THEY ARE IN A WORLD OF HURT BECAUSE OF WHAT THEY DID TO YOU

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  • @matthewharrington5990
    @matthewharrington5990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    There's an old saying "When people reveal the content of their character, you should listen & respond accordingly"

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly the 1st time they show you who they are believe them 🗣✍🏻🤬💔🚨

    • @mudnocchio
      @mudnocchio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@lovewhitey2027 that’s maya angelo words, pay respects 🥱

  • @liltimtimm2601
    @liltimtimm2601 3 ปีที่แล้ว +80

    It’s so crazy because I really thought I was alone I’m glad some people are with me in this world

    • @leomduffy794
      @leomduffy794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Were def not alone. I used to feel the same way.

    • @bodyme
      @bodyme 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It will get easier as you get older life ain't easy no one truly knows God is the only one that will let you see when he decides it is the right time for you.

    • @sandoso2679
      @sandoso2679 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re not alone. You’re loved.

    • @sibiria8816
      @sibiria8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      We’re all with u bruh

  • @phoenixfireclusterbomb
    @phoenixfireclusterbomb 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Thats why I stick to myself these days.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Safest plan 🗣✍🏻🙏🏻

    • @beckyhoffman9423
      @beckyhoffman9423 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I do to Matthew, I really thought that people told the truth but I am woke now and my circle is small.

    • @lovewhitey2027
      @lovewhitey2027 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@beckyhoffman9423 stick with God they all lie for there ego 🤬profit or both

  • @Bo00si33
    @Bo00si33 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I know they say the narcissist doesn't care but BAYBEE, just know they feel it.

    • @ajgreen374
      @ajgreen374 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      👏👍 'Indeed they do'!! 💃

    • @magickinfused5230
      @magickinfused5230 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That's the demons trying to pull them back to their egos. Truth hurtz

    • @Missy_561
      @Missy_561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Truth

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Oh yes they care when that wall come caving in on their behinds and there is no place for them to flee.!

    • @abbasownblackman2762
      @abbasownblackman2762 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Don't seem like they do.

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Yes, they do miss out. They miss out amazing individuals like us who are about real stuff and who have a good heart, but that is their loss, not ours.

    • @thomasgyebi8717
      @thomasgyebi8717 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      U can’t appreciate someone intill they are gone. If there response is indifference they never truly cared about u

  • @katehampstead6024
    @katehampstead6024 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Sneaky shit means an instant ejection from my trust and, where possible, from my life.

  • @philu4621
    @philu4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I literally think im gonna cry tears of joy when I get through all this crap in my life and leave the area and state that has plagued me for 25 years...constant betrayal, constant disloyalty, constant inconsideration, constant picking at wounds and straight up harassment. Its a miracle I haven't beat the shit outta some of these fools...but its all gonna come back to them and they'll be stuck here forever...miserable...by their own choices.

    • @sibiria8816
      @sibiria8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pray that god is merciful to them

    • @leomduffy794
      @leomduffy794 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I pray we all heal I know how you feel. With the city I live in. I feel its 80 20% 80% of people I know have mistook my kindness as a weakness. Im almost a year free from my narcasist ex gf. Still healing but I def am healing. Im here if you ever need to talk. We are all light and darkness hates the light. Bless everybody we all shall prevail. 🌎❤🍀🇺🇸

    • @karabrodsky2852
      @karabrodsky2852 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wonder if you are talking about NY lol. So toxic and crazy here. It has never worked out here in any capacity. If you are in NY, make plans to move, please. Lol.

  • @pikep4816
    @pikep4816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    You see a persons true colors when they have nothing beneficial to gain from you. Shallow relationships and dependent relationships only lasts until they can’t gain from you. When it’s their turn to help you or pay you back; they leave you and ignore you.

  • @dianehayse1816
    @dianehayse1816 3 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    one thing I'll say about you is: I like your honesty and you have integrity

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I am disgusted by people who sleep with "everyone" ... disloyality is one of the most unattractive things ever.

    • @abbasownblackman2762
      @abbasownblackman2762 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Verrrrrry

    • @karriesaunders8597
      @karriesaunders8597 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s disgusting what I’ve been put through with a child by a narc. I am clean living and have struggled every week to being up out child alone. Every time I gave our family a chance he slept with some trash,sleep arounds and even had what he called a dirty shag on drugs!!!!! I am so angry that our daughter was put through this with me. There are no words that describe these rebrobates who keep going in unrepentance. I’d rather they were cut down if they never want to repent

    • @oneluv4us74
      @oneluv4us74 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Remember how Jesus forgave us even though we stumbled and fell time after time 🙏

    • @sibiria8816
      @sibiria8816 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These people are hurt and they need true love ❤️

    • @divine_presence
      @divine_presence 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@sibiria8816 But they don't give true love.

