EXPLAINING TO OUR 7 KIDS MUMMY'S HAD HER FIRST MISCARRIAGE || GENUINELY EMOTIONAL...

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  • @piechocki93
    @piechocki93 ปีที่แล้ว +113

    Heze is the sweetest young man. The love he shows in every vlog for his siblings is so beautiful to watch. He is going to be an absolutely wonderful partner and father someday ❤

    • @THETROUBLEMAKER_
      @THETROUBLEMAKER_ ปีที่แล้ว +1

      that is true

    • @vivianscott9581
      @vivianscott9581 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes, he is very compassionate with his siblings ❤

    • @u.gisele2253
      @u.gisele2253 ปีที่แล้ว

      Soo... true

    • @patriciabrooks947
      @patriciabrooks947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A BEAUTIFUL FAMILY. IF YOU WANT ANOTHER CHILD HAVE IT, BECAUSE YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL PARENTS. SORRY ABOUT YOUR LOST.​@@THETROUBLEMAKER_

  • @elizabethblake6645
    @elizabethblake6645 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    What a great brother Heze is holding his sisters and his moms hands.....your family is beautiful

  • @brookbowers31974
    @brookbowers31974 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Heze is going to be the best husband someday. He thought nothing to immediately comfort his momma and hold her hand. The respect these kids have is refreshing to see and the parents are the ones who do a phenomenal job raising these kids. The love for one another is unbreakable.

  • @_tomil_
    @_tomil_ ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Tim & Ella, you are fantastic examples of parenting, you are able to bring real life topics to educate your children on communication, empathy, struggles, supporting one another, emotional processing and life skills. You give them space to choose, you allow them room to form and develop themselves as individuals to become self aware to make choices on how they will navigate difficult situations in there own lives. Your children are so loved, wanted and accepted by you both and it is so evident. This is why you can brave these topics!
    As someone who works within mental health, counselling, educational sector with children, youth and young adults over 15years. You are setting up your children to be emotionally intelligent and navigate through the difficulties of the world in this day and age! Thankyou for continuing to embark on this journey and have the difficult conversations, allowing your children to accept vulnerability and be vulnerable!
    May your family continue to flourish and grow and May God comfort you all in this season! ❤

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      I love how you have written this reply Tomi not enough children have this example shown to them especially in time we live in

    • @audreymasseyrush3020
      @audreymasseyrush3020 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    • @kimriffe2437
      @kimriffe2437 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes yes yes!!!!

    • @sandrabowman8935
      @sandrabowman8935 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Praying for your Family!! God bless you all thanks for sharing.❤🙏🏽

    • @sandrabowman8935
      @sandrabowman8935 ปีที่แล้ว

      My daughter and son-in-law loss their 4th child several months ago. They were so happy for this baby they gave him a name as they were believing he was a boy. They saw him on the screen and he was waving, on their next appointment there was no heartbeat he had died. Thank you for sharing but God will heal your hearts just as he’s healing their hearts. In the midst of it all God has a plan and a purpose for everything we go through. I love you guys and be encouraged 🙏🏽❤️

  • @susanmorgan6333
    @susanmorgan6333 ปีที่แล้ว +406

    Heze is such a great older brother the love and support he shows his sister's is amazing..keep shining young man.sending love and prayers to you all🙏🙏💜💙💖

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +14

      @Susan Morgan IKR HEZZIE IS THE MOST AWSOMEST BIG BROTHER TO HOZZANNA,HALLELUJAH;HARPER,REU,HOUSTON N HALO HE'S LITERALLY BOTH SHOULDER'S FOR HALLELUJAH N HARPER TO CRY ON SHOUT OUT TO N THE GRIMWADE BEST BIGGEST BROTHER GOES TOO....
      DRUM 🥁 🪘 🛢 🥁 🪘 🛢 ROLL PLEASE..... HEZIKIAH (HEZZIE) DANIEL H. GRIMWADE N US GRIMWADE GANG CROWED GOES WILD ❤🎉😮😊 N CHANTS HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE HEZZIE N GO HEZZIE GO HEZZIE GO GO GO HEZZIE

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      He must be under a great deal of stress dealing with the pressure his parents put him under! When I look at the show, I would always feel sorry Sometimes I read comments, most mothers write as if we're in a fairytale! What is so great about 1 child stressing over her dead twin and others trying to understand adult words. I had to stop watching the show. There's no way a boy as you as Rubir would know to talk that mature. this child was rehearsed. Now their talking about a miscarriage. The children are young! You're putting more on them than they can handle. I worked for a child psychiatrist for years. Ella Tim they are too young to comprehend this. You have sweetie crying over a dead twin......The children are sad anyway.

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      And whose showing love and support to him, he needs it as well!

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@barbararackley6746 WHY?

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KC-qi7gn Susan you're just as delusional as Tim and Ella. Heze is a child, a very young child, why should he carry such burdens. Whose supporting him. The little boy will have a lot of psychological problems as an adult. I can't believe how many mothers are agreeing with this child abuse. My heart hurts for all the children. I wonder what kind of childhood these parents had. They have no concept of how to raise children. They think God wants them to have a lot of children. God gives us common sense. If you're too lazy to exercise birth control, duhhhhh she's going to get pregnant. We have to exercise the choices that God allows us to have. Choices that we use for ourselves. They got these children crying over an abortion. Rheu saying he's ok. He's a toddler how in the world does he even knows what being ok means.

