Her appearance, behavior & criminal record in front of the judge says it all. She is extremely troubled & that type of work is not for her. She needs help taking care of herself first. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
The problem is, is people who are troubled by SA pasts at young ages tend to end up in the same situations over and over and end up blaming themselves. I actually believe her about the SA claims. Troubled doesn't always equal liar, but it tends to hold people who get trapped in these situations down to where they are never believed and can never get out.
I agree. She's in denial. The whole "I caught the charge of having the coke in the car but it wasn't mine" is so old. Also forgery charges too. Not an honest person.
I’ve worked in the health field for a long time. You’d be surprised how many people with a very non-compassionate non-caring, aggressive, combative personality work as CNA’s, and nurses too.
She’s definitely lying!!! She can retrieve text messages from her iCloud. Why do you think she was so nonchalant towards the end? She worked until the 11th, than it was the 6th. He harassed her on the 5th, she filed a report on the 11th. Wait, she didn’t work on the 6th, it was the 5th. The wife sided with her…wait, no she didn’t! PUHLEEEEEEEZZZZZZE!!!
She was very specific about the harassment incidents. I believe her. Even if she is or was on drugs,no one deserves to be harassed. She was working for him to earn an honest living wage.
She has issues but bruh sitting there looking guilty af!!!! It’s telling that his wife isn’t there. If a woman accused my husband of SA I would be there front and center defending him. 🤨
I agree. She has those eyes and I wasn't surprised that she was ordered to leave. She's schizo or psychotic, and I believe that she was messed with as a child so the CPTSD has made her bat shit crazy. This was a horrible situation and I don't like that she was exploited for the sake of entertainment. She didn't have a case. She's cracked in the head and doesn't think straight. Her delusional mind convinced her that suing was a good idea. It's cases like this that make me not like this show. This isn't entertainment. It's exploitation. It's a shame that Dr Phil set the bar on such a low life level..... Harvey is the producer and he's the reason the show got cancelled. He has a problem with treating women badly.
@@trekgirl65i don't read that as a bash or looking down on someone. Her demeanor and behavior in court didn't help her. In some sense they took the reflection off of him. Dude was laughing throughout, covering his mouth, and averting his eyes when answering questions.
I have dealt with home health aides before. They are supposed to help with health issues, not errands. And getting ciggs. Agencies usally have a separate home aide for nonmedical things. And no matter how bad a home aide she is, no one deserves sexual harassment.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY?? REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE???????????????????? JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE TO THE NURSING HOME
Her Trauma is called HEROIN! I know a junky when I see one because they are all over delray beach and Boynton Beach. She tried the white woman thing where she accuse people with no proof and then hope hearsay will work. I could tell she was lying the way she started out and acting aggressive then pretending to be the victim
Funny his wife couldn't make it to court with him. I think she did tell the plaintiff to go file charges and that she hadn't had sex with him in years. Not saying the plaintiff doesn't have her own issues but I believe he talked and acted inappropriate towards her.
I don't necessarily believe she didn't work, but she needed to figure out how to come into court and act responsible and trust worthy. The way she was made her lose this case. He was a mess too. If she just acted right it probably would have been in her favor.
It didn’t make sense though she said the last day she worked was 01/06 which was a Friday but when the judge told her that’s a Saturday she changed it to she didn’t work that day then kept saying 01/01-01/06
@@lajames4079wives lie for predatory husbands everyday. She has issues and doesn’t know how to speak correctly. I believe something was going on here. There is her story, his story, and the truth. He has missing text. She has zero proof of hours. Nothing from her agency says she was assigned. Ppl like her fall victim to predators every day, bc they’re weak. She is clearly a drug user. Lots of victims of abuse use. Especially, if they never receive the proper care and support to break away and/or rebuild their lives after. Without help, most victims relive the abuse every day.
That's exactly why they prey on people like her. "Nobody else is gonna hire you." She's afraid and convinced if she leaves this job she won't be able to find another one. So they stay and put up with the harassment.. His behavior definitely triggered her.
Listening to her and understanding sexual trauma...this man's behavior triggered her trauma...that in itself willnput you in a mental state....recanting the trauma is also a major trigger. I believe her.
@NKhan-yx3wl exactly! Then she said she didn't know who the girl was at first and the gigirlfriend with a different agency. Then how did she even get any information about this alleged other victim. And y she nor there to testify or at least provide a signed statement.
At the end of the day her case was not about SA it was about wages. Judge ruled properly. All she had to do was prove that she was at work. She didn’t have a supervisor that she had to check in with, not even texts that she was there? Typical excuse of “lost phone” doesn’t fly in the 2010s almost everything can be backed up or recovered by your mobile provider. Especially is she’s going to court.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY?? REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE???????????????????? JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE TO THE NURSING HOME
It's very telling that the wife didn't come. It's telling he would delete texts out of his phone. An innocent person would not do that even if he believed that the employee, “texted too much”. The whole thing makes no sense; there would be texts before and after the incriminating one. It's possible that she had a bad work ethic and he engaged in behavior that was outside the boundaries of an employer-employee relationship. Those behaviors don't encourage someone to have a good work ethic. Both can have unclean hands… A home healthcare worker shouldn't be taking kids to get something to eat or buying cigarettes for their client. This is a lot of humiliation to go on television to talk about your trauma and criminal history for $440. Also, she worked for him from September to November with no issues. This all happened in January. She looks and moves like someone who's experienced trauma.
