Assalamu aleykum ve rahmatullahi ve barakatuh. May Allah give you a smile on your face brother/sister who reads this. May you be happy all the time and Allah grant you the good you have in your heart. Ameen
Nabi Mohamed Sallalahu Alayhi wassalam. May Allah protect us their evilness. They are looking for temporary happiness, which is why they are insulting people. Jazakallah khairan Sheikh ❤
How to deal with sister in law she keeps on insulting me, taunting me, talks on my back talk any thing rubbish and even curse me and on my face behaves very nicely
Assalamu alaikum brother. Will u pls tell us how to handle with drunken husband. He is not a alcoholic but rerely he puts him in that situation. It gives me much depression fearing allah. He also regreats and do the same in intervals, pls give me a advicce. Inshallah. Jazakallah khair
Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, dear sister. 🌸 First of all, may Allah (SWT) bless you for your patience and concern for your husband’s well-being and your family’s deen. It’s clear that you care deeply, and this is a sign of your love and sincerity. May Allah ease your heart and grant you strength. 🤲✨ Alcohol is indeed a serious matter in Islam, as it’s something Allah (SWT) has prohibited for our own good. Allah says in the Qur'an: *"O you who have believed, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone alters [to other than Allah], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid it that you may be successful."* (Surah Al-Ma'idah 5:90). Since your husband is not addicted but struggles occasionally, this shows there is hope, Alhamdulillah. Here are some steps you can take, insha’Allah: ### 1. **Make Dua for Him Constantly** 🤲 Never underestimate the power of dua. Ask Allah to guide his heart and help him overcome this struggle. Say: *"Ya Muqallibal Quloob, thabbit qalbahu ‘ala deenik"* (O Turner of hearts, make his heart steadfast upon Your religion). Remember, Allah is the ultimate changer of hearts. 🌿 ### 2. **Speak to Him Gently and with Wisdom** 🕊️ When he is calm and in a good state of mind, talk to him lovingly about how this affects you, your family, and his relationship with Allah. Remind him of the beauty of staying away from what displeases Allah without being harsh or judgmental. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: *"The best of you are those who are best to their families."* (Tirmidhi). Let him know how much you believe in his ability to improve. ### 3. **Encourage Him to Strengthen His Iman** 🕌 Sometimes, falling into sins happens when our connection with Allah weakens. Encourage him to pray regularly, read Qur'an, or join Islamic gatherings where he can be reminded of Allah’s mercy and guidance. Surrounding oneself with good company is crucial. The Prophet ﷺ said: *"A person is likely to follow the faith of his friend, so look at whom you befriend."* (Abu Dawood). ### 4. **Seek Professional Help if Needed** 🌱 If this behavior persists, consider seeking help from a trusted Islamic counselor or scholar who can advise him in a way that aligns with both deen and psychology. Sometimes, external support can make a big difference. ### 5. **Take Care of Yourself Too** 🌺 Sister, your mental and emotional health matters as well. Don’t let this situation overwhelm you. Continue to turn to Allah in salah and dhikr for comfort. Remember that your patience and efforts are seen by Allah, and He will reward you abundantly for every tear and every prayer. 💖 Lastly, remind him that repentance is always open as long as we are alive. Allah (SWT) says: *"Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves."* (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:222). Let him know that his regret is a sign of faith (imaan), and with sincere effort, he can overcome this insha’Allah. May Allah guide your husband, strengthen your marriage, and fill your home with barakah and tranquility. 🌹 Ameen ya Rabb al-Alameen. Jazakillahu khairan for reaching out, dear sister. Stay strong and trust in Allah’s plan. 💕 If you need more advice or support, feel free to ask anytime. 😊
@@SamihJad jazakallah khair brother. I always rely on allah, alhamdulillah. May allah accept our thauba and grant us jannah. May allah bless u and your family abundantly brother. Allah is sufficient for us.
Sheikh, why some ppl get things easy but dome others hv to do 30k istigfar n albaqarah fr Allah to give marriage n money? Why some barely even pray but get everything? I hv no hope sometimes. He says he is near n listens but feels like he pushes me away.. y?
On the day of judgment you may have a higher station than others because of your Sabr and acts of worship to Allah SWT. Materialistic things are not a sign of Allah’s love for someone ❤ don’t give up hope, Allah SWT has the best plan for youuu 💕
Allah gives to whom he wish,We can't question it,but those that make more like surah Bakarah and istirthar,have different levels and reward,Allah y arlam...my advice focus on what you can do! Allah bless you, Ameen
Very important topic so many people are dealing with this issue thank for giving us knowledge according Islam ☪️
Alhumdullilah, immense gratitude for a discourse on this topic. Sheikh I request you to kindly make dua for my son to follow the path of Deen🤲 Aameen
beautiful channel alhamdulilah
Shukran sheikh may Allah grant you jannah ❤❤❤.
Assalamu alaykum wa ramatuallah wa barakatul Sheikh.
MachaAllah ❤❤❤
Assalamu aleykum ve rahmatullahi ve barakatuh. May Allah give you a smile on your face brother/sister who reads this. May you be happy all the time and Allah grant you the good you have in your heart. Ameen
Assalam aleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatuh, my mother is very toxic and she's a narcissist she's a Muslim but not a good one I pray Allah guides her
@@naimanimo4925 how can you say that yak that is no good speaking because is your mother
Don't say anything bad against your parents where they are bad or not an advice from sheikh dr muhammad salah
I think you mean you are being tested and May Allah make it easy for you.
