Her intuition proved correct,this Morgan Freeman dude had a whole relationship with her freind, there's basically no reason for her to continue the relationship.
Right! I was like, Judge Starr… why would you advocate for her to stay with a cheater?! Especially when she said at the end of the show she wouldn’t put up with that!
Well, she usually advocated for married couples that seem to still have love for each other to stay together. We all should advocate for married couples to stay together and work things out, but many times, people wait too late to resolve small issues.
I can honestly say I did not agree with Judge Star this time around. He had a whole relationship with her friend and that’s just unforgivable. There’s no amount of flowers or random date night that can make me get over that.
If she was having sex with his friend this comment section would be a lot different. As a matter of fact, there would be no court case because he would have been gone. Stop forgiving these men, they would never forgive you!
You don’t watch this show do you??? Everyone is different… Whether you like it or not, there are groups of men and women that will do EXACTLY what this woman did.
@@bryanbeeman5256 so anyway, 🙄 like I was saying If she was having sex with his friend the comment section would be a lot different. As matter of fact, there would be no court case because he would have been gone. Stop forgiving these men, they would never forgive you! I don't know why you felt the need to address me but go bully a woman who is afraid of you, I'm not that! MS. Sassy! Now WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. I SAID WHAT I SAID!
@@bryanbeeman5256 Flowers by Miley Cyrus. Lol. But seriously. The betrayal from her friend and husband was premeditated, renewed. Why is he waiting for to leave him for them to tell her that they are pregnant? She better spare herself some serious headaches in the future.
Why are people still allowing women/men up in their marital home? It's literally a cautionary tale. You NEVER bring that mess into your life. Cheating is unforgivable!
Denying each other intimacy opens the door to trouble... Gotta stop the games and be sure to protect your love. Pride comes to steal your joy if you're not careful
I’m glad you shared this. Being petty only sets you up to being lonely. If nothing else, people need to take communication classes to learn how to communicate with each other as well as how to get the other person’s attention to convey how they feel and what they need.
It may open the door but it still is up to you whether u walk through that door or not. It's all about the morals and standards u have for yourself. If your statement had any validity then people who have active sex lives with their partners would t be cheated on.
@@ebbyf294 you don't get to treat me however you want, do whatever you want, when you wish and then expect me to still be there, ready, willing and waiting on your terms all the time. you will get dropped cheated on period. morals and standards wouldn't have you manipulating and being petty.
I really think they should have been offered counseling. Beautiful couple but I really believe that counseling would help them to get over the hump & get back to their marriage
@@gailsmith836 I agree with you , but since the judge is in a sense encouraging them to stay together if they want to , I think that the court should have offered counseling. That way they could really have an understanding of what to do if they want to stay together OR if not they can still get healing from an individual prospective.
Judge Starr saw she was not wanting the marriage to be over, so Starr basically told her to take the time to figure it out as was mentioned by another commenter. I agree like the majority of comments on this episode, for me, it would have been a wrap. I wouldn’t even know how to store that in my core memory to get past it.
@@bryanbeeman5256 facts..... I agree! I'm not saying that the wife should stay married. I'm saying that if she does decide to try to make it work, they should seek wise counsel.
Why do most people choose to behave ignorantly in anger, instead of being adults and thinking things through first ANGER MGMT IS A PRICELESS GIFT TO OWN ❤
So let me get this straight. All she initially wanted was date night back, and flowers? So he hung out with his friends, cheated on her with her friend? Meanwhile, she was being petty withholding relations from him when he wasn’t giving her flowers and date nights? And now he’s trying to get back in her good graces by giving her flowers and taking her out on dates? Did I get that right???? SMH!!!!!
It’s been sooooooo many women on this show from all judges and seasons that has done the same thing this woman did and more. Plus, REGARDLESS of whether the man was sorry or not, the women STAYED…. So this scenario is no different. And …. She loves him and really doesn’t want him to go anywhere. HOWEVER, I think she’s going to get her lick back when they do get back together… She’s still petty. They both need therapy…..
