my best advice is to completely unfollow/block ryan- the worst thing is to check on his page randomly throughout the days/years as you grow and prosper. I am so happy to hear you're doing great!!
If you guys broke up it is for a good reason and just know that there is better things for you. Just know we are with you throughout anything and just now your amazing . May God bless ❤️
my boyfriend of 2 years and i just broke up and my heart literally hurts. After 2 years they become your best friend so it’s like losing a bestfriend as well. I’m heartbroken but this is really helping.Thank you for sharing. We can be independent besties!! 💕
I’ve never had a boyfriend but I experienced this like I was so dependent on my friends but for now I’m so independent and do things on my own! So proud you you Sara 💓
how to get over a heartbreak 1. get a bunch of candy and cry 2 . listen to the sour album and sing along 3 . get some help from ur friends i really hope u feel better sara. you deserve someone who loves you so much. and i hope you find them.
Wow girl! That's so crazy. You two looked so happy. But yes, things change and people change. You should be very proud of yourself for taking the opportunity to grow and not stay down and out. 💯
i love how you can talk to us about what’s going on in your life and not keep it all to yourself your so real and i love you so much you have such an amazing soul and i’m so sorry that you went through this tough breakup
i love you so much pretty girl ! so proud of you and how far you've come. thank you for making sure your platform is real, raw, and unedited at times. life is not even close to perfect, and you showing the reality of that is so brave and so appreciated. xoxo ps. independent besties !!
im not in a relationship nor have I ever been in one but I feel like i’ve gained sm information that I can imply into my life! thank u and im glad that u are working on urself keep on doing that
all i have to say is im so proud of you, Sarah. i was off and on with a guy for four years and i literally thought we were gonna get married. it takes a lot to get through it and you did it❤️
Wow Sara I’m so proud of u handling everything well and not mourning for a long time. You even grew to becoming a strong and confident woman. And you knew your actions that needed to be changed and u changed them. Great job Sara I’m proud. Also independent besties! :)
Thank you for being so open and honest, this is not easy to talk about but know that you have a strong group of independent besties supporting you all the way!!!
Im 25 watching this, and the same situation happened when my 2 year high school boyfriend left to another city far away for University. They go to the dorms and see the newness of life and realize that it's a completely different chapter.& then the same thing happened to me as I went into Uni :) It's just life. My advice I found helped me, having gone through this, is to always give this relationship the credit it deserves and look back at it in a good light, but in more of a fairy tale light. Because in a year or so from now in your adult life, it won't have any relevance to adult relationships, which are entirely different.
Independent besties 💕!! Breakups aren’t at all easy for many reasons. I remember how devastated I felt with mine but when you come to the point of being over it and letting go, it’s a good feeling. You’re stunning too!!
I’m in awe of how you set boundaries for yourself and did not talk about your breakup online right away. Proud of you, hope everything goes well for you :))
"Independent besties"... Thank you for talking about this Sara💕 I know this video will help so much people.☺️ You are so strong and I'm happy to hear you are the happiest you've ever been 💖
I loved this so much. It let me know that I am not alone, I have been feeling really down and hurt. But God really spoke to me, and he isn’t worth my pain. Sara you are such the example and light, God Bless you girl💕independent besties🌹
I went through all the stages of your breakup after I turned a guy down even though I never really had feelings for him in the first place. And you being honest really gives me confidence in my life.
OMG, I REALLY REALLY NEEDED THIS. Thank you for sharing this with us. I hope everyone, who is going through a tough breakup finds their old, but new improved versions of them again and love themselves to the fullest
Independent besties!!! Get it girl!! You go!! 😁😁💕 Breakups are the worst, but you are doing great Sara💕. Keep relying on the Lord 💕 God Bless you girl!! Thanks for the awesome advice!
