Mannnn... I feel this story on so many levels. The dating aspect hits home for me.. That's exactly how I feel. It's hard being a hopeless romantic in this day and time. Weird it coming from someone else, it's like a mirror. Cool hearing from another person, I ain't by myself. Big ups to you and God bless man.
I never even thought about a man being hurt by another. I related to you and my heart was beating for you as the story unfolded. I wish you the best on finding true love.
You are essentially looking for a man who will give you the level of comfort, support, love and genuine that you had gotten from your father... When you find a brother who's most like your father on just about all levels - that's when you will make that cosmic level connection... Everyone else will simply play a role in your ultimate self development and realization! You will continue to teach, inspire and empower many more to come! *Keep it growing and flowing!*
Love this story time for so many reasons. There are a lot of gems I will take with me as a heterosexual female. Love you, friend. Keep doing what you’re doing.
I’m a firm believer that your ex is an ex for a reason. Thank you for sharing your experience and know that your helping people by being valuable enough to tell your story. I’m strong believer that you’re walking into your greatness! Continue to be great and remember your special and should always be treated specially!
They are allowed to want that...the thing is that YOU have to decide what you want for yourself. I've discovered for my life that people, for the most part, don't/won't/can't completely change who they are. The most you can hope for is them making an adjustment. If you need a big or total change from another human and the personality trait in question is one of your "deal breaker" issues then in my opinion you're better off leaving the siutation and working on healing the pain you're about to go through and finding a better fit for your particular type of love. Being a person of honor, integrity and kindness can often times leave you alone...and that's not necessarily a bad thing.
This dude s a major lier... I was one of the ones n this storytime that he had supposedly purposed to...we were n a 3 and a half year relationship.... I never knew about his secret supposedly life... him and his girlfriend lied to me for whatever reason I dont know but I had no idea about his secret straight life .... I'm jus realizing hes playing me about our life and making a joke about serious stuff... hes a habitual liar,,,, very sick and cannot b trusted... it's sad that u think u know a person and the whole time ur sleeping with the enemy .... b careful because he cares about noone
As you were telling this story time I was recalling a few similar moments of hurt and disappointment that I’ve experienced. It’s not easy for many to open up and release the betrayals that they been through, or to admit that they didn’t make a good choice. Tripp your story show your vulnerability but also bring to us “cousins” an opportunity for healing, growing better, and becoming really loving humans. Through the tears I shed during this vlog I was also able to feel hope. You proclaim such truth when you say that we have to possess in ourselves the same energy of love that we hope to receive. Thank you for helping a wound in me to get a little better tonight.
Been a long time subscriber but I'm just watching your content and man these videos hit home. Life lessons. I'll never forget the quote "you never go back to what broke you".
Cuzzo...like you said you have to heal and learn from the experience. For all those going through right now remember it hurts like hell when you got your hand in the fire, but when you take it out over time the pain lessens and you heal. Most important to know during that time like Tripp said you have to put your energy into making yourself a better person....not a bitter person.
Bro i just can't get enough from your videos. You seem such a humble caring human being. Hope that you find your soulmate as soon as possible! Cuz you deserve it my favorite Cousin! 👊🏾
Wow that's horrible. You are such a great storyteller. Thank you for choosing to be vulnerable and sharing your experiences. This particular story is so relatable and very intense. I'm glad you made it out to the other side. I no longer feel like I'm the only one who went through this. Stay positive king and I send you great vibes and positive energy 🖤🖤🖤
Hes a liar.... he was my ex for almost four years... he didn't tell me about his supposedly straight relationship.... they both liked for whatever reason... clearly this s what him and his straight friends do...they clearly set people n the lifestyle up... so f u have had conversations b careful because he cares about noone but himself and his undercover girlfriend.... sad sad case
Tripp I can still hear the hurt in ur voice and I feel ur pain but I think u have learned an essential lesson of self love...I pray u find that someone that makes u truly happy..
WOW....What a story!!! And sometimes people wonder why situations like this ends tragically but it takes a special person like you to handle this the way you handled it. You see its not the broken heart or broken promises that kills, its the broken pride. Thankfully at your age you have mastered the art of managing pride. That my friend is a talent not given to many.Your story is powerful and this channel shows me why you are so convincing in your acting roles. It is coming from a pure place. It is energy that is real and coming from the deepest part of your being and that is your soul. You have taught someone today how to deal with pride when it is broken in the name of love. You may have a broken heart but you WILL find someone else. Thanks for sharing buddy. Blessings!
B very careful homie..... I used to go with him.... this story time s so made up... he lives n philly.... he the negative of what I went through with him to try to get n my head.... I didn't even realize he was talkin bout our life until a couple of days ago but it's sad that the person I thought I trusted was my enemy the whole time... b very careful because him ,,, his straight friends,,,, and his undercover girlfriend prey on gay people.... I'm jus sayin b careful and warn anybody u know that associated with him to b very careful.... smh
Tripp u touched my heart with this story,Tripp u are one big hearted person with a good soul that an inconsiderate guy took u for granted, but u will be over all of this,I feel it in my bones because there's alot of u in me,I used to think by giving the people who hurt us the most more chances than they really do deserve meant I was being good,only to learn the hard way that it meant they weren't meant for me,but our learning experiences gives us the courage to move on to better things,and what touched me the most in the story was,when u said when God remove certain people from our lives it's for the better,and I'll tell u this tripp ,we are not picky in our relationships, it's just we want certain things that would be meaningful to us,we may be alone but we are not lonely, am glad I tuned in to this channel with u tripp and I believe in my heart there are things we both can relate too,and that is what makes us the true and compassionate individuals we are,we are winners no matter what is thrown at us,and won't have to go in search of love because it will find us,take care tripp love u like my brother.