  • @dorindah3729
    @dorindah3729 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The love that these children are showing each other is so incredible, regardless if they totally understand it or not!!!
    They definitely have been taught the right thing about GOD, and that will take them through life!!!
    We know that GOD gives life and takes life, that’s why children are blessings and not burdens!!!✝️🛐

    • @a.m.lindsay2900
      @a.m.lindsay2900 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG, I can't comment too much today, my heart is broken also, my tears are too many, I am so sorry, God's Blessing be upon you and your family, my prayers are with you 🙏🏽

  • @saundralyle9541
    @saundralyle9541 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Love this family. The children are so sensitive, caring, and articulate. The parents are so loving and patient.

  • @angelize82
    @angelize82 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    It doesn’t matter how many kids we have had before the miscarriage. Loss is loss. A feeling is a feeling. And you don’t need to shut your feelings down or lessen them because you have had other kids. This also happened to me when I was pregnant at 16 wks and I had 3 other kids. I remember one of the doctors at the hospital after my d&c (I also had a miscarriage) said to me “well you have 3 others”. Like what the heck!!! Thankfully I was blessed a year after that with the birth of my 4th child.
    I am so sorry this has happened to you. It has been amazing to see your family grow over the years. You are the most sweetest and precious family on TH-cam. I see you and I hear you ❤!

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry to hear about your loss and happy for you having ur 4th I love how Ella and Tim talk and share everything with the kids and watching how they are handing it well these 2 young boys are going to understand their partners when they have 1

  • @politicsinplainenglish1791
    @politicsinplainenglish1791 ปีที่แล้ว +62

    Hosanna & Heze are the strong ones in the family helping out the younger ones and she knew her mother wasn't feeling well and to rub her back was so sweet.

    • @hils1015
      @hils1015 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      They appear strong, but you never know how they are on the inside, especially when they are on their own.

  • @marymartha5363
    @marymartha5363 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Heze, you’re the man!!! I’m so sorry for your loss, fam. This will make you all even more closer. Let the healing begin. It would have been so exciting to hear the news of another baby, though.

  • @unknowntoyou97
    @unknowntoyou97 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    I love how your kids knew exactly what was going on even without saying just goes to show how close and In tuned your kids are with you as there parents. I’m so sorry for you guys and you can have a million kids if you want your married and committed raising beautiful talented kids

  • @johdihale7740
    @johdihale7740 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I really admire this video, thank you for putting this out there. I had a missed miscarriage too after trying for 18 months to get pregnant with my first. I had a scan at 6 weeks & saw a heartbeat, when my symptoms stopped at 11 weeks I went in for a scan & the baby had stopped growing at 7 weeks, it destroyed me & can understand your emotions. Thank the Lord I now have my son!! ❤

    • @TheGrimwadeFamily
      @TheGrimwadeFamily  ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Amen and I am so thankful for the blessing of your son too nay God give you wisdom and strength in raising him to be a young man who will be a leader in this generation xxx

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes I agree with you a 100% n sorry for your loss n happiness for your Son ❤

  • @soozaneve
    @soozaneve ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Love you Grimwades. Sorry for your loss. Many hugs. Miscarriages are not easy.. been through this a few times. Thanks for being vulnerable with us. May God hold you all and comfort you Ella. Hosanna is such a responsible big sister. And the children are all well raised. Good job Ella and Tim..

  • @denisedean2446
    @denisedean2446 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    This is too much for Rue and Harper. Sorry about your loss...Ella you dont have easy labor, maybe give your body time to heal. God forbid something happens to you due to age and rough time you have with your pregnancies, and 7 children are left without you.😮You are a phenomenal mom, wife and overall lovely individual. In the bible the number 7 is one of completion...May God's perfect will be done and you completely recover.

    • @susankellam4743
      @susankellam4743 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Her body is tired..
      Enjoy your blessing from God..Kids
      needs YOU❤

  • @its_ebs
    @its_ebs ปีที่แล้ว +86

    I love how open you guys are with your kids and allow them to vocalise their feelings. Your parenting style is amazing!!! Definitely learning a lot from you guys❤

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You think learning from parents who sit and tell young children about an abortion and the one little girl still carrying in her little head about her twin that died. You all are praising parents for this. That's peach made about being ok, you can tell he's been rehearsed. What young child you know has that type of adult understanding??????

    • @its_ebs
      @its_ebs ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@barbararackley6746 let's spread positivity here instead of negativity. You are entitled to your opinion but be mindful of how your words can negatively impact others. God bless xxx

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      100% Agree with you about Ella n Timsparenting style❤

  • @AllThingsVon1277
    @AllThingsVon1277 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Ohk when people are adopted they always want a family it's the feeling of abandonment which is something most people need therapy for. Ella's body might not be the best to continue giving birth. 7 children is such a blessing and give God the praises and glory for what you already have. 🙏🏽

  • @eaa8640
    @eaa8640 ปีที่แล้ว +260

    When Harper started crying I couldn’t hold back my tears. Tim and Ella you are amazing parents may God bless you on this journey and comfort you at this difficult time 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @EA A IT WAS WHEN HALLELUJAH STARTED CRYING FOR ME THAT I COULDN'T HOLD BACK MY TEAR'S EITHER

    • @s2ncurai
      @s2ncurai ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That got me😢

    • @adwoagyabaah9227
      @adwoagyabaah9227 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

    • @amberridgell9422
      @amberridgell9422 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Her crying broke me down. I was tryna hold out and not cry but her sweet face got me❤

    • @marymorris8285
      @marymorris8285 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes, I’m with you, when Harper cried my tears started to fall 😢

  • @officially_taiyo
    @officially_taiyo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It is Well! Praying for peace and comfort for the whole family! Love you all!
    Hez and Hosanna, you two are honestly such great older siblings. The support and care you have and even giving space for you fam to express their emotions is something most kids your age don’t have.