Such a real and honest video!! I must say that maybe because I've never had a boyfriend before I am all of those things you mentioned now, like I fully agree that you need to find ways to "have fun" and be happy on your own and there are certain things I'm enjoying a lot more doing alone than with my friends. So important you brought this up!! Love you ❤️
You are so strong, for some people, it is so much difficult to focus on themselves, because like you, they depended on that person. You inspire a lot of people 💕
Yes my independent bestie! I haven’t been in a relationship in like almost a year I would say but the reasoning for that is that I loved too deeply and whenever our relationship ends I stay broken for quite a while so I’m just very cautious with who I give my heart to and if they’re actually worth feeling something for.
independent besties!!! i'm learning a lot from this THANK YOU SO MUCH, this was the push i needed to finally help get me through my breakup!!! all of the negative feelings you said you had were happening to me as well, except its 6 months later and im just starting to realize now that it's not worth my time to keep stressing over it lol
I went through a break up last year and I’m still feeling some of the after affects. Thank you so much for sharing, I know some of this helped me, too. ✨independent besties✨
thank you so much for this video, im getting over a breakup and this video helped me find things to do. and i love how you are so real in all your vlogs that makes my day. independant besties
thanks for the advice sara! I have never been through a breakup or even been on a date lol but this advice so helpful and I will be saving this video for the future ❤
i got broken up with 6 months ago and over these couple of months i didnt really know where to start or what to do to move on, but now im finally feeling peace and im proud of my growth. so if your going through a break up you will get through it
Same here! I grew so much from that relationship. I always depended on them for my own happiness which is NOT okay. I do have some good days and I’ll be honest with you I do miss them sometimes and still think about them. Our relationship for me was the type of love that you build your future around. We were both soooo close with each other and we both only trusted each other. It’s still difficult but I know It’ll get better through time. I removed them from insta but I did not block them. They still look at my stories which is odd since they broke up with me and didn’t want to do NOTHING with me. Weird huh. But I hope you’re doing better with yourself. I know breakups are hard and messy but at the end you only have yourself and no one else. I’m glad you’re feeling at peace cause that’s the best feeling you can have besides loving yourself❤️
yeahh independant bestiess, we're so proud of you sara and it feels so good to see you this happy! also thank you so much for making this video, it's really helpful for a lot of us
I know I don't totally know u but I def see a more free and confident Sara while you are talking, moving and doing your things in ur recent videos, so I'm really happy for u❤ keep shining as u always did. Your fans will stay here for you 4ever. Ilysm & big thanks for sharing this it's gonna help lot of us even if we never been in a relationship. As Independent besties, we got this!
i love how real and open you are to all of your fans. i’m so proud of you for getting through this and you should know that i will always love watching your content no matter what. ily sara!!
Jesus lived a perfect life. He was sinless but He died on the cross for our sins. Our wrong doings. But, He rose 3 days later! Overcoming death!! By him dying on the cross can receive eternal life and eternal peace with our Lord and Savior. (John 3:16) He took our penalty for sin. Jesus loves you so much that he died for you! Now that is real love 💕 If you believe Jesus died and rose 3 days later, confess your a sinner in need of a savior, say with you mouth Jesus is Lord, your saved!! (Romans 10:9) Live for him everyday, pick up your cross. Deny your flesh, flee from things of this world. Share the true gospel with other people. Live out your faith! Don’t be ashamed of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
I’m getting thorough a break up after 4 years, and I’m only 3 weeks into healing! This video definitely encouraged me to be more independent especially cause I’m literally struggling not to text him, but then I remember he was the issue. Thank you for this video ❤️
I am so happy for you!!! Thank you for openly sharing this to us. We love you, we are proud of you, and we are always here for you Sara!❤️ Independent besties!!!!
thank you so much for opening up and i am not at the age where i have had a boyfriend also i will probably not have one anytime soon but i still love that you gave us this video for advice and stuff. stay strong sarah!!!
I can’t even imagine having to get through a breakup that was public. Proud of you for getting through it
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I love how real she is. She doesn't pretend like her life is perfect, and she is so honest and wise. I see Jesus shine through her so much ❤️
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my boyfriend of a year and a half and i broke up last night. this is a sign. thank you.
you are so strong and you will get through this girl 💗💗💗
im so sorry girl. you deserve so much more and better! ur so amazing
Sara, don’t forget that we love you and you’re a QUEEN just by yourself!
thank you so much!!!💗
@@Saraxjoy. hi Sara ilysm ur a queen 👑 🤍
@@Saraxjoy. but you’re a strong woman you’ll be okay I know it ☺️
oh wow I can’t believe they broke up. I used to watch them together but I am all for her single life! you are gorgeous best of luck!
my best advice is to completely unfollow/block ryan- the worst thing is to check on his page randomly throughout the days/years as you grow and prosper. I am so happy to hear you're doing great!!
