I think two women can be the best of friends without it being a gay relationship. I met a women in a fitness class a few years ago who was experiencing something similar to me. We connected on that. Then we discovered he had so many other things in common that it was uncanny. We got along so well as if we were sisters. So we began to chat and hang out often. She became my very best friend. Both of us are 100% straight. I think people need to get their minds out of the gutter.
So sad to equate being close friends with someone as gay. If we're close to our siblings does it mean we're gay? People ought get theit heads out of the gutter you'd think.
Yes I say you can have female or male friend to be close to without crossing the line into a different thing.We all need a good friend who we are alike and can relate to and not be judged.
Oh well, gee wiz, if Oprah's not in the news she makes no money. You are right. In all reality other than you and yours NOTHING is any of your business, (your not meaning you but the inclusive "your"), which would make the comment section of TH-cam null and void. So, what kind of point were you trying to make?
Charlotte Hughes ......Charlotte, yes it is......you are a fan, not a stone. You have the right to know. They are right there every day, you hear about them, you see them......you should know.
It is they are famous and have fake life's.Like she are into other people lives. Like Koby right? Keep your life out of people life then your life people can't be into. Freedom of speech ❣️
Nenethegreat W .......nene, where. I was referring into the public eye. I guess you are referring to Tennessee or Mississippi. I don't know but I will ask her when was the last time she did visit. Usually she call me back in two or three days.....as you know she is a bussy woman. I could check with Gayle, but she never answer my messages. And by the way you have a nice alias, are you related to Nancy The Great.
They are no different than Oprah and Stedman or you and I. Goldie and Kurt will give an account just like each of us will. They are choosing to live the way they do. They don't get married because they don't want to.
Marriage in western society is a contractual agreement, where a woman (who has no rights) is given away by her Father (who according to the patriarchal religious traditions, owns her) to another man, who, according to tradition, has to ask her Father for her hand in marriage. A relationship based on love and respect needs only for two people to choose to be together. Make it ‘legal’ if you wish, but the institute of marriage does not help woman have an equal place in society. That’s my opinion. I had 26 years in a relationship, 4 children and we remained friends when we decided to separate.
THERE is just too much focus on celebrity life these days. ENOUGH WITH TMZ, WENDY WILLIAMS AND OTHERS. Leave folk to live their lives. This is what we're all trying to do:/
You can have a best friend almost sister, but my best friend is my sister and I have a good close friend. Nothing freaky going on here. I love a good man that knows how to treat a good woman.
Jane Sampson .....jane, I like your reply, but you are in the same shoes as everybody else.....you don't know what is going on.....because you don't know them. On the other hand.....people always want to know about celebrities business. They are not talking about my business in TH-cam because.....iam not a celebrity......how sad. Bull shit I want to know everything about Stedman and Oprah.....iam nosesy.
Please she up here it's everyone business like the other famous people her in Gail King called out. Koby and Michael when they was alive.Why they was in there business. The white man they had came out they had said from there own mouth he wasn't a rapist. Bull. So why people can't call out there business 😠😡
I can see the same connection I had with my bestfriend who recently passed away in Oprah and Gail's friendship.and there's nothing to be suspecious about that.in life you are lucky whenyoufind that special connection to someone who isn't your significant other,because they support you all the way and just love you without judging the real you,it's pure and in my case it just felt once in a lifetime
My Mom and Step Dad's been together for 36 yrs.. Never got Married, but most of their friends and neighbors and our family members all have gotten Divorced, some twice.. Find what works for you, and do that.. Thank God she's not one for taking life changing advice from total strangers
Staying in a relationship without a marriage isn't so bad she had so much going on in life she is famous and rich at least they stayed close 27 years now .A marriage is a piece of paper with names on it changing a maiden name to husband's last name.I say do what works for you not a family member or a best friend.
I had heard about all those lies from her step-mother. I knew from the start that none of it was true & the main one was about her & Gail. The both of them are very proud women & if they were gay they would have said so. That woman was just pissed 😠 & jealous.