  • @phoenixstarseed6088
    @phoenixstarseed6088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    When you sleep with someone you are not only sharing your energy with that person you are taking on everyone that person has slept with that's why alot of times relationships doesn't work out

    • @on-the-rise-productions44
      @on-the-rise-productions44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You hit the nail on the head!!!!!

    • @tammysutton9805
      @tammysutton9805 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We have all made mistakes.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@tammysutton9805 Some of us, can only learn the hard way😘🌹❤️

    • @rosalynmagee7516
      @rosalynmagee7516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You have to break every soul ties of every single person you're sleep with, because sleeping around fragments your soul and pray that your fragmented soul finds its rightful place. Read JE Charles book soul ties.

    • @phoenixstarseed6088
      @phoenixstarseed6088 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@rosalynmagee7516 yes but unfortunately there are people that should be aren't because they don't know that

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Like you, I don't wish anyone suffering, but they DO deserve to suffer for how they have treated us. They don't deserve loving relationships or a happy life unless they treat people (and themselves) better. Some people really need to wake up and understand how life works.

    • @vincec.202
      @vincec.202 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      When I died for 17 minutes on my second suicide attempt this year, I got to see where we come from. I felt the love of our creator and there's no words for it. I'm not feeling that well or I'd go into deeper detail, but part of my experience was THIS: I was allowed to take with me every drop of love I ever received in this life with me. Then I was given all the Love I gave back...simultaneously being wrapped in unconditional love like you cannot fathom by God...but not before I had to stand in the hearts of every person I ever hurt...and feel that pain JUST LIKE THEM...BUT...IT WAS MULTIPLIED BY THOUSANDS because my EGO was BRUTALLY MURDERED and I was stood in front of the entire universe...God...Heaven...everyone I ever loved and stripped clean until there was NOTHING BUT TRUTH. I don't think these people can survive this. It's not an option. We ALL HAVE TO DO IT. I'm thankful and full of gratitude that I gave more love than hurt in my life because I was left with the remainder.

    • @divine_presence
      @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@vincec.202 💙

  • @AsheetBull
    @AsheetBull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I used to be a hardcore drug addict for many years. I was able to overcome it after dozens of failed attempts (and a few near death experiences). I literally believe God made that miracle happen and it would not have happened otherwise. It’s been over 5 years now sober and on my purpose. I am so blessed and grateful that I have my integrity and dignity back. I will never do that ever again. I am grateful everyday for it.

    • @Dereas-vz8yc
      @Dereas-vz8yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ain't no better drug than a narc. Except maybe heroin. On the brain it's literally the same.

    • @peayleebaron4147
      @peayleebaron4147 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I was a drug addict also. Going on ten years. I am now watching the karmic justice happening to the people who drove me to drugging... Remove the people the addiction left...
      Now their lives are just falling apart... And mine is coming together beautifully...
      Blessings lights

    • @Dereas-vz8yc
      @Dereas-vz8yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@peayleebaron4147 Let them burn 🔥😁

    • @AsheetBull
      @AsheetBull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@peayleebaron4147 I can relate to that, most of the people I ran with already died, but the few remaining are still messed up, besides 1 person, and his brother died of an overdose a few years ago…

    • @peayleebaron4147
      @peayleebaron4147 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@AsheetBull it's incredible isn't it. 🥰

  • @8odthechrist7
    @8odthechrist7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Cursing is definitely not a sin…the greatest sins are anger/hate in my opinion.u can never ever trust an angry person…it will only be a matter of time b4 they turn on u.

    • @saintflynnard
      @saintflynnard 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Actually those are not the greatest sins. You should read the Visions of Paul, the patriarchs explains and the angels go into detail about which sins you do not get pardon and no place of repentance in order for you to make into the kingdom of the 12 tribes of Israel

    • @8odthechrist7
      @8odthechrist7 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@saintflynnard I’ll check it out

  • @elisheba6430
    @elisheba6430 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Watch over your heart, with all diligence, for from it flow the spring of life. ~Proverbs 4:23
    Do not be deceived: “Bad company corrupts good morals.” ~1 Corinthians 15:33
    Delight yourself in the LORD, and He will give you the desires and petitions of your heart. ~Psalm 37:4
    It’s your heart dude 💪💪💪💪💪💪💪🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥
    Keep up the awesome work!!!

