Common Communication Mistakes - Why People Misunderstand You? Stop these 4 Habits | Life Skills

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  • @skillopedia
    @skillopedia  5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

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  • @allrounder2367
    @allrounder2367 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I conclude that you are 100% right in my case. I am like that. Now, to summarize your video;
    (1) Scan the people.
    See to what kind of people you are going to speak up.
    (2) Don't interfere
    Don't interfere when two persons are talking. Let them finish and when you are asked, you can speak up.
    (3) Think before you speak
    See the people and topic about which the discussion is going on and when you are asked, respond accordingly and stick to the topic.
    (4) Sometimes it's not your fault (optional)
    Sometimes, some people are born negative. They have to see negativity in everything. In this case, say goodbye to them.

  • @Sneha-im5iw
    @Sneha-im5iw หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thnq so much Meera mam..❤❤❤Such a fantastic teacher, guide,mentor and a tutor you're and obviously a great human as well. ❤❤❤ so lucky to be ur learner

  • @osse1n
    @osse1n 5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    *It’s easy to forget that more than 90% of the communication is done nonverbally. People will tell us this and that and then we get confused when their actions don’t match up, are not congruent with their words. I learned it the hard way that we have to observe what people say, not what they do.*

  • @shailendrawalunj6980
    @shailendrawalunj6980 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Amazing. It's never too late to learn...

  • @rahulkrishna1657
    @rahulkrishna1657 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you mam🤗, I was poking other person nose, hopefully you made me understand, that we might have a point , but never poke others nose.

  • @jaemenzo9057
    @jaemenzo9057 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Oh my. That’s exactly what I am going through.

  • @animopearlkabita9185
    @animopearlkabita9185 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you said in this video already I followed this thing.but people thought that's I'm soft person, ect.. nowadays everyone judged me, so I'm confused.whatever...i like your English lesson & I'm improve lot of myself.. thanks Skillooedia

  • @rugar4america916
    @rugar4america916 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I struggle so much with being misunderstood.
    Its very difficult.
    I feel Im being direct and I still get misinterpreted.
    I'm Independent. Im not a democrat. Im not a republican. Im not blue. Im not red.
    I just want to be farther ahead in my life and career. I have no dating life because I need to get my life and career better and I dont think its fair to bring a woman into this situation. I want to be better for any woman I date.

  • @dominicsavioribera8426
    @dominicsavioribera8426 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    0:32 "People have just took...". It should've been 'taken' right?!

  • @behonest3432
    @behonest3432 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    WOWW MAM YOUR COMMUNICATION SKILL & talking style is fantastik

  • @nymphailagan8394
    @nymphailagan8394 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very interesting lesson that I personally can relate to.

  • @akritimishra9
    @akritimishra9 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hey mam, idk how to thank you all for your wondering work but seriously I can relate each single things with my life!!! I really found it soo soo helpful... You have been a reason to change me!!! Ps. keep making these videos:-)

  • @PradeepYadav-lz2sd
    @PradeepYadav-lz2sd 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    As a good student first like and reply. You are best teacher. I have learnt a lot you.

  • @dheerajgupta3416
    @dheerajgupta3416 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ma'am you are tremendous speaker I ever heard. I faced problem of explaining my ideas to other how can it improves. Basically selection of words. If any suggestions please let me Know.
    Thanks.

    • @skillopedia
      @skillopedia  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Try and put across your ideas into small pieces, as sometimes longer concepts are difficult to understand and digest.

  • @amittahetta9000
    @amittahetta9000 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks Meera for this video. I always wondered y my in-laws and devrani her name is also Meera misunderstood me always. Even she created negative thinking abt me. I didn't know abt my this unknown mistake. I WL try to improve my self for my self only not for others. Thanks a lot

  • @boopathir1773
    @boopathir1773 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hi Meera it is good to hear completely from your information tq and u r language style is very nice ❤️🤝👍

  • @LifesGuideToExcellence
    @LifesGuideToExcellence 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One of the things I do is to say something which doesn't have a punch line. This is something I'm working on.

