ASKING MY BOYFRIEND QUESTIONS GIRLS ARE TOO AFRAID TO ASK

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  • @thebrownivory9670
    @thebrownivory9670 4 ปีที่แล้ว +707

    No one:
    Demetre: 🤜🏼🤚🏽🤜🏼🤚🏽🤜🏼🤚🏽🤜🏼🤚🏽🤜🏼🤚🏽

  • @rae4828
    @rae4828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +975

    Dem might sound harsh but he’s being honest listen to him ladies lmaoooo

    • @jofreeman9517
      @jofreeman9517 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Sooo true. I have heard that too. Women mature faster than men.

    • @furahmbile6455
      @furahmbile6455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True ! I really opened my ears and heard everything 👌

    • @0zem
      @0zem 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      As a man, I have a different answer on almost every question (apart from 3:20 lol). These are just his observations, but most of them are not on point imo

    • @TheJube97
      @TheJube97 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Truth!!

    • @straightshootah7550
      @straightshootah7550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@0zem they are on point for me

  • @jamyldobson6538
    @jamyldobson6538 4 ปีที่แล้ว +270

    It may sound harsh but Dem was being 💯! No lies detected.

  • @ashleighdeane8044
    @ashleighdeane8044 4 ปีที่แล้ว +179

    Def here for a "Ask Dr. Dem" series. Laughed through this whole thing. "Your not catching a football!" 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂

    • @missopal6707
      @missopal6707 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      P

    • @hellopumpkin86
      @hellopumpkin86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      They can add theme music and everything! 🤣

  • @evalaurent5276
    @evalaurent5276 4 ปีที่แล้ว +213

    Honestly I don’t get how people don’t watch until the end!! Sometimes I REWIND the video just to keep laughing at the funny parts 🤣🤣 or the parts when you guys say insightful things. I love and appreciate ya’ll!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      You’re a real one! ❤️❤️

    • @delightkwenah3580
      @delightkwenah3580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same here sis. I have watched all of their videos and im re-watching them

    • @hyelicious
      @hyelicious 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sameeee hahahaha

    • @IslandLakeIL
      @IslandLakeIL 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because they are annoying & obnoxious. Like when you're sober hanging w friends who are drunk. They're obnoxious. A little humor is good, but they annoyed the crap out of me w the constant laughing & internal conversations. Talk to your audience, not your girlfriend/boyfriend. Who has time to wait through all that? Not me & sadly, it's a good topic.

  • @EmmyElle.
    @EmmyElle. 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    Online dating is the scariest shit ever to me, like anyone that uses tinder or whatever, props to you. It takes balls and confidence to put yourself out there where anyone/everyone can see your pics etc.

    • @Tommyant999
      @Tommyant999 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You really feel like it does it’s just something guys to do try for girls when you’re a introvert like me

  • @DemandIka
    @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    DEM WILL BE RESPONDING TO MOST OF THE QUESTIONS FOR THIS VIDEO! - - WE LOVE YOU GUYS!!!! ❤️

    • @rebeccamujinga764
      @rebeccamujinga764 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Waouh I just started watching your videos and I am in love with you guys stay happy and bless ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @melaniedaisy9594
    @melaniedaisy9594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +331

    It’s so annoying that us women have to deal with “men don’t mature til 35” excuse lol. That’s people excuse for all the stupid things men do lol😩

    • @yokimknock5245
      @yokimknock5245 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hp

    • @adrinshams8483
      @adrinshams8483 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      What's so fun and good about growing up and being "mature" I always keep my inner child alive and well especially when I interact with a child . Nothing in this world and the shot amount of time we have need to be Dead serious . Men should be more responsible that's it

    • @samaramorgan8290
      @samaramorgan8290 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      It's the society that teaches girls to be polite, kind and mature and boys can have their fun cause they're just boys. That's the difference.

    • @armingleiner5292
      @armingleiner5292 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Being "mature" is extremely boring though 😴

    • @chajenawallace4509
      @chajenawallace4509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I study Education in college, and scientifically it has been proven than girls get mature faster, get better grades younger and become focused younger

  • @SimoneandPat
    @SimoneandPat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +178

    Y’all giving us back to back videos I ain’t mad..Dem is hilarious

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Thank you guys!!! ❤️

  • @susanelezebeth
    @susanelezebeth 4 ปีที่แล้ว +914

    I still remember when you guys met on big brother and would love a video of a reaction to that episode!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +249

      Great idea!!!

