This Is Why Pastor Mensa Otabil Is Trending

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  • @EvangelismandRevivalNetwork
    @EvangelismandRevivalNetwork 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    Kindly note that the pastor's comment "don't wait to be rich before you marry" does not mean that one should not be financially stable or responsible before marriage. Rather, it emphasizes that one should not wait for an unattainable standard of wealth or material possessions before getting married.
    Richness goes beyond material wealth; it includes:
    - Emotional maturity
    - Spiritual growth
    - Relational stability
    - Personal responsibility
    The pastor's message encourages individuals to focus on building a strong foundation for marriage, rather than waiting for an idealized version of wealth.
    It's essential to understand that marriage requires hard work, commitment, and sacrifice. It's not about accumulating wealth or material goods, but about building a life together with your partner.
    Let's reframe the conversation around the pastor's comment to focus on the true meaning of richness and the essential qualities for a successful marriage.

    • @niidino6949
      @niidino6949 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      What an explanation 🔥🙏God bless you Sir

    • @alfieyawson2242
      @alfieyawson2242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Please how do you reflect on today's modern understanding of being rich

    • @alfieyawson2242
      @alfieyawson2242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      From the Pastor's explanation, he was talking about the Richness you are explaining to us..

    • @alfieyawson2242
      @alfieyawson2242 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      From the Pastor's explanation, he wasn't talking about the Richness you are explaining to us

    • @patrickrumbu2902
      @patrickrumbu2902 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      4:37 when you see/hear a true man of God, you will know (especially if you have common sense)

  • @fredwilson8262
    @fredwilson8262 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Kwadwo can be intimidating, but Scanty's humble and intelligent approach in handling Kwadwo's comments is admirable and very mature.

    • @upendo.3570
      @upendo.3570 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeah like Kwadwo behaves immature sometimes how do you accuse of someone to be fornicating

  • @gbetteywisdom
    @gbetteywisdom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    Today's women are different, ooo
    They are not like that of the old days

    • @americarefines1135
      @americarefines1135 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Will her Daughter marry a man who is jobless? Lol

    • @KodzoLebe
      @KodzoLebe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      You're completely wrong! There are lots of women here in Ghana who are very different. You don't come across them because you have to be level-headed like them to meet them in their world. The ladies around you are a reflection of what you attract.

    • @prettyqueen5754
      @prettyqueen5754 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Who told you bro?😂🤣🤣🤣😂

    • @gbetteywisdom
      @gbetteywisdom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @KodzoLebe you said level-headed right

    • @gbetteywisdom
      @gbetteywisdom 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @prettyqueen5754 I know dear
      Feminism all over

  • @davidboateng4476
    @davidboateng4476 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    sheldon paa , the fact that the prices were low at such time does not mean it was easy to get such money .The fact that he did not have such things before marriage should tell you it was not easy at that time too . For every dispensation there is poverty .

    • @wiizyhimsev6172
      @wiizyhimsev6172 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      The is poverty in every generation but note that every generation has their own currency rate. My guy

    • @AbdulaiAziz-q9p
      @AbdulaiAziz-q9p 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly my point bro

    • @Casante56
      @Casante56 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I agree with you waaa the poverty thing no start from today ooo

    • @twinsprofile
      @twinsprofile 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@wiizyhimsev6172base on what are you stating currency rate then was lower than now?
      Am not saying marry when you are not ready… but every era’s currency rate has the same effect on the people living then

  • @TheBoysInTWG
    @TheBoysInTWG 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    THIS TOPIC HAS TO BE ON BANTS & RANTS MERRRN,
    I believe this message is very deep. Its about being purposeful in life. One has to understand that, there are needs which are met when you get married, that's when both of you share the same goals. It makes things easier.

