Very true! However there are some people that just want to know what they are! It’s a fun video to do because the trends change so much it’s entertaining! Thanks for chiming in and saying hi! Kim xo
@@bubblestheterrible i do keep an eye on fashion, but this trend madness has to slow down. The most wired and ugly stuff is served to us as cool. Garments which serve no purpose like the tiny tiny bags, trillions of heel shapes. Like one season they present as trendy 15 type of heels and next season some complete different 15 types. How can somebody even dare to state that round ballet flats are off? Ballet flats are and always will have a round toe. This is a classic shape that will never ever change. There are variations, ok, but the round ones are not out. I look into shops and some garments are just appalling. Who in their right mind really thinks the grandfather vest worn on skin is flattering? Who thinks blazers 5 times bigger than your size flatter any body. Rihanna went to Paris a few years ago wearing this gigantic 2 pieces suit. She met Brigitte Macron at the Elysee Palace. Let me tell you something: EVERYBODY laughed behind her back. She was just ridiculous. Fashion had become offensive to beauty itself. The human body has certain shapes and clothes need to respect proportions to 1 dress us, 2 flatter our shapes, 3 help us express our personalities. Designers of today seem to have one thing in mind: change fast the shapes and impose the constant need of being on trend. No, thank you. Most of the trends are just that.
I just wear what I want, regardless of what other people think. I'm more of a t shirt and jeans kind of person though. I think trends are kind of ridiculous and are set to make people feel badly if they like something that is supposedly dated. Wear what you want and who cares what someone else thinks. If you can afford to only get shirts that have the knot in front, rock it, you wanna wear rounded toe shoes? Go for it. Life is a whole lot better when you don't give a shit what others think of your clothes(gives me highschool flashbacks) or other things
I’m 52 and like to know what is on trend and what is not and then incorporate this with my not trending items that suit my body type. For example I have a side knotted t-shirt that I now wear with joggers instead of leggings for a casual look.
I love these videos! Because I work so hard to stay the same size, my daughter in law says to me -“you are honestly the only woman who asks me ‘is this dated’ rather than ‘is this too tight?’ Thanks for more clarification on the toe shape.
Hahahah I love that! You know there are some very obvious markers of things being dated and these are a few of them most likely suspects :) That said, there is always something for everyone! Certain bodytypes really look good with a few of these things…so it works for them :) Kim xo
If you buy classic styles you will be ever look dated..the trendy pieces and colors are what become dated..you can let down or raise a hemline on a classic pencil skirt .. it's the neon leather pants that you should not invest much in ..wear it for fun ..but know it will be out of style next season
Some things you mention bring back so many memories! I wore many of those things. Except the cold shoulders, I always disliked that for some reason. I love how you’re so careful with people’s feelings : “ If you love it, by all means wear it” On the one hand I’m thinking it’s a video about TRENDS, if you don’t want to hear some things you wear are out, just watch a cat video you’ll feel better! On the other hand, I think it’s good to acknowledge that just because it’s not on trend, doesn’t mean it’s not wearable. I think some things are classics, they don’t have to be trendy to be in, if that makes any sense… and if you know what works for you and what you truly love, good for you! You don’t have to be a fashion victim and throw away things that make you look your best just because. Rock what you love.
I'm back and forth on the wedge booties. I'm totally over the booties with heels a different colour or material but I'm still loving my hidden wedge boots.
I watched this video. Not really hoping or expecting much. However, it was actually really useful. It helped to clarify a few things. Not that wear these trends anymore, but it made me think what elements I want to retain for my personal style. I felt confident that actually I was already pretty up to date. Sometimes when we read magazines, They make you feel that you’re out of fashion in an attempt to make you buy more things. Which is a habit I’m trying to break, given climate change and all that. This video really clarified how popular day to day trends have evolved over the last five years. It was a good thing to check in with, there are a few styles I thought we’re going out of fashion that I can actually wear a bit longer so it was a very useful video.
Thank you! I really appreciated this feedback and reading it! So we’ll said! I am trying to put out useful content that isn’t just a waste of your few precious minutes that you share with me! Thank you! Kim xo
I agree with every point you made. However, I'm sad to see the longish tunic fall out of favor when paired with leggings. I know the trend today is for young women to wear short tops with their obscenely tight leggings, but it's not a good look, regardless of how toned your glutes are.
Love you, Kim! I bought several side tie tops a few years ago, but the material was cheap and pilled almost right away. Almost as if they weren’t intended to last beyond a season or two. I finally donated them this fall.
Always hard to hear about trends that we love that have gone away, but I really like that you provide alternative options for a more updated look. Thanks!
I think the knotted shirt trend came from the “half-tuck” shirt. Then again, if you’re old enough, you’ll remember when you knotted your shirt with a big plastic ring thing! 🤣 Then, they were knotting their maxi skirts with that thing! I still love my tall boots, so I appreciate the suggestions on how to update the look! Thanks for all the tips, because although I don’t live or die by the trends, I do appreciate looking more current/modern.👍🏼
Just popped in to see whats in, You can’t keep going with in and outs, you can go with your own style and comfort or you will be stuck with a closet of yearly toss it, you are all young, I’m 78 been through the fads and ins and outs days, my advise stop trying to fit in and find what you like and feel good in and wear it till it falls off your body. Keeping up you will go broke and guess what everything makes a come back. You may not realize now but you will some day. Now leggings, long tops, Ugg’s will do.
@@kimberlyperrotis8962 Yes so do I, but I see so many hauls and all these people can’t possibly keep everything. I think they film, keep a few pieces and return or they get things to promote. I asked one gal to show us her closet as she was filming every day. She didn’t. Those tiny bags are nuts, tie dye come back, wide leg and flares should have kept and mom jeans everyone hated. Aah to turn back time.
Apparently I'm dressing timeless. None of these combo's I've ever worn. My boots happen to be almond shape or pointed (I don't own any wedge), the longer cardigans I never wear with riding boots (don't even own a pair) and the midi skirt I wear in all sorts of combo's, but not with a jean jacket.
