Tom, I can't cope with this. Every time my TF senses i'm getting on my feet (and that i'm the awakened one) he knocks me right back down with piercing bullets. I'm chronically ill and alone and downtrodden. I don't see why god would love me and allow a spirit guide to mock me. i must be a bad person. i cannot surmount this illness (biome destroyed).
I remember during my first extreme dark night of the soul, feeling like a locked suitcase packed FULL of all the sad, negative experiences I had accumulated over my entire lifetime, suddenly popping open as all of those waves of emotions flooded in to be seen, felt, and finally released! It was so intense, I felt I was dying, because I couldn't stop crying and feeling so overwhelmed with fear and other emotions! I DID make it through, after some time, and my whole life changed after releasing the huge burden I'd been carrying for so long. Why are we here? Perhaps to help each other through this process and to carry the light so others can see their way? There's no better purpose than to love, serve, and support each other through our journeys. 🥰
What a profound experience and release - you are a such a brave and amazing soul 😇 I agree, it definitely feels like lifetimes of energy being expunged from very deep layers of the soul. And as you beautifully said, once you survive such a thing, that sense of service, love and supporting others through similar journeys becomes the meaningful thing in life.
@@poulerikhansen7178 Thank you for commenting, as my long forgotten message popped up at just the right moment. I'm currently going through another dark night of the soul and seeing my own words of wisdom and hope is helping me see my way through the difficult time I'm currently having. My sweet son, Daniel has unexpectedly passed away and the grief and sadness this has brought into my life seems unbearable at the moment. It feels as if I'll never stop crying. I know he is in a better place, I just miss him so much! He was such a bright light in my life and it's difficult letting him go. I do find myself longing for home, my real home, and life has lost its meaning. Losing my child is the hardest trial I've ever had to face yet being reminded of my previous journey shows me I will be alright. Thank you. 🙏😇❤️🩹
This is what I believe too 😊I've always had the thought somewhere deep in size the question why cant we all just love each other and take care of each other? Why do we have to go to heaven why cant we just stay here on this beautiful earth where I now know for sure I belong,I believe I'm at heavens door and the gates are opening for me,even though my eyes tell me I'm sat on my bed.i hope this makes sense to everyone because it does with me,I was born in the spring of the summer of love and my mum and my auntie used to laugh and call me a hippy,I never knew what they meant back then but I do now and I'm grateful to be one 😊❤❤❤
The fear, the sadness, all the trauma coming out, the crying and not knowing how to stop, the feeling that you are dying, the isolation and loneliness, all of this is extremely hard so try to let go and pray to god to help you go through it, nothing is impossible for god ❤
Thank you for your message. It is very encouraging. If you are going through the dark night of the soul, then you were born to be an activist/mystic. You were not born to maintain the system you have always known but build one yourself. It is an ejection and liberation. System of mediocre comfort has spat you out. There is no going back to that. Ever again. I know it hurts -I'm in right now. I pray to God that it passes. Sometimes, I am really aware that is one of the best things that ever happened to me. Stay strong everyone!
Thank you everyone who read/liked my comment. The dark night of the soul is no joke. And I am grateful for a community that can encourage us all as we may go through it. Quick update: still kind of in it. But I am not as lost and directionless as when I first began. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I know if I can just hang on, my life will change for the better. Main reason I am writing: isn't it nice to have a problem only God can solve? Stereotypical Christian problems arise when we do not believe we can receive anything we pray for. To literally have the faith and integrity in our relationship with God that people play about with but do not show the necessary childlike faith, love, and reverence for His authority. Stereotypical religious problems can be solved or even pretended to be solved by a mind that needs the validation of a contemporary conformed mutual belief. It can be frightening to be aware of the fact that the problem inside and around you does not give you the ability to control it. However, it gives one the most real definition of faith. And I am sure God's solution will always be better than my own. Stay Strong Everyone!
@@pauladeleke4872thank you my Nigerian brother. Your words are uplifting and I hope you are in better spirits. I’m in another dark night and it’s never easy, but at least I know is that I’ll get through this, as I’ve had to go through this several times to learn this same lesson. 😊
I’m still going through mine. I keep going in and out of reality, feel like I’m going crazy. I had many episodes where I wanted to end it all too. In and out of hospitals. I keep resisting and trying to control everything but am practicing mindfulness. My ego won’t let go. People are sending me positive energy. I keep seeing deer everywhere. Just last night I texted someone that I don’t have the strength to endure another night but they told me others who have survived it like Carl Jung. Felt spirit guides show up and send me energy. I started printing out notes and putting them everywhere to remind myself I’m not going crazy and it’s all part of the journey. It is the most brutal thing I have ever experienced. I feel like I’m dying emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. Some days I can barely move. Ego death is a ruthless journey.
24/7 hell. No breaks, no sleep. It's brutal. And I don't even get why I would put myself through this. I always felt I could just choose not to go through this pain if I only gave up on my faith. Then again, why would God put me through this? There are so many ways I can think of that this could have been prevented - things totally out of my control, or even ones in my control -> why wasn't I guided to make the right choices. It's not even always that I intentionally decided to make the wrong choice. You know there is such a thing as self-sabotage, but other choices… I wasn't sure, I was scared but I still chose to have faith. So, why?
And the worst thing is, I don't even allow myself to acknowledge how bad it is. Because that would mean that this was never supposed to happen. And then I would lose my faith.
2 and a half years of this shit. I'm so mad. Apparently things are going to take a turn in about a month. I fully expect shit to be everything I ever wanted. Because I gave that up. I gave it up for my soul.
I've been in it for close to a year and it got worse when my oldest son died in February. Locked in my house alone most days. Sometimes I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread...when I have felt a sense of hope, it usually disappears after a few hours. Recently I try to give thanks for everything because I saw a video that says that it can help you move out of it faster.
I sure hope you are feeling better a year later! I am sorry for your loss. I like the idea of gratitude. I look for little things that feel like little gifts to help me along.
@@catherinewylie6959 I am! Thank you! Practicing the gratitude and trusting in Jesus by believing in his promises and following his commands has totally turned my life around!
