James Allen She can’t get rewarded if you don’t fucking marry her. You do realise men are doing this to themselves? No one is forcing you to get married. What men see in marriage is something I could never understand. But what I can’t understand more is that men would still get married, then get divorce raped, then complain about it even though they knew that’s what they were signing up for!
Exactly. A lot of women are perpetually addicted to that high they get from a new guy/fresh relationship. After things get a bit stale (normal), she needs another NEW.
byteresistor Yeah. And the 3-6 month timeline is SPOT ON. Nowadays they ALWAYS come undone right at 4 months, REALLY bad by 6, and exponentially worse by EACH ADDITIONAL MONTH that YOU, not her, attempt to keep it together. I now realize that they are just deliberately behaving as horribly as possible to get the man to walk away, but also not willing to behave SO DIRECTLY HORRIBLY that she might endanger herself.
QE ornotQE Absolutely. It’s so exact, and has happened so many times, that I’m led to believe there is biological/hormonal goings on that are mappable with brain scans, and tied to a society that has DECOUPLED male value from the INDIVIDUAL man, and handed his value to her in the form of an outside government gift, like a Male Mutual Fund.
@@Drizzly_Bear After a woman has sex for several months without pregnancy, then her lizard brain deems the male infertile and spurs her to find another one. The lizard brain doesn't know that she is on birth control and that her more conscious processes don't want a kid.
The Alaskan saying is, you don’t loose your girl just your turn. The women that are married to guys on an oil platform are only married two week a month, and act single when he’s working. Truth
I got this friend roaming the danish warship Absalon 20 months a year... he had three longterm who all fucked around in hes expensive appartment back home... one time he found out by finding sperm still inside and dripping down the legs.... idiot friend i named him ;p
Best part is ur bike won’t drive off and screw someone. Funny thing I’ve only had a breakdown once on my bike. It was after I screwed a chick on my motorcycle seat. I guess the bike got mad but I was sharing her with the bike. True shit
omnighast Right before we got married I sold my Camaro because it wasn’t a “practical family car” and got a PT Cruiser (sad but true story). After our divorce from twenty years of marriage I got another Camaro and haven’t looked back! Some stories have happy endings! Lol!😀
After I bankrupted myself for her, she left me with the words. “You should have done more to keep me” it was a hard lesson I learned that they are never satisfied.
whygiveup11 yeh, I was raw simp back then ( back in 1999). She made me swallow the pill hard. Maybe I should thank her because she opened my eyes and saved me a lot of heartache later in life with other girls. Also made me let go of wanting to have kids and marry. Instead I traveled the world for 9 years and learned so much about life and myself.
My ex left me after ten years for the neighbour, her words "I love you, but i'm not in love with you" "The last ten years have been great, i'm just not excited by the idea of being with you for another ten years"
@freshly squeezed Some of the most Dalager friends i know free up in Christian times Where both patents Despised eachother but waited with brakeup until kids lived out.... so Much life wasted...
I recently met a great looking woman on POF. Went for a few hikes with her. Never made a move...2019 was the year I stopped giving a crap unless it was handed to me. Anyway, this lady is always on POF waiting for Romeo to show up...with her tag line reading "Inspire me". I'm like, fuuuuck that shit. Makes me sick.
Fuck. He is right. You know, women settle down with the man that was available at that particular moment she needed you. Not because she loves you, but when she needs you. There are some exceptions who really love men.
Just found out my gf of 3 years my first real love has already dated three guys since we broke up a few months ago. That Crushed me y’all. Guess this video is right.
This is why you never take a girl back after a break up. You know she went out and banged a random dude a few days to 2 weeks after you broke up in order to help her get over you. And she probably did more than 1 guy like that.
Drew Crabtree Man she probably "dated" while(!) your relationship. And there's a well known term of the MGTOW community, it's called monkey branching. So, no need for a heart break, man, just for knowledge!
Yeah I understand. I had a relationship with a girl for a little over years. We eventually went off to college together, and she started crying at me because she "thinks I'm going to find a smart, beautiful woman in my classes and leave her." A month later I'm kicked out of our apartment, blocked on all forms of contact, and she's banging another dude she met two months prior. It was pretty tough to deal with. I basically just focused on my school work and hung out with friends after that. For my next relationship, I went in with more realistic expectations, so when it too failed, I wasn't really devastated so much as I was inconvenienced. General advice: Do not set yourself up in a situation where you are trapped with a woman. Do not get shared ownership of anything (bank accounts, pets, TV, computers, houses). Either you buy it and it's yours, or she buys it and it's hers. Do not buy anything for her unless you can easily afford to do so. When you break up, immediately take action to protect your personal assets (gather your things together, take pictures of the things you care about, move important items to the home of a trusted friend, etc). Turn off your emotions while you deal with her. If you are emotional when dealing with her, it can only help her hurt you more. You can always express your emotions later while alone or with a good friend.
@@Drummerx04 All I can say is that you've learned your lessons pretty early. Congrats to you man! I had to learn it a little more the tough way, after 23 years when your partner became your (only) family. That's a bitter pill to swallow. But how's the song? Keep your head up, keep your heart strong... Wish you all the best brother!
This is exactly why my ex wife left. We were married 9 years and she left because hre co-worker gave her "tingles". In reality though she did me a favor. She was always a mental mess and impossible to please. MGTOW now all day and forever.
Same story. Wife got the tingles for someone and left after 7 years. I was devastated at the time but realize now how lucky I was. My married friends are miserable. I’m free to do whatever the hell I want!
Yeah; same with me = 7 years and then found out she was cheating and in love with some other guy. I suggested we go to marriage counselling and she demanded a divorce instead, so I gave her the divorce she wanted. Been MGTOW ever since.
Reminds me of a line from that movie, The Counselor, where Javier Bardeim says "You can do anything you want to a woman and they'll always come back...as long as you don't bore her." It's really sad to see the destruction of the American family unit before my eyes. Oh well, it was nice while it lasted.
Angel Urena I agree w this and I’m an example despite my relationship with my ex n gf she always comes back regardless of what bad thing it might be due to the fact I never bore her
I have been on FB for exactly 3 days......I already have 4 girls from my past that want to meet for a drink to “catch up”....yes....some are married and I will NOT be meeting them. But my point is....women stray.
Facebook is the devil. Women say it's all about keeping up with family and friends when in reality it's just a super easy tool at their disposal for them to talk to other men. Old crushes from the past, guys from work, guys from church, guys from anywhere and everywhere. It's really a shame but imo all this social media is really designed to further break up the family system.
@@Engagenumberone no way. Who knows what diseases this trolls carry. And if they find out you warned their husband, the rape accusations will come out. They are unstable and unhappy. Stay miles away
Boy,that was a home run for what happened to me! Seven years into the marriage and she needed a spark from a new guy. I provided everything for her, but she wanted the high life and found a sugar daddy.
Hang on Kenneth. Trust me! It takes time. Rely on family and close friends. Don't give up! Talk to my or someone else who has gone through it. You have your whole life ahead of you!
I expect every new girl I meet to have a high body count because of the fact women get sex really easy so I’ll enjoy my turn then get rid of her myself .
I think once society collapses we will all know our true values. What we took for granted and what little we knew to make ourselves happy and to appreciate the people in our lives.
Wow, this video sounds very familiar. My ex never helped plan anything. I got so tired of it. I basically became her entertainment coordinator with dating. I asked right before kicking her ass to the curb, and she said, you're the guy, that's your job. Now if I said, she's the woman, she should be in the kitchen, she'd have a nuclear meltdown. Btw, she never cooked. Adios!