It's giving fake, she either has a man on the side or she is used to being treated poorly. She is smiling too much and think she's winning by tracking Scooby Doo and her supposed friend who she allowed to take a shower in her house with the door open, around her husband. Who does that w/o catching hands?
I don’t care who you are, everyone is subjected to temptation. Some people can’t handle it at all, some people don’t want to handle it at all, some people because of weakness, fall into it, and some people run from it. Everyone is not the same whether we like it or not. There are some people that are not criminals, but under the right circumstances and temptation, they will commit a crime. Unfortunately, everyone has a price.
What makes a person good, is not the mistakes they make, but who they blame for those mistakes. He blamed her for all his mistakes, instead of blaming himself.
There’s a HUGE difference between mistakes and choices. You mistakenly add salt instead of sugar. If you plan to do it, it’s a choice. A choice has a motive behind it. I’m not excusing his or her behavior at all, ESPECIALLY his. It’s just clear to me that he made a choice to yield to temptation and excused himself from the responsibility of the vow he made with his wife. Would you consider that hood? I don’t because your morals, integrity, and ethics should align with the choices we make, not the mistakes. Again, it’s unfortunate that under certain circumstances, people will recklessly abandon morals for selfish reasons due to temptation which is a choice, not a mistake.
She's afraid. He betrayed everything in their whole life together. Infidelity is a hard thing to overcome. But it isn't impossible. If they work together, get therapy, together and separately, and he opens himself up and she is willing to open her heart back up, they can survive this. I'm praying for them.
I will never understand how if a man cheats on a woman. That it is then okay for her to commit all type of misdemeanors and felonies by destroying his property and damaging all of his stuff. If a man did that he'll be locked up behind bars for the next 3 to 5 years
I agree, but to be fair, too many guys tolerate it. Even if they don't cheat, guys in this show get their, T.V.s, Playstations, cars, phones, expensive clothes, even jobs ruined and they do nothing about it.
If he had called law enforcement, she would have been arrested. He didn't call. Therefore, she didn't get arrested. The law is not biased in that way. There is no state statute that says that it is legal for women to destroy her man's property, and men, you are exempt from this benefit because you should not have cheated. That doesn't exist. He was wrong for cheating. She was wrong for vandalizing his property. This comment is just immature. No one is justifying either behavior, and if you do, some growth needs to be done.
@@shunice0151 the comment is far from immature. the rates at which women get arrested for destruction of private property in a domestic dispute is very low. if it was high, very few women would proceed with this option. also, you cannot or should not expect to be petty, manipulative while withholding sex and alienation of affection but expecting someone to stay and remain loyal regardless. you will get cheated on, dismissed or worse. that is FACT. _Sean Connery voice_ - *"Here endeth the lesson."*
🙂 Let me understand this...She play petty games by 🙅🏽♀️withholding sex, and affection, teasing the man THEN when a loose woman moves into the house and starts showing him "come get some 🙋🏾♀️😺💦" signs and he accept the offer now she mad about it... And far as her destroying his stuff, while Judge Star semi-approved of it, Judge Lynn would have said woman you are guilty of what I call........... " THE STUPID TAX "... Just comical...💯
Real relationships go through periods where intimacy is not forthcoming. Women especially need their husbands to be attentive in certain areas or she will feel neglected or used. With proper communication skills, partners should be able to communicate their needs to one another in a respectful, loving method. Both partners need to be able to solve what is causing the disconnect. A lack of intimacy is usually only a symptom of a “relationship problem”. Fix the problem, then the intimacy will be fixed. There is no excuse to cheat during the storms of marriage. Cheating is the #1 grounds for divorce according to the Bible.
@@God-Love-FreedomThe complainant admitted that she refused sex and teased her husband. The husband admitted that he needed some sex. How respectful and loving can he be to communicate with his wife about basic needs like sex in a marriage? She's not complaining about finances or anything else. Let her reap the fruits of her labour.
I can see the hurt in both individuals... I hope he's working on himself and addressing his insecurities. I hope she continues to do her, be open... Hopefully, there's no resentment for a "get back".