You are a real transparent person, just sit still because GOD will send you your soulmate and you will be able to receive him. I love your channel, keep grinding.
@@TripperPlugged you very welcome tripp I seen text brown but from those joints you seem pretty legit that's my honest opinion and lol I luv when u b like whatever the case may be I might use that against homophobia or intruders
Tears were rolling down my face man when you was telling your story... I'm one of those people that can mentally and spiritually connect with someone's hurt I don't know why I have such a big heart but I do. I'm sry that you had to go through that but I can see it made you a stronger man. I have been single for years and like you I've been in long-term relationships in the past. I miss being in love.. I miss companionship I miss having loving romantic and passionate sex. I wish and would luv to meet a dude like you.
Tripp: THANK YOU!!!🤜🏾🙇🏾♂️🤛🏾 To 'hear' how you not just 'survived' BUT 'came out' on the 'other side' is a LITERAL lifeline of HOPE in a place where some of us are isolated, drowning and DYING. ABSOLUTE PROPS TO YOU, BIG BRO' for turning this social media piece right-side up in the show of your strength and vulnerability. Tripp, the fact is you are saving lives!!!
Thanks for this validation bro! Ive been proposed to 3 times and turned them down because I felt it wasnt real...turnt out he was cheating....and the dude he cheated with started inboxing and calling me.
I'm ready to fight man!! I got your back bro. Lord I tried to leave dat life behind me but people keep trying us. You a good person because that situation would have broke the average person down but you you preserved man. Don't look back. It happened to me too bro. I didn't initially handle it as well as you. I almost had a nervous breakdown. It's not worth it. You might reflect on the memories from time to time but you can't thrive with trash in your life. But you are back in Korea right now. Okay do you bro
Thank You for your honesty!! I almost made the mistake of going back to someone that God removed from my life, so I know how easy it is to believe that they changed. But I kept Praying to God to let me see their true intent. And I moved on. 💯
Ugh that guy that he was cheating on you with was trying to stay in contact with you to see if you guys would get back together. Your going to find the right person. Your to much of a catch. ❤️
Courtney, that right person is me, he just doesn't know it yet... LoL. But seriously, Tripp you seem to be a genuine dude...stay that way! It's all working for your good!!!
I was not going to watch the video because it was so long and I was not going to watch the video because the title reminded me of someone that I don't talk to anymore. But when I tell you I watched every single second of this video and I am so glad I did because not only did I learn a lot but I also heard myself in your story, hoping that someone would love me different when I know that they can't change. Thanks for being so transparent and thank you for the 47 minutes and 57 seconds that I needed to see and hear!
Damn I had to have a drink on this one...thank you for this storytime and thank you for letting me know that i am not alone....you gave a very positive message in this one maybe my fav one byefar because it relates to me so much but like you said LIFE is something... so will continue to watch and keep them coming!! Thanks Tripp
Hey trip. Just wanna say I enjoy listening to you stories and advice. I realize that you actually be getting things off your chest. Not just talking.. I try to keep up as much as possible.. but shout out to you.. and just in general I'lp keep u in my prayers..
Thank you for this because your helping me. Because I myself is going threw the same shit . He treats me like shit I been trying to distance myself from the pain I feel you.😑 pray for me and I will do the same for everyone out there that's going threw this🙏🙏
Wow Tripp you said watch the video.... Now I understand how you got to Korea. You have been dealing with a narcissist and this story is a prime example how they can come back into your life years later with a new mask of deception 🎭. But one thing is for sure narcissists don't change their covert manipulating ways. This life experience of yours is a reminder with an exclamation point of not returning to what God has delivered you from. Focusing on yourself is the best solution you can do !🤔..... I stumbled upon your TH-cam channel because you strongly resemble and talk like one of my friends. So much so that I had to see what your channel was about..... And this has been The Craziest Thing That Has Ever Happened To Me ! All Good ! 😉😎
Just found your channel and subscribed! Anyway, I totally agree that love is in the details. The fact that ol' boy didn't propose the proper way, didn't go out of his way to make you feel really special, was definitely an issue. I cannot believe how people take genuine love for granted. That dude really messed up.
Wow, so I'm wondering how long did dude think he was go keep getting away with doing what he was doing. Especially with trying to play a Virgo, cuz eventually it would have came out sooner or later, because they pick up on every little thing. That was just dumb. And I know you spoke a lil bit on it, but I hope you don't blame yourself for being put into this situation. You've got a good heart and that's what you were thinking with. And TBH, after ten years dude should've treated the relationship much better than that. But his loss, because now that's ten years of friendship and love destroyed just like that, that he'll never get back. I think one day when he realizes what he really loss, he's go call you again, so be ready for the b.s. Stay blessed Tripp. Love you Bro.
Cousin Tripp, We both had to learn alot of these lessons on our own. Damn, old boy really played you, when you had so much professional success going on. Thanks for your Storytimes! Love from Orlando
Tripp you are not alone. I just broke up with my dude after 6 years. You hit the nail on the head, he kept showing me who he was over and over again. This was also our second go around at this relationship. He had me kicking it at the homies house and he was fucking him. He was a snake then and he's a snake now lesson learned. Your Mr. Right is out there and so is mine. Keep your head up my brotha.