@@brittany1484 even if you do that, she'll perma-nag you and emotionally extort you. If all men stopped working and put their tools down for even one DAY, all women would submit immediately.
Not cooking / not able to cook, or at least not very well (unless they have formal culinary training/ it is their career) seems to be a common denominator with these women.
@@brittany1484 Courting made sense when there were still ladies who obeyed their husbands. You dont get the benefits of old-school without the responsibilities.
Excellent video. And yes, I also went through the same thing. Four year relationship. She moved in with me just after 3 months of love bombing me. I basically gave in. After 3,5 years I started noticing the changes in behavior. I was already taking my red pills so I was able to spot the red flags now. She cut her hair, colored it purple (and a new color every other week), added a visible tattoo, got piercings on intimate parts, reconnected/hanging out with old (slutty) girlfriends and after 6 months she texted me that she wanted to break up. I kicked her ass out. She lived at her parents place but we were still seeing eachother off and on. It looked more like a 'break' than a break up. She said:"She was working on herself, trying to find herself etc...". After a month or so I found out she was seeing some other guy. She finally broke up with me, changed her number and moved in with the other guy a week after the official break up. My first hand experience of monkey branching. So yeah, she was not mine. It was just my turn...
What has happened to me on several occasions, is as you describe, a girl Id been dating would inevitably ditch me for some other guy, but then 6 months down the line, she would start messaging me again to ask "how Ive been" and such like. On one such occasion, she had married the other guy. Absolutely nothing genuine about them. A woman is only as loyal as her options.
I was raised by my mom, and the mother side of the family (all women). To all younger people, well i'm young myself (22). Learn the math and the sientific stuff schools teach and histotic facts are nice. I've considered all other things an oponion. If i'm interested in that then i look it up and build my own opinion. If you have to write a paper or something for the school, then do it the way they want in order to get good grades, but you don't have to agree. Fake your agreement for the game if necessary. This approach has been working well for me.
Kirk Patrick My favorite way to keep my mind right about it, and to understand why nothing lasts and why she’s never invested, is to understand that all I can ever be is 1/xxth of her heart/mind/life experience. If she’s been with 50 men, which is very common now, you don’t even have to consider all the damage of the failed relationships. Just take the POSITIVE, best-case scenario: I can only be 1/50th or 2% of her experience. There is no way to be important, given that reality. Men are not that way, and this has been researched. Men compartmentalize and mostly put away their past experiences, while women’s are ever-present and jumbled in one big mass in their minds. So you are truly only that fraction, and here’s the worst part: the researchers describe it as a mass of jumbled wires, WHERE EVERYTHING YOU DO IS CONSTANTLY TRIGGERING MEMORIES OF PAST MEN, so that her past is constantly in your present with her, and YOU will do and say things with her that bring other men into her mind.
iRide uWatch I wish I knew. I’ve been fascinated by the subject for many years, and don’t recall where I heard it. The best book I ever read on the differences between the male and female brain is called The Female Brain. It’s my favorite because it’s authored by two feminist professors who began their research with biased feminist leanings that are diametrically opposed to what they discovered. They take several heterosexual couples and do brain scans on both parties throughout the various stages of their relationships, contrasting the COMPLETELY DIFFERENT activates regions of the brain in the man and woman.
These are exactly the behavioral patterns, I am observerving in my social environment for the last two decades. I am from Germany. The Internet enables us to see and here evidence of these patterns all over the world these days. It is about time, and of utmost importance, to put the vague gut feelings many men have, into proper words. And you are doing this very well Mr. Joker. I am appreciating your channel and content very much. Best wishes for 2020...
i love this channel. Youre very smart and drop facts all the way while beeing calm and rational. So many truths about modern women and dating. People need to see this
They all think that the “Grass Is Greener on the Other Side”, and then they are shocked when they find out that it isn’t, and all they find are “More Weeds”! That’s when they try to come back! But just tell them “NO”, and “That Ship Has Sailed”!
This is because most of them honestly believe they are princesses. They all love Disney movie BS. And what happens at the end of a Disney princess movie? They all live happily ever after. No mention of working on a relationship. No mention of ebbs and flows. Just eternal joy and pleasure. I honestly believe many of them don't think long term. The second they don't see you as a Prince Charming, it's over. Because love is "happily ever after". It might sound crazy but when you start viewing them as children, they become a lot easier to understand and predict
Yes! Last I heard my ex is still in her miserable job wiping ass and has become a huge colossal bitch to everyone because she thought she could do better and remains to be miserable. Warms my heart.
Mine went almost 6yrs and she’s still holding on when I’m trying to run away. She cheated on me with a badboy, and thought that she could keep me as her provider.
Not that I’ve ever had much luck with women, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned about women, and that is, women never get over their ex-partners (especially if he was a bad boy).
Yup, when their current partner is fucking them, they are thinking about the bad boy who fucks them like the whores they are, when they are not doing that behind his back.
Joker you 100% correct in your latest video, you can be the nicest guy and treat the girl like a queen but she will leave anyway. This happened to me, I thought things were going great, she claimed to enjoy our conversations, expressed love to me for like 8 months and then suddenly stopped chatting with me and became cold. I still see her in our same circle of friends and it pains me that we've become strangers the past 5 months.
I’ve got my eyes on a new girl. She’s got those athletic curves, she’s soft in all the right spots. She lights up when I push her button. She purrs when I’m starting her up. Did I mention she’s black? Yep a 2020 Porsche Panamera. She’s a beauty😎
Good man. That's a much better option than a woman. Regardless, it is still a liability that takes money out of your pocket. But unlike a woman, you know how much it's gonna cost up front.
I’m pretty much sold on staying a bachelor forever. I would love to hear your advice on being single as you age into your 40s. Things to look out for, how your life goals change since you won’t be having a family, etc.
NiceOneZebra damn dude this is inspiring. I’m 27 and trying to get my life together. Hopefully by the time I’m your age I’ve got something similar going for me.
We get sold a bunch of bull about having a family. If you take a wife, once she gives birth that child will be her priority from then on. You will no longer be a priority. I have four grown kids, but if I had to do it over, I would have stayed single. Married twice and now free again.
I'm 49,..bachelor, no kids ,no ex wives....man it's not so bad, have hobbies, stay in shape, physically n mentally...have some close friends...n hell get a dog...lol. women today are in constant state of dissatisfaction n transition....my experience anyway.....I've had no luck....so decided to take care of "me'
Even the most Alpha guys in the world have wives that "Get Bored". Look at celebrities. I saw this quote on Reddit the other day and had to save it: "Women are cats. They embody all the attributes of cats. They are fierce, lazy, noncommittal, needy, and have claws. Bottom line -- carry spare batteries and keep the laser pointer moving."
@@FazeParticles Except women are people, much like men. Only tools are created with a purpose behind them, but sentient people like us? They are what they decide to do. If a woman becomes a dead weight, then it's because she made herself that with her own actions, not because she was "meant" to be that way, or any of that apologetic garbage. Women can be good and responsible people, if they try. I know this cause I have met quite a few good ones personally. The problem tho, isn't so much that they are more bad than good, but that for whatever flaw you can expect from a mortal person, females are given too many outs for all of them. They are granted too many excuses and justifications for their flaws, that even the best ones are practically allowed to come out with the biggest bullshit. Women are not inherently immoral, nor mischievous, but if we are going to excuse their faults as them "just fulfilling their purpose", then in practice it'd be the same as saying that they have the right to do whatever they want, including abusing others in any way possible. When that shouldn't be acceptable.