Nope, they should definitely not get back together!! He cheated with her friend and that’s taking it wayyy too far. Ain’t no way I would go back to his a$&!! I would never be able to trust that man ever again in life! Or the friend which would no longer be my friend. She can skedaddle too!!
Don’t ever say you deserve for someone to tear up or destroy your property because that is a crime. If they’re that upset they should leave. Should’ve been sued and taught a lesson in self control. Yeah he shouldn’t have done that but cheating is not a punishable crime but destroying property is.
This is correct; however, your statement will fall on deaf ears to most women because they will feel you are missing the cheating part even though you acknowledged it. Many women will also accuse you of excusing the man’s cheating portion because you are being up what she did. The lesson you try to teach is often misconstrued because that particular lesson may not be what she needs to actually learn the lesson. She may just look at it as pettiness and you trying to get her back.
Even though he said he wants her back he doesn't seem to be sincere, it's like he's in play mode. What a waste of time, if you want to play the field just do it and be honesty about it. She seems very self centered, it's all about her. That will make a man lose interest fast. The love and affection must be reciprocal on both sides when one side stops the other side will lose interest. If they're married why don't they have the same last name???
Damn he a harsh lookin 36 😳. & I’m glad she followed her intuition bc it proved her right.. he standing up there looking old asf & goofy.. he started slacking first & got the nerve to be a cheater & with the “best friend” at that 🤢 she better keep it pushing. The version she once loved of him is gone.. she was grieving & bonded to who showed her in that storm it’s time to cut ties and work on you & truly grieve!!
It seems kind of silly hearing a grown man talk about his home boys like a teenager i don't have a lot of friends by choice I'd rather be honest with my wife than out in the streets
Her marriage...... Her choice.🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️ We all have things we left slide for love. I mean I'd have been gone but people love different. I hope whatever she chooses it makes her happy
Trifling, Yes Lola did, the trifling trick. Stop trusting these desperate females around your mate. It's sad that a "friend" would do that. Forgive your man and enjoy him. He really loves you.
So instead of having a conversation with her husband about her concerns and the hurt it was causing she decided to monitor and track the pain his actions was creating. Was he wrong "ABSOLUTELY", however playing games with intimacy and not communicating didn't get either of them the result they were looking for. They should have been talking about what was missing when the change occurred, it is obvious they both saw the change, and protect the marriage by getting rid of the hindrances, for example the woman at her house.
People think they know how to communicate because they’ve been talking all of their lives…. What they haven’t been doing all of their lives is listening to understand rather than listening to respond.
………..You mean to tell me he had an AFFAIR with her FRIEND?!?!?!!!!!!! Ain’t nooooooo MF way I’d ever take him back after that. NO WAY!!!! Sis please wake up! That man is not your forever!🥴🥴🥴
That was a whole relationship with feelings and everything involved. You can not undo that. There is no quick reconciliation after that, if at all ever! It would be years before he could speak to me. Gurlaaa! No ma'am
That is why we should never get into a relationship when we are grieving or going thru something, because we are liable to fall for anything that person says or does.we are very vulnerable
witholding sex, refusing sex and being petty with sex while being selfish and "all about you" all the time will get you cheated on. amazing how women seem so surprised by this absolute fact. alienation of affection is what it's called when a man does it to a woman. same thing applies here
If a woman is not turned on because her husband is neglecting her, she’s allowed that. But she should communicate it to him and allow him the opportunity to fix it. Hopefully their relationship is healthy enough where she feels comfortable enough to communicate it to him, and he’s secure in himself enough to listen to her and fix it, so that they can be intimate again.
This dude had a whole relationship with her friend and yall think they should stay together. Talk about the ultimate betrayal 😡
Thank you !!
They should stay together because they don't want to be apart. CLEARLY.
Right!
You cant really tell a married couple to leave each other unless it's physically abusive but you can tell them what you would do
Girl go on and leave both of them alone!!
Cheaters are always sorry when they get caught!
Her intuition proved correct,this Morgan Freeman dude had a whole relationship with her freind, there's basically no reason for her to continue the relationship.