Or she moves like a drug addict Ppl who live check to check, who's husbands can't work...actually may not have the "luxury" of coming to "TV" court...behind something she sees as nonsense 🙄 ( again I don't know what it's just as plausible, as the conclusion you wanna jump to) Also interesting how the plaintiff's dog ate her homework & phone....and no police report 🤔 she had a convenient answer for everything she lacked and only wanted to talk "over" the judge on sticky points. She has a fraud history....tie goes to a non proven criminal
@@ericstewart517 you realize that a lot of drug addicts use drugs because they've experienced trauma right? Or, that a lot of “fine” folks target people who struggle with sobriety because no one would believe them. It's a tale as old as time. I believe her much more than I believe him. And, that's not saying she was totally right. As I said in my original post, both can have unclean hands. Above all, abusing drugs isn't a moral failing. For some people it's just what they did in college or their 20’s.
@@lajames4079, not every one. He knew she had issue with not getting paid and would likely have to refute that charge. It doesn't seem like its news to him that she made those accusations either. It makes no sense to delete evidence of communications with an employee you had conflict with unless your side of the street wasn't clean. There's also tons of ways to save space on a phone. Text messages don't take up THAT much space. It feels like her employment was recent. Like the judge said, she seemed awful angry for some reason. This felt like it was about more than $400.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY?? REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE???????????????????? JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE TO THE NURSING HOME
People who are troubled by SA pasts at young ages tend to end up in the same situations over and over and end up blaming themselves. Yes, there are those who are able to get out of the loop, but that's not everyone. I actually believe her about the SA claims, mainly because of how amused the defendant is. Not in a "wow I've never heard this in my life" but a "I enjoy hearing this story bc they're not gonna believe you" kind of way. Troubled doesn't always equal liar, but it tends to hold people who get trapped in these situations down to where they are never believed and can never get out. The fact she read those text and that was the ONE text he had saved talked about her reporting him if he doesn't pay. Just because she's threatening doesn't mean it's a lie, she more than likely wanted to be done with him. Normally the judge would push harder on where's the other texts, but blows off the plaintiff when the plaintiff says it's because he deleted them due to sending crude things. The plaintiff went and filed a police report, but that seemed to have been forgotten about. The whole "don't look at me, look at her, she's been in trouble before!" is such a common tactic by abusers that it's a shame the judge doesn't recognize it. The outside audience is proof that there is this area where many get trapped bc they assume that they haven't been believed before so they won't be believed again, and when they take it to the civil courts which has a lower threshold of proof, when they're blown off, it just confirms no one would ever believe them in a criminal court.
I believe he harassed her. I also believe she's got some issues as well. I'd rather believe the victim and it not be true than not believe them and it be true.
I unfortunately think many people count on that way of believing so I am opposite. Before you make serious allegations like that, better have proof. Texts, voice mail, email, recording, etc. Especially in court setting. And she stuck around for another 2 months as well . . .
So you presuppose she's a victim then believe her, or you believe her and then as a result she becomes a victim in your eyes? What kind of logic is this ? and what about the innocent defendant who gets put behind bar, isn't he a victim ? or you just made your mind that she is the victim. I think you need help as much as she does.
I’m troubled with believing the victim without proof. She stuck around for too long if his actions truly upset her. She’s acting so tough in court, but didn’t have the balls to remove herself from a situation that bothered her?
@@M2161 Your comments are so harsh, and sadly, a reflection of the way a lot of ppl view abuse. "Well, if they were truly abused, wouldn't they have left?" No. I'm sure she needed the money. Just bc she's acting like this IN PUBLIC, AROUND PPL, it doesn't mean that it didn't happen.
All I know for sure is, if a home healthcare service sent to that young woman to take care of my loved one, I would be finding a different healthcare service.
Why does that man use his health aide as a personal assistant? Taking his kids to eat, picking up stuff is not part of the aides job. Two corrupt folks using each other
How convenient that he didn't have the texts before or after her bringing up the money I think he did something to her. But with the behaviour in court and lack of evidence, there was nothing really to be done.
I feel for the plaintiff. Past and possibly current trauma have affected her mentally (not counting current addiction issues) and she needs some help. I don't know if I trust the defendant's word either...just kind of a sad case.
She's a little off her rocker. Whatever happened to her as a child is controlling her to this day. When girls get abused on that level, it manifests with doing whatever it takes to turn males off - weight gain, poor grooming, etc.
Even though I do believe that there were inappropriate sexual comments made to the Plaintiff to some extent, she just kept repeating her well rehearsed, filthy mouthed set of lies, and she couldn't even control herself when judge Milian gave her those last warnings to shut up. The Plaintiff is just a common thief.
@@Tahiha Not her, but the Plaintiff. When the subject was 1st brought up about the sexual comments & touching. He didn't just look pissed, he looked completely embarrassed that he was called out on that. And also, he was doing the same thing that the Plaintiff was doing by claiming that there were all sorts of texts between them that he had no proof of, "because it's a new & phone & I don't keep all that $hit!" 😏🤣
@tashiaredd3421 She doesn’t have to know this man to see embarrassment. You watch these shows and I'm sure you have your own opinion on who is lying or telling the truth. You do not have to "know them". I believe something inappropriate happened, but not all that the plaintiff was saying. Wife not showing up to be cross emamined is EXTREMELY telling.
I think she may have just wanted to hear what he was going to say . And the reason I say that is because I had a home health assistant who told me she had to start working for me for her own personal reasons. Her friend end up being assigned to work for me next, but I didn't know that they were friends and she also asked me what happened to the last girl. Thankfully I didn't have anything bad to say about her, but later on I found out they were friends on social media. I came across a photo of them together and that's how I found out that they knew each other prior and they were just trying see if I was going to be messy or not. So maybe that's what happened but I'm not sure.