Hey T, my bro. Since the Universe attracted me to your channel a few days ago, I can't get enough. You are making me feel a certain kind of way, and it's ALL good! How come I didn't meet you before leaving Atlanta just last year? Keep It Up Brother! Much LoVe!!!
Say that bru, I had to learn that listen the hard way. But, I thank God that he allowed me to learn it. & Believe me I have. I'm going to have to play this video over & over & over & over again. Just so it will stick. Thank you Lord 🙏😇🙌, for letting me come across this brother 👊💪💯. Now! I'm going to subscribe, hit that bell to be notified, & thumbs up the video. & Share it if I know how. Peace my brother 🙏.
Tripp's Cuzzins! I like that for your subscribers! Thanks for sharing this story. I proposed to my ex and he was the one with issues that led us to end the engagement. You (read: We) deserve love, and you'll have it, with someone who cherishes and values you and what you bring. ❤️
Tripp you deserve better. It's great that you know that. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm hollering at my boy and you're going to be fine. You're family and we're all here for you.That's why we tune in to watch you Tripp cause we care about you brother.
🤔😢😤 Sorry, that you had to go through that. Wow, that was very hurtful and "F"ed up. I hope you find that special someone. I'm still wanting and looking.
Wow Tripp. I just saw your video called he proposed to both of us. I'm sorry that happened to you. I've been there myself. I've been cheated on and lied to. I've always been a relationship type of guy as well. In between relationships I remained single until I got into another relationship. I'm single now as well. You will get past this. It is good your taking time for yourself. That is important as well. Thanks for sharing that. So many of us can relate. So your not by yourself in that.. much love.👍
You snatched my soul with this one!!! Its hard to let go of Any Relationship when your not finished with it. I remember not wanting to let go do to the fear of the unknown. I was thinking who is going to love me SWEETLY!! I allowed them to drag me however it was MY RESPONSIBILIY TO GET OFF THE RIDE!!! I understand TODAY, when a MF want to leave, it is mandatory that you let them Go!!!!
Wow. Its a Virgo thing. I gave life to someone and they cheated and lied and even tried to get the side dude to kill me. So u are not alone out there with real life experiences that others would say its just story. Left with one kidney a huge hole in my heart felt unloved couldn't forgive myself to be so stupid . But time heals, and I prayed and cried, cried and prayed until my healing comes. I still got my scars but I am HEALED!!!!. So now I leave all those things behind me and pressing forward to what is for me. Appreciate you Cuz Tripper!!!
Cuz I couldn't imagine messing with someone's heart like that. Playing on two peoples emotions. That can get you potentially killed. Buying two rings at the same time and that was ok with him, smh. Professing his love for "only you". Wrong on so many levels cuz. You uprooted yourself to be with him. Man that's sooo wrong. 💙
Dope story!!! Man!!! When I tell you the same thing happened to me!! Bruh!!!???? I feel you!!! You’re a strong brother to be so vulnerable. It can’t be easy. Thank you!!!
Man that was foul. You so right. I have let the same man back in my life 3 times and it got worse each time. I was free and kept letting him come back. I am free now and feel so much better. I am just working on me again. Love will come; this I am sure of. Thanks bro.
Hey Tripp, for some reason I thought that already looked at this video and gave it a thumbs up. So sorry about that. Man, people suck sometimes. Thanks for the story time. I'm a hopeless romantic too. I've always gotten the short end of the stick. I'm glad you were able to recover from that situation. Things could have gotten ugly messing with people's feelings.
I think it's a comfort situation...... Some people don't want to put in the energy of meeting new people and seeing where things go...... So they stick with the person their comfortable with
I know the feeling all to well... Only difference is that I did get married... I had to accept the fact that I loved someone who love themselves only and thought they could have married life and the single life. Now I'm just focusing on me and not putting others needs before my own. Enough about me... Seriously, thanks for your honesty and willingness to be open. You just gained a true fan, COUSIN....lol
I don't know how I stumbled across your videos but I am subscribed because dude you have so much insight on a lot of different topics-Chattanooga, Tn here.
Man..... I feel you but on a different level. I was with guy cheated on me most our 9 year relationship, sad part I stay with him after learning about most of the cheating. My best mistake was moving him with when I got job in a new city and state. After a year and half in the new city old dude started back with his cheating ways and said that's it I'm done and I gave him his walking papers. The sad part I wasn't hurt because I been hurt to many times before.
Tripp, as always, you sharing your experiences are extremely insightful and beautiful. I live for your story times. Thank you for sharing!! Much love...216!
Knowledge & Greetings ... Grip this Wisdom mane When you allow yourself to Love ...You allow yourself to be hurt, disappointed. I know from experience ...lol Therefore take time and Love yoself and I see you've matured from what you went thru and from that You learn to walk away from folks and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self respect , values , morals or yo self worth... I speak many blessings inta ya path, I speak Longevity inta ya life , I speak Love inta ya path and I speak Wisdom and Prosperity as well ...Keep livin mane Jah got cha bac ...✌
Me myself; I don't fight physical unless I have my back against the wall /I fight mentally I need my physical strength to pick up the pieces/ mental strength is so much stronger than physical! Real talk I have a strong back Evan stronger mind; when I love it's strong and hard; and when the other person loves me and I feel it mental \ it's that love that will give me life. If we don't make it I still have my physical strength to go through that open door that always open up when 1-door shuts. Don't get me wrong I love to be in a relationship - to love and be loved it's a wonderful feeling !!!
Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww this was mind blowing all this time I thought you left America because you wanted to get away to write a book not knowing that it was because of a relationship. What that guy did was so wrong Its unbelievable the things that people do especially what they do to hurt you. I mean to propose to both of you guys like that these guys weren't born with a conscious they have no moral standard or nothing man it's insane that these type of people exists. But for you Tripp to be able to tell a story like this to the world and put yourself out there like that it speaks wonders I am on my way to work and this whole thing just has my heart feeling heavy and worst yet there is this dramatic song that is playing on the radio in the taxi but you are one in 8 billion. You made me believe in love again and not by you finding the relationship or love of your life but by showing me you were always and willing to love all the wrong people, that was flawed , filled with faults and who did you wrong over and over again you continued to love them unconditionally and that what the meaning of what true love is. It's just that you have never found the right person to share that unconditional love with but when you do he will love you for a lifetime and he will filled that void that you feel and so doing he will erased all the heartache and pain that you have ever felt
@@TripperPlugged its amazing you have remained yourself throughout all this pain and heartache you haven't allowed it to make you into a bitter or hateful person. As you said take the time to get to know you and to grow and become a better person and to make yourself happy and the right person will come around you have inspired me to do the same. I hope to meet you one day Tripp Ali you have touch my soul and my heart
I admire your strength and honesty about your self. At this time in my life I am focusing on other things that is important to me. So relationships is not in my view and that does not mean I am sleeping around that's something in the past. I have enjoyed my life. But I am enjoying your story time. I am going to keep you. Close by
Wow from I saw your channel and watch the first video I subscribe..you are really entertaining and your videos are the only that I can watch without skipping..content is awsome much love from the Bahamas 💯💜🧡
Why should you settle? You shouldn’t have to. I didn’t. I have the highest standards imaginable. I was married to the most loving & trust-worthy man for 23 years. I lost him recently to cancer & it literally destroyed my entire world. I’m not one to date here & there. Sleeping around has never been ok with me. I still have those high standards & I may or may not find someone new. That’s ok. Virgo’s do quite well by themselves 😉
See I’m straight up 💯all the time I’m extremely honest I think that’s what the problem is and my expectations and standereds and principles and morals are way above the mark ugh it’s the way I was brought up I guess
You have standards. You are a quality man. Wish I could have a straight man w/ those same qualities. That type of quality is hard to come by straight or gay🤷🏾♀️
We take them back because it’s familiar and we get comfortable with being comfortable with the devil.
Mannnn... I feel this story on so many levels. The dating aspect hits home for me.. That's exactly how I feel. It's hard being a hopeless romantic in this day and time. Weird it coming from someone else, it's like a mirror. Cool hearing from another person, I ain't by myself. Big ups to you and God bless man.
I never even thought about a man being hurt by another. I related to you and my heart was beating for you as the story unfolded. I wish you the best on finding true love.
You are essentially looking for a man who will give you the level of comfort, support, love and genuine that you had gotten from your father... When you find a brother who's most like your father on just about all levels - that's when you will make that cosmic level connection... Everyone else will simply play a role in your ultimate self development and realization! You will continue to teach, inspire and empower many more to come! *Keep it growing and flowing!*
Love this story time for so many reasons. There are a lot of gems I will take with me as a heterosexual female. Love you, friend. Keep doing what you’re doing.
I’m a firm believer that your ex is an ex for a reason. Thank you for sharing your experience and know that your helping people by being valuable enough to tell your story. I’m strong believer that you’re walking into your greatness! Continue to be great and remember your special and should always be treated specially!
Why is it that people always want you to change for them while they remain the same?
Yea i don't get it
They are allowed to want that...the thing is that YOU have to decide what you want for yourself. I've discovered for my life that people, for the most part, don't/won't/can't completely change who they are. The most you can hope for is them making an adjustment. If you need a big or total change from another human and the personality trait in question is one of your "deal breaker" issues then in my opinion you're better off leaving the siutation and working on healing the pain you're about to go through and finding a better fit for your particular type of love.
Being a person of honor, integrity and kindness can often times leave you alone...and that's not necessarily a bad thing.
@@TripperPlugged will we get a part 2 what happened when your fiance got home from wok did he try to lie and say it was not true like what happened
This dude s a major lier... I was one of the ones n this storytime that he had supposedly purposed to...we were n a 3 and a half year relationship.... I never knew about his secret supposedly life... him and his girlfriend lied to me for whatever reason I dont know but I had no idea about his secret straight life .... I'm jus realizing hes playing me about our life and making a joke about serious stuff... hes a habitual liar,,,, very sick and cannot b trusted... it's sad that u think u know a person and the whole time ur sleeping with the enemy .... b careful because he cares about noone
@@royburgess7309 Huh? This is a confusing post.
As you were telling this story time I was recalling a few similar moments of hurt and disappointment that I’ve experienced. It’s not easy for many to open up and release the betrayals that they been through, or to admit that they didn’t make a good choice. Tripp your story show your vulnerability but also bring to us “cousins” an opportunity for healing, growing better, and becoming really loving humans. Through the tears I shed during this vlog I was also able to feel hope. You proclaim such truth when you say that we have to possess in ourselves the same energy of love that we hope to receive. Thank you for helping a wound in me to get a little better tonight.
