As the pain gets lighter, it has gotten much easier to sit with it. Sit with it enough and it becomes second nature to stay with it, if you've been in that "zone" long enough it does get easier, automatic even.
The reason I'm in pain is I don't know what I'm living for anymore. I don't know what it is I'm here to do or even what I love. It creates a feeling of anxiety because I know I'm supposed to have a plan for my life but I just can't figure it out
I hear you and appreciate the message. I see & determine more easily with this & see where I’ve applied it. Still don’t quite “get” how to be when righteous anger & harsh action is the only way to remove yourself and move on though.
I'm starting to discover that there comes a time when the universe moves through us with anger and we can make powerful changes. It doesn't feel like anger though, it feels like certainty. Until then, being WITH the anger can be the hardest pain of all to really be with, because it's screaming at us to move. But we can't move until the Universe says NOW. So all we can do is pay attention to the anger and make a few mistakes. Because we can only learn through mistakes the difference between ego motivated movement, and inspired movement. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, this is how we learn.
I am new to this and am so grateful this has come into my life. I get emotional when watching, hearing, listening, I have hope to get relief from my 'persona' and become real, become me!!
I’ve found journaling really helps to get to the core of the suffering and make sense of the what I’m feeling. It’s always a thought construct that, with dialogue or investigation, transmutes to a Lighter more True place
when I look closely at the pain, I see massive energies that just want to protect me.... protect me from maybe, this fear of annihilation... I say thank you to my fears, to their rushing inn to "fix" and "DO" something..... I see these protectors DO want to do something, and they are designed to be active...... so I feel them, and I re-vision them, I re-appoint them to serve the God image in me, the Child of God in me..... It feels like a massive shift and turn around, like whole armies pivoting within and moving powerfully outward now in unison, protecting anything that would harm the sensations..... the innocent sensations . . . What a supreme irony, the inner energies that were in service of fear my whole life are now PROTECTING the sensations I had run from my whole life....... It's so beautiful.
Hi, do you offer "THE BIG ONE" Event online? This is coz I live in Malaysia and have been following your videos and really love your work. So , if there s an online version, I would love to participate. Thanks so much for all your sharing, it has changed the way I look at my issues. 🙏
Recently I got a huge gash on the left front of my shin all the way to the bone. The blood actually spurted out more than six inches , until I warped my t shirt tightly. took me a long time to walk/crawl over a half mile to get home.. my sister brought me to emergency at the VA. I knew the pain was illusion but not convince my body of that fact. I would allow no needles or pain killers of any kind and was prepared in my mind to be stitched up with no antithetic. the first 8 inside by the bone were hardly tolerable. you mentioned ego, it felt like all I could do is tightly wrap the pain around the ego for the ego to remove (you know the result) I knew in my Heart that my power is in the Peace of my Heart, yet no matter the effort I could not seem to attain, to wrap the pain around the Peace Of my Heart. As I write this I see that I had some kind of belief that in the very high pain I had power in my ego, even though I absolutely know, this is NOT true. So I did cut the cord that I learned from my father and other lives , where I believed that pain was necessary to have, and I filled that space with abundance flow. Thank you for this spot to create. Joy Peace Love Jeffery
Question: so if there’s no “ I “ and that’s the ego, how does one move through individualization after accepting you were emeshed with your narcissistic parent? When you’ve never had a chance to grow into who you are, How can you find who you are authentically if putting a label means it’s the ego ? I’m confused
Pain is like nitro-glycerine must be handle with great care or it can blow you off the map. It is also like snipping the wrong wire on a bomb the same results. Pain being repressed or being over whelmed by it has the same results. BOOM!!!
In other words, the pain is still there because you still identify with your personality, your name. The pain comes from trying to meet societal and human norms. NONE of what you believe you're supposed to do is true. Not get married, have kids, get a degree, have a better house, etc. Even if someone hurt you, they only know being human and they hurt the human you, which is an illusion. Yes, it feels real but only because you AGREED to think you're the person reading this. Time to "un_Agree".
This is insightful. I never connected that my physical pain is connected to the false character I created in order to survive. In the story, I've had chronic daily physical pain for over 20 years, starting at age 16. Nothing external has ever helped. I am learning more and more how to sit with the pain and feel underneath for whatever the true feeling/message is. So far, the ego wants to say that isnt helping either because I still have pain. But I keep going because I know the ego only lies. Thank you.
@cosmic_gate476 I haven't filed mine in 5 years and I'm not in jail or anything. You give your power to the government. Who said they have the right? You did.