  • @LoveTheColorOrange
    @LoveTheColorOrange ปีที่แล้ว +66

    My prayers are with you all. May the Lord comfort you all during this difficult time. Peace and Blessings.

  • @elyssamarieee
    @elyssamarieee ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Wow. The bond with your family through this difficult time is so beautiful and inspiring. I am so sorry for your lost and I pray for comfort and healing for your family. I’ve experienced a miscarriage and an ectopic pregnancy and it is not easy. Currently 18 weeks pregnant after 3 years of trying and it’s still very difficult to not still feel the fear and hurt of the past loses. My heart is with you all. God Bless your family and May your hearts receive the peace of the Lord to surround you through this. ❤❤❤❤

  • @aliciabishop4264
    @aliciabishop4264 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    ELLA YOU NEED REST AND PRAYERS 🙏 U
    KNOW GOD KNOWS BEST, YOUR VERY
    STRONG BUT EVEN THE STRONGEST OF
    US NEED TO BE TAKEN CARE OF SOME
    TIME'S AND GRIMWADE GANG THIS IS ONE OF THOSE TIMES ELLA NEEDS YOU
    I LOVE YOU GRIMWADES.

  • @jacquelinejohnson560
    @jacquelinejohnson560 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Tim & Ella, for better or worst, sickness and in health. Tim, people focus on the mother during this difficult time, as they should. Fathers feel the lost but can express it differently. When you guys go back to the hospital ask for a referral for grief counseling. To Heze and Hosanna, your parents are blessed to have you. ❤❤❤❤

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I don't know how parents are okaying this stressful, cruel treatment of young children. Adults have a problem dealing with these things. But Tim and Ella oh!! We have a great idea let's burden our young children with what a miscarriage means. Their already stressed and depressed losing their twin!!! The worst part is you have a host of unfit parents agreeing with them. I wonder if child psychologists, or child psychiatrists ever watch this sitcom???

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@barbararackley6746 wake up the way the world has been doing it well it’s fucked up millions of kids now diagnosed with mental health and if You shut ur mouth and opened ur eyes Just like Heze Hosana Haile do. I will Continue to Support ELLA N TIM a 100%

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Great to See I’m Not alone Supporting Ella n Tim

    • @opelchappell9389
      @opelchappell9389 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Barbara Rackley Maybe just maybe you feel the way you do because you may not have children. Or your not ok with being open and honest with your kids especially at a young age ? But I think it is great. Because the way I see it as Parents we have a choice to be open with our kids and they here it the correct way and ask questions. Or we allow the world other people to tell our kids thing and don't tell them the correct way and then they want to know why couldn't they have been told by us as a parent. So I applaud Tim and Ella's. Great job.

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@opelchappell9389 Well Said I agree with you 1000%

  • @lindacherry579
    @lindacherry579 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    So very sorry! My heart is deeply saddened for your loss. May God continue to bless your beautiful and lovely family during this difficult time in your lives and give you all comfort!🙏🏽💕

  • @NewYear2025NewMe
    @NewYear2025NewMe ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Tim & Ella you two are absolutely exceptional parents!! I love how you two sit all the children down & explain everything to them in a way that they can understand it & then give them each a chance to ask questions. I think this is a exceptional way to raise children & you & Ella have done an amazing job since day one.
    I want you all to know how sorry I am for the loss of you all’s precious baby. It’s absolutely heartbreaking to hear & to watch each one of you suffering with such a hard loss. Tim & Ella don’t ever be sorry for sharing y’all’s grief & feelings. This is the way we should all cope is sharing our feelings. My heart just broke listening to each one of the children talking about their sibling they just lost. Tell them it’s ok to keep talking about their sibling & bringing them up in every day conversations because that’s what keeps their memory alive. Get a beautiful tree or flowers you can plant in the babies memory as well.
    I miscarried my baby at 12 weeks. I had a 2 year old daughter at the time. It tore me up for awhile. I have five living children now & they have always known about their angel👼🏻 in Heaven.
    You all are in my thoughts & Prayers ❤️❤️🙏🏻✝️👼🏻👣🕊️

  • @karla.30
    @karla.30 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    My prayers and condolences go out to the whole family...a person is a person, no matter how small. Yes, you are blessed with 7 beautiful children, but that little life was real, and mattered, and will be missed, no matter how many children you have. HUGS!