@@zettovii1367 i think we should make women property again because most men care deeply about their property. that or we let things collapse and we rebuild society with the founding fathers doctrine.
@@FazeParticles Or we give them a reason to be more accountable, by eliminating anything that rewards irresponsibilities and promoting a more considerate mindset, without solely pushing responsibilities on men alone. In either case, society needs a reformation... I just dont think a complete regression is a good idea, because it has flaws in of itself, while there are some things in present society that is worth keeping.
It's true. I did so much for my ex and we had a lot of good times together. In the end she packed her bags and forgot all that I'd done for her, they end up resenting you if anything. All that time and money and effort for nothing.
Nah not for nothing, just a vehicle for where you’re going next. No experience is a waste. But hey, next time make her spend some money on you so it’s not all your coins going down the drain.
@@ultrararesabra6159 I've been through this multiple times. We don't reach our destination without the journey so in a sense you are right but I should've known better this time. She did do things for me just not as much as I did for her. Now I come out on top.
Please reconsider the time and money you spent supporting your relationship as valuable lived experience. Coming at relationships from a highly dysfunctional family background and looking at relationships from a more objectively academic perspective I see now that the few attempts I made at relating to girlish women( I have yet to meet a fully mature human) adult) as an actual mature person were ill-fated from the beginning. Most people, whether they care to admit it or not have some emotional baggage leftover from their own family of origin that they would do well to admit to and deal with before actually trying to start another relationship because women come equipped with a lot of their own kind of baggage(see fairy tale-thinking and latent hostility towards a absent Father and natural attraction to the same kind of unavailable romantic partners. If you can imagine how difficult conducting a relationship with one available adult and one Woman-Child that is essentially clueless about what they genuinely want in life and knows the difference between what is actually good for them instead of just what's pleasing for the moment then you can stop your searching. You found yourself a keeper/winner.
Iv been single since about 2012 I'm 35 now and I honestly don't feel any desire to date anyone at all I just love having the freedom to do as I please and not get moaned at for it best feeling in the world oh and your videos are great 👍
Women don't want to be treated well by her man, she wants to serve her man as much as possible and be happy with the service she provides. So, the first thing a man needs to learn is to give her the opportunity to do what she needs.
I remember a meme from the internet: Superman and Louise Laine are getting married. Superman's thought bubble: "This is the happiest day of my life!" Louise's thought bubble: "I wonder if I could find someone better."
With the way schools are these these they won’t. They want boys to think women are the best thing ever. And the boys will realize that’s a lie way down the road.
@@StonedGoku To a Woman anything is a good enough reason. Maybe I just got tired of being ignored, shit tested and treated like I was beneath her all the time. She did me a favor. My Cat doesn't do that. I'm too old to put all this energy into trying to please a Woman. Takes too much effort and you get very little in return besides some sex if your lucky and she doesn't have a headache.
My ex girlfriend was the epitome of “just my turn”. When we first got together, it was quite amazing but after three years my gut was telling me that she’d gotten cold feet about our relationship, like she was barely starting to tolerate me. I ended up leaving to move in with my day, we ended things with the notion that we’d fix things but apart. Not long after, she’s screwing other guys because “she’s single and needs the cash”. First relationship that meant something to me and I feel like I was foolish for thinking that she’d stay loyal to something she probably never wanted to maintain especially when tricking dudes out they cash is way easier. I can’t front. I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the heart.
hell yes! Get a passport and travel to non-Western countries and you will have your eyes opened even wider. Go to countries where prostitution is legal and inexpensive and get ready for even better things! (you don't have to partake in the Mongering lifestyle but you can sure look!)
I have been watching your channel for a while now and I have nothing but respect and admiration. Everything that I have heard is everything that I have been observing in real life.
The older generation seemed to understand this as a possibility and just got on with their relationship even if it got dull. This awful modern life means its just not worth investing in a relationship except with yourself. And for the bitches they have their cats to invest in. Mad old cat ladies are real.
This is very true. Honestly , I found myself doing the same thing. It was all about chasing validation. That was the main reason why going my own way is appealing. In the end, I just don’t care what they or females think. I now do things for my self. If a “friend” wants to hang out fine. I won’t initiate at all. She can do or see anyone, my rule is , just don’t tell me about it. I get bored with them also.
"She's not yours forever, it's just your turn" applies to marriage too, sorry to point that out married guys. As a previously married guy, I've been there too...
The only way to keep your frame to a woman is loving yourself more than anything else in the world-make yourself your only priority without being too concerned about her,in other words let her know that you are so happy being yourself and loving what you do that you don't really give a fuck if she leaves at some point.
This brings back memories, the feeling of having to keep keep the plates spinning and waiting for the wheels to come off and trying to find a way to break the vicious cycle but not being able to see a way that will work. Then the break up comes where it is all your fault and the attrition has had a wearing effect where the last bit of gasslighting has you questioning yourself. It is not a nice place to be and I don't ever want to go there again .
I've said this before I had a friend of mine who had a girl he did everything for her , broke every law , he went against his own family , almost committed suicide for this girl held her hand at the hospital / And how did she reward him ? , by jumping into the arms of other men , the plural / finally he broke it off and she showed up at his doorstep 10 years later with two kids he looked in her he looked at the kids he said those kids should be my kids , but they're not he looked at her and he said I will never help you again , not after the way you treated me / He never saw her again !
If you're an asshole she can literally be yours forever. I know plenty of women who've been with assholes since before high school and they still with him 13 years later. No matter how many beatings, flings, or crashed cars or ruined credit, or pregnant mistresses. Still with those guys today!
my big brother smitty 1st mentioned "She isnt Yours its just your turn" @bsolutely! Thats why @m glad imma @ travelar to The D.R columbia brazil E.T.C.......... Men need to take heed to this !!!!!!!!!!💪💪💪💪
When I was in a LTR, I felt like it was another job, except you have to pay to work there and they get pissed when they catch you on LinkedIn seeing what other jobs are out there...
Lesson learned here (i think).. From my last relationship, almost 3 years, i was supportive, fixed things, helped out, blablabla, right. I would say Mr Saveaho, but i got her through a very hard life tragedy, so dont feel too bad. Anyway, the point is she eventually got bored, and told me that. I realized that I removed her chaos, which I personally don't like, but she NEEDED that. And I think I've done that before in relationships, i.e., fixed so many things, that life is boring. To me, thats a good thing! That's what I strive for, and frankly, my work is to keep things under control. But it makes for a boring relationships. No common struggle or crisis I guess. So anyway, when she was bored, I left. I was not about to be a dancing monkey to entertain her, and I refused to marry, cohabitate, or anything like that.. So in no time, she hooked up with the next "exciting guy" on her dude list. And whatever I fixed was for nada. So anyway, judge her need for excitement compared to yours. That should end it right there.
3:49 huff... This hits right in the feels. My ex left me over a year ago after 5,5years of friendship and 2,5 years relationship, because ( i quote) "It doesn't feel the same as befor". I don't know if i was luck or not but she left me like a month befor we really started living together... so there wasn't much problems with material things. Not the first one who disappointed me, but the first women who broke me ... so far the only one who i really loved beyond butterflies in the guts fading away, respected and trusted the most. But yeah - kind of cheated on me, her behaviour towards me changed like 180 degrees. Exactly what you said in the end - she found someone else, kept all activities with this person a secret, lied to me and 3 weeks after she broke up with me, they were together.
