I spent most of my 20s getting to the point where I made 90k a year. Then I learned pretty quick these women have very little to offer, and are actively planning how to spend your money. It feels really creepy and more like a parent child relationship than a boyfriend girlfriend one.
@@sheepdog5799 it is creepy because they do not want to form a positive relationship with the person they just want to exploit the person for $. They do not view him as a person just a walking wallet and status symbol its just like how women get creeped out by guys who only view them as a walking fleshlight and status symbol.
Congrats on your grind though stranger. That is a tough feat to pull off by yourself, and at your age. Never forget your accomplishment or let anyone disrespect it! 👍
Unfortunately there are simps even at that income that will oblige them. That’s why I blame MEN for the current state of dating. Women wouldn’t be that entitled if men didn’t enable them.
Straight facts. They not even all that. They just going to be ran through and complain when they 40 " where have all the good men gone". I hate women like this , they eventually settle for average joe when their looks are gone and then he loves them but they always thinking about the smash and dash dude. Women will never learn.
A simp is a simp no matter how much he earns, however harder to find them since they now have confidence and status and you have to compete with lots of other pretty girls.
Some women understand this. Growing up, I was kinda an introvert, and my Mom would always tell me "You either have more time than money, or more money than time. So, spend time now because you won't have it once you have money." Now I'm 30 and its the truest thing she ever told me.
It's always infuriated me about Americunts that expected me to be available AND creating a high income. That is VERY rare and almost exclusive to young people inheriting wealth- not someone creating wealth.
They're not worried about the "future" of their family. They're more worried about living a superficial and materialistic lifestyle that they've been exposed to by sleeping with rich guys who pumped and dumped them or lied to by social media.
I'm 46, work in tech and live close to NYC where salaries are generally much higher...I just made it $125k salary this year after working in this field for 20 years. These women are not only ridiculous but no guy who actually earns over $100k would allow a woman like these into their lives. At best, they would be a side piece to these men. The guys in the tech field that are in their 20s don't make anywhere near $100k. I know because I've hired a lot of them and negotiated their salaries and mentor them at work...and I also teach them about women like this too, lol.
Dude i don't know what you do in tech but 20 years, yet you're stuck at 125/year? in NY? you're underpaid, waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay underpaid. You should be at least 200k. Are you remote? if so, why aren't you picking up other remote roles? yes you can do that. I know people in tech making 350K right now between 2 jobs. One of the jobs by the way is fully contracted out through upwork or other platforms🤣🤣🤣
My father was the same. Took him like 15-20 years at the same company to get all of the benefits and the 6 figure salary. He's not even high up the company, he's just been around for so long and put up with all the changes and all of that over the years
these are going to be starving side peices because they aren't even premium quality. i onno why people forget that high earners have specific demands too lol! i have a friend who is in tech and specializes with bank hardwares . he makes 200k/year but to meet him i need schedule time and i've known the guy since we were 7 . he gets home and just sleeps that's it.
The funniest thing about this to me is that people this age are the kind of people to say shit like "I'm young, I'm having fun, I'm still figuring out who I am" yet expect dudes of the same age pool to already be making more money than their fathers. These girls wild lol.
Yo I’ve never thought about it like that! These girls are always like “I’m still young, I’m finding myself!”, meanwhile they expect a guy their age to have it all at 21 years old!
All that AND commit to them and be loyal. These kind of girls think they are the only ones entitled to ‘finding themselves’ and having fun/exercising their options.
I work in the cybersecurity sector and make the kind of money these girls are talking about, I work with or for people who earn way more than me and trust me when i say none of them live "lavish" lifestyles, they all work extremely hard and put in a lot of hours, people thinking that 100k+ year just fall in your lap are completely disconnected from reality because even the criminals who make this kind of money work pretty hard.
Yeah sure. Literally every guy on here is saying they earn that money that these girls are talking about. Please! Most of those types of guys hardly come on TH-cam. They are waaay too busy and if they are watching TH-cam they aren’t watched people like Aba & Preach. Most likely political and business channels. Channels like this wont even be on their radar. Please stop lying.
@@gailainsley6939 Your point is hilarious man. Literally 60% of my job is looking at a screen and killing time so ofcourse I browse TH-cam. Everyone I know and work with is chronically online or playing video games to pass the time. Even worse now that like 80% of us work from home. As for "business channels" literally all of them are scams, trust me no one in this life is going to teach you how to make money. Time in the market always beats timing the market and any investment opportunity I will hear about from coworkers and friends in the industry weeks if not months before it hits any "business channel"
I was raised by a single mom who hammered the (admittedly very old fashioned) idea into my head that if I got a good career and worked hard I would be able to find a good woman easily. Now I have a good career, make just shy of 100k a year on my own, and have a house. But that comes at the cost of working a ton, and I’ve been told I’m “boring” so many times because if I’m not working I’m either taking care of my house or resting for more working lol Edit: I should also add it took me until I was 31 to get where I am, so the idea that a normal dude can get here by their early to mid 20’s is completely unreasonable
@Peachy Peach I disagree since it depends on his preferences. If he has little preferences then I agree there's something seriously wrong. But if he has some standards (not just physical standards) it could make sense why he's struggling to find the right person.
I'm 32 and have a modest job, so that means I will never be remotely wealthy. Money is not my priority but when I think that I don't have this option anymore, it's kinda not cool. Hahaha
My husband makes 6 figures. When he hit a certain level in his career financially he went from kinda coasting doing day to day, 8-4 to he is ALWAYS working! I can see why it burns these guys out, too. They’re grinding. Now, they dangled another huge pay bump and promotion to him, so he’s gotta keep up the grind. He’s missed nearly every holiday, family function, you name it on his way to this level. After the last huge raise the levels of work expected increased with it. That’s how it works. And at 6 figures we don’t travel like that, or spend money like that. Six figures doesn’t go as far as these girls think it does. My husband has 6 weeks vacation each year. When he’s able to take one, know how he’s spending it normally? Around the house. Fixing things, sleeping a lot, relaxing. Traveling isn’t for everyone. Especially now. The man built his castle and wants to enjoy it. Something tells me these ladies aren’t looking at the IT guys as their ideal mates, either. The stable career man. These girls have no idea what they’re talking about. They want to use men and think they’re not the tissue here.
Six weeks vacation aint enough?? Look, y'all *could* take nice vacations at 6 figures with six weeks vacation. Idk how you're spending your money but this is wild. My fiance works 75 hours a week just to make $70k and he gets *two weeks* of vacation per year and we can still do decently nice vacations inside the US.
Single, unmarried guy here. I started working in a blue collar field when I was 20. 60+ hours a week, my friends were just the guys working as much as me. Saw my immediate family once a week, THAT'S IT! Saved and invested that money, started making 6 figs a few years later. Now 10 years later, I'm still in that field + I started a business. With the little free time I do have, there's just absolutely NO WAY I would give women like this the time of day. This life is not for MOST people. It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll.
and when you could have used the comfort and encouragement of a good woman, they were no where to be seen, now you realize you made it without them, you don't need em.
This is exactly what my husband and I did together since 2005. Worked lots, bought and sold properties, started a business and eventually had 3 kids. Many friends told me to leave my husband lots of times because he always prioritizes work but then they complain that their men are lazy and don't provide 🤷
It took my Dad 20+ years to reach the 90K mark (he’s a machinist), and that was after years of welding, and other odds and ends jobs beforehand. He’s 57 and he’s always been a father and husband worthy of my admiration and praise. These women are crazy if they think they’re worthy of men like that.
Woman: “ I prefer a guy that makes six figures” Also woman: “ You’re so boring. Why are you always working? Why are you always studying? You don’t give me enough attention”
I work for a sales company. The men that make the type of money these women are looking for are at the office 6 days a week, 12+ hours a day, and when they have a day off all they want to do is relax at home. You hit the nail on the head with this. They’re usually over 40, married, and have kids. Not all of them have terrible attitudes but 8 out of 10 of these men are, for a better choice of words, stressed. They have put their dedication into their career, so they don’t have much time to “live a life of leisure and adventure”. Don’t get me wrong, these are great men and there’s nothing wrong with how they live their life. I respect the hell out of them. Before anyone comes for me: Yes, women can make this type of money too but in this particular example I am speaking only of the men.
I imagine the voice from Jordan Peterson saying this monologue and it sounds legit. On a serious note though, you aint Lying Kay... people really need to look up this kind of things in a deeper level. Is not just "I want this or reach that" manifestation rubbish... The most important thing is *what* it takes to get there and *how* is maintained it.
Nah.....women in those professions generally burn out. Can't hack the hours/stress. Leave for something less time consuming and difficult. I saw it in my female friends in the banking world. They mostly left after marrying a better off dude and now either don't work or "followed their dreams" and teach or something less stressful. They're also mostly leftists.
Seems like as a whole, our society is shooting itself in the foot. Its putting the celebrity lifestyle on a pedestal while simultaneously shrugging off accountability/responsibility for what it takes to actually get there and maintain it (or at a minimum demonstrating a willingness to understand). I'm not sure if its that people have never been exposed to those who run their own companies and how much work it takes to do so, or if its willful ignorance in that they want what they want and are in denial of the realities that come along with it. Either way this really doesn't seem sustainable.
As a dude on internet, I was 22 and making $80,000 CAD a year just from my day job. I was exceptionally lucky to have someone take a chance on me to even start my career in the field. I had worked for years to start a business and was living off of scraps - less than 30k a year. Women like this is who would approach *me* in social spaces. I wouldnt even approach them because they reeked of peetyness the same way some guys reek of desperation. It's repulsive.
Used to work for two architects who are in the financial bracket these women want.. these men had no time at all, they worked till 6am at times. Id get to work and find that the last file he was working on was last accessed at like 3-6am and by 8am he’d be in the office.. when they had “fun” they had it with a new girl each month. All these girls looked like models🔥One of them had a fiancé and she knew what was up.. so women who want these men dont even know how absolutely cut throat that life is🤣
@@ElementVoidX nobody lying you can look at the census study about fathers being active in the home barely any men of all races and incomes are active with their children at high rates. Nobody lying why would a government stat lie on men? 🤔
Mom makes close to 130k to provide for the family, she’s almost never home and certain days she works damn near 15 hour shifts. You definitely right about the high earners having no time to leisure, the women in the video really don’t know what it’s like to witness the grind firsthand and it definitely takes a toll. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows like they think it is.
Some girls , many actually have no idea how money is earned. No idea the concept of money , ask your girl the prices of certain things and you'll see ...
For reference: An assistant professor earns on average about 60-80k. A full fledged professor earns about 120k after he has to go through hell and back. These women want their men to make AT LEAST as much as 4 university teachers combined. The delusion is unreal.
My mom is a tenured professor who’s recently been accepted into an elite national society, and she barely makes 120K-150K CAD. She works like a dog. She’s now in her fifties.
wallah ! and they all have those straight faces . but they ain't saying what it is that they are bringing to the table except poosie because that part is available a dime a dozen
To be fair, professors are insanely under paid for their level of experience. I have much less experience and education, am much younger, and make way more money than my professors.
*"If he's not making more than 100K, then I'm worried about our future together."* I'm worried about my own future with a woman who thinks that's rational. In these times, you're living in luxury if you're making even 50K.
Most women don't think like this since most women are with men that don't make 100K. These are women invited into some show of wich they felt good and important enough to participate in to begin with. i don't think these crazy videos actually reflect reality at all. Though the fact women can feel they can say something like this and act like its normal.. yea thats a real problem lol.
As someone from Pakistan where a GOOD salary is $300 a month, y'all WILDINNNN. But my reality is different I realize that. You can afford to buy land and build a whole damn 7 bedroom house here if you're on an American salary living on Pakistani rent
I can easily make a 100K plus while being single with Overtime shifts. But not while dating anyone. My last (real) relationship ended because I worked so much and was never present and she was neglected. You guys nailed that one.
My husband works a lot of overtime. We had a quick courtship. We mostly discussed how things would play out. He makes about 50k a year. He gets home around 8 or 9pm many nights and works some Saturdays even. We spend Sundays together and whatever other time we can find. Sundays together usually include napping holding hands or something. He's exhausted basically always. I do his laundry and grocery shopping though so that frees him up a little.
I watched my Daddy provide for my family while making what these ladies would consider to be pennies. We always had food, clothes, toys, family time, vacations, etc. It's not about what you make, it's how you manage that budget. Now I'm making what he's making and living what people would consider to be a more lavish lifestyle with lots of vacations and free time. I don't make a lot, I just budget the heck out of what I have.
exactly the same story here. I feel privileged thinking about how my one parent kept us in a comfortable home for 5 with our own rooms, school and extra curricular for years and years in his scarily underpaying jobs, even when the wider economy was a mess our parents never let us feel the brunt of the storm. Only later on I started to notice the little luxuries/leisure they held themselves to dedicate to our home. Budget smart, necessity first, leisure later, complete your duty to each other. all the qualities none of these women could dream to offer 💀
@@humblecrabd6981 yup 100%!!!!! I didn't even notice the Great Recession because of how well my Dad took care of us all. I tried to enter the workforce in 2013, huge wakeup call struggling to find any job (I worked small jobs with Dad for awhile). Only after all my siblings were old enough to have jobs and be independent did I notice my parents begin to spend money on themselves. It was very humbling to see how much they denied themselves until the rest of us were taken care of. A good budget goes a looooooooong way
@@TomikaKelly Yea obviously what these girls want is a luxurious, easy celebrity lavish type lifestyle and that *ain't* gonna happen on 40k for sure. My comment is more addressing the fact that some girls think they need a dude making 120k in order to feel secure financially, when really you can be just as broke with 120k as with 40k if you are a bad budgeter. We don't make a lot, but we come across as fairly well off with the houses, vacations, cars, clothes, free time, electronics, etc. We just get great deals, save our money, and budget well. I mean we aren't wearing Gucci or driving Tesla, but we are extremely satisfied with our way of life.
I’m a 28 year old woman and I used to do real estate and being around rich men made me not interested in being with a ridiculously rich man, I rather just have enough to live comfortably and still have family time
I've dated a couple rich boys with very successful dads and they were legit the worst 😂😂😂 it's not always the case I'm sure but it was in mine. They acted like their dad's success was theirs 😵💫😵💫
@@livalittle13 A lot of kids who grow up with rich parents tend to grow up lazy and entitled, or never learn how the real world works. Same can be said for upper middle class kids too but rich kids are worse. Mainly do to their parents doing everything and never taking the time to teach their children. I personally know a rich kid and he's down to Earth because his parents raised him well. Other rich kids I've encountered (men and women) are a chore to be around and don't even have a working relation with reality. As Zoidberg from Futurama once said "Money doesn't make good people, no siree."
Some women today put it all on men. I had just moved out of my mothers house 4 years ago and my gf at the time expected me to have everything we needed immediately. She has gone back to the streets and I now have everything I need with a woman that actually respect my struggle to get where I am now.
thats whatsup. I'm still at my mom and dads as an older guy. its pretty embarrassing. dont even put myself out there cause I dont want the conversation to come up about where I'm at. but ill get there slowly but surely.
I'm glad I found a great man at 21. I didn't asked how much he made and still lucked out. I just looked for a smart, kind man with good values. Met him at the library.
@@Andre-im7eq He's proven himself to be a great guy on a personal level. He has a great family and he has a good relationship with them, he gets along with my family, he loves our pets, he's kind to strangers, and is fun to be around. Being with some asshole because he has money wouldn't be worth it, just like smart guys know being with a nasty woman for her looks isn't worth it.
Agreed. When I was making 125K, I had NO time for vacations and crap. I'm pretty sure I had only something around 6-7 days off PER YEAR. Full-time days off. Not I worked 8am-12pm, and then could do whatever I wanted for the rest of my day on a Sunday. Nope. Now I'm comfy at 67K. I get weekends off, 4 weeks/year off and medical leave if needed. It honestly just blows me away when I meet up with people or have women come approach me. "You gave up a large salary and manager position for 'normal'? WHY?" ... because I like to enjoy life and hike mountains. I have hobbies, and need time to cook/clean/chores, and actually spend more than 2-5 hours visiting my mates each month.
This. If they don't complain about you not having time for them they nag you about how you aren't working hard to get them money. Woman, you can only pick one. 🙄
Good on you. You broke the cycle. It seems for so many there is a point where it becomes workaholic, then outside of work ... Nothing. But you have a life,,, nothing in the world can buy that
@@marycash183 I missed this comment. A guy doesn't "deserve" a pretty woman, and neither does a woman "deserve" luxury. Both need to put up their worth, and settle for likewise.