Been a long time subscriber but I'm just watching your content and man these videos hit home. Life lessons. I'll never forget the quote "you never go back to what broke you".
Cuzzo...like you said you have to heal and learn from the experience. For all those going through right now remember it hurts like hell when you got your hand in the fire, but when you take it out over time the pain lessens and you heal. Most important to know during that time like Tripp said you have to put your energy into making yourself a better person....not a bitter person.
Bro i just can't get enough from your videos. You seem such a humble caring human being. Hope that you find your soulmate as soon as possible! Cuz you deserve it my favorite Cousin! 👊🏾
You even got Siri listening Tripp😩😂😂😂 That was hilarious! Your storytimes are intense and you're great at telling them👏
right Siri even had to watch this one LMAO
Wow that's horrible.
You are such a great storyteller. Thank you for choosing to be vulnerable and sharing your experiences. This particular story is so relatable and very intense. I'm glad you made it out to the other side. I no longer feel like I'm the only one who went through this. Stay positive king and I send you great vibes and positive energy 🖤🖤🖤
Bro this story so wild!!!! Thanks for sharing and being so transparent with us. Your stories are much appreciated!!!!!
I live for the story times because I can relate to some of them and I love to hear your reactions on the situations
Thank you man, a lot of us go through things I'm just brave enough to share my shit
Hes a liar.... he was my ex for almost four years... he didn't tell me about his supposedly straight relationship.... they both liked for whatever reason... clearly this s what him and his straight friends do...they clearly set people n the lifestyle up... so f u have had conversations b careful because he cares about noone but himself and his undercover girlfriend.... sad sad case
As a 61 year old straight Woman, you really help me.Thank you for your story's 👍
What was intended to break you just made you stronger!
Tripp I can still hear the hurt in ur voice and I feel ur pain but I think u have learned an essential lesson of self love...I pray u find that someone that makes u truly happy..
WOW....What a story!!!
And sometimes people wonder why situations like this ends tragically but it takes a special person like you to handle this the way you handled it. You see its not the broken heart or broken promises that kills, its the broken pride. Thankfully at your age you have mastered the art of managing pride. That my friend is a talent not given to many.Your story is powerful and this channel shows me why you are so convincing in your acting roles. It is coming from a pure place. It is energy that is real and coming from the deepest part of your being and that is your soul.
You have taught someone today how to deal with pride when it is broken in the name of love. You may have a broken heart but you WILL find someone else. Thanks for sharing buddy. Blessings!
And people wonder why most of us have trust issues. The world can be so cruel 😞😞😞
ma whhhhat?!! Thats the truth
B very careful homie..... I used to go with him.... this story time s so made up... he lives n philly.... he the negative of what I went through with him to try to get n my head.... I didn't even realize he was talkin bout our life until a couple of days ago but it's sad that the person I thought I trusted was my enemy the whole time... b very careful because him ,,, his straight friends,,,, and his undercover girlfriend prey on gay people.... I'm jus sayin b careful and warn anybody u know that associated with him to b very careful.... smh
Tripp u touched my heart with this story,Tripp u are one big hearted person with a good soul that an inconsiderate guy took u for granted, but u will be over all of this,I feel it in my bones because there's alot of u in me,I used to think by giving the people who hurt us the most more chances than they really do deserve meant I was being good,only to learn the hard way that it meant they weren't meant for me,but our learning experiences gives us the courage to move on to better things,and what touched me the most in the story was,when u said when God remove certain people from our lives it's for the better,and I'll tell u this tripp ,we are not picky in our relationships, it's just we want certain things that would be meaningful to us,we may be alone but we are not lonely, am glad I tuned in to this channel with u tripp and I believe in my heart there are things we both can relate too,and that is what makes us the true and compassionate individuals we are,we are winners no matter what is thrown at us,and won't have to go in search of love because it will find us,take care tripp love u like my brother.
You are a real transparent person, just sit still because GOD will send you your soulmate and you will be able to receive him. I love your channel, keep grinding.
Honestly tripp I love your stories because I believe ur honesty
Thank you
@@TripperPlugged you very welcome tripp I seen text brown but from those joints you seem pretty legit that's my honest opinion and lol I luv when u b like whatever the case may be I might use that against homophobia or intruders
Tears were rolling down my face man when you was telling your story... I'm one of those people that can mentally and spiritually connect with someone's hurt I don't know why I have such a big heart but I do. I'm sry that you had to go through that but I can see it made you a stronger man. I have been single for years and like you I've been in long-term relationships in the past. I miss being in love.. I miss companionship I miss having loving romantic and passionate sex. I wish and would luv to meet a dude like you.
You are a highly intuitive empath and gatekeeper. It all come along with the territory.
Tripp:
THANK YOU!!!🤜🏾🙇🏾♂️🤛🏾
To 'hear' how you not just 'survived' BUT 'came out' on the 'other side' is a LITERAL lifeline of HOPE in a place where some of us are isolated, drowning and DYING.
ABSOLUTE PROPS TO YOU, BIG BRO' for turning this social media piece right-side up in the show of your strength and vulnerability.
Tripp, the fact is you are saving lives!!!
Thank you so much man thats the reason i do it
@@TripperPlugged You are so respected and loved. Happy Holidays to you and yours😉.
