Empaths vs Non-Empaths: The TRUTH Revealed (From a HSP)

แชร์
ฝัง
  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 16 ก.ย. 2024
  • Hello Beautiful YOU 🌸
    Highly sensitive people and non-empaths are often at odds due to misunderstandings rooted in different emotional sensitivities.
    In this video I navigate through the personal experiences of a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP), shedding light on instances where actions or words, unconsciously dismissive or rude, have left profound consequences. I unravel common misconceptions about HSPs and non-empaths, and emphasize the critical role that empathy and understanding play in creating meaningful connections.
    Together, let's pave the way for a world that values ​​sensitivity as a strength and embraces the richness of different perspectives.
    I hope you enjoy watching the video ☺️🌸
    #empathy #hsp #RudeBehavior #highlysensitiveperson #Non-empaths
    _____________________________________________________________________
    🎵Music: www.epidemicso...

ความคิดเห็น • 58

  • @Verenaaschulz
    @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    How do you think society can become more empathetic and understanding towards HSPs and Empaths? 🌸

    • @user-ng5lc4no5x
      @user-ng5lc4no5x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I feel that everyone should spend a week living with these chronic illness sufferers and see exactly what they go through everyday. No masking by the sufferers. The sufferers being brutally honest about what they go through everyday.

    • @amurlove889
      @amurlove889 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      First thank you for all you are doing and sharing!!!!! Yes to build up a POSITIVE thoughts , if we can not fix something , it is better to be not saying anything and just listen!

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@amurlove889 Thank you so much ☺️🙏🌸

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ng5lc4no5x Yes, you are right.
      If they did live like us, they would understand us more 😊🌸

    • @walksonland1977
      @walksonland1977 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I think through time, education and awareness, tolerance will begin to take hold. Understanding and acceptance will follow. It's a two-way street. Patience is key. It'll be a long journey, but I strongly believe it will happen

  • @user-ng5lc4no5x
    @user-ng5lc4no5x 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This video is so true and accurate. And you shouldn't have to hide your feelings or apologize for them. The problem is not with you, but with them. I understand what you are saying, because I've gone through it myself. God bless you precious lady!!!

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I am sorry you have been going through this as well. We should never apologize for how we feel. Thank you so much ☺️🙏🌸

  • @kellihillebrand8341
    @kellihillebrand8341 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Introvert, HSP and empathetic here. Living in this world as all 3 is quite tough. As a child I never understood why I felt so very differently from others and had to work hard on trying to be someone else to fit in with the crowd. As I grow older I am finally accepting why I am the way I am and am learning to embrace it. Now I see it as a gift as I know there aren’t many of us out there. The world could benefit from lots more of us compassionate individuals! What an excellent video🥰🤍🙏

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much ☺️🌸
      I am so deeply happy to hear that you manage to embrace your sensitivity. Very good ☺️🙌🌸

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      An empath needs to voice out to others, "If you
      dish it, you must be able to take it." When others
      respond," Past is past .. You're too sensitive"; I feel,
      they're narcissist. An empath needs to build up his/
      her defenses/ boundaries against such folks. When
      they try to change so as not to hurt an empath; they're
      Family. Occasional f-ups are worth forgiving, I dare
      say. And always. love. yourself.

  • @user-ng5lc4no5x
    @user-ng5lc4no5x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I've been told by many Chronic Illness sufferers that I was an empath. I can feel the emotional pain that they are suffering. There had been times when I saw posts where someone was suffering and cried at their suffering.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Sounds like you’re a big empath too ☺🌸

    • @user-ng5lc4no5x
      @user-ng5lc4no5x 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I've been told that it's a gift. But there are times when it feels more like a curse, because I can't do anything to stop their suffering.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ng5lc4no5x you are right. It can many times feel like a curse but I think it’s about to find a balance even if this is a mystery sometimes🌸

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      An empath needs to voice out to others, "If you
      dish it, you must be able to take it." When others
      respond," Past is past .. You're too sensitive"; I feel,
      they're narcissist. An empath needs to build up his/
      her defenses/ boundaries against such folks. When
      they try to change so as not to hurt an empath; they're
      Family. Occasional f-ups are worth forgiving, I dare
      say. And always. love. and look out for. yourself.

  • @nemesis7850
    @nemesis7850 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Amazing, most likely one of your best videos!
    I completely understand your personal experience, because I too have suffered attacks from non-empathetic individuals, especially when I myself was not well and no one was listening. To this day people do not listen, most of them I deal with on a daily basis.
    Because to have the ability to listen means to activate all one's energies in the present, and few people know how to do that. ❤

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you so much🥰🥰🐺❤

  • @wadejinright3952
    @wadejinright3952 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for sharing this, Verena. It is helpful to understand empathy.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m happy to share this video because we need more focus on this! Glad you liked it ☺🌸

  • @marthaC495
    @marthaC495 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Verena, you brought me to tears. I understand and feel how you felt, Your anger that day was justified.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aaw! 🥹 thank you so much! Yes, we simply can’t accept to be treated this way.