The Morgan Freeman analogy. I'm hollering 😂
@sydnitaylor3249😂😂😂 Not Morgan Freeman!
man that’s an insult to Morgan Freeman
😂😂😂 Morgan freeman
The way I screamed 😂💀
naw once you cheat with my friend we done.... If I have to track you, you definitely gone
Yes!
I would NEVER EVER forgive him, nor take him back.
But I’m nosy and wanted to see “Lola” come out and testify 👀
😂🤣😂 was thinking the same thing!!!
No 🙅🏽♂️🙅🏽🙅🏽♀️
Exactly 💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯💯
With that big SSA 👃 and he no better
@@amybynum8962q🎉
There would be no coming back from that for me
I feel the same way. I really couldn’t get over the cheating because you laid down with someone..That will always be in the back of my mind.
No reason to come back. Matthew 19:9
Right! I was like, Judge Starr… why would you advocate for her to stay with a cheater?! Especially when she said at the end of the show she wouldn’t put up with that!
@@toyaward9818 And my friend at that!!!
Well, she usually advocated for married couples that seem to still have love for each other to stay together. We all should advocate for married couples to stay together and work things out, but many times, people wait too late to resolve small issues.
The defendant must age like Morgan Freeman because ain’t no way he 36 🙄😂
😂😂😂😂
Nope, you’re in timeout 🤣🤣🤣🤣
My God. That was accurate! I jumped
I thought they transposed the numbers. He gotta be 63 and not 36
4:19
Have you noticed the " Cheater" always wants to try to save the Relationship. BUT Not enough to keep their pants zipped up & be faithful😮
This dude talking about he works alot but he planned a whole sneaky link vacation with her friend 🙄
I can honestly say I did not agree with Judge Star this time around. He had a whole relationship with her friend and that’s just unforgivable. There’s no amount of flowers or random date night that can make me get over that.
You're speaking for yourself. And probably me too. However, some women (and men) could forgive adultery.
If she was having sex with his friend this comment section would be a lot different. As a matter of fact, there would be no court case because he would have been gone. Stop forgiving these men, they would never forgive you!
You don’t watch this show do you??? Everyone is different… Whether you like it or not, there are groups of men and women that will do EXACTLY what this woman did.
@@bryanbeeman5256 so anyway, 🙄 like I was saying If she was having sex with his friend the comment section would be a lot different. As matter of fact, there would be no court case because he would have been gone. Stop forgiving these men, they would never forgive you!
I don't know why you felt the need to address me but go bully a woman who is afraid of you, I'm not that! MS. Sassy! Now WHETHER YOU LIKE IT OR NOT. I SAID WHAT I SAID!
@@saturnladee110
Love your response 😆 💯👌🏾💯👌🏾💯👌🏾
Yeah that’s true and notice the men all say it’s over
My cheating first husband told me exactly that, that if I had cheated on him he would have been gone. No forgiveness!!!
He wasn't thinking about her energy that brightens a room when he was cheating with her best friend 🤔 Multiple times
Love the yellow beautiful
I can buy myself flowers, write my name in the sand...
You can write your name in the sand too… what is that from???
@@bryanbeeman5256 Flowers by Miley Cyrus. Lol. But seriously. The betrayal from her friend and husband was premeditated, renewed. Why is he waiting for to leave him for them to tell her that they are pregnant? She better spare herself some serious headaches in the future.
Destroying property and clothing that you will have to repay ia called the stupid tax
Somebody watches the People’s Court 😏😏
Why are people still allowing women/men up in their marital home? It's literally a cautionary tale. You NEVER bring that mess into your life. Cheating is unforgivable!
If I ac t have a friend stay and my man be faithful then he’s not worth being with. A marriage takes 2 and so does an affair
Amen
Iktr! My mama taught me that
I could Never trust him again
Damn dude you took a trip with her friend?!!! Do not pass go
She's crazy if she takes him back
I absolutely love the yellow. I would have loved to see yellow roses
Denying each other intimacy opens the door to trouble... Gotta stop the games and be sure to protect your love.