Thanks for this validation bro! Ive been proposed to 3 times and turned them down because I felt it wasnt real...turnt out he was cheating....and the dude he cheated with started inboxing and calling me.
I'm ready to fight man!! I got your back bro. Lord I tried to leave dat life behind me but people keep trying us. You a good person because that situation would have broke the average person down but you you preserved man. Don't look back. It happened to me too bro. I didn't initially handle it as well as you. I almost had a nervous breakdown. It's not worth it. You might reflect on the memories from time to time but you can't thrive with trash in your life. But you are back in Korea right now. Okay do you bro
Im calling you next time LMAO
@@TripperPlugged I got u bro. 💪
Oh my 🙄🙄🙄😏
Thank You for your honesty!! I almost made the mistake of going back to someone that God removed from my life, so I know how easy it is to believe that they changed. But I kept Praying to God to let me see their true intent. And I moved on. 💯
Ugh that guy that he was cheating on you with was trying to stay in contact with you to see if you guys would get back together.
Your going to find the right person. Your to much of a catch. ❤️
Courtney Casares aww I appreciate that so much
Courtney, that right person is me, he just doesn't know it yet... LoL. But seriously, Tripp you seem to be a genuine dude...stay that way! It's all working for your good!!!
Your transparency is always refreshing. Protect your energy!!!!!
I was not going to watch the video because it was so long and I was not going to watch the video because the title reminded me of someone that I don't talk to anymore. But when I tell you I watched every single second of this video and I am so glad I did because not only did I learn a lot but I also heard myself in your story, hoping that someone would love me different when I know that they can't change. Thanks for being so transparent and thank you for the 47 minutes and 57 seconds that I needed to see and hear!
KNOWING YOUR SELF WORTH IS AMAZING! BEING PATIENCE YOU WILL FIND YOUR PERSON💖
I am so sorry that someone would treat you like this. I am happy you are healing from this crazy experience. Stay Strong.
You really deserve someone that would be your one and only Love. You are Amazing .❤
Wow Trip so sorry you had to experience that!....What now? Keep your head up, I know you will. You are not Alone You got a Tribe!!!!!
Man I feel like crying for you. You are strong and deserve to be happy. I hope you find that right person to share your life with.
Bruh I can relate to this story I was living it and now I am finding myself and learning to love myself again. Man thanks Tripp Love you bruh
Damn I had to have a drink on this one...thank you for this storytime and thank you for letting me know that i am not alone....you gave a very positive message in this one maybe my fav one byefar because it relates to me so much but like you said LIFE is something... so will continue to watch and keep them coming!! Thanks Tripp
You're welcome man, thank you so much for watching
real story from a beautiful black man...much luv from EAST Africa
Hey trip. Just wanna say I enjoy listening to you stories and advice. I realize that you actually be getting things off your chest. Not just talking.. I try to keep up as much as possible.. but shout out to you.. and just in general I'lp keep u in my prayers..
Thank you so much
Thank you for this because your helping me. Because I myself is going threw the same shit . He treats me like shit I been trying to distance myself from the pain I feel you.😑 pray for me and I will do the same for everyone out there that's going threw this🙏🙏
Man, I just wanted to give you a bear hug through the phone. But you have a great outlook on life. God has got you.
Thank you, he does
Wow Tripp you said watch the video.... Now I understand how you got to Korea. You have been dealing with a narcissist and this story is a prime example how they can come back into your life years later with a new mask of deception 🎭. But one thing is for sure narcissists don't change their covert manipulating ways. This life experience of yours is a reminder with an exclamation point of not returning to what God has delivered you from. Focusing on yourself is the best solution you can do !🤔..... I stumbled upon your TH-cam channel because you strongly resemble and talk like one of my friends. So much so that I had to see what your channel was about..... And this has been The Craziest Thing That Has Ever Happened To Me ! All Good ! 😉😎
Another great story Tripp. Bless you cuz!
Just found your channel and subscribed! Anyway, I totally agree that love is in the details. The fact that ol' boy didn't propose the proper way, didn't go out of his way to make you feel really special, was definitely an issue. I cannot believe how people take genuine love for granted. That dude really messed up.
Wow, so I'm wondering how long did dude think he was go keep getting away with doing what he was doing. Especially with trying to play a Virgo, cuz eventually it would have came out sooner or later, because they pick up on every little thing. That was just dumb. And I know you spoke a lil bit on it, but I hope you don't blame yourself for being put into this situation. You've got a good heart and that's what you were thinking with. And TBH, after ten years dude should've treated the relationship much better than that. But his loss, because now that's ten years of friendship and love destroyed just like that, that he'll never get back. I think one day when he realizes what he really loss, he's go call you again, so be ready for the b.s. Stay blessed Tripp. Love you Bro.
virgo libra cancer it don't matter about zodiac signs really him being a virgo has nothing to do with his story
Thank you Tripp. So many ppl gave had a similar experience. Dont ignore the RED FLAGS !!!
your story times are the best on youtube
Cousin Tripp,
We both had to learn alot of these lessons on our own. Damn, old boy really played you, when you had so much professional success going on.
Thanks for your Storytimes!
Love from Orlando
Man that is so messed up dude. And your right know your worth. Every dude ain’t like that. His loss keep it moving!
Tripp you are not alone. I just broke up with my dude after 6 years. You hit the nail on the head, he kept showing me who he was over and over again. This was also our second go around at this relationship. He had me kicking it at the homies house and he was fucking him. He was a snake then and he's a snake now lesson learned. Your Mr. Right is out there and so is mine. Keep your head up my brotha.