  • @dxminiquea
    @dxminiquea ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I hope all the kids, but especially Halle given her situation, know that their feelings, reactions, emotions are all valid and it's more than okay to feel those things. And to Ella and Tim, you shouldn't feel guilty for being upset when you were mourning the loss of your unborn child

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Dominique A SAME ESPECIALLY FOR HALLELUJAH TIM N ELLA N SAME ELLA U SHOULD NOT FEEL GUILTY NEITHER SHOULD U TIM (IF U DO THAT IS)? N NEITHER SHOULD U HALLELUJAH (IF U DO TOO THAT IS)? SENDING LOVE,PRAYER'S N GOD GIVING N RECIEVING WISHES,PRAYER'S HOPE,LOVE N DREAM TO THE GRIMWADE FAMILY FROM YOUR BIGGEST FANS N TWO OF MANY OF US (MY MOM INCLUDED) GRIMWADE GANG MEMBER'S LOVE FROM USA 🇺🇸 ❤️ 💙 💖 ♥️ 💕 🇺🇸 ❤️ 💙 💖 ♥️ 💕 🇺🇸 ❤️ 💙 💖

    • @shirleybaker1942
      @shirleybaker1942 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😢My heart broke 💔 for you and your family...I send lots of love and prayers from Brooklyn, NY

    • @valeriaprescott2382
      @valeriaprescott2382 ปีที่แล้ว

      ❤🙏🙏🙏 Stephanie from barbados pure love

    • @lilmrnstr
      @lilmrnstr ปีที่แล้ว

      So much love in your family ❤

  • @dawncongdon6251
    @dawncongdon6251 ปีที่แล้ว +195

    I’m very sorry for your loss!❤Hugs to you all!

  • @marlenawills-solomon277
    @marlenawills-solomon277 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Such a beautiful and blessed family!!! GOD continues to keep your family, how proud you are of all your children! Heze is the greatest big brother! GOD knows what is best for us!!! Love the Grimwade's!!!!!!!!!

  • @dionneharrell3121
    @dionneharrell3121 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    First, I want to say that I’m really sorry for your loss. Secondly, watching your family brings me so much joy. During this video, I watched your wonderful children comfort each other, and it has me in tears! Your family is exactly what the Lord wants! I’m one of those who have never been able to have children, but I so enjoy watching your videos and watching your family! If I had a family, I would’ve wanted to look just like yours!

  • @ChangesPerry
    @ChangesPerry ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I appreciate your love that you are so open to us. I am praying for you all. Huggy hugs to your children! Keep up your awesome compassion and openness! Your on here helping us so this is your destiny!

  • @alvaral100
    @alvaral100 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    I'm so sorry for your loss. Something very similar happened to me when I miscarried. The part where the technician goes silent while watching the screen and you both know something is wrong is heartbreaking. The fact that you are sharing your journey will help someone else know that they're not alone. Praying for God's grace and peace as you walk through this season of your life.

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว

      @alvaral100 SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TOO N PRAYER'S GOING UP TO N FOR U TOO

  • @covanechantell
    @covanechantell ปีที่แล้ว +28

    oh my God,Heze is such a sweet loving young man....cant wait to see him grow with all of his siblings

  • @ChaoticBluez
    @ChaoticBluez ปีที่แล้ว +134

    Sending love to everyone who's going through pregnancy loss. ❤ I've just gone through my first pregnancy, that was an etopic pregnancy, 12 weeks bleeding and 10 weeks painful contractions. It's hard. Awareness is important.

    • @Tina-cm7nv
      @Tina-cm7nv ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Hey Everybody love you all very special family❤

    • @virginiamoncur5421
      @virginiamoncur5421 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Miss Mac I will hold you in my prayers. I pray that the Good Lord will bless you and continue to keep you 🙏.

    • @ChaoticBluez
      @ChaoticBluez ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@virginiamoncur5421 Aww thank you. 😊 so many people think miscarriages are like what you see on tv over in a day or two but for most it's bleeding for weeks and if there's a complication it can go on for months. It's emotionally and physically difficult.

    • @teresabowden6165
      @teresabowden6165 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I’ve been through this as well. Hurt so bad.

    • @dmgross539
      @dmgross539 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Grimwade family, I’m so sorry to hear about the miscarriage. Just know that God knows all about it and will bring you through this difficult season. Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers🙏

  • @teenamaree5660
    @teenamaree5660 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Consider this, if you will, Tim. Grimwade Gang saw how Ella suffered while in labor with Halo. Frankly, I was very worried about her. What if God took back that child because it might have been so difficult for Ella that she wouldn't have survived the birth? Please allow that horrible thought to provoke a degree of gratitude that if it had to be either the child or Ella. God chose to take back the child. I shared that with you because I had a niece who didn't make it through the birth of her 8th child. That happened about 20 years ago. The siblings ended up having to raise each other because the father, if I remember correctly, also died, at some point. They're members of our New York family, so I didn't get to help out as my sister struggled to help raise my niece's 8 children.

    • @stephaniebrontejoyce4463
      @stephaniebrontejoyce4463 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Sorry to hear about ur sister yet this is what I was thinking when watching Halos birth.