I have a care giver for my mom took 4 different ppl one just watched tv all day t other asked us for more money after going thru paperwork she was organizing. I would never hire a girl like her to take care of my mother.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY?? REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE???????????????????? JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE TO THE NURSING HOME
I have never heard a case with this much hearsay from both sides. They should have brought witnesses. If this case would have gone to judge judy, She would have dismissed it.
@@shabless81 this is why i keep on saying how unfair or not true way of how courts should work, as when one watches JJ she rules totally other way, does not except a letter or statements even if having a police stamp on but this judge allows it,
Plaintiff was not heresy, it was the truth. And the defendant is a mess, trashy and needs to go under a rock and stay there. And Judge Judy would have put the defendant in his sleezy place.
@@trekgirl65 Do you know what hearsay is? I don’t think you do. Thank goodness you’re not a judge. I personally think the defendant is a crud. But that’s my opinion based on my perception of his character, neither of which should be used against ANYONE when determining guilt.
@@trekgirl65 I don't think you know what the law is. You clearly don't know what hearsay is In the courtroom if you don't think It came from both sides🤦🏾♂️
Wow people crazy. Just because of her past means that she’s lying?! No!!! That never justifies anything. He’s obviously a lier!! He deleted text messages and kept what was necessary for his case.
How is she even able to do this type of work with a criminal record that involves forged checks and drugs. HOW DID SHE PASS A BACKGROUND CHECK to work with the vulnerable sick, disabled or elderly? 🤯
Wow😂😂😂 Did this Plaintiff really forget where she was?? Out of all the years I've watched this show NEVER EVER had I heard someone talk like that!! I think she's highly ignorant and SHOULDN'T be in this line of work..And the Defendant seems to be a perve and probably is over friendly with the female staff..He prob should get a male nurse aid.
The judge really blew this one. There is no way on God's earth that she is consistently complaining, banging the car steering wheel, filing police reports, contacting her employer, etc. in order to extort the man for one week's pay. I believe she was being sexually harassed and the creep wouldn't sign her timecard as payback to her complaining.
Well, as you know, you have to come with proof. No police reports, no text messages, not much of anything. JJ and JM say it all the time. Some cases are extremely hard to prove. If you prove it, they will give you every penny you ask for. Even P&S(and they Never give those)! Just gotta prove it. (Personally, I believe that JJ and JM bring these people in the court to embarrass them for being perverts because they've avoided the criminal justice system. And they always entertain the SA cases. M y hope at least.)
@@keithanderson4701 In small claims court the burden of proof is very low. It's why small claims court doesn't allow lawyers. Often in small claims court a judge will rule on who is more believable. Also keep in mind that the judges in court shows are not state or federal judges, but rather, arbitrators. Arbitrators have much wider discretion that state and federal judges.
@Criminal.Lawyer.2024 I believe we agree. The issue where she went wrong when, in open court, she said, "I want to harm the defendant." She lost credibility. JM didn't like that. The arbitrator, or fact finder as JJ calls herself, found her to be unbelievable or unreliable at best. Sucks cuz he is a creep but our laws aren't always the best
If ur caregiving for someone that does that ,you just say no . And have boundaries. Otherwise you will miss out on job opportunities. Some men that are disabled are like that.
I belive her. She can’t remember dates it’s a form of PTSD I have it. I’ve been SA mt entire life from 11-21 years old by different people. And was sexualized from 4- 8.
She seems like she she's on something. She's not a credible witness---that doesn't mean what she says isn't true, she's just not a credible source for figuring out if it is or not. If she tells you it's raining outside, it might be true or it might not, but you need to take a look yourself to figure it out.
I absolutely believe her. I was 21 yrs old and my Boss asked me repeatedly what color panties i had on daily and asked to have sex with me daily...he got physical with us as well. I reported him and another coworker did as well. He was fired. If only I knew i could have filled a lawsuit. It was the late 90's. I was young and dumb. He had a stellar reputation in the company and few people believed us because we were young. He was happily married with children and lost everything...his job and his family.
She is transferring her past trauma to this gentleman. She needs to see a mental health practitioner otherwise it will trouble her for life. Most women threaten men with sexual harassment just for money like she said" Sign and pay me so that I won't go further with the accusations", BRO it's not everyone who is shaken by these nonsensical allegations we are used to it. Get your ass up and hustle, so sickening. She's lousy and lazy trying to milk this guy money she didn't work for.
I wasn't sure her alligations were true until the defendant gave his testimony. The phrasing and word choices made it clear he was lying. I don't know exactly what the truth is, but he definitely did something very inappropriate to her. She definitely needs therapy for her history of abuse, her poor emotional regulation skills hurt her here. Hope she finds healing.
This plaintiff isn't telling all truths. Some stuff happened but she's making things up also. She waited til she didn't get paid to complain about the sexual harassment
The agency the plaintiff works for must have low standards when hiring people. 'Do you have a pulse? Yes. You're hired'. If the plaintiff's friend complained about the defendant why is the agency sending another female?
I have been in a situation before doing healthcare work for a guy who really didnt need it and played the system he was in need of help due to a motorcycle accident but then ended up buying another one and told me not to say anything because he shouldnt be driving to begin with ...he would make uncomfortable comments to me and also sold his perks in exchange for Marijuana and then had the nerve to ask for sexual favors i immediately didnt come back and text him why i was leaving he denied all of this through text and messaged back my services wouldnt be needed due to my poor performance of daily housecleaning along with degrading me smh i took all this to the company and printed out the text i told them he needs mental help and is basically looking for a house wife . They absolutely did not care and told me i wasnt the only one that complained but appreciated my evidence the company only wanted money from his insurance .
