away and can no longer see myself with her but I feel bad for her because I know she cares for me.
I only let ONE person in my life make me feel away. I was sick and didn't eat for like 3 days. I won't say I will never love that hard again. But I doubt it. It took a lot out of me.
I'm Honestly Not Okay I Struggle With Music Everyday, Trying To Come Up With A Perfect Sound. Sometimes I Forget How Fun It's Is To Stick To What You Love. Im Getting Married And I'm Know I Have Issues With Trying To Be Emotionally Stable. I've Learned That It's Ok Not To Be Okay It's Life
Music is supposed to inspire. It comes from the heart and it should be a passion you love doing don't let your lust for music out weigh your love for music. Don't worry about the perfect sound because if it comes from the heart it will be perfect trust me and put God first in everything you do confess and repent to him and tell him you're struggling because you didn't include him in your path acknowledge him and seek him with all of your heart and soul and he shall direct your path
This song makes my world fly and float like a spaceship while going through a lifetime of sinking depression. This has been on repeat so much. I think I found a song that could be the soundtrack to my life.
As soon as she said “LOSING MY FAITH” omg that shit touch my soul!! I had goosebumps running all through me
I cried as soon as I heard, I'm losing my faith 🤞🏾
facts !! losing my faith & slipping away made me cry .
Me too
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@@JustinThomas-tn4bgin yl
Black America this song was inspired by, written for, and dedicated to you.
If your reading this in your not ok just know God has a special plan for you life in the pain you are going through you will overcome in walk into joy & purpose
Juuleeinn I’m not ok but I will be ..
Amen
Needed this 💪
Thank you so much for this comment. I really needed this! 😢
amen
I'm a man and I can say this song hits deep I get emotional cry everytime I hear it. I can't even help it , just brings so many thoughts and memories and current feelings out. Wishing I had a real support system or friends. Y'all pray for a brother
I hope you're still here. I hoped it turned out ok for you 🌹
I wasn't okay too! I am proud I asked for help and removed myself from others while I healed and got counseling. God is good. Be blessed 🙌
❤😅😅
“Stressing thethings I can’t see , where do you go , what do you do without me “ really felt that in my soul 😔
Tiara Michelle same😔
Yuuuup
Tiara Michelle pain😭😭
What do you do without me!?
I lost my daughter...she was 17...I’m not ok😭
She's talking about God it's crazy how people don't see it hear what she's saying she's losing herself and she feels her relationship with God slipping away. I feel this in my soul
Yah Dula well u better get it right before he comes. He’s coming for a church without spot wrinkle or blemish. He ain’t going to wait up for u... or me or anyone. So we gotta get it right, everyday he grants us mercy to wake us up is anthr day to read the bible, pray get to know him more. Don’t waste that time :)
no she's not
Omg you are so right we make the song what we want but this song is about her and god and because of that i related to this song even more.
Its ambiguous the meaning is open to the listener but thats also a valid interpretation of the song.
This song is about her admitting to her feelings of uneasiness and discomfort about her relationship. In the live performances of this song on the ”I Used to Know Her” tour, H.E.R. explains how this generation likes to hide their true feelings and pretend like everything is fine. She wants the listeners to know “it’s okay not to be okay”.
I appreciate H.E.R. music because it has authentic substance and that's what got my attention. It's not even about hits, it's about she's giving us music✌❤
True Story she's really one of the legends of our generation
It's H.E.R not H.R.R
True Story, I agree with you. I'm going to see HER at Winter Fest in Atlanta on December 15, 2018.
@@laylalikestosing2307 thank you for the correction. Didn't realize it✌
@@kimberlylauryn2773 it seem like everyone else just making song's but I like the way she gives honest perspective that's relatable to everyone. I believe that she will be around as long as she chooses to be✌
GOD be with us all 🙏🏾💕
Ugh finally somebody said their not okay. I can definitely relate to this song. Yes H.E.R. loveeee her so much!!!!!!!!!!!