I really appreciated that you not only just mention the outdated trends but also advise tips to update our style. Thanks again! Always support from Thailand💕
Great tips!! Thank you!! I worked retail for 20 years. When I got out I worried about becoming frumpy mom! I do like some trends. I'm bad about saving everything ! As you know everything comes back around again!! Of course as I learn my body and realized " Yikes why did I wear that". I donate it tp goodwill.
Agree with all of these. The cold shoulder and the knot t were never in my closet. It just wasn’t something I liked at all. Also think the combo of the quilted vest/skinnies/riding boots are 2010. I see so many people wearing those.
Trends are just not for everyone or body shape. Some are really ugly. But to those who can carry it off …you have my full 👍. To everyone else be comfortable in your own skin wear what makes you feel beautiful ♥️
I have so many midi skirts, pleated midi skirts to be specific, (and by many i mean literally, like 10 of them and in different colors, black, navy blue, green,etc.) and now i dont know how to style them. Any suggestion? Thanks! Your fan from the Philippines. 🙂
Hi to you in the Philippines! I have a bunch of those pleated skirts too and they are still my favorites. If you want to update them you can style them with a pair of chunky Chelsea boots, Doc Martens, chunky loafers with small socks, add a blazer or a Moto jacket instead. I hope this helps! Kim xo
@@KimXO It sure is a big help. Can't wait to try those new styles. Thanks so much! Please continue to enlighten us with what's hot and what's not, how to wear this and what to wear with, mixing and matching, and a lot more. Your videos are such a big help to people like me who know little about fashion and style. Looking forward to watching more of your upcoming videos. Have a great day ahead and keep safe!
Love your channel Kim! Totally agree with all your picks ....plus I am really over tie dye, animal print sweaters especially cardigans, skinny jeans but they do totally work in a boot, major ripped jeans like you were attacked by lions would that be shredded ...still love knees out or something a little more random or unexpected like the raw hem jeans and the belt bags slung across your shoulder. That pic you posted with the woman in the neon yellow sweatshirt nailed it with her total look....can you identify the bag and boots? That is a great street look. Any suggestions for the updated pieces...shoes, bags, boots, jeans to look more on trend this fall or winter? Great follow up to this video....thanks!
Oh no! I recently went to a social thing where I literally wore: skinny jeans, poncho shirt with uneven hem and wedge ankle boot and everyone else was dressed in jumpsuits. I’m about 17 years older than most of them (but look their age otherwise). Yikes! I guess my age was showing on that one! 😆
Hahaha!! I love it! If you just changed one thing it updates it all. If you like the chunky Chelsea boots add those into the mix. I just found an a may pair at HM if you don’t want to invest in that style :) Also I’m sure you looked great and everyone loved you for your energetic personality that comes out in your comment! Xoxoox
I noticed one thing happening with me, I do not buy trend clothes straightaway , I like to see others, and another year I try to buy and sort it with my previous clothing, and on the third year when I learn how to style it I am like dated🤦🏻♀️, it’s so offten happen to me( now I do wear hat and chunky cardigan with low pointie boots🤭, it’s kinda autumn 😁
I would say that wearing pj's out shopping/in public as a general rule is dated... well, let's say pj's are a "timed" thing - as in, the time to wear pj's is anytime a person is at home and _not_ out in public. I know we like comfy and casual, but there is a line to be drawn between comfy and slovenly. Sorry, I just can't do it. The way to overcome and still get away with it? Jogging suits/separates. Those I'll condone (although, I still don't see me adapting them to my own lifestyle...) And only if they fit well and don't belong to your boyfriend... This was fun, Kim - thanks, eh! :) Shannon A.
Hey Kim you’re so fun!! Okay I have a black empire linen knee length dress. I am 68yrs old…4’3”tall. What shoes do I wear with this? Would I be too old to wear it? Thanks!!
It’s funny because I never thought any of these pieces were remotely cute.. trendy or not wear what you love! I wear stuff for years and take good care of it because I buy what I love and what suits me.
The funny thing is pointed toe anything is very bad for your feet. I saw a doctor talk about it on a TH-cam channel. As trendy as it, I will stay away pointed shoes.
I got rid of the riding boots I bought last fall . For some reason they didn’t feel dated to me yet but now I really feel it. Plus they were not as good quality as I had thought, they were already breaking
You always know when some thing doesn’t feel right, I kind of go by that gut instinct. If they’re not high-quality it’s good to give them away or take them to a thrift store!
It's funny, but so many of these things are still out there for sale, and even featured, on some of my favorite websites and in some of my favorite stores. The open shoulder shirts, the wedge shoes/boots, the round toe boots... I try to stay more on the up to date side, but fashion changes way too quickly for anyone to keep up.
That is funny, but there is some thing for everyone. Just because something is currently not trending doesn’t mean there aren’t millions of people out there that just love it and want to buy it. The trends do change fast I mostly by the classics as you can probably tell from my Instagram and TH-cam :)) Kim xo
I did an experiment with a pair of round toe shoes and pointed shoes, round toe didn't look good on me at all, so yeah that trend is out the door for me.
Thank you for articulating so clearly some out-dated looks. Sometimes I see an outfit and think “hmmm, that doesn’t look quite right”…sometimes it’s a disconnect between body shape or “style personality”, but I guess sometimes it’s just simply out-of-fashion! As always, thanks!
@@KimXO BTW, you gave me the inspiration/courage to get a vegan leather motorcycle jacket! It’s shockingly versatile. I throw it on with lots of different outfits…and it makes me feel like I can kick butt! Thank you for the empowerment!
I remember when skinny jeans came BACK in style, I said no way, wore them in the 80’s and 90’s, now that’s a lot of my jeans. And bootcut was so repulsive people wouldn’t be caught wearing them - I got rid of all mine - and now they look “fresh” and fashion forward again. I don’t like cropped flared pants - reminds me of culottes as a kid. I remember when Gladiator shoes were a thing.