Her appearance, behavior & criminal record in front of the judge says it all. She is extremely troubled & that type of work is not for her. She needs help taking care of herself first. 🙏🏿🙌🏾
The problem is, is people who are troubled by SA pasts at young ages tend to end up in the same situations over and over and end up blaming themselves. I actually believe her about the SA claims.
Troubled doesn't always equal liar, but it tends to hold people who get trapped in these situations down to where they are never believed and can never get out.
My appearance is deceiving. I look like Clark Kent but I'm a little devil. 😂
I agree. She's in denial. The whole "I caught the charge of having the coke in the car but it wasn't mine" is so old. Also forgery charges too. Not an honest person.
She needs to wash her hair dirty as hell.
I’ve worked in the health field for a long time. You’d be surprised how many people with a very non-compassionate non-caring, aggressive, combative personality work as CNA’s, and nurses too.
I think the defendant requires a male caretaker. The plaintiff is sketch, but I feel as if she's not lying about the sexual harassment.
Some dirty old men only want a woman caregiver to harass, they don’t want another male.
I agree. The problem is that there are more Female than Male care givers.
Good think ppl aren’t arrested because of feelings smfh
He does something weird with his hands at 7:14
She’s definitely lying!!! She can retrieve text messages from her iCloud. Why do you think she was so nonchalant towards the end? She worked until the 11th, than it was the 6th. He harassed her on the 5th, she filed a report on the 11th. Wait, she didn’t work on the 6th, it was the 5th. The wife sided with her…wait, no she didn’t! PUHLEEEEEEEZZZZZZE!!!
Plaintiff: "You want the REAL truth? Judge Milian: "Yeah, I kind of did...all this time I wanted it."😂
She was very specific about the harassment incidents. I believe her. Even if she is or was on drugs,no one deserves to be harassed. She was working for him to earn an honest living wage.
A care taker should not get a pass for being on drugs or have a history or drug use. Both parties seem like trash to me
@@M2161 she said the person in her car had cocaine. She took the fall for it.
@@kathleenwhite2236you know how many ppl get caught with drugs in their car and say it’s not theirs? 😂
@@tashiaredd3421 Exactly.
@@kathleenwhite2236 that’s what they all say. Wise up
She has issues but bruh sitting there looking guilty af!!!! It’s telling that his wife isn’t there. If a woman accused my husband of SA I would be there front and center defending him. 🤨
She had to work, considering he can't work so she clearly doesn't have the time and neither did the judge 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏾♀️
Anyone is going to look guilty being accused guilty or innocent
Two things can be true. I believe her and the allegations against her.
I agree. She has those eyes and I wasn't surprised that she was ordered to leave. She's schizo or psychotic, and I believe that she was messed with as a child so the CPTSD has made her bat shit crazy. This was a horrible situation and I don't like that she was exploited for the sake of entertainment. She didn't have a case. She's cracked in the head and doesn't think straight. Her delusional mind convinced her that suing was a good idea. It's cases like this that make me not like this show. This isn't entertainment. It's exploitation. It's a shame that Dr Phil set the bar on such a low life level..... Harvey is the producer and he's the reason the show got cancelled. He has a problem with treating women badly.
Facts lol
Nope. She is too sensitive and a liar
THIS. I think both are 🗑
@@jaynehogue2459she ain’t lying about that man harassing her.
I still believe he did it
Me too
I do too
Me too
he did, old azz
I feel bad for her and hope she gets help. I just wish she knew how to conduct herself in court.
Do not bash people that way. For you are no better than the defendant. Bashing should be banned from here.
@@trekgirl65i don't read that as a bash or looking down on someone. Her demeanor and behavior in court didn't help her. In some sense they took the reflection off of him.
Dude was laughing throughout, covering his mouth, and averting his eyes when answering questions.
@@trekgirl65 huh?
@langstonwalker1618 thank you
Plantiff & defendant both got some shit with them
Absolutely agree…. They both have serious issues!
Agree
I have dealt with home health aides before. They are supposed to help with health issues, not errands. And getting ciggs. Agencies usally have a separate home aide for nonmedical things. And no matter how bad a home aide she is, no one deserves sexual harassment.
That was she was. And he still sexually harassed if you were listening to her testimony.
Judge Judy wouldn't allowed all of this hearsay 😒🙄😊
I was looking for this comment! Everything is hearsay, so this case can't hold up.
I said the same thing lol
Judge Judy doesn't allow anything if it doesn't enter her world of Black and White only. There's a lot of gray in the world......
she would......
Come on Judy gang! Lol between this one and Mathis they would fail miserably with her, still entertaining though
She definitely needs therapy to help her with the past trauma. I do believe he did harass her.
Agreed.
Too damned bad wasn’t caught on audio recording. I don’t know the timeline here or even doable
His wife not being there says it all for me.
The judge jumping on the plaintiff but not jumping on the defendant for laughing when the plaintiff is almost in tears!! BS
Her tears were BS
She didn't fall for it.
Agreed.
They’re crocodiles tears- DUH
@@Kewl975 I disagree
She’s gotta get help to help her process her traumas. It’s clearly affecting her mental state.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK
AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY??
REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING
WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE????????????????????
JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE
TO THE NURSING HOME
She's nuts.