@@ultraboombean The comment I made was, in what we Dutch would describe as "short through the turn" meaning: nuance would made it more understandable. Long story short, Beyonce sang about female empowerment while first and foremost hooking up with more powerful and established men, and secondly getting rich off of downtrodden women (see: sweatshops in south-east Asia).
This is one of the biggest takeaways you could get from Kevin Samuel's videos. The vast majority of the women that came on his show had a very clear idea about how much money a man needs to make while at the same time having no idea how many men make this much money, who those men are, what those men want and where they would go to meet such a man. A lot of them had never even interacted with a man like this and yet they were convinced they would marry one of them. They have just constructed this fantasy in their minds and they expect to just manifest it into existence. Then they are surprised when they are too old to have kids and are still single af, nevermind on the way to marriage.
Kevin samuels made me go through every stage of the redpill. From thinking the whole show was scripted, to shock, to horrified, to then angry at all women to finally ACCEPTANCE. That man changed my life. Now I own nothing but suits. I don't leave my house unless i'm in some trousers and dress shirt and a bit of cologne. Just a lifestyle now. RIP
That’s because of social media and Disney movies, women even average and unattractive women are naturally hyperegamus, a lot of women like you said never even interacted with a top tier man so they go by their fantasy
Are you surprised? This kind of women often live in bubbles. They come from rich families or live their whole lifes on welfare/child support and things like that. They dont understand the value of money.
As a man who is growing personally, professionally, and financially. I can confirm that myself and my peers are FAR more cautious of women we are around as we progress. Not wasting time on these dumb bimbos. We would rather work. They will try and take it all away.
@@PHlophe Mothers and aunties never married a high income earner. Most of them didn’t have successful marriages at all. They don’t know, they’ve never been there. If you’re getting ahead and having success, you’re demonstrating you have the ability to make the decisions on your own. So make them.
@@SyverReborn well put actually. As a woman myself a lot of women act like little girls these days. Straight up see women ten years older than me act way less mature and unrealistic
Don't worry. Most of these women will hit their late 30's and 40's, and start feeling that desperation kick in. Once they are stuck with a string of failed relationships and, for many, kids, they'll realize maybe they were looking for the wrong things in someone. This isn't just women. There are plenty of guys out there overestimating their value. It's the narcissism in ALL generations today that this is just one example of what is wrong.
Yes, but if a dude is delusional reality often punches him in the face and it has got consequences meanwhile if a woman is a loser, she can stay delusional and make money
@@envynoir Has reality punched you in the face with its consequences yet? Because based on what you just wrote here, you're definitely delusional, dude.
"they'll realize maybe they were looking for the wrong things in someone" That would be nice if it were true but most likely they will end up "settling" for some beta with some money and then be miserable because they didn't get what they thought they deserved.
It is sad I dated this sort of type of women for 4 years. She always kept pushing me to go to school so I can find a better career even though i was paying all the bills and constantly purchasing expensive things for her. I was making nearly 50k a year pre covid mind you I worked a lot. She ended up cheating on me for a guy who "had a better plan for his future". Now that guy is nowhere to be found. Stay single fellas and work on yourself. Relationships aren't worth the hassel anymore P.S. aba and preach your videos help with me dealing with my depression now and my self improvement. No amount of thank you's will ever show my gratitude 🙏
DashCash100 Same bro. I dated one for 4 years also. I was working and had some side hustles going on. I was pulling in major money. Like 250k a year. Big part of that was the side hustle stuff (figure it out lol) and it wasn't enough for this girl. Even though I took her on cruises and vacations all over the place while paying all the bills. Even bought her a car. She cheated on me too. Years later I saw on FB she married her high school sweetheart guy. He cheated on her a few yrs into the marriage and now she's single in her early 40s. Karma. She was stunning in her mid 20s but now not so much xD
The funniest part is, a successful man wouldn't choose them anyway. Nobody wants someone who is in it for the money... I married my husband when he was considered poverty level. We have leveled up together and now make well over $100k TOGETHER, a decade later. We're both happy we don't ever have to wonder if our spouse is here for the funds available, and we're enjoying everything we've built together. It's the best feeling ever ❤️
What they see is the mentally dysfunctional rich man who appears in the media. Look at the properties on Nantucket Island. There are 20K+ men there in the Summer that have no social media or media presence that is not under their control with a net worth more than most media figures. They end up with these men that can be gamed, conned or got and then wonder how their relationship went wrong when it does. Riches are flashy but true wealth does not speak at all.
same way with my marriage, we got successful together. but now in days so few women want to invest in a guy working his way up and encouraging him. No they wait at the finish line to screw the winners.
Yeah this thing also hits hard for the kids and even grandkids. My grandparents were very high earners but were never around to take care of their kids. From my uncles and aunts to my own parents, they all have deep emotional and psychological issues because of it. Now in our generation even if we are comfortable financially, everything else is a shitshow. We even have cctv cameras INSIDE the house FOR the people living in it. We don't even have cameras by the front door for strangers
I was lucky enough to be born with a father who made over 100k a year and still had plenty of time for family. My Mom stuck beside him while he built his business, when he had nothing, no matter how bad things got. That’s what women these days don’t understand, you’ve gotta bet on a man and stick with it.
As a woman who has been in a similar situation as your mother, i can say the hardest thing with being with a man when he is down and out is the helplessness, seeing that he is beating himself up and working himself tirelessly to try and make it. Yet u must do your best to give support in ways you can although it still feels like you aren’t helping cause you cant give him what he really wants so you watch him fight tooth and nail for it. It hurts but it builds him. For most women that would be too much to bear, they cant love nor be loyal enough to stay with a man when it gets really hard. Ive witnessed my husband go through all kinds of struggles to make it to where he is today as a high earner.
Yes, build a life TOGETHER. Not just swoop in after all the hard work is already done like some kind of leech sucking the mans blood. Weird how feminism has turned so many women into lazy, entitled, materialistic gold diggers.
My girlfriend and I are just shy of both making six figure salaries (we are both 30ish years old). During our 5 years together we have both been, students, in minimum wage jobs, unemployed, or even living with parents. Money has never negatively affected our relationship as we support each other and work towards our goals in life as a team. My advice, find yourself a partner who's ride or die!
As a software engineer, I make $80k salary straight outta college at 23. I also had a son back in 2020, so it took me an extra year because I was interning and had Co-Ops with different companies. I sacrificed friends, even now I still sacrifice spending time with my family. I’m looking to expand my investment portfolio before I hit $90k at my job, that way that $90k is really $100-$115k depending on how much effort I put into buying properties. But what I can’t wrap my head around with most women my age, is the not cooking, cleaning, etc. And expecting a man to take care of me, and then wondering why he cheats with the maid, or has a mistress, or whatever the case may be. Like you expect a man to hold you down but you can’t even hold water long enough to get paid for it.
Only man I know making money like that would never mess with these women. He also travels and is gone for sometimes an entire month in a different country. Half the time he's home he sits in his "man cave" and doesn't go anywhere bc he always traveling and running around for work. There is no life of leisure like that.
As someone that makes this level of money you guys hit the nail on the head. My wife has had to sacrifice me being around to make that level of money. You sacrifice time for wages. Pure and simple.
@@grimandbearit5882 cybersecurity! Neat, I've been dreaming of going into that field (plan to study in college) how long did it take you to get where you're at currently and what are the hours and wage if you dont mind me asking?
It's because you choose to put your work over your partner and that's the sad thing. Sensible people know how to balance. And Balance would be to lessen your work so that you can be attentive to your kids and wife more. So without doing so, you would be chasing the top while losing your family. Sad. Too many cases like this. Nothing excuses it
@@MsCarringtonsTH-cam No i have an open dialogue with my wife about every single career change I have made. We are in lockstep - I am able to work the way I work based off my partner supporting me and in turn me supporting her. Don't project your own misguided beliefs onto something you know nothing about.
If that's your picture, then that's your choice to remain that way. You can find a guy in Tech who makes over 100K tomorrow and leave that sh*t job going from city to city sleeping at hotels. eww.
@@ibizawavey8630 I’m married so no thanks. Working as a flight attendant puts me through pilot school for thousands cheaper so I’m good with my path. Thanks tho
@@ibizawavey8630 what a vapid, soulless mentality. “Just go find a guy that makes money” like men are just ATMs. It’s shitty to dehumanize women but not men I see. “Just go find a prettier wife”
Social media has made it easy for me to talk shit about social media not gonna lie. It's refreshing cause those newspapers days were brutal. I had to pay a lot of money to get my shit talking in the newspaper back in the day.
@@ohnomybatterysdead2725 yes you can. You just pay for space. Usually big spenders do it. And back when it was cheap, I did it once. They put it in like Page 9 of newspaper and my story was about elder home orgies, and I was surprised they put in the newspapers. It was wildly inappropriate, I also quoted doctors about why orgies are good for senior citizens, I made up the studies that supported it lol and I'm sure some people got a great laugh out of it. I'm sure the old folks who read newspapers did love it.
27 year old guy here who chose to still live with his parents as I'm trying to save money while running a business. I drive an old beat down 2005 venture van, I'm in good shape I work out a lot. And I see myself having a bright future. I would say I'm fairly put together I've been told and I'm also fairly charismatic as well as my business has required me to be so. I stand by personal values and always seek to improve myself too. It's weird, because the harder I work the more confident I become. The harder I work the more I realize I'm a catch, someone very desirable in the making. I understand how, my shitty van and living with my parents may be a turn off which is fair. But it's clear as day to me that if a girl wanted my long term trust it's better they support me now than at the finish line. Yet, thou I hardly can be bothered to put more effort in dating rn. I feel very much invisible to women unless I have the materialistic things to flex. Thou I do love these things as I work in fashion, however that doesn't mean I'm shallow. I also understand the importance of a budget. These women, truly are shooting themselves in the foot where I believe they are missing out on guys who are probably right in front of him who are that top tier man their looking for in the making. But they are too selfish and caught in a fantasy to understand how to find these men or secure a relationship with such. And to vet a man's mindset/character first as that's a good indicator of their potential. Which I believe this is what women used to do back in the day. 🤷
It took me to my mid 30s as a software engineer to make over 6 figures, and it took choosing career over hobbies and personal life frequently to achieve that. Constantly studying new stuff, working well over a typical 40 hour week, and choosing career over relationships. It'll be into my 40s for sure before I make 7 figures.
@@TheAsarath nice, I’m finishing my masters degree in a couple of years and moving into my Ph.D afterwards, I’m doing it because I want to show I’m worth something, I don’t want to be a failure like I’ve felt for my whole life. Money isn’t everything but I will at least be able to say I have something. Sadly though I don’t think I’ll ever marry at this point, I really do want a family but I don’t think anyone finds me attractive.
My dad owns an architecture firm and is an associate professor. Done malls, hospitals, office buildings, housing complexes, the lot. Has a PhD and a post doctorate. There was a time when I was 9 when I saw him one month out of a whole year because he had an opportunity to further his career and make more money in a different country. Even when he was home, he always flew or drove to some city for work. Everything these guys are saying is true. You have to be damn near psychotic to make the amount of money these women are looking for their man to make. Whenever the conversation comes up about what women from my generation are looking for in men, he genuinely can’t fathom the delusion lol.
a lot of these women just focus on what they see celebrities supposedly doing on social media or tv and think life with a wealthy or well earning man will be a fairy tale lol
and living without a dad figure must have left concequences for you - for boys, they learn from fathers how to control agressive and sexual agressive impulses (especially in a way father acts with mother), for girls how to have relashionshipo with a male - so boys without it are agressive, beat their girlfriends, have trouble with law, are easy to follow cults etc, and girl work sketchy jobs (sexual in nature like onlyfans, stripping, escort), or change partners a lot, going from partner to partner, and or have really agressive boys as partners. Each parent (both mother and father) have their own roles (that can be fulfilled by other person, though, like grandparent, uncle, coach etc)
These women are talking about wanting a trust fund baby, or a generational wealth recipient. They have no concept of how much work it takes to make that level of wealth, and if they TRULY cared about actually having a relationship with that kind of man, then they'd know that a relationship in that context is pretty much non-existent. You won't see him. He'll be emotionally and physically unavailable, so your only comfort will be his money. Now if that's ALL you're interested in, then you're a gold digger who only wants to spend HIS money while you pay for you and your friends activities and sleep with your personal trainer. Women these days are so vapid and disillusioned when it comes to knowing what is truly GOOD for them on an emotional level, but it's not really their fault. Celebrity worship, fake Instagram culture, instant gratification, minimal education, and single parent households ALL contribute to this emotionally (and physically) retarded generation. I'm trying my best as a father of two girls to show them love, and to teach them by example through my relationship with my wife/their mother how a healthy relationship functions. It's such an uphill battle in this day and age to deprogram what they learn out in the world, and teach them The Way.
@@somegrill7561 true, but even mother can replace father, so kids that went without that damage, probably had someone to replace father figure (anyone can do it, even mother, but for single mother it is very hard as she has also mother role, also cleaning, earning and more - one must be a superhero to do all of that alone.
They don't want traditionally successful men, they want the brocolli haired TikTok influencers who can make 3 posts a day and somehow end up with 6 figures a month. There is no hard work or sacrifice for these people to become rich because their jobs are essentially "take videos of yourself". Either that or doing "e-commerce" which is basically scamming people with dropshipping. The guys are just as much to blame as well, the dudes who follow Sneako and take his advice are the ones that are trying to become the guys that these woman want.
Brocolli haired TikTok influencer" is SO TRUE. I dont know where that came from, but it seems like the whole western hemisphere with the age-range from 15-25 has that hair now... really weird :D and yes, most young teens want to be "influencers" or "streamers" instead of policeman, nurses etc... this world is going to have big problems in the next 5-10 years imo
I make above 100k a year at 26. Luckily, I started dating my girlfriend when I was making a lower salary (like 40k). She values me AND my success, not JUST my success. Many women, if they want to date near and around their age range 20-25, have to date men of "lower standard", and support them to become more successful. I personally know women and even female friends that complain about not being able to date young successful men around my age and I kinda just smile. They're just too late. Women who care and support their men have already taken them. On top of that, successful people know when, "Sooo, how much do you make" or "Sooo, what do you do for work" is the first thing a woman asks they're just looking for big wallet. It's funny how they think they're so slick. I honestly think it is those women who get rejected and ghosted who think "all men are assholes". No dude, its just clear you're a superficial person only in it for my money.
I’ve always found that there’s such a paradox with the fact that so many women want a successful guy who’s hard working and ambitious and makes enough money to take care of them and not have to work and have enough disposable income for leisure, but still expect him to have all the time in the world for them
the key to understanding is that most women are not happy unless their man is miserable, if he is at work all the time then they don't have the opportunity to hit him with all the drama, negativity, and nagging that builds up in their system every day.
@@impudentdomain women can say the same thing about men. You’re in control of who you let in your life stop being a victim bro. If you want a healthy relationship then be a healthy person.
I just recently got an 80k job straight out of college and feel conflicted about it. When I first happened across this video, I was thinking they were all going to say 100k, 400k, etc., but when the one woman said 80k-100k, I was weirded out. The reality of me now being in the scope of women like this disgusted me and it made me further appreciate the strong relationship I have with my girlfriend. If I was single, I don't know if I would want to date again and deal with women like this
Bro a lot of them are like this now. The attention they get from men on social media and the envy from the female influencers they see always on nice vacations has made them into these narcissists.
@@capo4ever334 And The Only Time You Can Get Girls When You Are Broke Is If You Are Chad/Tyrone Or A Handsome Guy. Other Than That.. These Chicks Tell Dudes With A Smile On Their Face ..They Can Eat Cake And Die! 😆
If you werent scoped out in college your good.. i got finessed in college by a woman looking for a high earner.. now i pay her child support that pays her and her bfs rent
I’m in my mid 20s and so is my boyfriend. He's an electrical engineer entering a masters program and I was a pre med major about to start my next advanced degree. Both of us have been advised to make friends with other STEM people who are pursuing terminal degrees because most people don't understand the time commitment. I want to be a physican and I will be dedicated to school until my 30s the same is true with my boyfriend who wants a terminal degree too. Most people like the fancy titles but don't realize how much time we spend trying to obtain our goal. Half of the people we meet tell us our relationship is going to fail because we don't spend enough quality time together. In their eyes we've been together too long (4 years) to not settle down and have kids. Most people aren't honest with themselves enough to realize it's not the money they want it's comfort in life. The 100,000+ salary life is not that type of comfortable life. It's work your asses off most of the year but can afford extra services that give you more time to do other things. Like a nanny, cleaning services, lawn services, or even expensive vacations but not a whole lot of free time on a regular basis.