    • @fatgirlmagic4703
      @fatgirlmagic4703 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      Yasssssss. I would watch in a heartbeat

    • @makaylataylor8491
      @makaylataylor8491 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Reactions to a lot of their popular clips would be great!

    • @bri9
      @bri9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Same!! I remember Dem being in awe of Ika's beauty lol

    • @skylerlewis7821
      @skylerlewis7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yes! Me too 😁

  • @kerryp4853
    @kerryp4853 4 ปีที่แล้ว +234

    Demetres throwing shade at the 45 year olds saying they faking being mature😂 ika originally was looking for a 45 year old man before she met dem . The shade 😂😂🤣🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

      You see what I did there 🤣 - dem

    • @surebeen8123
      @surebeen8123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@DemandIka lol😁😂😂😂😂😂

  • @brendatheobalds1033
    @brendatheobalds1033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Dem my son is 28 years old, He is very mature, He has always been that way. Mentally, physically and spiritually, He is very career driven, I am extremely blessed. Maybe most men, but not everyone.

    • @therealone8628
      @therealone8628 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Lucky you. God bless him

    • @sadiayasin6297
      @sadiayasin6297 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      My brother is 24. Very mature . Responsible. He is banker , working at job for 3 yrs now. Leaving with brother. Goes to college, and drives 2020 car.

    • @isabellalora6533
      @isabellalora6533 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You’re lucky :)

    • @LaDeeDah
      @LaDeeDah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      But you dont know him from a romantic lens like a woman does

  • @sihamabdelqader2788
    @sihamabdelqader2788 4 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    This is seriously my favorite video of you guys, THE REALNESS, THE LOVE BETWEEN YOU GUYS, THE LAUGHTER, THE CHEMISTRY. JUST EVERYTHING WAS SUCH A VIBE THAT IM WRITING THIS IS CAPS. LOL I LOVE YOU GUYS SERIOUSLY.

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @Palomatessa
    @Palomatessa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +374

    Ika with the bleeps lmao trying to stay monetized around here 😂 smart queen

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      I told her to leave it in 🤣 she didn’t listen lol

    • @Bmolikeme
      @Bmolikeme 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@DemandIka I’m gonna need the uncensored version because I really want to know lmao 😂

    • @jessgtz22
      @jessgtz22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yesss I want to know the uncensored

    • @picklesims
      @picklesims 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I want to know too!!!!!

  • @best6username6ever
    @best6username6ever 4 ปีที่แล้ว +459

    Ika we need the uncensored version!! 😂😂😂 inquiring minds want to know

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

      I told her to leave it - she thought it was too much 😂😂 - dem

    • @SimoneandPat
      @SimoneandPat 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yes we wanna know lmao

    • @DobbyDob
      @DobbyDob 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      WAP

    • @billbill4939
      @billbill4939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Robin Dawe 😂😂😂

    • @mellissawilliams
      @mellissawilliams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      seosone He probably said P@#$y

  • @tsquad993
    @tsquad993 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    I love how Ika and Dem talk with there hands. I thought I was the only one who's does that.... 😂🤣

  • @MA-qz4ue
    @MA-qz4ue 3 ปีที่แล้ว +124

    As much as I appreciate this guys honesty, he’s just one dude. He’s opinions are based on his lifestyle and experiences. Ladies don’t base your decisions on one dude on the internet. Just do your thing 😁

    • @Moon_Puff
      @Moon_Puff 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Yup! He literally says it at the beginning

    • @sylvanaleijten844
      @sylvanaleijten844 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes I mean with the texting one, he’s a gamer I don’t even expect him to answer immediately and sometimes he does

    • @kerrypalmer3914
      @kerrypalmer3914 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Moon_Puff right!