Her Trauma is called HEROIN! I know a junky when I see one because they are all over delray beach and Boynton Beach. She tried the white woman thing where she accuse people with no proof and then hope hearsay will work. I could tell she was lying the way she started out and acting aggressive then pretending to be the victim
He did it, he will get caught sooner or later!
I would ask his daughters if their dad ever touched them inappropriately.
Believe all women is crap. She is manipulative
And that’s why he’s handicapped. I believe he will get caught sooner or later.
Funny his wife couldn't make it to court with him. I think she did tell the plaintiff to go file charges and that she hadn't had sex with him in years. Not saying the plaintiff doesn't have her own issues but I believe he talked and acted inappropriate towards her.
My thoughts exactly.
Just because he’s a man you believe that right?
Affidavit is the same as being present
@@SuperCarson81 The husband probably threatened her or wrote it himself.
What about his claim that she ran him off the road and injured his leg, he was in a wheelchair!
I don't necessarily believe she didn't work, but she needed to figure out how to come into court and act responsible and trust worthy. The way she was made her lose this case. He was a mess too. If she just acted right it probably would have been in her favor.
I took one look at her and said to myself,"I wouldn't want her working for me."🤥
What made him a mess? The fact that he actually could back up what he was saying and she was proven to be a liar and a theif.. bffr
Nope, she is troubled
It didn’t make sense though she said the last day she worked was 01/06 which was a Friday but when the judge told her that’s a Saturday she changed it to she didn’t work that day then kept saying 01/01-01/06
@@lajames4079wives lie for predatory husbands everyday. She has issues and doesn’t know how to speak correctly. I believe something was going on here. There is her story, his story, and the truth. He has missing text. She has zero proof of hours. Nothing from her agency says she was assigned. Ppl like her fall victim to predators every day, bc they’re weak. She is clearly a drug user. Lots of victims of abuse use. Especially, if they never receive the proper care and support to break away and/or rebuild their lives after. Without help, most victims relive the abuse every day.
The whole episode was a *BLEEP* button
He definitely harassed her. She just needs help on processing trauma so she's not so off putting in court. I hope she gets the healing she needs
I can't believe the judge is listening 2 hear say! Judge Judy would never!
She got a lot going on, I wouldn’t even hire her to work for me
Would you work for him lol
Really, she is a nurse and you would hire here in a NYC minute. Truth.
That's exactly why they prey on people like her. "Nobody else is gonna hire you." She's afraid and convinced if she leaves this job she won't be able to find another one. So they stay and put up with the harassment.. His behavior definitely triggered her.
@@trekgirl65 She's not a registered nurse.
@@trekgirl65 Go away goddamn it.
They are both something else🤦🏾♀️AND full of it.
I believe her, she was too upset to be lying
She acts like she is on drugs
Its called drugs
Certain personality disorders make it easier to fake emotions to anyone not trained enough to spot body language indicators of deception.
He wasnt even laughing.. 🤦🏾♀️😂
Listening to her and understanding sexual trauma...this man's behavior triggered her trauma...that in itself willnput you in a mental state....recanting the trauma is also a major trigger.
I believe her.
Alleged behavior
She’s a good actor who is a natural victim
@@johnnyb6151he did that
She knew the last woman that worked for him and she literally told her he made sexual comments to her, why didn’t she leave then?
@NKhan-yx3wl exactly! Then she said she didn't know who the girl was at first and the gigirlfriend with a different agency. Then how did she even get any information about this alleged other victim. And y she nor there to testify or at least provide a signed statement.
The people being interviewed on the street gave surprising commentary.
That part was sad. The fact that women were saying that was worse.
People don't make up sexual harassment to be on TV or get attention.
He wanted that nasty woman and deleted his nasty texts 😂 they both lied and nasty
“That nasty woman” 😂😂
At the end of the day her case was not about SA it was about wages. Judge ruled properly. All she had to do was prove that she was at work. She didn’t have a supervisor that she had to check in with, not even texts that she was there? Typical excuse of “lost phone” doesn’t fly in the 2010s almost everything can be backed up or recovered by your mobile provider. Especially is she’s going to court.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK
AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY??
REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING
WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE????????????????????
JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE
TO THE NURSING HOME
The plaintiff is so strung out
Right!
yeah she got 99 problems for sho and that old buzzard sa’n her is DEFINITELY one of them… he did that shyt she was still shook…
It's very telling that the wife didn't come. It's telling he would delete texts out of his phone. An innocent person would not do that even if he believed that the employee, “texted too much”. The whole thing makes no sense; there would be texts before and after the incriminating one.
It's possible that she had a bad work ethic and he engaged in behavior that was outside the boundaries of an employer-employee relationship. Those behaviors don't encourage someone to have a good work ethic.
Both can have unclean hands…
A home healthcare worker shouldn't be taking kids to get something to eat or buying cigarettes for their client. This is a lot of humiliation to go on television to talk about your trauma and criminal history for $440. Also, she worked for him from September to November with no issues. This all happened in January.
She looks and moves like someone who's experienced trauma.
Or she moves like a drug addict
Ppl who live check to check, who's husbands can't work...actually may not have the "luxury" of coming to "TV" court...behind something she sees as nonsense 🙄 ( again I don't know what it's just as plausible, as the conclusion you wanna jump to)
Also interesting how the plaintiff's dog ate her homework & phone....and no police report 🤔 she had a convenient answer for everything she lacked and only wanted to talk "over" the judge on sticky points.