  • @IqbalHossain-ol8mf
    @IqbalHossain-ol8mf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for your video and sharing with us.

  • @gofer123guy
    @gofer123guy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This ignores a critical element of being misunderstood that no one talks about. The issue people with lots of high functioning disabilities end up with among other reasons. The above referenced issue I alluded is best exemplified from disabilities like ADHD and Aspergers. I am talking about the idea of processing information differently resulting in being misunderstood.

  • @shiningswagatika5669
    @shiningswagatika5669 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Ma'am

  • @ranveermishra2
    @ranveermishra2 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This one actually dedicated to your beauty..i think its prettiest..

  • @adicherlavenkatesh9175
    @adicherlavenkatesh9175 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam ur courses are awesome
    Pls provide more for us
    To create an ---
    I can't get a word to express about the course.
    Can u do more

  • @reeshlifestyle2224
    @reeshlifestyle2224 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Work skillopedia !!🙌

  • @supriyasirvaiya
    @supriyasirvaiya 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Very relatable video!! thanks

  • @ash.b9829
    @ash.b9829 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Meera!
    Amazing speaker.
    Thanks x

  • @syedalmansoor9800
    @syedalmansoor9800 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Excellent speech, you have beautiful smile and eyes.

  • @sampathkumar7570
    @sampathkumar7570 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Amazing video 👍🏻...thank you Meera

  • @vishalg1949
    @vishalg1949 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Skillopedia is a wonderful channel.

  • @Gaini18
    @Gaini18 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So nice your video's madam...👍

  • @thevinay666
    @thevinay666 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks again
    Vinay Thakur 😎😎😎😎

  • @mxisharblx6456
    @mxisharblx6456 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank u mam I have some problems on school sometimes and at home PPL are mean to me and think I am lying and misunderstand me sometimes sovyew thanks for making this vid!

  • @priyankasaha7082
    @priyankasaha7082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I need help!.!
    Every time I try to make people laugh by making jokes
    Idk why they always take those seriously...
    And sometimes then feel like I shouldn't have talked with them in first place.... ,

    • @priyankasaha7082
      @priyankasaha7082 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      It usually happens when I talked to my family I hate thiiiiisssssss

    • @allrounder2367
      @allrounder2367 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Follow the guidelines from this video. First scan the people and keep their mindset in your mind. Then, wait until they are finished and then if you get a chance speak up. But speak according or close to the topic of discussion. And if after all of that, they perceive you negative, realize that they are negative and it's not your fault. With little practice, you will overcome it. I am always misunderstood.

  • @rahulshahi2006
    @rahulshahi2006 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks, can we have summary at the end of video or May be at the description please?

  • @mishalmasood3596
    @mishalmasood3596 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you explaining this video i really like appreciate for this video.

  • @gracehosanna5747
    @gracehosanna5747 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah exactly i am also going that way and finally suffering at the end of the conversation.

  • @ZzZ-zc9zb
    @ZzZ-zc9zb 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    So helpful 👌

  • @kamalsunrise5387
    @kamalsunrise5387 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Another beautiful lesson by meera mam!!☺

  • @sabareeshv5504
    @sabareeshv5504 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love ur voice and ur humbleness 💐sista

  • @fraz006
    @fraz006 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Few years ago, i uploaded a status : "i dont sell anything.calm down, i hate fake friends too". Only one friend understood it ,only because he clarified that with me.
    Prior to that status, I messaged a few ex colleagues. The conversation felt awkward because they thought I called them just because I am selling them a product (fake friends do this kind of thing). Soon after, I uploaded the status. Didnt expect it to be the most misunderstood socmed status of my life. Since that status, I felt like my entrepeneur friends, old school fiends , ex colleagues 'persecuted' me.