I've had worsening depression and anxiety and realised it's another dark night. Uncontrollable sobbing all the time for unknown reasons. Trusting the process
Thank you for this video. You just confirmed that I am going through the dark night of the soul. I know almost everything that you said but my ego is blocking it. Like I know but I don't believe. I didn't know what's going on with me mentally and emotionally. Physically, I am losing my voice because of my throat problem probably due to muscle tension caused by stress, anxiety, depression. I am surrendering everything to the Universe. I will show up everyday so that I can meet that higher version of me one day. ❤️❤️❤️
I was very lucky that I happened to be be doing yoga and using that yoga relaxation every night to go to sleep in my 20's when I hit the 'dark night'. I was not seeking and I did not know that relaxation was meditating. After a break-up, I hit rock-bottom. Over a few weeks of various clearing events in my body and an eventual complete surrender to 'what is', I had the kundalini awakening. I became aware in the night of being very tiny and held very tightly and deep within my body. I had the voice in my head from something or someone(without words) that I was the same as everyone. Suddenly the brilliant white light expanded in my abdomen and moved up through me and out of my mouth into the night sky. I woke up feeling joy and energy. I lived that happy free-of-ego life for a year. I had no idea of what had happened (no idea off chakras) until I found Eckhart Tolle's experience years later. If I did not have the yoga relaxation, I may have become suicidal because it was so black. You must have complete surrender to kill the ego.
I've never felt so confused and so alone. I relate to everything you said. I hope it passes soon. I don't know anything anymore and I feel angry. Why are we plonked here and not know why....just left here with so many different belief systems and finding truth is like the biggest head wrecker ever. I'm truly being ripped apart just now and I don't see any end to it.
I didn’t know about what dark night of the soul was until I was almost done with the ego death and I almost killed myself a few times during it. I believe I had an very dark episode and if I didn’t have my two boys I would of definitely ended it. I am so thankful I was able to survive and get to the end of the ego death phase because the awakening is beautiful and so magical!
Thanks for sharing - you're so brave. We're blessed to have you in the physical plane - your presence is benefiting more people than you could ever know ❤️
Thank you Tom. Your insights are powerful and so helpful. I often feel like I'm a visitor to the planet walking around on the margins looking in. But then a powerful surge of peaceful energy overcomes me. The fog is lifting. Clarity is starting to prevail.
My Mom had Alzheimer's for a very long time, and as she was digressing, I started going through what I believe is The Dark Night of the Soul. It has only gotten worse since she passed last month. It is the hardest thing I have ever been in my life, and I thought everything I learned through my Spiritual Awakening was gone. I have read about this Dark Night before, but when I saw this title, I was like, Oh yeah that is definitely what is happening. Thank you for doing this video, like you said all I can do right now is show up, and knowing that is ok to be enough right now, gives me hope. This is my first time on your channel, and I'm sure I will be back. I love how calm you speak and the vulnerability of relating to the issue, it makes it real and tangible. Liked, subscribed and rang the bell. Thank you again!
Hey Scott, thanks for sharing this with me and for being here. I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom - you're doing an incredible job to be moving through this. I absolutely believe in you - you've got this 💙
I just have silent freak outs in my head. I look calm on the surf, but in my head I'm looking around at everything and think, "What the fuck is this? What the fuck is this?? Why is all this here? There can't possibly be a sensible and logical reason for existence. Do I really need to be here? This has to be a mistake. Great spirit, get me out of here, NOW." Of course no help comes. I'm just stuck here, months away from ruin on every front of my life.
Hey! I relate.. how are you doing by the moment? It’s a release to read others similar experiences.. in witch point are you now? I hope better.. I very much lost all meaning and it’s very scary. I have no sense of self nor sense of why am I here? Our background is probably different but it’s a very similar feeling .. absolute despair and the feeling everything is about to fall.. every structure.. like there’s just little structure or very primitive.. I hope things are better for you at least. I’m just going into it deeper now. Spending most of my days alone.. painting, listening podcasts and trying to understand.. or surrender
My experience has shown me that there is only one Dark Night box the Soul. We are all on a spectrum of consciousness. As we become more conscious, we experience much depression on our paths. These are excruciatingly painful growth experiences that can last years - in and out of depression, grieving and personal development (emotional growth.) As we become more accepting and understanding of our life (family dysfunction) we become stronger. It's a process that requires courage and commitment. Never give up. 💙💞💖
Thank you for sharing! Your words resonate with me with on such a deep level. Recently experiencing another dark night of the soul, somehow ”knowing” that I need to be brave and embrace whatever feelings that will come up in order to release what needs to be released in order to heal. Such a blessing listening to your words and see that we all probably share these experiences, and that we all are connected and can support one another in this process on our journey of life. Thank you! ❤
Thank you Tom, this video came to me just when I really needed it. It gave me some much needed insight and hope and I will definitely be listening to it again. It was a reminder that things do get better, and there is always light at the end of dark times. 🙏😌
Going through my dark night of the soul and everything feels divine.. I trust Almighty Allah to my fullest ❤️ I can relate to 90 percent of what you said. And a synchronicity offcourse ✌️
Im going threw this for years this video brought me to tears i find it hard to reach out to any 1 it has been easy but when i pray i find peace defly not an easy journey
❤thank you for sharing this! I’m going through it and am feeling hopeless with dark thoughts and begging God to take me. I’ve lost everything and everyone and feel so alone and am barely hanging on. Your video has shed light on why I’m going through this but I need help and support to get through it. How do I find someone like you to guide me and encourage me? I’ve never heard this from any of the many therapists I’ve seen over the years. My biggest challenge is that I have no money to spend on therapy. I’ve lost everything and am currently homeless due to severe physical and mental illness (depression & anxiety). I am currently staying in a shelter. I’ve surrendered to my Higher Power, become extremely humble and am trying to have faith I’ll survive and hopefully thrive after my dark night of the soul. It’s very difficult doing this all alone. 😢
I couldn't help but notice that comments made before and after yours were either responded to or liked by Tom but yours was overlooked by him. I'm thinking that had something to do with you mentioning that you need help but have no money. I want you to know that I heard you and that you're not alone. His oversight may have made you feel even more hopeless but maybe that's part of what your Divine process was to entail. Speaking for myself and as someone who doesn't have a budget to seek help from those who profit from our desperation, just continue to explore what is readily available to you and then look within. If all this Divinity is true, then you'll find your way out through those means alone - just don't give up. What's meant for you will present itself - liberation of the soul isn't reserved for only those who can financially afford it. Consider that the experience of the dark night of the soul is not a recent event plaguing humanity, it's been around since time began (or so) ... before the advent of psychology, life coaches, social media, and courses to take. Those people got through it and so will you and so will I. Keep going.
Really beautifully expressed. I have been in this for most of the last 5 years. I will get through it though and I believe I am becoming a better, more authentic version of myself.