It's a shame folk label close female friends as being gay. This happen to me and my best friend who was more like a sister to me. I got very angry when I heard that rumor and it took my mother, sitting us both down and saying this is nothing new. Folks have been saying that about close girlfriends for ever. She said don't let anything or anyone come between our friendship. For us to love each other and for us to have each others back always. That what we had was rare and people would always be jealous of our bond.. We did just that. I loved her and she loved me until the day she passed away. I have never had a girlfriend and sister like her since. We were closer than our own blood sisters, and I will miss her until the day I pass over. I understand Gayle and Oprah's friendship because I was blessed to have that relationship with my best friend also!*
I know what your talking about. I had a best friend since I was nine, and she was seven. We literally made mud pies to gether. We went through life talking, crying, laughing, going crazy, being hurt, rejoicing, disappointed, confused together, and making discoveries about life. We had our first babies, and last babies the same year. We had our ups, and downs, and talked everything out. We became nurses. We became senior citizens. We talked so much, we were ashamed of ourselves, and very proud of ourselves if we managed to hold some information back. Three years ago she died. She had cancer, and didn't make it. One morning I woke up, and told God I just want to talk to her. So many things happen during the course of the day, or week, that I say, I would call her about this. She was a sister to me. I heard the filthy rumors too. But God is my witness we were just close friends. Bonded through confiding everything to each other. You don't get a "heart bonded" friend everyday. We both got saved, and I hope to see her again one day. I hope she made it in, and I hope to do the same. That's something else we will talk about. I know if it was possible that she could call me she would. No spooky stuff. No seances and all that mess. I'm talking about blowing up the phone, AT&T style, and that's bad enough.
@@carmenmunoz3675 I'm so happy you had each other. I would pick up the phone three times a day after she passed away. It took me a month to stop doing that. We were saved and I know I will see her again. May God bless you and keep you, until you see your friend once again!*
We both lost our mothers in 1981. My mother passed in February and hers in March. Needless to say. We was holding on to God's unchanging hand and each other. Her mom was older but my mom was just 59yrs old!*
Why do people think a marriage certificate is the only way to go in life. They can do as they please AND DO, I'm certainly not worrying about Oprah and Stedman. If you listen to Oprah and Gayle talk it's like they are one person, they know and deeply care for each other how lucky can you get!! Good on ya ladies! ✌️💞
People need to get ah life and stay out of other people lives yes u can be really good friends and not be gay. Men with men and women with women listen the whole world is not gay
Yes so so true my best friend and i were always together unyil she died breast cancer ten yrs ago. Bad robotici voice that their business so so what be A life all who are jealous of them
Because it was all about the money for him! He’s been rumored to have a family in NC and I’ve seen his adult daughter with him and Oprah! To O he’s a trophy 🏆 escort and a lap dog! Oprah is beautiful talented genuine and has a big heart ❤️ I love her as a sister!
Hi Oprah, there have been a couple of major/minor developments in my life this week. First the good news, I went to Target to shop this week and they had applications out for work. I have previously worked for Target from 1998-2009 at a distribution center as a warehouse Worker. This Target store seems to be very interested in me working for them doing the same type of work @ 15.00/hr. I’m extremely happy for this opportunity. I’ll follow up with details as they unfold. Second, I met a woman on FB dating app and she agreed to go to the movies with me tomorrow, so I went and bought the tickets a few days ago. However, she got cold feet and cancelled on me today…I guess it wasn’t meant to be. Anyways, now I’m taking John and we’ll spend some alone time together hopefully we can talk about stuff. Just wanted you to know because you’ve been pivotal in helping change my life back around. Hope everything is well. Sincerely, Michael Maki
Both successful people;she has more money but he's no bum. Marriage isn't for everyone;if it were the divorce rate would be much lower. These are mature adults with no babies and doing what works for them. Do you!
My goodness, I have always loved Oprah. I don’t know much about her honey other than it’s her business. If it’s none of our business, we should worry about us. I love you Oprah and I’ve learned as much from you as I have from 2 college degrees. Janice in TN
You have a FEELING that Stedman is a kept man ? A FEELING ? Whatever the case, and I do agree with you, at least Stedman isn't a dummy, doesn't embarrass her, clown her, or make denigrating comments about her to the press, public, or in private. He probably did not demand anything ridiculous of her , like producing " The Stedman Show " and is content to be her partner with all its trimming. He has kept his mouth shut, and respects her: which should be expected, if not demanded, with any kept person.
It's probably very hard to be mr. Oprah Winfrey. But the fact that he never complains to reporters and is seemingly very loyal tells me that he's a strong character. He has a quiet sort of confidence and probably doesn't like to be the center of attention. Seems to be a great guy. I actually would like to know more about him though.
Famous Black women need what Oprah has in Gayle and Stedman. A trusted female friend and trusted Black man to render her unavailable for intimate relationship. Love her.
Kim Moore Agreed. Why do certain ppl have to put everything out there? Oh I had a pimple at age 13, I had an abortion at 12, etc., etc., Probably not the correct example. I do not want to know their business but they are the ones who put it all out there.