  • @spirituallifecoachinginsti7207
    @spirituallifecoachinginsti7207 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    AMENNNNNNNNNN......Jesus Never Fails......People Do......Almighty God.......Will Never Lose........Millions Of People Do.......!!! I Learned The Hard Way.......Glory To God.....WINNING, Since 2005........Long Hard Road.....Nobody There Except Jesus......!!!

  • @roslynjohnson6310
    @roslynjohnson6310 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I can honestly say when I look back that many people hurt me but guess what i just realized that GOD NEVER HURT ME! I got that from listening here.

    • @cactusjackhausen8508
      @cactusjackhausen8508 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Who brought those people in to your life?

    • @roslynjohnson6310
      @roslynjohnson6310 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cactusjackhausen8508 I chose to bring those people into my life. That's why I became so broken 💔 and lived in pain, loss, grief, sorrow and rejection for so many years.
      .

  • @theraptureisnearbelieveinj7695
    @theraptureisnearbelieveinj7695 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I ask for forgiveness often for cursing. Sigh. I’m so glad my true character is raw and honest, and I don’t need to do sneaky shit. Oops. Stuff. 😂

    • @matej9255
      @matej9255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Well, swearing 🤬 to me is just more so a expression of vulgar language even tho I do think it's a sin as well. I don't think Jesus was swearing lol. That's why I prefer Joco Willink instead of Goggings, it just seems to be more mature individual someone who doesn't say 'fuck' or something like that in every sentence

    • @manwithanamethystheart
      @manwithanamethystheart 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      God only cares how you use the words..
      The words aren't the sin! They are just words..
      But words can be weapons!

  • @dbtlady4686
    @dbtlady4686 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I’m not concerned about them because I know and agree with you…it’s just a matter of time…God’s timing 🙂❤️

  • @castaway2680
    @castaway2680 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The Lord said vengance is his. After being wronged vengeful thoughts come up. To act on vengeance makes me worse than the offender! Maybe they suffer..... maybe they thrive we just gotta live our best lives and stay kind.

  • @ic_clearly
    @ic_clearly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Its bad enough being betrayed , But falsely being accused burns my ass... I'm out!

    • @SunshineSuperstar
      @SunshineSuperstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah bro, it sucks. Unfortunately the accusations always sting, even if you know yourself that it's untrue!

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't even want to know what will happen to certain individuals after they die. Not that I wish them anything bad, but I know that everything comes back.

  • @twithly-pum8433
    @twithly-pum8433 3 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Damn I need prayers.. I feel everything u speak on.. karma is a bitch.. that’s what keeps me in check.. I love hearing ur words.. ur motivation and extended strength for me.. god bless u for the words of wisdom that u carry

    • @amanja0308
      @amanja0308 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      "Karma is the Queen!"...not a female dog. Have some respect for your-Self!

    • @beckyhoffman9423
      @beckyhoffman9423 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Prayers Tamara

    • @Dereas-vz8yc
      @Dereas-vz8yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@amanja0308 Yet even Goethe himself wrote about the "poodles core" in Faust. 😘😁

    • @truenorthtarot8670
      @truenorthtarot8670 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes especially when can feel smell and whatever. Still I rise

  • @stephaniesallie8968
    @stephaniesallie8968 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Family Narcissist are a bad experience. Glad we have grown up. And up and up we go. " no more picnics" ! That was funny. It's hard to get away from them.. But we do !)you have . we do . we win. The world will be turned right side right. And the evils will crash n burn. Amen!!!! Healing heights brother. Thank you for the chats. I live to watch n hear positivity. Im sicka' talking to myself. ⭐🌱⭐ Amen

  • @AsheetBull
    @AsheetBull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Glad you’re speaking on boundaries. This is probably the most prevalent issue society is facing today. Lack of boundaries lead to terrible things, usually ending in genocide.

  • @cynthiamariebrewer7837
    @cynthiamariebrewer7837 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    It is so bizarre that they just keep doing it. They never repent. Reprobates. Integrity is integrity! It hurts the soul to do that. But sometimes people are “trapped”, so plutonic support is understood... You’re right about some people being that; I don’t get it! It hurts when we do those things. It is hard to believe that people are not like I AM. If you reject everyone who lacks integrity, you find your self alone.

  • @zarass3818
    @zarass3818 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Usually narcisists have addictions

  • @kimberlysings351
    @kimberlysings351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I’m still strong though ! 🤗♥️ People ALWAYS did me wrong for no reason 😒💯 . I’m still standing strong . 😇💪 KARMA DOES NOT MISS AN ADDRESS 😏✨

  • @terridillon3053
    @terridillon3053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The integrity of the soul is the most important thing. Hold on to your core beliefs and live them out.