Oh, they were a couple before the actual breakup, bro. You were the last to find out I bet. Move on. No "friend" BS with her, dont take calls or texts (but dont block, that's Beta). It happens, man. Better to find out now.
@@GUITARTIME2024 While yes and no, but i know what you mean ^^ Yes, i was the last one to find out, that she already was over me in her mind, she at least had the dignity to break up with me befor dating him. (I have my 100% reliable sources - her smartphone and some other things) But this doesn't make it better. At first she wanted to keep me as her best friend, but after some weeks she blocked me. 2 Months after we broke up, i did visit her father (because i am still friends with him, great person) and she came in with her new friend - her shocked face was PURE GOLD and she did hide him, so i wasn't even able the get a glimps of him. She knew that she screwed up. Yeah - since then i never had any contact to her, not even her father mentions her. The only thing I got informed about is, that they broke up pretty quick. But still thanks for your words ;) - that's how life is playing.
She always thinks _"Is this all there is in life?"_ Then she thinks she misses something, and starts looking for it. The butterflies are all dead. start looking for new ones.
Dont get too attached to her. Dont fall in love, know she will always lose interest in time. When a woman gets use to dating new, she will always date new. Its in her DNA. Some have personality disorders making her even worse to deal with.
Hits all the nails on the head here. I want to add that the honeymoon phase he's describing, dating, relationships, and hurting men isn't a game to women. Games have consequences, and most women have no grasp of consequences. It's just their nature. Don't expect things to get better on their side, just do what men do best; adapt, thrive, overcome.
I'm 17, and I'm from France, her butterflies went away just 2 months after the beginning and I have done the mistake to try to keep her back... I guess for the next I will say : "No more than 2 months, it's for your own good!"
After eight months together, and nearly a year of dating, my ex left me, and two months later started hooking up with her charming, tall, handsome french housemate. The same housemate, who first moved in, two months before she dumped me. He isn’t to blame, but his arrival did change the underlying dynamic, and I also was making mistakes independent of his arrival, that dimmed her attraction for me. Bear in mind, this was the same girl who told me weeks before ending it that I was “probably the one”, and would always talk about having children with me one day, living together et cetera
Been there dont that twice divorced they are just evil bottom line , im 58 and was a player when young, they like the bad guys, the guy all other woman whant, thats why they end up old and alone
Good vid, and very true. Women are impossible to please for the long term. Also, Happy New Year to all my MGTOW brothers! May this new decade shine bright for us all!
Women not only have an easy way out after the butterflies are gone, they get rewarded for ending the relationship.
And everyone feels sorry for her and bend over backwards to help them. Just pathetic!
James Allen
She can’t get rewarded if you don’t fucking marry her. You do realise men are doing this to themselves? No one is forcing you to get married. What men see in marriage is something I could never understand. But what I can’t understand more is that men would still get married, then get divorce raped, then complain about it even though they knew that’s what they were signing up for!
Pump and dump or monk. Never marry or cohabitate.
@@mck7646 The shortest, most concise way to put it. You are exactly right.
Only applies to relationships where the state gets involved. All she needs is to cross at least one threshold.
NO MAN can compete with NEW.
Men who get cheated on need to understand that the new guy might only be better because her highest priority was NEW.
Exactly. A lot of women are perpetually addicted to that high they get from a new guy/fresh relationship. After things get a bit stale (normal), she needs another NEW.
byteresistor
Yeah. And the 3-6 month timeline is SPOT ON.
Nowadays they ALWAYS come undone right at 4 months, REALLY bad by 6, and exponentially worse by EACH ADDITIONAL MONTH that YOU, not her, attempt to keep it together.
I now realize that they are just deliberately behaving as horribly as possible to get the man to walk away, but also not willing to behave SO DIRECTLY HORRIBLY that she might endanger herself.
QE ornotQE
Absolutely. It’s so exact, and has happened so many times, that I’m led to believe there is biological/hormonal goings on that are mappable with brain scans, and tied to a society that has DECOUPLED male value from the INDIVIDUAL man, and handed his value to her in the form of an outside government gift, like a Male Mutual Fund.
Dopamine chasers. Children in adult bodies. Annoying.
@@Drizzly_Bear After a woman has sex for several months without pregnancy, then her lizard brain deems the male infertile and spurs her to find another one. The lizard brain doesn't know that she is on birth control and that her more conscious processes don't want a kid.
They can chase their butterflies right off a cliff.
Haha 👍
lemmings do the same
Hahahaha gottem!!
And they usually do lol
😂😂😂😂😂
The Alaskan saying is, you don’t loose your girl just your turn. The women that are married to guys on an oil platform are only married two week a month, and act single when he’s working. Truth
I got this friend roaming the danish warship Absalon 20 months a year... he had three longterm who all fucked around in hes expensive appartment back home... one time he found out by finding sperm still inside and dripping down the legs.... idiot friend i named him ;p
i stopped caring about women and im saving my money to finally get my dream motorcycle the harley nightrod
Nice choice.
awesome.
omnighast Better then those damned Geico commercials.
Best part is ur bike won’t drive off and screw someone. Funny thing I’ve only had a breakdown once on my bike. It was after I screwed a chick on my motorcycle seat. I guess the bike got mad but I was sharing her with the bike. True shit
omnighast Right before we got married I sold my Camaro because it wasn’t a “practical family car” and got a PT Cruiser (sad but true story). After our divorce from twenty years of marriage I got another Camaro and haven’t looked back! Some stories have happy endings! Lol!😀
Woman always have three men.
The one they were with.
The one they're with now.
And the one they will be with next.
There will be always three....
You forgot their gynecologist...
Facts!
They have 2, money man, meat man, which one are you? Serious question.
@@justinacase2623
The one in the middle.
😆🤣😂
After I bankrupted myself for her, she left me with the words. “You should have done more to keep me” it was a hard lesson I learned that they are never satisfied.
johnny zero 😂😂😂 many people ask me if I am related to Candice Swanepoel. Yes her make was like Candice.
lucky escape. Good riddance to that C U Next Tuesday
What an entitled animal.
@@AntonSwanepoelTravel damn I would have been serving life if a chick was ever crazy enough to say that to me after going bankrupt y'all way to nice
whygiveup11 yeh, I was raw simp back then ( back in 1999). She made me swallow the pill hard. Maybe I should thank her because she opened my eyes and saved me a lot of heartache later in life with other girls. Also made me let go of wanting to have kids and marry. Instead I traveled the world for 9 years and learned so much about life and myself.
You are only one swipe away from being replaced.
Damn that’s scary but true
My ex left me after ten years for the neighbour, her words "I love you, but i'm not in love with you" "The last ten years have been great, i'm just not excited by the idea of being with you for another ten years"
In other words, she's interested in someone else. It's hard to hear.
kidfresh that is cold man,what.......
You think they value commitment when something better comes along?
@freshly squeezed Some of the most Dalager friends i know free up in Christian times Where both patents Despised eachother but waited with brakeup until kids lived out.... so Much life wasted...
kidfresh wow at least she was honest.
I recently met a great looking woman on POF. Went for a few hikes with her. Never made a move...2019 was the year I stopped giving a crap unless it was handed to me. Anyway, this lady is always on POF waiting for Romeo to show up...with her tag line reading "Inspire me". I'm like, fuuuuck that shit. Makes me sick.
John N can’t inspire herself? Sounds like she s living in a romantic dream.....
@@rustyhands8179 True. The problem is she's got dozens of simps messaging her daily.
