Yes, as long as it's a stable person, that is willing to improve always and has good financial habits. My dad used to say: A donkey wrapped in gold is still a donkey. Meaning that you can have a good salary, but If you don't know how to administer it, you may as well be poor because it's the same.
I educated myself and worked for my own. Built myself a Wall street career, built my own wealth and retired at 34. I now travel the world and try to live my best life. When I met my husband way back he was still building as well. He came out on the other side doing very well. He did not have what he does now. My mom raised her girls to be VERY financially independent. I do however, see why some of the women feel this way. It is exhausting to devote so much love to someone and have them treat you horribly in the end. But the dating for money scenario is just not for me. I couldn't handle all that comes with it. I have to be in control of my destiny. Different things work for different people at different times in their lives. Do what works for you. Relationships are always a gamble.
Speaking from my own experience….I dated someone who earned way less than I did so during our relationship most of the financial burden was on me (everyday living, bills, trips etc)…I didn’t mind because I loved him…a few years later he was promoted at work and started earning way more. He started to cheat and became very disrespectful…he eventually left me I was even willing to forgive him…I felt like 💩 because there was nothing I wouldn’t do for this man …we were building life together..or so I thought. From that relationship ended I decided I will never date a man again who I have to help financially.
I’m so sorry this was your experience. What people don’t realize is that most women are pure at heart but the constant hurt and betrayal are the result of today’s discussion.
I'm sorry you went through that I was in a very very similar situation. This is a huge reason why I also believe marriage is important. We shouldn't invest so much into someone who hasn't fully committed. You helped support him and enable him to grow. In marriage you would be entitled to certain things even financially. I discourage women or even people in general from playing house and taking on wifely duties and responsibilities without the proper commitment. We're so guilty of this 😢. We have to know our worth and see what value we bring to the table. If a man/ woman also values that then they'll commit. Obviously I don't know your life or anything. It's not completely directed towards you. You sound like you bring a lot to the table so you deserve the same back. All of us do 🙌🏽
As a woman, I don't understand why some women emphasize that they share everything 50/50 in a relationship. I mean... You pay for yourself. You work. He works. That's called being an adult. Why do you feel exploited when you have to finance yourself?
My advice is to think about what you really want. If you are just having fun and want an elevated dating experience, then let the games begin and date for money, sprinkle sprinkle. If you want something real, don’t do this. Date for character, and if you are seeking the right characteristics, his money will be right anyway
@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s Yes Einstein. Meaning they feel a physical attraction I. And OP is telling you she can't date what would potentially be a fuggo who offends her eyes.
How about educate yourself and get your own money. Stop depending on someone to do for you, all that you fail to provide for yourself. Ever thought of that?
The video never says not to provide for yourself, lol. It says never do 50/50 with a man. This is also what the women IN the video are saying. Use CONTEXT and your head.
Its strange the way young women separate it into 'date for money' & 'date for love'. I feel if you hold men to a higher standard then it shouldn't be a problem. The ultimate goal is security with a man who you can be your companion. Bums shouldn't even be on your radar to fall in love with. I also think it depends on where you are getting the dates from. I work in the corporate sector so most of the men I've met and dated have been from that same sector. Have standards and don't deviate from them. And no 'build a men'. Unless you're both under 25, he should already be on his career path and moving forward. A man being 30 and 'going to school' is a no no.
The only reason why they can date for money now is because of their looks, once their looks fade the money stops. So I’m hoping they are at least saving the money for the future. I honestly don’t blame them for what they are doing, it’s nothing new but I just hope they are being somewhat smart with it.
Exactly! I think a big issue is women that say they only want money but then they seem to get their feelings hurt when the guy takes his money and moves on. If you’re going to be about that lifestyle then accept the rules. And a lot of those women end up being broke after the agreement ends. It makes me wonder if they really are dating for money or trying to do some kind of reverse psychology on those guys.
@ You make such a good point ! I do believe that a lot of women think they can trick a rich man to fall in love with them so that agreement never ends. These women are in for a very rude awakening.