  • @jhay2747
    @jhay2747 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +28

    He’s coming from a spiritual side
    Sometimes your blessings dey the marriage inside once you marry you will see it manifesting but pray you marrry right
    Also put in the works, work hard also make money ohhhh don’t stress someone’s daughter or son don’t stress your yet to be born children
    So that prayer part is necessary

    • @maameabena3
      @maameabena3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly marriage comes with blessings... He who finds a wife finds a good thing and obtain favour from the Lord.. You just have to pray to find the right person and with prayers, dedication, understanding, hard work everything will fall in place 🙏🏽

    • @jhay2747
      @jhay2747 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@maameabena3 people won’t understand nor will they see where he’s coming from but they will use their normal mindset to judge the statement

    • @nanapoku5500
      @nanapoku5500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Powerful

    • @nanapoku5500
      @nanapoku5500 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You’re deep bruh

    • @rodneycrentsil4661
      @rodneycrentsil4661 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It is not automatic..

  • @Justlovinglyfe
    @Justlovinglyfe 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    People are saving up for the wedding and not the marriage itself that’s where the problem is. I have seen couples get married in the courthouse and stay married longer than those with trending wedding ceremonies. People’s priorities are just not right in this generation.

  • @bettyjohnson1963
    @bettyjohnson1963 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Be financially stable before you think of getting married,cos money play a big role in marriage🙌

    • @americarefines1135
      @americarefines1135 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@bettyjohnson1963 are you sure everything about marriage is about MONEY? Hmmm if it's all about money will you marry a man who's filthy rich and doesn't respect you at all?

    • @Anonymousjesus-p3i
      @Anonymousjesus-p3i 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Not only marriage it plays a big role in relationships as well.

    • @sankofapixels3766
      @sankofapixels3766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you. It’s like these men of God don’t have anything else to preach about

    • @sankofapixels3766
      @sankofapixels3766 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      These same men of God won’t allow any poor guy marry their kids

    • @kwekumanuel-f4v
      @kwekumanuel-f4v 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      thank you bro

  • @agamaisaac2983
    @agamaisaac2983 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    The message here is that if you feel you won't marry don't do what married people do

    • @CDI-oy9fb
      @CDI-oy9fb 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly

    • @KOPA648
      @KOPA648 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That's all, squad get enough kraa they'll still say that they want to get money meanwhile they are using the money on the girls already..... A lot of guys don't want to marry at all, ladies advice yourself.

    • @FrancisNkrumah862
      @FrancisNkrumah862 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Simple as that

    • @Crystal74-cy4xy
      @Crystal74-cy4xy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Like what?

  • @soniaainos7244
    @soniaainos7244 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    Today's women don't want to go through what their mothers went through.
    Do you know the number of women who started with nothing, used all their energy and resources to push the men to succeed then were discarded in the end??
    As a woman i am happily enjoying my own money. My husband told me half of his property is mine. He knows i don't care about his properties because am a hard working woman..
    The education that needs to go out is how to choose your partner. Most people get married without knowing anything about relationships or marriage. All they know is to get married and have kids.
    No education on how to live together as a couple and what to look for in a partner that works for you because everyone is different.

    • @georgeblayackah9825
      @georgeblayackah9825 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Not that self the preacher's have taken the responsibility of the families to themselves

    • @KingRohmed
      @KingRohmed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop bragging maame...and nobody cares

    • @KingRohmed
      @KingRohmed 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Stop bragging maame...and nobody cares

    • @soniaainos7244
      @soniaainos7244 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@KingRohmed PAINS!! We now choose us wae!
      Keep on bleeding.
      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Arhinsamuel_a
    @Arhinsamuel_a 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +47

    I understand where Pastor Mensah Otabil is coming from.
    Our mother's and ground mother's generation were willing to build with a man who had nothing,
    But the women of today don't have the same mentality
    Women today want men who makes more money than her or at least the same as her
    That's the reality

    • @frimpong9101
      @frimpong9101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      I get your point, but women's attitude today is because you build a man, and he discards you for another... so they would rather go for one who they don't have to build

    • @GAMER_X578
      @GAMER_X578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      I hope you know that it's their mothers and grandmothers that have advised them to go for men that already have something. I have watched my mother and aunties advise my sisters and I don't blame women. When you build with a certain type of man and he gets money his taste changes and he goes for the woman he now thinks is his class. So if they go for men that already have money, they are assured that this man didn't pick them because he doesn't have money.