  • @1962MissPenny
    @1962MissPenny ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've prayed for all 3 babies you've lost, Ella, that they're in Heaven together. Prayers for you all now. I understand. When my daughter was a couple months old, I believed I was pregnant again. I was so happy! Turns out, I wasn't pregnant, even though I had all the signs. I felt there was a baby so I cried and cried!! It was so hard! What gets me through life here is knowing that we will all see our loved ones again in Heaven. God's got all of us in His Hands! I pray that comforts all of you right now. Hugs and love from Canada. XO

  • @patriciavimbai7112
    @patriciavimbai7112 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Very sorry for what happened but at least u have so many children dear hold on to them just concentrate on raising them they are enough as it is and they all want your love one on one

  • @LichellEtc
    @LichellEtc ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I’m soooo sorry for your loss. Sending hugs, support, prayers and love from the USA! I just LOVE this family. You all are the true definition of what FAMILY is and should be like. I love how supportive you all of one another and great JOB HEZE AND HOSANNA for comforting your siblings and parents. Halle had me in tears (i was already in tears) when she talked about her twin and how thankful she is for her life. A 9 year old understanding all of that and expressing her emotions is AMAZING. Harper and Reu had me in tears due to them crying as well. Omg, such a sad video but I’m glad you guys decided to share it! I’m pro life as well and my husband and i are on the journey to starting our family. I love how Ella and Tim share the ins and outs of pregnancy and the good and bad. I’ve learned so much from this beautiful family! You all are such a blessing to others and keep your head up. Praying for your healing! Love you guys!!!

  • @elenaoakes8494
    @elenaoakes8494 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    It’s really amazing to hear the situation from the kids point of view and how much children know and pick up on. People think that kids don’t know what’s going on but they are always more aware than we think. It was beautiful to hear the things that they said in response to the situation, you can really see the upbringing they’ve had!

  • @tubetimingg
    @tubetimingg ปีที่แล้ว +107

    My condolences. God knows best. The kid's tears, 💔 broke me. The way Heze and Hossa immediately consoles. The way Reu gave mom extra love. The way Halle and Harper expressed their love, was heartwarming and heartbreaking. All these beautiful babies have definitely been here before, because they're wiser, far beyond their years. They perceive and digest way better than folks older than their parents. Because even some go their entire lives and aren't perspective as the Grimway babies. Even Halo picked up on mom's loss, and was trying to console her with the sweetest, periodic "mom." Babies know! May God continue to hold this family, in their time of bereavement. May he comfort your pain and help you remember that pain may endureth for one night, but joy will cometh in the morning! Continue to hold each other close. You have another 😇 looking over you. God bless!

    • @xuetingfuyu7062
      @xuetingfuyu7062 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yes 😇🙏another beautiful soul for their familia🕊

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @tubetimingg HOZZANNA

    • @tubetimingg
      @tubetimingg ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@KC-qi7gn Thanks KC. It's spell check that changed it,w/o me noticing.

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tubetimingg YOUR WELCOME

  • @angelawebb2379
    @angelawebb2379 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Such a beautiful family. The amount of love shown by you ALL can literally be felt! May God continue to bless you all.

  • @nikkirockznikkirockz8551
    @nikkirockznikkirockz8551 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    My heartfelt prayers for health and healing, hunz! Perhaps your body may need to rest after just recently given birth to luvly Halo, I pray that you will take refuge in the 7 beauties that you have been blessed with!!! #R.I.P. Lil' One 💝💞💖

  • @frankpaquet295
    @frankpaquet295 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So sorry to hear this; I've just seen my first video of your family today, and you're all lovely. Sending hugs and prayers your way. The kids are all so sweet, you've done such a wonderful job raising them; you can see the love between them all and with you two also. (from Sandi)

  • @donnajackson7459
    @donnajackson7459 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Hezi and Hosanna are spot on, they are so intelligent Hali and Harper are so emotional but you just got to love em. Beautiful family ❤️❤️

  • @hees0009
    @hees0009 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hosanna is so in tune with her surroundings, so perspicacious and attentive.

  • @sjemmott27
    @sjemmott27 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thank you for sharing this news. I’m praying for you guys. This is so hard to bear, but I love how you have not hidden this from us. This makes me feel like I’m a part of your family! I love you all! God is walking through this trial with you!

  • @cuteladybugdrsbmid1925
    @cuteladybugdrsbmid1925 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so sorry for your loss. I have cried with you over this, but I know there will be brighter days. In the midst of it all, cannot help but notice how hard little Halo is working. She is so busy today! She is making me smile.

  • @blackberry84
    @blackberry84 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    my heart goes out to those who have lost a child, and those UNABLE to have children- as you deal with loss EVERYDAY 😢

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @blackberry84 SAME IN JESUS NAME 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 ❤️ ✨️ 💖 💓 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 ❤️ ✨️ 💖 💓 🙏🏾 🙌🏾 ❤️ WE WHOLEHEARTEDLY TOUCH N AGREE 1000,000% 24/7 365 HALLELUJAH (PUN INTENDED) AMEN N GOD BLESS U TOO @blacberry84 N @thegrimwadefamily

    • @blackberry84
      @blackberry84 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@KC-qi7gn God bless you 💕🙏🏿💫

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@blackberry84 GOD BLESS U TOO THANK U

  • @joycemwangi5525
    @joycemwangi5525 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    It's a blessing to be able to sit with your children and talk deep as you did here. May God comfort your hearts

  • @janiced.hannah7658
    @janiced.hannah7658 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    So sorry for the loss of another Grimwade angel. God's plans are not always our plans. He NEVER makes a mistake. I'm so proud of each of the children being able to express their feelings.
    Love you Grimwade Family.
    💞 🕊🕊 💞