  • @vinodpund1574
    @vinodpund1574 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very much appreciated

  • @namanshri819
    @namanshri819 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a Tremendous speaker you are !!!💕

  • @buru151
    @buru151 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I'm so frustrated at the moment. And now I'm a shiddy communicator 😤😔 still thank you, am learning

  • @Ranjithkumar-ey2fc
    @Ranjithkumar-ey2fc 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah useful video! Thanks again

  • @sathyas6777
    @sathyas6777 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Happy teachers day meera mam. 😍☺ thanks for great teaching..

  • @nimraurrehman6850
    @nimraurrehman6850 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Salam you are brilliant teacher I really love your topics and u explain very well but I should give you a suggestion kindly mention subtitles in your videos to understand easily... 🙂

  • @aritasharma8791
    @aritasharma8791 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Superb

  • @sheikhzia9505
    @sheikhzia9505 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice mam, you beautifully delivered what should need to deliver.

  • @dayanandsharma7501
    @dayanandsharma7501 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    To make every video interesting..... It's a piece of cake for you Mam😊

  • @shehanthafernando8965
    @shehanthafernando8965 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    DEAR teacher you are absolutely stunning today.I extremely comprehended these tips and obligate to you.god bless you

  • @sarikasingh3810
    @sarikasingh3810 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You r the best Lerner ....

  • @rushikesh1344
    @rushikesh1344 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mam please make video on OCD and way to control compulsions.I hope You'll make video on OCD.It is very big problem

  • @ajeeshnarayanan6353
    @ajeeshnarayanan6353 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Goood lesson,there are many to learn us here.

  • @abhishekdas7700
    @abhishekdas7700 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thank u mam

  • @poonamjaiswal2613
    @poonamjaiswal2613 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't need others to understand me.bcoz people will perceive from their level

  • @vinitranjan779
    @vinitranjan779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    👍 Thank You

  • @omaribnalahmed2783
    @omaribnalahmed2783 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very Much Helpful 👍❤

  • @mosrji
    @mosrji 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You have made another successful session from ur great effort... Well doing meera 👍

  • @ImproveEnglishwithShweta
    @ImproveEnglishwithShweta 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Nice suggestions

  • @jacquelinefdes7635
    @jacquelinefdes7635 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you...worth to know

  • @hamdasaed9600
    @hamdasaed9600 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks for video keep going on

  • @hawalchhakirant9243
    @hawalchhakirant9243 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello .. Meera.. well I like your teaching ..

  • @rajmaurya6774
    @rajmaurya6774 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I m first here,love ur videos , thanks to improve are English👍

  • @sagar2.027
    @sagar2.027 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    your videos are really very helpful .Thank you😊 Meera Mam

  • @Viratracmm
    @Viratracmm 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Awesome

  • @chhotoomeravi4658
    @chhotoomeravi4658 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you mam it help me a lot

  • @psychopath2778
    @psychopath2778 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you

  • @sarikasingh3810
    @sarikasingh3810 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thnxxx a lottttttt

  • @nikh97d
    @nikh97d 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi meera ma'am.... I'm Vishal from Pune ... Last few days to till i saw every video for yours... And i really like... But i cannot speak in English language fluently... Ya i know these video you record for skill development purpose... But i see these video for improving my English conversation.. So what can i do for next... please help me...

  • @paulcooper5748
    @paulcooper5748 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hate being misunderstood.

  • @shivanishah1478
    @shivanishah1478 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Plz make video on how to avoid toxic people politely

  • @smajithkumar3908
    @smajithkumar3908 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hits a like only meera fans

  • @sureshkumari949
    @sureshkumari949 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome Mam

  • @ImproveEnglishwithShweta
    @ImproveEnglishwithShweta 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Once again Thanks for❤

  • @mkv2050
    @mkv2050 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    plz make a video on gesture signs

  • @sivaharry
    @sivaharry 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    This good one I like it very much please make more videos