    • @GAMER_X578
      @GAMER_X578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ​@@frimpong9101Thank you!!!

    • @arsan_tiwa
      @arsan_tiwa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@GAMER_X578 Exactly… It is these same aunties,grandmas and mothers we claim are examples that trained the women of today. Think about it😂. Do you think they would give such an advise if they thought it was worth the hustle?

    • @GAMER_X578
      @GAMER_X578 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@arsan_tiwa 😂😂😂😂 Right

  • @frimpong9101
    @frimpong9101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    It's true... Marriage, when done right, does come with blessings

    • @georgeblayackah9825
      @georgeblayackah9825 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Then they should allow guys to marry from a girls family in a small way and stop this show off in the church

    • @frimpong9101
      @frimpong9101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @georgeblayackah9825 exactly why I said when done right

  • @jaughnekow
    @jaughnekow 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +104

    be financially stable and secure before you think of marriage

    • @GOLDEN4280
      @GOLDEN4280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Allot of people don’t understand the man of God, I also understand the fact that yes one must be stable and financially strong before getting married but I also think because there’s soo much involved in planning marriage that’s why allot is afraid to move into and the church especially the pastor’s have encouraged white wedding which costs soo much which is leading allot of youths into delay of marriage.

    • @GOLDEN4280
      @GOLDEN4280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      So in simple ways, don’t be afraid or wait for money or financial stability before you go into marriage because in this stage of world we found ourselves nothing will be cool again things will continue to be high and prices of goods and services will continue to go high. Yes one must be stable

    • @GOLDEN4280
      @GOLDEN4280 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Let’s look at these two people, someone is dating and don’t have the money for wedding yet the girl is giving him pressuring for wedding so if you realize there’s misunderstanding on that part you can let the lady go when she’s not able to support so in that era the guy is ready yet the lady is not so the marriage process is delaying

    • @ENTT-tv
      @ENTT-tv 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bigups man

    • @NegriotGang
      @NegriotGang 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Fact

  • @jamesopokufordjour
    @jamesopokufordjour 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    Man of God, you are right💯 but chale wanna generation those ladies who will endure sufferings and wait till God bless she then her man no, elef 5 p3 for Ghana o...

    • @eunicedansoa9091
      @eunicedansoa9091 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

    • @albertowusuantwi9171
      @albertowusuantwi9171 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂

    • @wilsonromeo890
      @wilsonromeo890 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      The 5 sef 4 will leave you after 2 years without making it 😂😂😂😂

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

  • @maameabena3
    @maameabena3 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some people have everything before they get married but at the end they divorce so sometimes it's not really about financial stability, it's about finding the right person and the person loving you for who you are and you guys are willing to build together.. In all put God first in your marriages and relationships..

  • @funcash5808
    @funcash5808 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I have never appreciated Sheldon's wisdom like this ❤ perfect submission

  • @ahedorcourage2166
    @ahedorcourage2166 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some of us left home when we were 17 years, we’re not scared of moving out but we don’t want to come back to that 17 years stage in the future

  • @ingkwameasamoa879
    @ingkwameasamoa879 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    My Pastor be that ooo

  • @qwesidahlinton4908
    @qwesidahlinton4908 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The Pastors message ankasa ebi @kwadwosheldon en own, masa you're financially stable, be bold and marry.!!! Else you go give birth to pension babies😂😂

  • @richramzy
    @richramzy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Sheldon dey come marry dey funfool quard😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @BossWillis6092
      @BossWillis6092 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      But sheldon get money

  • @EOMI777
    @EOMI777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That is why you have to listen to the whole message. I don't think Pastor Otabil was just talking

  • @americarefines1135
    @americarefines1135 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    😂😂😂😂😂 i laugh enter my single room inside.