I agree with the round toe boots. I pulled out my knee high boots I purchased over the summer and was so disappointed that they had the round toe. Not so cute right now. They worked for a Halloween costume, but I need to add to my wardrobe a better pair of tall boots.
I wish more footwear came with almond toes, that’s as close as I can get to pointed, my toes are just too wide. I will probably still wear my leather leggings tucked into my riding boots, they’re not flat, they’re block-heel and almond-toe. I just got them last spring. I hate skinnies, never going to miss wearing those!
I'm kinda happily surprised the cold shoulder look has had the staying power. They are great for travel because you can often tuck the sleeves in if the weather changes.
Long cardigans with boots, usually ankle but sometimes high are my fall/winter staple, I’m short and need the length…does wonders, trend or not dress for your body type. I dislike cropped jackets and coats.
Great video. I like that you indicated what is dated and how to fix. Really practical. Can you share if there are any out of date pieces that we should keep that you think will be in style at some point?
Ti be honest everything comes back again and almost everything that is dated can be styled in a way updating it. Even the long sweater paired with leggings or skinny jeans and lugg sole Chelsea boots will look good :)
I watch these videos to see where I can make tweaks here and there. But the trends are just a way to get us to buy more. There has to be practicality too. I live in the Northeast and am always cold. I still wear long sweaters but avoid wearing them with riding boots now. Minor tweak that didn't really cost anything.
Hi I just actually had a client that is all about the casual mom looks. She is actually one of the most “famous’ moms in the world! I’ll see if she will come on the channel! It is my specialty I will definitely do a video on how to update casual mom looks! Off the top of my head try grabbing a pair of chunky soul Chelsea boots, and an updated cardigan. I have a list in the description of this video, also check the list of cardigans.Thanks for the suggestion! Kim xo
New subscriber here! I never got the knotted top look but....not giving up my cold shoulders. Asymmetrical top are so in right now and cold should fits right in. Plus guys like cold shoulder tops :)
Hi! Welcome to the channel and the XO community 🥰 You are right guys definitely like the cold shoulders! And asymmetrical tops look fabulous on many bodies. I love it all everything looks good on different people. Thanks for saying 👋🏻 Looking forward to seeing you on future videos! Xo Kim
Hi. I'm back to watching your TH-cam. Love your new intro. Nice seeing you in different setting. This video was informative. Going back now to see the ones I missed. ❤️🌹
@@KimXO Nice Thank you. Was visiting a friend in Florida. Trying to get a little more sun and warmth before the weather changes here in the north east. Definitely love all of your videos. 🥰
Awesome tips. So do u think long cardigans are out even if paired with army boot or sneaker and straight leg jeans? Is it the flat boot/long cardigan pairing specifically that is not trending 🤷🏼♀️
Please please stop telling people classics are dated! Long cardigan - looks great, round shoes like ballet shoes look great. I follow you but i am really angry to see stylists telling people that stuff it is off..NOTHING is off! Absolutely nothing. Change the attitude, shorten a hemline, etc etc etc and update looks by still loving your clothes. The plannet is dying with overproduction of textiles thrown in piles and piles in poor countries and you people go on and on and on every other week about trends. Just stop.it!
I agree that overconsumption is a huge problem but she doesn’t say to buy anything in this video. Nor did she say to ditch long cardigans, she just said, for example, pairing them with sneakers or loafers instead of high flat boots looks more current.
@@bubblestheterrible She did say to wear a cropped cardigan in maybe a vibrant colour. Cropped stuff will disappear in a minute because... well... it is cropped and doesn't cover much of our skin. I am a cardigan lover, of any length to be honest. But by no means a long cardigan with jeans and boots are outdated or will be any time soon. It is a classic. I love fashion, but i 100% disapprove of the trend mania. Slow down people. Slow down. Fashion was changing every decade, not every week. So a big NO to this kind of videos.
I think those floral and otherwise patterned midi, Little House on the Prairie dresses are done and done. And I’m so glad. If I tried wearing one of those I would look like Laura Ingalls goes to a crack house.
I think it’s interesting to see what’s trending or not. Many things no longer trending are things I was never drawn to. That cold shoulder top always looked strange to me.
Utility jumpsuits are currently having a moment however I think those come back into style every couple of years. The dressy/ going out jumpsuits don’t seem as popular as they were a couple years ago
Super helpful video, and good reminders to restyle pieces that you have and love in more up to date ways. But I am confused that you mentioned knee high riding boots as being not on trend. Did you mean a specific type? I have literally heard them mentioned as being hugely on trend this autumn/winter. And I have always thought they were classic, but I know a few years ago thigh high boots and ankle booties were more popular and riding boots were harder to find in the more trendy brands. But now I see them all over.
It’s not that actual riding boots are out of trend (I think they are a classic staple and most likely always will be) it’s how you style them! There was a trend wearing them with a long sweater, angled hemline shirt and boots. It’s just dated. If you pair them with a more current look they work. That said, obviously the winner of the boot trend right now is the chunky sole and the Chelsea boot :) Kim xo
Some of us don’t want to zip around with our fannies hanging out so not gonna put a crop top with leggings or joggers. Making notes on the rest, some of which I never tried and others I’ve already tossed. Thanks!
I literally always say “. Don’t wear sweat pants in public”...that goes for leggings too...but that is my age...it’s cute on young girls. Tunics are here to stay imho.
Yuck to cold shoulder and knotted shirts!! Love lug boots. I have to wear round toe boots due to bunions and hammer toes. Pointy toes are impossible for me. No tunics and leggings? What about those of us "in shape" but curvy who need to cover our hips and upper thighs?
I think you can still wear tunic and leggings you just have to update it with the top so maybe a different cardigan add some lug boots just add some thing that is currently a little more on trend and fuller you’re back in the game!