She's setting the tone for ppl to keep it 💯 unapologetically. It's okay to not be okay which is the first step in getting better. People need to be unafraid and forthcoming to receive help instead of shouldering the weight of things by themselves. Many wifey in silence however There's a lot of support in sharing with people that are worthy and care for you. This is a great song to teach great lessons 👍 kudos! ❤
Nicosha Greer This song is a whole mood. I love it when you can finally admit you’re not ok. Going through things on your own is hard and it messes up your mental to the point where you don’t want to deal with people anymore. That is where I’m at, I’m not ok but I’m ok with myself being unapologetically honest and true.
Amara Fisher yes going through the same thing trying to stay afloat. We just have to stay prayed up!!
Nicosha Greer For real!!!!! Prayer works, we also have to find our balance between ourselves and others. Know when to say no and when to choose ourselves in a world full of choices.
Samantha Covington yess I love her I’m glad I went to see her at the Chris brown concert ❤️❤️🤞🏾
This girl has heart and soul.
truly amazing
Such rare quality in a younger people. It's so appreciated, beautiful and worthy of our acknowledgment hat H.E.R doesn't just have talent but gifted. Thanks for sharing your musical world with us. ❤️
I know dats right!!!!
Big facts😭😭😭
I swear she does... she’s speaks to my soul every time.. I’m waiting on her and Lauren Hill to make a song
I saw H.E.R this past Saturday. She sung this live. She sounded just this good live. Brought tears to my eyes. Such a dope artist and spirit.
Protect this woman at all costs...her music is so damn pure
I’ve been going through mental breakdowns lately my life hasn’t been the best! Many people that are blood have turned their backs towards me. The only person I have is my wife. Money is NOT EVERYTHING ladies and gents it does NOT buy you happiness!!! thank you for this song it speaks when I can’t. It’s the kind of pain where you drive off and rethink your entity of life. Cry in silence. Cry when nobody is looking. Literally slipping away and loosing faith. You know the kind of laugh that’s full of
Guilt when I’ve cried all damn day. Heavy burden. Hurts my chest. I’ve been going through it all and I’m not okay at all. Thank you for this song,words & the voice.
Jaiden Itis I’m praying for you .. sending love and positive energy your way 💞
Jaiden Itis amen, stay strong. I felt that.
i hope you are okay now.
Jaiden Itis hope things have gotten better for you. I’m experiencing this exact same thing currently.
I, too am lost. Your words resonate with me, bring me to tears. I hope like you for the light at the end of the tunnel and do know it is all of Gods plan, somedays are just hard!! I will stay strong so you have to, too!
2:23 that blend is healing. Wow.
randomess17 yessss 💯
Yassss! It's so sweet and smooth.
Man I remember going through some really rough times in the last 10 years in my life especially battling with depression and anxiety and so much life things. I'm so thankful I never discovered this song during that time, because I woulda been one basket case 😂. But no seriously this song helps me reflect on those times, and I'm thankful to God at age 23, because it's a reminder that I made it to the light at the end of that tunnel and it truly serves a reminder God is good.
I guess what I'm trying to say is it's ok to not be ok, and don't be afraid to talk to your family and friends whenever you going through something. Just remember at the end of the day, God put you here for a reason. This ain't the time to give up, this the time to keep going. Keep your heads up. LOVE IS LOVE 🫶🏾
Hey ladies and gentlemen👋 Just a message to all with partners. If you constantly have anxiety about your partner cheating and always fight yourself on whether they are good for you or not then 9 times out of 10 they're bad for you, not good. And especially if you can't be yourself around this person. That's not real love.
NaNa NaNa you’re so right I wish I could let go of my situation everything you said is correct accept the being myself around him 😢
@@nicolec825 You just have to be strong and confident. Know your worth. There's a lot of guys who will tear all of that down but you have to be strong minded and always trust your gut.
@@nicolec825 I'm telling you. You may be thinking about all the bad signs but then switch back to the good. If you can't choose which one it is, then let go.
NaNa NaNa thank you so much!
@@nicolec825 No problem 😘 Hope everything goes good 4 you!