  • @nicoleiriza3546
    @nicoleiriza3546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    I literally watch every video of yours five times🤦‍♀️ i don’t understand how some people don’t watch their videos till the end like how??? I love you guys so much ❤️❤️

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awh thank you!!!! 🥺❤️

  • @SvnChanel
    @SvnChanel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    I have to admit, Dr Dems answers will help a lot of girls trying to dissect a guys feelings and intentions. Sometimes the guy is just not that into us 🤷🏽‍♀️ we can save time and find someone worthy!

  • @hamz4383
    @hamz4383 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That’s sooooo true. I’m 37 with 2 sensational kids , a wife , a house , a mortgage , 2 cars etc etc . I do mature things but that immature 20 year old will forever be inside me. Which I love which my wife has learned to over the years lol. But I find if you guys do matures things women let men’s immature side slide. Great video.

  • @Genandrashaun
    @Genandrashaun 4 ปีที่แล้ว +97

    I’m obsessed with the honesty in this video 😂 I’m going to refer this video to my homegirls that’s always questioning or wondering about men’s thoughts and motives
    - Gen

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you!!!!!! ❤️❤️

  • @3ll3ayy
    @3ll3ayy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    “Some dating apps have a reputation for 🤜✋” 😂

  • @WinewithKadz
    @WinewithKadz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Y'all killing me 🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂
    "You had your fun..Now keep it moving!" 💀💀
    I love this!

  • @LianeSpicer
    @LianeSpicer 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Dr Dem, thank you for telling it like it is. I'm probably older than your moms, Dem and Ika, and I tell all the younguns out there, this is TRUTH. Men are not like our fantasies of them. Don't waste years of your life chasing after illusions. Trini in the house!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are right!!💯 thanks for leaving a comment!!

  • @Dijahsworldd
    @Dijahsworldd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I love this TH-cam couple channel literally my favourite

    • @racqueljames6124
      @racqueljames6124 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. It’s all true listen to him ladies. 🇹🇹

  • @shubikl9826
    @shubikl9826 3 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    Guys I discovered your channel recently and usually HATE this concept of couple's channel but you too seem very genuine and cute. Like the sense of humour too. I actually just watched the whole video and I must say though I am older than you, that was really interesting! Thanks Dr. Dem for answering some questions I never asked (kinda gave me insights into my own situation too! ) Definitely want a part 2 !

    • @tikosharoan9977
      @tikosharoan9977 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Me too it's so nice

    • @shynetymeinspiration
      @shynetymeinspiration 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same was complete accident but im grateful yous didnt waste my time i wa in tears of laughter lol

  • @billyingram5394
    @billyingram5394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    That's why I like you 2. Its because you are not afraid to ask the questions that everyone wants the answer to. Cant wait to see no. 2

  • @dennismagloire8918
    @dennismagloire8918 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    “The part guys looking at my girlfriend” is so accurate, as a young man 💯 goes to you buddy it’s always mix feelings😩🤣. And it was the nod for me🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @4eversheilaw413
    @4eversheilaw413 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

    Enjoyed this q&a. I can't imagine why anyone wouldn't watch the entire video. Looking forward to pt. 2 ❤

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Thank you Sheila!!!! Love you

    • @skylerlewis7821
      @skylerlewis7821 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes we’re requesting a part 2 for sure

  • @Essbeexo20
    @Essbeexo20 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    “Ok baby? You can love me more if you want” 🥺😩😭🥺

  • @rosebruno217
    @rosebruno217 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m dying LMAO tears my husband wants to know if something is wrong me Ika!! You’re one of a kind ......keep it up girl you’re doing something right🥰

  • @patriceminto5428
    @patriceminto5428 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    This was hilarious 😂🤣 y’all keep making my day over and over! Being as blunt as you guys normally are made this video so much better than many other videos like these. I’m loving the consistency with the uploads btw ❤️❤️

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!!! 🙏🏻🙏🏾

  • @shakshak212
    @shakshak212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I know this is old school but I appreciate the fact that he introduced you. Nice touch.