Thank you thank you thank you. You do such a service to us all. Although I pretty much knew most of these but I wish I could share with many many many women unknown to me. 😉😘
We were just shopping at many "name brand" type stores yesterday, and noticed many of these outdated items were still on racks for sale! Did they not get the memo?🤷🏼♀️ I actually bought the tan wedge booties😖...I guess I should return them.🤔
LOL! You definitely don’t have to return them I actually have a few really stylish friends that rock them and looked so adorable so you are in good company. I say just wear what you love I was just speaking of trends anyway, and they all come back around :)
@@KimXO Well, I love your trend videos...I just need to watch them before I shop! You could be saving me alot of money...this time next year, those items will be out of the stores and I sure don't want to be stuck w/them! You obviously know more than I do! Thank you!! :-)
Hi! It’s from Bash Paris. Here is a link to me wearing it on my IG instagram.com/p/CUA1Pp1FYXk/? They should still have it in stores. If you look on my highlights I have all the links posted there. Check September links! Kim xo
There are some of these looks I never even embraced! ha ha. like...round toes, cold shoulder, leggings/long boots with tunics..etc. I DO like long skirts with denim jackets and sneakers/boots!!! I will be wearing that this year. ha ha Just got out all my winter shoes. I have some awesome boots! HAPPY HALLOWEEN Kim XO XX
Hi Kim I do agree with the cut shirt with shoulder. It was not a favor if my. But as well. will always love skinny jeans and boots cut jeans for myself. But I do agree that it is all in the way u wear it. Keep up great work. Love u and everything u do.
Awww thank you! I hardly ever do videos like this because I don’t want to make anyone feel bad! Ultimately there is something for everyone:) Thanks for saying hi and watching! Kim xo
So funny, they all have their place. I actually have a few very noteworthy clients that love a few of these looks and they rock them! These are just a few on my hit list that I’ve moved on from :) Thanks for chiming in! Kim xo
Very interesting watching these types of videos to see what people are liking and are trendy. Good thing I live in Florida and we just wear the same thing year round 😆
Best thing to do is NOT follow trends. Do what you are comfortable and looks good on your body.
Very true! However there are some people that just want to know what they are! It’s a fun video to do because the trends change so much it’s entertaining! Thanks for chiming in and saying hi!
Kim xo
💯 true Donna 🤩...
Be Blessed Be Happy 🤗😘🥰🧚♀️🦄🌈🧿
No fashion trends video is complete without someone commenting that they never follow trends
@@bubblestheterrible so true! I don't get it. Why come here to watch this type of video if you don't care about trends lol.
@@bubblestheterrible i do keep an eye on fashion, but this trend madness has to slow down. The most wired and ugly stuff is served to us as cool. Garments which serve no purpose like the tiny tiny bags, trillions of heel shapes. Like one season they present as trendy 15 type of heels and next season some complete different 15 types. How can somebody even dare to state that round ballet flats are off? Ballet flats are and always will have a round toe. This is a classic shape that will never ever change. There are variations, ok, but the round ones are not out. I look into shops and some garments are just appalling. Who in their right mind really thinks the grandfather vest worn on skin is flattering? Who thinks blazers 5 times bigger than your size flatter any body. Rihanna went to Paris a few years ago wearing this gigantic 2 pieces suit. She met Brigitte Macron at the Elysee Palace. Let me tell you something: EVERYBODY laughed behind her back. She was just ridiculous. Fashion had become offensive to beauty itself. The human body has certain shapes and clothes need to respect proportions to 1 dress us, 2 flatter our shapes, 3 help us express our personalities. Designers of today seem to have one thing in mind: change fast the shapes and impose the constant need of being on trend. No, thank you. Most of the trends are just that.
I just wear what I want, regardless of what other people think. I'm more of a t shirt and jeans kind of person though. I think trends are kind of ridiculous and are set to make people feel badly if they like something that is supposedly dated. Wear what you want and who cares what someone else thinks. If you can afford to only get shirts that have the knot in front, rock it, you wanna wear rounded toe shoes? Go for it. Life is a whole lot better when you don't give a shit what others think of your clothes(gives me highschool flashbacks) or other things
I’m 55 and love knowing what’s out. Too many women my age refuse to freshen and update their look.
It’s different for everyone! I like being in the know as well, you can choose what do from there!
Thanks for dropping a comment!
Kim xo
As long as you are not a fashion victim.Trendy can look garish.
So true you can pick and choose according to your style also body type
I’m 52 and like to know what is on trend and what is not and then incorporate this with my not trending items that suit my body type. For example I have a side knotted t-shirt that I now wear with joggers instead of leggings for a casual look.
I love these videos! Because I work so hard to stay the same size, my daughter in law says to me -“you are honestly the only woman who asks me ‘is this dated’ rather than ‘is this too tight?’
Thanks for more clarification on the toe shape.
Hahahah I love that! You know there are some very obvious markers of things being dated and these are a few of them most likely suspects :) That said, there is always something for everyone! Certain bodytypes really look good with a few of these things…so it works for them :)
Kim xo
If you buy classic styles you will be ever look dated..the trendy pieces and colors are what become dated..you can let down or raise a hemline on a classic pencil skirt .. it's the neon leather pants that you should not invest much in ..wear it for fun ..but know it will be out of style next season
omg the long sweater and the high boots and the starbucks coffee cup and the long autumn walk through leaves with a beret
I LOVE this. Not only do you explain what's outdated, you give options for what to do instead. Thank you!
I love your tips and your new intro footage. The worst look in my opinion: the big lumberjack plaid shirt over skinnies and Uggs.
Some things you mention bring back so many memories! I wore many of those things. Except the cold shoulders, I always disliked that for some reason.
I love how you’re so careful with people’s feelings : “ If you love it, by all means wear it” On the one hand I’m thinking it’s a video about TRENDS, if you don’t want to hear some things you wear are out, just watch a cat video you’ll feel better! On the other hand, I think it’s good to acknowledge that just because it’s not on trend, doesn’t mean it’s not wearable. I think some things are classics, they don’t have to be trendy to be in, if that makes any sense… and if you know what works for you and what you truly love, good for you! You don’t have to be a fashion victim and throw away things that make you look your best just because. Rock what you love.