  • @deniseespinoza8319
    @deniseespinoza8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I agree with everything you said. I always say to the people around me. Never wish someone bad justice will always be served, the truth will always come out and the deceptive will be exposed. You can forgive someone but not keep them in your life. Not all people you cross paths with are meant to stay in your life. Some people are meant to be a lesson in your life or you are meant to cross someone's life so they can see the reality of who they really are and change. If they change good if they don't then they will never grow and stay the same. Some people will stay in the victim mentality forever. The point of pain is to learn from it and grow from it. You don't use pain as an excuse to hurt others or justify your actions. You heal.

  • @Dkinstv
    @Dkinstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I sure hope so because they tried to wipe me off the radar, but i still have so much love and things to do in life, im a soldier and always keep going no matter what shade people throw at me.

    • @trutheartist270
      @trutheartist270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn you too!?!? It’s really fucked up and disgusting how ppl are these days

    • @insight9354
      @insight9354 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Honey I feel ya.❤

    • @Dkinstv
      @Dkinstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trutheartist270 oh man if I told you the shit I've been through you would be wondering how I'm still smiling, I've been beaten to the ground, had a knife up to my throat, a gun put up to me, and beaten by the very cocksuckers that were supposed to take care of me, my own care takers, literally thrown down the stairs and thrown against a metal bed, I still have nightmares.

    • @Dkinstv
      @Dkinstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trutheartist270 I'm at a state where I don't trust easy anymore.

    • @Dkinstv
      @Dkinstv 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@trutheartist270 I still cry at times because it makes no sense how people have to go through this shit.

  • @margarethumphries7768
    @margarethumphries7768 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Karma never forgets a Address

  • @AsheetBull
    @AsheetBull 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It’s amazing the level of back biting and viciousness people are doing these days. It is so cowardly and wicked. Back in the day people would get beat down or worse publicly for doing those type of things. It just wasn’t tolerated by society in general because of where behavior like that leads humanity in general. We are in very dark times and what usually comes next after people start acting like this is not good…

  • @mightyfiner1752
    @mightyfiner1752 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Loyalty is such a beautiful thing, God loves devotion - I feel it in my heart ❤️🙏 thank you Lord, amen.

  • @jessepeeletersonamazin7952
    @jessepeeletersonamazin7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Many friends / people who i grew up with
    Havent grown at all mentally or gone forward in their lives and i hate it. They're about 25yo but still acting like teenagers who have mental illness and talk down on us and bad behind back of us who have move on in life. Couple friends turned back on me because they're jealous, at least one had the balls to say it to my face i respect that. Soz bad english.

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Looking back, I have no idea why I even dealt with certain individuals. Maybe it's because of my saviour mentality or what not ...

  • @Tbt2013
    @Tbt2013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    100% resonate with this vid bro. Maybe like 90%. What they said wasn’t truly that bad bc I’m not soft but at the time they said it..was the wrong time and they showed their colors. If that makes sense

    • @vlogcity1111
      @vlogcity1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Wow so true they wait for you be so vulnerable and say the mean shit or promise something and let you down.
      If they did it randomly it wouldn’t matter or bother us that much .
      They wait till it will hurt the most to let you down or lie by omission or put you down when people you love are dyeing instead of building you up, they want to quarrel about the garbage or dishes.

    • @judithbrock9314
      @judithbrock9314 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@vlogcity1111 you can

    • @Tbt2013
      @Tbt2013 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@S.G.ManassehQueen Yeah that’s true. I did always think he was using sarcasm but now I see he doesn’t know what sarcasm is and it was that low vibrational hate shit. Fake as fuck

    • @vlogcity1111
      @vlogcity1111 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @S.G. BLESSED when your raised by narcs that’s all your used to.
      I wouldn’t say a child puts up with abuse, he has no other alternatives many times.
      When I became consciously aware I was being abused and removed myself as soon as I was financially emotionally and physically capable.
      I wouldn’t call that putting up with it. I vehemently spoke out against the abuse and left.
      Thanks for sharing

  • @deedeemoore6096
    @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    You can most definitely.say.that again they haven't seen nothing yet .!!. That Karma is going to.come like a.hurricane and Tsunami at the same time hitting them from.each and every direction they turn !!.They may be laughing and Being treacherous at the current moment but it will soon turn into Sorrow.and begging for Mercy . They better know.that When They Do Dirty They Will Never Win !!