I shed some real tears when I heard this. Wowwwww
C Gray same! Especially the “losing my faith part” gosh 😞
This devine feminine is lyrically, and soulfully a true blessing for her generation. Love & Light to you Queen ♡♥♡♥
Hi y'all. if you're not okay I got u, take time for you right now, it's ok to cry, it's ok to feel weak, to be sad. But please don't give up. You're strong, you're a beautiful human being and you're here for a reason. I love you and you're going to make it. One day you'll be okay I swear. Just stay strong and keep walking, one step after another you'll go threw the darkness, depression, anxiety, mourning or anything you're going threw right now. You are strong. You are good. You can achieve it.
One day somebody told me: "Look how far a car can go by night just with 2 meters of light ahead." You don't need to see far to go far, even if you think you won't never be able to move on, I swear you will. Just don't give up. Love
Aïna 😢thank u so much
@@user-ut1qh3wb8k u're welcome sweet heart
Thank you so much ❤️
❤👌🏽
i love you God bless you
To ANYBODY reading this I LOVE YOU, AND YES YOU MATTER!!!!
[Verse 1]
Sick to my stomach
Four in the morning, I can't sleep
In another city
I'm worried 'bout where you may be
Feels like I've been here
Stressing the things that I can see
Where do you go? What do you do?
Without we, without me
[Chorus]
I'm not OK, I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith
Slipping away, you're slipping away
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
[Verse 2]
Feel a little guilty, uh
I feel like it's written all over me
Tryna find a balance, trusting you, trusting me
Feel a little heavy
Holdin' onto something that I don't need
I've been going through it, yeah
I've been going through it
[Chorus]
I'm not OK, I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith
Slipping away, you're slipping away
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
[Bridge]
All I want (all I want)
Take me home
Hold me close (yeah)
Please don't let me go
I don't know, I don't know
Can you call from wherever you are?
Swear I feel (yeah)
Hold me tight, hold me tight
Makes me cry
She run so far, here we are, here we are
[Chorus]
I'm not OK, I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
Losing my faith, I'm losing my faith
Slipping away, you're slipping away
I'm not OK, no I'm not OK
I'm not OK
goldie 23 thank you
Thanks😊
goldie 23 Thankss For Taking Time To Do This😫😘😘
Thank you
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Late night car vibes with the windows down.
It's snowing here can't do that 😂😂 lol
A freakin MOOD
Fritz Alcindor Jr. a vibe. A concept.
While it’s raining
Fritz Alcindor Jr. VIBESSSS
This was me almost 2 years ago. Things do get better. Surround yourself with people who truly love you and if not...this may be a journey you have to do alone which is what I had to do...alot of hard work but you'll see how strong you truly are, how special you truly are...God be with you all who are struggling with depression , sadness and abuse. 😇 up 💖💖
This song is a whole mood 😩🥰💕. I love it when you can finally admit you’re not ok. Going through things on your own is hard. It messes up your mental to the point where you don’t want to deal with people anymore. That is where I’m at, I’m not ok but I’m ok with myself being unapologetically honest and true.
Perfectly said.
Perfectly imperfect
Crying so hard, as soon as I hears this song. I'm literally goin thru this lyric by lyric I felt that! 😭💯💕
Same
You should be fine now😊
Soo relatable for me right now.😢😢 "Feel a little heavy.. Holding on to something I don't need I been going through it, I been going through it..."
Aminata same sis 😓😥 but we’ll make it through🙏🏾
You’re not alone at all!!
I truly feel you . Listen to this song while tears stream down my face .... Will I ever be ok ????
I felt that...too😢
Me too 🙁
Listening to this song in tears...
I'm not ok...
I've just said a prayer for you to feel better. God bless you!
Me too 😔
"Stressing the things I can't see" is encouragement to go try to see, but this world has definitely been off balance 💯
Crazy how music speaks to your situation and your soul...And then you read the comments and realize that you are not alone. Love and healing to us all! Thank you H.E.R and the writers for getting me through it with your work....and sharing your soul with us.
H.E.R. got me up crying at 12:40 in the morning with this song 😔😢😭 Why did she put me in my feelings like this ?!