  • @demi4230
    @demi4230 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Harper and Hallie broke my heart, the older ones are just amazing, and tim and Ella are too!!! Sending thoughts and prayers to the whole family this seemed like such an although very sad video, wholesome and necessary to, the way you speak to your kids is so healthy. Bless you all 💗

  • @NovemberReigne
    @NovemberReigne ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Ella, I am sorry for your loss. I can relate to your pain, I also experienced having a miscarriage shortly after discovering that I was pregnant for the third time back on January 7,2014 when I was 45. I had morning sickness,bleeding and cramping beforehand and that was also my first miscarriage. I was about 4 or 5 weeks pregnant. I hope that you and Tim will be blessed with another pregnancy, please rest and just know that God heard your cry and will answer the desires of your heart. I give you and your family much love and hugs from 🇺🇸❤

    • @eleisha5054
      @eleisha5054 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      She has seven healthy kids already. Maybe her body is saying give it a rest.

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Mslntense6845 SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TOO N PRAYER'S GOING UP TO N FOR U TOO

  • @leeanneporter3119
    @leeanneporter3119 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    I feel for use I had a miscarriage 24 years ago at 8 weeks 2nd child and I’m still not over it sending love to you all sorry for your loss 😢❤️❤️ this is so sad ❤️❤️ I’m so thankful for my 6 beautiful kids I have today ❤️

  • @sharonharris7245
    @sharonharris7245 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Sincere condolences for the loss of Baby #8! You're in our prayers family and we love you all!🙏🏽❤️🙏🏽❤️

  • @estherwangui8449
    @estherwangui8449 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Sorry grimade family...this seems to be traumatizing to the kids

  • @a.december8078
    @a.december8078 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Sending prayers of healing, strength, and peace… We love you Grimwade Family!!!

  • @marymartha5363
    @marymartha5363 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Little Miss “Halo” is in her own little world!😂😂😂

  • @vickicampbell2736
    @vickicampbell2736 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    birth control can be good for a womans health especially as we age. Prevention is an option. I hope you get whatever you desire and with the best outcome

  • @peshkay6583
    @peshkay6583 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I think this is too much for Ella. She is a great mum. Probably her body needs rest. You have 7 healthy babies and you're the smartest mum l know. Your kids are always clean. ❤ you all. Sorry for your loss.

  • @whitneyapril
    @whitneyapril ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I’m so sorry for your loss Grimwade fam 😢❤️. The way everyone’s consoling each other is so heartwarming. Sending you love & prayers. Jesus be with you all x

  • @franriddiough2228
    @franriddiough2228 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are the sweetest, most compassionate family I've ever seen. Hugs for all and Thank you for sharing❤

  • @TK-dm9ys
    @TK-dm9ys ปีที่แล้ว +13

    The loss is regretted, but God be praised. Your family has blessed with SEVEN (7) kids, some couples have been trying for almost a decade and can't conceive even one! 😢 God has been MORE THAN good to the Grimwade family. Still give God thanks.

  • @donnawilliamson2306
    @donnawilliamson2306 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I started crying the minute I read the title. All my babies are in Heaven
    Guys our babies are in Heaven awaiting us . That's how I take comfort. Nothing else can take away the pain. And yes the minute they were conceived, I believe they are human beings.
    I pray your strength, I know your pain.
    ❤🙏🏽

  • @neetzo6421
    @neetzo6421 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Tim & Ella, your feelings are valid. Thank you for even sharing this with us, with the world. Bless you both and may God continue to bless you and your beautiful family. Keeping you all prayed up and sending y’all love 💕

  • @nasreenbanda5413
    @nasreenbanda5413 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I don't ever comment but the moment Halle wiped her tear I broke down
    Sending you guys love and light❤️

  • @paulettechatman4604
    @paulettechatman4604 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Hosanna your a brave preteen growing. Your the oldest and I see the pain and tears your holding back. Your the oldest you and brothers ,I grew up seven girls and Hosanna was me being strong for everyone.👏👏 We who is just the viewers is with all of you .

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว

      @Paulette Chatman HEZE IS THE PRETEEN N THE OLDEST N HOZZANNA IS 1O N IS THE SECOND OLDEST

  • @kolleenjandaczek5749
    @kolleenjandaczek5749 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I absolutely love this family! They are all so kind to each other and show so much love and respect. This is a hard situation and I like that they all spoke about it and comforted each other. Thank you for sharing. I have also experienced this and it is a hard thing to go through. ❤

  • @malinagabriel1462
    @malinagabriel1462 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Rightfully said Ella. We may never know. God gives His toughest battles to His strongest soldiers. We love you all so much and we are keeping you all in our prayer from your sister in Trinidad!!!

  • @franciacaoduwa2419
    @franciacaoduwa2419 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sorry to hear that. Beautiful family. Your older son is such an amazing and gentle young man. I like the way he held his sisters and mom’s hands to make them feel better. That so sweet and mature. May God your family and stay strong.

  • @robinsnestradio
    @robinsnestradio ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Too hard to watch the children be so sad. Sending prayers for Tim and Ella and these beautiful children that they do have. I have two children, but I have been pregnant eight times. My miscarriages were never easy. Rest dear Ella.