Pride comes to steal your joy if you're not careful
I’m glad you shared this. Being petty only sets you up to being lonely. If nothing else, people need to take communication classes to learn how to communicate with each other as well as how to get the other person’s attention to convey how they feel and what they need.
Intimacy with someone you don’t trust a no longer know is dangerous. A soul tie is something
It sure does. You said nothing but the truth. What kind of craziness is that.
It may open the door but it still is up to you whether u walk through that door or not. It's all about the morals and standards u have for yourself. If your statement had any validity then people who have active sex lives with their partners would t be cheated on.
@@ebbyf294 you don't get to treat me however you want, do whatever you want, when you wish and then expect me to still be there, ready, willing and waiting on your terms all the time. you will get dropped cheated on period. morals and standards wouldn't have you manipulating and being petty.
I’m sick of these people coming on here lying about there age he’s no way 36 more like 56 he looks tore up
ROTF
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I was surprised at 36. His life must before her must have been hell.
He could be that age. Drinking alcohol 🍺 too much can age you. While, drinking water can make you look youthful 😂
Never let a woman come stay with you and you got a dude.
Relationships 101
Vice versa!
@Galatians360 case closed
Surprised judge Star ain’t toss him out for being drunk
And aging like Benjamin Button
I wondered what is going on with him. Is he drunk?
Definitely appears intoxicated
I'm not surprised.
Dang she's 41 and he's 36... aint no way... 😳
I'm tired of listening to this. Just break up
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
That man clearly doesn’t know his age.
He's 36..but he looks 50..
Alcohol
I definitely Agree‼️‼️
@@MonroeMatIs that why his nose is so big?
Her describing letting the towel drop bending over naked was too much 🤦🏿♂️
Oooo, she was very prideful about that.
Yessss to much chile.
Lmao no frl okay we get it
Yes ma'am this yellow dress is EVERYTHING Judge Star.
I really think they should have been offered counseling. Beautiful couple but I really believe that counseling would help them to get over the hump & get back to their marriage
He cheated with her friend. It’s a wrap.
@@gailsmith836 I agree with you , but since the judge is in a sense encouraging them to stay together if they want to , I think that the court should have offered counseling. That way they could really have an understanding of what to do if they want to stay together OR if not they can still get healing from an individual prospective.
@@Singlehood2Marriage right. I watched the ending and it seems like she wasn’t done with him.
Judge Starr saw she was not wanting the marriage to be over, so Starr basically told her to take the time to figure it out as was mentioned by another commenter. I agree like the majority of comments on this episode, for me, it would have been a wrap. I wouldn’t even know how to store that in my core memory to get past it.
@@bryanbeeman5256 facts..... I agree! I'm not saying that the wife should stay married. I'm saying that if she does decide to try to make it work, they should seek wise counsel.
Why do most people choose to behave ignorantly in anger, instead of being adults and thinking things through first ANGER MGMT IS A PRICELESS GIFT TO OWN ❤
Hurt people, hurt people…and communication classes can’t hurt either.
Petty is the same thing as childish in my book.
Once the trust is betrayed, you truly don’t trust 100% and you don’t feel the same anymore.
Multiple morgan freeman comments and im fucking DEAD🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 im done with the internet as a Whole💀💀💀🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂😂
So let me get this straight. All she initially wanted was date night back, and flowers? So he hung out with his friends, cheated on her with her friend? Meanwhile, she was being petty withholding relations from him when he wasn’t giving her flowers and date nights? And now he’s trying to get back in her good graces by giving her flowers and taking her out on dates?
Did I get that right???? SMH!!!!!
Yep 💯
If he’s not dating his wife, he’s being petty too.
You can tell he has been drinking while he was on the show. He is definitely not 36...
I’m sorry but I can’t accept cheating. It would’ve been over because I can never trust you again.
She's very "technical saavy"?😂 riiiiiiiiight. They sound more pathetic than petty
She said, I'm petty.
You're too old to be petty
And said it like it was cute.
I dislike when old people act or call themselves petty.