Guys prefer women who make demands. Got cheated on over the years with different guys who were gaga over women who were into his pockets - while me like a dummy, paying for my own.
I agree with the middle ground of it. Younger me was always like nooo only date for love. Until you find yourself financially supporting someone. Sometimes love is not enough for a relationship to be fully successful. The foundation and values needs to be compatible. Even if you're dating someone whos on their career path and making progress to me that is enough. Someone whos values are goal oriented and driven. If only one person has that then itll be a very difficult relationship to sustain even with just love. We also need to stop playing house! Dont commit your life or wealth without that proper commitment. I have a family member for example who helped and enabled her husband to grow. They married with little to nothing to both of their names. He now is very very successful but he always had the values of being motivated, driven and goal oriented and eventually reached his goals. That they both now benefit from. God forbid they were ever to divorce they are both entitled to shared wealth because they grew together. Never just play house just to be left in the dust. Marriage is for love, security and commitment. People need to start dating for marriage again and not just for a boyfriend etc. Thats especially how you end up played.
I dated broke and it was the worst experience of my life. If you can’t financially support yourself dating shouldn’t be a priority work on yourself first then think about dating anything else is just backwards and unproductive.
You would be surprised that modern women are actually doing this if not more than women in the 1800s…with the influence of social media, some women are looking for men who can book them a trip or take them to the new restaurants just to take selfies
I'm laughing so hard right now. Not one of these women mentioned being a good person, having a good personality, having hobbies & friends of their own. Cinderella wasn't a princess until she married the Prince, she didn't expect ANYTHING & she was happy with nothing. She was kind and worked hard & went on with it but she never walked around saying "I'm a Princess & I DESERVE everything handed to me as such." The stepsisters were "ugly" because of their personalities! You all take away from fairytales that you deserve a Prince when most of you couldn't be kind if you tried. Stop telling young girls being a whore is ok, because if you believe that you might as well go stand on a street corner. And if your parents arranged a marriage for you you would cry and scream & say you want to marry for love & you know it.
Do not give out wifey benefits for free. Everybody plays the fool, sometimes. Don't live foolishly. Require marriage or charge. He ain't gonna buy the cow if the milk is free. If you think he loves you bc your heart and soul, dont.
Not only that. Ill always go younger. They are mostly temporary- get off while you having fun..older women get it. Older men doesnt always mean wiser or smarter.
It's very important to date a man who makes equal to or more than you. I stand by this from experience. A future is not built on love, and a man who doesn't measure up but has plans is a time bomb for abuse of some kind. That doesnt mean every woman goes for a millionaire. Find the minimum for you based on your own social standing.
Why would they date for money 💵 that’s crazy and delusional. Get your own money and stop depending on someone for it. Just my opinion not to offend anyone.
These women dating for money aren’t exactly super models. They might want to adopt a better financial plan. By the time they’re 35 they definitely won’t have any options in the millionaire man market. Those guys are dating 20 year old models at age 50.
Would you date/marry someone who is below your ‘tax bracket’?
Yes I would. We can grow and help each other financially.
Yes
Yes, as long as it's a stable person, that is willing to improve always and has good financial habits. My dad used to say: A donkey wrapped in gold is still a donkey. Meaning that you can have a good salary, but If you don't know how to administer it, you may as well be poor because it's the same.
NOPE.
Yup! Already have lol
I educated myself and worked for my own. Built myself a Wall street career, built my own wealth and retired at 34. I now travel the world and try to live my best life. When I met my husband way back he was still building as well. He came out on the other side doing very well. He did not have what he does now. My mom raised her girls to be VERY financially independent. I do however, see why some of the women feel this way. It is exhausting to devote so much love to someone and have them treat you horribly in the end. But the dating for money scenario is just not for me. I couldn't handle all that comes with it. I have to be in control of my destiny. Different things work for different people at different times in their lives. Do what works for you. Relationships are always a gamble.
