The 10 Gayest Cities In America

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  • @NickJohnson
    @NickJohnson  ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Here's my Entire Demographics Series: th-cam.com/play/PLq-_cmf3H6yrGBkMcW6v35_EAQ6GoYnhq.html

  • @alantorres6097
    @alantorres6097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +935

    So San Francisco is #1, huh? What a shock.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      no surprises here.

    • @AlexDeChristian6323
      @AlexDeChristian6323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

      Glad to live here! ❤

    • @pushitsomewhereelse
      @pushitsomewhereelse 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      2 seconds in the video and I see this comment, thanks for saving me all the time🔥 but tbh we all knew

    • @elgrigorio1
      @elgrigorio1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      I always thought it was Seattle.

    • @cherylnguyen95
      @cherylnguyen95 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@NickJohnson i thought it was Los Angeles

  • @jackieraulerson2005
    @jackieraulerson2005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +614

    What’s the percent of married “straight” men on Grindr?

    • @whatever5922
      @whatever5922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

      Like 10%

    • @ahmedalshimmari4228
      @ahmedalshimmari4228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      zzz more

    • @bd3825
      @bd3825 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Lol

    • @williamdunn9053
      @williamdunn9053 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      I find many every day...a staggering percent of people do not feel safe being honest about their identity with their family and loved ones

    • @Girrrrrrrrrrrrrl66
      @Girrrrrrrrrrrrrl66 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I guess it depends on what time it is hahahahahahahaha

  • @TheMilpitasguy
    @TheMilpitasguy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +211

    SF probably attracts gays from places like the Dakotas, Montana, Wyoming, etc. - where they are frowned upon/shunned/not accepted for who they are.

    • @totallynotme6720
      @totallynotme6720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      TheMilpitasguy Dont forget literally the entire south

    • @danielcontreras3956
      @danielcontreras3956 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      The Bay Area in general is an attractive destination for LGBT. I myself, moved to the North Bay 5 years ago from Tulare County California and have stayed since. I know other people wanting to leave the more conservative parts of California like Bakersfield and Fresno and move to SF and surrounding cities.

    • @efandmk3382
      @efandmk3382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      @@totallynotme6720 Southern gays tend to usually end up in South Florida, Atlanta and New Orleans. Those farther North tend to migrate to a Mid Atlantic State. An observation. I've been around.

    • @chop3625
      @chop3625 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nah, that’s just backwards talk. That Old slogan “You’ve come along way Baby”

    • @elliefuller3667
      @elliefuller3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      That’s kinda similar with what happens with many lgbtq Utahns, since most cities and towns are overall pretty intense Mormon, Salt Lake City is very lgbtq and very Democrat. It’s like a little safe blue spot in an ocean of red for us, that’s why I’m planning on moving there as soon as I can. Then once I can I wanna move out of Utah entirely, preferably to a blue state where my vote will matter.

  • @samuelmills148
    @samuelmills148 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    Im guessing California dominates this

  • @robindeanna1323
    @robindeanna1323 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I grew up in Las Vegas, which is a very gay city. The popular kids I high school where the flamboyant gay guys that love glitter and Starbucks. Then I moved to North Carolina and discovered that this wasn't exactly the norm. Lol

    • @PETER394100
      @PETER394100 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Why in the WORLD would you move from a fun place like Vegas to a place like N. Carolina?🤮….do people there ask you what ‘church’ you go to? 🤣🤣

    • @kjdee140
      @kjdee140 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@PETER394100 He might not have had a choice because of his parents.

    • @PETER394100
      @PETER394100 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kjdee140 …….yes, that’s true. Up until about the age of 18 you’re kinda’ stuck under your parents roof unless you run away.

  • @LIZINLOSANGELES
    @LIZINLOSANGELES 4 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    The problem with this list is that the gayest area of Los Angeles is West Hollywood which is technically its own city 😂

    • @jknumber5138
      @jknumber5138 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I know North Hollywood doesn't

    • @fernandoavila7066
      @fernandoavila7066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      It is not its own city. Its LA county. Even bel air our Malibu have to obey by county regulations. Like covid19 shut downs.

    • @richardkaltenbach3961
      @richardkaltenbach3961 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Don't Forget San Fernando Valley. Especially ENCINO TARZANA!!!

    • @carlosavelar4652
      @carlosavelar4652 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@fernandoavila7066 cities and Counties are two different things , politically West Hollywood and The city of Los Angeles are two different cities but are all inside Los Angeles County . Again this is " politically " speaking. Overall it's the same thing

    • @xMichael651
      @xMichael651 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@fernandoavila7066 Bel Air and Malibu are not unincorporated cities in Los Angeles county like West Hollywood, Beverly Hills or Santa Monica.
      Bel Air and Malibu are neighborhoods of Los Angeles and not cities, that’s why they don’t have a city hall!!! Ignorant!!!

  • @dollarbill3469
    @dollarbill3469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +426

    How isn’t Atlanta not even mention on this list & not number 1 spot even 🌈🤔

    • @aidenhawley1547
      @aidenhawley1547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

      I'm guessing you've never been to San Francisco..