She has a fraud history....tie goes to a non proven criminal
People delete texts all the time it uses up storage space 🙄
@@ericstewart517 you realize that a lot of drug addicts use drugs because they've experienced trauma right? Or, that a lot of “fine” folks target people who struggle with sobriety because no one would believe them. It's a tale as old as time. I believe her much more than I believe him. And, that's not saying she was totally right. As I said in my original post, both can have unclean hands.
Above all, abusing drugs isn't a moral failing. For some people it's just what they did in college or their 20’s.
@@lajames4079, not every one. He knew she had issue with not getting paid and would likely have to refute that charge. It doesn't seem like its news to him that she made those accusations either.
It makes no sense to delete evidence of communications with an employee you had conflict with unless your side of the street wasn't clean.
There's also tons of ways to save space on a phone. Text messages don't take up THAT
much space. It feels like her employment was recent.
Like the judge said, she seemed awful angry for some reason. This felt like it was about more than $400.
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK
AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY??
REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING
WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE????????????????????
JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE
TO THE NURSING HOME
People who are troubled by SA pasts at young ages tend to end up in the same situations over and over and end up blaming themselves. Yes, there are those who are able to get out of the loop, but that's not everyone. I actually believe her about the SA claims, mainly because of how amused the defendant is. Not in a "wow I've never heard this in my life" but a "I enjoy hearing this story bc they're not gonna believe you" kind of way.
Troubled doesn't always equal liar, but it tends to hold people who get trapped in these situations down to where they are never believed and can never get out. The fact she read those text and that was the ONE text he had saved talked about her reporting him if he doesn't pay. Just because she's threatening doesn't mean it's a lie, she more than likely wanted to be done with him. Normally the judge would push harder on where's the other texts, but blows off the plaintiff when the plaintiff says it's because he deleted them due to sending crude things. The plaintiff went and filed a police report, but that seemed to have been forgotten about. The whole "don't look at me, look at her, she's been in trouble before!" is such a common tactic by abusers that it's a shame the judge doesn't recognize it.
The outside audience is proof that there is this area where many get trapped bc they assume that they haven't been believed before so they won't be believed again, and when they take it to the civil courts which has a lower threshold of proof, when they're blown off, it just confirms no one would ever believe them in a criminal court.
Well spoken everything u just said is true I know by past experience
Perfectly said, eloquent and insightful, thank you. ❤
She couldn’t stop cussing 😂😂😂
She kept saying poossy 😂
@@Dove.Love. 😂😂
I believe he harassed her. I also believe she's got some issues as well.
I'd rather believe the victim and it not be true than not believe them and it be true.
I unfortunately think many people count on that way of believing so I am opposite. Before you make serious allegations like that, better have proof. Texts, voice mail, email, recording, etc. Especially in court setting. And she stuck around for another 2 months as well . . .
So you presuppose she's a victim then believe her, or you believe her and then as a result she becomes a victim in your eyes?
What kind of logic is this ? and what about the innocent defendant who gets put behind bar, isn't he a victim ? or you just made your mind that she is the victim.
I think you need help as much as she does.
I think that her having issues and it being so obvious makes her even more vulnerable and some ppl prey on that. Disgusting.
I’m troubled with believing the victim without proof. She stuck around for too long if his actions truly upset her. She’s acting so tough in court, but didn’t have the balls to remove herself from a situation that bothered her?
@@M2161 Your comments are so harsh, and sadly, a reflection of the way a lot of ppl view abuse. "Well, if they were truly abused, wouldn't they have left?" No. I'm sure she needed the money. Just bc she's acting like this IN PUBLIC, AROUND PPL, it doesn't mean that it didn't happen.
All I know for sure is, if a home healthcare service sent to that young woman to take care of my loved one, I would be finding a different healthcare service.
She doesn’t need to be working in that field. And definitely needs to go for counseling.
Why does that man use his health aide as a personal assistant? Taking his kids to eat, picking up stuff is not part of the aides job. Two corrupt folks using each other
How convenient that he didn't have the texts before or after her bringing up the money
I think he did something to her. But with the behaviour in court and lack of evidence, there was nothing really to be done.
How convenient she didn't have the texts either
I feel for the plaintiff. Past and possibly current trauma have affected her mentally (not counting current addiction issues) and she needs some help. I don't know if I trust the defendant's word either...just kind of a sad case.
Do not believe a word coming out of the defendant, for he is a sleaze ball and dirty minded ingrate.
Plaintiff couldn't be bothered to wash her hair for court and tv??
😂😂 right?!!! A Lil dry shampoo...nothing 🤷🏻♀️
Drugs
She's a little off her rocker. Whatever happened to her as a child is controlling her to this day. When girls get abused on that level, it manifests with doing whatever it takes to turn males off - weight gain, poor grooming, etc.
😂😂
She seems like she's barely holding it together.
Even though I do believe that there were inappropriate sexual comments made to the Plaintiff to some extent, she just kept repeating her well rehearsed, filthy mouthed set of lies, and she couldn't even control herself when judge Milian gave her those last warnings to shut up. The Plaintiff is just a common thief.
My exact thoughts
On what basis do you believe her?
@@Tahiha Not her, but the Plaintiff. When the subject was 1st brought up about the sexual comments & touching. He didn't just look pissed, he looked completely embarrassed that he was called out on that. And also, he was doing the same thing that the Plaintiff was doing by claiming that there were all sorts of texts between them that he had no proof of, "because it's a new & phone & I don't keep all that $hit!" 😏🤣
@@madmaxofspokane1691girl you don’t know this man to say what his facial expressions look like.
