I have the same synastry with someone my Venus square his Saturn. It’s been a nightmare. 4 years that feels like a 30 year relationship. He is very disrespectful and criticizes me a lot for no reason when his entire life is messed up and mine is good. He sees me as the problem cause I want a relationship and he wants to be a player. It’s time for me to go. 🙏🏽
@@teswinderkaur705 I left a few times and he kept coming back but then I really focused on loving and healing me and we had one last argument and we haven’t spoken since. I have so much peace since because I learned to love and heal myself. 🥰🙏🏽
@@RetroVenusAstrology I disagree. Even trines from saturn on your personal planets can feel harsh at times. I think having both venus square saturn and saturn trine saturn will only create more harsh saturn energy. Not fun
synastry both our saturn and venus is double whammy conjuction . my venus in aries her saturn in aries and venus in scorpio and my saturn in scorpio . is this good coz . i feel the i lmtensity and mixed signals from her .
Conjunction aspect is considered a ‘hard aspect’ but it also can be a good aspect. Most astrologers put the conjunction as a positive. A square creates tension. Opposition can be off and on. Inconjunction can be frustrating. Conjunction can cause some friction, but if it is ‘bad’ in anyway, it’s like two friends being in a small room…a bit too close. A little bit like slow dancing but perhaps occasionally stepping on each others toes, which can become annoying after a while, but commitment is still there. Saturn conjunct Venus is a marriage aspect I think. A trine would be better maybe. Mixed signals would not be from this aspect. Remember two people could have great synastry but no spark of love from God. Sounds like things are either moving too fast for her or she needs time and space to decide. Generally that’s what mixed signals are about.
Sounds like a double dose of Saturn energy. Transiting Saturn’s square to natal Venus can make life uncomfortable (thankfully for only a month or so). For example, you may have to take cold showers or live in spartan conditions because Saturn is cold and harsh while Venus is comfort. In synastry, Saturn square Venus is very challenging, it can make the Venus person feel unloved. Saturn attacks Venus’s self-esteem to make her stay with him because Saturn himself is very insecure, especially in the presence of beautiful Venus
People with this aspect can often be drawn to those where this aspect is in the synastry between them. Our natal aspects are something we feel familiar with. Having these relationships can be a way to gain understanding.
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I have the same synastry with someone my Venus square his Saturn. It’s been a nightmare. 4 years that feels like a 30 year relationship. He is very disrespectful and criticizes me a lot for no reason when his entire life is messed up and mine is good. He sees me as the problem cause I want a relationship and he wants to be a player. It’s time for me to go. 🙏🏽
How is it working out for you? This is the same thing going on for me.. when you leave did he try coming back ?
@@teswinderkaur705 I left a few times and he kept coming back but then I really focused on loving and healing me and we had one last argument and we haven’t spoken since. I have so much peace since because I learned to love and heal myself. 🥰🙏🏽
Makes complete sense. Ty for sharing.
I have saturn squaring Venus in Capricorn. Love IS work. 😊
Do you think this aspect works when people are more mature like in their 30s or older?
Why did you call it a situationship instead of a relationship?
Thanks a lot for sharing! But what if there's a trine Jupiter-Venus alongside with this square? Still a dealbreaker?
such an informative vid, thanks. My saturn square his venus but his saturn trine my venus, you think its possible to work? Thanks
Thank you 🙏😊 That trine sounds promising! It should ameliorate the harsher influence of the square
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@@RetroVenusAstrology I disagree. Even trines from saturn on your personal planets can feel harsh at times. I think having both venus square saturn and saturn trine saturn will only create more harsh saturn energy. Not fun
Once the Venus leave will the Saturn come back?
synastry both our saturn and venus is double whammy conjuction . my venus in aries her saturn in aries and venus in scorpio and my saturn in scorpio . is this good coz . i feel the i lmtensity and mixed signals from her .
Conjunction aspect is considered a ‘hard aspect’ but it also can be a good aspect. Most astrologers put the conjunction as a positive. A square creates tension. Opposition can be off and on. Inconjunction can be frustrating. Conjunction can cause some friction, but if it is ‘bad’ in anyway, it’s like two friends being in a small room…a bit too close. A little bit like slow dancing but perhaps occasionally stepping on each others toes, which can become annoying after a while, but commitment is still there. Saturn conjunct Venus is a marriage aspect I think. A trine would be better maybe.
Mixed signals would not be from this aspect. Remember two people could have great synastry but no spark of love from God. Sounds like things are either moving too fast for her or she needs time and space to decide. Generally that’s what mixed signals are about.
Saturn has the potential to always be harsh even in the soft aspects. It's the way of saturn.
How would the saturn square venus natal transit affect when it is also an aspect in the synastry chart? Thanks
Sounds like a double dose of Saturn energy. Transiting Saturn’s square to natal Venus can make life uncomfortable (thankfully for only a month or so). For example, you may have to take cold showers or live in spartan conditions because Saturn is cold and harsh while Venus is comfort. In synastry, Saturn square Venus is very challenging, it can make the Venus person feel unloved. Saturn attacks Venus’s self-esteem to make her stay with him because Saturn himself is very insecure, especially in the presence of beautiful Venus
Also transiting Saturn square Venus can affect finances, you might have to be frugal while the aspect is strong
Thank you
If i have this aspect in my natal chart and also with him it didn't work??
People with this aspect can often be drawn to those where this aspect is in the synastry between them. Our natal aspects are something we feel familiar with. Having these relationships can be a way to gain understanding.