  • @franciscoabraham7209
    @franciscoabraham7209 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    nice teacher , i like the way you teach thanks for your help look so beautiful

  • @itsamina5844
    @itsamina5844 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like to learn English but I am a lazy person so how can improve myself to do more reading or short way to learn the English language 📚help me for advice

    • @kirtanadj7604
      @kirtanadj7604 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      If you want to learn you have to put some efforts.You can't learn it without read books or speak with other people

  • @zeeshan3162
    @zeeshan3162 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you mam

  • @ashkesh1551
    @ashkesh1551 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Smooth as water ....😍

  • @krishngopal7157
    @krishngopal7157 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nice

  • @GGG-gf1wf
    @GGG-gf1wf 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i am a severe sufferer i all the time end up offending people and like anyone, not just people close to me or something it is everybody :((((((

  • @champcashinjabalpur9647
    @champcashinjabalpur9647 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello mem I learn in English for you but your uploaded video is big now and I'm understanding were is starting one by one

  • @wisdomkhan
    @wisdomkhan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    What to do if my problem is the last point you discussed,that is, the opposite person is NEGATIVE? And it can't work without talking to them. Please help!

    • @skillopedia
      @skillopedia  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Dealing with negative is a completely different issue. Sometime it better to simply ignore them, instead of breaking your own head and energy.

    • @wisdomkhan
      @wisdomkhan 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      As i said.....it won't work without communicating with them.

  • @-AnonymousUser
    @-AnonymousUser 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found this randomly I can relate to this.

  • @rahulchaturvedi5315
    @rahulchaturvedi5315 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Best videos in learn English

  • @mdebrahimchowdhury8061
    @mdebrahimchowdhury8061 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Also try not to be offensive to others even if it's still fun, as that will scar people personally.

  • @kaynatshahinshirin680
    @kaynatshahinshirin680 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I too is always missunderstood from my principal 😥😣😣😣 always.

  • @PradeepYadav-lz2sd
    @PradeepYadav-lz2sd 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Now a beginning only. Want to speak English like you Ma'm.

  • @dr.prashantshumnabad7641
    @dr.prashantshumnabad7641 หลายเดือนก่อน

    After misunderstanding, what if people not readly to listen explanation

  • @Nep173
    @Nep173 ปีที่แล้ว

    She has pride to be on the Air

  • @partharora8759
    @partharora8759 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Nice video

  • @ChessMasteryOfficial
    @ChessMasteryOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    *You will never live if you are looking for the meaning of life.*

    • @Pyarilovely
      @Pyarilovely 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well looking for meaning is what keeps us going like it has kept you going everywhere and comment. :)
      Cheers !
      Keep going man

    • @ChessMasteryOfficial
      @ChessMasteryOfficial 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Pyarilovely :)

  • @kingmysterious1202
    @kingmysterious1202 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love myself with unconditional love but seriously trying my darnest not to hate women or have a bitter feeling in my heart towards them I'm black tall dark and handsome and I love all women even though we are incarnate in an infantile brainwashed generation.

  • @navneetsinghpurewal6930
    @navneetsinghpurewal6930 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your always gud mam.

  • @mizan6679
    @mizan6679 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tell me how can I speak like your style...#meera mam

  • @navinkumarp8311
    @navinkumarp8311 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a beauty you are💕💕💕

  • @alokkumar-ve8bt
    @alokkumar-ve8bt 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hello Meera ji....how have u been?

  • @radhikagelda5543
    @radhikagelda5543 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mam aap ka ek or channel bhi Hai na

    • @Rahul_Lata_
      @Rahul_Lata_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Konsa channel hai mam ka aur ek ❓

    • @radhikagelda5543
      @radhikagelda5543 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Rahul_Lata_
      Let's talk channel

    • @Rahul_Lata_
      @Rahul_Lata_ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@radhikagelda5543 okay thank you didi 🙏

  • @jasminenakayza3372
    @jasminenakayza3372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    But sometime s people say heartfu l words that you don't expect from them