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Robin Walker @ro... SO VERY SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS TOL

  • @hees0009
    @hees0009 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I'm so sorry for this loss. It's always hard. My mom had 7 miscarriages, and I've never had a successful pregnancy. So many strange miscarriages happening lately to so many people i know. I hope you can all process this and the kids can be happy to know they have another sibling to greet them in Heaven some day!

    • @barbararackley6746
      @barbararackley6746 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Did your mother sit you down toddlers included and scared you have to death telling you the details?? I bet not!!!

    • @hees0009
      @hees0009 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Barbara Rackley no, she didn't until she had a late term miscarriage, legally a stillborn, and had to go to the hospital. I was 11. It was hard because she started hemorrhaging and we kids had to be a part of it. But every family processes things differently.

  • @teresabowden6165
    @teresabowden6165 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    I'm so very sorry for your loss. You all are in my prayers.

  • @trinasteeldiva5
    @trinasteeldiva5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love, Hugs and Prayers Grimwade Family. I know this is a difficult time for you all. I have had 8 miscarraiges, and know the pain you're feeling. I take solace in knowing that I will see my babies one day. I have been blessed with 2 adopted daughters and a grandson!! Your angels are always with you smiling on your beautiful family. More love!!

  • @lynncoombs5719
    @lynncoombs5719 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Such a very special family…you are teaching your children compassion, openness, and kindness. ❤

  • @lindaharrison2924
    @lindaharrison2924 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your children’s reactions are so heartwarming. They’re such intelligent children. You all are raising them well! May the God of all comfort , provide the comfort for each of you. 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽

  • @margdegraaf1066
    @margdegraaf1066 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m so sorry. As soon as the seed meets the egg it’s a little person. Breaks my heart but for what ever reason baby is with God now.

  • @ralphrinaransom9205
    @ralphrinaransom9205 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My heart & prayers go out to the Grimwade family!!! Regardless of the circumstances a loss is still a loss. I Love how this family communicates within the family to keep everyone in the loop!!! Regardless how the world thinks its too much everyone raises their family different. What the GRIMWADE FAMILY does is their business & if sharing helps with grief then so be it. My prayers & thoughts are with Tim,Ella & children ❤

  • @sheronturner8787
    @sheronturner8787 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Good day Grimwades. Sorry for your loss. ELLA but God always knows what he is doing. Keep being that happy family and praying family. Lots of love. Watching from Jamaica 🇯🇲.

  • @LorettaHaynes-q6d
    @LorettaHaynes-q6d ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To share such a private sorrow with us is amazing. My prayers go out to you Ella and Tim for the loss of your baby. Your children are amazing and beautiful. The love and support that they share for each other is absolutely beautiful.

  • @milleweb
    @milleweb ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Grimwade gang....no worries. I ADORE YOU ALL. This is very emotional but I support you all the way Tim and Ella. God has blessed you guys and your family. At the end of the day, God knows best as Tim puts it simply for all. I cried too guys. Everything will be ok.

  • @nat3803
    @nat3803 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What a beautiful and loving family! You lift the hearts of so many in this world. My sincerest sympathy goes out to you all. Keep up the strong love and happy ways you have for each other and us too! LOVE YA! Houston, TX

  • @robbbase5349
    @robbbase5349 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    My prayers 🙏 and thoughts go out to you and the family. Heze with his maturity and strength, which he obviously gets from his dad. Hosanna, with her pure heart and insight, growing up and so supportive her mummy's twin, Halle dear Hallelujah Rose. She expressed herself with such grace and gratitude. Dear Dear Harper. The words and tears of a little angel. OUR hearts ached for them. To Mr Tim and Mrs Ella. Thank you for trusting us, Grimwade Gang members with such personal deep issues. I know this has already helped so many. Your channel is something me and my family, and I look forward to our notification when we see a new video. Blessings 🙌 and again our deepest sympathy 🙏, but as the wise young man Hezekiah said GOD'S PLAN. AMEN!

  • @SimplyThobi
    @SimplyThobi ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am so sorry for your loss guys. When little Harper started crying, it literally had me balling. Been watching you guys very since Harper was a little baby so I felt that for her. Thank you for sharing and praying for you all.❤

  • @andreabaker7618
    @andreabaker7618 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry for your lost. You have got to know how awesome your little family is they are so supportive and that's because of you guys God truly has a plan and we leave it in his hands you never know what's around the corner. Keep your faith and press on you all are so blessed. Love watching kids grow up. Love always

  • @yvonnedemings3215
    @yvonnedemings3215 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I’ve not posted in a very long time but through my tears,I had to take time to extend my heartfelt sympathy for your loss. Stay strong and I must say that Ella is a perfect role model for a mother in far more than words can say . God bless the entire family. Love y’all🙏👏🏾❤️

  • @ashleymoore3728
    @ashleymoore3728 ปีที่แล้ว +64

    WE LOVE YOU GRIMWADES ❤

  • @fionaa6764
    @fionaa6764 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I like you and watch you often but I woud have talked to them off camera before putting it out there. It can be hard for them down the line. I am so sorry you have lost your baby and you will be blessed with more. But not everything should be shown. Even though you want to share your experiences some things just somethings should be private or without the children. I have decided not to continue watching as its really uncomfortable to watch with all the children there. God bless you all and hope you are blessed with one soon. ❤

    • @fionaa6764
      @fionaa6764 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@TerryInUSA social media can be good as you can help others but we have to be careful as it can also be very damaging. The children look uncomfortable

    • @z_privv
      @z_privv ปีที่แล้ว

      No hate but you do t really know if the children were informed abt this before recording but I get where you are coming from

  • @peridrake-hh4ds
    @peridrake-hh4ds ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Sending love and prayers to you all…my heartfelt condolences.