@tashiaredd3421 She doesn’t have to know this man to see embarrassment. You watch these shows and I'm sure you have your own opinion on who is lying or telling the truth. You do not have to "know them". I believe something inappropriate happened, but not all that the plaintiff was saying. Wife not showing up to be cross emamined is EXTREMELY telling.
She is high asf!!!! Look at them she look crazy hell nawwww
Your dead mom
Why would you ask what happened to the last employee when you said you knew her.
Exactly! Lies
Exactly she got caught in that lie
Probably to see if there were shy lies told
I think she may have just wanted to hear what he was going to say . And the reason I say that is because I had a home health assistant who told me she had to start working for me for her own personal reasons. Her friend end up being assigned to work for me next, but I didn't know that they were friends and she also asked me what happened to the last girl. Thankfully I didn't have anything bad to say about her, but later on I found out they were friends on social media. I came across a photo of them together and that's how I found out that they knew each other prior and they were just trying see if I was going to be messy or not. So maybe that's what happened but I'm not sure.
@@sah-naethat’s messy themselves.
She said what she said because she feels she's white and can do what she wants....the usual😂
I have a care giver for my mom took 4 different ppl one just watched tv all day t other asked us for more money after going thru paperwork she was organizing. I would never hire a girl like her to take care of my mother.
Wow that guy couldn't hold the door open for her...ridiculous
I noticed that too.. Shows his TRUE character !
This would have been over in 5 minutes if this was Judge Mathis 😂😂😂😂
wheel chair man admitted she went to buy food for his kids. SO WHY DID JUDGE SAY SHE DID NOT WORK
AT ALL????? HE ADMITTED SHE WORKED THE LAST DAY FRIDAY. WELL JUST JUDGE WACKY??
REFUNDING ALL OF THE DRIVING SCHOOL FEES???? JUDGE WACKY???? GIVING THE MOVING
WOMAN ALMOST FULL REFUND, AFTER HE MOVED A WHOLE HOUSE????????????????????
JUDGE WACKY????????????????????????????????????? SHE IS LOSING IT, TIME TO RETIRE
TO THE NURSING HOME
Judge Judy would've dismissed it in 5 min or less
He would've called her a crack head 😂
I have never heard a case with this much hearsay from both sides. They should have brought witnesses. If this case would have gone to judge judy, She would have dismissed it.
I was thinking the same thing. I can just hear Judge Judy saying “DONT TELL ME WHAT THEY TOLD YOU!!”
@@shabless81 this is why i keep on saying how unfair or not true way of how courts should work, as when one watches JJ she rules totally other way, does not except a letter or statements even if having a police stamp on but this judge allows it,
Plaintiff was not heresy, it was the truth. And the defendant is a mess, trashy and needs to go under a rock and stay there. And Judge Judy would have put the defendant in his sleezy place.
@@trekgirl65 Do you know what hearsay is? I don’t think you do. Thank goodness you’re not a judge. I personally think the defendant is a crud. But that’s my opinion based on my perception of his character, neither of which should be used against ANYONE when determining guilt.
@@trekgirl65 I don't think you know what the law is. You clearly don't know what hearsay is In the courtroom if you don't think It came from both sides🤦🏾♂️
Haven't even gotten to the actual case, but buddy who walked in could've AT LEAST held the door open for her. Bless.
That right there defined who he is as a person. 😂
You don't hold doors open for independent strong women
Wow people crazy. Just because of her past means that she’s lying?! No!!! That never justifies anything. He’s obviously a lier!! He deleted text messages and kept what was necessary for his case.
Yea sure he's the liar
And it's spelled liar not lier
She knows everybody... the girl that use to work for him AND the 2 guys that called and threatened to shoot her😭
Wow, finally, some smart people being interviewed on the street!
How is she even able to do this type of work with a criminal record that involves forged checks and drugs. HOW DID SHE PASS A BACKGROUND CHECK to work with the vulnerable sick, disabled or elderly? 🤯
That's what I want know?😮
Wow😂😂😂 Did this Plaintiff really forget where she was?? Out of all the years I've watched this show NEVER EVER had I heard someone talk like that!! I think she's highly ignorant and SHOULDN'T be in this line of work..And the Defendant seems to be a perve and probably is over friendly with the female staff..He prob should get a male nurse aid.
The judge really blew this one. There is no way on God's earth that she is consistently complaining, banging the car steering wheel, filing police reports, contacting her employer, etc. in order to extort the man for one week's pay. I believe she was being sexually harassed and the creep wouldn't sign her timecard as payback to her complaining.
Well, as you know, you have to come with proof. No police reports, no text messages, not much of anything. JJ and JM say it all the time. Some cases are extremely hard to prove. If you prove it, they will give you every penny you ask for. Even P&S(and they Never give those)! Just gotta prove it.
(Personally, I believe that JJ and JM bring these people in the court to embarrass them for being perverts because they've avoided the criminal justice system. And they always entertain the SA cases. M y hope at least.)
@@keithanderson4701 In small claims court the burden of proof is very low. It's why small claims court doesn't allow lawyers. Often in small claims court a judge will rule on who is more believable. Also keep in mind that the judges in court shows are not state or federal judges, but rather, arbitrators. Arbitrators have much wider discretion that state and federal judges.
@Criminal.Lawyer.2024 I believe we agree. The issue where she went wrong when, in open court, she said, "I want to harm the defendant." She lost credibility. JM didn't like that. The arbitrator, or fact finder as JJ calls herself, found her to be unbelievable or unreliable at best. Sucks cuz he is a creep but our laws aren't always the best
@@keithanderson4701 Excellent points.