Why...theres no age on petty 🙂🙂🙂
It’s been sooooooo many women on this show from all judges and seasons that has done the same thing this woman did and more. Plus, REGARDLESS of whether the man was sorry or not, the women STAYED…. So this scenario is no different. And …. She loves him and really doesn’t want him to go anywhere. HOWEVER, I think she’s going to get her lick back when they do get back together… She’s still petty. They both need therapy…..
💯 Agree....She Truly Loves Being Petty...Like A Disease Type Petty...It A Game 🎮🎯. Sorry 4 Them.
It's giving fake, she either has a man on the side or she is used to being treated poorly. She is smiling too much and think she's winning by tracking Scooby Doo and her supposed friend who she allowed to take a shower in her house with the door open, around her husband. Who does that w/o catching hands?
Best comment!! 🤣
I 💯 Agree....Something Just Ain't Right!!!!😢
This man is 56 Not 36
Yuck!!!! He slept with her friend!!! No way
I don’t care who you are, everyone is subjected to temptation. Some people can’t handle it at all, some people don’t want to handle it at all, some people because of weakness, fall into it, and some people run from it. Everyone is not the same whether we like it or not. There are some people that are not criminals, but under the right circumstances and temptation, they will commit a crime. Unfortunately, everyone has a price.
What makes a person good, is not the mistakes they make, but who they blame for those mistakes. He blamed her for all his mistakes, instead of blaming himself.
There’s a HUGE difference between mistakes and choices. You mistakenly add salt instead of sugar. If you plan to do it, it’s a choice. A choice has a motive behind it. I’m not excusing his or her behavior at all, ESPECIALLY his. It’s just clear to me that he made a choice to yield to temptation and excused himself from the responsibility of the vow he made with his wife. Would you consider that hood? I don’t because your morals, integrity, and ethics should align with the choices we make, not the mistakes. Again, it’s unfortunate that under certain circumstances, people will recklessly abandon morals for selfish reasons due to temptation which is a choice, not a mistake.
@@bryanbeeman5256 lol it's a proverb so calm down
Cheating with a friend of all people is the end!!!!!! Forgive and leave that relationship
36?!!!!
😮 63, surely
@@1234j😂😂😂
Must be a typo, I’m thinking 46 😂😂😂
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She's afraid. He betrayed everything in their whole life together. Infidelity is a hard thing to overcome. But it isn't impossible. If they work together, get therapy, together and separately, and he opens himself up and she is willing to open her heart back up, they can survive this. I'm praying for them.
36 my ass he looks older
52
Alcohol
Gotta look at his mug forever? Forever ever? Sigh🤢
Lol
😂😂😂😂
This is the type of stuff that get people hurt or killed !!!
Petty LaBelle! 😂😂
P R O J E C T🎵🎶
No, You ain't gone gaslight me🎵🎶
P R O J E C T🎵🎶
@@MiguelDLewis ya better dance to the beat of your own drum!
Star didn't make that up. That's been used for years. But I can understand people who have never heard that phrase before.
I will never understand how if a man cheats on a woman. That it is then okay for her to commit all type of misdemeanors and felonies by destroying his property and damaging all of his stuff. If a man did that he'll be locked up behind bars for the next 3 to 5 years
I agree, but to be fair, too many guys tolerate it. Even if they don't cheat, guys in this show get their, T.V.s, Playstations, cars, phones, expensive clothes, even jobs ruined and they do nothing about it.
Same goes for men, sad but true.
If he had called law enforcement, she would have been arrested. He didn't call. Therefore, she didn't get arrested. The law is not biased in that way.
There is no state statute that says that it is legal for women to destroy her man's property, and men, you are exempt from this benefit because you should not have cheated.
That doesn't exist.
He was wrong for cheating.
She was wrong for vandalizing his property.
This comment is just immature.
No one is justifying either behavior, and if you do, some growth needs to be done.
@@shunice0151 the comment is far from immature. the rates at which women get arrested for destruction of private property in a domestic dispute is very low. if it was high, very few women would proceed with this option. also, you cannot or should not expect to be petty, manipulative while withholding sex and alienation of affection but expecting someone to stay and remain loyal regardless. you will get cheated on, dismissed or worse. that is FACT.