    • @harleancarpenter8043
      @harleancarpenter8043 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Was never going to be anywhere but San Francisco as number 1 lol

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +153

      Atlanta is 11

    • @dalesaylors9251
      @dalesaylors9251 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      I thought that Atlanta was the southern capitol for gays.

    • @NAT-turners-Revenge
      @NAT-turners-Revenge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      @@Eman1900O exactly 😂 .... a bunch of "DL'S" ... OH oh i just live here *with a lisp*

  • @vonmadeit7395
    @vonmadeit7395 4 ปีที่แล้ว +61

    I’m born and raised in Washington DC and i can say that the gay population is just as large as it is in San Francisco. I’ve been all over the world multiple times lol. Atlanta and DC should’ve definitely been on here.

  • @notsure6187
    @notsure6187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    do most dangerous black Friday shopping malls

    • @kari_p2090
      @kari_p2090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Not Sure yes!!

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Haha why does this have so many likes?? Haha

    • @MrDannyk01
      @MrDannyk01 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Malls? What are those? 😂

    • @lynnski-ex3zk
      @lynnski-ex3zk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Green Acres Mall, Valley Stream NY

    • @disabledsubmarinevet6717
      @disabledsubmarinevet6717 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lynnski-ex3zk i live 2 miles from there and its a nightmare there now.

  • @Let_Walk_Around
    @Let_Walk_Around 3 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    Small correction Nick.
    That footage about Miami is actually South Beach (which is in Miami Beach) Miami Beach and Miami are two very different places,. Most people confused the two.

    • @ertfgghhhh
      @ertfgghhhh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I agree. I thought it was south beach, too

    • @divinagracia8595
      @divinagracia8595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing handsome man❤️

  • @christinafidance340
    @christinafidance340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    I know that you are only including large cities, over a certain population, however, among small towns, my state takes the cake! If you Wikipedia Rehoboth Beach, Delaware.... there’s an entire paragraph about how gay it is. It’s pretty damn laid back and super fun too. I grew up going there with my family and I still visit there every year. I am straight, but the gay community there keeps everything so nice and the vibes are always so chill and positive. It’s really a nice beach and I know that people don’t normally think of Delaware when someone mentions going to the beach, however Delaware has 14 miles of beautiful, clean beaches and 7 miles of it is an undeveloped & natural protected state park area and the rest is dotted with cute little quaint beach towns with nice boardwalks and shops, restaurants and attractions. It’s super nice. And JUST north of Ocean City, MD (which kinda sucks!).

  • @hazielgarcia5700
    @hazielgarcia5700 3 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I think those numbers are much much higher than they’re letting on lol

  • @timward3116
    @timward3116 3 ปีที่แล้ว +53

    I'd like to know exactly where these statistics came from, what questions exactly were asked and what the answer choices were, how the sampling was done, etc. Lists like this are fun, but usually the science is dubious and tends to confirm the bias of whatever group paid for it. From the gay male side of the question, back when I was better looking, my own experience seemed to indicate that the Kinsey percentages of gays and bisexuals were exceeded in reality - which would indicate that, unless there has been a drastic change over the past several decades, the statistics quoted in this video must be based on some very narrow definitions and some very dubious methodology.

    • @PETER394100
      @PETER394100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly.......how could Kinsey have discovered that the percentage of LGBT in the U.S. were 10% way back in 1948 and now only 4-6%??......Nah! Something’s WAY off.

    • @divinagracia8595
      @divinagracia8595 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      How are you doing handsome man❤️

    • @timward3116
      @timward3116 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@divinagracia8595 Ha-ha. I USED to be handsome, but now... not so much. Growing old has a rather negative effect on one's looks over time, I'm afraid. But thank you, Divina! I hope that you are doing well, beautiful soul! 💚

    • @jamesmcinnis208
      @jamesmcinnis208 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't interpret this video as a rigorous scientific report, but rather Nick's casual collection of some random "data," which is to say, I agree.
      PS: I'm just as handsome today as when I was 22. (No, I'm not.)

  • @gcgarner
    @gcgarner 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    I lived in SLC. People never believe me when I tell them it is super progressive. And the reason is exactly what you said. Gay people from rural Utah, Idaho, Wyoming and Nevada all move there, as well as many artists, musicians and basically anyone who doesn’t fit in where they grew up.

    • @patrickskateboarder8
      @patrickskateboarder8 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You are right I used to live there Very liberal indeed.

  • @NotSoCrazyNinja
    @NotSoCrazyNinja 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    The real percentage is around 10% most likely. I have seen a lot of gay people deep in the closet and their closet adventures make it seem like there are fewer gay people than there actually is. If you count those openly gay AND those who are still not open about it, it comes to around 10%. Then bisexuals can skew the statistics a bit too. It's easier to lead a straight life if you can find sexual attraction in the opposite sex even if you also find a sexual attraction to those of the same sex.