Hey T, my bro. Since the Universe attracted me to your channel a few days ago, I can't get enough. You are making me feel a certain kind of way, and it's ALL good! How come I didn't meet you before leaving Atlanta just last year? Keep It Up Brother! Much LoVe!!!
Say that bru, I had to learn that listen the hard way. But, I thank God that he allowed me to learn it. & Believe me I have. I'm going to have to play this video over & over & over & over again. Just so it will stick. Thank you Lord 🙏😇🙌, for letting me come across this brother 👊💪💯. Now! I'm going to subscribe, hit that bell to be notified, & thumbs up the video. & Share it if I know how. Peace my brother 🙏.
Tripp's Cuzzins! I like that for your subscribers!
Thanks for sharing this story. I proposed to my ex and he was the one with issues that led us to end the engagement.
You (read: We) deserve love, and you'll have it, with someone who cherishes and values you and what you bring. ❤️
Kurell Julien Yea I feel like y’all my cousins
Tripp you deserve better. It's great that you know that. Thanks for sharing your story with us. I'm hollering at my boy and you're going to be fine. You're family and we're all here for you.That's why we tune in to watch you Tripp cause we care about you brother.
Yea I have a trusting loving heart and sometimes that can be bad for me.
@@TripperPlugged Remember you are human. You did nothing wrong.
🤔😢😤 Sorry, that you had to go through that. Wow, that was very hurtful and "F"ed up. I hope you find that special someone. I'm still wanting and looking.
Wow Tripp. I just saw your video called he proposed to both of us. I'm sorry that happened to you. I've been there myself. I've been cheated on and lied to. I've always been a relationship type of guy as well. In between relationships I remained single until I got into another relationship. I'm single now as well. You will get past this. It is good your taking time for yourself. That is important as well. Thanks for sharing that. So many of us can relate. So your not by yourself in that.. much love.👍
You snatched my soul with this one!!! Its hard to let go of Any Relationship when your not finished with it. I remember not wanting to let go do to the fear of the unknown. I was thinking who is going to love me SWEETLY!! I allowed them to drag me however it was MY RESPONSIBILIY TO GET OFF THE RIDE!!! I understand TODAY, when a MF want to leave, it is mandatory that you let them Go!!!!
Wow. Its a Virgo thing. I gave life to someone and they cheated and lied and even tried to get the side dude to kill me. So u are not alone out there with real life experiences that others would say its just story. Left with one kidney a huge hole in my heart felt unloved couldn't forgive myself to be so stupid . But time heals, and I prayed and cried, cried and prayed until my healing comes.
I still got my scars but I am HEALED!!!!.
So now I leave all those things behind me and pressing forward to what is for me.
Appreciate you Cuz Tripper!!!
Love listening to your stories. It's just a regular day. Your life experiences are amazing.
You seem like such a sensitive yourng man. I hope for you to find the truly love you that you seek for yourself. You deserve it, and so much more.
I will 🙏🏽
@@TripperPlugged Thanks for the reply. Do you still act and rap?
okay so, i wanna fight whoever dude is because he didn’t have to do you like that! 😒
That's why I love you. I knew it was something. Virgo Nation!!! All smiles 😁😁🤔🤔👂👂👀👀😍😍😍🥰🥰😘😘😘
I am learning this. It's time to let go. Move forward with my own life.
Cousin Tripp, you are the world’s best storyteller. And Wise Man.
Cuz I couldn't imagine messing with someone's heart like that. Playing on two peoples emotions. That can get you potentially killed. Buying two rings at the same time and that was ok with him, smh. Professing his love for "only you". Wrong on so many levels cuz. You uprooted yourself to be with him. Man that's sooo wrong. 💙
El Mo yea I know 😪
Okay, we need a part 2!!!! What happen to you living together?? Did you end the relationship?? WE NEED MORE ASAP!!!!!!!!
Just be patient. The perfect person is out there for you. . . .i felt that💯💯
New subbie. I absolutely love your channel. I’m glad you popped up in my recommendations.
Dope story!!! Man!!! When I tell you the same thing happened to me!! Bruh!!!???? I feel you!!! You’re a strong brother to be so vulnerable. It can’t be easy. Thank you!!!
Man that was foul. You so right. I have let the same man back in my life 3 times and it got worse each time. I was free and kept letting him come back. I am free now and feel so much better. I am just working on me again. Love will come; this I am sure of. Thanks bro.
Hey Tripp, for some reason I thought that already looked at this video and gave it a thumbs up. So sorry about that. Man, people suck sometimes. Thanks for the story time. I'm a hopeless romantic too. I've always gotten the short end of the stick. I'm glad you were able to recover from that situation. Things could have gotten ugly messing with people's feelings.
You are so sweet n vunerable I never would have known.
I been waiting for this heart for so long 😍
Thank you for sharing. Your message at the end was what I really needed to hear today! 🌹
thank you thank you for bearing your soul thank you god bless you .you are a beautiful soul one love
I think it's a comfort situation...... Some people don't want to put in the energy of meeting new people and seeing where things go...... So they stick with the person their comfortable with
I feel the same as u do about relationships, but we need to grow to know each other paths and understand each other's feelings.
I Love the way you Love you!