For an educated person, you sound pretty dumb…you did the analysis and made your choice, so now deal with it…other people’s opinions should NOT matter, they are soliciting advice based on their experience and decisions they made, but everyone is different though, I shouldn’t even have to bd saying…if you’re unhappy with your decisions, then that’s on you- you should have done a better assessment…if everything is ok and progressing as you expected, then wtf are you here complaining about?
@@Trini_Skunt-Troll I wasn’t complaining. You sound like you’re projecting. I’m actually happy with my decision and am exactly where I want to be. My comment was merely pointing out the fact that people tend to do what you’ve accused me of, which is, project their feelings about what makes a good life on to me and my life. If you actually read the entirety of what I said I pointed out that most people want to just live a comfy life and are perplexed by mine and my boyfriend’s decision to not just settle down right now but to actually pursue our ambitions. My post was a agreeing w/ Aba and Preach while detailing how the life we plan to live comes w/ differences that most people never consider when they think of what they consider to be a prestigious title or a certain income level. I.e. having the prestigious title/ 6 figure income creates a life that allows you to pay for services to buy you time on a regular day versus a comfy life where you have more time to do those things yourself/ with your family. I think you might be projecting a bit in that you’re not secure w/ where you are versus where you want to be in life. I wish you all the best. I hope you get to the point where a comment that someone post to give some insight doesn’t trigger you.
@@kaymitchell6143 not projecting anything at all, and everything’s fine here as a matter of fact👌🏽 we all are happy for you and your wonderful choices…take care laters 👋🏼
I couldn't imagine having those expectations. I knew I was a dime a dozen as a generic young, unmarried woman. Extremely replaceable for those "high earners". I found someone who wanted a family, and that's what we're doing right now.
when you said those men are a bit psychotic I had to laugh. It’s so true! My husband is definitely in that category. I know most women could not handle being married to my man. I don’t mean that in a bad way. He’s a loving man but he works a lot, he spends most his time and focus on his job and hes very neurotic about things. We work bc I get him. Just bc we don’t spend a ton of time together doesn’t mean he doesn’t love me. But these young girls, I wanna show you what it’s like being married to a man whose makes 200k. I’ll show you. I know you won’t last a week. These type of men need a woman that’s tough as nails and not easily made insecure. I’m not trying to toot my horn but it is what it is. I know they don’t actually want a man like this. They want the money but not the lifestyle I know this is true. They need to settle down their expectations. Everything comes with consequences.
It sounds like they want a trust fund guy whose family has done all the work and who has other relatives who work those intense hours to keep the family wealth intact. But those guys won't commit to them. They'll marry girls on their level (family wealth, connections, etc.) At best these particular girls are one-night pump and dumps. They're pretty but not beautiful enough for that guy consider going outside his social circle. And congratulations to you and your husband for having a successful marriage.
No you're right. Not tooting your own horn at all its just more emotional work and responsibility to date or be married to that. Takes character to properly support those dudes when they need you. They can't have a partnership with a grown woman who thinks like a little girl
I'm interested in your story! I'm not in my 20s, and not looking for that kind of man, but I can't imagine being married to a highly stressed guy without constant conflict.
I remember once upon a time when I was doing personal protection, I was making that kind of money. But I had zero family life, 0 personal life, every single relationship I was in was doomed from the beginning. Also I know from guys who were making even way more than me, they were in the same situation. To make that kind of money calls for sacrifice, and it takes a certain type of woman to stick through that type of relationship. Because you're always traveling when you make that kind of money, you're always at work when you make that kind of money, you're always on call when you make that kind of money. Imagine being on vacation with your girl, but you have to keep your phone on you just in case, and if it does ring you're now leaving in the middle of your vacation to go back to work. I won't say it's just women, because I know a lot of guys who have the same type of foolish thoughts in their head. But we are becoming a very disillusion people upon what it takes to make serious money.
My husband makes in this range-but he’s a crazy work aholic. It was actually something we had to work out in our marriage, because I was frustrated that he’d work all night and never take vacation or if he did, he’d be grumpy and sneaking in work. I had to go to therapy and accept that his work is his passion. We now have an agreement that he will take vacation if I don’t give him grief that he works during all down time and probably late at night. I’m just happy he does stuff with us. He took a start up job recently and everyone warned us about the hours and I just laughed. “He’s already working like that. We might as well benefit from it.” Meanwhile I’m the kind of woman who won’t replace a pair of socks with holes for months. I just liked his mind. My original plan was to be a hippie and live in a cardboard box. The irony right? I’m not talking fancy vacations btw. I just want to road trip to see my brother in PA😂. I am happy that we literally have no worries about money which feels like the definition of wealth. Between his earning habits and my spending habits we spend so much less than our means and we like it that way. These people are nuts.
I love this post. Just some random dude from the UK. "His work is is passion" -- this is all I look for and want in life, plus good health. I need to create.
@@superAweber I’ve definitely learned to admire and appreciate it. It’s actually inspired me in my own work. I’ve tried to enjoy my work more as a stay at home Mom and now that my kids are about to all be in school I’m going back to school for something I tend to do all the time whether anyone pays me for it or not:) It’s definitely not a bad thing. I’d just grown up my whole life thinking work was the thing you wanted to get away from. It took a bit to adjust. Rest is still necessary sometimes though. It doesn’t have to be fancy. I try to keep him from literally grinding himself into the ground:P
@@andianderson3017 "something I tend to do all the time whether anyone pays me for it or not". Exactly! You understand what I'm talking about. See, I am not a hard-working man. I don't have the constitution for a fast pace and hard grinding. This is about love. Because I have hated work desperately. Many people can work without inspiration but I suffer when I do this.
It took me 12 years of grinding my career to move to the wealthiest 10% in my country... and I'm almost 40. It's so hard, most people can't even do it, working 12-16 hour days for years. This women live in another planet
@@shrutisharma777 Thank you! I must add that without my wife and children as motivation I don't think I would have tried as hard. A good woman supporting you is a great thing
I always have to laugh when people see a famous musician's life as a 24/7 playground. I've had many experiences working with musicians, being one myself over the last couple of decades and I have toured many times. 80% of the time of a "famous" musician is spent waiting. Whether it's waiting in the bus on the journey to the next place, waiting for food, waiting for soundchecks, waiting for the next journalist to interview you, waiting for a chance to take a shower, waiting for showtime, waiting for your chance to shine on stage, waiting for the fans after the show, waiting on the gear to be loaded up, waiting in hotel lobbies, waiting for the bus to drive to the next venue, etc. Sure, you can do stuff while you're waiting and the attention in between (and especially the show itself) can be exciting, but once you've done it 200 times a year for over 20 years with the same people and it becomes routine, it mainly feels like you're constantly waiting on something.
So true, I myself am a songwriter and I do not envy that lifestyle at all, you out it perfectly they literally live their lives waiting.. also you forgot to mention that they are also NEVER home to enjoy their family and kids
@@David-ej1ps True, I forgot waiting to go home, which is certainly the case when you're on tour. Though some musicians really love touring, it's not a vacation. It's hard work and it can be pretty stressful at times. Don't get me wrong, it's a fun job, but it's a job none the less. And if it's a band that still records albums, the downtime in-between tours is often used to record in a studio away from home. Or traveling. A lot of traveling.
I can't help but think even if these kind of ladies realize these expectations they have are too high that their sense of ego would still cause them to breed contempt for the 'average' guy they may end up finally giving a chance when trying to settle down. Simply because he'll have never been the man she was supposed to end up with or think they truly deserve. Its sad.
@Bodark Zulu Yeah I find it so weird how American women always want to 'manifest' something. WTF is manifesting? Wishing on a star? Do they think they are magic or something?
One of them is probably of Indian origin and a lot of Indian dudes in the US make about 400k and she’s probably dated some of them to throw that number. But its still unrealistic because those guys usually go for someone as educated as them and who makes about the same. 😂
@@jaeguevara3776 She's not one of them. If she was as educated as them, she'd be with them. They probably dated her, found her to be a gold digger & dumped her. Not all Indians are intelligent/rich. Usually the high caste Brahmins are & they're very right wing & religious.
You know what else this is missing? Those expectations don’t stop there. Made 250k a year by the time I was 25, she still wanted more, realized it won’t ever end and walked away.
@@oso2935 Could have been a start-up. In Silicon valley, even the dumbest ideas get millions of dollars thrown at them. (Not anymore with the recession probs) There was this juicer machine where you pay hundreds of dollars for a machine to squeeze juice from a bag. A human could do it much better for free, but it secured like $50 million in funding.
The worst part is that these women will hit a certain age and not find THAT guy and settle. They will resent that guy, because he reminded them that they settled and will divorce rape them for child payments to try and sponsor that lifestyle somehow. That’s the sad part. Is that they will ruin some average guys life.
This is only possible if the average guy isn't wise enough to vet out these traits. Too many guys just take what they can get and as a result many women have backup plans which allow for them to settle in the first place.
Social media caused this and people lack common sense these days. And it's not gonna change, as we go on it gets way worse. Just surround yourself with people that are focused on the real world/ actual reality
definitely was not social media its parents passing on fucked up knowledge to their children. fathers telling their daughters they should be treated like princesses and those daughters turn into mothers who teach their children some weird fucked up things
Social media, movies, tv shows etc caused this crazy, unrealistic delusion. But the sad of even crazier part is that people like Grant Cardone, Elon Musk and so on can be on on TH-cam or an interview and tell people that reaching such a level of success will take you 15 years after working 80hrs to 100hrs a week and the viewer will say, "no. I will achieve it in two years" or "I will find a guy who is 25 and is that successful."
I live in Miami and this is the norm. Dating is tricky but eventually, the hope is to find someone who isn't so hung up on money. That is why many men in Miami lie and do the "fake it until you make it" approach.
Born and raised here in Miami too and what u say is facts. As soon as u graduate high school good luck getting any girls ur age. As soon as they graduate all kinds of blue check marks and rappers, professional sport players and all kinds of guys be hitting up ur girl. So if ur an average guy going to university aka meaning ur broke u have no chance. Unless ur clouted up like ur a president in a popular social fraternity ur literally getting no girls
I am happy to see you both talking about this topic. It’s important to understand especially for us in our 20’s that earning 6 figures isn’t as attainable as people make it seem. I am 28 and just hit 50k and feel so lucky to even earn as much as I do. It’s taken me schooling, years at other jobs I to be able to create connections to get to where I am. The girls in these videos are delusional and will never find a life partner with these expectations. Money ISNT everything in life. I want to live comfortably to have a house, food and pay my bills.
The fact they mentioned "leisure time" before necessities tells me a lot about their character. These girls just want a man so they can go on trips and buy fancy things.
My mom at her most recent job just broke 100k. She turns 62 this year, and I could not tell you when she last worked an 8 hour day. It may have been before I was born, and I'm 33. She makes that by basically never taking off. When she went to Disney World with my dad, she had to badger the people at her work to let her access her work e-mails from her phone so she could keep working. While using her vacation days. How these women think that you can make stacks of money without putting in any insane work baffles me.
I’m just a simple girl, with simple aspirations. All I want is a kind husband that’s 6 feet, makes a 500k base salary, owns his own business so we get an additional 2-5 million at the end of every business year, and loves me for my goofy little self 🥰 🧡 🌸 Oh, and he has to be funny too 🙈
And your gonna find him in a Disney fairytale even in that the chance of him wanting you back is zero no guy in that kind of caliber wants a simple girl they all perform a perfect 10 out of 10 maybe you can be his side chick number 205 but not his ideal WIFEY material
I told my friend that I didn’t expect him to make 6 figures and she laughed at me😂 saying “U deserve better” and “6 figures isn’t that much”.. lol even when I came with the statistics she still doesn’t believe it. A lot are just delusional
The worst blanket advice to be told is to never settle. Sometimes settling on some of your desires is okay, folks. Never settle for finding love and respect with someone who inspires you to be a better person... but settle on salary that a man brings in or how tall he is. And men, settle on a woman who is a 6 or 7. You don't necessarily need a 10 in looks... in fact, some of those 1 or 2 ladies might bring interesting conversation or support you in your goals and raise your kids right. Sometimes settling on the externals that don't matter allows you to have the love and peace that you desire.
I am in my late 30s and making on avg $500k/year from my business, full-time job and other sources. The reality is, I am very crazy busy and i don't even have a big social media presence online. Dating market is very broken.
Thank you guys. You just made me realise I was the baller in my previous relationship. I was "rich dude" who was always working, hungry to work to provide for my family. The ex barely made £500 a month, excluding benefits and still lived with his parents. His mental health confined him to that position for decades and he just went with it. Even guys can be as delusional as those women in the video. There's me with my own place and at that time working three jobs and doing gigs on the side. Treating my then guy to gifts, love, encouragement and support because you know I loved him. What did I get in return?! Lies, manipulation, jealously and resentment from a dude that wasn't hustling but wanted to live in comfort and wanted me to be his nurse and therapist 24/7. Definitely a light bulb moment. Thank you. Now I am without that guy, working 4 jobs, 2 side hustles on the way, saving money, following my dreams, happier and healthier. 🥰
When I see women say this I often think about how much life is a relentless dick, fucking shit up cos how on earth are people like you not meeting these guys in the comments that are like minded as you 😭 God's a comedian at times
Same here I doted on a dude who had nothing to offer and was messy inside and out but I liked his conversation. Construction projects really are a thing. He ghosted me but blessing in disguise found a hard working, high salary, ambitious, fit man who appreciates my passion and care :) failing forward haha
You want to know what’s bewildered me even more was that in a question of “Would you rather date a man who makes 100,000 and is 5’5 or a 6’2 guy who makes 30,000” A lot of them chose the later option 😐😵💫 Ps: Which is crazy, ITS CRAZY!!! How are you not going to pick the shorter guy when one you’d be set for life and two, THATS WHAT YOU SAID YOU WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!
I am female and I have had 2 long term relationships with men that act like these girls. Didn't want to work hard, I made the majority of the money, which is fine, but would then complain about us not having time together or that we only did/buy something worth a lot once or twice a year. I was working my ass off to support a man child that threw a tantrum when I had to say no. I don't care how much a guy makes, it's whether he's trying. Relationships are a partnership. If a guy made enough and wanted me to be the stay at home mom, cool, but that is still my half of contributions, but these peoples' entitlement just makes me want to launch myself into the sun.
Well said. Whether they are employed, a business owned, or not, everyone has a job. No one gets a free ride. The girls featured in this video seem to be some of those who haven't realised that yet.
I’m happy you guys touched on this. I try to tell my girl this sacrifices have to be made when you want to live a lifestyle or deal with someone who has that lifestyle
My grandfather ran his own business and was worth quite a bit before he died. He never retired, worked constantly and he definitely wasn’t emotionally available, or someone nice to be around. In fact, I felt sorry for my grandmother. Of course my family benefited from his wealth, and I do appreciate that.
actually, you probably didnt "benefit" from that. being born into wealth isnt a healthy thing for kids. no matter what my maximum income in my life will ever be, i would never let my children grow up in "luxury". worst thing you can do to your children and their ambition.
@@obiwankenobi661 He didn’t say he grew up in luxury, he said they benefited from the wealth. Those aren’t necessarily the same thing. I can understand wanting your kids to grow up living modestly, but if they’re born with fucked up teeth are you not going to pay for braces, because that would spoil them? If they need expensive medical treatment are you not going to pay if you can afford it? If they have a chance to get into one of the best schools in the world are you not going to financially support that opportunity if you can? Money is for more than just big houses, nice cars, and luxurious lifestyles
reminds me of my uncle who'd been working since his early teens to owning his own restaurant for 30+ years. was barely at home but so fondly remembered by everyone except his own family whom he couldn't dedicate much time to but spent tons financially. he worked all the way while cancer was ravaging his body for god knows how long, and we lost him a day after his cancer diagnosis. that's when they understood that his money was the way he showed them love since he didn't have the time.