  • @tonysidwell3578
    @tonysidwell3578 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    What a fantastic video! Thanks for the post!! I can really relate to all these feelings!!!

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much for your kind comment ☺️🌸 I am happy you find my video fantastic 🙏

  • @robgau2501
    @robgau2501 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm definitely an empath. You wouldn't think so by looking at me. But, if you are one, you know. Honestly, it's a difficult life.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It can be very difficult to live with, I agree. But at the same time you have a special gift 🌸

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      An empath needs to voice out to others, "If you
      dish it, you must be able to take it." When others
      respond," Past is past .. You're too sensitive"; I feel,
      they're narcissist. An empath needs to build up his/
      her defenses/ boundaries against such folks. When
      they try to change so as not to hurt an empath; they're
      Family. Occasional f-ups are worth forgiving, I dare
      say. And always. love. and look out for. yourself.

  • @manipura_sun
    @manipura_sun 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Beautiful video, and well-said. - your fellow hsp :)

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Hello fellow Hsp 🤗
      Thank you so much ☺🌸

  • @Holly-d1n
    @Holly-d1n 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The hardest part is the fact you feel inviting to people, and in that you need to be less receiving, because people tend to let loose when they know someone is understanding. Often they won't bother with people who aren't understanding, and come looking for you. This was the dynamic in my marriage, when it came to the children, everything was put on me including - my husband's emotional well being. Eventually this has to end.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      For this reason it’s so important to learn to set boundaries because we simply can’t bear all people’s emotions. No one can be alone with all of this. Some people even take advantage of our emotions and that’s not fair. I hope it’s better for you now 🌸🌸 many hugs

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      An empath needs to voice out to others, "If you
      dish it, you must be able to take it." When others
      respond," Past is past .. You're too sensitive"; I feel,
      they're narcissist. An empath needs to build up his/
      her defenses/ boundaries against such folks. When
      they try to change so as not to hurt an empath; they're
      Family. Occasional f-ups are worth forgiving, I dare
      say. And always. love. yourself.

  • @davidchavezcastillo898
    @davidchavezcastillo898 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for this video...🌷...i think this world Is hard but i agree with you..👌💖💖💖💖...

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The world can be so hard to live in as a Hsp/Empath. We still need to protect ourselves from the bad🌸

    • @davidchavezcastillo898
      @davidchavezcastillo898 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Verenaaschulz yes...we can Make It..,🍀💐🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷

  • @michaelj2528
    @michaelj2528 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A truly fantastic video your always thought provoking and make me think .I would say if you have nothing good or helpful just say nothing just because someone is smiling they in fact are feeling terrible inside some of us are very good at hiding how we feel . So just try and remember a kind word or just a smile will maybe help that person kindness costs nothing . Thank you for your videos believe me they do help

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Aaw! Thank you so much! I am happy my videos helps you ☺ I appreciate this so much ❤
      You are right. Kindness costs nothing, but more people need to learn more kindness and empathy.

  • @audreyheart2180
    @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    An empath needs to voice out to others, "If you
    dish it, you must be able to take it." When others
    respond," Past is past .. You're too sensitive"; I feel,
    they're narcissist. An empath needs to build up his/
    her defenses/ boundaries against such folks. When
    they try to change so as not to hurt an empath; they're
    Family. Occasional f-ups are worth forgiving, I dare
    say. And always. love. yourself.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It’s always important to defend yourself, but as an empath it can be really difficult. For this reason I made this video, because we need to focus more on setting boundaries and that it’s okay to do so 🌸

    • @audreyheart2180
      @audreyheart2180 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@Verenaaschulz ❤❤

  • @victorabiel
    @victorabiel 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Saint true, if someone don't have nothing kind to say is better don't say nothing, I agree with you 110%

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you 😊🌸

  • @balintbayerle9782
    @balintbayerle9782 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Verenaaaa...soft voice,freckle face,messy hair.. i just❤😍❤😍❤😍🥰🥰🥰

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thank you so much 😄🌸

  • @heatherap
    @heatherap 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    … my son has ADHD and we have read that a common symptom of this condition is being highly sensitive and emotional.

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It can very well be I think. I myself have ADD (ADHD without the hypertension) and I’m both very sensitive and empathic. I just hope your son knows how big his heart is then🌸☺️

  • @fernando5930
    @fernando5930 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🌺🙋

  • @safirorion2272
    @safirorion2272 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Empath

  • @sigridschulz7845
    @sigridschulz7845 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤🥰🥰😘😘

    • @Verenaaschulz
      @Verenaaschulz  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      😘😘😘🥰🥰🥰❤️❤️❤️

  • @Joaogoncalvesl717
    @Joaogoncalvesl717 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The human bee are bad for natural not empathic not good i think so.