I love this energy‼️👏🏾
Speaking from my own experience….I dated someone who earned way less than I did so during our relationship most of the financial burden was on me (everyday living, bills, trips etc)…I didn’t mind because I loved him…a few years later he was promoted at work and started earning way more. He started to cheat and became very disrespectful…he eventually left me I was even willing to forgive him…I felt like 💩 because there was nothing I wouldn’t do for this man …we were building life together..or so I thought. From that relationship ended I decided I will never date a man again who I have to help financially.
A man is only as faithful as his options -Bill Maher
The barbara the builder..
Word‼️
I’m so sorry this was your experience. What people don’t realize is that most women are pure at heart but the constant hurt and betrayal are the result of today’s discussion.
I'm sorry you went through that I was in a very very similar situation. This is a huge reason why I also believe marriage is important. We shouldn't invest so much into someone who hasn't fully committed. You helped support him and enable him to grow. In marriage you would be entitled to certain things even financially. I discourage women or even people in general from playing house and taking on wifely duties and responsibilities without the proper commitment. We're so guilty of this 😢. We have to know our worth and see what value we bring to the table. If a man/ woman also values that then they'll commit. Obviously I don't know your life or anything. It's not completely directed towards you. You sound like you bring a lot to the table so you deserve the same back. All of us do 🙌🏽
As a woman, I don't understand why some women emphasize that they share everything 50/50 in a relationship. I mean... You pay for yourself. You work. He works. That's called being an adult. Why do you feel exploited when you have to finance yourself?
Jodi is so beautiful ❤❤❤
Aww, you’re so kind…thank you ☺️
My advice is to think about what you really want. If you are just having fun and want an elevated dating experience, then let the games begin and date for money, sprinkle sprinkle. If you want something real, don’t do this. Date for character, and if you are seeking the right characteristics, his money will be right anyway
Well said! Thanks for sharing
As long as you’re upfront with him about what you want. Using people isn’t cool
Hi Sweety. Been catching up on your videos and you look BEAUTIFUL and you are doing a GREAT job. Keep up the good work ♥
I can’t date for money.. I can’t fake liking someone for things..
Why not? Men date for LOOKS
@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s Yes Einstein. Meaning they feel a physical attraction I. And OP is telling you she can't date what would potentially be a fuggo who offends her eyes.
@@WatchingyouWatchingme-p5s I’m just not good at pretending. If a guy I am repulsed by touches me, my whole body would tense in disgust 🤭
Same
That has nothing to do with HER standards…
Jodi, this compilation is necessary 💯 and re-posted once a month
How about educate yourself and get your own money. Stop depending on someone to do for you, all that you fail to provide for yourself. Ever thought of that?
The video never says not to provide for yourself, lol. It says never do 50/50 with a man. This is also what the women IN the video are saying. Use CONTEXT and your head.
I agree with this 100%….Question ,would you date someone who’s earning less than you that possibly will depend on you financially?
Its strange the way young women separate it into 'date for money' & 'date for love'. I feel if you hold men to a higher standard then it shouldn't be a problem. The ultimate goal is security with a man who you can be your companion. Bums shouldn't even be on your radar to fall in love with. I also think it depends on where you are getting the dates from. I work in the corporate sector so most of the men I've met and dated have been from that same sector. Have standards and don't deviate from them. And no 'build a men'. Unless you're both under 25, he should already be on his career path and moving forward. A man being 30 and 'going to school' is a no no.
“Don’t build a man”…Especially that part‼️
The only reason why they can date for money now is because of their looks, once their looks fade the money stops. So I’m hoping they are at least saving the money for the future. I honestly don’t blame them for what they are doing, it’s nothing new but I just hope they are being somewhat smart with it.
Exactly! I think a big issue is women that say they only want money but then they seem to get their feelings hurt when the guy takes his money and moves on. If you’re going to be about that lifestyle then accept the rules. And a lot of those women end up being broke after the agreement ends. It makes me wonder if they really are dating for money or trying to do some kind of reverse psychology on those guys.
@ You make such a good point ! I do believe that a lot of women think they can trick a rich man to fall in love with them so that agreement never ends. These women are in for a very rude awakening.
@@Circee11No women in America need to take lessons from the ASIAN women these men PRAISE and use them for money.