  • @VonkaDaEmpress
    @VonkaDaEmpress 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    HeZe, u are such a strong son.. May God continue to bless u and ur family.. Mom, I’m praying for ur healing soon u guys will have a Rainbow baby! ❤

  • @saucywow8587
    @saucywow8587 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My deepest condolences on you experiencing a miscarriage. I commend you with explaining what a miscarriage is to your children and being supportive of your children's feelings, to be there for them. My prayers and good wishes go out to you Ella for being strong 💪 during this journey and having a phenomenal husband whose there to support you. Keeping God the head of your family allows you to lean on him and allow him to comfort you all guiding you all through this storm to the otherside. I pray 🙏 🤲 that God keeps his loving hands covering your family, from my lips to God's ears. I truly love the whole Grimwade Family and you will always be in my prayers.

  • @Tomas-major
    @Tomas-major ปีที่แล้ว +5

    TRULY SORRY FOR THE LOSS.
    Broken my heart to watch the children sit and cry in front of a rolling camera was just to much to take onboard, so didn’t watch much.
    I wonder if this was a necessary thing to put the children through, if so was it right to film it, I think these children may struggle in the future, due a few childhood decisions made for them.
    And before anyone gets cross, no one is a perfect parent, I shared things with my now grown children, which in hindsight and speaking about it in adulthood , there were things that they had rather not had known.
    A missed miscarriage is called that because normally you wouldn’t know, maybe somethings should remain private or within the older family circle, even now it hurts to see my adult children cry.
    Just feel devastated to be honest.

  • @ranaehawkins4536
    @ranaehawkins4536 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    We love you all! My prayers go out to your beautiful, loving family. ❤🙏

  • @shelbylynadventures
    @shelbylynadventures ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Thank you for sharing this moment with us. I really love how open and mature you are with your children and your parenting really shines through in how they all comfort you and each other. God’s love resonates in your family and it’s an incredible thing to witness. Much love to all of you 💕

  • @Jaxxx0723
    @Jaxxx0723 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    ❤ so much appreciation for you guys just being so vulnerable during this hard time. Praying for you guys as a family and especially Ella.

  • @phyllishauser3887
    @phyllishauser3887 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I am having trouble finding adequate words to describe how touched I am by this video. Your family is so special and loving. I am praying for you all as you deal with this loss. Thank you for sharing this intimate situation with us. Your children are blessed to have you as parents and, likewise, you as parents are blessed with such lovely children. God bless you all.

  • @Jesuslovesyou22772
    @Jesuslovesyou22772 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    So sorry for your loss Tim and Ella 😔. Please don't take this the wrong way, but sometimes it's best to be content with what God has already given you. Your body probably needs rest aswell.
    So sorry again and God bless you all 🙏🏾

    • @gennyatkinson6555
      @gennyatkinson6555 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sorry for your loss Grimwades ,GOD'S BLESSINGS Ella and Tim and children KEEP THE FAITH have a good afternoon continued wellness lots of love to the family 😚

    • @TJ-zs1fy
      @TJ-zs1fy ปีที่แล้ว +7

      I agree. With what Ella went through with Halo I thought they agreed they would stop at seven and would put measures in place.

  • @josephinesobers7422
    @josephinesobers7422 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So sorry for your loss guys.It's heartbreaking for the entire family but more so for you Ella, Every child is precious and when you lose one it takes a toll on your mental health.The kids are so loving and caring and with their support and Tim's support you'll get through this with God's help.May God continue to comfort you all during this time of sending love and prayers to you from Guyana.

  • @erikamanning27
    @erikamanning27 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I absolutely love this family, every child has their own flavor of love, but it works wonderfully. I am honored to be a subscriber to such love, I've always wanted alot of children and an awesome husband, God knows I couldn't be this amazing, but I literally enjoy watching you guys grow! The sensitivity, the emotional strength, the concern, and the laughter. Priceless

    • @Dianeen6
      @Dianeen6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Toatally agree!!!! This family is everything🥰😍

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว

      ​​@@Dianeen6 N @Erica MANNING SAME I THIRD THIS

  • @aneikabrown8552
    @aneikabrown8552 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So sorry for your loss 🫂, no loss at all is ever easy to process and I respect and commend you Ella and Tim for sharing such information with us. I’m happy that you all have each other in this time especially the kids they are so empathetic and loving.

  • @vickicampbell2736
    @vickicampbell2736 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Be careful. My friend had her 8 th baby After the birth she suffered a fallen uterus and bladder. The lord knows what your body can take ☮️

    • @KC-qi7gn
      @KC-qi7gn ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @Vicki Campbell SO SORRY FOR YOUR FRIEND'S LOSS TOO

  • @glowriah1889
    @glowriah1889 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sorry for the loss. Ella maybe this is your body telling you that it needs rest now.