Log into PoF years later she will still be on there , looking for the man of her dreams. It's a fact, they are serial daters.
Pof= plenty of fatties. I still see many same women on there from two years ago. I pump and dump them like an assembly line.
@ETB He's wasting his time on her. Sounds like old boy is only halfway red pill. Still trying to balance his sex drive with common sense.
"not matter what you do, your woman is mad at you.
because you ain't her first choice."
chris rock
Fuck. He is right. You know, women settle down with the man that was available at that particular moment she needed you. Not because she loves you, but when she needs you. There are some exceptions who really love men.
@@4lugan yep. 99% of them needed food,shelter or one-way support from me. Better off by myself
Just found out my gf of 3 years my first real love has already dated three guys since we broke up a few months ago. That Crushed me y’all. Guess this video is right.
This is why you never take a girl back after a break up. You know she went out and banged a random dude a few days to 2 weeks after you broke up in order to help her get over you. And she probably did more than 1 guy like that.
Drew Crabtree
Man she probably "dated" while(!) your relationship. And there's a well known term of the MGTOW community, it's called monkey branching. So, no need for a heart break, man, just for knowledge!
Yeah I understand. I had a relationship with a girl for a little over years. We eventually went off to college together, and she started crying at me because she "thinks I'm going to find a smart, beautiful woman in my classes and leave her."
A month later I'm kicked out of our apartment, blocked on all forms of contact, and she's banging another dude she met two months prior. It was pretty tough to deal with. I basically just focused on my school work and hung out with friends after that.
For my next relationship, I went in with more realistic expectations, so when it too failed, I wasn't really devastated so much as I was inconvenienced.
General advice:
Do not set yourself up in a situation where you are trapped with a woman. Do not get shared ownership of anything (bank accounts, pets, TV, computers, houses). Either you buy it and it's yours, or she buys it and it's hers. Do not buy anything for her unless you can easily afford to do so. When you break up, immediately take action to protect your personal assets (gather your things together, take pictures of the things you care about, move important items to the home of a trusted friend, etc).
Turn off your emotions while you deal with her. If you are emotional when dealing with her, it can only help her hurt you more. You can always express your emotions later while alone or with a good friend.
@@Drummerx04
All I can say is that you've learned your lessons pretty early. Congrats to you man! I had to learn it a little more the tough way, after 23 years when your partner became your (only) family. That's a bitter pill to swallow. But how's the song? Keep your head up, keep your heart strong...
Wish you all the best brother!
Drew Crabtree yep she was nothing special dude
You can’t please the unpleasable, never.
This is exactly why my ex wife left. We were married 9 years and she left because hre co-worker gave her "tingles". In reality though she did me a favor. She was always a mental mess and impossible to please. MGTOW now all day and forever.
Dealing with mental mess is like you are talking to a wall. Been there!
Same story. Wife got the tingles for someone and left after 7 years. I was devastated at the time but realize now how lucky I was. My married friends are miserable. I’m free to do whatever the hell I want!
Same. 9yrs and we called it a day. It ended 7yrs ago, and I couldn't be happier.
Could you elaborate more on how she was a mental mess?
Yeah; same with me = 7 years and then found out she was cheating and in love with some other guy. I suggested we go to marriage counselling and she demanded a divorce instead, so I gave her the divorce she wanted. Been MGTOW ever since.
Reminds me of a line from that movie, The Counselor, where Javier Bardeim says "You can do anything you want to a woman and they'll always come back...as long as you don't bore her." It's really sad to see the destruction of the American family unit before my eyes. Oh well, it was nice while it lasted.
Angel Urena I agree w this and I’m an example despite my relationship with my ex n gf she always comes back regardless of what bad thing it might be due to the fact I never bore her
The "Entrepreneurs in Cars" / Richard Cooper (?) RP content creator - that is one of his mottos.
I have been on FB for exactly 3 days......I already have 4 girls from my past that want to meet for a drink to “catch up”....yes....some are married and I will NOT be meeting them. But my point is....women stray.
Facebook is the devil. Women say it's all about keeping up with family and friends when in reality it's just a super easy tool at their disposal for them to talk to other men. Old crushes from the past, guys from work, guys from church, guys from anywhere and everywhere. It's really a shame but imo all this social media is really designed to further break up the family system.
Thank you for staying humble and true to yourself! Don’t fall for their evil ways!
You should send screenshots of the messages to their husbands and warn them to lawyer up and make an exit strategy
@@mattm7378 Agreed.....but only after you had some fun 😂
@@Engagenumberone no way. Who knows what diseases this trolls carry. And if they find out you warned their husband, the rape accusations will come out. They are unstable and unhappy. Stay miles away
the woman from scarface is a pretty good example.
@@sonomacalendar9949 ☟♋︎❖︎☜ ✌ ☠♓︎♍︎☜ 👎♋︎✡
Boy,that was a home run for what happened to me! Seven years into the marriage and she needed a spark from a new guy. I provided everything for her, but she wanted the high life and found a sugar daddy.
It took a long time to heal. I've learned a lot. Now I am truly happy being single. Kenneth Herring
Hang on Kenneth. Trust me! It takes time. Rely on family and close friends. Don't give up! Talk to my or someone else who has gone through it. You have your whole life ahead of you!
You can always talk with me Kenneth
Joker speaks the truth
Mark Baranowski I really appreciate the words man means a lot
Don't forget, that stuff she does with you she has done with previous guys. Your just the new schmuck. Keeping that in mind makes bye so much easier.
but i was her first?
Surprising this comment is made by a woman.😳
@@dayytube Red pill for the win
I expect every new girl I meet to have a high body count because of the fact women get sex really easy so I’ll enjoy my turn then get rid of her myself .
I think once society collapses we will all know our true values. What we took for granted and what little we knew to make ourselves happy and to appreciate the people in our lives.
Wow, this video sounds very familiar. My ex never helped plan anything. I got so tired of it. I basically became her entertainment coordinator with dating. I asked right before kicking her ass to the curb, and she said, you're the guy, that's your job. Now if I said, she's the woman, she should be in the kitchen, she'd have a nuclear meltdown. Btw, she never cooked. Adios!
I agree with her. It’s called courting.
Always ask if a woman is willing to clean the house, cook and have as many children as you want. If she says no, then say goodbye.
@@brittany1484 even if you do that, she'll perma-nag you and emotionally extort you. If all men stopped working and put their tools down for even one DAY, all women would submit immediately.
Not cooking / not able to cook, or at least not very well (unless they have formal culinary training/ it is their career) seems to be a common denominator with these women.
@@brittany1484 Courting made sense when there were still ladies who obeyed their husbands. You dont get the benefits of old-school without the responsibilities.
I did the fake FB account too. It turned out exactly like your experience. She is not yours, it is just your turn is exactly right.
Excellent video. And yes, I also went through the same thing. Four year relationship. She moved in with me just after 3 months of love bombing me. I basically gave in. After 3,5 years I started noticing the changes in behavior. I was already taking my red pills so I was able to spot the red flags now. She cut her hair, colored it purple (and a new color every other week), added a visible tattoo, got piercings on intimate parts, reconnected/hanging out with old (slutty) girlfriends and after 6 months she texted me that she wanted to break up. I kicked her ass out. She lived at her parents place but we were still seeing eachother off and on. It looked more like a 'break' than a break up. She said:"She was working on herself, trying to find herself etc...". After a month or so I found out she was seeing some other guy. She finally broke up with me, changed her number and moved in with the other guy a week after the official break up. My first hand experience of monkey branching. So yeah, she was not mine. It was just my turn...
lucky escape
What has happened to me on several occasions, is as you describe, a girl Id been dating would inevitably ditch me for some other guy, but then 6 months down the line, she would start messaging me again to ask "how Ive been" and such like. On one such occasion, she had married the other guy. Absolutely nothing genuine about them. A woman is only as loyal as her options.
