I'm sorry but I still find it weird that Savannah married to Tim because of a pity. She could be his best friend, help him at all cost, and take care of Allan without sacrifiying her life and John's heart.
This is what I hate about this movie... Tim needed her, but what about John, her husband. The man is out there, risking his life to have the woman he loves marry some other guy out of the goodness of her heart. Couldn't she just be Tim's friend and that's it, why marry the guy.
he broke his promise, she made it clear she is not meant for the army wife lifestyle. I understand her, I too would not be waiting for year and then year's again
I think she made that poor choice for being naive and idealistic, probably thinking that through being sacrificial love would come between Tim and her. And also, the chances of John coming back alive were really low. I understand her but it's still a poor choice, she probably didn't have good advisors around
She probably went through a lot and she wasn't able to express it to people around her. And she probably suffered alone. And she might have thought Sacrificing herself for someone like the guy who was sick was the right thing to do. Maybe she wasn't ready for it but she did it anyway cuz there was nobody out there to help her at those time.
@@sarathsasikumar3759 I mean u dont know what happened to Savannah at that moment. Shw could have been emotional blackmailed without her realisation. And she could have been so lonely and unable to think straight. When people are at their lowest we tend to make unwanted choices in life.
@@sarathsasikumar3759 okay as U say. But U can't always tell what happens in people's life. Maybe she was dumb but U know people like her exist cuz humans aren't perfect.
I know right, so if she heard his voice, then why didn’t u call him then🤦♂️🤦♂️, u wanted to hear his voice , u said u didn’t have a choice so what’s the point In saying his voice would have changed your mind about being engaged, so u couldn’t wait.
Trust me there’s lots of amazing and hearted woman out there that would wait for A man even in the military, life is all about timing and seeing if she’s really the one for u, if your Both willing to wait. Plus I would suggest John to live his army life, he was doing just fine till , her purse fell in the water. That’s what caused all of this To happen in the beginning.
Again I just feel like commenting on this scene, Savanah said real stupid things based on the fact that the opposite of stupidity is wisdom, 1. "He (Tim) needed me, arrogance comes through, like she was the only person in this great world, who could save him 2. I had no choice, yes she had one choice to make, John, who truly loved her and was very loving to her, she traded John for Tim, like she would have traded a brand new Cadillac for an old beat up VW Beattle. She married this weasel who had a "master plan." He most have played her like a violin.
I know it’s just a movie and her wording I didn’t have a choice bother me but I thought deeply about why she felt she had no choice. 1 Allan- Allan is autistic you see in the movie the relationship between her and him they have a very strong bond maybe she was the only one Allan felt comfortable around. Maybe no one else was giving Tim support and she was the only one Maybe she married Tim so Allan could still have some form of a complete family. Maybe Tim proposed because he did love her and she felt obligated to say yes because Tim was sick and Allan was comfortable around her. 2 maybe she was scared of waiting for John because she wouldn’t know if the next letter would be from him or someone informing her that John had died. While John was deployed she spent a lot of her time with Tim and Allan. Maybe even though she never loved Tim the same as John she felt Tim was a safety net. Yes she had a choice, she made the wrong choice maybe in that moment it was the right choice i feel her decision making was more for Allan as she had built a relationship with him
His shoulder boards are backwards. They should be turned around so the insignia is closer to the outside of the shoulder, bottom of the black bar, AND the tip facing up, not down. I get it that they actually make things not perfect in movies but it looks really odd. Then they are correct in this clip: th-cam.com/video/sTdprv5Rfcw/w-d-xo.html
Plus, she had a choice because, when she met him he told her everything, how the military is and she’s the one who Messsed up And now Wanted him back. And she had no Right to Be upset at him, the man was on leave lol, to enjoy his time not to find love😂😂🤦♂️🤦♂️. Just a movie but still. When ever u reach a breaking point of being happy within yourself and your life, really be careful of who u fall in love with, u want to sustain that happiness.
Its a beautiful movie but it doesn’t make any sense. I mean its weird that she married bc of pity. But she knew John only for 2 weeks and when he was away they couldn’t even call. Life goes on.. its not that they had a strong foundation to begin with
I'm sorry But Savannah did have choices she was swayed and manipulated by Tim who played on her sympathy for him being sick which is despicable and If I had been John I would have beat him to death for doing so. Incidentally I too received a Dear John Letter when I was in Vietnam Just to let you know the devastation that happens when those letters are your only connection to the sane world is suddenly cut you tend to do stupid stuff one of my brother soldiers stood up in the middle of a firefight because he received one.
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I'm sorry but I still find it weird that Savannah married to Tim because of a pity. She could be his best friend, help him at all cost, and take care of Allan without sacrifiying her life and John's heart.
I thought that part is very unnecessary. It's just something that doesn't make sense that was added for drama
Wouldn't the kid be sent to an orphanage if Tim died unmarried?
Some people go far because if feeling guilty... Sadly. This is not the right choice. But people seem to act like this very often.
Tim could have left the kid to her. She didn't need to destroy a man in the deepest worst way.
Its based on drama book, drama had to be there, i agree stupid plot as in mexican telenovelas.
This is what I hate about this movie... Tim needed her, but what about John, her husband. The man is out there, risking his life to have the woman he loves marry some other guy out of the goodness of her heart. Couldn't she just be Tim's friend and that's it, why marry the guy.
he broke his promise, she made it clear she is not meant for the army wife lifestyle. I understand her, I too would not be waiting for year and then year's again
I think she made that poor choice for being naive and idealistic, probably thinking that through being sacrificial love would come between Tim and her. And also, the chances of John coming back alive were really low. I understand her but it's still a poor choice, she probably didn't have good advisors around
Of course she had a choice.