Beautiful couple. I think Mr. Graham is a very private man. He'scalso a very good author and leader. Like Oprah he's brilliant! A real power couple in that sense. I trully believe they love each other deeply when I saw the moment at an award show where Oprah was honoured for her humanitarean work. His reaction when Oprah thanked him for loving her was really moving. The rumours are just it - rumours and nothing else. Who cares? If you're happy in your home you don't give a damn about what happens in other people's relationships. Lots of unhappy people here.
Too many people rush to get married and have devorce not long after . So some times it better to take it slow and before you know it years have passed and you are still happy together .
It's very sad how people don't know the essence of one's relationships and then makes up stories about their conclusions. It's crazy and so ignorant. If the stepmother had any proof she would have exposed it. Just the step-mother's angry Crap.
Why marry they’ll never have children, if it works leave it alone . Their union has lasted longer then most marriages. Oprah’s step mom was just bitter & jealous .
Sister Grace .....sister, their union. What union.....their friendship. With money most friendship last. Oprah in New York with Gayle, Stedman in Chicago with my cousin. Send the bill to Oprah.
Live your life Ms Oprah and Steadmon. God is good ! If it was meant for the two to be hitched then the two would be hitched. Advice to Oprah continue to keep your personal and intimate life out of the media it is much better that way ! Make Steadmon your best friend and I wish you all the best !
Oh YESSSSSSS they have, and he was very angry by the remark. He "called Himself" teaching A Seminar on how to get rich and wrote A book and the response was "well Mr. Winfrey, just date Oprah.
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Oprah, you’re a beautiful woman who are loved by many, your life is your life, and I know that you know you don’t have to explain your life to anyone. Keep on keeping onI love you. ❤️✝️
HELL if they lived in the state of TEXAS they would be considered married. So what if they choice to just live together and not get married. Who are we to judge.
...she has openly said several times that she wanted him to love her enough to propose...however she said she will never marry him because she feels she will have to answer to him...and she cannot have that...
They put a lie about me twice, in my life, that I was gay. I have been approached by women, but I said, 'A BIG NO', because I knew I'm a women. And it would always be a man who would put the lie out, I assume low self-esteem. Those lies bothers people.
Opra and Stedman might be married already but we dont know, then again why would he marry her opra has put his daughter through school and set him up in a business, so why would he marry her, he is living good with opra ?
Why did she not marry Stedman? Simply put, she wasn't feeling loved in the way she wanted to feel loved and vice versa. My question is why did they stay together thereafter?
@@barbararichardson2747 I recall Oprah wanting the fairy tale wedding at.the time and babies. You could see the dream in her eyes. I am simply saying that if that is what she wanted, she should have abandoned Stedman in favor of her own dreams rather than persuade herself to accept that Hod did not have those things in store for her. There are plenty of other women who let Stedman go because they wanted different things.
With the racism & colorism, I don't blame them... I don't think either of them are homosexuals. They just want a quiet, peaceful, & sexy life without children or the drama of marriage..... I can't really blame them with their money. Oprah is a powerful Black Woman & Stedman ages like fine wine.... That's Enough
Well opera your stepmother is a dummy. I always said some women should not be born like all those who let your life story be a problem God bless u with what u accomplished in life stay strong and dont worry about what people think or said about jellious is the main reason but dont worry be happy
What ever works for them. People are always going to talk good and bad ! I look at it this way, if people stop talking about you then your not important. Lol ! And who care's about her sex life . It's hers, It does not change the lovley woman she is. I love Oprah UNCONDITIONALLY !
After hearing the way Oprah was raised and rejected by her mother then being raped by her uncles she felt worthless and unloved and unprotected from all the people who should of been there to love her. It is simply amazing she turned out to be the amazing women she us today. I think I love her compassion the most she has for people. I really don't care about her private life I just hope she is happy. I am proud of you Oprah ❤️
Oprah would never get married as long as Gail is around. And Gail is to involve in Oprah 's life that's why her own marriage failed..oprah loves her fame and money far more than she foes Steadman
If what is working for Oprah and Stedman without marriage why change things I just love ❤️ the relationship they have.any changes would not have worked they both deserved each other.both R extremely intelligence their lives R great. DPitts. As the Gale sand Oprah lesbian claims R concerned it’s not what one does it’s all about how they do it. What works for 1 person may not work for another person. And when it comes to the mother in law gossip while she was spreading rumors she should have been getting her house situation straighten out. DPitts
Yep a real man big strong and handsome nothing to sneeze at.May be older now but still got it going on may not under the covers but I n looks 💯 percent man.