    • @matej9255
      @matej9255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We should be focused on healing ourselves and living in peace and what they are about to through is not of our business. Let God be the judge

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Im.not worried.about what is going to take place.wit them.That's between them and God and the only karma im.concern wit is my own . We.do have to be a good judge of character I don't care what you say !

    • @matej9255
      @matej9255 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@deedeemoore6096 very well said, sir!

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      God don't need our permission to do the judging of anybody so there is no Let.When it Come to Him !!

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Im not no Sir Either !

  • @alexistexis721
    @alexistexis721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    👸🏾🖐🏾 Don't worry about cursing. As I said once before, I'll say it again, it's a creative way to express your emotions as long as no one is directly using profane name calling towards someone else. 😎✌🏾💕

  • @jenniferjoseph2329
    @jenniferjoseph2329 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Good video bro. We are ALL sinners. The Bible says none of us are really "good." But you are right, there are some people that have more boundaries up than others. Gotta pray for everyone's redemption. With God all things are possible.

  • @destinypatterson9591
    @destinypatterson9591 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I was telling someone of how bad I was abused in a evil family who was also into witchcraft... Etc... I got upset and asked .. Why does god keep blessing them and he said ..THEY ARE GETTING IT BACK BUT THEY WILL NEVER LET YOU SEE IT...SMH..there acting skills are on point...

  • @jessicaowens6163
    @jessicaowens6163 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your absolutely right, Galatians 6:7 almost everyday i wake up I'm crying, because the people that i trusted, helped and tried to help, turned right around and slapped me in the face, stabbed me in the back. For years people have been hurting me, playing games with my heart, my life, i can't stop hurting, crying, sometimes hardly being able to get through the day, the pain is almost unbearable, and i ask, why? Why? What did i ever do to these people, family, neighbors, so called friends, ex boyfriend, i feel as if I'm in this world down here on earth alone, and that the people that are around me, aren't real, because they never change, everyone i meet treats me the same, no matter where I'm at or whatever i go, sometimes i think I'm cursed. I know God sees and hears everything, and will handle these people, but what do you do when this keeps happening to you over and over by everyone, not even leaving you room to breathe? 😭

  • @orderanycars101
    @orderanycars101 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    4:13 to 4:23 is a prophetic statement. How can one be with a chosen & know it then screw it up? Thanks a million because your videos are wakeup calls for the empathetic people (like myself and most of your subs) true good givers who deserve other chosen and not narcs. When you love too hard (especially to family & friends) some mysterious force hates it and tries to destroy you for it! ❤️🌍❤️🌍❤️🌎 The strangest thing...

  • @kinGsaL1515
    @kinGsaL1515 3 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    She still keeps trying to call me once or twice a week to this day. I don’t think they feel any remorse or empathy but they can definitely tell when they fucked up

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yup fuck em now they want to take me back it done

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I would block.that person from.any kind of ways they could contact you . They didn't know what they had until they no longer have access !. They burn bridges and think they can still.cross them.oh heck.no.They had their turn and they Messed it up and now they got to deal wit the loss.! They need to get lost

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@deedeemoore6096 fuck em and they still trying to stop me from getting with good supply they want me with the wrong person to destroy my life

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ Ki Sigma Hell Yeah I agree the hell.wit their Narc Behinds they are haters No matter how hard they try to sabotage somebody else.they are only.sabotaging themselves. That Narc need to have several seats in the balcony. Because they can't stop.nothing that suppose to.be in your life no matter how hard they try !

    • @yourstrulyforever7
      @yourstrulyforever7 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      If you let them back in I promise they’ll ruin your life

  • @angelaslaton3211
    @angelaslaton3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I learned the hard lesson of not letting people in my home. That's my santuary. My kingdom. People will bring their evil spirit s in and steal, destroy and laugh behind your back, but yet be your friend. My stories are unreal, but God got me away from those monsters and now they face his wrath! And I, am blessed beyond measure. You can't do innocent people wrong and get by with it. Period. God will get it them for sure 🙏🙏🙏

  • @RiseAbove-wc2hs
    @RiseAbove-wc2hs 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Yep. The specific person shown the true colors. Snapped me out of my 10 year attachment to this person. Zero contact after what happened. Now I look back and I'm like wow I get why people literally asked me why I was friends with this person.

  • @Indomitable76
    @Indomitable76 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Close friends I've had that were out philandering and trying to score other dudes girls, then they say " I would never do that to YOU, bro!" 🤣

  • @godsonrobinson9843
    @godsonrobinson9843 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Man you the best man you taught me so much in my worst days

  • @303truth
    @303truth 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You’re right
    People will gloat about sinning now

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    "It is gonna come back, for years and years and years."
    Or eventually even for lifetimes ...