I'm back and forth on the wedge booties. I'm totally over the booties with heels a different colour or material but I'm still loving my hidden wedge boots.
I actually have a client and she loves the hidden wedge. She is very little and she looks great! It doesn’t matter if it works for you :)
Same here. Not giving mine up either. :)
I watched this video. Not really hoping or expecting much. However, it was actually really useful. It helped to clarify a few things. Not that wear these trends anymore, but it made me think what elements I want to retain for my personal style. I felt confident that actually I was already pretty up to date. Sometimes when we read magazines, They make you feel that you’re out of fashion in an attempt to make you buy more things. Which is a habit I’m trying to break, given climate change and all that. This video really clarified how popular day to day trends have evolved over the last five years. It was a good thing to check in with, there are a few styles I thought we’re going out of fashion that I can actually wear a bit longer so it was a very useful video.
Thank you! I really appreciated this feedback and reading it! So we’ll said!
I am trying to put out useful content that isn’t just a waste of your few precious minutes that you share with me!
Thank you!
Kim xo
I live in leggings with tunics, so incredibly comfy! I just can't give those suckers up.😁
Me2 n skinny jeans
Leggings and skinny jeans forever!
I agree with every point you made. However, I'm sad to see the longish tunic fall out of favor when paired with leggings. I know the trend today is for young women to wear short tops with their obscenely tight leggings, but it's not a good look, regardless of how toned your glutes are.
You can still update the leggings and tunics by adding chunky Chelsea boots, loafers, runners…just not ‘riding boots’ :))
Just wear with a blazer! That’s what I do!
Love you, Kim! I bought several side tie tops a few years ago, but the material was cheap and pilled almost right away. Almost as if they weren’t intended to last beyond a season or two. I finally donated them this fall.
Always hard to hear about trends that we love that have gone away, but I really like that you provide alternative options for a more updated look. Thanks!
I think the knotted shirt trend came from the “half-tuck” shirt. Then again, if you’re old enough, you’ll remember when you knotted your shirt with a big plastic ring thing! 🤣 Then, they were knotting their maxi skirts with that thing! I still love my tall boots, so I appreciate the suggestions on how to update the look! Thanks for all the tips, because although I don’t live or die by the trends, I do appreciate looking more current/modern.👍🏼
Just popped in to see whats in, You can’t keep going with in and outs, you can go with your own style and comfort or you will be stuck with a closet of yearly toss it, you are all young, I’m 78 been through the fads and ins and outs days, my advise stop trying to fit in and find what you like and feel good in and wear it till it falls off your body. Keeping up you will go broke and guess what everything makes a come back. You may not realize now but you will some day. Now leggings, long tops, Ugg’s will do.
I’m 61, and I wear what I love, but I still enjoy hearing about trends. Fashion is fun.
@@kimberlyperrotis8962
Yes so do I, but I see so many hauls and all these people can’t possibly keep everything. I think they film, keep a few pieces and return or they get things to promote. I asked one gal to show us her closet as she was filming every day. She didn’t. Those tiny bags are nuts, tie dye come back, wide leg and flares should have kept and mom jeans everyone hated. Aah to turn back time.
Apparently I'm dressing timeless. None of these combo's I've ever worn. My boots happen to be almond shape or pointed (I don't own any wedge), the longer cardigans I never wear with riding boots (don't even own a pair) and the midi skirt I wear in all sorts of combo's, but not with a jean jacket.
Timeless is the best! Buying classic pieces that work for your body that will have some longevity is always nice:)
My wide feet need round or almond toe. Trends can kiss my tushie if my feet aren’t happy.
Lol 😂
I really appreciated that you not only just mention the outdated trends but also advise tips to update our style. Thanks again! Always support from Thailand💕
Thank you for watching!! Glad you enjoyed it :)
Kim xo
Great tips!! Thank you!! I worked retail for 20 years. When I got out I worried about becoming frumpy mom! I do like some trends. I'm bad about saving everything ! As you know everything comes back around again!! Of course as I learn my body and realized " Yikes why did I wear that". I donate it tp goodwill.
Same 😉💗
Round toe boots are still very much trendy if they’re like a Dr. Martens combat boot or derby
Hmmm I didn’t mean found toe like that. I’ll find an example! And you are right :)
Agree with all of these. The cold shoulder and the knot t were never in my closet. It just wasn’t something I liked at all. Also think the combo of the quilted vest/skinnies/riding boots are 2010. I see so many people wearing those.
I wear the quilted vest/skinnies/riding boots combo at least three times a week. But I’m actually riding a horse at the time 😁.
You know what is dated?
Fucked up feet from wearing those fucked up pointy shoes…
If those never come back? That would be awesome.
Thank you for sharing! Will not give up the skinny jeans though!😊👍
Trends are just not for everyone or body shape. Some are really ugly. But to those who can carry it off …you have my full 👍. To everyone else be comfortable in your own skin wear what makes you feel beautiful ♥️
just bought a brand new jean jacket. its long. I have the og classic any thoughts!! how does a plunging neck line or fluffy hair trend work??
I have so many midi skirts, pleated midi skirts to be specific, (and by many i mean literally, like 10 of them and in different colors, black, navy blue, green,etc.) and now i dont know how to style them. Any suggestion? Thanks! Your fan from the Philippines. 🙂
Hi to you in the Philippines! I have a bunch of those pleated skirts too and they are still my favorites. If you want to update them you can style them with a pair of chunky Chelsea boots, Doc Martens, chunky loafers with small socks, add a blazer or a Moto jacket instead. I hope this helps!
Kim xo
@@KimXO It sure is a big help. Can't wait to try those new styles. Thanks so much! Please continue to enlighten us with what's hot and what's not, how to wear this and what to wear with, mixing and matching, and a lot more. Your videos are such a big help to people like me who know little about fashion and style. Looking forward to watching more of your upcoming videos. Have a great day ahead and keep safe!