They look good together... Wedding is just a societal expectation that is unnecessary... Expectations can push people to wall.As long as they are okay with each other,the don't need to prove it with a wedding
I am a woman and I remember running into a woman that had a beautiful dress on and I told her I love your dress and she replied I am not gay people always look at everything in their way of thinking a compliment could be taken wrong I wish you the very best Oprah
Stedman has not aged well at all. He looks like a closet drinker. Is it that stressful for him? I did read his business classes were really good but it seems as if he never achieved a successful career. As for their relationship, it works for them. However, I will never comprehend how living together vs being legally married creates a different relationship. So basically not being married they get to do what they want vs being married they would have different roles? That's a roommate. No wonder Barbara Walters told Oprah she thought they were no longer together.
Nothing wrong two women became best friends, you don’t have to be guy been good friends, anyway is not our business, I been best friends with my friends already 30 years we both straight
I think two women can be the best of friends without it being a gay relationship. I met a women in a fitness class a few years ago who was experiencing something similar to me. We connected on that. Then we discovered he had so many other things in common that it was uncanny. We got along so well as if we were sisters. So we began to chat and hang out often. She became my very best friend. Both of us are 100% straight. I think people need to get their minds out of the gutter.
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So sad to equate being close friends with someone as gay. If we're close to our siblings does it mean we're gay? People ought get theit heads out of the gutter you'd think.
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Yes I say you can have female or male friend to be close to without crossing the line into a different thing.We all need a good friend who we are alike and can relate to and not be judged.
Oprah and Steadman do not have to marry if they are both happy and content the way they are right now ! Thanks
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Let me guess, you're a female
Gee, I just realized what Oprah and Stedman decide to do or not to do is none of my business.
Exactly!!
Oh well, gee wiz, if Oprah's not in the news she makes no money. You are right. In all reality other than you and yours NOTHING is any of your business, (your not meaning you but the inclusive "your"), which would make the comment section of TH-cam null and void.
So, what kind of point were you trying to make?
Charlotte Hughes ......Charlotte, yes it is......you are a fan, not a stone. You have the right to know. They are right there every day, you hear about them, you see them......you should know.
It is they are famous and have fake life's.Like she are into other people lives. Like Koby right? Keep your life out of people life then your life people can't be into. Freedom of speech ❣️
Nenethegreat W .......nene, where. I was referring into the public eye. I guess you are referring to Tennessee or Mississippi. I don't know but I will ask her when was the last time she did visit. Usually she call me back in two or three days.....as you know she is a bussy woman. I could check with Gayle, but she never answer my messages. And by the way you have a nice alias, are you related to Nancy The Great.
I don't know why people question it, Goldie Hawn & Kurt Russell aren't married
They are no different than Oprah and Stedman or you and I. Goldie and Kurt will give an account just like each of us will. They are choosing to live the way they do. They don't get married because they don't want to.
@@girlygirlwoman give an account on what?
That's an easy one. People don't care about Goldie.
Marriage in western society is a contractual agreement, where a woman (who has no rights) is given away by her Father (who according to the patriarchal religious traditions, owns her) to another man, who, according to tradition, has to ask her Father for her hand in marriage. A relationship based on love and respect needs only for two people to choose to be together. Make it ‘legal’ if you wish, but the institute of marriage does not help woman have an equal place in society. That’s my opinion. I had 26 years in a relationship, 4 children and we remained friends when we decided to separate.
Different.
THERE is just too much focus on celebrity life these days. ENOUGH WITH TMZ, WENDY WILLIAMS AND OTHERS. Leave folk to live their lives. This is what we're all trying to do:/
2dasimmons exactly
Who do we focus on then,you? Lol
Because of the timeframe they are from, having the title "engaged" made "$hacking up" more respectable.
TMZ and Wendy Williams interfere and broadcast about other people's lives, social status, and problems.
I know that's Right
What nonsense! Leave Oprah alone. Her relationship with Stedman is no one's business!!! How annoying!!
I agree .If we take care of our own business then we don't have to worry about someone else relationship.
Christie7 Hammon4 .....Chris, it is possible.....that was in my mind, but i love her personality. I am not too much for Gayle.
You can have a best friend almost sister, but my best friend is my sister and I have a good close friend. Nothing freaky going on here. I love a good man that knows how to treat a good woman.
Jane Sampson .....jane, I like your reply, but you are in the same shoes as everybody else.....you don't know what is going on.....because you don't know them. On the other hand.....people always want to know about celebrities business. They are not talking about my business in TH-cam because.....iam not a celebrity......how sad. Bull shit I want to know everything about Stedman and Oprah.....iam nosesy.
Please she up here it's everyone business like the other famous people her in Gail King called out. Koby and Michael when they was alive.Why they was in there business. The white man they had came out they had said from there own mouth he wasn't a rapist. Bull. So why people can't call out there business 😠😡
What a turn off to hear a computerized voice..