Yes and no,
Her and John were not going to make it in long run. She wants stable home but he likes the army life.
You have a choice, you choose to break his heart.
Deep talking ❤️ dear John...
this scene just makes me mad and confused and how on earth did she didnt have a choice???
She probably went through a lot and she wasn't able to express it to people around her. And she probably suffered alone. And she might have thought Sacrificing herself for someone like the guy who was sick was the right thing to do.
Maybe she wasn't ready for it but she did it anyway cuz there was nobody out there to help her at those time.
@@tomato..7044 Do U actually believe in all this things that U said, or r U just saying this for the sake of argument?
@@sarathsasikumar3759 I mean u dont know what happened to Savannah at that moment. Shw could have been emotional blackmailed without her realisation. And she could have been so lonely and unable to think straight.
When people are at their lowest we tend to make unwanted choices in life.
@@tomato..7044 well a woman like her is far worse than any enemy John would have faced. Atleast he knew who the opposition is during the war.
@@sarathsasikumar3759 okay as U say. But U can't always tell what happens in people's life. Maybe she was dumb but U know people like her exist cuz humans aren't perfect.
Me too. And she seemed so unhappy.
"Just hearing your voice, I would have changed my mind..." How does this make any sense at all?
I know right, so if she heard his voice, then why didn’t u call him then🤦♂️🤦♂️, u wanted to hear his voice , u said u didn’t have a choice so what’s the point In saying his voice would have changed your mind about being engaged, so u couldn’t wait.
Trust me there’s lots of amazing and hearted woman out there that would wait for
A man even in the military, life is all about timing and seeing if she’s really the one for u, if your
Both willing to wait. Plus I would suggest John to live his army life, he was doing just fine till , her purse fell in the water. That’s what caused all of this
To happen in the beginning.
I don't understand she married the other guy because he is sick and no other choice? It's ur life u had a choice to make🙄🙄 u really love that choice..
Love dear John
Again I just feel like commenting on this scene, Savanah said real stupid things based on the fact that the opposite of stupidity is wisdom, 1. "He (Tim) needed me, arrogance comes through, like she was the only person in this great world, who could save him 2. I had no choice, yes she had one choice to make, John, who truly loved her and was very loving to her, she traded John for Tim, like she would have traded a brand new Cadillac for an old beat up VW Beattle. She married this weasel who had a "master plan." He most have played her like a violin.
Yo be fair John traded her in for the army life, she didnt want him to reenlist again and he did it without asking so the relationship was over.
I'd like to see a perspective of dual enlisted stories.
I wish that I can meet Channing ❤
Jody.
I know it’s just a movie and her wording I didn’t have a choice bother me but I thought deeply about why she felt she had no choice.
1 Allan- Allan is autistic you see in the movie the relationship between her and him they have a very strong bond maybe she was the only one Allan felt comfortable around. Maybe no one else was giving Tim support and she was the only one
Maybe she married Tim so Allan could still have some form of a complete family. Maybe Tim proposed because he did love her and she felt obligated to say yes because Tim was sick and Allan was comfortable around her.
2 maybe she was scared of waiting for John because she wouldn’t know if the next letter would be from him or someone informing her that John had died. While John was deployed she spent a lot of her time with Tim and Allan. Maybe even though she never loved Tim the same as John she felt Tim was a safety net.
Yes she had a choice, she made the wrong choice maybe in that moment it was the right choice i feel her decision making was more for Allan as she had built a relationship with him
What he doesn’t understand is she needs him and needs him to know she chooses him
Me if he came to me my only love I would him all of me. Living life without him I am not living
But I have no way to get ahold of him
His shoulder boards are backwards. They should be turned around so the insignia is closer to the outside of the shoulder, bottom of the black bar, AND the tip facing up, not down. I get it that they actually make things not perfect in movies but it looks really odd.
Then they are correct in this clip: th-cam.com/video/sTdprv5Rfcw/w-d-xo.html
Plus, she had a choice because, when she met him he told her everything, how the military is and she’s the one who
Messsed up
And now
Wanted him back. And she had no
Right to
Be upset at him, the man was on leave lol, to enjoy his time not to find love😂😂🤦♂️🤦♂️. Just a movie but still. When ever u reach a breaking point of being happy within yourself and your life, really be careful of who u fall in love with, u want to sustain that happiness.
It has too many notebook scene and therory.🤔
Well it is Nicholas Sparks but still love his movies/books 😭
This is called hollywood crap😂🤣
His rank is upside down. Don't they have anyone with military experience?
Cant trust no damn body
Its a beautiful movie but it doesn’t make any sense. I mean its weird that she married bc of pity. But she knew John only for 2 weeks and when he was away they couldn’t even call. Life goes on.. its not that they had a strong foundation to begin with
Whamen, always use emotions to justify what they do
I'm sorry But Savannah did have choices she was swayed and manipulated by Tim who played on her sympathy for him being sick which is despicable and If I had been John I would have beat him to death for doing so. Incidentally I too received a Dear John Letter when I was in Vietnam Just to let you know the devastation that happens when those letters are your only connection to the sane world is suddenly cut you tend to do stupid stuff one of my brother soldiers stood up in the middle of a firefight because he received one.