@@8sthea awww thank you! I’m glad they are helpful! Thanks for chatting and watching!
Kim xo
Love your channel Kim! Totally agree with all your picks ....plus I am really over tie dye, animal print sweaters especially cardigans, skinny jeans but they do totally work in a boot, major ripped jeans like you were attacked by lions would that be shredded ...still love knees out or something a little more random or unexpected like the raw hem jeans and the belt bags slung across your shoulder. That pic you posted with the woman in the neon yellow sweatshirt nailed it with her total look....can you identify the bag and boots? That is a great street look. Any suggestions for the updated pieces...shoes, bags, boots, jeans to look more on trend this fall or winter? Great follow up to this video....thanks!
Oh no! I recently went to a social thing where I literally wore: skinny jeans, poncho shirt with uneven hem and wedge ankle boot and everyone else was dressed in jumpsuits. I’m about 17 years older than most of them (but look their age otherwise). Yikes! I guess my age was showing on that one! 😆
Hahaha!! I love it! If you just changed one thing it updates it all. If you like the chunky Chelsea boots add those into the mix. I just found an a may pair at HM if you don’t want to invest in that style :)
Also I’m sure you looked great and everyone loved you for your energetic personality that comes out in your comment! Xoxoox
@@KimXO this is such a sweet reply
I noticed one thing happening with me, I do not buy trend clothes straightaway , I like to see others, and another year I try to buy and sort it with my previous clothing, and on the third year when I learn how to style it I am like dated🤦🏻♀️, it’s so offten happen to me( now I do wear hat and chunky cardigan with low pointie boots🤭, it’s kinda autumn 😁
Let me look for a picture for you on how to style that…
Wear what makes u feel good
Trends r just that, trends they don’t last
I would say that wearing pj's out shopping/in public as a general rule is dated... well, let's say pj's are a "timed" thing - as in, the time to wear pj's is anytime a person is at home and _not_ out in public. I know we like comfy and casual, but there is a line to be drawn between comfy and slovenly. Sorry, I just can't do it.
The way to overcome and still get away with it? Jogging suits/separates. Those I'll condone (although, I still don't see me adapting them to my own lifestyle...) And only if they fit well and don't belong to your boyfriend...
This was fun, Kim - thanks, eh! :) Shannon A.
SO GLAD the cold shoulder tops are gone. Hated them! Never bought one. My daughter would beg for them and I always refused to buy her one too!
Oh, I agree with you on all of these looks. They are outdated but they lasted a long time. I like the updated looks better though.
Hey Kim you’re so fun!!
Okay I have a black empire linen knee length dress. I am 68yrs old…4’3”tall.
What shoes do I wear with this?
Would I be too old to wear it?
Thanks!!
It’s funny because I never thought any of these pieces were remotely cute.. trendy or not wear what you love! I wear stuff for years and take good care of it because I buy what I love and what suits me.
The funny thing is pointed toe anything is very bad for your feet. I saw a doctor talk about it on a TH-cam channel. As trendy as it, I will stay away pointed shoes.
I feel like most pointy toed shoes and high heels are so bad for our feet I generally stay away as well :)
I got rid of the riding boots I bought last fall . For some reason they didn’t feel dated to me yet but now I really feel it. Plus they were not as good quality as I had thought, they were already breaking
You always know when some thing doesn’t feel right, I kind of go by that gut instinct. If they’re not high-quality it’s good to give them away or take them to a thrift store!
It's funny, but so many of these things are still out there for sale, and even featured, on some of my favorite websites and in some of my favorite stores. The open shoulder shirts, the wedge shoes/boots, the round toe boots... I try to stay more on the up to date side, but fashion changes way too quickly for anyone to keep up.
That is funny, but there is some thing for everyone. Just because something is currently not trending doesn’t mean there aren’t millions of people out there that just love it and want to buy it. The trends do change fast I mostly by the classics as you can probably tell from my Instagram and TH-cam :))
Kim xo
I LOVE these types of videos! please do more!!!
I did an experiment with a pair of round toe shoes and pointed shoes, round toe didn't look good on me at all, so yeah that trend is out the door for me.
Its also a body type thing, I look terrible in that round toe!
Thank you for articulating so clearly some out-dated looks. Sometimes I see an outfit and think “hmmm, that doesn’t look quite right”…sometimes it’s a disconnect between body shape or “style personality”, but I guess sometimes it’s just simply out-of-fashion! As always, thanks!
Awww thank you!! It’s the truth right? Just trying to help my buddies out!
Kim xo
@@KimXO BTW, you gave me the inspiration/courage to get a vegan leather motorcycle jacket! It’s shockingly versatile. I throw it on with lots of different outfits…and it makes me feel like I can kick butt! Thank you for the empowerment!
I remember when skinny jeans came BACK in style, I said no way, wore them in the 80’s and 90’s, now that’s a lot of my jeans. And bootcut was so repulsive people wouldn’t be caught wearing them - I got rid of all mine - and now they look “fresh” and fashion forward again. I don’t like cropped flared pants - reminds me of culottes as a kid. I remember when Gladiator shoes were a thing.
I agree with the round toe boots. I pulled out my knee high boots I purchased over the summer and was so disappointed that they had the round toe. Not so cute right now. They worked for a Halloween costume, but I need to add to my wardrobe a better pair of tall boots.
I wish more footwear came with almond toes, that’s as close as I can get to pointed, my toes are just too wide. I will probably still wear my leather leggings tucked into my riding boots, they’re not flat, they’re block-heel and almond-toe. I just got them last spring. I hate skinnies, never going to miss wearing those!
Great video and so accurate, with the exception of the wedge ankle boots. All ankle boots are still in style. I see many young girls wearing them.
Thanks for offering the alternative styling suggestions.
Welcome!!!
I'm kinda happily surprised the cold shoulder look has had the staying power. They are great for travel because you can often tuck the sleeves in if the weather changes.
That’s interesting, I never thought of doing that! That’s a good travel hack!! Thanks for chiming in!