Yeah I would rather read it not have a voice reading it to me.
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I know, so annoying!
I can see the same connection I had with my bestfriend who recently passed away in Oprah and Gail's friendship.and there's nothing to be suspecious about that.in life you are lucky whenyoufind that special connection to someone who isn't your significant other,because they support you all the way and just love you without judging the real you,it's pure and in my case it just felt once in a lifetime
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My Mom and Step Dad's been together for 36 yrs.. Never got Married, but most of their friends and neighbors and our family members all have gotten Divorced, some twice.. Find what works for you, and do that.. Thank God she's not one for taking life changing advice from total strangers
Staying in a relationship without a marriage isn't so bad she had so much going on in life she is famous and rich at least they stayed close 27 years now .A marriage is a piece of paper with names on it changing a maiden name to husband's last name.I say do what works for you not a family member or a best friend.
Cause it’s HER PREROGATIVE!
I just realize how little this matters....about 7 minutes of my life wasted...
Spirited, intelligent, lively Oprah could *NEVER* be dull.
If a wedding would ruin everything, that should tell you something.
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"Preach on then"
Whatever they are doing, I hope they’re happy and it’s none of my business!
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You would not say this if it were the other way around lol
I had heard about all those lies from her step-mother. I knew from the start that none of it was true & the main one was about her & Gail. The both of them are very proud women & if they were gay they would have said so. That woman was just pissed 😠 & jealous.
It's a shame folk label close female friends as being gay. This happen to me and my best friend who was more like a sister to me. I got very angry when I heard that rumor and it took my mother, sitting us both down and saying this is nothing new. Folks have been saying that about close girlfriends for ever. She said don't let anything or anyone come between our friendship. For us to love each other and for us to have each others back always. That what we had was rare and people would always be jealous of our bond.. We did just that. I loved her and she loved me until the day she passed away. I have never had a girlfriend and sister like her since. We were closer than our own blood sisters, and I will miss her until the day I pass over. I understand Gayle and Oprah's friendship because I was blessed to have that relationship with my best friend also!*
Carolyn Minter yes. It’s a shame. My friends and I were accused of that craziness!!
@@nappyscribe1987 it's so sad and PITIFUL!*
I know what your talking about. I had a best friend since I was nine, and she was seven. We literally made mud pies to gether. We went through life talking, crying, laughing, going crazy, being hurt, rejoicing, disappointed, confused together, and making discoveries about life. We had our first babies, and last babies the same year. We had our ups, and downs, and talked everything out. We became nurses. We became senior citizens. We talked so much, we were ashamed of ourselves, and very proud of ourselves if we managed to hold some information back.
Three years ago she died. She had cancer, and didn't make it. One morning I woke up, and told God I just want to talk to her. So many things happen during the course of the day, or week, that I say, I would call her about this. She was a sister to me. I heard the filthy rumors too. But God is my witness we were just close friends. Bonded through confiding everything to each other. You don't get a "heart bonded" friend everyday. We both got saved, and I hope to see her again one day. I hope she made it in, and I hope to do the same. That's something else we will talk about. I know if it was possible that she could call me she would. No spooky stuff. No seances and all that mess. I'm talking about blowing up the phone, AT&T style, and that's bad enough.
@@carmenmunoz3675 I'm so happy you had each other. I would pick up the phone three times a day after she passed away. It took me a month to stop doing that. We were saved and I know I will see her again. May God bless you and keep you, until you see your friend once again!*
We both lost our mothers in 1981. My mother passed in February and hers in March. Needless to say. We was holding on to God's unchanging hand and each other. Her mom was older but my mom was just 59yrs old!*
Why do people think a marriage certificate is the only way to go in life. They can do as they please AND DO, I'm certainly not worrying about Oprah and Stedman. If you listen to Oprah and Gayle talk it's like they are one person, they know and deeply care for each other how lucky can you get!! Good on ya ladies! ✌️💞
People need to get ah life and stay out of other people lives yes u can be really good friends and not be gay. Men with men and women with women listen the whole world is not gay
Yes so so true my best friend and i were always together unyil she died breast cancer ten yrs ago. Bad robotici voice that their business so so what be A life all who are jealous of them
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Crazy world!!
I believe wemen can live together
and enjoy each others company
and not be gay but it may be more
temptation for younger women.
Truth spoken
Because it was all about the money for him! He’s been rumored to have a family in NC and I’ve seen his adult daughter with him and Oprah! To O he’s a trophy 🏆 escort and a lap dog! Oprah is beautiful talented genuine and has a big heart ❤️ I love her as a sister!