@@cf2278I'm no authority but I believe physical pain can be relieved by knowing you are part of God and therefore cannot be imperfect. It is due to what the mind believes you are. "Be still and know I am God".
Whenever I feel any type of negativity within I immediately know my thinking is in overdrive. I'm getting better at catching it before I'm overwhelmed by negativity. I then take a deep breath or two to bring me back to presence. I ground myself by searching my body for any sensations. If I find anything I watch it and allow it to be as is. Thankfully, this has been working to alleviate the negativity!
Yes I am going through this right now. I have just lost my job. Yes something DEEPER 🙏🙏 Thankyou for speaking to me universe 🙏🙏 This is my God's grace speaking.
In a word, yes. But you gain power through letting go. You are in control of your life. Holding the story give the control of your life to those who participated in creating the story. Take your life back, no matter what happened.
Is sitting in meditation long enough the only way to see what the true cause of the pain is? My anxiety is so sky high I can barely sit still for 5 minutes. 🥴😖
I don’t think so personally. Where substances distract you from those things, meditation should largely be focused on facing and healing from those things
I love this. I have been doing this for quite a while now, months, years. I never understood why Kyle speaks of being with that pain for however long, even if it takes days, weeks. Cos whenever i have been with whatever pain that comes up, i noticed that being with it, it dissipates within minutes. Unless of course, i haven't gotten to a really horrendous pain and maybe that's why it dissipates quickly....? any thoughts anyone?
Yes Such a break point I am juggling through- going back and remove the Ego of fear and thoughts and feeling very great in a best way a day- next my heart is knocks on and getting rond nr….! Its hard but for sure I am also so very grateful for this amazing times right now because I am aware more than ever before 👌✨🥰🙏❤️🇸🇪🌍❄️☃️🦋⭐️🌟 Thank you so very very much and much love from Sweden and we are doing this together so rock on steady 🎉
I wonder if pain and anger are the same feeling. I have immense anger for the state of the world because I have a moral obligation to do the right thing regardless of the consequences, and that is a VERY difficult path. We can choose otherwise, sure, but for some reason I feel like I can’t. I’m angry because I do everything “right” yet evil continues to flourish and grow. I’m angry because I just want to provide something of value, feel good about it, and be able to enjoy this existence. There are brief moments of joy, but I have come to the conclusion that this life is meant for pain in order to hopefully build something better for everyone else. Yes, I am pissed about it. No, it’s not fair. Yes, I will continue to be moral anyway.
Thank you Kyle, very powerful medicine for the pain. One other way I make of this is that the pain in actuality emptiness and in pursuit of trying to fill this or avoid this we add to the root of the feeling.
I'm so inspired to hear this is going to be happening in California this year and will be working to align my vibration with this adventure. Blessings to you all as you join forces to heal our future. A request from Australia; can someone who is able to be at this event, bring up the subject of bringing this online at some point in the future for the rest of the world to join in?
You become willing to let go. You stop valuing the story and what it brings you. You begin to see the limits, pain, and safety the story gives you. Dropping the story releases you from the idea that holding the story punishes those involved and that letting go is saying it didn't happen or that it was okay. It simply was what happened, the end. The rest is what you hold to give it big meaning, yet that only hurts you! That is why forgiveness is so powerful within the one who is willing to forgive.
As the pain gets lighter, it has gotten much easier to sit with it. Sit with it enough and it becomes second nature to stay with it, if you've been in that "zone" long enough it does get easier, automatic even.
I can't freaking sit still anymore, it's causing me to jump up and distract myself all the time. 😤😤😖😖🤦🏼♂️🤦🏼♂️
The reason I'm in pain is I don't know what I'm living for anymore. I don't know what it is I'm here to do or even what I love. It creates a feeling of anxiety because I know I'm supposed to have a plan for my life but I just can't figure it out
I feel you. Maybe sitting with the pain of those feelings and meditate? Until an answer comes to you from god?
Kyle, this is spiritual gold
I hear you and appreciate the message. I see & determine more easily with this & see where I’ve applied it.
Still don’t quite “get” how to be when righteous anger & harsh action is the only way to remove yourself and move on though.
I'm starting to discover that there comes a time when the universe moves through us with anger and we can make powerful changes. It doesn't feel like anger though, it feels like certainty. Until then, being WITH the anger can be the hardest pain of all to really be with, because it's screaming at us to move. But we can't move until the Universe says NOW. So all we can do is pay attention to the anger and make a few mistakes. Because we can only learn through mistakes the difference between ego motivated movement, and inspired movement. Don't be afraid to make mistakes, this is how we learn.