  • @michellejoseph3416
    @michellejoseph3416 4 ปีที่แล้ว +576

    “Your man, Your Ex man & Future Man” lol 😂

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      😂

    • @monicad.1327
      @monicad.1327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dr. Dem was in point lol

    • @lundisoso
      @lundisoso 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Dem had me in stitches at that line 🤣

    • @935164122093
      @935164122093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      He was being REAL AF hahaha

    • @syhbiljeremie7630
      @syhbiljeremie7630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀

  • @shaniaa1295
    @shaniaa1295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    If this man smacks his hands one more time🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      😬😬😬😬😬 - dem

  • @storyzest
    @storyzest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    This vid cracked me up🤣😂 you guys are really funny and lighthearted, that's what we need in these crazy times! Keep it up🤗

  • @caralystra
    @caralystra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +133

    Now finish saying my prayers for bed as I closed my eyes I heard the notification. 🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      Thanks for interrupting the bed time for us babe ❤️

    • @vthomas372
      @vthomas372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      OMG!!! Me too.😂

    • @dee_is_me
      @dee_is_me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹 I love watching these videos

    • @allyssahinds8482
      @allyssahinds8482 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹🇹

    • @calebspratts1218
      @calebspratts1218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Hey trinis!!!!! .👋👋

  • @withlove3995
    @withlove3995 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Boys who are working in the medical field don’t respond that fast, that doesn’t mean they aren’t interested..
    This is also valid for woman 🧿❤️

    • @sylvanaleijten844
      @sylvanaleijten844 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Or gamers 🥲 ik that’s not “valid” but i game myself and I know I won’t be responding immediately either

    • @dynamitethunderstruck8723
      @dynamitethunderstruck8723 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Tbh except in the honeymoon phase most people don't answer when they're busy

  • @JamesBryant9
    @JamesBryant9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +219

    Ika is so beautiful 😍

  • @DannyLeinadSylvan
    @DannyLeinadSylvan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I want a Dem asks Ika all the burning questions men want to know about women video!!! 🙌🏾

  • @DrAmandaMabhula
    @DrAmandaMabhula 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I like this ‘ask Dr Dem’ 😂 segment maybe you guys can do it once every 3-4 months

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I like this idea lol 👨🏻‍⚕️ - dem

  • @carsx5
    @carsx5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    You guys are my favorite couples!!!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      🙏🏻🙏🏾

  • @hischackkkxo
    @hischackkkxo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    I met my fiancé on POF, and we are getting married in 4 days!!! it will be our 6 year anniversary 💙

  • @magicoflife1169
    @magicoflife1169 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    My husband and I met online 15 years ago. Initial intent was just to meet up and take it from there... we’re still married 🙂

  • @huda111
    @huda111 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    That maturity talk hit me so hard and I guess it's true 🤷🏽‍♀️ they will never get the level of maturity you want😎 btw Dem is the 3rd man who says that the stretch marks and cellulite don't mean anything to men 😁

  • @kerrypalmer3914
    @kerrypalmer3914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    You guys are spoiling us with all these great videos 😍

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We’re happy you like them ❤️

  • @thespecialmamoyo5348
    @thespecialmamoyo5348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Thanks to Dem for being so honest and open with the questions! Love you guys from Alberta❤️

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      My home!!!!!

  • @brandoncrooks7248
    @brandoncrooks7248 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    lol yea Dem is giving great insight ... and definitely being corny NEVER ends haha !

  • @kvng9780
    @kvng9780 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Love you guys!!!! Dem you are appreciated here quit playing!!! Ika you mah yaaadyy badddddiie 🔥

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Big up! ❤️

  • @kay141
    @kay141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Omg I just woke up and this is the first thing I saw,thanks dr.dem for your honesty pls make part 2 .And also, thank you ika for sure that you kidnapped him from his busy schedule to shoot the video. We love you so much.

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We love you too ❤️❤️

  • @MrSergej24
    @MrSergej24 4 ปีที่แล้ว +67

    HEY!!!! LOVE YOU IKA & DEM SO MUCH
    4AM in Serbia I was about to go to bed, but this has to go first.

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Omgosh thank you so much!!!!!! 🙏🏾🙏🏻

    • @christineawuor1835
      @christineawuor1835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      5am in Nairobi

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Christine Awuor thanks for watching ❤️

  • @helviuushona
    @helviuushona 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Been here for quite a while now, and I definitely have to admit that I love it here. Starting with the content, couple, editing, humor, the overall quality of the video & record is S U P E R B. I love it! ♥️

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!!! Thanks for sticking with us

  • @dorcyevz
    @dorcyevz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Ika can’t manage Dr. Dem... Waiting on Ika to pop her head out in the real estate videos, n be like yes I’m still here.