If you guys broke up it is for a good reason and just know that there is better things for you. Just know we are with you throughout anything and just now your amazing . May God bless ❤️
so unexpected yet so proud about your openness
my boyfriend of 2 years and i just broke up and my heart literally hurts. After 2 years they become your best friend so it’s like losing a bestfriend as well. I’m heartbroken but this is really helping.Thank you for sharing. We can be independent besties!! 💕
Please do a podcast your voice & energy is so “podcast-able” 🥺🧡🧡🧡🧡
My boyfriend also broke up with me because of University in May, and everything you’re saying in this video is so true! We’ve got this!
oh my god- i just saw this while scrolling and my jaw DROPPED. omg
I’ve never had a boyfriend but I experienced this like I was so dependent on my friends but for now I’m so independent and do things on my own! So proud you you Sara 💓
Sara is a queen . So real and honest with us .😍
how to get over a heartbreak
1. get a bunch of candy and cry
2 . listen to the sour album and sing along
3 . get some help from ur friends
i really hope u feel better sara. you deserve someone who loves you so much. and i hope you find them.
God knew what he was doing. i love how positive you are about things. you are honestly just an amazing person
i was waiting for a video like this. thank you for being open to your fans! we really appreciate the honesty❤️❤️
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Wow girl! That's so crazy. You two looked so happy. But yes, things change and people change. You should be very proud of yourself for taking the opportunity to grow and not stay down and out. 💯
i’m so proud of you for having the courage to talk about it online!
Independent besties! I’m so proud of you Sara, you’re glowing:)
I’m sure you both are mature enough to get the decision which is the best in the long run for yourself ! Proud of you, you’re such an independent girl
i love how you can talk to us about what’s going on in your life and not keep it all to yourself your so real and i love you so much you have such an amazing soul and i’m so sorry that you went through this tough breakup
I love how everyone is now so open and isn't afraid to share how they feel!
i love you so much pretty girl ! so proud of you and how far you've come. thank you for making sure your platform is real, raw, and unedited at times. life is not even close to perfect, and you showing the reality of that is so brave and so appreciated. xoxo ps. independent besties !!
you are the BEST! love you so much 💖
im not in a relationship nor have I ever been in one but I feel like i’ve gained sm information that I can imply into my life! thank u and im glad that u are working on urself keep on doing that
Im so proud of she talking about this online she is so pretty
all i have to say is im so proud of you, Sarah. i was off and on with a guy for four years and i literally thought we were gonna get married. it takes a lot to get through it and you did it❤️
Wow Sara I’m so proud of u handling everything well and not mourning for a long time. You even grew to becoming a strong and confident woman. And you knew your actions that needed to be changed and u changed them. Great job Sara I’m proud. Also independent besties! :)
Thank you for being so open and honest, this is not easy to talk about but know that you have a strong group of independent besties supporting you all the way!!!
This is the healthiest relationship advice I’ve ever listened to and I wish I would’ve seen this two years ago .
You're such an inspirational women stay strong we love you QUEEN .
Im 25 watching this, and the same situation happened when my 2 year high school boyfriend left to another city far away for University. They go to the dorms and see the newness of life and realize that it's a completely different chapter.& then the same thing happened to me as I went into Uni :) It's just life. My advice I found helped me, having gone through this, is to always give this relationship the credit it deserves and look back at it in a good light, but in more of a fairy tale light. Because in a year or so from now in your adult life, it won't have any relevance to adult relationships, which are entirely different.
this was so so so helpful, not even for a breakup just life in general. sara's so gorgeous
This got me so motivated to work on myself! So proud of u! 💕
Independent besties 💕!!
Breakups aren’t at all easy for many reasons. I remember how devastated I felt with mine but when you come to the point of being over it and letting go, it’s a good feeling.