I got to a point where i knew i couldn't carry on the way i was my behaviour was awful to say the very least but i disnt know how to make myself stop,ive hurt so many people that i truly care about because i believed what my ego told me 90% of the time,i love them all i love you all so i love myself there's nothing to forgive and there's nothing to regret because i truly know myself and i never thought I'd say it but i actually do love myself we all need to love ourselves and each other, all they truly is is love and light 😊❤❤❤ thank you to all because all is god.
Spot on. I love your delivery and you! Its sooooo painful, scary. Yet God is with me everyday. Im so grateful for connecting with him. The connection to him keeps me going, plus my daughter
Thanks for this. I've been having dark nights of the soul my entire life. I just feel like I am always in the wrong situations, not doing enough, can't handle enough - feeling existentially alone. And yet there is a feeling that something is going to get me to the other side of this. I am glad TH-cam has all these videos. About time I got some direction trough this stuff!
This is such an enlightening and soothing experience that your are providing to people. A young guy who is such a sage has a great purpose in life to spread love and light of God to others. God protects His believers while strengthening them with experiences that test them in order for them to reach a higher wavelength of understanding life and its actual purpose, which is to learn about, accept and be content in submitting to His Divine Decree by gracing and living His Gift of Life in a befitting manner by serving God and His Creation.
Thank you for this, I´ve been looking for info and everybody talks about it as a "it will be done " or as if it was easy to go through, like step by step program but I don´t feel it like that at all. For the first time I realize this is when people kill them selves, it can get really hard and I dont understand why it has to be like that, I really whish everyone reading this you can go through this shit fast and to be able to survive. It has been a really nightmare and I don´t think anyone deserve this crap
I haven't watched your videos for a long time, but today, I was drawn to this. you describe what I've been through for the past 4-5 months. it's a hell of journey, for sure. I feel like it's coming to an end, because I feel much better for the past few days, but who knows. thank you, Tom 🙏🏼
Thank you, Tom! Your video has really helped me as I go through my dark night... not my first, probably not my last, but I am encouraged by you! Thank you and Bless you!
This was helpful for me at this time. I realize that I’ve had many Dark Night’s of the Soul but each time I run away and let the ego take back over. I’m approaching this different this time and am looking at what I’m needing to learn about myself …and I think that my ego likes to hate me and keep me stuck in that so I can’t move forward and have love for all. I’m realizing they hating myself is no better than hating other people. True Love for ourselves is a pre-requisite for having true love for all that is and so I’m concentrating on loving myself first and then I can love others with oneness.
It's amazing how such a young person can put such precise words on this painful and difficult experience. I'm 62 years old, I've been through this death several times in my life and I've been in it again for over a year. With all the spiritual tools I have accumulated and the spiritual path I follow, it is still unbearably difficult at times. Thanks.
This is the first one of your videos I watched. Thank you for the bottom of my heart, Tim. I’m going through a really hard time and feel like I’m being crushed under the weight of it right now. It really does feel like there’s no light at the end of my tunnel but at least I have a sliver of hope now that maybe this dark fog will lift for me too. I liked and subscribed. Best wishes. You have a beautiful soul. Chris
This is either my 2nd or 3rd time going through this experience and this year has been the toughest. I’m so tired. I feel like I am the problem in all of my relationships that have broken down over this time. Every time I think it’s coming to an end, something else kicks me in the a**. The same way you said you just crumbled. That’s exactly what happened to me today. I came home and just fell apart. I wanted to self exit. I’m so lonely. I get to this point and I start to truly think I’ve gone mad. Thinking I’m special and I’m going through a divine awakening and I start to believe im actually delusional. But then I find videos like this and the way I can relate to everything you said really makes me want to carry on. Hope. So thank you so much. You really have no idea how much you have helped me today. ❤
Your detailed description of the dark matter of the soul is very good. I have been through several. But this conclusion that we will always come out of it is naïve. Many people don’t come out of it and take their own lives.
Just this morning during my prayer time I asked what is happening to me as I didnt understand. Thank you Tom for this video, it answered all of questions and gave me new hope. ❤️
Thank you for sharing,makes so much sense. Feel like I have been in this for almost 3,5years now,need hope from outside . But the upside is that I get a lot of positive synchonicities. But have had so many symptoms that I can count it,thank you again
Man, thank you so very much for this video. I've been going through this for a while where it extremely accelerated 7 weeks ago. I have moments where I think I'm just going crazy. So thank you for this upload, I resonate with it completely ❤
Hi Tom ! I always love your topic on youtube for all you watch don't loose faith :D you're not alone ;)! One quote stuck in my head since I'm little is "Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” by Albus Dumbledore because we always make it through even in your "Dark Age" like you said even we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, we are all meant to be happy all of us! I'm unconditionnaly grateful at 28 years old I wanted to clean my way & healing my mistakes this is the process is to forgive yourself & others, be grateful & transform to love, LOVE YOURSELF & trust universe . Life is like a river, you need to take the flow like water :) Since I understand the "Process" My life is positive I'm attracting so much luck & love on my way even just a smile for an unknown person makes my day :D Thanks a lot Tom for thoses videos. Enjoy your day. Anaïs
Nothing has resonated more in the reexplaiing of my dark night of the soul!! You hit all of the marks of what I went through and where I am and where I am headed. I’ve heard several things on it. Was written by my soul, I swear Gratitude for your presentation it resonates with me so much that I will be using it to remind myself frequently Much love to you for creating and for being a high vibration
I so needed to hear this message, as I'm going through another dark night of the soul. Your message has been super encouraging to me. I can feel the love, hope to move through this through your words. You have been a God send to me this evening. 🙏 💖😇
Thank you Tom. I’m simply existing at the moment. You’re video has put everything I needed to hear in words - it’s helped stay grounded in the midst of one of the worst days of my dark night of the soul journey. Thank you for the reminders of the why and what’s on the other side ❤
This made me feel better thank you for making this video. I found out my husband of 19 years has been cheating on me. He was cheating on me around the time my daughter died 2 years ago. That was my first dark night, even though I knew this was coming my higher self already told me for a few months now but it still hurts. The thing though that hurts the most is today is my birthday amd Noone but my phone remembered. That hurts so much more then being cheated on. But I am so lucky bc I've been told this was about to happen bc my husband isn't part of my destiny.
Thanks, Tom! This is the best description of the Dark Night process I’ve watched. Incredibly helpful. You’ve really captured it. I’m still in it and really needed to hear this. You certainly are a beacon and helped me enormously. Blessings to you and the community!