I’m starting to understand what these women are thinking(scary, I know) they want an experience, and are using marriage as a commodity to trade for that “luxury experience” and then they leave, take half your shit for their time, then go on to live their life… they’re turning marriage into prostitution 😬
Im Spanish and our salary is not as is in the States or Canada. But Im a stay at home mum. My husband make a fraction of what they say is the minimum, we are constantly worring about money, but we have a privileged life, only covering rent, services, food and our children school. We have money to live but not to go out or live a life of leisure. But we have everything we need to live and my husband has flexibility which is important having kids. Our quality of live is better being to happy people than one very rich one. Many people have a lot less than us. Is a huge privilege in Spain being able for one of the spouses to quit their job. (Sorry for the English)
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Nearly every guy, at any age, making top 1% money is not likely getting married in today’s world. The older a man gets, if he has leveled up in all areas of his life, his choices for those he wants in his life is unlimited. Keep state marriage and divorce laws out of your life. Do the things that bring you joy. You can thank me later.
I really appreciate your opinion, guys! Thank you for expressing this. I completely agree with your points! A lot of people are disconnected from reality in terms of how much work it takes and how long it takes to make 6 figures.
the girl expecting 80-100k is realistic, but the problem is what Kev Samuels and people like Destiny mentioned. if you're 25-30 y/o still looking for that ONE partner that fits the statistic, and you have yet to consistently have partners or relations with those people, its very unlikely you will ever run into them especially romantically. Most of the tech guys who are dating are with recruiters, sales analysts, and other tech related roles who actually are nearby and know what's going on in their world. Other than that people are getting it arranged.
Did you miss where she said by 23 that's unrealistic. Even if young techs are making that at 23 what percentage of the male population in America do they represent. I'm guessing 1 to 4 percent of men how would she find them. 🤔
@@chattingman6777 only 8% of adults earn $100k+ in the USA in total. The number that are men below 30 in that number is minuscule. Most will be older than that and plenty will be women too
@@chattingman6777 it’s a bit more realistic than the percentages Aba is saying, but the idea is the same, its about situation. It’s a little less than 4 to 1 odds for the majority of people to have a partner in the top 24 percent, realistic but not an actual goal. 258 million people are 18 or older in the US. 29 million people are in poverty. 164 million earn more than poverty but less than 100k. 62 million earn 100-199k. 2.6 million earn 400k or more. I’m just saying that for the almost 200 million people trying to be the perfect partner, some are not even realizing they are in a position where they will never be involved with a partner/people in their preferred bracket🤷♂️
i feel this alot really. I'm 23 years old atm and I spent all my time from mid high-school to now straight up pursuing education and skills to make me the most desirable person in the workplace. Currently go to a private university for my mechanical engineering degree, got a minor in computer science and have worked as an intern for design company, IT company, and now a custom engineering firm. I spent alot of money for university and worked on school work most times 12hrs a day to make sure i surpass expected results. Realistically I will be making good money right out of university next year and will be working alot of overtime and traveling around the world for my job to make as much money as possible. The money will be there but what I sacrificed was almost all family relationships, any friendships, any romantic relationships, and alot of social interactions. It can get very lonely when you have no one to talk to outside of work or education, but i chose this path for the money so that I may have the potential to have a better life, and if I ever have children, to give them the best opportunity I could give them in this world. Just wanted to highlight what Aba and Preach say is completely true in my case and I don't recommend everyone do what I do unless they are ready to potentially be alone for a long time because you will be so busy that you wont even be able to sleep some days, know the trade-off of what it takes to work hard and earn good money.
A lot of people have been brainwashed by social media that unless you are living a certain lifestyle you are struggling but once you make a certain income you gotta work hard to keep that income.
I’m a woman who makes 200 plus ( in tech) and work around those high earning younger tech bros. To echo everyone’s sentiments, usually they’re not interested in those types of women. They still want you hot but like have more of work ethic. Once they confirm you’re not a gold digger tho I think they’ll be more accommodating to support / be sweet with the gestures etc
I really appreciate you both always covering topics like this. I may not agree with some takes but you guys bring unique perspectives to this kind of dialogue. It's wild that they're saying I'd have to make $80K-$100K by 23 to be considered a match for them! What kind of delusional, romance "pretty woman" dream do they think they're living in? I'm a 1st year PhD student going into cancer research. I'm 25 years old, I have 5 years to go. I'm not even making $30K. I put in 30+ hours studying and anther 20+ on research per week. Even when I graduate by 30, I still have more work known as post-doctoral research or fellowship which is another 2-3 years and maybe I'll get paid $40K-$60K. To even be considered for a well paying job in industry which is $100K-$120K, I'd need the post-doc experience. Not even PhD alone is enough in some instances. So I'd be 33 at the youngest to make that money. The amount of effort to get the degree in order to get that kind of money is unfathomable to some. Yet, these women are acting like it's a criteria on MY part to get with them. That's just insane to me and people keep feeding in their delusion.
So many females do not have a single shred nor iota of a clue of the effort & time it all took & will continue to take. A post-graduate year 4 medical resident, 11 years of school & training minimum to get to that point, averages 84k/yr in CA.
And what’s your reward for doing all of that? Busting your ass for all them years, entirely missing out on your 20s when you have the most energy and should be having the time of your life? A middle aged karen with a blown out coochie nagging in your ear every time you come home, and 3 kids from another man you have to take care of as well….LMAO enjoy
Absolutely true. With only a high school education, I had to grind my ass off until 34 to hit six figures and had no time for dating. Now I want nothing more than a real relationship but don't have the skills to maintain a healthy one and working 10-12 hours a day doesn't leave me much time to pursue one.
Preach is right - proximity improves your chances in dating. I went to an ivy league school, am around academics a lot and people who became doctors, lawyers, financial analysts etc. Women tended to meet men in those socioeconomic circles. For example, doctors who met their spouses in med school.
400k is the imaginary, outlandish number I picked for myself to be my "goal salary" someday. I literally chose an art handle that seemed like an impossible goal, and one of these girls is like "yeah that's the starting point, it goes up from there."
You'd be surprised how many women seem to stop maturing emotionall after puberty. It's like they hit 15/16 and their thoughts and feelings just stay there for the next 15-20 years lmao
How do they still not understand that the average man makes 45k a year? This is wild to me, like how are these average AF women even asking for 100k-400k ? Do they really think that money just comes out of thin air? The delusion is killing me here.
That's why so many men are either complaining or making fun of modern women these days because you've got average chicks wanting the top 10% of earners. It just doesn't work that way.
@@kidkid985 successful men are sooo humble at least compared to the girls in this video.I know they date models sometimes but that's because they understand their life.Ive seen footballers with mid gals cuz they grew up together.
All this showed me is that women like this have no intention of bearing the burden of their own existence they literally expect and demand a man to carry them till the end. That have no urgency/agency/ etc to provide these things for themselves. It's actually wild lol And again Kevin Samuels was right again
Men are put here to provide for women that’s literally why men exist if you read on evolution there’s no other reason for it. Literally men are a genetic mutation of women that happened to help women in hunting and provisions dude.
It shows the natural differences between men and woman. I can’t even fathom being cared for my whole life. Men have a natural desire to conquer or have power. For alot of these woman to not even try to bring honor to their name is insane to us for a reason
@@artistformerlyknownaspoop859 people have different priorities. 30 less K a year, while having a much more balanced lifestyle seems the Goldilocks zone to a lot of us .
When that girl said "life of leisure", I honestly think she was talking about herself. She was thinking the husband would go out and earn the money while she was at home spending it. If I'm wrong I'm wrong, but that's the impression I got.
Im 35 and i started really dating when i was in my late 20's early 30s cause i grew up really poor and took me a very long time to start making 75k+. i have a Graduate degree and everything took time. My advice when dating is to always keep everything very simple and dont try to impress with money cause this is what you get. and they will bleed you dry and leave you in a heart beat. i got stories for days :'D
About to hit 30 and just started dating because... I've been dating my thesis for the last few years. Even then my salary is average amongst compared to my friends but, growing at a decent pace.
@@timothygarycarolus1018 , I read your comment and spat my coffee out 😂😂😂😂. I (F) am married. My husband told me: “Your thesis is your side man.” I went through a lot with my thesis from April 2021 to June 2022. I presented my thesis on last June 28th in front of 3 lawyers. I passed it. I graduated and Oct. 18, which is my birthday, is the graduation ceremony. It has been a rough right, but I made it. Wishing you the best. You got this! 🙏🏽
@@chrollodranx-hunter3389 here's one. Early in the day I had a motorcycle accident. Coulda been really bad. I got pushed into the back of a car goong 80. So it was late and I couldn't sleep and I didn't want to be alone to asked a girl I was talking to on hinged to go out and she said sure. Told me she wanted to be picked up so I said sure. I go pick her up( like 30 away) and we heading to a restaurant. Bam right in front of us head on accident. I want to get out and check on them and she's telling me to just go and leave. Mind you she a fucking nurse. So I called 911 and they were walking so we we went out. This 30 year old has no car. No degree. No job amd is planning on moving to the city( I lived on LI). Date was trash. Still she came home we me and she never called back and I never tried to do the same. Sex was ok
I'm grateful to be making 6 figures at 22, stumbling upon this video has made me appreciate it more. Making such money literally makes me lack a social life since I'm the resident engineer of my firm and a field engineer at the same time.
lol'n at the girl who said she'd be worried about her future if her man made less than 100k......pffft, she's worried about her image and her status
Facts
Factos 👍
BINGO. More people need to say this.
They'd be safe if they both worked 40k jobs and saved money properly but she would have her luxury
Exactly
I spent most of my 20s getting to the point where I made 90k a year. Then I learned pretty quick these women have very little to offer, and are actively planning how to spend your money. It feels really creepy and more like a parent child relationship than a boyfriend girlfriend one.
They literally want “sugar daddies”.
Never thought of it that way. It really is creepy
@@sheepdog5799 it is creepy because they do not want to form a positive relationship with the person they just want to exploit the person for $. They do not view him as a person just a walking wallet and status symbol its just like how women get creeped out by guys who only view them as a walking fleshlight and status symbol.
Congrats on your grind though stranger. That is a tough feat to pull off by yourself, and at your age. Never forget your accomplishment or let anyone disrespect it! 👍
How did you do 90k a year?
The fact that these women even believe that Men who are that successful would want THEM Is Mind blowing.
They won't understand the exchange of value.
Unfortunately there are simps even at that income that will oblige them. That’s why I blame MEN for the current state of dating. Women wouldn’t be that entitled if men didn’t enable them.
Straight facts. They not even all that. They just going to be ran through and complain when they 40 " where have all the good men gone". I hate women like this , they eventually settle for average joe when their looks are gone and then he loves them but they always thinking about the smash and dash dude. Women will never learn.
A simp is a simp no matter how much he earns, however harder to find them since they now have confidence and status and you have to compete with lots of other pretty girls.
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Some women understand this.
Growing up, I was kinda an introvert, and my Mom would always tell me "You either have more time than money, or more money than time. So, spend time now because you won't have it once you have money."
Now I'm 30 and its the truest thing she ever told me.
Wow that's what I tell people now.
Good advice go mom
It's always infuriated me about Americunts that expected me to be available AND creating a high income. That is VERY rare and almost exclusive to young people inheriting wealth- not someone creating wealth.
They're not worried about the "future" of their family. They're more worried about living a superficial and materialistic lifestyle that they've been exposed to by sleeping with rich guys who pumped and dumped them or lied to by social media.
They’ve been exposed to by social media *
@@petejammo88 that too
THANK YOU!!! finally someone f gets it! A few pump and dumps but now they think they're entitled to that.
@@petejammo88 Social media exposed them to the guys who pumped and dumped them.
actually, most of them have probably never even met anyone making 400k
I'm 46, work in tech and live close to NYC where salaries are generally much higher...I just made it $125k salary this year after working in this field for 20 years. These women are not only ridiculous but no guy who actually earns over $100k would allow a woman like these into their lives. At best, they would be a side piece to these men. The guys in the tech field that are in their 20s don't make anywhere near $100k. I know because I've hired a lot of them and negotiated their salaries and mentor them at work...and I also teach them about women like this too, lol.
I know software engineer making that at 30
Let em know. Men must protect their M.E.A.T. (money, energy, attention, time) from women like these.
Dude i don't know what you do in tech but 20 years, yet you're stuck at 125/year? in NY? you're underpaid, waaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaay underpaid. You should be at least 200k. Are you remote? if so, why aren't you picking up other remote roles? yes you can do that. I know people in tech making 350K right now between 2 jobs. One of the jobs by the way is fully contracted out through upwork or other platforms🤣🤣🤣
My father was the same. Took him like 15-20 years at the same company to get all of the benefits and the 6 figure salary. He's not even high up the company, he's just been around for so long and put up with all the changes and all of that over the years
these are going to be starving side peices because they aren't even premium quality. i onno why people forget that high earners have specific demands too lol! i have a friend who is in tech and specializes with bank hardwares . he makes 200k/year but to meet him i need schedule time and i've known the guy since we were 7 . he gets home and just sleeps that's it.
The funniest thing about this to me is that people this age are the kind of people to say shit like "I'm young, I'm having fun, I'm still figuring out who I am" yet expect dudes of the same age pool to already be making more money than their fathers.
These girls wild lol.
Yo I’ve never thought about it like that!
These girls are always like “I’m still young, I’m finding myself!”, meanwhile they expect a guy their age to have it all at 21 years old!
@@dexdubya2414 fr
They probably have no clue what their parents make.
Underrated comment
All that AND commit to them and be loyal. These kind of girls think they are the only ones entitled to ‘finding themselves’ and having fun/exercising their options.
I work in the cybersecurity sector and make the kind of money these girls are talking about, I work with or for people who earn way more than me and trust me when i say none of them live "lavish" lifestyles, they all work extremely hard and put in a lot of hours, people thinking that 100k+ year just fall in your lap are completely disconnected from reality because even the criminals who make this kind of money work pretty hard.
"....because even the criminals who make this kind of money work pretty hard."
Yeah sure. Literally every guy on here is saying they earn that money that these girls are talking about. Please! Most of those types of guys hardly come on TH-cam. They are waaay too busy and if they are watching TH-cam they aren’t watched people like Aba & Preach. Most likely political and business channels. Channels like this wont even be on their radar. Please stop lying.
@@gailainsley6939 Your point is hilarious man. Literally 60% of my job is looking at a screen and killing time so ofcourse I browse TH-cam. Everyone I know and work with is chronically online or playing video games to pass the time. Even worse now that like 80% of us work from home.
As for "business channels" literally all of them are scams, trust me no one in this life is going to teach you how to make money. Time in the market always beats timing the market and any investment opportunity I will hear about from coworkers and friends in the industry weeks if not months before it hits any "business channel"
@@gailainsley6939 How was that a lie?
men compartmentalize their feelings, ladies compartmentalize ......... REALITY.
I was raised by a single mom who hammered the (admittedly very old fashioned) idea into my head that if I got a good career and worked hard I would be able to find a good woman easily. Now I have a good career, make just shy of 100k a year on my own, and have a house. But that comes at the cost of working a ton, and I’ve been told I’m “boring” so many times because if I’m not working I’m either taking care of my house or resting for more working lol
Edit: I should also add it took me until I was 31 to get where I am, so the idea that a normal dude can get here by their early to mid 20’s is completely unreasonable
@Peachy Peach or he is short or something
I’m right there with you but I got me a foreign
@Peachy Peach I disagree since it depends on his preferences. If he has little preferences then I agree there's something seriously wrong. But if he has some standards (not just physical standards) it could make sense why he's struggling to find the right person.
I'm 32 and have a modest job, so that means I will never be remotely wealthy. Money is not my priority but when I think that I don't have this option anymore, it's kinda not cool. Hahaha
Join a church.
My husband makes 6 figures. When he hit a certain level in his career financially he went from kinda coasting doing day to day, 8-4 to he is ALWAYS working! I can see why it burns these guys out, too. They’re grinding. Now, they dangled another huge pay bump and promotion to him, so he’s gotta keep up the grind. He’s missed nearly every holiday, family function, you name it on his way to this level. After the last huge raise the levels of work expected increased with it. That’s how it works. And at 6 figures we don’t travel like that, or spend money like that. Six figures doesn’t go as far as these girls think it does. My husband has 6 weeks vacation each year. When he’s able to take one, know how he’s spending it normally? Around the house. Fixing things, sleeping a lot, relaxing. Traveling isn’t for everyone. Especially now. The man built his castle and wants to enjoy it. Something tells me these ladies aren’t looking at the IT guys as their ideal mates, either. The stable career man.