_Sean Connery voice_ - *"Here endeth the lesson."*
Men destroy property everyday and nothing happens to them.
He has a face only a mother could love, and he's pissy drunk
You can forgive someone and still leave them. That's too much disrespect and I wouldn't trust that type of person anymore so it would be over.
36?!!! No, your mean 56.
Never, Ever Let A Trash Tramp In Your Home..
I can forgive a lot of things but I can’t forgive cheating. It’s a no for me.
🙂 Let me understand this...She play petty games by 🙅🏽♀️withholding sex, and affection, teasing the man THEN when a loose woman moves into the house and starts showing him "come get some 🙋🏾♀️😺💦" signs and he accept the offer now she mad about it... And far as her destroying his stuff, while Judge Star semi-approved of it, Judge Lynn would have said woman you are guilty of what I call...........
" THE STUPID TAX "... Just comical...💯
Judge Lynn holds women accountable not Juste Starr all if forgiven lol
Real relationships go through periods where intimacy is not forthcoming. Women especially need their husbands to be attentive in certain areas or she will feel neglected or used. With proper communication skills, partners should be able to communicate their needs to one another in a respectful, loving method. Both partners need to be able to solve what is causing the disconnect. A lack of intimacy is usually only a symptom of a “relationship problem”. Fix the problem, then the intimacy will be fixed. There is no excuse to cheat during the storms of marriage. Cheating is the #1 grounds for divorce according to the Bible.
@@God-Love-FreedomThe complainant admitted that she refused sex and teased her husband. The husband admitted that he needed some sex. How respectful and loving can he be to communicate with his wife about basic needs like sex in a marriage? She's not complaining about finances or anything else. Let her reap the fruits of her labour.
@@eng.reagan9540
Your male ego caused you to totally miss the point. 🤦🏾♀️
@@God-Love-Freedom unfortunately your femininity cannot comprehend the truth when confronted with one
I’m so sick of our sisters falling for love bombing. We should be wise enough by now. Come on ladies.
These men are so tired, dry, and below average...women still want them, and it's STILL a struggle. I'll be damned.
I can see the hurt in both individuals...
I hope he's working on himself and addressing his insecurities.
I hope she continues to do her, be open... Hopefully, there's no resentment for a "get back".
Nope, they should definitely not get back together!! He cheated with her friend and that’s taking it wayyy too far. Ain’t no way I would go back to his a$&!! I would never be able to trust that man ever again in life! Or the friend which would no longer be my friend. She can skedaddle too!!
Girl! Run! Find you a new beau who respects you and your relationship.
She is petty.....
Don’t ever say you deserve for someone to tear up or destroy your property because that is a crime. If they’re that upset they should leave. Should’ve been sued and taught a lesson in self control. Yeah he shouldn’t have done that but cheating is not a punishable crime but destroying property is.
This is correct; however, your statement will fall on deaf ears to most women because they will feel you are missing the cheating part even though you acknowledged it. Many women will also accuse you of excusing the man’s cheating portion because you are being up what she did. The lesson you try to teach is often misconstrued because that particular lesson may not be what she needs to actually learn the lesson. She may just look at it as pettiness and you trying to get her back.
He seems like something is wrong with him...physical pain, constipation, disoriented in addition to being a lying cheat
Jaundice too? Alcoholic?
Yes like long term substance abuse
36?????? lemme restart my computer smh. I think it's still buffering.
The silly ass games people play. Just break up for God's sake. Smh.
I don't got that to do!
Even though he said he wants her back he doesn't seem to be sincere, it's like he's in play mode. What a waste of time, if you want to play the field just do it and be honesty about it. She seems very self centered, it's all about her. That will make a man lose interest fast. The love and affection must be reciprocal on both sides when one side stops the other side will lose interest. If they're married why don't they have the same last name???
Damn he a harsh lookin 36 😳. & I’m glad she followed her intuition bc it proved her right.. he standing up there looking old asf & goofy.. he started slacking first & got the nerve to be a cheater & with the “best friend” at that 🤢 she better keep it pushing. The version she once loved of him is gone.. she was grieving & bonded to who showed her in that storm it’s time to cut ties and work on you & truly grieve!!
can I cheat on a husband if all I do is bring him flowers after each cheat? What a bargain
Why would you go through all this trouble to cheat on your wife to be with someone you don't want.