"a woman is only as loyal as her options." Pure gold, there. Mind if I steal it?
@@docbohemian1328 Be my guest Sir
Uh - that's part of one of Chris Rock's skits..
Women want to constantly live a Cinderella story, that's how they've been raised.
Z M it’s called entitlement. They are never realistic.
This is it, every woman thinks they're a princess when most are a troll lol
Modern women nowadays are about “Til I feel do us part” instead of sticking out the lifelong commitment.
I was raised by my mom and the public school system to be a nice guy to woman. Has caused me nothing but problems...
same problem
you're not alone. same
I was raised by my mom, and the mother side of the family (all women). To all younger people, well i'm young myself (22). Learn the math and the sientific stuff schools teach and histotic facts are nice. I've considered all other things an oponion. If i'm interested in that then i look it up and build my own opinion. If you have to write a paper or something for the school, then do it the way they want in order to get good grades, but you don't have to agree. Fake your agreement for the game if necessary. This approach has been working well for me.
Yup that's when I stopped believing in that shit these entitled bitches thinking i need to treat them like a goddesses when they treat me like shit
Well u no the expression" nice guys finish last"
My favorite version is: "It's not your girl, it's just your turn".
Kirk Patrick
My favorite way to keep my mind right about it, and to understand why nothing lasts and why she’s never invested, is to understand that all I can ever be is 1/xxth of her heart/mind/life experience.
If she’s been with 50 men, which is very common now, you don’t even have to consider all the damage of the failed relationships.
Just take the POSITIVE, best-case scenario:
I can only be 1/50th or 2% of her experience.
There is no way to be important, given that reality.
Men are not that way, and this has been researched. Men compartmentalize and mostly put away their past experiences, while women’s are ever-present and jumbled in one big mass in their minds.
So you are truly only that fraction, and here’s the worst part:
the researchers describe it as a mass of jumbled wires, WHERE EVERYTHING YOU DO IS CONSTANTLY TRIGGERING MEMORIES OF PAST MEN, so that her past is constantly in your present with her, and YOU will do and say things with her that bring other men into her mind.
@@Drizzly_Bear source for this research please. Very interesting.
iRide uWatch
I wish I knew. I’ve been fascinated by the subject for many years, and don’t recall where I heard it.
The best book I ever read on the differences between the male and female brain is called The Female Brain.
It’s my favorite because it’s authored by two feminist professors who began their research with biased feminist leanings that are diametrically opposed to what they discovered.
They take several heterosexual couples and do brain scans on both parties throughout the various stages of their relationships, contrasting the COMPLETELY DIFFERENT activates regions of the brain in the man and woman.
Mine is “she was never yours, it was just your turn”.
chris palmer I would love to read that. Do you have an origin?
I only fell in love once then I learned from that.
Same here I learned my lesson too....
A lesson that i’m glad I learned while young and not to late!
These are exactly the behavioral patterns, I am observerving in my social environment for the last two decades. I am from Germany. The Internet enables us to see and here evidence of these patterns all over the world these days. It is about time, and of utmost importance, to put the vague gut feelings many men have, into proper words.
And you are doing this very well Mr. Joker. I am appreciating your channel and content very much.
Best wishes for 2020...
Dude, you and I have been through some very similar shit. I feel for us guys that have been through this garbage. Here is to a better decade.
i love this channel. Youre very smart and drop facts all the way while beeing calm and rational. So many truths about modern women and dating. People need to see this
"rational" Thats the part hes lacking. Apathy, defeatism, pesimism and nihlism are not logical.
@@gunarsmiezis9321 bullshit
They all think that the “Grass Is Greener on the Other Side”, and then they are shocked when they find out that it isn’t, and all they find are “More Weeds”! That’s when they try to come back! But just tell them “NO”, and “That Ship Has Sailed”!
This is because most of them honestly believe they are princesses. They all love Disney movie BS. And what happens at the end of a Disney princess movie? They all live happily ever after. No mention of working on a relationship. No mention of ebbs and flows. Just eternal joy and pleasure. I honestly believe many of them don't think long term. The second they don't see you as a Prince Charming, it's over. Because love is "happily ever after". It might sound crazy but when you start viewing them as children, they become a lot easier to understand and predict
Yes! Last I heard my ex is still in her miserable job wiping ass and has become a huge colossal bitch to everyone because she thought she could do better and remains to be miserable. Warms my heart.
Until they do find someone better.
@@mattm7378 Yup.
People who want more and more in life usually end up with nothing of substance. It's the devil's curse.
Men we got to instill this in our DNA not to love.
LOVE IS TOXIC.
We have done a lot for love.
Luv killed Joi.
Deep shit, but true. Sadly will take couple thousands of years :/
Not really
Mine went almost 6yrs and she’s still holding on when I’m trying to run away. She cheated on me with a badboy, and thought that she could keep me as her provider.
Not that I’ve ever had much luck with women, but if there’s one thing I’ve learned about women, and that is, women never get over their ex-partners (especially if he was a bad boy).
Amen
Yup, when their current partner is fucking them, they are thinking about the bad boy who fucks them like the whores they are, when they are not doing that behind his back.
Absolutely goddamn right
Joker you 100% correct in your latest video, you can be the nicest guy and treat the girl like a queen but she will leave anyway. This happened to me, I thought things were going great, she claimed to enjoy our conversations, expressed love to me for like 8 months and then suddenly stopped chatting with me and became cold. I still see her in our same circle of friends and it pains me that we've become strangers the past 5 months.
I’ve got my eyes on a new girl. She’s got those athletic curves, she’s soft in all the right spots. She lights up when I push her button. She purrs when I’m starting her up. Did I mention she’s black? Yep a 2020 Porsche Panamera. She’s a beauty😎
Modern cars will not survive what's coming.
All flash and power but no stay time.
I have a 1985 dodge ranger.
This thing will survive doomsday.
Good man. That's a much better option than a woman. Regardless, it is still a liability that takes money out of your pocket. But unlike a woman, you know how much it's gonna cost up front.
I hope your "leasing" that Panamera, brother.
The resale value on 100k cars is brutal. 🥩
HAHAHAHAHAAHH!!!!!!
For a second there, I thought you were going to say when she spreads her legs, there is a card reader.
I’m pretty much sold on staying a bachelor forever. I would love to hear your advice on being single as you age into your 40s. Things to look out for, how your life goals change since you won’t be having a family, etc.
NiceOneZebra damn dude this is inspiring. I’m 27 and trying to get my life together. Hopefully by the time I’m your age I’ve got something similar going for me.
44 this year. MGTOW since 39.
Keep yourself in shape: physically and intellectually.
We get sold a bunch of bull about having a family. If you take a wife, once she gives birth that child will be her priority from then on. You will no longer be a priority. I have four grown kids, but if I had to do it over, I would have stayed single. Married twice and now free again.
I'm 49,..bachelor, no kids ,no ex wives....man it's not so bad, have hobbies, stay in shape, physically n mentally...have some close friends...n hell get a dog...lol. women today are in constant state of dissatisfaction n transition....my experience anyway.....I've had no luck....so decided to take care of "me'
I love how couples on facebook put hashtags forever mine or something like that, only to visit their page after couple months that they are divorced
Even the most Alpha guys in the world have wives that "Get Bored". Look at celebrities.