These girls have no idea what they’re talking about. They want to use men and think they’re not the tissue here.
Girl! Thank you for your comment and insight! This needs to be pinned tbh.
It sad because IT guys make good
Money still. $60,000-$80,000 a year, combine that with a womens
Income of $30,000-$80,000 that’s pretty good money.
Six weeks vacation aint enough??
Look, y'all *could* take nice vacations at 6 figures with six weeks vacation. Idk how you're spending your money but this is wild. My fiance works 75 hours a week just to make $70k and he gets *two weeks* of vacation per year and we can still do decently nice vacations inside the US.
Can you tell us how old your husband is and at what age he hit the 6 figure salary?
Well that's the problem, they don't know how to balance. You lessen your work and rise up your wife and family time to balance it out. BALANCE!!!
Single, unmarried guy here.
I started working in a blue collar field when I was 20.
60+ hours a week, my friends were just the guys working as much as me.
Saw my immediate family once a week, THAT'S IT!
Saved and invested that money, started making 6 figs a few years later.
Now 10 years later, I'm still in that field + I started a business.
With the little free time I do have, there's just absolutely NO WAY I would give women like this the time of day.
This life is not for MOST people.
It's a long way to the top if you want to rock and roll.
and when you could have used the comfort and encouragement of a good woman, they were no where to be seen, now you realize you made it without them, you don't need em.
Same
I gotta tell you, my guy. As hard as you've worked for so long, you look young and spritely. Big ups to you.
hey! what did you invest your money on. Just curious.
This is exactly what my husband and I did together since 2005. Worked lots, bought and sold properties, started a business and eventually had 3 kids. Many friends told me to leave my husband lots of times because he always prioritizes work but then they complain that their men are lazy and don't provide 🤷
It took my Dad 20+ years to reach the 90K mark (he’s a machinist), and that was after years of welding, and other odds and ends jobs beforehand. He’s 57 and he’s always been a father and husband worthy of my admiration and praise. These women are crazy if they think they’re worthy of men like that.
I think they are COMPLETELY worthy.................... up until the point when I but a n.................! NEXT!
Woman: “ I prefer a guy that makes six figures”
Also woman: “ You’re so boring. Why are you always working? Why are you always studying? You don’t give me enough attention”
They won't want to be with the man for the long run though. They will divorce the man in a couple of years/months and get his income
You're extremely right James! Modern women are delusional
Bitches 😂
that's why these hoes want to have a 6figure man that they want to gold dig an a chat/tyrone who fks them....
Exactly like they are dumb
I work for a sales company. The men that make the type of money these women are looking for are at the office 6 days a week, 12+ hours a day, and when they have a day off all they want to do is relax at home. You hit the nail on the head with this. They’re usually over 40, married, and have kids. Not all of them have terrible attitudes but 8 out of 10 of these men are, for a better choice of words, stressed. They have put their dedication into their career, so they don’t have much time to “live a life of leisure and adventure”. Don’t get me wrong, these are great men and there’s nothing wrong with how they live their life. I respect the hell out of them.
Before anyone comes for me: Yes, women can make this type of money too but in this particular example I am speaking only of the men.
Problem is women have no desire to share the money they make with men, so there is no benefit if a woman makes money in a relationship.
I imagine the voice from Jordan Peterson saying this monologue and it sounds legit.
On a serious note though, you aint Lying Kay... people really need to look up this kind of things in a deeper level. Is not just "I want this or reach that" manifestation rubbish... The most important thing is *what* it takes to get there and *how* is maintained it.
@@Yito14 Facts. Big facts to both comments.
Nah.....women in those professions generally burn out. Can't hack the hours/stress. Leave for something less time consuming and difficult. I saw it in my female friends in the banking world. They mostly left after marrying a better off dude and now either don't work or "followed their dreams" and teach or something less stressful. They're also mostly leftists.
@@nickamalfitano3613 personally, I think it depends on the person or woman herself. Some women can't handle the pressure, some can.
Seems like as a whole, our society is shooting itself in the foot. Its putting the celebrity lifestyle on a pedestal while simultaneously shrugging off accountability/responsibility for what it takes to actually get there and maintain it (or at a minimum demonstrating a willingness to understand). I'm not sure if its that people have never been exposed to those who run their own companies and how much work it takes to do so, or if its willful ignorance in that they want what they want and are in denial of the realities that come along with it. Either way this really doesn't seem sustainable.
how can your comment be 2 days ago on a video uploaded today?
None of this stuff is new. Chill lol
@@Bajinowhere Patreon early access.
Not surprising given how many people believe that CEOs get paid a lot of money to do nothing all day
Welcome to capitalism
As a dude on internet, I was 22 and making $80,000 CAD a year just from my day job. I was exceptionally lucky to have someone take a chance on me to even start my career in the field. I had worked for years to start a business and was living off of scraps - less than 30k a year.
Women like this is who would approach *me* in social spaces. I wouldnt even approach them because they reeked of peetyness the same way some guys reek of desperation. It's repulsive.
And then you woke up 😂😴
Used to work for two architects who are in the financial bracket these women want.. these men had no time at all, they worked till 6am at times. Id get to work and find that the last file he was working on was last accessed at like 3-6am and by 8am he’d be in the office.. when they had “fun” they had it with a new girl each month. All these girls looked like models🔥One of them had a fiancé and she knew what was up.. so women who want these men dont even know how absolutely cut throat that life is🤣
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 are you always just in these comments to lie and slander men?
@@ElementVoidX nobody lying you can look at the census study about fathers being active in the home barely any men of all races and incomes are active with their children at high rates. Nobody lying why would a government stat lie on men? 🤔
@@ElementVoidX yes that all she does do not reply because she just gonna deflect and use sign language she does this on another channel as well
@@theghostofumarskoolishere.4632 You must wake up with the Cap stitched to your head.
@Buyi those guys who work on fish boats, oil fields and goldmines 24/7 at work.
Mom makes close to 130k to provide for the family, she’s almost never home and certain days she works damn near 15 hour shifts. You definitely right about the high earners having no time to leisure, the women in the video really don’t know what it’s like to witness the grind firsthand and it definitely takes a toll. It’s not all sunshine and rainbows like they think it is.
Some girls , many actually have no idea how money is earned. No idea the concept of money , ask your girl the prices of certain things and you'll see ...
I’m at 107k and I don’t clock over 40 hours/week
@@strtupj882 you're the exception. that means nothing. Ive made more than than and worked 100 hour work weeks. Who cares without context?!!
@@july9566 i make over that and work 6-8 hour days but i still dont have time becuz i have 2 kids n a wife
@@strtupj882 what is your job?
For reference: An assistant professor earns on average about 60-80k. A full fledged professor earns about 120k after he has to go through hell and back.
These women want their men to make AT LEAST as much as 4 university teachers combined.
The delusion is unreal.
My mom is a tenured professor who’s recently been accepted into an elite national society, and she barely makes 120K-150K CAD. She works like a dog. She’s now in her fifties.
wallah ! and they all have those straight faces . but they ain't saying what it is that they are bringing to the table except poosie because that part is available a dime a dozen
To be fair, professors are insanely under paid for their level of experience. I have much less experience and education, am much younger, and make way more money than my professors.
no, they want a rapper or a pro athlete. in reality nobody with more than 3 brain cells would want to build a life with these bimbos.
And the work load for college professors is insane even with assistants
"You got the money but don't have the time.." well said sir, well said.
*"If he's not making more than 100K, then I'm worried about our future together."*
I'm worried about my own future with a woman who thinks that's rational. In these times, you're living in luxury if you're making even 50K.
they don't know that 100k isn't a lot of money, especially after tax
Most women don't think like this since most women are with men that don't make 100K. These are women invited into some show of wich they felt good and important enough to participate in to begin with. i don't think these crazy videos actually reflect reality at all. Though the fact women can feel they can say something like this and act like its normal.. yea thats a real problem lol.
Fax 📠
Facts
As someone from Pakistan where a GOOD salary is $300 a month, y'all WILDINNNN.
But my reality is different I realize that. You can afford to buy land and build a whole damn 7 bedroom house here if you're on an American salary living on Pakistani rent
I can easily make a 100K plus while being single with Overtime shifts. But not while dating anyone. My last (real) relationship ended because I worked so much and was never present and she was neglected. You guys nailed that one.
Easily? Lol chill.
My husband works a lot of overtime. We had a quick courtship. We mostly discussed how things would play out. He makes about 50k a year. He gets home around 8 or 9pm many nights and works some Saturdays even. We spend Sundays together and whatever other time we can find. Sundays together usually include napping holding hands or something. He's exhausted basically always. I do his laundry and grocery shopping though so that frees him up a little.
@@analyticalchick3064 Most women would feel resentful in your situation despite the fact that he is doing nothing wrong.
It’s true some girls demand so much attention and still expect you to be paid, being single with some chill bits on the side is easier sometimes
@@MClovinHD3D Yeah when you work AND hustle your social life takes a real hit……..
I watched my Daddy provide for my family while making what these ladies would consider to be pennies. We always had food, clothes, toys, family time, vacations, etc. It's not about what you make, it's how you manage that budget. Now I'm making what he's making and living what people would consider to be a more lavish lifestyle with lots of vacations and free time. I don't make a lot, I just budget the heck out of what I have.
exactly the same story here. I feel privileged thinking about how my one parent kept us in a comfortable home for 5 with our own rooms, school and extra curricular for years and years in his scarily underpaying jobs, even when the wider economy was a mess our parents never let us feel the brunt of the storm. Only later on I started to notice the little luxuries/leisure they held themselves to dedicate to our home. Budget smart, necessity first, leisure later, complete your duty to each other. all the qualities none of these women could dream to offer 💀
@@humblecrabd6981 yup 100%!!!!! I didn't even notice the Great Recession because of how well my Dad took care of us all. I tried to enter the workforce in 2013, huge wakeup call struggling to find any job (I worked small jobs with Dad for awhile). Only after all my siblings were old enough to have jobs and be independent did I notice my parents begin to spend money on themselves. It was very humbling to see how much they denied themselves until the rest of us were taken care of. A good budget goes a looooooooong way
Budgeting is definitely important but budgeting $40k and budgeting $120k a two different things.
@@TomikaKelly $120k in a majority city is basically $50k in a poorer city so…..
@@TomikaKelly Yea obviously what these girls want is a luxurious, easy celebrity lavish type lifestyle and that *ain't* gonna happen on 40k for sure. My comment is more addressing the fact that some girls think they need a dude making 120k in order to feel secure financially, when really you can be just as broke with 120k as with 40k if you are a bad budgeter.
We don't make a lot, but we come across as fairly well off with the houses, vacations, cars, clothes, free time, electronics, etc. We just get great deals, save our money, and budget well. I mean we aren't wearing Gucci or driving Tesla, but we are extremely satisfied with our way of life.
I’m a 28 year old woman and I used to do real estate and being around rich men made me not interested in being with a ridiculously rich man, I rather just have enough to live comfortably and still have family time
Wise of you. Not everyone sees beneath the surface.
Same here😂
I've dated a couple rich boys with very successful dads and they were legit the worst 😂😂😂 it's not always the case I'm sure but it was in mine. They acted like their dad's success was theirs 😵💫😵💫
@@livalittle13 A lot of kids who grow up with rich parents tend to grow up lazy and entitled, or never learn how the real world works. Same can be said for upper middle class kids too but rich kids are worse. Mainly do to their parents doing everything and never taking the time to teach their children. I personally know a rich kid and he's down to Earth because his parents raised him well. Other rich kids I've encountered (men and women) are a chore to be around and don't even have a working relation with reality. As Zoidberg from Futurama once said "Money doesn't make good people, no siree."
@neonnwave1 no truer words my friends
Some women today put it all on men. I had just moved out of my mothers house 4 years ago and my gf at the time expected me to have everything we needed immediately. She has gone back to the streets and I now have everything I need with a woman that actually respect my struggle to get where I am now.
thats whatsup. I'm still at my mom and dads as an older guy. its pretty embarrassing. dont even put myself out there cause I dont want the conversation to come up about where I'm at. but ill get there slowly but surely.
@@CB-rv2lj Keep grinding dog. keep putting in the work and you'll improve your situation. 💯
@@CB-rv2lj Just keep moving forward because as men thats all we can do. Nothing is permanent and better comes once you put in the work. You got this!
Women put it on Men because Men created the conditions for Women's expectations. It's nature.
@@atthecore4560 modern woman wants traditional man
I'm glad I found a great man at 21. I didn't asked how much he made and still lucked out. I just looked for a smart, kind man with good values. Met him at the library.
good luck to you two.
I'm happy for your both :)
Nice
Bet he has lots of money huh …you only “lucked out” cuz he has money ..if he didn’t you wouldn’t have called him a great man 😂 …
@@Andre-im7eq He's proven himself to be a great guy on a personal level. He has a great family and he has a good relationship with them, he gets along with my family, he loves our pets, he's kind to strangers, and is fun to be around. Being with some asshole because he has money wouldn't be worth it, just like smart guys know being with a nasty woman for her looks isn't worth it.
Agreed. When I was making 125K, I had NO time for vacations and crap. I'm pretty sure I had only something around 6-7 days off PER YEAR. Full-time days off. Not I worked 8am-12pm, and then could do whatever I wanted for the rest of my day on a Sunday. Nope. Now I'm comfy at 67K. I get weekends off, 4 weeks/year off and medical leave if needed.
It honestly just blows me away when I meet up with people or have women come approach me. "You gave up a large salary and manager position for 'normal'? WHY?" ... because I like to enjoy life and hike mountains. I have hobbies, and need time to cook/clean/chores, and actually spend more than 2-5 hours visiting my mates each month.
This. If they don't complain about you not having time for them they nag you about how you aren't working hard to get them money. Woman, you can only pick one. 🙄
Good on you. You broke the cycle. It seems for so many there is a point where it becomes workaholic, then outside of work
... Nothing. But you have a life,,, nothing in the world can buy that
@@1911Zoey In the words of the late great Bobby Womack “I can’t be in two place at one time”
Good on you man. There's more to life than constantly working
How did we come to a point where even basic women even feel entitled to a luxury life? Too many women have lost all touch with reality.
I blame Beyoncé.
Why can’t women have luxury? Women deserve luxury as much as a basic guy deserves a pretty woman
@@gerbrandlub why? Beyonce works hard
@@marycash183 I missed this comment. A guy doesn't "deserve" a pretty woman, and neither does a woman "deserve" luxury. Both need to put up their worth, and settle for likewise.
@@ultraboombean The comment I made was, in what we Dutch would describe as "short through the turn" meaning: nuance would made it more understandable. Long story short, Beyonce sang about female empowerment while first and foremost hooking up with more powerful and established men, and secondly getting rich off of downtrodden women (see: sweatshops in south-east Asia).
This is one of the biggest takeaways you could get from Kevin Samuel's videos. The vast majority of the women that came on his show had a very clear idea about how much money a man needs to make while at the same time having no idea how many men make this much money, who those men are, what those men want and where they would go to meet such a man. A lot of them had never even interacted with a man like this and yet they were convinced they would marry one of them. They have just constructed this fantasy in their minds and they expect to just manifest it into existence. Then they are surprised when they are too old to have kids and are still single af, nevermind on the way to marriage.
Kevin samuels made me go through every stage of the redpill. From thinking the whole show was scripted, to shock, to horrified, to then angry at all women to finally ACCEPTANCE. That man changed my life. Now I own nothing but suits. I don't leave my house unless i'm in some trousers and dress shirt and a bit of cologne. Just a lifestyle now. RIP
they're also not taking into account taxes and inflation.
@@ibizawavey8630 I got like four suits 😂😂
That’s because of social media and Disney movies, women even average and unattractive women are naturally hyperegamus, a lot of women like you said never even interacted with a top tier man so they go by their fantasy
Are you surprised? This kind of women often live in bubbles. They come from rich families or live their whole lifes on welfare/child support and things like that. They dont understand the value of money.
As a man who is growing personally, professionally, and financially. I can confirm that myself and my peers are FAR more cautious of women we are around as we progress. Not wasting time on these dumb bimbos. We would rather work. They will try and take it all away.