Jazmyne Paez the same
Facts!!!! Im going thru it cry then get mad then sad again then go shower nd off to work! I go life must go on but im not ok
tell me why i read this looked at the time and its actually 12:40 like dead ass
@@meirrrahwilliams1749 wtf me too!! lmao
Me right now 12:21 lolll probably will have this on repeat for about 20 more mins
She’s speaking to every broken heart! Masterful 🙌🏾
❤...but once again H.E.R makes a song about my current emotional state 😭
Lol I got confused b/c I didn't remember commenting b/c we have the same name.......then realised we have a different photo. Anyway Hi Hope You Feel Better!!!
@@michellejohnson4728 wow yeah that's crazy I would think the same thing lol
Amen to that.
This really helps when you need to just admit how you feel and stop being unrealistic abt it we’re human . I don’t understand why we follow the trend of not showing what you feel tht doesn’t make you weak it makes you real pain is real ,tears are real it’s not something to hide a lot of people push you towards tht and thts not healthy
starts crying my eyes out
This is R&B calling out to the culture. Take heed, take heart and shine on...
Mature beyond her years with the ability to relate to her peers and those of us who are a bit older...great music!
What happens when you grow up around the industry. The relating to older ones part
Im young and i still understand every word shes saying
She's so relatable and I I just love her
Felt this song so much.
I Love H.E.R., I’ll always be able to relate to her music.
Heard this live. I've seen a lot of artists in concert but nothing has ever moved me like this. Honestly, I'm not even sad or depressed, but the song is just so human. We all feel, or have felt like this at some point. It's just so vulnerable. Kudos to H.E.R.
Walter Tucker well said 🧡
Who's still listening to H.E.R during this quarantine in 2020?
Try 2021. This might be an instant classic
2024 ❤
This song speaks volumes it’s like the voices in my head is all in this song
She's talking about losing herself and feeling her relationship with God slipping away the voices in your head are trying to save you acknowledge the Lord and he shall direct your path
Yah Dula you should be careful w/ speaking for ppl. It’s a huge misconception and bad habit in the bad community thinking it’s God speaking. mental illness is a very serious thing what ahnya is saying could mean diff things.....nothing wrong seeking God Bt folks also cave going through diff experiences and that is OKAY to acknowledge and then seek help 😉
@@Cassykakes you're absolutely right I was caught up in the message of the song. Thank you for the advice and correction! I greatly appreciate it! God bless you beautiful soul
"HOLDING ONTO SOMETHING I DONT NEED.." 💔💔💔💔💔
how HER know?! #imnotokay 😕
When she said that she was talking about lust
Why do you hold on to something you don't need? Sounds like self inflicted pain...what happened to happy music..up lifting...I like this groove and smoothness,,but....Im old school...back when things and music was happy,,some sad..but not dark...Love yourself more then ANYONE..EXCEPT GOD...dont give people the power over you to hurt and control your emotions,,, GO STRONG...
She goes there!! So young... how does she know our hearts so well... deep...truly gifted woman
to God be the glory!!!!!!!!!!
This honesty and simplicity is so refreshing,
I WAS not ok, now I am. Thank u HER! This is everything!
And if you’re someone that is going through a hard situation, believe in yourself. Everything will be alright ✨🙏🏽🌷
Nathalia Alves God bless you 🙏
H.E.R is the best female musician right now 🚫🧢
Made me cry instantly.... 😭😓im not ok....
I Imagine the clarity in the original studio version,this is a
beautiful composition
Listening to this on while getting dressed getting ready for work today. God bless this talented young lady and beautiful spirit. This song just has this amazing calming effect. Thank you H.E.R., your music is way before it's time sister.
If your reading this, then you must listen to this song with headphones.
Yesss 🎧
I was just thinking should I put my headphones in? Lol
🎧🎶💖🔥
Thank you I just put mine in 😊
@@deymichelle trust me its soo worth it
Such a good song, especially if you're in your feelings. So talented, she just keeps churning out hit after hit!
im dealing with so much stress and anxiety that I feel like its affecting my relationship. I certainly feel like I had a close relationship with God, but everything just feels so clouded...I just pray everything will be okay. I think this covid pandemic brought out the worst in me...being inside my own negative thoughts towards myself. I need to learn how to trust God again and to have faith in myself. I need to love myself.