I am new to this and am so grateful this has come into my life. I get emotional when watching, hearing, listening, I have hope to get relief from my 'persona' and become real, become me!!
❤ thank you for this message. It was much needed today.
Thank you for this Kyle...I really needed to hear this today!❤🔥
Hi Kyle, from Argentina! I love all your videos i feel sooo identified . Thank you alot 🤍🦋✨️🪶
Thank you, so grateful for this right now as the new year begins.❤️
Thank you
I’ve found journaling really helps to get to the core of the suffering and make sense of the what I’m feeling. It’s always a thought construct that, with dialogue or investigation, transmutes to a Lighter more True place
Awesome explanation Kyle for my journey to oneness. Excited for The Big One!!! Much love 🌠
when I look closely at the pain, I see massive energies that just want to protect me.... protect me from maybe, this fear of annihilation...
I say thank you to my fears, to their rushing inn to "fix" and "DO" something..... I see these protectors DO want to do something, and they are designed to be active...... so I feel them, and I re-vision them, I re-appoint them to serve the God image in me, the Child of God in me..... It feels like a massive shift and turn around, like whole armies pivoting within and moving powerfully outward now in unison, protecting anything that would harm the sensations..... the innocent sensations . . . What a supreme irony, the inner energies that were in service of fear my whole life are now PROTECTING the sensations I had run from my whole life....... It's so beautiful.
You are a miracle! I needed you today! Thank you.
Absolutely brilliant ❤❤❤❤
Thank you so much Kyle. Just what I needed.
Hi, do you offer "THE BIG ONE" Event online? This is coz I live in Malaysia and have been following your videos and really love your work. So , if there s an online version, I would love to participate. Thanks so much for all your sharing, it has changed the way I look at my issues. 🙏
Nothing to add. ❤. Best wishes for you Kyle & EveryOne including me ;) 🙌❣️
Recently I got a huge gash on the left front of my shin all the way to the bone. The blood actually spurted out more than six inches , until I warped my t shirt tightly. took me a long time to walk/crawl over a half mile to get home.. my sister brought me to emergency at the VA. I knew the pain was illusion but not convince my body of that fact. I would allow no needles or pain killers of any kind and was prepared in my mind to be stitched up with no antithetic. the first 8 inside by the bone were hardly tolerable. you mentioned ego, it felt like all I could do is tightly wrap the pain around the ego for the ego to remove (you know the result) I knew in my Heart that my power is in the Peace of my Heart, yet no matter the effort I could not seem to attain, to wrap the pain around the Peace Of my Heart. As I write this I see that I had some kind of belief that in the very high pain I had power in my ego, even though I absolutely know, this is NOT true.
So I did cut the cord that I learned from my father and other lives , where I believed that pain was necessary to have, and I filled that space with abundance flow. Thank you for this spot to create.
Joy Peace Love
Jeffery
This was so good
Thanks Kyle, very helpful video.
love this!Thank you Kyle
🙏Thank you ☺
Question: so if there’s no “ I “ and that’s the ego, how does one move through individualization after accepting you were emeshed with your narcissistic parent? When you’ve never had a chance to grow into who you are, How can you find who you are authentically if putting a label means it’s the ego ? I’m confused
Pain is like nitro-glycerine must be handle with great care or it can blow you off the map. It is also like snipping the wrong wire on a bomb the same results. Pain being repressed or being over whelmed by it has the same results. BOOM!!!
What about PHYSICAL pain
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Temporary fix does not work
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In other words, the pain is still there because you still identify with your personality, your name. The pain comes from trying to meet societal and human norms. NONE of what you believe you're supposed to do is true. Not get married, have kids, get a degree, have a better house, etc. Even if someone hurt you, they only know being human and they hurt the human you, which is an illusion. Yes, it feels real but only because you AGREED to think you're the person reading this. Time to "un_Agree".
This is insightful. I never connected that my physical pain is connected to the false character I created in order to survive. In the story, I've had chronic daily physical pain for over 20 years, starting at age 16. Nothing external has ever helped. I am learning more and more how to sit with the pain and feel underneath for whatever the true feeling/message is. So far, the ego wants to say that isnt helping either because I still have pain. But I keep going because I know the ego only lies. Thank you.
Let me know how un agreeing goes when it's time to file your taxes
@cosmic_gate476 I haven't filed mine in 5 years and I'm not in jail or anything. You give your power to the government. Who said they have the right? You did.
@@cf2278I'm no authority but I believe physical pain can be relieved by knowing you are part of God and therefore cannot be imperfect. It is due to what the mind believes you are. "Be still and know I am God".