You’re stunning too!!
independent besties!!!
man you've got a great attitude, God's definitely shining inside of you and you can til. you got this!!
I AM SO PROUD
Your change is so obvious and i can definitely see how confident and wise you've gotten
adore her eyes! her smile always makes my dayyy 🥲🤍
Independent besties 💖
This has been really inspiring and I'm glad you're happy!
THIS VIDEO IS ACTUALLY SO HELPFUL
i'm so proud of you for always being yourself and show us that your life is always 'perfect.' love you so much
I’m in awe of how you set boundaries for yourself and did not talk about your breakup online right away. Proud of you, hope everything goes well for you :))
"Independent besties"... Thank you for talking about this Sara💕 I know this video will help so much people.☺️ You are so strong and I'm happy to hear you are the happiest you've ever been 💖
I loved this so much. It let me know that I am not alone, I have been feeling really down and hurt. But God really spoke to me, and he isn’t worth my pain. Sara you are such the example and light, God Bless you girl💕independent besties🌹
Girl im so jealous of you getting through your breakup quickly !! It took me about a year 🥲
I went through all the stages of your breakup after I turned a guy down even though I never really had feelings for him in the first place. And you being honest really gives me confidence in my life.
so happy for you for posting this online! stay strong 🤍
OMG, I REALLY REALLY NEEDED THIS. Thank you for sharing this with us. I hope everyone, who is going through a tough breakup finds their old, but new improved versions of them again and love themselves to the fullest
Independent besties!!!
Get it girl!! You go!! 😁😁💕
Breakups are the worst, but you are doing great Sara💕. Keep relying on the Lord 💕 God Bless you girl!! Thanks for the awesome advice!
sometimes it’s ok to cry and let your emotions flow…you are stronger than your breakup. hope you feel better soon!
Such a real and honest video!! I must say that maybe because I've never had a boyfriend before I am all of those things you mentioned now, like I fully agree that you need to find ways to "have fun" and be happy on your own and there are certain things I'm enjoying a lot more doing alone than with my friends. So important you brought this up!! Love you ❤️
Take care sara ❤️ Thank you for being so honest and open, sending love
Really really proud of you , thank you for sharing this with us 🤍
God knows what he is doing ✨
You are so strong, for some people, it is so much difficult to focus on themselves, because like you, they depended on that person. You inspire a lot of people 💕
Independent besties! You are so brave for talking about this publicly 💕
awww sara! you're so strong that you're talking it online and we are proud of youu! we love you alots ☺️
Yes my independent bestie! I haven’t been in a relationship in like almost a year I would say but the reasoning for that is that I loved too deeply and whenever our relationship ends I stay broken for quite a while so I’m just very cautious with who I give my heart to and if they’re actually worth feeling something for.
your so strong for talking about this online ik its not easy!
personally i stand sara for being honest with us and helping all of us out there!! we are always here for you sara!
Sara we love and care for you so much, fighting!
independent besties!!! i'm learning a lot from this THANK YOU SO MUCH, this was the push i needed to finally help get me through my breakup!!! all of the negative feelings you said you had were happening to me as well, except its 6 months later and im just starting to realize now that it's not worth my time to keep stressing over it lol
Thank you for continuing to make candid videos for your followers! It's a nice breath of fresh air to hear someone talk about what they truly feel!
I am glad you are opening up about it you deserve to be happy ily so much!
Independent besties! I love you! And I’m so proud of you for learning how to love and be content with yourself
I went through a break up last year and I’m still feeling some of the after affects. Thank you so much for sharing, I know some of this helped me, too. ✨independent besties✨
Hope you are doing well, sharing things makes you feel less sad
sara thank you so much for being so real and so genuine. we all really appreciate it !!