Cheaters love the game of cheating. It makes them feel smart.
It seems kind of silly hearing a grown man talk about his home boys like a teenager i don't have a lot of friends by choice I'd rather be honest with my wife than out in the streets
They’re both childish…
Her friend must have been pretty desperate to cheat with him.
Why is Lola taking showers at her house? Was she visiting? Did she live somewhere else?
Her marriage...... Her choice.🤷🏿♀️🤷🏿♀️ We all have things we left slide for love. I mean I'd have been gone but people love different. I hope whatever she chooses it makes her happy
Keep it up hope to see more
That nose 👃 told on him 😂
Trifling, Yes Lola did, the trifling trick. Stop trusting these desperate females around your mate. It's sad that a "friend" would do that. Forgive your man and enjoy him. He really loves you.
He looks like something off the smurfs. The audacity is at an all time high. Girl. 👀
This man is an alcoholic with an addictive personality and poor impulse control. Until he addresses that he will keep betraying her.
Relationship change with time!
There are some things that are unforgivable and sleeping with her friend is definitely one of them.
am i the only person who thinks Robert shouldn’t interject during proceedings
Doesn't bother me.
I feel the same way.
Thank you! I think it's uncouth and he should know his place. That's not his job
I think Star and Robert r actually friends she turns to him whenever it’s too much and he’s mic’d so I guess it’s okay for him to react 🤷🏾♀️
Yes
He not only broke his wife, he caused her to loose a friend. 2 for 1
Looking RADIENT in that yellow, Judge Star!!
Show me his birth certificate.
He looks like JJ ON GOOD TIMES
She was wrong for destroying his belongings but he’s thinking he can’t explain what made him destroy his marriage.
So instead of having a conversation with her husband about her concerns and the hurt it was causing she decided to monitor and track the pain his actions was creating. Was he wrong "ABSOLUTELY", however playing games with intimacy and not communicating didn't get either of them the result they were looking for. They should have been talking about what was missing when the change occurred, it is obvious they both saw the change, and protect the marriage by getting rid of the hindrances, for example the woman at her house.
People think they know how to communicate because they’ve been talking all of their lives…. What they haven’t been doing all of their lives is listening to understand rather than listening to respond.
@@bryanbeeman5256 Yes!
There’s nothing wrong with getting proof of infidelity when you’re married.
36 in dog years maybe 😂
Wifey is beautiful, she reminds me of LaTocha from Xscape. She deserves better, hope she moves on♥️♥️.
………..You mean to tell me he had an AFFAIR with her FRIEND?!?!?!!!!!!! Ain’t nooooooo MF way I’d ever take him back after that. NO WAY!!!! Sis please wake up! That man is not your forever!🥴🥴🥴
How do you get that image of them out of your head!
That was a whole relationship with feelings and everything involved. You can not undo that. There is no quick reconciliation after that, if at all ever! It would be years before he could speak to me. Gurlaaa! No ma'am
Girl nooooooo!!!!!!!!
That is why we should never get into a relationship when we are grieving or going thru something, because we are liable to fall for anything that person says or does.we are very vulnerable
No...he didn't make a mistake; he cheated and got caught. There is no trust after that...there is no coming back from that ultimate betrayal.
witholding sex, refusing sex and being petty with sex while being selfish and "all about you" all the time will get you cheated on. amazing how women seem so surprised by this absolute fact. alienation of affection is what it's called when a man does it to a woman. same thing applies here
You missed the point where he stopped giving her date nights. Both are wrong here.
Who wants to sleep with someone who’s drunk. Use your brain and think more
If a woman is not turned on because her husband is neglecting her, she’s allowed that. But she should communicate it to him and allow him the opportunity to fix it. Hopefully their relationship is healthy enough where she feels comfortable enough to communicate it to him, and he’s secure in himself enough to listen to her and fix it, so that they can be intimate again.