Thank you
Whenever I feel any type of negativity within I immediately know my thinking is in overdrive. I'm getting better at catching it before I'm overwhelmed by negativity. I then take a deep breath or two to bring me back to presence. I ground myself by searching my body for any sensations. If I find anything I watch it and allow it to be as is. Thankfully, this has been working to alleviate the negativity!
There is no negativity
"It's here to be seen, not catered to."
Thank you!! This helped me see more of it. 😊
Yes I am going through this right now.
I have just lost my job.
Yes something DEEPER 🙏🙏 Thankyou for speaking to me universe 🙏🙏
This is my God's grace speaking.
You got rid of a job that wasn't your highest calling. Congrats 🎉
Hugs, Love and Light
May you get an even better job sooner than later!! Great 2024!!
Accurate diagnosis and etiology of the dysfunction. I wish we would talk like this in open dialogue daily. It should be how we communicate.
Yes to all of this I can really feel your words
Kyle❤
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Really good stuff Kyle. You finally got through my density….kind of 😅
Thank you!
Excellent advice. Thank you, Kyle!
I have a victim story that is thousands of years old.. repeated ..i guess im trying to be special.. again.
In a word, yes. But you gain power through letting go. You are in control of your life. Holding the story give the control of your life to those who participated in creating the story. Take your life back, no matter what happened.
Is sitting in meditation long enough the only way to see what the true cause of the pain is? My anxiety is so sky high I can barely sit still for 5 minutes. 🥴😖
❤ Thank you 🙏
Can meditation be an "addiction," or a way to numb the pain?
I don’t think so personally. Where substances distract you from those things, meditation should largely be focused on facing and healing from those things
Yes, if you are using it as an avoidance of the pain.
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I love this. I have been doing this for quite a while now, months, years. I never understood why Kyle speaks of being with that pain for however long, even if it takes days, weeks. Cos whenever i have been with whatever pain that comes up, i noticed that being with it, it dissipates within minutes. Unless of course, i haven't gotten to a really horrendous pain and maybe that's why it dissipates quickly....? any thoughts anyone?
Yes Such a break point I am juggling through- going back and remove the Ego of fear and thoughts and feeling very great in a best way a day- next my heart is knocks on and getting rond nr….!
Its hard but for sure I am also so very grateful for this amazing times right now because I am aware more than ever before 👌✨🥰🙏❤️🇸🇪🌍❄️☃️🦋⭐️🌟
Thank you so very very much and much love from Sweden and we are doing this together so rock on steady 🎉
I wonder if pain and anger are the same feeling. I have immense anger for the state of the world because I have a moral obligation to do the right thing regardless of the consequences, and that is a VERY difficult path. We can choose otherwise, sure, but for some reason I feel like I can’t. I’m angry because I do everything “right” yet evil continues to flourish and grow. I’m angry because I just want to provide something of value, feel good about it, and be able to enjoy this existence. There are brief moments of joy, but I have come to the conclusion that this life is meant for pain in order to hopefully build something better for everyone else. Yes, I am pissed about it. No, it’s not fair. Yes, I will continue to be moral anyway.
Thank you Kyle❤ I just left an abusive relationship
Thank you Kyle, very powerful medicine for the pain.
One other way I make of this is that the pain in actuality emptiness and in pursuit of trying to fill this or avoid this we add to the root of the feeling.
Thank you for being a beautiful reflection Kyle ♥️♥️
I'm so inspired to hear this is going to be happening in California this year and will be working to align my vibration with this adventure. Blessings to you all as you join forces to heal our future.
A request from Australia; can someone who is able to be at this event, bring up the subject of bringing this online at some point in the future for the rest of the world to join in?
Exactly the time for this topic. How synchronistic 😜
Thanks for this, so perfect right now. Love you ❤️
Such an important reminder. Thank you Kyle.
You are someone special!! This made so much sense. #connecttothenow! ❤
This really hits home Kyle. Do you have to be in person to join your event coming up?
I love the magical internalness❤
So good Kyle you’ve been ON FIRE❤
Thank you. More clarity 🦋
When it's free I will get there
Thank you 🙂
The “throwing away” of the story is impossible. How to???
You become willing to let go. You stop valuing the story and what it brings you. You begin to see the limits, pain, and safety the story gives you. Dropping the story releases you from the idea that holding the story punishes those involved and that letting go is saying it didn't happen or that it was okay. It simply was what happened, the end. The rest is what you hold to give it big meaning, yet that only hurts you! That is why forgiveness is so powerful within the one who is willing to forgive.