So grateful for this video. Everything you’ve posted here I’ve been experiencing and I thought I was losing my mind. Body aches and have a hard time keeping my mind focused on one thing. Explosion of all of the things I had previously worked through. Nothing makes sense. Nothing has meaning. Thinking about the things I previously wanted does not create excitement. I had a dark night experience before and as long as I stayed still the answer would come eventually. Most of the time that day. This one I have no answers and it’s just a bunch of random ego experiences. All I can do is observe and let go. I get the sense that this is because the things I previously “desired” I have and there are new desires working their way in. I think the biggest challenge is when you start experiencing pieces of what was created in imagination. Followed up by a complete and rapid 180° turn to the undesired. I’ve heard this experience is to maintain faith and it was likened to the State of Elijah (no love). Which comes before the state of Jesus. Thank you
And actually, new things that I must have had suppressed for some time. A lot of anger and frustration and some rage in there. It makes me curious why some things are quicker to resolve or release than others. I’ve heard it’s due to length of time of practice. Some things have been there since before I can remember. And don’t really have a memory of when it started. For the ones that were passed on from generation to generation, can those be released quickly I wonder.
Thank you hugely for this post! I am experiencing all of this. I am really absorbing the whole journey. I am loving purging my ego, although it is painful and horrible. Everything feels like it will end, how bad can it get? I want to give up....the tips are amazing! Everyone in my life is concerned i am depressed, but i know I'm not. Its really useful to know we are not alone ❤🙏🏻
You really helped me here. Your voice is so soothing. I’m in the state of lashing out! I’ve watched many videos and yours is the best. God led me to you, for sure! Ok, I’ll start again tomorrow. This is the first time I feel like I can make it! You have great tips. Yours is a great gift to humanity! Thank you so much!💙💥🙏🙏😁❗️
Hey Tom. I couldn't have picked a better video for this topic. Just your calming nature, gave me so much comfort. I was glued to the screen from start to finish. I really needed this video today, so Thank you! I just took a selfie of myself like you did & I look forward to the day I'll look back at the pic & say I made it through!
This is one of the very best videos covering the dark night. Huge thanks for supporting everyone getting through it. Very helpful to know we’re not alone I related a lot to this.
I appreciate you sharing these thoughts of 'going home.' I've had some of these thoughts recently ad they have been confsing because it's not something I've ever felt before. Glad to know this may be part of the journey ad it will pass.
19:40, That is not true. There are lots of people who don't make it through the DNOTS. Many people die. If you tell people that "You'll make it through", then you tell them to ignore the aspects of the experience/process that teach them what they need to know. The Dark Night of the Soul is no joke. It will kill you. Not everyone makes it. Only those who pay attention and have the will can make it. And that is a small percentage.
Welcoming the unwelcome....... by Pema Chodron /Powerful book,, that can accompany getting through The Dark Night of the Soul. heavy going. Tonglen Practice - Breathing meditation -Coming face to face with our fear /terror/ . Day 3 for me.
Thank you so much for this video, Tom. You've described exactly what I'm going through at present, and I'm very grateful for your insight. We have to feel it to heal it. Bless you. ❤🩹 🙏
Tom, I can’t explain how much you’ve changed my perspectives on things, especially this week which has been challenging to say the least. I’ve been binge watching your videos on my daily walks and have been so inspired. Thank you for all you do and sending you love ❤️⭐️
Thank you so much Abigail - that means so much. I checked out your channel too. So proud of you for putting yourself out there to share your gifts and insights with the world. Keep going. Sending my love and blessing back to you ❤️😇
I have been going through this all my life in different phases. But this phase is very different to the usual. This one for me seems like the "last phase" before i find the bliss. It is extremely lonely. I dont understand the surrender part? How do we do that? And how do we break the ego? And the spiritual connection It's currently like my world has fallen apart and bought me down to my knees.
Hi Tom! Thank you for your words ♥️ I am going through this since 1,5 month back and was wondering does it get deeper eventually? How did you manage everyday life resposibilites/work etc while going through it? Lots of love from Stockholm
Hey Tom been following u for ages and love your videos. This is another really insightful video which resonates. P.s You are looking awesome and have a real positive energy thing going on xx
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What did you do to get through? Did you have a practice to open up to love and light, higher power? Do you have any suggestions?
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Tom, I can't cope with this. Every time my TF senses i'm getting on my feet (and that i'm the awakened one) he knocks me right back down with piercing bullets. I'm chronically ill and alone and downtrodden. I don't see why god would love me and allow a spirit guide to mock me. i must be a bad person. i cannot surmount this illness (biome destroyed).
I remember during my first extreme dark night of the soul, feeling like a locked suitcase packed FULL of all the sad, negative experiences I had accumulated over my entire lifetime, suddenly popping open as all of those waves of emotions flooded in to be seen, felt, and finally released! It was so intense, I felt I was dying, because I couldn't stop crying and feeling so overwhelmed with fear and other emotions! I DID make it through, after some time, and my whole life changed after releasing the huge burden I'd been carrying for so long. Why are we here? Perhaps to help each other through this process and to carry the light so others can see their way? There's no better purpose than to love, serve, and support each other through our journeys. 🥰
What a profound experience and release - you are a such a brave and amazing soul 😇 I agree, it definitely feels like lifetimes of energy being expunged from very deep layers of the soul. And as you beautifully said, once you survive such a thing, that sense of service, love and supporting others through similar journeys becomes the meaningful thing in life.
Thank you for sharing ❤
@@poulerikhansen7178 Thank you for commenting, as my long forgotten message popped up at just the right moment. I'm currently going through another dark night of the soul and seeing my own words of wisdom and hope is helping me see my way through the difficult time I'm currently having. My sweet son, Daniel has unexpectedly passed away and the grief and sadness this has brought into my life seems unbearable at the moment. It feels as if I'll never stop crying. I know he is in a better place, I just miss him so much! He was such a bright light in my life and it's difficult letting him go. I do find myself longing for home, my real home, and life has lost its meaning. Losing my child is the hardest trial I've ever had to face yet being reminded of my previous journey shows me I will be alright. Thank you. 🙏😇❤️🩹
Such a beautiful perspective. I appreciate you sharing your experience and kindness 🤍🤍🤍🤍
This is what I believe too 😊I've always had the thought somewhere deep in size the question why cant we all just love each other and take care of each other? Why do we have to go to heaven why cant we just stay here on this beautiful earth where I now know for sure I belong,I believe I'm at heavens door and the gates are opening for me,even though my eyes tell me I'm sat on my bed.i hope this makes sense to everyone because it does with me,I was born in the spring of the summer of love and my mum and my auntie used to laugh and call me a hippy,I never knew what they meant back then but I do now and I'm grateful to be one 😊❤❤❤
The fear, the sadness, all the trauma coming out, the crying and not knowing how to stop, the feeling that you are dying, the isolation and loneliness, all of this is extremely hard so try to let go and pray to god to help you go through it, nothing is impossible for god ❤
Amen🙏🏿😭
Amen
Amen! Thank you Father!