thank you so much for this video, im getting over a breakup and this video helped me find things to do. and i love how you are so real in all your vlogs that makes my day. independant besties
Sara seems so mature in this video! She handled the break up so well...🌸
u r so strong girly! i love how confident u r now! keep bein amazing 💜
thanks for the advice sara! I have never been through a breakup or even been on a date lol
but this advice so helpful and I will be saving this video for the future ❤
girlie you are so strong💘 thank you for making this video
i got broken up with 6 months ago and over these couple of months i didnt really know where to start or what to do to move on, but now im finally feeling peace and im proud of my growth. so if your going through a break up you will get through it
Same here! I grew so much from that relationship. I always depended on them for my own happiness which is NOT okay. I do have some good days and I’ll be honest with you I do miss them sometimes and still think about them. Our relationship for me was the type of love that you build your future around. We were both soooo close with each other and we both only trusted each other. It’s still difficult but I know It’ll get better through time. I removed them from insta but I did not block them. They still look at my stories which is odd since they broke up with me and didn’t want to do NOTHING with me. Weird huh. But I hope you’re doing better with yourself. I know breakups are hard and messy but at the end you only have yourself and no one else. I’m glad you’re feeling at peace cause that’s the best feeling you can have besides loving yourself❤️
Going though a similar thing and it’s been helpful to see you thriving and posting great content! It’s a good reminder that life goes on
Love how you show that life is not perfect and that everyone goes through things love you !!!!
I’m so proud of you for getting through this. Thank you for being so real with us. 💕
Don't worry about it Baby girl we still love you and like your super pretty and adore your aesthetic
Thank you for being like a big sister and being so honest and being so real
independent bestie!!!! love you and so proud 🥲
SO PROUD OF U SARAH !!! thank u so much for this and i am beyond happy that you’re happy! love you girl
yeahh independant bestiess, we're so proud of you sara and it feels so good to see you this happy! also thank you so much for making this video, it's really helpful for a lot of us
I know I don't totally know u but I def see a more free and confident Sara while you are talking, moving and doing your things in ur recent videos, so I'm really happy for u❤ keep shining as u always did. Your fans will stay here for you 4ever. Ilysm & big thanks for sharing this it's gonna help lot of us even if we never been in a relationship.
As Independent besties, we got this!
ugh you are so gorgeous sarah, BOY AINT SH*T
independent besties ❤️❤️ also you're so strong and sweet
Omg I am so sorry about it cuz u guys will go to the same uni now
independent besties ~ i’m not in a relationship but i needed this
I love your honesty ... 💗you are so strong and such an inspiration💕sooo proud of you and so happy that you are doing great... we love you QUEEN❤️🥺
ur so strong i love you and im so proud of you queen always put ur head up bestie
independent bestiesss, im soo proud of you, you goooo girllll yass
Independent besties 💘
Btw I relate to this TOO MUCH LIKE I HAVE BEEN THROUGH ALL OF THIS WITH THE EXACT FEELINGS in the past months. ✨
independent besties!! i’m proud of all your growth sara!
Wow, I knew something was going on!!! I love you so much I'm so glad you are doing better.
I really love how you talk to us so freely ❤️ you are actually a goddess
i love how real and open you are to all of your fans. i’m so proud of you for getting through this and you should know that i will always love watching your content no matter what. ily sara!!
Jesus lived a perfect life. He was sinless but He died on the cross for our sins. Our wrong doings. But, He rose 3 days later! Overcoming death!! By him dying on the cross can receive eternal life and eternal peace with our Lord and Savior. (John 3:16) He took our penalty for sin. Jesus loves you so much that he died for you! Now that is real love 💕
If you believe Jesus died and rose 3 days later, confess your a sinner in need of a savior, say with you mouth Jesus is Lord, your saved!! (Romans 10:9) Live for him everyday, pick up your cross. Deny your flesh, flee from things of this world. Share the true gospel with other people. Live out your faith! Don’t be ashamed of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ
I’m getting thorough a break up after 4 years, and I’m only 3 weeks into healing! This video definitely encouraged me to be more independent especially cause I’m literally struggling not to text him, but then I remember he was the issue. Thank you for this video ❤️
i could literally see how mature you are in this wow
AW i love u gurl
wait i need to know what’s ur starbucks order that looks so good
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I am so happy for you!!! Thank you for openly sharing this to us. We love you, we are proud of you, and we are always here for you Sara!❤️ Independent besties!!!!
thank you so much for opening up and i am not at the age where i have had a boyfriend also i will probably not have one anytime soon but i still love that you gave us this video for advice and stuff. stay strong sarah!!!