Let the mothers and aunties serve as match maker. takes pressure off you
@@PHlophe Mothers and aunties never married a high income earner. Most of them didn’t have successful marriages at all. They don’t know, they’ve never been there. If you’re getting ahead and having success, you’re demonstrating you have the ability to make the decisions on your own. So make them.
@@PHlophe yeah not all Mothers and Aunties are wise, or good match makers.
Look at my username i.m working
Nah, let the entitled ones stay single. Some may figure it all out before they are too late.
Idk how these women are just throwing around words like “6 figures” & “$100k” like they’re talking about a Wendy’s 4 for $4.
They want a guy 8 feet tall, incredibly good looking, and making all kinds of money.
Bitches demand more than they are worth,
Women demand a equitable partnership
Wendy’s 4 for 4 got me wheezing
@@SyverReborn well put actually. As a woman myself a lot of women act like little girls these days. Straight up see women ten years older than me act way less mature and unrealistic
Not a Wendy's 4 for $4 🤣🤣🤣
Don't worry. Most of these women will hit their late 30's and 40's, and start feeling that desperation kick in. Once they are stuck with a string of failed relationships and, for many, kids, they'll realize maybe they were looking for the wrong things in someone.
This isn't just women. There are plenty of guys out there overestimating their value. It's the narcissism in ALL generations today that this is just one example of what is wrong.
"plenty of guys" is bullcrap.
When a man overestimates himself, rejection quickly reminds him of what he's worth.
The delusion is solely of women.
This should be a top comment 🙏🏼
Yes, but if a dude is delusional reality often punches him in the face and it has got consequences meanwhile if a woman is a loser, she can stay delusional and make money
@@envynoir Has reality punched you in the face with its consequences yet? Because based on what you just wrote here, you're definitely delusional, dude.
"they'll realize maybe they were looking for the wrong things in someone"
That would be nice if it were true but most likely they will end up "settling" for some beta with some money and then be miserable because they didn't get what they thought they deserved.
It is sad I dated this sort of type of women for 4 years. She always kept pushing me to go to school so I can find a better career even though i was paying all the bills and constantly purchasing expensive things for her. I was making nearly 50k a year pre covid mind you I worked a lot. She ended up cheating on me for a guy who "had a better plan for his future". Now that guy is nowhere to be found. Stay single fellas and work on yourself. Relationships aren't worth the hassel anymore
P.S. aba and preach your videos help with me dealing with my depression now and my self improvement. No amount of thank you's will ever show my gratitude 🙏
yo taunt her. let her feel stupid
DashCash100 Same bro. I dated one for 4 years also. I was working and had some side hustles going on. I was pulling in major money. Like 250k a year. Big part of that was the side hustle stuff (figure it out lol) and it wasn't enough for this girl. Even though I took her on cruises and vacations all over the place while paying all the bills. Even bought her a car. She cheated on me too. Years later I saw on FB she married her high school sweetheart guy. He cheated on her a few yrs into the marriage and now she's single in her early 40s. Karma. She was stunning in her mid 20s but now not so much xD
amen brother. Keep improving yourself and don't give in to the depression, you're not alone.
Not alone by far. I’m starting to realize that we might be the majority actually.
Damn
The funniest part is, a successful man wouldn't choose them anyway. Nobody wants someone who is in it for the money... I married my husband when he was considered poverty level. We have leveled up together and now make well over $100k TOGETHER, a decade later. We're both happy we don't ever have to wonder if our spouse is here for the funds available, and we're enjoying everything we've built together. It's the best feeling ever ❤️
Amazing 👍🏽 you a real one, what do you 2 do for a living ?
Based and affection pilled
That’s great! I wonder what these women bring to the table or how they compare with your ideals. I think you did it the ‘right’ way.
What they see is the mentally dysfunctional rich man who appears in the media. Look at the properties on Nantucket Island. There are 20K+ men there in the Summer that have no social media or media presence that is not under their control with a net worth more than most media figures. They end up with these men that can be gamed, conned or got and then wonder how their relationship went wrong when it does. Riches are flashy but true wealth does not speak at all.
same way with my marriage, we got successful together. but now in days so few women want to invest in a guy working his way up and encouraging him. No they wait at the finish line to screw the winners.
When she said “a life of leisure,” she didn’t mean for the guy. She doesn’t care if he’s working, as long as she isn’t.
Yeah this thing also hits hard for the kids and even grandkids.
My grandparents were very high earners but were never around to take care of their kids. From my uncles and aunts to my own parents, they all have deep emotional and psychological issues because of it.
Now in our generation even if we are comfortable financially, everything else is a shitshow. We even have cctv cameras INSIDE the house FOR the people living in it. We don't even have cameras by the front door for strangers
I was lucky enough to be born with a father who made over 100k a year and still had plenty of time for family. My Mom stuck beside him while he built his business, when he had nothing, no matter how bad things got. That’s what women these days don’t understand, you’ve gotta bet on a man and stick with it.
betting on men's success for the future sounds like that would make a good gambling game😂
That's hard work my boy. Can't expect that from them.
As a woman who has been in a similar situation as your mother, i can say the hardest thing with being with a man when he is down and out is the helplessness, seeing that he is beating himself up and working himself tirelessly to try and make it. Yet u must do your best to give support in ways you can although it still feels like you aren’t helping cause you cant give him what he really wants so you watch him fight tooth and nail for it. It hurts but it builds him. For most women that would be too much to bear, they cant love nor be loyal enough to stay with a man when it gets really hard. Ive witnessed my husband go through all kinds of struggles to make it to where he is today as a high earner.
Yes, build a life TOGETHER. Not just swoop in after all the hard work is already done like some kind of leech sucking the mans blood. Weird how feminism has turned so many women into lazy, entitled, materialistic gold diggers.
@@buyi249 What you did is very hard. I am happy that there are women out their who will help/support their husbands through thick and thin.
My girlfriend and I are just shy of both making six figure salaries (we are both 30ish years old). During our 5 years together we have both been, students, in minimum wage jobs, unemployed, or even living with parents. Money has never negatively affected our relationship as we support each other and work towards our goals in life as a team. My advice, find yourself a partner who's ride or die!
That’s a needle in a million haystacks bro. Wish all the best!!!
There's no shame in living at home, especially if you're figuring things out.
Congrats
I wish all relationships are like this
Easier said than done, but you definitely found your soulmate.
As a software engineer, I make $80k salary straight outta college at 23. I also had a son back in 2020, so it took me an extra year because I was interning and had Co-Ops with different companies.
I sacrificed friends, even now I still sacrifice spending time with my family.
I’m looking to expand my investment portfolio before I hit $90k at my job, that way that $90k is really $100-$115k depending on how much effort I put into buying properties.
But what I can’t wrap my head around with most women my age, is the not cooking, cleaning, etc. And expecting a man to take care of me, and then wondering why he cheats with the maid, or has a mistress, or whatever the case may be.
Like you expect a man to hold you down but you can’t even hold water long enough to get paid for it.
Only man I know making money like that would never mess with these women. He also travels and is gone for sometimes an entire month in a different country. Half the time he's home he sits in his "man cave" and doesn't go anywhere bc he always traveling and running around for work. There is no life of leisure like that.
As someone that makes this level of money you guys hit the nail on the head. My wife has had to sacrifice me being around to make that level of money. You sacrifice time for wages. Pure and simple.
What do you do? If I may ask.
Cybersecurity in the medical device field, I have a BS and an MBA.
@@grimandbearit5882 cybersecurity! Neat, I've been dreaming of going into that field (plan to study in college) how long did it take you to get where you're at currently and what are the hours and wage if you dont mind me asking?
It's because you choose to put your work over your partner and that's the sad thing. Sensible people know how to balance. And Balance would be to lessen your work so that you can be attentive to your kids and wife more. So without doing so, you would be chasing the top while losing your family. Sad. Too many cases like this. Nothing excuses it
@@MsCarringtonsTH-cam No i have an open dialogue with my wife about every single career change I have made. We are in lockstep - I am able to work the way I work based off my partner supporting me and in turn me supporting her. Don't project your own misguided beliefs onto something you know nothing about.
Flight attendant here 🙋🏼♀️ felt it deep in my soul when preach said we’re hoes for our companies 🙃 100% true
If that's your picture, then that's your choice to remain that way. You can find a guy in Tech who makes over 100K tomorrow and leave that sh*t job going from city to city sleeping at hotels. eww.
@@ibizawavey8630 I’m married so no thanks. Working as a flight attendant puts me through pilot school for thousands cheaper so I’m good with my path. Thanks tho
Flight attendants are literally hoes lmao
@@ibizawavey8630 what a vapid, soulless mentality. “Just go find a guy that makes money” like men are just ATMs. It’s shitty to dehumanize women but not men I see.
“Just go find a prettier wife”
@@katherinelennon668 senior captains make + 400k with Legacy 👌🏽🙌🏽
Social media has blown what a normal life would seem like out of proportion
Social media has destroyed life itself
Social media has made it easy for me to talk shit about social media not gonna lie. It's refreshing cause those newspapers days were brutal. I had to pay a lot of money to get my shit talking in the newspaper back in the day.
@@houseofhas9355 wait, you could do that?
This is the one
@@ohnomybatterysdead2725 yes you can. You just pay for space. Usually big spenders do it. And back when it was cheap, I did it once. They put it in like Page 9 of newspaper and my story was about elder home orgies, and I was surprised they put in the newspapers. It was wildly inappropriate, I also quoted doctors about why orgies are good for senior citizens, I made up the studies that supported it lol and I'm sure some people got a great laugh out of it. I'm sure the old folks who read newspapers did love it.
27 year old guy here who chose to still live with his parents as I'm trying to save money while running a business. I drive an old beat down 2005 venture van, I'm in good shape I work out a lot. And I see myself having a bright future. I would say I'm fairly put together I've been told and I'm also fairly charismatic as well as my business has required me to be so. I stand by personal values and always seek to improve myself too. It's weird, because the harder I work the more confident I become. The harder I work the more I realize I'm a catch, someone very desirable in the making. I understand how, my shitty van and living with my parents may be a turn off which is fair. But it's clear as day to me that if a girl wanted my long term trust it's better they support me now than at the finish line. Yet, thou I hardly can be bothered to put more effort in dating rn. I feel very much invisible to women unless I have the materialistic things to flex. Thou I do love these things as I work in fashion, however that doesn't mean I'm shallow. I also understand the importance of a budget. These women, truly are shooting themselves in the foot where I believe they are missing out on guys who are probably right in front of him who are that top tier man their looking for in the making. But they are too selfish and caught in a fantasy to understand how to find these men or secure a relationship with such. And to vet a man's mindset/character first as that's a good indicator of their potential. Which I believe this is what women used to do back in the day. 🤷
It took me to my mid 30s as a software engineer to make over 6 figures, and it took choosing career over hobbies and personal life frequently to achieve that. Constantly studying new stuff, working well over a typical 40 hour week, and choosing career over relationships. It'll be into my 40s for sure before I make 7 figures.
Do you feel happy with the choices you've made in life?
@Doppelganger D don't give up. I'm 32, graduated 1.5 years ago and absolutely worth it, even late.
@@jhaifisch5676 thanks for the inspiration. I'm 26 expected to graduate at 29 and sometimes I feel that I'm late when I see people graduating since 23
@@aki42 Yes. I get to work on things like Lego Star Wars and Mortal Kombat now. The grind is long but it is worth it.
@@TheAsarath nice, I’m finishing my masters degree in a couple of years and moving into my Ph.D afterwards, I’m doing it because I want to show I’m worth something, I don’t want to be a failure like I’ve felt for my whole life. Money isn’t everything but I will at least be able to say I have something. Sadly though I don’t think I’ll ever marry at this point, I really do want a family but I don’t think anyone finds me attractive.
My dad owns an architecture firm and is an associate professor. Done malls, hospitals, office buildings, housing complexes, the lot. Has a PhD and a post doctorate.
There was a time when I was 9 when I saw him one month out of a whole year because he had an opportunity to further his career and make more money in a different country. Even when he was home, he always flew or drove to some city for work.
Everything these guys are saying is true. You have to be damn near psychotic to make the amount of money these women are looking for their man to make. Whenever the conversation comes up about what women from my generation are looking for in men, he genuinely can’t fathom the delusion lol.
a lot of these women just focus on what they see celebrities supposedly doing on social media or tv and think life with a wealthy or well earning man will be a fairy tale lol
and living without a dad figure must have left concequences for you - for boys, they learn from fathers how to control agressive and sexual agressive impulses (especially in a way father acts with mother), for girls how to have relashionshipo with a male - so boys without it are agressive, beat their girlfriends, have trouble with law, are easy to follow cults etc, and girl work sketchy jobs (sexual in nature like onlyfans, stripping, escort), or change partners a lot, going from partner to partner, and or have really agressive boys as partners.
Each parent (both mother and father) have their own roles (that can be fulfilled by other person, though, like grandparent, uncle, coach etc)
These women are talking about wanting a trust fund baby, or a generational wealth recipient. They have no concept of how much work it takes to make that level of wealth, and if they TRULY cared about actually having a relationship with that kind of man, then they'd know that a relationship in that context is pretty much non-existent. You won't see him. He'll be emotionally and physically unavailable, so your only comfort will be his money. Now if that's ALL you're interested in, then you're a gold digger who only wants to spend HIS money while you pay for you and your friends activities and sleep with your personal trainer. Women these days are so vapid and disillusioned when it comes to knowing what is truly GOOD for them on an emotional level, but it's not really their fault. Celebrity worship, fake Instagram culture, instant gratification, minimal education, and single parent households ALL contribute to this emotionally (and physically) retarded generation. I'm trying my best as a father of two girls to show them love, and to teach them by example through my relationship with my wife/their mother how a healthy relationship functions. It's such an uphill battle in this day and age to deprogram what they learn out in the world, and teach them The Way.
@@ivanangeli um that’s not necessarily true but ok 😭
@@somegrill7561 true, but even mother can replace father, so kids that went without that damage, probably had someone to replace father figure (anyone can do it, even mother, but for single mother it is very hard as she has also mother role, also cleaning, earning and more - one must be a superhero to do all of that alone.
They don't want traditionally successful men, they want the brocolli haired TikTok influencers who can make 3 posts a day and somehow end up with 6 figures a month. There is no hard work or sacrifice for these people to become rich because their jobs are essentially "take videos of yourself". Either that or doing "e-commerce" which is basically scamming people with dropshipping. The guys are just as much to blame as well, the dudes who follow Sneako and take his advice are the ones that are trying to become the guys that these woman want.
not the broccoli hair...
Brocolli haired TikTok influencer" is SO TRUE. I dont know where that came from, but it seems like the whole western hemisphere with the age-range from 15-25 has that hair now... really weird :D and yes, most young teens want to be "influencers" or "streamers" instead of policeman, nurses etc... this world is going to have big problems in the next 5-10 years imo
@@OO-ct4hq brocolli hair is a sickness and we need to cure the world
💀💀💀💀the drop shipping part killed me. But that’s really what it is, it’s a scam. All of these “get rich quick” schemes are scams
The broccoli hair 😂😂
I make above 100k a year at 26. Luckily, I started dating my girlfriend when I was making a lower salary (like 40k). She values me AND my success, not JUST my success. Many women, if they want to date near and around their age range 20-25, have to date men of "lower standard", and support them to become more successful. I personally know women and even female friends that complain about not being able to date young successful men around my age and I kinda just smile. They're just too late. Women who care and support their men have already taken them. On top of that, successful people know when, "Sooo, how much do you make" or "Sooo, what do you do for work" is the first thing a woman asks they're just looking for big wallet. It's funny how they think they're so slick. I honestly think it is those women who get rejected and ghosted who think "all men are assholes". No dude, its just clear you're a superficial person only in it for my money.
I’ve always found that there’s such a paradox with the fact that so many women want a successful guy who’s hard working and ambitious and makes enough money to take care of them and not have to work and have enough disposable income for leisure, but still expect him to have all the time in the world for them
the key to understanding is that most women are not happy unless their man is miserable, if he is at work all the time then they don't have the opportunity to hit him with all the drama, negativity, and nagging that builds up in their system every day.
@@impudentdomain lmaooo😭😭😂. You funny my brotha, just remember those are only the toxic ones
They want inherited generational wealth. You know, the 1% of the world LMAO. Not very logical thinking, but women arent logical beings.