Thank you for your message. It is very encouraging. If you are going through the dark night of the soul, then you were born to be an activist/mystic. You were not born to maintain the system you have always known but build one yourself. It is an ejection and liberation. System of mediocre comfort has spat you out. There is no going back to that. Ever again. I know it hurts -I'm in right now. I pray to God that it passes. Sometimes, I am really aware that is one of the best things that ever happened to me. Stay strong everyone!
Thank you everyone who read/liked my comment. The dark night of the soul is no joke. And I am grateful for a community that can encourage us all as we may go through it.
Quick update: still kind of in it. But I am not as lost and directionless as when I first began. I can see the light at the end of the tunnel. And I know if I can just hang on, my life will change for the better.
Main reason I am writing: isn't it nice to have a problem only God can solve? Stereotypical Christian problems arise when we do not believe we can receive anything we pray for. To literally have the faith and integrity in our relationship with God that people play about with but do not show the necessary childlike faith, love, and reverence for His authority.
Stereotypical religious problems can be solved or even pretended to be solved by a mind that needs the validation of a contemporary conformed mutual belief.
It can be frightening to be aware of the fact that the problem inside and around you does not give you the ability to control it. However, it gives one the most real definition of faith. And I am sure God's solution will always be better than my own.
Stay Strong Everyone!
@@pauladeleke4872thank you my Nigerian brother. Your words are uplifting and I hope you are in better spirits. I’m in another dark night and it’s never easy, but at least I know is that I’ll get through this, as I’ve had to go through this several times to learn this same lesson. 😊
The release and freedom you feel when coming out.. Physically feel it.. Dark energy lifts. And goes.. Dont give up... ❤️❤️Love you all ❤️❤️
I’m still going through mine. I keep going in and out of reality, feel like I’m going crazy. I had many episodes where I wanted to end it all too. In and out of hospitals. I keep resisting and trying to control everything but am practicing mindfulness. My ego won’t let go. People are sending me positive energy. I keep seeing deer everywhere. Just last night I texted someone that I don’t have the strength to endure another night but they told me others who have survived it like Carl Jung. Felt spirit guides show up and send me energy. I started printing out notes and putting them everywhere to remind myself I’m not going crazy and it’s all part of the journey. It is the most brutal thing I have ever experienced. I feel like I’m dying emotionally, mentally, spiritually, and physically. Some days I can barely move. Ego death is a ruthless journey.
How are you doing now? Sadly I can totally relate to what you are describing.
24/7 hell. No breaks, no sleep. It's brutal. And I don't even get why I would put myself through this. I always felt I could just choose not to go through this pain if I only gave up on my faith. Then again, why would God put me through this? There are so many ways I can think of that this could have been prevented - things totally out of my control, or even ones in my control -> why wasn't I guided to make the right choices. It's not even always that I intentionally decided to make the wrong choice. You know there is such a thing as self-sabotage, but other choices… I wasn't sure, I was scared but I still chose to have faith. So, why?
And the worst thing is, I don't even allow myself to acknowledge how bad it is. Because that would mean that this was never supposed to happen. And then I would lose my faith.
2 and a half years of this shit. I'm so mad. Apparently things are going to take a turn in about a month. I fully expect shit to be everything I ever wanted. Because I gave that up. I gave it up for my soul.
I know I sound crazy.
Yes, all that stuff. Even the thought, "What am I doing here? Because this isn't working out. Nothing's happening."
I've been in it for close to a year and it got worse when my oldest son died in February. Locked in my house alone most days. Sometimes I feel as if I'm hanging on by a thread...when I have felt a sense of hope, it usually disappears after a few hours. Recently I try to give thanks for everything because I saw a video that says that it can help you move out of it faster.
I sure hope you are feeling better a year later! I am sorry for your loss. I like the idea of gratitude. I look for little things that feel like little gifts to help me along.
@@catherinewylie6959 I am! Thank you! Practicing the gratitude and trusting in Jesus by believing in his promises and following his commands has totally turned my life around!
Sending you pure unconditional life 🤍🤍🤍
@@uwamahorochristella1843 Thank you. God bless you ❤️
I've had worsening depression and anxiety and realised it's another dark night. Uncontrollable sobbing all the time for unknown reasons. Trusting the process
Thank you for this video. You just confirmed that I am going through the dark night of the soul. I know almost everything that you said but my ego is blocking it. Like I know but I don't believe. I didn't know what's going on with me mentally and emotionally. Physically, I am losing my voice because of my throat problem probably due to muscle tension caused by stress, anxiety, depression. I am surrendering everything to the Universe. I will show up everyday so that I can meet that higher version of me one day. ❤️❤️❤️
💙💙💙 Help is on the way. Keep going.
I was very lucky that I happened to be be doing yoga and using that yoga relaxation every night to go to sleep in my 20's when I hit the 'dark night'. I was not seeking and I did not know that relaxation was meditating. After a break-up, I hit rock-bottom. Over a few weeks of various clearing events in my body and an eventual complete surrender to 'what is', I had the kundalini awakening. I became aware in the night of being very tiny and held very tightly and deep within my body. I had the voice in my head from something or someone(without words) that I was the same as everyone. Suddenly the brilliant white light expanded in my abdomen and moved up through me and out of my mouth into the night sky. I woke up feeling joy and energy. I lived that happy free-of-ego life for a year. I had no idea of what had happened (no idea off chakras) until I found Eckhart Tolle's experience years later. If I did not have the yoga relaxation, I may have become suicidal because it was so black. You must have complete surrender to kill the ego.
I've never felt so confused and so alone. I relate to everything you said. I hope it passes soon. I don't know anything anymore and I feel angry. Why are we plonked here and not know why....just left here with so many different belief systems and finding truth is like the biggest head wrecker ever. I'm truly being ripped apart just now and I don't see any end to it.
I didn’t know about what dark night of the soul was until I was almost done with the ego death and I almost killed myself a few times during it. I believe I had an very dark episode and if I didn’t have my two boys I would of definitely ended it. I am so thankful I was able to survive and get to the end of the ego death phase because the awakening is beautiful and so magical!
Thanks for sharing - you're so brave. We're blessed to have you in the physical plane - your presence is benefiting more people than you could ever know ❤️
Of you made it through now? Would like it if you of time to answer. 🤦
I am presently going through the dark night of the soul. I know this video was sent for me.💕
Sending you my love Monika - you've got this ❤️
never felt so bad wow its deep depths of pain. reassure me it will pass.