I cry soon as she starts 🤦🏽♀️ this song hits me like no other I can’t even describe the feeling I feel that goes threw me can’t even let this song play the whole time out I swear 😔
hope you’ve had a year of growth❤️
I love H.E.R soo much❤❤❤ I jus can let my emotions loose when I listen to her songs I swear😪like if you can relate...
Current situation 🔥🔥🔥
I felt this song so much. Thank you. It’s okay to admit things aren’t okay. That’s how you get *okay* ❤️
I just realized I listened to this at *4 in the morning.*
It's all about repenting that's what she's doing, confess everything you feel and did to Lord and he will surely forgive you and will walk with you
Yah Dula Amen
@@jjthejetplane1794 God bless !
H.E.R Music is dope🔥🔥🔥💜👑💯
It’s like she reads me, us.. she turns our thoughts into art in the most beautiful way
It's ok to not be ok. Just know that in the end all will be OK. God sees and will bring you out of whatever it is.
Clearly you’re in my dreams, my hopes, and my fears.
A song YOU can CRY to. Feel alil heavy, let it go!
all her songs be so relatable like dang sis 😭♥️
Like everyone of them !! 👌💯
😭😭😭
Dead ass..
Crazy thing is she's only 21... Like sis who hurt you. She's Killin the game.
Dorette Evans i didn’t even know she was just 21 whew
Smoked to this all night. Thank you for this work h.e.r
This can transition perfectly into "gone away" 🙌🏾🙏🏾💙
I love when God sends me to sings that resonate with what im going through. Just confirmation thank you God for your signs
R&B Princess 😍💕
HERE BEFORE THIS BLOWS UP 🔥🔥🔥 I LOVE IT 🤞🏾💜
Yes
OFFICIAL NISHA, yeah...me too 😃✌.
You didn’t come to this song because you’re ok but I hope by the time you leave, you leave with a little more faith that things will be 🕊️
Piano changes like crazy 🔥🔥🔥
Is it just me but I really can relate to this song ....like if you can relate
SANG H E R YASSSS
It's not just you
Same.
same..
It’s like the lyrics were written for me .. that’s how much I relate
I love H.E.R, she deserves multiple Grammy's
H.E.R is the best in the game right now, that is including your favourite! At this point she is level with Sade, Beyonce, Alicia Keys in terms of quality of music, uniqueness in sound and her pure hearted approach. And that is a fact! I just hope her team continues the excellent job they are doing and hopefully maintain this momentum.
Man i been through so much and im not ok i been seek therapy but sometimes its not enough. I know im not alone. Thanks
That piano cord change at the end gets me every time. Chills
I’m feeling this completely right now. Every step I take is in sync with this beat and ‘I’m not ok’ is repeating in my head but you know what it just goes to show it’s okay not to be ok. I’m not the only one I’ve been going through it but I’ll also get THROUGH it. Thank you H.E.R for this wonderful relatable anthem 🙌🏽❤️
HER you did it again... Thank you. I'm okay with not being okay because you made it okay..
Welcome home RNB miss you so much thank you H.E.R .
🤦🏾♂️😩Help me Lord. I'm not ok....💬 Thank you H.E.R
I swear you come up with music that just speaks to my soul ... it's like you literally make music around moments in my life ... I'm not okay, is the perfect song to admitting that your simply not okay, and there is nothing wrong with realizing you need a break
This girl is full roots and have deep meditation, passion and soul.
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In a industry full of quick fixes, ratchet ignant music and zero substance acts COMES A TALENTED BRILLIANT MYSTIQUE FILLED amazing young queen who's music is organic, original and enveloping.