@@semmywap2916 Yeah, can't let a few billion bad apples spoil the whole bunch
@@impudentdomain women can say the same thing about men. You’re in control of who you let in your life stop being a victim bro. If you want a healthy relationship then be a healthy person.
I just recently got an 80k job straight out of college and feel conflicted about it. When I first happened across this video, I was thinking they were all going to say 100k, 400k, etc., but when the one woman said 80k-100k, I was weirded out. The reality of me now being in the scope of women like this disgusted me and it made me further appreciate the strong relationship I have with my girlfriend. If I was single, I don't know if I would want to date again and deal with women like this
Bro a lot of them are like this now. The attention they get from men on social media and the envy from the female influencers they see always on nice vacations has made them into these narcissists.
@@capo4ever334 And The Only Time You Can Get Girls When You Are Broke Is If You Are Chad/Tyrone Or A Handsome Guy. Other Than That.. These Chicks Tell Dudes With A Smile On Their Face ..They Can Eat Cake And Die! 😆
Wow what job pays a fresh college graduate 80k straight away?
@@lilacblue783 It's a tech job I was lucky enough to find near my area
If you werent scoped out in college your good.. i got finessed in college by a woman looking for a high earner.. now i pay her child support that pays her and her bfs rent
“Go out and touch grass” sucks to be on the receiving end BUT these ladies don’t live in and actively try to escape reality.
This !!!
I’m in my mid 20s and so is my boyfriend. He's an electrical engineer entering a masters program and I was a pre med major about to start my next advanced degree. Both of us have been advised to make friends with other STEM people who are pursuing terminal degrees because most people don't understand the time commitment. I want to be a physican and I will be dedicated to school until my 30s the same is true with my boyfriend who wants a terminal degree too. Most people like the fancy titles but don't realize how much time we spend trying to obtain our goal. Half of the people we meet tell us our relationship is going to fail because we don't spend enough quality time together. In their eyes we've been together too long (4 years) to not settle down and have kids. Most people aren't honest with themselves enough to realize it's not the money they want it's comfort in life. The 100,000+ salary life is not that type of comfortable life. It's work your asses off most of the year but can afford extra services that give you more time to do other things. Like a nanny, cleaning services, lawn services, or even expensive vacations but not a whole lot of free time on a regular basis.
For an educated person, you sound pretty dumb…you did the analysis and made your choice, so now deal with it…other people’s opinions should NOT matter, they are soliciting advice based on their experience and decisions they made, but everyone is different though, I shouldn’t even have to bd saying…if you’re unhappy with your decisions, then that’s on you- you should have done a better assessment…if everything is ok and progressing as you expected, then wtf are you here complaining about?
@@Trini_Skunt-Troll I wasn’t complaining. You sound like you’re projecting. I’m actually happy with my decision and am exactly where I want to be. My comment was merely pointing out the fact that people tend to do what you’ve accused me of, which is, project their feelings about what makes a good life on to me and my life. If you actually read the entirety of what I said I pointed out that most people want to just live a comfy life and are perplexed by mine and my boyfriend’s decision to not just settle down right now but to actually pursue our ambitions. My post was a agreeing w/ Aba and Preach while detailing how the life we plan to live comes w/ differences that most people never consider when they think of what they consider to be a prestigious title or a certain income level. I.e. having the prestigious title/ 6 figure income creates a life that allows you to pay for services to buy you time on a regular day versus a comfy life where you have more time to do those things yourself/ with your family.
I think you might be projecting a bit in that you’re not secure w/ where you are versus where you want to be in life. I wish you all the best. I hope you get to the point where a comment that someone post to give some insight doesn’t trigger you.
@@kaymitchell6143 not projecting anything at all, and everything’s fine here as a matter of fact👌🏽
we all are happy for you and your wonderful choices…take care laters 👋🏼
Story of my life 🥲 Best Wishes to both of you ❤️
I couldn't imagine having those expectations. I knew I was a dime a dozen as a generic young, unmarried woman. Extremely replaceable for those "high earners". I found someone who wanted a family, and that's what we're doing right now.
Humility is underrated.
@Peachy Peach but that’s a reality
Beautiful women understand this concept, average women don’t, they chase these rich guys really thinking they are special
@Peachy Peach Tell them. The level of low self esteem. 🤣
You are femcel's kryptonite
when you said those men are a bit psychotic I had to laugh. It’s so true! My husband is definitely in that category. I know most women could not handle being married to my man. I don’t mean that in a bad way. He’s a loving man but he works a lot, he spends most his time and focus on his job and hes very neurotic about things. We work bc I get him. Just bc we don’t spend a ton of time together doesn’t mean he doesn’t love me. But these young girls, I wanna show you what it’s like being married to a man whose makes 200k. I’ll show you. I know you won’t last a week. These type of men need a woman that’s tough as nails and not easily made insecure. I’m not trying to toot my horn but it is what it is. I know they don’t actually want a man like this. They want the money but not the lifestyle I know this is true. They need to settle down their expectations. Everything comes with consequences.
It sounds like they want a trust fund guy whose family has done all the work and who has other relatives who work those intense hours to keep the family wealth intact. But those guys won't commit to them. They'll marry girls on their level (family wealth, connections, etc.) At best these particular girls are one-night pump and dumps. They're pretty but not beautiful enough for that guy consider going outside his social circle. And congratulations to you and your husband for having a successful marriage.
No you're right. Not tooting your own horn at all its just more emotional work and responsibility to date or be married to that. Takes character to properly support those dudes when they need you. They can't have a partnership with a grown woman who thinks like a little girl
I'm interested in your story! I'm not in my 20s, and not looking for that kind of man, but I can't imagine being married to a highly stressed guy without constant conflict.
I remember once upon a time when I was doing personal protection, I was making that kind of money. But I had zero family life, 0 personal life, every single relationship I was in was doomed from the beginning. Also I know from guys who were making even way more than me, they were in the same situation. To make that kind of money calls for sacrifice, and it takes a certain type of woman to stick through that type of relationship. Because you're always traveling when you make that kind of money, you're always at work when you make that kind of money, you're always on call when you make that kind of money. Imagine being on vacation with your girl, but you have to keep your phone on you just in case, and if it does ring you're now leaving in the middle of your vacation to go back to work. I won't say it's just women, because I know a lot of guys who have the same type of foolish thoughts in their head. But we are becoming a very disillusion people upon what it takes to make serious money.
My husband makes in this range-but he’s a crazy work aholic. It was actually something we had to work out in our marriage, because I was frustrated that he’d work all night and never take vacation or if he did, he’d be grumpy and sneaking in work. I had to go to therapy and accept that his work is his passion. We now have an agreement that he will take vacation if I don’t give him grief that he works during all down time and probably late at night. I’m just happy he does stuff with us. He took a start up job recently and everyone warned us about the hours and I just laughed. “He’s already working like that. We might as well benefit from it.”
Meanwhile I’m the kind of woman who won’t replace a pair of socks with holes for months. I just liked his mind. My original plan was to be a hippie and live in a cardboard box. The irony right? I’m not talking fancy vacations btw. I just want to road trip to see my brother in PA😂. I am happy that we literally have no worries about money which feels like the definition of wealth. Between his earning habits and my spending habits we spend so much less than our means and we like it that way. These people are nuts.
I love this post. Just some random dude from the UK. "His work is is passion" -- this is all I look for and want in life, plus good health. I need to create.
@@superAweber I’ve definitely learned to admire and appreciate it. It’s actually inspired me in my own work. I’ve tried to enjoy my work more as a stay at home Mom and now that my kids are about to all be in school I’m going back to school for something I tend to do all the time whether anyone pays me for it or not:) It’s definitely not a bad thing. I’d just grown up my whole life thinking work was the thing you wanted to get away from. It took a bit to adjust. Rest is still necessary sometimes though. It doesn’t have to be fancy. I try to keep him from literally grinding himself into the ground:P
@@andianderson3017 "something I tend to do all the time whether anyone pays me for it or not". Exactly! You understand what I'm talking about. See, I am not a hard-working man. I don't have the constitution for a fast pace and hard grinding. This is about love. Because I have hated work desperately. Many people can work without inspiration but I suffer when I do this.
It took me 12 years of grinding my career to move to the wealthiest 10% in my country... and I'm almost 40. It's so hard, most people can't even do it, working 12-16 hour days for years. This women live in another planet
That's the truth. Good for you, for doing all that hard work and reaching this level.
Keep it up!
@@shrutisharma777 Thank you! I must add that without my wife and children as motivation I don't think I would have tried as hard. A good woman supporting you is a great thing
Can I ask what you do for a living? I've worked 70 hour work weeks and I'm ok doing that again if it pays well enough lol
I always have to laugh when people see a famous musician's life as a 24/7 playground. I've had many experiences working with musicians, being one myself over the last couple of decades and I have toured many times. 80% of the time of a "famous" musician is spent waiting. Whether it's waiting in the bus on the journey to the next place, waiting for food, waiting for soundchecks, waiting for the next journalist to interview you, waiting for a chance to take a shower, waiting for showtime, waiting for your chance to shine on stage, waiting for the fans after the show, waiting on the gear to be loaded up, waiting in hotel lobbies, waiting for the bus to drive to the next venue, etc. Sure, you can do stuff while you're waiting and the attention in between (and especially the show itself) can be exciting, but once you've done it 200 times a year for over 20 years with the same people and it becomes routine, it mainly feels like you're constantly waiting on something.
Hurry up and wait is the name of the game for musicians for sure.
So true, I myself am a songwriter and I do not envy that lifestyle at all, you out it perfectly they literally live their lives waiting.. also you forgot to mention that they are also NEVER home to enjoy their family and kids
@@David-ej1ps True, I forgot waiting to go home, which is certainly the case when you're on tour. Though some musicians really love touring, it's not a vacation. It's hard work and it can be pretty stressful at times. Don't get me wrong, it's a fun job, but it's a job none the less.
And if it's a band that still records albums, the downtime in-between tours is often used to record in a studio away from home. Or traveling. A lot of traveling.
I can't help but think even if these kind of ladies realize these expectations they have are too high that their sense of ego would still cause them to breed contempt for the 'average' guy they may end up finally giving a chance when trying to settle down. Simply because he'll have never been the man she was supposed to end up with or think they truly deserve. Its sad.
Agreed.
@Bodark Zulu are you talking about the women in video?
It's karma. She gets to live her whole life in resentment.
@Bodark Zulu Yeah I find it so weird how American women always want to 'manifest' something.
WTF is manifesting? Wishing on a star? Do they think they are magic or something?
One of them is probably of Indian origin and a lot of Indian dudes in the US make about 400k and she’s probably dated some of them to throw that number. But its still unrealistic because those guys usually go for someone as educated as them and who makes about the same. 😂
A lot of Indians work in tech, a highly lucrative sector, so she was probably being a lot more realistic about her expectations than the others 😂
@@jaeguevara3776 She's not one of them. If she was as educated as them, she'd be with them.
They probably dated her, found her to be a gold digger & dumped her.
Not all Indians are intelligent/rich. Usually the high caste Brahmins are & they're very right wing & religious.
You know what else this is missing? Those expectations don’t stop there. Made 250k a year by the time I was 25, she still wanted more, realized it won’t ever end and walked away.
U could have given her the whole world and it still wouldn't be enough
@@SyverReborn “you couldn’t get the moon too? It’s like right there” 🙄😂
Look at it this way. If you ever got badly injured - she would bounce rather than look after you, bathe your, wipe your arse, feed you.
BRO WHAT WAS IS YOUR JOB?
@@oso2935 Could have been a start-up.
In Silicon valley, even the dumbest ideas get millions of dollars thrown at them. (Not anymore with the recession probs)
There was this juicer machine where you pay hundreds of dollars for a machine to squeeze juice from a bag.
A human could do it much better for free, but it secured like $50 million in funding.
That's why a woman thats been with you from when you had nothing and struggling to make it, to now being successful, is a keeper.
Always thought I was gonna meet that someone during my school years 28 and just work work work . Keep it going 🚬
The worst part is that these women will hit a certain age and not find THAT guy and settle. They will resent that guy, because he reminded them that they settled and will divorce rape them for child payments to try and sponsor that lifestyle somehow. That’s the sad part. Is that they will ruin some average guys life.
That’s why it’s important to not be a simp because these women prey on weak and desperate men.
This is only possible if the average guy isn't wise enough to vet out these traits. Too many guys just take what they can get and as a result many women have backup plans which allow for them to settle in the first place.
Maybe there is a good reason why pre-1950's, society was geared toward men.
Because women are crazy on average.
Social media caused this and people lack common sense these days. And it's not gonna change, as we go on it gets way worse. Just surround yourself with people that are focused on the real world/ actual reality
definitely was not social media its parents passing on fucked up knowledge to their children. fathers telling their daughters they should be treated like princesses and those daughters turn into mothers who teach their children some weird fucked up things
biggest fact ever
Social media, movies, tv shows etc caused this crazy, unrealistic delusion. But the sad of even crazier part is that people like Grant Cardone, Elon Musk and so on can be on on TH-cam or an interview and tell people that reaching such a level of success will take you 15 years after working 80hrs to 100hrs a week and the viewer will say, "no. I will achieve it in two years" or "I will find a guy who is 25 and is that successful."
I live in Miami and this is the norm. Dating is tricky but eventually, the hope is to find someone who isn't so hung up on money. That is why many men in Miami lie and do the "fake it until you make it" approach.
Look up passport dudes, it's not worth dating those women.
Sad nihilistic existence
Born and raised here in Miami too and what u say is facts. As soon as u graduate high school good luck getting any girls ur age. As soon as they graduate all kinds of blue check marks and rappers, professional sport players and all kinds of guys be hitting up ur girl. So if ur an average guy going to university aka meaning ur broke u have no chance. Unless ur clouted up like ur a president in a popular social fraternity ur literally getting no girls
Pursue the girls in your league.
@@beac8238 well most of them are they just trying to date outside there own
I am happy to see you both talking about this topic. It’s important to understand especially for us in our 20’s that earning 6 figures isn’t as attainable as people make it seem. I am 28 and just hit 50k and feel so lucky to even earn as much as I do. It’s taken me schooling, years at other jobs I to be able to create connections to get to where I am. The girls in these videos are delusional and will never find a life partner with these expectations. Money ISNT everything in life. I want to live comfortably to have a house, food and pay my bills.
The fact they mentioned "leisure time" before necessities tells me a lot about their character. These girls just want a man so they can go on trips and buy fancy things.
And not a looker in the bunch.
And they all expect to find a 25 year old dude who is capable and down for that when the reality is a 55+ divorced or widowed man who is semi retired.
@@hubertcalculus34 Noticed that too, these aren't 10's asking for this......trophy wife certainly didn't cross my mind once.
My mom at her most recent job just broke 100k. She turns 62 this year, and I could not tell you when she last worked an 8 hour day. It may have been before I was born, and I'm 33. She makes that by basically never taking off. When she went to Disney World with my dad, she had to badger the people at her work to let her access her work e-mails from her phone so she could keep working. While using her vacation days. How these women think that you can make stacks of money without putting in any insane work baffles me.
I’m just a simple girl, with simple aspirations. All I want is a kind husband that’s 6 feet, makes a 500k base salary, owns his own business so we get an additional 2-5 million at the end of every business year, and loves me for my goofy little self 🥰 🧡 🌸
Oh, and he has to be funny too 🙈
Also needs to be build like Henry Cavill and Jason Momoa! 🥰
And your gonna find him in a Disney fairytale even in that the chance of him wanting you back is zero no guy in that kind of caliber wants a simple girl they all perform a perfect 10 out of 10 maybe you can be his side chick number 205 but not his ideal WIFEY material
What about your loyalness? 😂
So you wouldn't reject a man who drives a humble Ferrari?
😂😂😂
I told my friend that I didn’t expect him to make 6 figures and she laughed at me😂 saying “U deserve better” and “6 figures isn’t that much”.. lol even when I came with the statistics she still doesn’t believe it. A lot are just delusional
The worst blanket advice to be told is to never settle. Sometimes settling on some of your desires is okay, folks. Never settle for finding love and respect with someone who inspires you to be a better person... but settle on salary that a man brings in or how tall he is. And men, settle on a woman who is a 6 or 7. You don't necessarily need a 10 in looks... in fact, some of those 1 or 2 ladies might bring interesting conversation or support you in your goals and raise your kids right. Sometimes settling on the externals that don't matter allows you to have the love and peace that you desire.