    • @ReubenFiifiTwumasi
      @ReubenFiifiTwumasi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @KBARIMA
    @KBARIMA 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Am not sure if he has a daughter he will allow her marry someone who does not have a bed. Or even his son to marry without being financially stable. What worked for A will not work for B.

  • @berkokwame6219
    @berkokwame6219 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    My professor who is a woman told me, marry when you are broke. You might get a woman who would stay with you through thick and thin. What he is saying is the truth

    • @jehoshaphatarthur8687
      @jehoshaphatarthur8687 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      might? so what if you don't?

    • @Babywithsharpteeth
      @Babywithsharpteeth 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Whose daughter's father will accept the marriage in this current world when you are broke

    • @abrahamemeka2127
      @abrahamemeka2127 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Key word in your statement "might"

    • @Rayrae580
      @Rayrae580 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated one. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities.

  • @Nana_Esi416
    @Nana_Esi416 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Sheldon and scanty bond is on another level 🥰

  • @everymanisyourteacher9951
    @everymanisyourteacher9951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +48

    Tell him to be bold and allow the poor and the needy to come to his university for free

    • @okaibistudios
      @okaibistudios 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂😂😂

    • @Kwakuderyk
      @Kwakuderyk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Hard😂😂😂

    • @Reedabande
      @Reedabande 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Eyy 😂😂

    • @jethrogeli7312
      @jethrogeli7312 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Two way different things you figa you talk sense 😂😂

    • @everymanisyourteacher9951
      @everymanisyourteacher9951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      @@jethrogeli7312 my opinion was apodictically expressed . So between the two of us who dey make sense? Why comment if it doesn’t make sense to you? Foolish people always talk without presenting any tangible argument

  • @FOODSANDGAMES
    @FOODSANDGAMES 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He said do not wait to be rich, you might have money which is not enough for you to be rich but you have money, you won't sleep hunger, those are the people he is talking about. Know the difference between being rich and being financially stable. So there are people they can afford marriage rite but they still want to be rich before

  • @TheAsaaseYaaBa
    @TheAsaaseYaaBa 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Nbs Yawa of the day them dey give we this Yawada (Thursday) 😂😂

    • @AfuaAmissah-l6d
      @AfuaAmissah-l6d 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I saw what you did there😂😂😂😂

    • @Whatupgeorgie
      @Whatupgeorgie 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You cooked😂😂

    •  2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      👏🏾👏🏾

    • @isaacasiedu1073
      @isaacasiedu1073 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Bars

    • @dennisananaowusu2019
      @dennisananaowusu2019 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Eiii barssssss

  • @Melo_116
    @Melo_116 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheldon before you talk, could you go watch the full sermon? it's a powerful msg.

  • @jennifercaptan6255
    @jennifercaptan6255 หลายเดือนก่อน

    there is a difference between being rich and being financially stable..per what he is saying it makes perfect sense..just be financially stable not rich

  • @TettehDzifah
    @TettehDzifah หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aware3 Promo😂😂😂😂😂😂
    Hmmmm please ooo be comfortable before you venture ooo😂😂❤

  • @kwadwouncovered
    @kwadwouncovered 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    There is no harm in what he said, just that society today is different from society of yesterday.
    Women are not the same like yesterday

  • @mhabdaily
    @mhabdaily 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think Doc was specific with people who are waiting to get EVERYTHING right before taking the needed step yet same people are living together cohabiting. Better to start together...
    The FAITH angle and the scripture you quoted is directs speaks to the message he preached. Step out in FAITH trust each other without all the "unnecessary" monetary men are waiting to meet before they deciding to get married. Step out in faith TRUSTING each other as partners and get on with the journey together.