Hey Tom. I really do wonder if I will ever come out of mine, but I come back to your video here often, to keep that flame of hope lit.
Hru now?
Don't help anyone going through let them go through it and experience it by their own
Thank you Tom. Your insights are powerful and so helpful. I often feel like I'm a visitor to the planet walking around on the margins looking in. But then a powerful surge of peaceful energy overcomes me. The fog is lifting. Clarity is starting to prevail.
My Mom had Alzheimer's for a very long time, and as she was digressing, I started going through what I believe is The Dark Night of the Soul. It has only gotten worse since she passed last month. It is the hardest thing I have ever been in my life, and I thought everything I learned through my Spiritual Awakening was gone. I have read about this Dark Night before, but when I saw this title, I was like, Oh yeah that is definitely what is happening. Thank you for doing this video, like you said all I can do right now is show up, and knowing that is ok to be enough right now, gives me hope. This is my first time on your channel, and I'm sure I will be back. I love how calm you speak and the vulnerability of relating to the issue, it makes it real and tangible. Liked, subscribed and rang the bell. Thank you again!
Hey Scott, thanks for sharing this with me and for being here. I'm really sorry to hear about your Mom - you're doing an incredible job to be moving through this. I absolutely believe in you - you've got this 💙
I just have silent freak outs in my head. I look calm on the surf, but in my head I'm looking around at everything and think, "What the fuck is this? What the fuck is this?? Why is all this here? There can't possibly be a sensible and logical reason for existence. Do I really need to be here? This has to be a mistake. Great spirit, get me out of here, NOW." Of course no help comes. I'm just stuck here, months away from ruin on every front of my life.
Hey! I relate.. how are you doing by the moment? It’s a release to read others similar experiences.. in witch point are you now? I hope better..
I very much lost all meaning and it’s very scary. I have no sense of self nor sense of why am I here? Our background is probably different but it’s a very similar feeling .. absolute despair and the feeling everything is about to fall.. every structure.. like there’s just little structure or very primitive.. I hope things are better for you at least. I’m just going into it deeper now. Spending most of my days alone.. painting, listening podcasts and trying to understand.. or surrender
"Keep showing up to life..." that definitely resonated 🙏 thanks Tom 😊
You're welcome - much love J.E. 🙏☺️
My experience has shown me that there is only one Dark Night box the Soul. We are all on a spectrum of consciousness. As we become more conscious, we experience much depression on our paths. These are excruciatingly painful growth experiences that can last years - in and out of depression, grieving and personal development (emotional growth.) As we become more accepting and understanding of our life (family dysfunction) we become stronger. It's a process that requires courage and commitment. Never give up. 💙💞💖
Thank you for this video. I am a wreck right now and It truly helps to know someone else has been through DNOS and is alive and serene.
Thank you for sharing! Your words resonate with me with on such a deep level. Recently experiencing another dark night of the soul, somehow ”knowing” that I need to be brave and embrace whatever feelings that will come up in order to release what needs to be released in order to heal. Such a blessing listening to your words and see that we all probably share these experiences, and that we all are connected and can support one another in this process on our journey of life. Thank you! ❤
Thank you Tom, this video came to me just when I really needed it. It gave me some much needed insight and hope and I will definitely be listening to it again. It was a reminder that things do get better, and there is always light at the end of dark times. 🙏😌
I'm so glad to hear that Geri - yes always, always light. Sending you my love 🥰
Going through my dark night of the soul and everything feels divine..
I trust Almighty Allah to my fullest ❤️
I can relate to 90 percent of what you said.
And a synchronicity offcourse ✌️
Im going threw this for years this video brought me to tears i find it hard to reach out to any 1 it has been easy but when i pray i find peace defly not an easy journey
❤thank you for sharing this! I’m going through it and am feeling hopeless with dark thoughts and begging God to take me. I’ve lost everything and everyone and feel so alone and am barely hanging on. Your video has shed light on why I’m going through this but I need help and support to get through it. How do I find someone like you to guide me and encourage me? I’ve never heard this from any of the many therapists I’ve seen over the years. My biggest challenge is that I have no money to spend on therapy. I’ve lost everything and am currently homeless due to severe physical and mental illness (depression & anxiety). I am currently staying in a shelter. I’ve surrendered to my Higher Power, become extremely humble and am trying to have faith I’ll survive and hopefully thrive after my dark night of the soul. It’s very difficult doing this all alone. 😢
I couldn't help but notice that comments made before and after yours were either responded to or liked by Tom but yours was overlooked by him. I'm thinking that had something to do with you mentioning that you need help but have no money. I want you to know that I heard you and that you're not alone. His oversight may have made you feel even more hopeless but maybe that's part of what your Divine process was to entail. Speaking for myself and as someone who doesn't have a budget to seek help from those who profit from our desperation, just continue to explore what is readily available to you and then look within. If all this Divinity is true, then you'll find your way out through those means alone - just don't give up. What's meant for you will present itself - liberation of the soul isn't reserved for only those who can financially afford it. Consider that the experience of the dark night of the soul is not a recent event plaguing humanity, it's been around since time began (or so) ... before the advent of psychology, life coaches, social media, and courses to take. Those people got through it and so will you and so will I. Keep going.
Hru now? Have you tried getting on public assistance so you can get a medical card for a therapist?
Really beautifully expressed. I have been in this for most of the last 5 years. I will get through it though and I believe I am becoming a better, more authentic version of myself.
That's it Joel - proud of you man. Keep going ❤️
I got to a point where i knew i couldn't carry on the way i was my behaviour was awful to say the very least but i disnt know how to make myself stop,ive hurt so many people that i truly care about because i believed what my ego told me 90% of the time,i love them all i love you all so i love myself there's nothing to forgive and there's nothing to regret because i truly know myself and i never thought I'd say it but i actually do love myself we all need to love ourselves and each other, all they truly is is love and light 😊❤❤❤ thank you to all because all is god.
Spot on. I love your delivery and you!
Its sooooo painful, scary. Yet God is with me everyday. Im so grateful for connecting with him. The connection to him keeps me going, plus my daughter
Thanks for this. I've been having dark nights of the soul my entire life. I just feel like I am always in the wrong situations, not doing enough, can't handle enough - feeling existentially alone. And yet there is a feeling that something is going to get me to the other side of this. I am glad TH-cam has all these videos. About time I got some direction trough this stuff!