If ur caregiving for someone that does that ,you just say no . And have boundaries. Otherwise you will miss out on job opportunities. Some men that are disabled are like that.
yuck. both of em
Dysfunctional Case 😂😂😂😂
I hate when i have court but cant shower for days before
Lol
She lied through the whole trial. You should be careful who you choose to work for.
Is that why she got thrown out of the courtroom at 15:46? Or was it her constant interruptions? Someone had a clip of her ejection.
@@matthewlieberman9535 You should be careful who you choose to work for.
You don't get to keep wasting your ends with irresponsibility then turn around with a victim attitude with a hand out. !!NO!!
I belive her. She can’t remember dates it’s a form of PTSD I have it. I’ve been SA mt entire life from 11-21 years old by different people. And was sexualized from 4- 8.
She seems like she she's on something. She's not a credible witness---that doesn't mean what she says isn't true, she's just not a credible source for figuring out if it is or not. If she tells you it's raining outside, it might be true or it might not, but you need to take a look yourself to figure it out.
I absolutely believe her. I was 21 yrs old and my Boss asked me repeatedly what color panties i had on daily and asked to have sex with me daily...he got physical with us as well.
I reported him and another coworker did as well. He was fired. If only I knew i could have filled a lawsuit. It was the late 90's. I was young and dumb. He had a stellar reputation in the company and few people believed us because we were young. He was happily married with children and lost everything...his job and his family.
She is transferring her past trauma to this gentleman. She needs to see a mental health practitioner otherwise it will trouble her for life. Most women threaten men with sexual harassment just for money like she said" Sign and pay me so that I won't go further with the accusations", BRO it's not everyone who is shaken by these nonsensical allegations we are used to it. Get your ass up and hustle, so sickening. She's lousy and lazy trying to milk this guy money she didn't work for.
Unbelievable ! Either one of them are lying or both.🤔
I wasn't sure her alligations were true until the defendant gave his testimony. The phrasing and word choices made it clear he was lying. I don't know exactly what the truth is, but he definitely did something very inappropriate to her. She definitely needs therapy for her history of abuse, her poor emotional regulation skills hurt her here. Hope she finds healing.
This plaintiff isn't telling all truths. Some stuff happened but she's making things up also. She waited til she didn't get paid to complain about the sexual harassment
And he wears a cross to court, which means he’s a good Christian. Yep I believe that one.
That's not a cross, its an Ankh...it's Egyptian. It means " everlasting life ".
The defendant looks like that actor Keith David
That’s what I said!
He really does. I say Keith Davids best role was in John Carpenters remake of "The Thing". The KD vs. Kurt Russell exchanges are classic.
Thank you! I couldn't think of the actors name
You're welcome.@@missa1goins
Even if he did sexually harass her, she needed to report it to the agency and move on with her life.
Both telling alittle truth and a few lies. She street has a record so will be judged. He probably did some sexual harassment.
Yeah she seems incredible untrustworthy.
He seems like a dirty ole playa.
She is more incredibly trustworthy than a sexually harassing dirty man.
I believe her but he is wild because I think she’s nuts!!
Chile neither one of them right in the head 😂 she looked coked out and he looks like a creep
Oooh this plaintiff is high right now!
He's absolutely guilty and that's why his wife isn't sleeping with him.
No
He did it, but she she presents so poorly and dysfunctional and the defend knows he can gaslight her.
Her eyes are uneasy and calculating
😂😂
The agency the plaintiff works for must have low standards when hiring people. 'Do you have a pulse? Yes. You're hired'.
If the plaintiff's friend complained about the defendant why is the agency sending another female?
For weeks he kept sexually harassing me, and it triggered previous trauma, but I kept going because.........?
I think she might be on a little something. Or need to be on some type of meds. I pray for her healing
He did it. I’m sorry look at his whole demeanor. I hope she got the help she needed.
Please rember all those false accused.
😢
Name em
Baby girl needs to seek therapy. He triggered the f outta her and she's reached a breaking point.
I have been in a situation before doing healthcare work for a guy who really didnt need it and played the system he was in need of help due to a motorcycle accident but then ended up buying another one and told me not to say anything because he shouldnt be driving to begin with ...he would make uncomfortable comments to me and also sold his perks in exchange for Marijuana and then had the nerve to ask for sexual favors i immediately didnt come back and text him why i was leaving he denied all of this through text and messaged back my services wouldnt be needed due to my poor performance of daily housecleaning along with degrading me smh i took all this to the company and printed out the text i told them he needs mental help and is basically looking for a house wife . They absolutely did not care and told me i wasnt the only one that complained but appreciated my evidence the company only wanted money from his insurance .
I believe every word she said. Although her outburst was a little concerning, that trauma was the cause for that outburst.
I believe her too.
Imagine this woman being in charge of your health HAHAHAHAHAHA, i'd rather die.
Wow, the folks Harvey talked to. All three of them don't believe women. That is kind of interesting.
She wrong for lying on him with Sexual Harassment!! That reason & nothing to play with !
She has never cried a day in her life
He is a creep
I believe her. She's gotta get some therapy. She should NOT be working with the public.
I believe her about the stolen phone and the doctored texts. That was just WAY too convenient for him to have just that one text in the middle!!!
If she was a celebrity she'd have forked millions ....
It’s hard to believe her.
I feel bad for her and feel her pain😢
The plaintiff was weird and shifty
Entry level workers get treated the worst.
The crowd comments about not believing people is the opposite of what I expected. Never rush to judgment!!