  • @Cynthia-k9y
    @Cynthia-k9y 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Things are expensive so you can’t wait to have everything before you marry.
    If you are not ready and you think you are a youth to marry then don’t sleep together, impregnate the lady, cause abortion and when you marry in future and the lady doesn’t conceive you leave her and go look for babies from side chics.
    It’s also true everything isn’t same so choose well.
    Marriage will help you plan and pray together.

  • @aharon-mawu-wienipaanauel-liza
    @aharon-mawu-wienipaanauel-liza 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    u spoke my mind Sheldon, well spoken

  • @CharlesAlexManu
    @CharlesAlexManu 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    sheldon always dey get nick eiiiiii😆😆😆😆😆😆otabiizy

  • @abueghan1363
    @abueghan1363 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor's point of view is about being responsible to endure the marriage circumstances in terms of the financial situation, emotional support and other things to help build the family together.

  • @patrickrumbu2902
    @patrickrumbu2902 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    5:29 yo Shel, a fellow young and unmarried man here. I used to have this mentality of saying things were easy then vs now (well, it might be for those who have, certainly not for those who haven't, even then). Things were cheap then compared to now, but i hadn't got the money then. And you are doing financially much much better than myself. We should take the pastor's advice. I wish i have married like 3 years ago...at least, my kid will have been a year old.

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😂

  • @ginaaddy8372
    @ginaaddy8372 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Good advice Sheldon

  • @ebenezerduah664
    @ebenezerduah664 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Pastor Otabil dey remind of Amakye Dede’s song ‘ Dabi dabi eb3 y3 yie’.😅😅😅😅😅😅

  • @YeboaaCecilia-x7j
    @YeboaaCecilia-x7j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The problem we are facing today dey since the 80s. Again readiness is a state of mind

  • @Abbeiku
    @Abbeiku 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The man of God just preached you take it or leave it not try to dilute it

  • @cyrilthebadguy_
    @cyrilthebadguy_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Somebody say "boldness no dey pay bills"

  • @josiahazametsi9994
    @josiahazametsi9994 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He's right but the women of this generation are different, money is the standard now. However there are goods ones out there and thank God my gf is one of the few, supportive and non demanding.
    Also today bi my first time hearing say dem dey throw bread en top away 😂

  • @EOMI777
    @EOMI777 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kodjo Sheldon, kindly go and watch the full video. He really expounded on the marriage issue

  • @Kwakuderyk
    @Kwakuderyk 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The formication thing pain scanty oo😂😂

  • @redeemerliveth2589
    @redeemerliveth2589 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    both Parents should support ,can assist with the newly weds ,for the fundamentals,financial am, emotional,etc. Set them up,for them to progress .My opinion

  • @kofisimpe4159
    @kofisimpe4159 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I never know sey we cut bread the head we dey throw am away 😂💔

  • @elleesse1521
    @elleesse1521 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Half of the problem is the ridiculousness that has become Ghanaian weddings of today. The pressure is getting worser ankasa! This alone scares so many people away from tying the knot. Hopefully more and more people can get creative with how to “ball on a budget”…but more importantly, let’s invest more in the marriage, and less on the wedding. Peace!

  • @kofibankson_
    @kofibankson_ 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    What he’s saying is not wrong… but this generation and economy won’t favour us if we go by this advice.

  • @Kobby3041
    @Kobby3041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Money does not sustain marriage. Period!

    • @daserdo28
      @daserdo28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's the place of money in marriage?

    • @Kobby3041
      @Kobby3041 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@daserdo28
      Do you also think that the increasing divorce rate in recent times is due to money?
      Take note, we're talking about marriage not dating.

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Kobby3041na succulent nyash. 😂

  • @WadeyAdams
    @WadeyAdams 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I don't like him on many issues..but he said nothing but the truth. Even though many will disagree with him especially in this difficult moment we found ourselves as a nation.