So true and will go as far as having kids thinking they can trap them
The sad reality…most of them aren’t even smart enough to use that money to invest in themselves.
Guys prefer women who make demands. Got cheated on over the years with different guys who were gaga over women who were into his pockets - while me like a dummy, paying for my own.
This
I agree with the middle ground of it. Younger me was always like nooo only date for love. Until you find yourself financially supporting someone. Sometimes love is not enough for a relationship to be fully successful. The foundation and values needs to be compatible. Even if you're dating someone whos on their career path and making progress to me that is enough. Someone whos values are goal oriented and driven.
If only one person has that then itll be a very difficult relationship to sustain even with just love. We also need to stop playing house! Dont commit your life or wealth without that proper commitment.
I have a family member for example who helped and enabled her husband to grow. They married with little to nothing to both of their names. He now is very very successful but he always had the values of being motivated, driven and goal oriented and eventually reached his goals. That they both now benefit from. God forbid they were ever to divorce they are both entitled to shared wealth because they grew together. Never just play house just to be left in the dust. Marriage is for love, security and commitment. People need to start dating for marriage again and not just for a boyfriend etc. Thats especially how you end up played.
It's miss sprinkle sprinkle 😅😅😅
I dated broke and it was the worst experience of my life. If you can’t financially support yourself dating shouldn’t be a priority work on yourself first then think about dating anything else is just backwards and unproductive.
I can't date for money no way.
Jodi, you're so beautiful😍😍😍...
Y’all are making me blush so hard today…thank you ☺️
This is 1800’s thinking.
You would be surprised that modern women are actually doing this if not more than women in the 1800s…with the influence of social media, some women are looking for men who can book them a trip or take them to the new restaurants just to take selfies
Dating in this era sucks!!! I gave up on dating a long time ago I have the worst luck in dating
Tell me about it 🎯
I'm laughing so hard right now. Not one of these women mentioned being a good person, having a good personality, having hobbies & friends of their own. Cinderella wasn't a princess until she married the Prince, she didn't expect ANYTHING & she was happy with nothing. She was kind and worked hard & went on with it but she never walked around saying "I'm a Princess & I DESERVE everything handed to me as such." The stepsisters were "ugly" because of their personalities! You all take away from fairytales that you deserve a Prince when most of you couldn't be kind if you tried. Stop telling young girls being a whore is ok, because if you believe that you might as well go stand on a street corner. And if your parents arranged a marriage for you you would cry and scream & say you want to marry for love & you know it.
Lifeofanjie ✨️💖💛
Do not give out wifey benefits for free. Everybody plays the fool, sometimes. Don't live foolishly. Require marriage or charge. He ain't gonna buy the cow if the milk is free. If you think he loves you bc your heart and soul, dont.
Not only that. Ill always go younger. They are mostly temporary- get off while you having fun..older women get it. Older men doesnt always mean wiser or smarter.
It's very important to date a man who makes equal to or more than you. I stand by this from experience. A future is not built on love, and a man who doesn't measure up but has plans is a time bomb for abuse of some kind. That doesnt mean every woman goes for a millionaire. Find the minimum for you based on your own social standing.
A Trip to Europe 😂😂😂
Even more Trauma😂
4B if nothing. Peace is peace.
Why would they date for money 💵 that’s crazy and delusional. Get your own money and stop depending on someone for it. Just my opinion not to offend anyone.
Y'all act like these women aren't making their OWN money as well😅
Thanks for sharing your thoughts ☺️
7:00 Same values? He just wants you for your money?
I do not agree..make your own money. He can drop you at anytime..then what?
These women dating for money aren’t exactly super models. They might want to adopt a better financial plan. By the time they’re 35 they definitely won’t have any options in the millionaire man market. Those guys are dating 20 year old models at age 50.
Hello Beautiful Island Lady 🌴🌴❤️❤️
Hiiiiiiiiii 🌴🌴❤️❤️
Lol we're back in the 1800s now
Love only gets you heartbroken.
So men are the prize right ?!
😂😂😂😂
Lol…not in my book 😂