  • @renenunya3363
    @renenunya3363 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    To answer ur question about maturity, it's a medical fact that men's frontal lobes do not develop until their twenties. Most would say their seventies, by then it's nearly time to start putting them in diapers again. XD

    • @bnicolette81
      @bnicolette81 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      🤣🤣🤣🤣💀💀💀💀 I’m so dead...this was pure savagery

    • @kemery22222
      @kemery22222 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      That’s not just men, that’s everyone. I think the commonly agreed age is 25.

  • @rz7600
    @rz7600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The honesty was so refreshing , thank you Dem!

  • @glendatigirigi5743
    @glendatigirigi5743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +229

    "Mr Right is not on tinder"
    Me: Engaged to Mr Right who I met on tinder

    • @servingwithpurpose
      @servingwithpurpose 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Me too lol

    • @catboyYuta
      @catboyYuta 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      You guys are the exception, not the rule. The rule is that Mr. or Mrs. Right will not be on dating apps.

    • @chavidcruz767
      @chavidcruz767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      There are many people who met on dating apps and are actually perfect together. Some friends of my own..

    • @kathleen7522
      @kathleen7522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Lol I met my BF of three years on Bumble so same

    • @acinamatata6342
      @acinamatata6342 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same

  • @shaniaa1295
    @shaniaa1295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    YES TO THE REAL ESTATE CHANNEL!!

  • @itsnwamaka
    @itsnwamaka 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please do another video! The reason I love y'all channel is such how unfiltered and honest Dem is and how Ika is carefree and bold she is!

  • @caitlinbrown9049
    @caitlinbrown9049 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I feel like we could make so many GIFs from this video lol. Especially the "if you wanna meet mr. Right on 🤜, you better be prepared to 🤜". Get on that demetres!

  • @sharonjoymcdaniel5388
    @sharonjoymcdaniel5388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Nearly 20 minutes and still too short! Lots of fun. Love from Kingston 6!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      We’re happy you like it 🙌🏾❤️

  • @shaniaa1295
    @shaniaa1295 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    It's after 10pm here in trinidad🇹🇹 what is this video!!!!
    That intro alone had me laughing ready to wake up the neighbors🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      😂😂😂😂 tek time 😂

  • @mimilili99
    @mimilili99 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    About the maturity thing...it feels to me like women can be as immature or more but society just "tolerate" immature behavior from men because of...sexism. Everybody has the ability to mature, most of people will act as king kids if they can, and most people will mature when they have no other choice. That's my opinion...

  • @atashajames5408
    @atashajames5408 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love how often y'all are putting out these videos since coming back from y'all break. Blessings 🙏🙏🙏 Everytime ❤️ ❤️❤️

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      We’d and sat!

  • @thorpe1128
    @thorpe1128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    "You had your fun, now keep it moving"
    😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂😂

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @sharonbagwell6388
    @sharonbagwell6388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Omg! I love this. I want to watch a 2nd episode of ask Dr. Dem please. I love you guys love ❤🙏🇯🇲

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      We’ll make sure to get another vid like this out for you guys ❤️

  • @elineg6259
    @elineg6259 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm dying, ask Dr. Dem 🤣🤣 why must he be extra. Lol
    But in all honesty Dem was speaking facts. As a women and having experience, he ain't lying. Love you guys channel. 💜

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you!! ❤️❤️

  • @btsmith
    @btsmith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love that you guys just kept it real with this video. Yes yes yes!! Love it. Dem was definitely telling the truth.