  • @niilarteyalexander2601
    @niilarteyalexander2601 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The emphasis of Dr. Mensa Otabil's message is the over emphasis of getting RICH before you can settle down in marriage. You dont need to be Rich,he never down played on getting marriage without money. The emphasis is to be rich-Own your own houses,cars,etc before you marry

  • @daviddadzie7185
    @daviddadzie7185 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    For this Ghana economy

  • @kingsleyatuobi6478
    @kingsleyatuobi6478 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmm. Talk Pastor say we nor finish school yet. So please we hear paaa but we nor go take am 😂

  • @ericnelson6023
    @ericnelson6023 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This pressure how my pastor give me for church er eiii
    But why pastors always dey talk sey dem dey marry na dem no get anything for demma room and all that. My pastor too tell me same thing, naa we for investigate these sermons well 😂

  • @AlexOffin
    @AlexOffin 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Scanty the preacher,go on bro

  • @Rayrae580
    @Rayrae580 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Some women stay through thick and thin and nothing changes but the struggle is transfered to their kids, others too get discarded later or treated badly by their spouses they struggled with and even get cheated on. It doesn't work for everyone. So know who you are and your priorities and don't just follow what people say.

  • @antwithomas3350
    @antwithomas3350 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    The main issue is people married above their means.

  • @kwakukusi4094
    @kwakukusi4094 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    pretty good message

  • @sandratetteh8087
    @sandratetteh8087 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Once you find the right person you'd understand Pastor Otabil

    • @daserdo28
      @daserdo28 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What's the place of money in a marriage?

  • @stabingy
    @stabingy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Money is marriage, simple
    I agree with Sheldon 100%

  • @emma_keyz
    @emma_keyz 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Originally that’s how biblical marriage should be but the reason why financial stability and other factors come in is cus of the kind of system we’re in now in this day and age and the culture we’ve built.

  • @lovelydemanya5283
    @lovelydemanya5283 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    And those people who agreed to the suffering beginnings are our parents now and they won’t agree to suffering beginnings for their children 😂😂😂😂😂

  • @dwamenathelma
    @dwamenathelma 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My problem is the Fido advert. So nobody saw ot heard the mistake the woman made. Hmmm is watermelon a fruit or a vegetable ? I'm asking for someone

  • @prettyqueen5754
    @prettyqueen5754 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    And one truth is that u can’t really know what’s going on in the system when u continue to leave with ur parents, u have to hit the road urself and see how things are done.🤩🤣😂

  • @Mzandy
    @Mzandy 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    In their time, they had women who would go the extra mile for their man to be on their feet. They fought together, but in our time, I saw a video of a lady saying that she doesn't see the reason why she should give her guy money 😂😂😂hmmm

  • @reube9088
    @reube9088 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    he no get kwans3n for en room.😂😂😂😂 woti kaka
    .U have a point though

  • @michaelezekophiaddae7308
    @michaelezekophiaddae7308 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Perception change is key🔑

  • @OnaeConstant
    @OnaeConstant 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Scanty no gree for Sheldon for here ooo, hahaha.

  • @cephNey
    @cephNey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheldon u mess up…u cut e end side of bread u no dey tro way😂😂😂😂😂💔💔💔

  • @davidnyarko970
    @davidnyarko970 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can’t believe that I am coming to say that I agree with Sheldon. But be bold and Marry

  • @patrickdankwahofosu1141
    @patrickdankwahofosu1141 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sustaining marriage with prayer oseeeey Scanty 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @benedictaddo1867
    @benedictaddo1867 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What he said is true but this modern Ghanaian ladies hmmm

  • @Miami005
    @Miami005 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Scanty knows the truth Buh he dey funfool 🎉😂😂

  • @NanaAko-r5f
    @NanaAko-r5f 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmmm the issue is, are both parties ready.. because yh there are situations where one party will be ready and the other is not ready, also both maybe ready but even money for engagement ring koraa is problem.. so how does it work. It’s all about finding a lady who will understand you.

  • @icemanlifestyle
    @icemanlifestyle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    The man is right. No excuses.

    • @everymanisyourteacher9951
      @everymanisyourteacher9951 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Go in for it, and see how you will regret it.