This is such an enlightening and soothing experience that your are providing to people. A young guy who is such a sage has a great purpose in life to spread love and light of God to others. God protects His believers while strengthening them with experiences that test them in order for them to reach a higher wavelength of understanding life and its actual purpose, which is to learn about, accept and be content in submitting to His Divine Decree by gracing and living His Gift of Life in a befitting manner by serving God and His Creation.
Thank you so much - so beautifully said ❤️
Thank you for this, I´ve been looking for info and everybody talks about it as a "it will be done " or as if it was easy to go through, like step by step program but I don´t feel it like that at all. For the first time I realize this is when people kill them selves, it can get really hard and I dont understand why it has to be like that, I really whish everyone reading this you can go through this shit fast and to be able to survive. It has been a really nightmare and I don´t think anyone deserve this crap
Yes you mustn’t give up! Hru now?
I haven't watched your videos for a long time, but today, I was drawn to this. you describe what I've been through for the past 4-5 months. it's a hell of journey, for sure. I feel like it's coming to an end, because I feel much better for the past few days, but who knows. thank you, Tom 🙏🏼
Same!! 💜
Thank you so much for revisiting my channel Mitha - you're always welcome here 😊 And so happy to hear you're entering back into the light.
This is the best cheerleading video for people who in rock bottom to overcome. 😊
Thank you, Tom! Your video has really helped me as I go through my dark night... not my first, probably not my last, but I am encouraged by you! Thank you and Bless you!
This was helpful for me at this time. I realize that I’ve had many Dark Night’s of the Soul but each time I run away and let the ego take back over.
I’m approaching this different this time and am looking at what I’m needing to learn about myself …and I think that my ego likes to hate me and keep me stuck in that so I can’t move forward and have love for all. I’m realizing they hating myself is no better than hating other people.
True Love for ourselves is a pre-requisite for having true love for all that is and so I’m concentrating on loving myself first and then I can love others with oneness.
Thanks bro,seriously it hurts so bad😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
It's amazing how such a young person can put such precise words on this painful and difficult experience. I'm 62 years old, I've been through this death several times in my life and I've been in it again for over a year. With all the spiritual tools I have accumulated and the spiritual path I follow, it is still unbearably difficult at times.
Thanks.
This is the first one of your videos I watched. Thank you for the bottom of my heart, Tim. I’m going through a really hard time and feel like I’m being crushed under the weight of it right now. It really does feel like there’s no light at the end of my tunnel but at least I have a sliver of hope now that maybe this dark fog will lift for me too. I liked and subscribed. Best wishes. You have a beautiful soul. Chris
This is either my 2nd or 3rd time going through this experience and this year has been the toughest. I’m so tired. I feel like I am the problem in all of my relationships that have broken down over this time. Every time I think it’s coming to an end, something else kicks me in the a**. The same way you said you just crumbled. That’s exactly what happened to me today. I came home and just fell apart. I wanted to self exit. I’m so lonely. I get to this point and I start to truly think I’ve gone mad. Thinking I’m special and I’m going through a divine awakening and I start to believe im actually delusional. But then I find videos like this and the way I can relate to everything you said really makes me want to carry on. Hope. So thank you so much. You really have no idea how much you have helped me today. ❤
Your detailed description of the dark matter of the soul is very good. I have been through several. But this conclusion that we will always come out of it is naïve. Many people don’t come out of it and take their own lives.
Just this morning during my prayer time I asked what is happening to me as I didnt understand. Thank you Tom for this video, it answered all of questions and gave me new hope. ❤️
All my Love - very happy to hear this ☺️❤️
Thank you ❤ I’m certain you have helped so many souls. God bless you
Thank you for your great video, it was very helpful at a very low point in my life.
It give me a hope to hold on and keep moving.
God bless❤
Thank you for sharing,makes so much sense. Feel like I have been in this for almost 3,5years now,need hope from outside . But the upside is that I get a lot of positive synchonicities. But have had so many symptoms that I can count it,thank you again
Man, thank you so very much for this video. I've been going through this for a while where it extremely accelerated 7 weeks ago. I have moments where I think I'm just going crazy. So thank you for this upload, I resonate with it completely ❤
Hi Tom ! I always love your topic on youtube for all you watch don't loose faith :D you're not alone ;)!
One quote stuck in my head since I'm little is "Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.” by Albus Dumbledore because we always make it through even in your "Dark Age" like you said even we don't see the light at the end of the tunnel, we are all meant to be happy all of us! I'm unconditionnaly grateful at 28 years old I wanted to clean my way & healing my mistakes this is the process is to forgive yourself & others, be grateful & transform to love, LOVE YOURSELF & trust universe . Life is like a river, you need to take the flow like water :) Since I understand the "Process" My life is positive I'm attracting so much luck & love on my way even just a smile for an unknown person makes my day :D
Thanks a lot Tom for thoses videos. Enjoy your day. Anaïs
You're amazing Anaïs - keep spreading that light. I'm so happy your life is going so well. You deserve it 🥰
@@TomDouce Thank you so much for thoses words I'm so grateful 🥰 :D Tom keeps to spreading that light too :D Enjoy your week-end :)
Nothing has resonated more in the reexplaiing of my dark night of the soul!! You hit all of the marks of what I went through and where I am and where I am headed. I’ve heard several things on it. Was written by my soul, I swear
Gratitude for your presentation it resonates with me so much that I will be using it to remind myself frequently
Much love to you for creating and for being a high vibration
I so needed to hear this message, as I'm going through another dark night of the soul. Your message has been super encouraging to me. I can feel the love, hope to move through this through your words. You have been a God send to me this evening. 🙏 💖😇
Thank you for sharing your complete vulnerability, compassion & gentle kindness to help us through our dark night of the soul. Much love 🙏 God bless 😇
You're welcome Bella 🥰 thank you so much for your kind words. Much Love and Blessing to you too!
Thank you young one. Your awake and lovely. From this 72 year old hippie body?/spirit.
Thank you Tom. I’m simply existing at the moment. You’re video has put everything I needed to hear in words - it’s helped stay grounded in the midst of one of the worst days of my dark night of the soul journey.
Thank you for the reminders of the why and what’s on the other side ❤
This made me feel better thank you for making this video. I found out my husband of 19 years has been cheating on me. He was cheating on me around the time my daughter died 2 years ago. That was my first dark night, even though I knew this was coming my higher self already told me for a few months now but it still hurts. The thing though that hurts the most is today is my birthday amd Noone but my phone remembered. That hurts so much more then being cheated on. But I am so lucky bc I've been told this was about to happen bc my husband isn't part of my destiny.