Hi Oprah, there have been a couple of major/minor developments in my life this week. First the good news, I went to Target to shop this week and they had applications out for work. I have previously worked for Target from 1998-2009 at a distribution center as a warehouse Worker. This Target store seems to be very interested in me working for them doing the same type of work @ 15.00/hr. I’m extremely happy for this opportunity. I’ll follow up with details as they unfold. Second, I met a woman on FB dating app and she agreed to go to the movies with me tomorrow, so I went and bought the tickets a few days ago. However, she got cold feet and cancelled on me today…I guess it wasn’t meant to be. Anyways, now I’m taking John and we’ll spend some alone time together hopefully we can talk about stuff. Just wanted you to know because you’ve been pivotal in helping change my life back around. Hope everything is well. Sincerely, Michael Maki
Oh well, it's her life. She loves it. Why not like it. Her life is between her and her God. ☺
That's right many couple getting marry but after few months or a year or two then no more so thats maybe one of the reason.Trouble sometimes.
Her life is between her and Gayle..
Shut up stupid macine repoter. Its not your buissness nor mine.
Oprah is a nasty woman. She lives on other people's misery !!
Nancy Howard .....nancy, so why are even here.
Stedman is just a pawn for all the slow people in the back 😂😂
It's a pity rich guys can't be this smart
Both successful people;she has more money but he's no bum.
Marriage isn't for everyone;if it were the divorce rate would be much lower. These are mature adults with no babies and doing what works for them. Do you!
Barbara Richardson
who. this. person
Whatever- they are just " shack-ups"!
My goodness, I have always loved Oprah. I don’t know much about her honey other than it’s her business. If it’s none of our business, we should worry about us. I love you Oprah and I’ve learned as much from you as I have from 2 college degrees. Janice in TN
Me too, *Janice.* Oprah's a world wonder. 💜💜💜
I have a feeling Stedmsn is a kept man! He is no dummy
YESSSSSSS, he's KEPT INDEED!
You have a FEELING that Stedman is a kept man ? A FEELING ? Whatever the case, and I do agree with you, at least Stedman isn't a dummy, doesn't embarrass her, clown her, or make denigrating comments about her to the press, public, or in private. He probably did not demand anything ridiculous of her , like producing " The Stedman Show " and is content to be her partner with all its trimming. He has kept his mouth shut, and respects her: which should be expected, if not demanded, with any kept person.
It's probably very hard to be mr. Oprah Winfrey. But the fact that he never complains to reporters and is seemingly very loyal tells me that he's a strong character. He has a quiet sort of confidence and probably doesn't like to be the center of attention. Seems to be a great guy. I actually would like to know more about him though.
Famous Black women need what Oprah has in Gayle and Stedman. A trusted female friend and trusted Black man to render her unavailable for intimate relationship. Love her.
It is our business when they put it out there. Just like they tell everyone else business 😂😉
Kim Moore Agreed. Why do certain ppl have to put everything out there? Oh I had a pimple at age 13, I had an abortion at 12, etc., etc., Probably not the correct example. I do not want to know their business but they are the ones who put it all out there.
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That is what u think and this is what I think. Sorry if you'll don't Agree 😃😸
Beautiful couple. I think Mr. Graham is a very private man. He'scalso a very good author and leader. Like Oprah he's brilliant! A real power couple in that sense. I trully believe they love each other deeply when I saw the moment at an award show where Oprah was honoured for her humanitarean work. His reaction when Oprah thanked him for loving her was really moving. The rumours are just it - rumours and nothing else. Who cares? If you're happy in your home you don't give a damn about what happens in other people's relationships. Lots of unhappy people here.
Steadmsn not stupid he stayed where the money is he could have gotten any woman with his looks back then
Too many people rush to get married and have devorce not long after . So some times it better to take it slow and before you know it years have passed and you are still happy together .
since I was married to a lawyer I know that devorce is spelled divorce!! Oh, my husband passed away 6 years ago, great guy for sure!!
It's very sad how people don't know the essence of one's relationships and then makes up stories about their conclusions. It's crazy and so ignorant. If the stepmother had any proof she would have exposed it. Just the step-mother's angry Crap.
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Sounds like the stepmother is jealous she can’t have Oprah’s life 😂
Why marry they’ll never have children, if it works leave it alone . Their union has lasted longer then most marriages.
Oprah’s step mom was just bitter & jealous .
Sister Grace .....sister, their union. What union.....their friendship. With money most friendship last. Oprah in New York with Gayle, Stedman in Chicago with my cousin. Send the bill to Oprah.