  • @ClairsentientKate
    @ClairsentientKate 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    They might be and I know how to forgive. But I will always stay away from toxic people…

  • @philu4621
    @philu4621 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    It comes down to yall left me, didn't care, ive waited long enough and my heart can't hang on anymore...sorry but they lost me...you can't bury a friendship or relationship with no explanation and expect an open door to come back to.

  • @jcdezmen
    @jcdezmen 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They are purely Narcissistic

  • @jessepeeletersonamazin7952
    @jessepeeletersonamazin7952 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That's right brother

  • @angelaslaton3211
    @angelaslaton3211 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The bible says we are to pray for our enemies, because of what God will do to them, when we your a child of God, whatever they do to us, " it will be pressed down, shaken together and handed back to them" " Vengeance is mine saith the Lord, I will repay" God means what he says, he sees everything! When we can't explain the horrors, God sees it. Ive seen God's Vengeance on my haters and it's scary!! I've had to pray it for the we m cuz it's so bad! Everything they did to me, it's happening to them now! 🙏🙏🙏

  • @traceherron1414
    @traceherron1414 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Amen, Handsome! Sad Irony, isn’t! God Bless and Be Safe!

  • @rosalynmagee7516
    @rosalynmagee7516 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Karma has NO expiration date..

  • @katrinajackson7994
    @katrinajackson7994 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is so true, You can't Run from karma it always comes back around. That's why I always try to deal with everyone when possible with the heart of God and when I can't I keep it moving. WE'RE HERE TO HELP NOT HURT. THANK YOU FOR THAT.😇

  • @Immortalsouls
    @Immortalsouls 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeah one of my friends, his relatives and immediate family, uncles are always known for being drug users and abusers. I asked him once why is his family like that, and his response was "We have addictive personalities".

  • @veronican.h4337
    @veronican.h4337 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Sadly.... when it comes to good and evil... the space between are the preconditions we lived under for so long without the proper teachings of how to defeat those demons that bring of us to our ruins. No one to help us recondition what we may think is impossible to overcome... to truly have a heart that can love and be loved without harm..

  • @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429
    @ionlycompetewiththewomaniw5429 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's how you know that they're of the Devil, cause those who follow God, and have Love in their hearts keeps us from doing Evil to others.

  • @giuseppelarocca2930
    @giuseppelarocca2930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I sure hope you are right terry. My ex wife nearly ruined me destroyed me down to my deepest soul crushed my heart to bits. Although I don’t wish anything bad on anyone I just want her to feel what I felt. God bless you bro. Your doing gods work

  • @smustipher
    @smustipher 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Terry! Love your dedication to keep putting the truth put about these 🐍🐍🐍🐍! Such a sad way to live, trying to get over on people and thinking there are no consequences.

  • @MarcoPolo-qo1ge
    @MarcoPolo-qo1ge 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    💯👌🏼
    Bro you are a real rare Gem💎
    I respect you👍🏽👍🏽
    I am 46 years old and you really have been blessed with such wisdom
    God protect you and bless you
    Thank you for sharing your experience and powerful words
    Your soul brother,
    Mutasim Binsalem
    💚🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @whodae24
    @whodae24 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    This is so True! Great Video!!! When people want to walk out of a person's life Let them Walk 🚶 They just aren't meant to be in ur life.

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    "They are never gonna change."
    I do believe that people can change.

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We sure did! 🤔❤️🌹

    • @mudnocchio
      @mudnocchio 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope

    • @divine_presence
      @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@mudnocchio Some people may do their bullshit until they die, yeah.

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      People.will only change if they want to. If they don't see no error in their ways they won't change..

    • @deedeemoore6096
      @deedeemoore6096 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @ infinite consciousness You are absolutely correct !! Some.people.will continue to.be rotten and dirty until they go.to.the grave

  • @-chilly-142
    @-chilly-142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m with you on the boyfriend / girlfriend thing. Ten years ago when I had almost zero moral compass was a different story. Emotional evolution ftw…

  • @onlybosslion9267
    @onlybosslion9267 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your direct message is great. To the point and genuine. Lots of people can take some lessons from you. Be proud of yourself. The lady that gets you or your wife hit a jackpot! You are a Blessing! God Bless

  • @chyiamossimo7917
    @chyiamossimo7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    My paps told me,
    That every bad action has its consiquences, I totally understand you.
    What goes around comes around that's the word.