Kim xo
How would you tuck the sleeves in? I’m most curious…
Long cardigans with boots, usually ankle but sometimes high are my fall/winter staple, I’m short and need the length…does wonders, trend or not dress for your body type. I dislike cropped jackets and coats.
I can only imagine what people will be saying about those clunky I mean "chunky" boots a few years from now.
Lol! Lots of not so positive things probably:)
Great video. I like that you indicated what is dated and how to fix. Really practical. Can you share if there are any out of date pieces that we should keep that you think will be in style at some point?
Ti be honest everything comes back again and almost everything that is dated can be styled in a way updating it. Even the long sweater paired with leggings or skinny jeans and lugg sole Chelsea boots will look good :)
Thanks good info. What is the colour of your lipstick I love it
I think it’s Pillow Talk from Charlotte Tillberry
I watch these videos to see where I can make tweaks here and there. But the trends are just a way to get us to buy more. There has to be practicality too. I live in the Northeast and am always cold. I still wear long sweaters but avoid wearing them with riding boots now. Minor tweak that didn't really cost anything.
This was really helpful! Could you please do this for coats and cuts of shirts?
Sure! Great idea :)
Please casual mom looks !!!!
Hi I just actually had a client that is all about the casual mom looks. She is actually one of the most “famous’ moms in the world! I’ll see if she will come on the channel! It is my specialty I will definitely do a video on how to update casual mom looks! Off the top of my head try grabbing a pair of chunky soul Chelsea boots, and an updated cardigan. I have a list in the description of this video, also check the list of cardigans.Thanks for the suggestion! Kim xo
New subscriber here! I never got the knotted top look but....not giving up my cold shoulders. Asymmetrical top are so in right now and cold should fits right in. Plus guys like cold shoulder tops :)
Hi! Welcome to the channel and the XO community 🥰 You are right guys definitely like the cold shoulders! And asymmetrical tops look fabulous on many bodies. I love it all everything looks good on different people. Thanks for saying 👋🏻 Looking forward to seeing you on future videos! Xo
Kim
I like that you also mentioned how to update those looks!
Hi. I'm back to watching your TH-cam. Love your new intro. Nice seeing you in different setting. This video was informative. Going back now to see the ones I missed. ❤️🌹
Hi!! Welcome back :)) Where did you go lol?
Yes it’s a different setting, I moved to Toronto from the west! Hope you enjoyed the other ones!
Kim xo
@@KimXO Nice Thank you. Was visiting a friend in Florida. Trying to get a little more sun and warmth before the weather changes here in the north east. Definitely love all of your videos. 🥰
Awesome tips. So do u think long cardigans are out even if paired with army boot or sneaker and straight leg jeans? Is it the flat boot/long cardigan pairing specifically that is not trending 🤷🏼♀️
Yes it’s specific to the full look! Adding a combat boot or sneaker changes the look! Xo
all trends I won't miss and didn't have in my closet along with raw edge hems and distressing on my jeans and balloon sleeves and open toe boots
love that you give options of what to wear instead! great vid :) thanks!
You are welcome! I’m glad you enjoyed it!
Please please stop telling people classics are dated! Long cardigan - looks great, round shoes like ballet shoes look great. I follow you but i am really angry to see stylists telling people that stuff it is off..NOTHING is off! Absolutely nothing. Change the attitude, shorten a hemline, etc etc etc and update looks by still loving your clothes. The plannet is dying with overproduction of textiles thrown in piles and piles in poor countries and you people go on and on and on every other week about trends. Just stop.it!
I agree that overconsumption is a huge problem but she doesn’t say to buy anything in this video. Nor did she say to ditch long cardigans, she just said, for example, pairing them with sneakers or loafers instead of high flat boots looks more current.
@@bubblestheterrible She did say to wear a cropped cardigan in maybe a vibrant colour. Cropped stuff will disappear in a minute because... well... it is cropped and doesn't cover much of our skin. I am a cardigan lover, of any length to be honest. But by no means a long cardigan with jeans and boots are outdated or will be any time soon. It is a classic. I love fashion, but i 100% disapprove of the trend mania. Slow down people. Slow down. Fashion was changing every decade, not every week. So a big NO to this kind of videos.
@@anamariafloreaharrison3336
You kind of wonder if it’s out of style why are all the stores showing cardigans in every length, leggings, cargo pants .
@@sandyj7917 in fact designers change trends so often that there is not enough time for shapes to even go out of style:-)))
leather moto, yes or no?
Yes!
@@KimXO thanks Kim xxo
I think those floral and otherwise patterned midi, Little House on the Prairie dresses are done and done. And I’m so glad. If I tried wearing one of those I would look like Laura Ingalls goes to a crack house.
LOLZ!!!! That’s probably the funniest comment I’ve read all day. Laura Ingalls goes to a crack house!!!!!
I think it’s interesting to see what’s trending or not. Many things no longer trending are things I was never drawn to. That cold shoulder top always looked strange to me.
?jumpsuits seem like they should be off trend by now- r they?
I don’t think they are?! It’s more in how they are styled :))
Utility jumpsuits are currently having a moment however I think those come back into style every couple of years. The dressy/ going out jumpsuits don’t seem as popular as they were a couple years ago
Great video! I just bought a FP ottoman tunic which I love with my leggings - maybe I'll switch them out to jeans ;)
Like any boot shape if worn right
I would like to know, who decides what trending.?
Clothing keeps you warm and protected but fashion should be fun and lift your spirits and your videos do just that !
Awww thank you ❤️
You are so right on, Kim. I never realized my revulsion to flip flops til you!❤️
Ahhahah I have a serious issue with rubber flip flops and nice clothing 😜
I’m with you. I haven’t worn flip flops outside of the pool since I was in my 20’s.
Super helpful video, and good reminders to restyle pieces that you have and love in more up to date ways. But I am confused that you mentioned knee high riding boots as being not on trend. Did you mean a specific type? I have literally heard them mentioned as being hugely on trend this autumn/winter. And I have always thought they were classic, but I know a few years ago thigh high boots and ankle booties were more popular and riding boots were harder to find in the more trendy brands. But now I see them all over.