  • @Koko-lo9xe
    @Koko-lo9xe 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    LOVE the video !!! 💕 You guys should do the reverse where Ika answers questions guys are too afraid to ask

  • @georgiaignat.5914
    @georgiaignat.5914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Mitsos (Dem) is so Greek, being so straightforward and moving his hands all the time...Social butterfly??? LOL
    🇬🇷🇬🇷🇬🇷

  • @LovedByYou
    @LovedByYou 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dem, dont beat around the bush 🤣🤣🤣🤣. I'm weak. 🤦🏽‍♀️😫🤣🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

  • @brightezumah2900
    @brightezumah2900 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dem, "you do too much". *In Ika's voice*
    He said "ask Dr. Dem".
    😂 😂

  • @davispatrick2093
    @davispatrick2093 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    She is literally perfect. damn😍

  • @smilerkris
    @smilerkris 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Yoooo! Finally not at work and able to catch a vid as it drops 😍 #notificationgang 🇧🇸🇧🇸🇧🇸
    I’m loving the new content - this video is already one of my new faves, it’s funny af, Dem’s constant hand smashing took me ALL the way out 💀🤣

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you! 😬😬 - dem

  • @mmcNo1
    @mmcNo1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    All I can think about is that “note writing” office meme, all the single girls at home nodding along to Dr Dem 😂 loved this video guys!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😂😂😂😂😂

  • @grandsirnettey6459
    @grandsirnettey6459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    So its 2:30am where I am and I dont have a problem watching this even tho I'm sleepy 😂
    Love you guys forever❤

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Thank you 🙏🏻

  • @gabbied3287
    @gabbied3287 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Not me sitting through a 9 min matches fashion ad to get this good good insight 🤓 we need a part 2, a series, a Dr. Ika and alldat 😂

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      You’re so sweet!!!!!

  • @lashontaewilliams6762
    @lashontaewilliams6762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I was watching my K-drama and as soon as I got the alert I clicked so fast it can wait and don't worry Dem I liked the video. I'm already subscribed.

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you!! 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻 - dem

  • @omarvillanueva7848
    @omarvillanueva7848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    “You had your fun keep it movin”🤣🤣 dem gives these guys one stare up and down then they gotta keep it movin after a few seconds

  • @billyingram5394
    @billyingram5394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Demetri you have a beautiful wife. I will say that. Don't take it wrong but in being simply honest. You are lucky to have a woman that as your wife

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      She is stunning, thank you 🙏🏻

    • @spartalane13
      @spartalane13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Dem and Ika OMG When did you guys get married? Congrats!

  • @DKDAY26ALLDAY01
    @DKDAY26ALLDAY01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    😂😂😂😂 Ika its ok we understand Dem's hand language too 😂😂😂😂👍💖

  • @Mmmmkaaay
    @Mmmmkaaay 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Dating apps seem to be the only way to meet men now. When I'm out in the world, they're all staring at their phones, not making eye contact and saying hi.🙄

  • @bsteggy
    @bsteggy 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    “He’ll just… pop up every once in awhile” 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @adelinezipota3824
    @adelinezipota3824 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    “If a guy doesn’t post you on social media what does that mean?”
    “Oooo that is bad”
    Me - 🥺🥺😔😓

    • @yuchincheng6327
      @yuchincheng6327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      Or they just dont use social media haha

    • @nelaburdajewicz4888
      @nelaburdajewicz4888 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OR he thinks you’re way too beautiful and he doesn’t want to share YOU so that different guys could check you out

    • @peachescastle6659
      @peachescastle6659 3 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      This is an age thing. I never post men on social media. Some people like privacy in their relationship.

    • @dandx67895
      @dandx67895 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      My guy friend never posts photos of his girlfriend until they got married. Now he posts pictures of him and his family almost everyday. Guess it depends on people

    • @queensmovement9379
      @queensmovement9379 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lmaooooooo

  • @kymieBFF
    @kymieBFF 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was great. Nice to know the answers to women’s questions from a guy’s perspective. I think he was spot on for most.. if not all the questions. Thanks “Dr” Dem !!!

  • @davidlewis9672
    @davidlewis9672 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ika," I'm gonna pop up on Dem's real estate page". Lol

  • @weezysbaby21
    @weezysbaby21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    “They come in different sizes”
    *Dem moves hands motioning something getting longer*
    😂😂😂 I cant breathe

  • @destinybrown6489
    @destinybrown6489 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This should definitely be a regular series!