    • @icemanlifestyle
      @icemanlifestyle 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@everymanisyourteacher9951 Guys in the ghettos are getting married, what matters is finding that one person.

    • @rukayalast6113
      @rukayalast6113 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      My guy people are confused forget them..
      U can have ur normal money and marry her .. but make sure she really love u, support u too as have pity for u simple if u are waiting to get rich meaning get more money u won’t marry Majority of people aren’t rich

  • @delaavemegah-qs6nw
    @delaavemegah-qs6nw 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pastor the time you got married vs our economy isn't the same. You had nothing before you got married doesn't mean is like that everywhere. This generation is built different

  • @princetweneboahobeng2799
    @princetweneboahobeng2799 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    He was strictly talking about Co-habiting. Boys no get money marry, but dem get money have sex, which is a privilege restricted to married couples

  • @bigjoestudio
    @bigjoestudio 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    8:56 😂😂😂😂😂 answer the question Sheldon

  • @michaeltettey6211
    @michaeltettey6211 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Marriage dierr anka one weekday morning then you marry but the forces surrounding us wouldn't make it possible.

  • @Tei101
    @Tei101 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sheldon is just scared to marry. Facts!!!

  • @YeboaaCecilia-x7j
    @YeboaaCecilia-x7j 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hmmmmm...
    The problems still go dey 10years from now. How do you define readiness.... Readiness is a mind set

  • @goldiebeulah4306
    @goldiebeulah4306 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    6:04 👏👏👏👏👏😂😂 that be deep. Think about it!

  • @felpower1019
    @felpower1019 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    He said Marry , pray and work together. Look at Kwadwo with his level of thinking

  • @glantedavid9728
    @glantedavid9728 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The Bible says in Genesis 1:28- Be fruitful and multiply. It means financial security before multiplication. God won't feed your family no matter how many times you pray. The days of manna are over.
    Otabil still takes tithe from the poor members to feed his family. Be wise.

  • @selsymusic
    @selsymusic 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dingo, the realist.
    Herh.
    Women of this generation paaaa....?

  • @oheneoxy324
    @oheneoxy324 หลายเดือนก่อน

    His era is far different from ours

  • @TrishasOdyssey
    @TrishasOdyssey 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Faith without works is dead!

  • @louishaison
    @louishaison หลายเดือนก่อน

    Life is not easy

  • @theonetheone6254
    @theonetheone6254 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The pastor's message is not for all. It's for only those who have ears, period.

  • @musamusa2961
    @musamusa2961 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi there what up

  • @ngideon30
    @ngideon30 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The man of God sef will be agree make his daughter go marry someone without a bed or even money. Lets be serious wai

  • @NanaYawActive
    @NanaYawActive 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The ladies don't want those simple simple marriages o! Show off nkoaaa yet that too involve loads of money. Hmmmm

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @NanaYawActive
      @NanaYawActive หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@480GlenRoss hmmm

  • @kumiisaac5024
    @kumiisaac5024 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please he is talking wisdom but my question is will he accept that for her daughter nowaredays

  • @samueladusei2016
    @samueladusei2016 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Shout out to Sheldon

  • @danxylight
    @danxylight 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This age and era when some girls be say that their minimum requirement is that you must have a car nu?? Modern women go "ginger" you make you craze 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @michaelyeboah7789
    @michaelyeboah7789 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Man of god forgot god gave Adam everything needed before providing him with Eve.

  • @isaacghansahart3314
    @isaacghansahart3314 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What he is failing to understand is that those days are gone. You want to get married in this economy without a bed😂😂😂

  • @TahiruMahadi-ki8ze
    @TahiruMahadi-ki8ze 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    The boldness do not pay bills

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂

    • @480GlenRoss
      @480GlenRoss หลายเดือนก่อน

      The older generation still dey live in their 70’s, 80’s, 90’s era. Funfoolers nkoaa ex Nana Dee