I saw this quote on Reddit the other day and had to save it:
"Women are cats. They embody all the attributes of cats. They are fierce, lazy, noncommittal, needy, and have claws. Bottom line -- carry spare batteries and keep the laser pointer moving."
Sounds like it was qouted by a dog person.
women were meant to make men constantly improve so you were never supposed to remain constant or relaxed. sad but true.
@@FazeParticles
Except women are people, much like men. Only tools are created with a purpose behind them, but sentient people like us? They are what they decide to do. If a woman becomes a dead weight, then it's because she made herself that with her own actions, not because she was "meant" to be that way, or any of that apologetic garbage.
Women can be good and responsible people, if they try. I know this cause I have met quite a few good ones personally. The problem tho, isn't so much that they are more bad than good, but that for whatever flaw you can expect from a mortal person, females are given too many outs for all of them. They are granted too many excuses and justifications for their flaws, that even the best ones are practically allowed to come out with the biggest bullshit.
Women are not inherently immoral, nor mischievous, but if we are going to excuse their faults as them "just fulfilling their purpose", then in practice it'd be the same as saying that they have the right to do whatever they want, including abusing others in any way possible. When that shouldn't be acceptable.
@@zettovii1367 i think we should make women property again because most men care deeply about their property. that or we let things collapse and we rebuild society with the founding fathers doctrine.
@@FazeParticles
Or we give them a reason to be more accountable, by eliminating anything that rewards irresponsibilities and promoting a more considerate mindset, without solely pushing responsibilities on men alone.
In either case, society needs a reformation... I just dont think a complete regression is a good idea, because it has flaws in of itself, while there are some things in present society that is worth keeping.
Doing a great job on the channel
These dames have a time limit, when age turns their looks to shite. What do they do then?
@keepnitreel 4me That's for her new simp once Ozzy kicks the bucket.
They start collecting cats
They go simp hunting
They find a rich docile beta to provide for them
When they hit the wall they start wondering where have all the good men gone.
It's true. I did so much for my ex and we had a lot of good times together. In the end she packed her bags and forgot all that I'd done for her, they end up resenting you if anything. All that time and money and effort for nothing.
There's no "equity" with women, it doesn't matter what you've done for her in the past
Nah not for nothing, just a vehicle for where you’re going next. No experience is a waste. But hey, next time make her spend some money on you so it’s not all your coins going down the drain.
@@ultrararesabra6159 I've been through this multiple times. We don't reach our destination without the journey so in a sense you are right but I should've known better this time. She did do things for me just not as much as I did for her. Now I come out on top.
Please reconsider the time and money you spent supporting your relationship as valuable lived experience.
Coming at relationships from a highly dysfunctional family background and looking at relationships from a more objectively academic perspective I see now that the few attempts I made at relating to girlish women( I have yet to meet a fully mature human)
adult) as an actual mature person were ill-fated from the beginning.
Most people, whether they care to admit it or not have some emotional baggage leftover from their own family of origin that they would do well to admit to and deal with before actually trying to start another relationship because women come equipped with a lot of their own kind of baggage(see fairy tale-thinking and latent hostility towards a absent Father and natural attraction to the same kind of unavailable romantic partners.
If you can imagine how difficult conducting a relationship with one available adult and one Woman-Child that is essentially clueless about what they genuinely want in life and knows the difference between what is actually good for them instead of just what's pleasing for the moment then you can stop your searching.
You found yourself a keeper/winner.
Here's the difference between men and women, Men when bored look for something to do,
Women when bored look for someone to do
Indeed. A man would never cheat if he is bored. Only women do. Men just cheat because they are horny…
Iv been single since about 2012 I'm 35 now and I honestly don't feel any desire to date anyone at all I just love having the freedom to do as I please and not get moaned at for it best feeling in the world oh and your videos are great 👍
I love the title of this video. Never has a phrase said the reality of relationships any better!
Story of my marriage. If I knew you I would honestly think you made this video about my ex wife. :/
I loved a woman once...... worst thing that ever happened to me.
No woman? No cry!
Yep - been this way since High School. Women always want for more.
I swear I thought I was alone in my situation till I found this channel..word for word at the end of this video
never let her have you completely, dont share all your feelings and dont tell her exactly how you feel about her. women want what they cant have.
Protect your resources gents
Women don't want to be treated well by her man, she wants to serve her man as much as possible and be happy with the service she provides. So, the first thing a man needs to learn is to give her the opportunity to do what she needs.
The reality is you can't keep something forever. You can choose to play the game or not.
The reason why a guy can't figure out what a woman wants is because: She doesn't know either!!😄
And when she gets what she thinks she wants, she's changed her mind and now wants something else..
This is a truth in Alaska... stated differently ..you don't lose your woman, you lose your turn.
Same here in the Yukon Territory, neighbor.
I remember a meme from the internet: Superman and Louise Laine are getting married. Superman's thought bubble: "This is the happiest day of my life!" Louise's thought bubble: "I wonder if I could find someone better."
Lois is gaga over Superman, not Clark Kent.
should be taught to boys in school
With the way schools are these these they won’t. They want boys to think women are the best thing ever. And the boys will realize that’s a lie way down the road.
No truer words have ever been spoken
You can do anything you want to a woman, as long as you don't bore her.
That's why I adopted a Cat. They don't get bored of you.
Robert C - I have two, they’re very loyal and territorial
@freshly squeezed Depends on the Cat and how they're treated. Cats can actually care for their owners.
@@StonedGoku And proud of it.
@@StonedGoku To a Woman anything is a good enough reason. Maybe I just got tired of being ignored, shit tested and treated like I was beneath her all the time. She did me a favor. My Cat doesn't do that. I'm too old to put all this energy into trying to please a Woman. Takes too much effort and you get very little in return besides some sex if your lucky and she doesn't have a headache.
@@StonedGoku Perhaps you'd care to explain why 80% of women file for divorce than?
My ex girlfriend was the epitome of “just my turn”. When we first got together, it was quite amazing but after three years my gut was telling me that she’d gotten cold feet about our relationship, like she was barely starting to tolerate me. I ended up leaving to move in with my day, we ended things with the notion that we’d fix things but apart. Not long after, she’s screwing other guys because “she’s single and needs the cash”. First relationship that meant something to me and I feel like I was foolish for thinking that she’d stay loyal to something she probably never wanted to maintain especially when tricking dudes out they cash is way easier. I can’t front. I feel like I’ve been stabbed in the heart.
Every time I feel bad about being single I just watch this video's and realized how lucky I am ...
hell yes! Get a passport and travel to non-Western countries and you will have your eyes opened even wider. Go to countries where prostitution is legal and inexpensive and get ready for even better things! (you don't have to partake in the Mongering lifestyle but you can sure look!)
I have been watching your channel for a while now and I have nothing but respect and admiration. Everything that I have heard is everything that I have been observing in real life.
The older generation seemed to understand this as a possibility and just got on with their relationship even if it got dull.
This awful modern life means its just not worth investing in a relationship except with yourself.
And for the bitches they have their cats to invest in.
Mad old cat ladies are real.
This is very true. Honestly , I found myself doing the same thing. It was all about chasing validation. That was the main reason why going my own way is appealing. In the end, I just don’t care what they or females think. I now do things for my self. If a “friend” wants to hang out fine. I won’t initiate at all. She can do or see anyone, my rule is , just don’t tell me about it. I get bored with them also.