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Because she SCARED he goin leave take half
They could marry out of community of property🙄 they just don't wanna get married
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Live your life Ms Oprah and Steadmon. God is good ! If it was meant for the two to be hitched then the two would be hitched. Advice to Oprah continue to keep your personal and intimate life out of the media it is much better that way ! Make Steadmon your best friend and I wish you all the best !
she is worried he will take her $$$. SHE has more control this way.
The Betty Brodericks need to listen.
They love each other so that’s their own business nobody business if they love each other that’s fine too.
OPRAH LIKES TO CALL THE SHOTS!
My self and my Best friend till she passed we were like Oprah and Gayle .
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Fantasia show Vince change Fantasia show
It seems to work for them and no one calls Steadman Mr. Winfrey.
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Oh YESSSSSSS they have, and he was very angry by the remark. He "called Himself" teaching A Seminar on how to get rich and wrote A book and the response was "well Mr. Winfrey, just date Oprah.
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I'll be mr.winfrey! Besides, Oprah is sexy!
He was just her Pretty Boy Toy..... I get that really.... Sometimes men need this title too, lol...
he is the only biracial dude who has bagged a rich dark skinned woman. i can't think of another example but i have about 200 for the reverse scenario
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She is a public figure a leader people follow you as an example get married or break up the bible isvthe final and only authority
Sadly, I must inform you that everyone does not believe in the Bible - which is the final Authority.
Why haven’t I won the lottery... 🔮
Ooooooooookay! Me and u both!🤑🤑
I know right oh I forget to play it damn it oh well can't play if you ain't got it to spare.
Mondo1Bongo ......Mondo, I wonder......every one else has.
Mondo, cause you always pick the wrong numbers.
Oprah, you’re a beautiful woman who are loved by many, your life is your life, and I know that you know you don’t have to explain your life to anyone. Keep on keeping onI love you. ❤️✝️
She's not reading your comment so don't post.
How does it matter as long as they are happy!
Who cares u don’t have to be married to be happy what they have works for them
Steadmen & Oprah are married just never had a big wedding & she and Gale are just best friends, get a life people! Smdh 🤨
HELL if they lived in the state of TEXAS they would be considered married. So what if they choice to just live together and not get married. Who are we to judge.
...she has openly said several times that she wanted him to love her enough to propose...however she said she will never marry him because she feels she will have to answer to him...and she cannot have that...
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Gosh! They are living together and not married! Wow! Big,big news!
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You can't put a good woman down, leaver Oprah alone
Go find her old hairdresser Andre, Ask him.
Michael Harrison .....hell no.....her ex hair dresser will stand half twisted and say.....oh Oprah is as gay as chicken.....they never tell.
DOESNT REALLY MAKE A DIFFERENCE ACTUALLY
They put a lie about me twice, in my life, that I was gay. I have been approached by women, but I said, 'A BIG NO', because I knew I'm a women. And it would always be a man who would put the lie out, I assume low self-esteem. Those lies bothers people.
Immature guys do that stupidity when women turn them down.
Because she is already married to Gail.
Opra and Stedman might be married already but we dont know, then again why would he marry her opra has put his daughter through school and set him up in a business, so why would he marry her, he is living good with opra ?
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Why did she not marry Stedman? Simply put, she wasn't feeling loved in the way she wanted to feel loved and vice versa. My question is why did they stay together thereafter?
At a time when marriage seem irrelevantt inspite of making babies why is it relevant for two successful people without babies?
@@barbararichardson2747 I recall Oprah wanting the fairy tale wedding at.the time and babies. You could see the dream in her eyes. I am simply saying that if that is what she wanted, she should have abandoned Stedman in favor of her own dreams rather than persuade herself to accept that Hod did not have those things in store for her. There are plenty of other women who let Stedman go because they wanted different things.
If you're happy and you know it say I am. I am
anne Vaughn ......anne, I have no money. Yes, money is everything.
Thank you so much for what you are doing to mankind.
With the racism & colorism, I don't blame them... I don't think either of them are homosexuals. They just want a quiet, peaceful, & sexy life without children or the drama of marriage..... I can't really blame them with their money. Oprah is a powerful Black Woman & Stedman ages like fine wine.... That's Enough
I guess Goldie Hawn is Gay 2 HUH!. GIRLS N GUYS can really be friends . Not everyone is gay
I've got to go there and once I am there I hope I can go there and the toilets are not closed down.
Don't play games with people life stay out of people and don't be mischievous beautiful lady
Barbara sound bitter and needs to mind her business lol
Barbara is sick and jelouse
Do not believe some of this news. Anyway best wishes to Stedman and Oprah.
And Gayle!
Well opera your stepmother is a dummy. I always said some women should not be born like all those who let your life story be a problem God bless u with what u accomplished in life stay strong and dont worry about what people think or said about jellious is the main reason but dont worry be happy
Stedman is still handsome.