  • @kroy079
    @kroy079 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Question 1: Yes, men don’t complicate communication. That’s a female trait.
    Question 2: No, some are shambles(tilted, multiple pregnancies etc.)
    Question 3: Yes, if I link u pon the tinder. Im tryna smackout an a dashout.
    Question 4: Men are only as “mature”, as their lifestyle requires them too be.
    Question 5: If he doesn’t post you, you’re not exclusive. Not mutually anyway.
    Question 6: if no one looks at my girl, I will look at her. Differently. Nah jk, however it doesn’t bother me
    Question 7: Honestly,even if I love you more than anything in the world. The truth is, I don’t think about you every time I’m taking a piss.
    Question 8: Stretch marks are treasure maps. Cellulite, in moderation.
    Question 9: When I’m on insta I’m bored. So the reason I do anything on insta is boredom.
    Question 10: Of course I can tell, and while it’s not a turn off. It’s only human nature too take advantage.

  • @joanna27anghel
    @joanna27anghel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I appreciate Demetri's honesty and I agree with most of his answers, from my personal experience and growing up with guys 😅

  • @shaphi8908
    @shaphi8908 4 ปีที่แล้ว +169

    I met my fiance on tinder. We are going on 4 years now

    • @ezinwaovuworie9889
      @ezinwaovuworie9889 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Me too.
      Also, we're both not social media rats so that's another answer I don't agree with. I don't believe in any sort of PDA

    • @straightshootah7550
      @straightshootah7550 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      some people will win the powerball... that doesnt mean i will give my future kids advice to buy tickets in order to make money. finding love on tinder is very unlikely

    • @spoton95
      @spoton95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@straightshootah7550, Maybe, I'm in a 7 year relationship with my tinder date too.

    • @queensmovement9379
      @queensmovement9379 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Congratulations

    • @mytwocents748
      @mytwocents748 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Put the whole toilet seat down...top n all. So everybody has to lift...everybody has to put down.

  • @geneivemorris2962
    @geneivemorris2962 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dem& ika just ended prayer and about to listen to a ministry on TH-cam when I saw you posted, only for you&Dem I would tune into the ministry after. Love this content, it's real as usual, funny and great take away. Keep it up guys, looooove you!.

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Omgosh thank you so much 😭❤️

  • @sasha778866
    @sasha778866 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    if they don't watch til the end then they aren't real supporters lol😂😭

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Period lol

  • @janetlovelyns8661
    @janetlovelyns8661 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 Ask Dr Dem. I died 🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️🤸🏽‍♀️😜😜😜😜👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️🏃🏽‍♀️

  • @davistina8990
    @davistina8990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Hey guys just wanted to say hello. I'm glad your putting more videos out there. We miss you when your gone for awhile. Keep the videos coming. Love you guys. ❤❤🙏🙏

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      We love you! ❤️

  • @kaheem_osbourne
    @kaheem_osbourne 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    You guys should do a vice versa 😁 I'd love to see the questions guys are afraid to ask girls
    Love from 🇯🇲

    • @Queen_EL11
      @Queen_EL11 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Whew! 🥴🥴🥴

  • @amandalewis2785
    @amandalewis2785 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    LOVE YOU GUYS
    I would love to see a video of you guys reacting to BB footage on your season
    Love from SAUGAA!!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Was in Mississauga today! Showing a 🏠 😬 - dem

  • @sarahramos5664
    @sarahramos5664 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Social media isn’t everything in a relationship. You don’t have to post someone to show you love and care about them.. the world we live in 🙃

  • @patriciaroney262
    @patriciaroney262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I have watched this 5 times, I am at work and each time I watch it my smile gets bigger and bigger! I just loved it❤️ The two of you are so damn cute!!!

    • @DemandIka
      @DemandIka  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!!!!!!

  • @Dionydejesus
    @Dionydejesus 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is very honest and true, believe me I'm a Mature Guy!

  • @Nah-ah
    @Nah-ah 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    My husband told me about the ‘’nod’’ from other guys like, ‘’well done, she’s a keeper’’ nod! It’s real 😆 Earlier on when we started dating he even had a guy walk up to him and say ‘’your girlfriend is f**king hot” out loud.. I found that a little weird! 😅