May Allah make it easy for you. Maybe it's a test from Allah that if you pass it, it grants you jannah. May Allah give you sabr.
Assalamualikum ustaz Alhamdulillah very good bayan🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹
Nabi Mohamed Sallalahu Alayhi wassalam. May Allah protect us their evilness. They are looking for temporary happiness, which is why they are insulting people. Jazakallah khairan Sheikh ❤
Barak Allah Feekom sister
Aameen
Jazakaallahu Khair for sharing this great deeds with us. ❤❤❤❤❤. Thank you so much.
JIZAKA ALLAH SHEIKH
Jazakallah khyair. It is very useful and helpful information mashallah.
Asalam aleikum warahmatullahi wabarakatu sheikh
Assalamualaikum! How to perform. ghusul or cleaning without water? Options please will be appreciated. Thank you! Salamualaikum.
How to deal with sister in law she keeps on insulting me, taunting me, talks on my back talk any thing rubbish and even curse me and on my face behaves very nicely
Assalamu alaikum brother. Will u pls tell us how to handle with drunken husband. He is not a alcoholic but rerely he puts him in that situation. It gives me much depression fearing allah. He also regreats and do the same in intervals, pls give me a advicce. Inshallah. Jazakallah khair
Wa alaikum assalam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh, dear sister. 🌸
First of all, may Allah (SWT) bless you for your patience and concern for your husband’s well-being and your family’s deen. It’s clear that you care deeply, and this is a sign of your love and sincerity. May Allah ease your heart and grant you strength. 🤲✨
Alcohol is indeed a serious matter in Islam, as it’s something Allah (SWT) has prohibited for our own good. Allah says in the Qur'an: *"O you who have believed, indeed, intoxicants, gambling, [sacrificing on] stone alters [to other than Allah], and divining arrows are but defilement from the work of Satan, so avoid it that you may be successful."* (Surah Al-Ma'idah 5:90).
Since your husband is not addicted but struggles occasionally, this shows there is hope, Alhamdulillah. Here are some steps you can take, insha’Allah:
### 1. **Make Dua for Him Constantly** 🤲
Never underestimate the power of dua. Ask Allah to guide his heart and help him overcome this struggle. Say:
*"Ya Muqallibal Quloob, thabbit qalbahu ‘ala deenik"* (O Turner of hearts, make his heart steadfast upon Your religion). Remember, Allah is the ultimate changer of hearts. 🌿
### 2. **Speak to Him Gently and with Wisdom** 🕊️
When he is calm and in a good state of mind, talk to him lovingly about how this affects you, your family, and his relationship with Allah. Remind him of the beauty of staying away from what displeases Allah without being harsh or judgmental. The Prophet Muhammad ﷺ said: *"The best of you are those who are best to their families."* (Tirmidhi). Let him know how much you believe in his ability to improve.
### 3. **Encourage Him to Strengthen His Iman** 🕌
Sometimes, falling into sins happens when our connection with Allah weakens. Encourage him to pray regularly, read Qur'an, or join Islamic gatherings where he can be reminded of Allah’s mercy and guidance. Surrounding oneself with good company is crucial. The Prophet ﷺ said: *"A person is likely to follow the faith of his friend, so look at whom you befriend."* (Abu Dawood).
### 4. **Seek Professional Help if Needed** 🌱
If this behavior persists, consider seeking help from a trusted Islamic counselor or scholar who can advise him in a way that aligns with both deen and psychology. Sometimes, external support can make a big difference.
### 5. **Take Care of Yourself Too** 🌺
Sister, your mental and emotional health matters as well. Don’t let this situation overwhelm you. Continue to turn to Allah in salah and dhikr for comfort. Remember that your patience and efforts are seen by Allah, and He will reward you abundantly for every tear and every prayer. 💖
Lastly, remind him that repentance is always open as long as we are alive. Allah (SWT) says:
*"Indeed, Allah loves those who are constantly repentant and loves those who purify themselves."* (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:222). Let him know that his regret is a sign of faith (imaan), and with sincere effort, he can overcome this insha’Allah.
May Allah guide your husband, strengthen your marriage, and fill your home with barakah and tranquility. 🌹 Ameen ya Rabb al-Alameen.
Jazakillahu khairan for reaching out, dear sister. Stay strong and trust in Allah’s plan. 💕 If you need more advice or support, feel free to ask anytime. 😊
@@SamihJad jazakallah khair brother. I always rely on allah, alhamdulillah. May allah accept our thauba and grant us jannah. May allah bless u and your family abundantly brother. Allah is sufficient for us.
Sheikh, why some ppl get things easy but dome others hv to do 30k istigfar n albaqarah fr Allah to give marriage n money? Why some barely even pray but get everything? I hv no hope sometimes. He says he is near n listens but feels like he pushes me away.. y?
On the day of judgment you may have a higher station than others because of your Sabr and acts of worship to Allah SWT. Materialistic things are not a sign of Allah’s love for someone ❤ don’t give up hope, Allah SWT has the best plan for youuu 💕
Allah gives to whom he wish,We can't question it,but those that make more like surah Bakarah and istirthar,have different levels and reward,Allah y arlam...my advice focus on what you can do! Allah bless you, Ameen
Sheik how can be hufad