Nation I am will not
Steadmsn use to be so fine
She dosent want to share her money
I couldn't care less
Exactly ☺ I could care less 👍💯
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What ever works for them. People are always going to talk good and bad ! I look at it this way, if people stop talking about you then your not important. Lol !
And who care's about her sex life . It's hers,
It does not change the lovley woman she is.
I love Oprah UNCONDITIONALLY !
I don't buy that story,Oprah!
Me eather, SHE'S GAY!.
Why in God's can't everyone leave well alone. ,, and the sick stepmother needs to find a life.,, !!
They are fine the way they are, he has his own money and not ar her beck and call!
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I just love this Couple!!
And the stepmother wasn't talking when she could stay in the house.
Ok I’m over this DMV lady voice 😆😆😆 next!
I hate computer voices. It’s almost satan like. Creepy!
God Bless You Both .....Sincerely Susanna Licata Denver!!!!!
After hearing the way Oprah was raised and rejected by her mother then being raped by her uncles she felt worthless and unloved and unprotected from all the people who should of been there to love her. It is simply amazing she turned out to be the amazing women she us today. I think I love her compassion the most she has for people. I really don't care about her private life I just hope she is happy. I am proud of you Oprah ❤️
There are other people that has suffered like O she is asked everybody anything and she wants to be all silent and crap about her life
What I want to know is so frickin what if they are gay?
Oprah would never get married as long as Gail is around. And Gail is to involve in Oprah 's life that's why her own marriage failed..oprah loves her fame and money far more than she foes Steadman
It can’t be an unauthorized ”autobiography” auto meaning” self.” So self written needs the permission from yourself. LMAO.
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I don't care about other people business. Stay from telling other people business if u don't want anyone in you'rs
Stedman...well-named.
He’s so good looking
If what is working for Oprah and Stedman without marriage why change things I just love ❤️ the relationship they have.any changes would not have worked they both deserved each other.both R extremely intelligence their lives R great. DPitts. As the Gale sand Oprah lesbian claims R concerned it’s not what one does it’s all about how they do it. What works for 1 person may not work for another person. And when it comes to the mother in law gossip while she was spreading rumors she should have been getting her house situation straighten out. DPitts
Gm edagdwg thanks for sharing sadmam is only a friend of hers that is why I say he is arm candy for her he's a real man Linda j ☮️
Yep a real man big strong and handsome nothing to sneeze at.May be older now but still got it going on may not under the covers but I n looks 💯 percent man.
They look good together... Wedding is just a societal expectation that is unnecessary...
Expectations can push people to wall.As long as they are okay with each other,the don't need to prove it with a wedding
Tells you something about the source when they find it odd three people could sit around and just talk. No drama = emotional intelligence.
its a contractual "relationship"..like Cruise/Kidman..Cruise/Holmes..etc..we all think her and Gail are a couple anyway...
Is she going to leave all that money to a cat, a dog? No children? Sad.
Elaine Edwards .....elaine, to Gayle or her children.
Are they still together. wow Oprah. you go girl.
She's smart because if they got married, then divorced, for sure she would have to pay him out!
I am a woman and I remember running into a woman that had a beautiful dress on and I told her I love your dress and she replied I am not gay people always look at everything in their way of thinking a compliment could be taken wrong I wish you the very best Oprah
No it's why Stedman never married Oprah
Exactly. Why marry someone like her?
Thank u!!! Money ain't everything° she's all up in everybody's business. She needs to mind her OWN. Reason y she can't ever keep her man.
I just wanted to see the photos
Stedman has not aged well at all. He looks like a closet drinker. Is it that stressful for him? I did read his business classes were really good but it seems as if he never achieved a successful career. As for their relationship, it works for them. However, I will never comprehend how living together vs being legally married creates a different relationship. So basically not being married they get to do what they want vs being married they would have different roles? That's a roommate. No wonder Barbara Walters told Oprah she thought they were no longer together.
Why should Oprah marry? Why should the question even be asked? What's to be gained by being married?
The Bible says if you can not control your Passions, You should marry 💚 they live together,why not marry 😁
They got married and never told anyone?
I think they are married too
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If you wanted to know it Public knowledge
She aged gracefully
I thought someone said Stedman family hangup is "don't marry anyone with skin tone darker than you". Any truth to that?
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Nothing wrong two women became best friends, you don’t have to be guy been good friends, anyway is not our business, I been best friends with my friends already 30 years we both straight
Please stop the gossip.
Tina When i Grow Up I Want To Be a Christian ....tina, hell no.