I see you. You are not alone. I'm sorry you've gone through this. There will be better days ahead. ❤️
Thanks, Tom! This is the best description of the Dark Night process I’ve watched. Incredibly helpful. You’ve really captured it. I’m still in it and really needed to hear this. You certainly are a beacon and helped me enormously. Blessings to you and the community!
Tom im going through one right now it seems unimaginable to get through this. but i know others have made it on the other side.
somehow
Thanks buddy i am saving it, it is giving me so much relief❤ will definetly go through it
This video helped to add clarity to what has been going on with me. Thank you for sharing your insights.
So grateful for this video.
Everything you’ve posted here I’ve been experiencing and I thought I was losing my mind. Body aches and have a hard time keeping my mind focused on one thing. Explosion of all of the things I had previously worked through. Nothing makes sense. Nothing has meaning. Thinking about the things I previously wanted does not create excitement. I had a dark night experience before and as long as I stayed still the answer would come eventually. Most of the time that day. This one I have no answers and it’s just a bunch of random ego experiences. All I can do is observe and let go.
I get the sense that this is because the things I previously “desired” I have and there are new desires working their way in.
I think the biggest challenge is when you start experiencing pieces of what was created in imagination. Followed up by a complete and rapid 180° turn to the undesired.
I’ve heard this experience is to maintain faith and it was likened to the State of Elijah (no love). Which comes before the state of Jesus.
Thank you
And actually, new things that I must have had suppressed for some time. A lot of anger and frustration and some rage in there.
It makes me curious why some things are quicker to resolve or release than others. I’ve heard it’s due to length of time of practice. Some things have been there since before I can remember. And don’t really have a memory of when it started. For the ones that were passed on from generation to generation, can those be released quickly I wonder.
Thank you hugely for this post! I am experiencing all of this. I am really absorbing the whole journey. I am loving purging my ego, although it is painful and horrible. Everything feels like it will end, how bad can it get? I want to give up....the tips are amazing! Everyone in my life is concerned i am depressed, but i know I'm not. Its really useful to know we are not alone ❤🙏🏻
You really helped me here. Your voice is so soothing. I’m in the state of lashing out! I’ve watched many videos and yours is the best. God led me to you, for sure! Ok, I’ll start again tomorrow. This is the first time I feel like I can make it! You have great tips. Yours is a great gift to humanity! Thank you so much!💙💥🙏🙏😁❗️
Hey Tom. I couldn't have picked a better video for this topic. Just your calming nature, gave me so much comfort. I was glued to the screen from start to finish. I really needed this video today, so Thank you! I just took a selfie of myself like you did & I look forward to the day I'll look back at the pic & say I made it through!
This is one of the very best videos covering the dark night. Huge thanks for supporting everyone getting through it. Very helpful to know we’re not alone I related a lot to this.
Thanks Tom....im holding onto wot you said - one does get thru' this! Thanks
I appreciate you sharing these thoughts of 'going home.' I've had some of these thoughts recently ad they have been confsing because it's not something I've ever felt before. Glad to know this may be part of the journey ad it will pass.
The best video i listened and saw on this subject. It exactly describes it
Wow! I just found your video and you hit the mark 100% of my past two years. Going to check out your other videos now. Thank you for posting this.❤
Divine timing and synchronicities 👌🏼 amazing ❤️❤️
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Thank you so much for this video to give me a sense of peace during another sleepless night.
This was so beautiful, thank you for sharing your truth in such a peaceful and soothing manor.
Alongside the beauty delivered vid, peoples comments on here really helped in the dark moment.
I could listen to your voice the whole day and night 😊
19:40, That is not true. There are lots of people who don't make it through the DNOTS. Many people die. If you tell people that "You'll make it through", then you tell them to ignore the aspects of the experience/process that teach them what they need to know. The Dark Night of the Soul is no joke. It will kill you. Not everyone makes it. Only those who pay attention and have the will can make it. And that is a small percentage.
As always, Tom, you speak profound Truth. Thank you for this beautifully timed and eloquent message. 💙
Welcoming the unwelcome....... by Pema Chodron /Powerful book,, that can accompany getting through The Dark Night of the Soul. heavy going. Tonglen Practice - Breathing meditation -Coming face to face with our fear /terror/ . Day 3 for me.
This is very helpful! I have a hard time not beating myself up in these phases, thanks for the video!
Thank you, thank you, thank you. I am in the midst of one and its sooo tiring. Last night I just couldnt see beyond the darkness..
I DONT HAVE A DARK NIGHT BUT LOTS OF ENERGY TINGLE
Very Detailed~Accurate~and Powerful!
Thank You 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Excellent discussion.
Thank you so much for this video, Tom. You've described exactly what I'm going through at present, and I'm very grateful for your insight. We have to feel it to heal it. Bless you. ❤🩹 🙏
This is what I needed!
Thank you 🙏🏻
Blessings 💜
Thank you so much, Tom,telling your experience in this down to earth way,it really resonates deeply in me❤🙏
You explained this wonderfully
This video is so important Tom, thank you.
Thank you my friend 🙏😇
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Thank you. I am going "through" and I love this. Keep sharing❤️
Thank you. It did me much good to hear your talk.
Tom, I can’t explain how much you’ve changed my perspectives on things, especially this week which has been challenging to say the least. I’ve been binge watching your videos on my daily walks and have been so inspired. Thank you for all you do and sending you love ❤️⭐️
Thank you so much Abigail - that means so much. I checked out your channel too. So proud of you for putting yourself out there to share your gifts and insights with the world. Keep going. Sending my love and blessing back to you ❤️😇
Thank ypi for your message and work. Be well
I have been going through this all my life in different phases. But this phase is very different to the usual. This one for me seems like the "last phase" before i find the bliss. It is extremely lonely. I dont understand the surrender part? How do we do that? And how do we break the ego? And the spiritual connection It's currently like my world has fallen apart and bought me down to my knees.
Thank you for your content, it came to me in perfectly divine timing 🙏
Hi Tom! Thank you for your words ♥️
I am going through this since 1,5 month back and was wondering does it get deeper eventually? How did you manage everyday life resposibilites/work etc while going through it? Lots of love from Stockholm
Great question! I have always wondered how do people keep paying the Bill's when dealing with this?
Thank you for making this!
Thank you for sharing your message :)
This is deeply and divenly beautiful Ty .
Hey Tom been following u for ages and love your videos. This is another really insightful video which resonates.
P.s You are looking awesome and have a real positive energy thing going on xx
Thank you so much, I resonate so much with this 🙏🥰
Hi! Glad to see you again.