It’s not that actual riding boots are out of trend (I think they are a classic staple and most likely always will be) it’s how you style them! There was a trend wearing them with a long sweater, angled hemline shirt and boots. It’s just dated. If you pair them with a more current look they work. That said, obviously the winner of the boot trend right now is the chunky sole and the Chelsea boot :)
Kim xo
@@KimXO Yes, that totally makes sense.
Some of us don’t want to zip around with our fannies hanging out so not gonna put a crop top with leggings or joggers. Making notes on the rest, some of which I never tried and others I’ve already tossed. Thanks!
I literally always say “. Don’t wear sweat pants in public”...that goes for leggings too...but that is my age...it’s cute on young girls. Tunics are here to stay imho.
@@Katrn30 Right there with you! Interestingly, women in Europe don’t run around in gym wear.
Yuck to cold shoulder and knotted shirts!! Love lug boots. I have to wear round toe boots due to bunions and hammer toes. Pointy toes are impossible for me. No tunics and leggings? What about those of us "in shape" but curvy who need to cover our hips and upper thighs?
I think you can still wear tunic and leggings you just have to update it with the top so maybe a different cardigan add some lug boots just add some thing that is currently a little more on trend and fuller you’re back in the game!
Also, the floral dress under a jean jacket. I thought I invented that in the early 90s, but that was 30 years ago! Time to move on.
Hahaha!
Thank you thank you thank you. You do such a service to us all. Although I pretty much knew most of these but I wish I could share with many many many women unknown to me. 😉😘
%100 agree. Even though I'm hurt by the cold shoulder.
Wear it if you love it :)
We were just shopping at many "name brand" type stores yesterday, and noticed many of these outdated items were still on racks for sale! Did they not get the memo?🤷🏼♀️ I actually bought the tan wedge booties😖...I guess I should return them.🤔
LOL! You definitely don’t have to return them I actually have a few really stylish friends that rock them and looked so adorable so you are in good company. I say just wear what you love I was just speaking of trends anyway, and they all come back around :)
@@KimXO Well, I love your trend videos...I just need to watch them before I shop! You could be saving me alot of money...this time next year, those items will be out of the stores and I sure don't want to be stuck w/them! You obviously know more than I do! Thank you!! :-)
Same Lisa!! I’m still seeing so many of the cold shoulder and skinny styles at places like TjMaxx
Ok last question-but should we pack our skinny jeans away for a while ? Or ok -if styled correctly. I have so many 🙄🤪
I still wear mine! Just style them in a current way!
where is your polka dot shirt you're wearing from?? thanks!!
Hi! It’s from Bash Paris. Here is a link to me wearing it on my IG instagram.com/p/CUA1Pp1FYXk/? They should still have it in stores. If you look on my highlights I have all the links posted there. Check September links!
Kim xo
@@KimXO you're so beautiful!
@@kelliejeffrisyoga I can thank my momma 🙏🏻🥰 and you are sweet, thank you xo 😘
I enjoyed this video. Not much of a trend follower, but I enjoy knowing what’s in, what’s out. . .
Some trends I lean into and some I watch from afar. Glad you liked watching! Xo
so enjoy thanks.
Great video, Kim! Perfect tips on how to stay current (or staying dated, if that's their vibe)! 😉 Have a great weekend.
Hahahaha! Thank you! Whatever floats your boat. Have a great weekend too! Where are you watching from?
Kim xo
I'm staying current in California! ❤ 😘
There are some of these looks I never even embraced! ha ha. like...round toes, cold shoulder, leggings/long boots with tunics..etc. I DO like long skirts with denim jackets and sneakers/boots!!! I will be wearing that this year. ha ha Just got out all my winter shoes. I have some awesome boots! HAPPY HALLOWEEN Kim XO XX
Loved this Kim!!
Thank you!! Xo
Hi Kim I do agree with the cut shirt with shoulder. It was not a favor if my. But as well. will always love skinny jeans and boots cut jeans for myself. But I do agree that it is all in the way u wear it. Keep up great work. Love u and everything u do.
Awww thank you! I hardly ever do videos like this because I don’t want to make anyone feel bad! Ultimately there is something for everyone:)
Thanks for saying hi and watching!
Kim xo
Wear what you dig, ladies! If it makes you feel good, continue to wear it! Who needs "influencers" telling you what's in/what's out. Geesh!
Read my mind.
Just donated a ton of cold shoulder blouses but heard my cut outs are still ok :)
All so on point, fully agree.
Can you do a video for updated office wear, please?
I can! Glad you liked it!
thank you for the updated looks!
Welcome!! Xo
You are hitting on all the wardrobe no’s. Great video!
Thank you!! I’m glad you liked it :)
Hate cold shoulder what's it about
Never liked tunics anyway. Like the tall boot short jacket look!
That’s cute that look!
Thanks for your new video Kim! What a fun and useful topic. The trend I´m glad is out of style is the dad sneakers. /Marie from Sweden
I agree with all of them!! Thanks for keeping us updated 😍
So funny, they all have their place. I actually have a few very noteworthy clients that love a few of these looks and they rock them! These are just a few on my hit list that I’ve moved on from :)
Thanks for chiming in!
Kim xo
I'm 5 ft. I will never stop wearing wedges. I love them for that little extra height that's comfortable 😊
I have been waiting for this! It's a Save most definitely. Thank you.
thoughts on the long tunic over leggings... I don't like people seeing my crotch. The tunic keeps the parts off display.
Very interesting watching these types of videos to see what people are liking and are trendy. Good thing I live in Florida and we just wear the same thing year round 😆
Lol! I love Florida. I lived there last year in Palm Beach!
Don't agree on the wedge boot. I just bought an ankle wedge. They look great with a wider leg pant. Those pointed toe boots kill my feet.
Totally agree. I love my wedge boots