  • @jamesrexsannatracy8318
    @jamesrexsannatracy8318 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All of this only matters to God. Because he is all that matters and how he views us..,....Is all that matters

  • @OfficialBROOM
    @OfficialBROOM 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I actually wake up 5 min each morning before, your uploads done! 04:39 am here

  • @mightybygrace.
    @mightybygrace. 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    very insightful, I would add that many people after they experience hurt , decide to harden up and sadly become the person they hated in the first place, if we take this in the spiritual realm , tuning the other cheek seems to end the cycle, the bad wolf starves out. It all started in the Garden, knowing evil too is something that only a perfect Being (the righteous God) can handle

  • @IAMARisingPhoenix
    @IAMARisingPhoenix 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I concur. Guilty in the past of giving MANY chances to a lot of different peeps. Now I give ☝🏽…. Let them know… forgive… keep it movin’. We have to learn “A Tiger doesn’t change its stripes” ☮️💖😁 #soulsistershelley

  • @delaynejacobstribeporter4245
    @delaynejacobstribeporter4245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So so spot on brother, deep truth!!!

  • @ruiviegas4658
    @ruiviegas4658 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Keep up the good work. Strive for HOLINESS, you're on the right track.
    Thanks a million and may God bless you. ( I found you at a time when I really needed an oomf, know what I mean ) ?
    You're a good young man, don't let this world and people mess with you.
    God bless, and hang in there. 😇😇😇

  • @lisalittle9769
    @lisalittle9769 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    God bless pal its the same with me you try to be nice and they have alteria motives to your kindness 🙏

  • @sabrinamiles53
    @sabrinamiles53 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You talked about👊 them if they don't stop. Well, I feel like your doing that with every chat you have even to the ones that others are dealing with. It gives me a sense of release and peace thank you for that 👍😁 keep up the good work it really does help to dilute the mental anguish 💪💯💞

  • @Fernanda-cn9jd
    @Fernanda-cn9jd 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I feel like I finally found my soul tribe on your channel 😅💫✨

  • @belovedradiantdivineone5464
    @belovedradiantdivineone5464 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    SAME. My thoughts exactly 💯. WEwinninYUP. Couldn't have said it better myself. 👏🥰💋

  • @suzyq3902
    @suzyq3902 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Seen it with my own eyes. Sad but true. They do reap what they have sewn. 😔

  • @officialbaddie9554
    @officialbaddie9554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mr Terry u always have truth be told thank you blessings to you.

  • @julieverelst1685
    @julieverelst1685 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    That's a two way street!! As regardless both parties hurt and have pain and suffering. It's logic, let's pray for healing for all

  • @catalinafirefly4685
    @catalinafirefly4685 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love Karma ❤

  • @candyrushascendedphoenix8
    @candyrushascendedphoenix8 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    May God show us all how to be better people. Sometimes life lessons are super painful but necessary. That, i have learned over my lifetime. Blessings for the weekend all. ❤🙏🕊Thanks for the insight Terry 👍

  • @Dereas-vz8yc
    @Dereas-vz8yc 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    No pain no gain 😁🤙 Maybe it's not what they want but what they deserve. 😊

  • @BlkHwkDwn63
    @BlkHwkDwn63 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I wouldn't be being true to myself if I didn't admit *I hope, wish and pray that the horrible people (of which there are sooooooo many) in this Sodom and Gomorrah world we live in get brought to Justice in both earthly and heavenly courts.* 🙏🏻
    It completely shocks me at the hypocrisy of people... People forget the glass houses lesson (or most important lessons we've supposed to have learned)!
    They want to condemn you for your expression in language but let the lies and horrible actions of others go unnoticed 🙄 Does anyone wonder how we got to where we are????
    I disagree with you with the whole "nature" of drag addiction, I feel that shit is result of not dealing with underlying problems and traumas in your life. *Doing your shadow work...* Sometimes it's easier to just run away and escape, than to face your demons... leveling yourself up and becoming a stronger person.
    I disagree that sneaky motherfuckers will always be "the way they are". If they bump against enough people don't tolerate their horrible insidious behavior then they wont bother doing it. It's kinda like bullies, if they are the weakest person in the room they have no one to bully. We all need to call out bullshit when we see it and exposes the demons for what they are.
    "Darkness cannot drive out darkness, only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate, only love can do that."
    MLKJ Strength to Love, 1963.

  • @narcvanquisher
    @narcvanquisher 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for that. Its nice to know I'm not alone. We just spread out far and few in between.