🖤❤🧡💛💚💙💜
I know the feeling all to well... Only difference is that I did get married... I had to accept the fact that I loved someone who love themselves only and thought they could have married life and the single life. Now I'm just focusing on me and not putting others needs before my own. Enough about me... Seriously, thanks for your honesty and willingness to be open. You just gained a true fan, COUSIN....lol
I actually learn from ya post bro. Keep them comin, sorry I'm late asf to ya channel smh.
I don't know how I stumbled across your videos but I am subscribed because dude you have so much insight on a lot of different topics-Chattanooga, Tn here.
Man..... I feel you but on a different level. I was with guy cheated on me most our 9 year relationship, sad part I stay with him after learning about most of the cheating. My best mistake was moving him with when I got job in a new city and state. After a year and half in the new city old dude started back with his cheating ways and said that's it I'm done and I gave him his walking papers. The sad part I wasn't hurt because I been hurt to many times before.
Tripp, as always, you sharing your experiences are extremely insightful and beautiful. I live for your story times. Thank you for sharing!! Much love...216!
Knowledge & Greetings ...
Grip this Wisdom mane
When you allow yourself to Love ...You allow yourself to be hurt, disappointed. I know from experience ...lol
Therefore take time and Love yoself and I see you've matured from what you went thru and from that You learn to walk away from folks and situations that threaten your peace of mind, self respect , values , morals or yo self worth...
I speak many blessings inta ya path, I speak Longevity inta ya life , I speak Love inta ya path and I speak Wisdom and Prosperity as well ...Keep livin mane Jah got cha bac ...✌
Me myself; I don't fight physical unless I have my back against the wall /I fight mentally I need my physical strength to pick up the pieces/ mental strength is so much stronger than physical! Real talk I have a strong back Evan stronger mind; when I love it's strong and hard; and when the other person loves me and I feel it mental \ it's that love that will give me life.
If we don't make it I still have my physical strength to go through that open door that always open up when 1-door shuts. Don't get me wrong I love to be in a relationship - to love and be loved it's a wonderful feeling !!!
Thats devastating yikes.. we have such a similar mindset its crazy. I don't know what i would do.. what a liar..
Thanks so much for sharing your message, I really appreciate and needed to hear that
CUZIN TRIPPER IS A GREAT AND SO REAL...I LOVE HIS HOODNESS...."U IS A ***TRIP**😂😂😂😂❤❤❤
Be careful who you bring into your life, do your research on that person, mental stability physical behavior, and habits.
Love this dude forreal !!
Yes Sir loves is in the details. Wow 😲
Wowwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww this was mind blowing all this time I thought you left America because you wanted to get away to write a book not knowing that it was because of a relationship. What that guy did was so wrong Its unbelievable the things that people do especially what they do to hurt you. I mean to propose to both of you guys like that these guys weren't born with a conscious they have no moral standard or nothing man it's insane that these type of people exists. But for you Tripp to be able to tell a story like this to the world and put yourself out there like that it speaks wonders I am on my way to work and this whole thing just has my heart feeling heavy and worst yet there is this dramatic song that is playing on the radio in the taxi but you are one in 8 billion. You made me believe in love again and not by you finding the relationship or love of your life but by showing me you were always and willing to love all the wrong people, that was flawed , filled with faults and who did you wrong over and over again you continued to love them unconditionally and that what the meaning of what true love is. It's just that you have never found the right person to share that unconditional love with but when you do he will love you for a lifetime and he will filled that void that you feel and so doing he will erased all the heartache and pain that you have ever felt
Caby Trinidad and Tobago limited yes man wanting love has lead to a lot of heartache. I thank God for all the blessings and lessons 🙏🏽💙
@@TripperPlugged its amazing you have remained yourself throughout all this pain and heartache you haven't allowed it to make you into a bitter or hateful person. As you said take the time to get to know you and to grow and become a better person and to make yourself happy and the right person will come around you have inspired me to do the same. I hope to meet you one day Tripp Ali you have touch my soul and my heart
I admire your strength and honesty about your self. At this time in my life I am focusing on other things that is important to me. So relationships is not in my view and that does not mean I am sleeping around that's something in the past. I have enjoyed my life. But I am enjoying your story time. I am going to keep you. Close by
Life experiences and the wisdom acquired in that process is a beautiful thing! #abeautifulmind!
I needed to hear that. Thank you.
You're welcome
Wow from I saw your channel and watch the first video I subscribe..you are really entertaining and your videos are the only that I can watch without skipping..content is awsome much love from the Bahamas 💯💜🧡
Why should you settle? You shouldn’t have to. I didn’t. I have the highest standards imaginable. I was married to the most loving & trust-worthy man for 23 years. I lost him recently to cancer & it literally destroyed my entire world. I’m not one to date here & there. Sleeping around has never been ok with me. I still have those high standards & I may or may not find someone new. That’s ok. Virgo’s do quite well by themselves 😉
See I’m straight up 💯all the time I’m extremely honest I think that’s what the problem is and my expectations and standereds and principles and morals are way above the mark ugh it’s the way I was brought up I guess
You have standards. You are a quality man. Wish I could have a straight man w/ those same qualities. That type of quality is hard to come by straight or gay🤷🏾♀️
Ayyyyyyye...first comment again your videos are always confirmation to why as a gay black man my decision to remain single for the rest of my life.
lol there's good people out there, just harder to find
Tripper Plugged I don’t doubt it in just in deep in my career that matters more than love
You have a wonderful spirit and heart.