2018 has been such as mess😔 and somehow this makes it all better😊❤
Haha. What about 2020 tho
this speaks to me soo much . no matter how much i say iam okaay ; im really not . but im waiting on many blessings 😭
Beautiful lovely song...How I feel everyday for over a year about my king.. I'm not ok . He hurts
Wow..... this song just came at the right moment of my life, she just expressed it all...💙
Listen to those lyrics!
Thank you h.e.r. You’re helping me let go of someone of 6 years
❤ ❤ she makes music for those unspoken feelings
Carissia Love so true! I love H.E.R so much❣️
these are such raw and real feelings! just remember that its not happening to you, its happening for you & for the greater good❤
I felt this song so deeply trying to get over someone. So emotionally attached, feeling hopeless but still continued pushing as he kept pulling away. Weeks went by with no contact and I felt like I couldn’t take it. I felt like I couldn’t live without him and I felt so empty. But still I took it day by day. Some days I felt okay others I sat and cried. But that’s all apart of healing. It takes time but I eventually got there. And I am still healing. I still feel sad sometimes but I also feel free. I feel more confident. I finally feel like I can live without him. And I realized it’s not healthy to be emotionally attached to people. People come and go as they please so it’s important to love yourself and let people be free if they choose to be. Work on loving yourself and becoming the person you need to be for YOU. Not only is that good for your health but that also attracts healthy people in your life. It will take time but it is possible. Take it from me.! I did it and before I felt like I couldn’t even breathe without this person.
In the end your ok and you are worthy of much more then he could give you, you're strong, you're loved, you're are Beautiful 🙏❤
I’m 3 months into trying to learn to live without her. Some days my best days are the ones I’m in denial the most. I’ve tossed out pride & begged for a second chance. I’ve hurt others by offering myself into a new relationship waaaay before I was ready. I realize there is a remedy to this heart break but I fight the only real solution to my problem: TIME. Your words from a year ago helps me now. I’ll screenshot them and refer to them tomorrow. And tomorrow’s tomorrow. You give me hope. For that I say thanks…😔
@@jonathonmcneil3442 I’m so glad I’m able to help
I dont think people understood the meaning of this song. She didn't trust him, she was always worried about what he was doing or where he was at when overall, he was probably working or doing something not harmful to the relationship. That sh** can be overwhelming to any man that is innocent but being accused of something. She's saying she isn't ok because she is mentally compromised and her actions is making him pull away from her. I'm in a relationship like that right now and I HAVE pulled away and can no longer see myself with her but I feel bad for her because I know she cares for me.
I only let ONE person in my life make me feel away. I was sick and didn't eat for like 3 days. I won't say I will never love that hard again. But I doubt it. It took a lot out of me.
I'm Honestly Not Okay I Struggle With Music Everyday, Trying To Come Up With A Perfect Sound. Sometimes I Forget How Fun It's Is To Stick To What You Love. Im Getting Married And I'm Know I Have Issues With Trying To Be Emotionally Stable. I've Learned That It's Ok Not To Be Okay It's Life
Music is supposed to inspire. It comes from the heart and it should be a passion you love doing don't let your lust for music out weigh your love for music. Don't worry about the perfect sound because if it comes from the heart it will be perfect trust me and put God first in everything you do confess and repent to him and tell him you're struggling because you didn't include him in your path acknowledge him and seek him with all of your heart and soul and he shall direct your path
This song makes my world fly and float like a spaceship while going through a lifetime of sinking depression. This has been on repeat so much. I think I found a song that could be the soundtrack to my life.
🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥 She does my soul good....Love HER
Tryna find the balance
Trust in you
Trust in me
🖤🖤🖤🖤
These chords give me chills. The lyrics break my heart. ❤❤❤
Hands down one of the best songs.
HOLYYY SHIT THIS SONG IS SO GOOD 😩😭🔥
Gone save myself some time and just like all these tracks ik they fye in advance
Tariq Abdullah 😂
There's Something about H.E.R. that keeps me coming back for more!!!
I’m not Ok, 😢 but I will be! God Got Me
I had this song on repeat many days when I was in a dark place... those memories. I'm better now thank God
Same here. I’ve listened over 200 times. One time i let it play like 20 times in a row.