This is so true... funny how folk out here saying they wanna "settle" down but don't wanna settle.... the clue is in the goal.
I realized this too late, I could have had a nice family by now.
The issue with that advice is that some people have an ego so inflated that they think they're settling down when they're shooting up
@@Jet-ij9zc facts
I am in my late 30s and making on avg $500k/year from my business, full-time job and other sources. The reality is, I am very crazy busy and i don't even have a big social media presence online. Dating market is very broken.
High as hell expectations and disconnected.
I pray for the next 10 years to come, because this is wild.
Just some random dumb broads selling their looks for cash
Thank you guys. You just made me realise I was the baller in my previous relationship. I was "rich dude" who was always working, hungry to work to provide for my family. The ex barely made £500 a month, excluding benefits and still lived with his parents. His mental health confined him to that position for decades and he just went with it. Even guys can be as delusional as those women in the video. There's me with my own place and at that time working three jobs and doing gigs on the side. Treating my then guy to gifts, love, encouragement and support because you know I loved him. What did I get in return?! Lies, manipulation, jealously and resentment from a dude that wasn't hustling but wanted to live in comfort and wanted me to be his nurse and therapist 24/7. Definitely a light bulb moment. Thank you. Now I am without that guy, working 4 jobs, 2 side hustles on the way, saving money, following my dreams, happier and healthier. 🥰
Yesss!!! Get it!!
When I see women say this I often think about how much life is a relentless dick, fucking shit up cos how on earth are people like you not meeting these guys in the comments that are like minded as you 😭
God's a comedian at times
Remarkable mentality 👏
Same here I doted on a dude who had nothing to offer and was messy inside and out but I liked his conversation. Construction projects really are a thing. He ghosted me but blessing in disguise found a hard working, high salary, ambitious, fit man who appreciates my passion and care :) failing forward haha
4 jobs and 2 side hustles?
That's not healthy either.
America is so fkd. A person should only have to work 1 job to live comfortably.
You want to know what’s bewildered me even more was that in a question of “Would you rather date a man who makes 100,000 and is 5’5 or a 6’2 guy who makes 30,000” A lot of them chose the later option 😐😵💫
Ps: Which is crazy, ITS CRAZY!!! How are you not going to pick the shorter guy when one you’d be set for life and two, THATS WHAT YOU SAID YOU WANTED IN THE FIRST PLACE!!!
A man’s height is now a symbol for status! Wild times we live in
"I can just lie and pretend my husband makes alot of money. I can't pretend my short man is tall."
@@sikguitarist The things one can afford will show how much he makes, cant pretend forever
@@sikguitarist At least she's honest
Well according to stats only 10% are that height. So according to delusional people everyone else is worthless.
I am female and I have had 2 long term relationships with men that act like these girls. Didn't want to work hard, I made the majority of the money, which is fine, but would then complain about us not having time together or that we only did/buy something worth a lot once or twice a year. I was working my ass off to support a man child that threw a tantrum when I had to say no. I don't care how much a guy makes, it's whether he's trying. Relationships are a partnership. If a guy made enough and wanted me to be the stay at home mom, cool, but that is still my half of contributions, but these peoples' entitlement just makes me want to launch myself into the sun.
🤣
The Chad and Tyrone force are strong with this one.
Did they got in a relationship because of your money though? Pretty sure not, they got with you despite of that..
Well said. Whether they are employed, a business owned, or not, everyone has a job. No one gets a free ride. The girls featured in this video seem to be some of those who haven't realised that yet.
Damn its rough for girls who make a lot of money, the hierarchy is MF
Talk about Lossing respect lmao
I’m happy you guys touched on this. I try to tell my girl this sacrifices have to be made when you want to live a lifestyle or deal with someone who has that lifestyle
My grandfather ran his own business and was worth quite a bit before he died. He never retired, worked constantly and he definitely wasn’t emotionally available, or someone nice to be around. In fact, I felt sorry for my grandmother. Of course my family benefited from his wealth, and I do appreciate that.
actually, you probably didnt "benefit" from that. being born into wealth isnt a healthy thing for kids. no matter what my maximum income in my life will ever be, i would never let my children grow up in "luxury". worst thing you can do to your children and their ambition.
If he was perfect, he probaly wouldnt be with youre grandma.
@@joneri85 let say, he was “perfect”, what kind of person he would’ve been with? Smh
@@obiwankenobi661 He didn’t say he grew up in luxury, he said they benefited from the wealth. Those aren’t necessarily the same thing. I can understand wanting your kids to grow up living modestly, but if they’re born with fucked up teeth are you not going to pay for braces, because that would spoil them? If they need expensive medical treatment are you not going to pay if you can afford it? If they have a chance to get into one of the best schools in the world are you not going to financially support that opportunity if you can? Money is for more than just big houses, nice cars, and luxurious lifestyles
reminds me of my uncle who'd been working since his early teens to owning his own restaurant for 30+ years. was barely at home but so fondly remembered by everyone except his own family whom he couldn't dedicate much time to but spent tons financially. he worked all the way while cancer was ravaging his body for god knows how long, and we lost him a day after his cancer diagnosis. that's when they understood that his money was the way he showed them love since he didn't have the time.
I’m starting to understand what these women are thinking(scary, I know) they want an experience, and are using marriage as a commodity to trade for that “luxury experience” and then they leave, take half your shit for their time, then go on to live their life… they’re turning marriage into prostitution 😬
Exactlyyyyyyy. It made me realize that Marriage basically became like a transaction, except your stuff can get taken so casually if they wanna leave.
Im Spanish and our salary is not as is in the States or Canada. But Im a stay at home mum. My husband make a fraction of what they say is the minimum, we are constantly worring about money, but we have a privileged life, only covering rent, services, food and our children school. We have money to live but not to go out or live a life of leisure. But we have everything we need to live and my husband has flexibility which is important having kids. Our quality of live is better being to happy people than one very rich one. Many people have a lot less than us. Is a huge privilege in Spain being able for one of the spouses to quit their job. (Sorry for the English)
Experienced divorce lawyer here. Nearly every guy, at any age, making top 1% money is not likely getting married in today’s world. The older a man gets, if he has leveled up in all areas of his life, his choices for those he wants in his life is unlimited. Keep state marriage and divorce laws out of your life. Do the things that bring you joy. You can thank me later.
Thanks for the advice
I really appreciate your opinion, guys! Thank you for expressing this. I completely agree with your points! A lot of people are disconnected from reality in terms of how much work it takes and how long it takes to make 6 figures.
Oh please. Females like you are apart of the problem.
the girl expecting 80-100k is realistic, but the problem is what Kev Samuels and people like Destiny mentioned. if you're 25-30 y/o still looking for that ONE partner that fits the statistic, and you have yet to consistently have partners or relations with those people, its very unlikely you will ever run into them especially romantically. Most of the tech guys who are dating are with recruiters, sales analysts, and other tech related roles who actually are nearby and know what's going on in their world. Other than that people are getting it arranged.
Well said
Did you miss where she said by 23 that's unrealistic. Even if young techs are making that at 23 what percentage of the male population in America do they represent. I'm guessing 1 to 4 percent of men how would she find them. 🤔
@@chattingman6777 only 8% of adults earn $100k+ in the USA in total. The number that are men below 30 in that number is minuscule. Most will be older than that and plenty will be women too
@@chattingman6777 it’s a bit more realistic than the percentages Aba is saying, but the idea is the same, its about situation. It’s a little less than 4 to 1 odds for the majority of people to have a partner in the top 24 percent, realistic but not an actual goal. 258 million people are 18 or older in the US. 29 million people are in poverty. 164 million earn more than poverty but less than 100k. 62 million earn 100-199k. 2.6 million earn 400k or more. I’m just saying that for the almost 200 million people trying to be the perfect partner, some are not even realizing they are in a position where they will never be involved with a partner/people in their preferred bracket🤷♂️
Very interesting. As someone that's studying tech, I meet a lot of people within that field, especially the military tech people.
It’s hurtful to know that the person you’re with has an unfulfilled ideal and it not being you whom they’ve chose to have a family with.
😂 sad world brother !!!
Keep your head up !!! 🤜🏾
i feel this alot really. I'm 23 years old atm and I spent all my time from mid high-school to now straight up pursuing education and skills to make me the most desirable person in the workplace. Currently go to a private university for my mechanical engineering degree, got a minor in computer science and have worked as an intern for design company, IT company, and now a custom engineering firm. I spent alot of money for university and worked on school work most times 12hrs a day to make sure i surpass expected results. Realistically I will be making good money right out of university next year and will be working alot of overtime and traveling around the world for my job to make as much money as possible. The money will be there but what I sacrificed was almost all family relationships, any friendships, any romantic relationships, and alot of social interactions. It can get very lonely when you have no one to talk to outside of work or education, but i chose this path for the money so that I may have the potential to have a better life, and if I ever have children, to give them the best opportunity I could give them in this world. Just wanted to highlight what Aba and Preach say is completely true in my case and I don't recommend everyone do what I do unless they are ready to potentially be alone for a long time because you will be so busy that you wont even be able to sleep some days, know the trade-off of what it takes to work hard and earn good money.
A lot of people have been brainwashed by social media that unless you are living a certain lifestyle you are struggling but once you make a certain income you gotta work hard to keep that income.
I’m a woman who makes 200 plus ( in tech) and work around those high earning younger tech bros. To echo everyone’s sentiments, usually they’re not interested in those types of women. They still want you hot but like have more of work ethic. Once they confirm you’re not a gold digger tho I think they’ll be more accommodating to support / be sweet with the gestures etc
Women can also fake not being gold diggers, so it's best to set opportunity traps on girlfriends before spending money on them.
Modern women seem to think all they need are some tight yoga pants and 10 layers of makeup and they can get any guy they want.
As someone who made $70k at 25. I literally do barrel rolls to try to avoid women like this
I really appreciate you both always covering topics like this. I may not agree with some takes but you guys bring unique perspectives to this kind of dialogue. It's wild that they're saying I'd have to make $80K-$100K by 23 to be considered a match for them! What kind of delusional, romance "pretty woman" dream do they think they're living in? I'm a 1st year PhD student going into cancer research. I'm 25 years old, I have 5 years to go. I'm not even making $30K. I put in 30+ hours studying and anther 20+ on research per week. Even when I graduate by 30, I still have more work known as post-doctoral research or fellowship which is another 2-3 years and maybe I'll get paid $40K-$60K. To even be considered for a well paying job in industry which is $100K-$120K, I'd need the post-doc experience. Not even PhD alone is enough in some instances. So I'd be 33 at the youngest to make that money. The amount of effort to get the degree in order to get that kind of money is unfathomable to some. Yet, these women are acting like it's a criteria on MY part to get with them. That's just insane to me and people keep feeding in their delusion.
why not just do tiktok dances?
- sincerely, a modern woman
So many females do not have a single shred nor iota of a clue of the effort & time it all took & will continue to take.
A post-graduate year 4 medical resident, 11 years of school & training minimum to get to that point, averages 84k/yr in CA.
@@jeremymangum2255 women can be funny after all
And what’s your reward for doing all of that? Busting your ass for all them years, entirely missing out on your 20s when you have the most energy and should be having the time of your life? A middle aged karen with a blown out coochie nagging in your ear every time you come home, and 3 kids from another man you have to take care of as well….LMAO enjoy
@@Tushar_Talwar_09 lol
Absolutely true. With only a high school education, I had to grind my ass off until 34 to hit six figures and had no time for dating. Now I want nothing more than a real relationship but don't have the skills to maintain a healthy one and working 10-12 hours a day doesn't leave me much time to pursue one.
Preach is right - proximity improves your chances in dating. I went to an ivy league school, am around academics a lot and people who became doctors, lawyers, financial analysts etc. Women tended to meet men in those socioeconomic circles. For example, doctors who met their spouses in med school.
I love the art/alt communities because filled with cool people and we don't give a single fuck about how much money mfs make
400k is the imaginary, outlandish number I picked for myself to be my "goal salary" someday. I literally chose an art handle that seemed like an impossible goal, and one of these girls is like "yeah that's the starting point, it goes up from there."
You'd be surprised how many women seem to stop maturing emotionall after puberty. It's like they hit 15/16 and their thoughts and feelings just stay there for the next 15-20 years lmao
@@harrypike731 They get lots of attention from men which prevents them from getting mature
How do they still not understand that the average man makes 45k a year? This is wild to me, like how are these average AF women even asking for 100k-400k ? Do they really think that money just comes out of thin air?
The delusion is killing me here.
That's why so many men are either complaining or making fun of modern women these days because you've got average chicks wanting the top 10% of earners.
It just doesn't work that way.
Exactly I expect a model to be asking for all this, but an average woman who is a 5 is ridiculous
Rip Kevin Samuels
@@kidkid985 successful men are sooo humble at least compared to the girls in this video.I know they date models sometimes but that's because they understand their life.Ive seen footballers with mid gals cuz they grew up together.
@@tesleemhussein5217 that’s different, successful men with average or mid tier liking wives usually were with them before they got rich
All this showed me is that women like this have no intention of bearing the burden of their own existence they literally expect and demand a man to carry them till the end. That have no urgency/agency/ etc to provide these things for themselves. It's actually wild lol And again Kevin Samuels was right again
Men are put here to provide for women that’s literally why men exist if you read on evolution there’s no other reason for it. Literally men are a genetic mutation of women that happened to help women in hunting and provisions dude.
It shows the natural differences between men and woman. I can’t even fathom being cared for my whole life. Men have a natural desire to conquer or have power. For alot of these woman to not even try to bring honor to their name is insane to us for a reason
@@Jdot2tact We can't fathom going around our entire lives looking for a hand out. We value our agency too much to be life time beggars.
It's a paradox, They scream "patriarchy!" but at the same time they want to be carried through life by men.
@@theezenriarinze9203 Tell that to actual beggers lol.
I worked for a $100k salary for a few years but I was literally working 12+ hours/day. Shit wasn't worth it
why not?
@@artistformerlyknownaspoop859 people have different priorities. 30 less K a year, while having a much more balanced lifestyle seems the Goldilocks zone to a lot of us .
Shoutout to Courtney Ryan (original video creator) who is in touch with reality and keeps it real
Love how consistent y’all been feeding us videos!! THANK YOU FOR MAKING MY DAYS BETTER
When that girl said "life of leisure", I honestly think she was talking about herself. She was thinking the husband would go out and earn the money while she was at home spending it. If I'm wrong I'm wrong, but that's the impression I got.
Im 35 and i started really dating when i was in my late 20's early 30s cause i grew up really poor and took me a very long time to start making 75k+. i have a Graduate degree and everything took time. My advice when dating is to always keep everything very simple and dont try to impress with money cause this is what you get. and they will bleed you dry and leave you in a heart beat. i got stories for days :'D
About to hit 30 and just started dating because... I've been dating my thesis for the last few years. Even then my salary is average amongst compared to my friends but, growing at a decent pace.
Would love to hear them tbh
Your comment is spot on.
@@timothygarycarolus1018 , I read your comment and spat my coffee out 😂😂😂😂.
I (F) am married. My husband told me: “Your thesis is your side man.” I went through a lot with my thesis from April 2021 to June 2022. I presented my thesis on last June 28th in front of 3 lawyers. I passed it. I graduated and Oct. 18, which is my birthday, is the graduation ceremony. It has been a rough right, but I made it.
Wishing you the best. You got this! 🙏🏽
@@chrollodranx-hunter3389 here's one. Early in the day I had a motorcycle accident. Coulda been really bad. I got pushed into the back of a car goong 80. So it was late and I couldn't sleep and I didn't want to be alone to asked a girl I was talking to on hinged to go out and she said sure. Told me she wanted to be picked up so I said sure. I go pick her up( like 30 away) and we heading to a restaurant. Bam right in front of us head on accident. I want to get out and check on them and she's telling me to just go and leave. Mind you she a fucking nurse. So I called 911 and they were walking so we we went out. This 30 year old has no car. No degree. No job amd is planning on moving to the city( I lived on LI). Date was trash. Still she came home we me and she never called back and I never tried to do the same. Sex was ok
I'm grateful to be making 6 figures at 22, stumbling upon this video has made me appreciate it more. Making such money literally makes me lack a social life since I'm the resident engineer of my firm and a field engineer at the same time.