"She's not yours forever, it's just your turn" applies to marriage too, sorry to point that out married guys. As a previously married guy, I've been there too...
SO SO TRUE!! Love your channel brother!
We have to be realistic: everything is temporary, lets make the best out of it all..;)
Happy New Year guys, wish you all a great year/future!!!
The only way to keep your frame to a woman is loving yourself more than anything else in the world-make yourself your only priority without being too concerned about her,in other words let her know that you are so happy being yourself and loving what you do that you don't really give a fuck if she leaves at some point.
This brings back memories, the feeling of having to keep keep the plates spinning and waiting for the wheels to come off and trying to find a way to break the vicious cycle but not being able to see a way that will work. Then the break up comes where it is all your fault and the attrition has had a wearing effect where the last bit of gasslighting has you questioning yourself. It is not a nice place to be and I don't ever want to go there again .
I've said this before I had a friend of mine who had a girl he did everything for her , broke every law , he went against his own family , almost committed suicide for this girl held her hand at the hospital / And how did she reward him ? , by jumping into the arms of other men , the plural / finally he broke it off and she showed up at his doorstep 10 years later with two kids he looked in her he looked at the kids he said those kids should be my kids , but they're not he looked at her and he said I will never help you again , not after the way you treated me / He never saw her again !
How to keep a woman?
Never give her validation, never make her feel she has you.
Sad but real.
Too much work, I'd rather travel and bang some hot women in Colombia :)
🎵 Don't go chasing butterflies, 🎵
🎵 please stick to the critters and the snapes that you're used to. 🎵
If you're an asshole she can literally be yours forever. I know plenty of women who've been with assholes since before high school and they still with him 13 years later. No matter how many beatings, flings, or crashed cars or ruined credit, or pregnant mistresses. Still with those guys today!
my big brother smitty 1st mentioned "She isnt Yours its just your turn" @bsolutely! Thats why @m glad imma @ travelar to The D.R columbia brazil E.T.C.......... Men need to take heed to this !!!!!!!!!!💪💪💪💪
You're basically saying everything you ever do for a woman will amount to nothing, I agree.
It's also about instant gratification because they know they can get attention and validation whenever they want once they get bored
When I was in a LTR, I felt like it was another job, except you have to pay to work there and they get pissed when they catch you on LinkedIn seeing what other jobs are out there...
I prefer to think that I'm not hers to keep.
lincbond442 perhaps.... perhaps you have it right!
The secret is to have her chasing your validation see yourself as the price. Treat her like a star and she'll treat you like a fan.
Women are like an AMUSEMENT PARK RIDE: The line is long, the ride is short, and behind you are hundreds of other men waiting for their 'TURN'.
Lesson learned here (i think).. From my last relationship, almost 3 years, i was supportive, fixed things, helped out, blablabla, right. I would say Mr Saveaho, but i got her through a very hard life tragedy, so dont feel too bad. Anyway, the point is she eventually got bored, and told me that. I realized that I removed her chaos, which I personally don't like, but she NEEDED that. And I think I've done that before in relationships, i.e., fixed so many things, that life is boring. To me, thats a good thing! That's what I strive for, and frankly, my work is to keep things under control. But it makes for a boring relationships. No common struggle or crisis I guess. So anyway, when she was bored, I left. I was not about to be a dancing monkey to entertain her, and I refused to marry, cohabitate, or anything like that.. So in no time, she hooked up with the next "exciting guy" on her dude list. And whatever I fixed was for nada. So anyway, judge her need for excitement compared to yours. That should end it right there.
If Brad Pitt can't keep ONE happy, what chance do you have?
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huff... This hits right in the feels.
My ex left me over a year ago after 5,5years of friendship and 2,5 years relationship, because ( i quote) "It doesn't feel the same as befor".
I don't know if i was luck or not but she left me like a month befor we really started living together... so there wasn't much problems with material things.
Not the first one who disappointed me, but the first women who broke me ... so far the only one who i really loved beyond butterflies in the guts fading away, respected and trusted the most.
But yeah - kind of cheated on me, her behaviour towards me changed like 180 degrees.
Exactly what you said in the end - she found someone else, kept all activities with this person a secret, lied to me and 3 weeks after she broke up with me, they were together.
Oh, they were a couple before the actual breakup, bro. You were the last to find out I bet. Move on. No "friend" BS with her, dont take calls or texts (but dont block, that's Beta). It happens, man. Better to find out now.
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While yes and no, but i know what you mean ^^
Yes, i was the last one to find out, that she already was over me in her mind, she at least had the dignity to break up with me befor dating him. (I have my 100% reliable sources - her smartphone and some other things)
But this doesn't make it better.
At first she wanted to keep me as her best friend, but after some weeks she blocked me.
2 Months after we broke up, i did visit her father (because i am still friends with him, great person) and she came in with her new friend - her shocked face was PURE GOLD and she did hide him, so i wasn't even able the get a glimps of him.
She knew that she screwed up.
Yeah - since then i never had any contact to her, not even her father mentions her.
The only thing I got informed about is, that they broke up pretty quick.
But still thanks for your words ;) - that's how life is playing.
Sorry, that sucks. I hope you move past this and find peace. (dodged a bullet!)
yeah, just dealt with a butterfly chaser....she left me with "i dont owe u anything" after cheating by the way..
"She's not yours forever, it's just your turn" - so it does get better then.
Grounded and truthful. Amen brother. Battle on.
She always thinks _"Is this all there is in life?"_
Then she thinks she misses something, and starts looking for it.
The butterflies are all dead.
start looking for new ones.
Because she knows she’s got you, and that question is a natural consequence of being caught
Dont get too attached to her. Dont fall in love, know she will always lose interest in time. When a woman gets use to dating new, she will always date new. Its in her DNA. Some have personality disorders making her even worse to deal with.
Yeah women do that. Until they reach 40, and they aren't wanted anymore. Then we can all enjoy watching them on the Dr. Phil show.
Great video❤
Hits all the nails on the head here. I want to add that the honeymoon phase he's describing, dating, relationships, and hurting men isn't a game to women. Games have consequences, and most women have no grasp of consequences. It's just their nature. Don't expect things to get better on their side, just do what men do best; adapt, thrive, overcome.
It work's both ways
I'm 17, and I'm from France, her butterflies went away just 2 months after the beginning and I have done the mistake to try to keep her back... I guess for the next I will say : "No more than 2 months, it's for your own good!"
What happened in the end?
So basicly treat her like she treeats men - a new video game or a toy. Have your fun and move on. No emotions
After eight months together, and nearly a year of dating, my ex left me, and two months later started hooking up with her charming, tall, handsome french housemate. The same housemate, who first moved in, two months before she dumped me.
He isn’t to blame, but his arrival did change the underlying dynamic, and I also was making mistakes independent of his arrival, that dimmed her attraction for me.
Bear in mind, this was the same girl who told me weeks before ending it that I was “probably the one”, and would always talk about having children with me one day, living together et cetera
Been there dont that twice divorced they are just evil bottom line , im 58 and was a player when young, they like the bad guys, the guy all other woman whant, thats why they end up old and alone
It’s called narcissistic personality disorder. They are narcs it’s as simple as that . Find a woman that is not a narc . An empathetic woman.
If you haven't found an empathetic truly marriage material woman by the time you and her are like 22, then you probably missed your window to do so.
Good vid, and very true. Women are impossible to please for the long term. Also,
Happy New Year to all my MGTOW brothers! May this new decade shine bright for us all!
Same to you brother.