  • @eileensianez6766
    @eileensianez6766 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi I love your channel Terry! 💗 YOU'RE SUPER COOL. You're talking about my so called mother. She underhandedly took my 4 boys from me when they were little boys. She and her husband lied in court and they took my children. I don't even know how she got away with it but if I knew then what I know now she wouldn't have got away with it. Now I am very close to my sons and not one of us have any contact with her anymore! She has missed out on the past 10 or so years without any of us! Yeah, she is hurting but we can't take her back because she is an alcoholic, drug addict, narcissist who hasn't even tried to change one single bit! Good conversation little brother in Christ. May our good Lord bless and keep you sweetie ❤ always! Your family too.

  • @on-the-rise-productions44
    @on-the-rise-productions44 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Love you brother! You speak to me besides speaking the truth! God Talking through you brother!

  • @divine_presence
    @divine_presence 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There is a woman who has done me extremely wrong for a long time and I still cared for her and wanted to save her, but I know that everything comes back.

  • @mamimaningouekomadeleine8839
    @mamimaningouekomadeleine8839 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    MY DEAR, I DONT KNOW WHAT RELY WENT RONG WITH ME I WAS BLIND FOR 9 YEARS, ON TILL GOD MOVED ME AWAY FROM HIS HANDS, BY HIM COUSING A WOMAN OVER ME, THANKS TO JESUS MY SAVOURE, I STOP CALLING TAXTING, AND I AM VERY FINE TODAY, I GIVE THANKS TO GOD MY HEAVENLY FATHER WHO IS ALPHA AND ORMAGER, THANK YOU MY BRO ITS 7 ,MONTHS TODAY SINCE I DONT TALK TO HIM ,BRAVO NRAVO TO YOU KEEP ON WE LOVE YOU , YOU MAKE ME FILL GOOD NOW , THIS WILL HELP ORTHER PEOPLE TO GET UP FROM SLEP, GOD BE WITH YOU,

  • @FallacyAsPraxis
    @FallacyAsPraxis 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I filter myself most of the time. Its not natural expression, but I get you, bro. I try not to be the things I don't like about other people. If you have money, looks, dress well, and have a worked out body its easy to get hot women. But if you're a spiritual person you program your mind to step back from the filth and just chill. You respect yourself a lot more when you live clean. At least, I do. I sometimes think about dating and relationships again, then I remember how bad it got the last time and I just don't bother. I don't believe that God intended for us to live single and in a corner all our lives, but I just don't trust people anymore. You learn after you've given your trust and your all to a person who you really loved...and in return you get lied to, stabbed in the back, and dragged. I wouldn't marry again but I don't regret my sons and can't imagine my life without them. Some of us are just unlucky with the romantic stuff. But God blesses us in other ways.

    • @kisigma1011
      @kisigma1011 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Oh no it not as easy as it sound the pick up phase is there but narc never make thing easy

    • @SunshineSuperstar
      @SunshineSuperstar 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Learn psychology. Do NOT ignore the red flags. Forgive but NEVER FORGET!
      It was not bad luck that lead you there, but bad information!
      Teach your knowledge to the kids. Make this world great again!

  • @shaswai
    @shaswai 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    All I can say is Amen!! Thank you Joel!!🌞

  • @jilldezsenyi7361
    @jilldezsenyi7361 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Few have eyes and see.and ears that hear

  • @terrimassaglia6075
    @terrimassaglia6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    CAUSE AND EFFECT OF CHOOSING THE WRONG "BEAST" FORM- STAY SAFE 🙏😇🕊💜

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We were all born with that "freedom of choice" & all get to reap what we have sowed! 🌹❤️🎶🙏

    • @terrimassaglia6075
      @terrimassaglia6075 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@theresefournier3269 🙏😇🕊💜

    • @theresefournier3269
      @theresefournier3269 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@terrimassaglia6075 😘

  • @deniseculley368
    @deniseculley368 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You must been really hurt in your life I know because my family treated me like the black sheep you are so wise to be so young God bless you I am 65 I know that you are right

  • @yuppy-gr4qj
    @yuppy-gr4qj 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Your awesome Terry truly. U just kick ass and take names? Great to have you on our team.

  • @deniseespinoza8319
    @deniseespinoza8319 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I always look forward to your videos because we are going through similar experiences and it makes me feel like I am not alone.

  • @shellywalker6013
    @shellywalker6013 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    In June o crap got taken bad. screwd up my Finances for several mnths, thank God slowly working up out of that.Greatful for🙏 Your successes&over comming,hurts painful hard lesson.Never dismiss your Discernment . I'm not laughing yet,still pretty mad..but upward onward I go❤❤❤

  • @sheilacamp5089
    @sheilacamp5089 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    God knows and I know. That is all that matters. I do my best, but can’t tolerate liars and cheaters. Calculated evilness is real.