    • @eduardof7322
      @eduardof7322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      I think the entire LGBTQ+ is easily about 15%

    • @Scar-jg4bn
      @Scar-jg4bn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      With the amount of women who have told me they are secretly bi and the amount of "straight" men who have secretly asked to give me a bj, I'm pretty sure 10-15% of the population has a medium to strong attraction to the same sex. 🤷‍♂️

    • @richmurdoch8503
      @richmurdoch8503 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Closet adventures! Lmao!🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @Kngdeadbush
      @Kngdeadbush 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      15% is well within deviant category.

    • @itsmeandrea138
      @itsmeandrea138 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i think that the real number is 15%

  • @hannahwald8914
    @hannahwald8914 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

    Especially as an SF native, I so called it being the 1st.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      yeah it was an easy one.

    • @drakonidesthevigilant5155
      @drakonidesthevigilant5155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      How's the poop sidewalks?

    • @hannahwald8914
      @hannahwald8914 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@drakonidesthevigilant5155 still the same, man.

    • @YouTubeuser328
      @YouTubeuser328 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I promise you that it wasn’t a hard guess you aren’t slick 💀

    • @kindadecent9754
      @kindadecent9754 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Be REAL it’s super expensive

  • @andrealewis7849
    @andrealewis7849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Um had I a dollar for every married man at the gay bar.....

    • @dagr382
      @dagr382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You'd have more cash than Musk and Bezos combined!

    • @desireedesenna9673
      @desireedesenna9673 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Oh Doooooood! For real? Why even get married if one can't be committed?

    • @helenboula3538
      @helenboula3538 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Let me tell you something very hilarious when I was young I was a go-go dancer in the cage and I dated this guy he was an ironworker and I do my God was he ever built but we we went with our relationship was really platonic we were buddies that's the kind of relationship we had well anyway they open the club across the street from where I worked and it was called Club Center in Atlanta Georgia that was a transvestite act out of every vowels it was a drag Club drag queen club and I had never seen what a drag queen Club was like and he said excuse me he got up and went to the restroom I thought I said there about 10-15 minutes and I asked the waitress which was it he did she see where the Jill and went that I was suing she said oh yes honey he left was so and so and he left me there in that club was they dragged for a drag queen and I was pretty but after I got over the shock of it I was not in love with him thank God I wasn't because that would have been at the kicker because he was he did he had it all he really did except I just wasn't in love with him that was quite an eye-opener for me especially special at that young age I do believe the lights turned on so I'll be a little bit that's what I started really seeing things through a different lens and I took my rose colored glasses off

    • @helenboula3538
      @helenboula3538 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      But you have to understand and realize I'm the one that kept pushing him to take me over there cuz I was curious to see what was going on and the whole time he was not going to he didn't want to go over there because he knew what it was and I didn't I have to laugh about it I did later

    • @desireedesenna9673
      @desireedesenna9673 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@helenboula3538 Good for you. That's cool that you got over him.
      Strange that people can't be straight forward.

  • @williamcarey8529
    @williamcarey8529 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Another outstanding video Mr. Johnson!! I always look forward to your videos when they come out!!I must admit Mappy is one smart individual!! Without Mappy your videos would not be as entertaining as they are!! Great work Mr. Johnson and Mappy, thanks again!!
    MAPPY RULES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I'll tell Mappy you said that Bill he will tell me you're right .

  • @Apuh10
    @Apuh10 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Loved the vid. I moved from FL to CO and so far so good. Ppl are very nice here and they literally doesn't give a crap about who you sleep with, which is awesome.

    • @mrsbdubc2174
      @mrsbdubc2174 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Most people don't until you try to force it down their throats

    • @ansonpang
      @ansonpang 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@thatgoodpain yeah no more straight kissin' and PDA on streets from now on!

    • @PETER394100
      @PETER394100 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Can’t WAIT to leave Florida in my rear-view mirror and head out West when I retire......boring and backward.

  • @snowstormonsat
    @snowstormonsat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Can't forget some of the smaller cities like Northampton Ma, Provincetown MA at the Cape, and Florida Keys.

  • @Celeste-mr4tp
    @Celeste-mr4tp 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Wow I'm from New Orleans, but I've lived in Atlanta. I didn't know that New Orleans would out beat Atlanta when it comes to the South interesting

    • @efandmk3382
      @efandmk3382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      New Orleans is a "party" town. I've got photos taken during Mardi Gras that I took because I didn't think anybody would believe this was going on in the street and on balconies. LOL. I'm not complaining. It was a blast. I hear Mardi Gras is more "family friendly" now. That's probably why it's dying. That's a shame.

    • @carljohnson317
      @carljohnson317 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      The south is like Frisco bay.....

  • @TrailRunnerLife
    @TrailRunnerLife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Maybe do one with towns and smaller cities included, there are many municipalities in those categories that are very high %. Provincetown, MA comes to mind.

  • @sselevolmusic6584
    @sselevolmusic6584 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Nick Johnson: Top 10 gayest cities
    Me : *clicks video*
    Also Me: No Homo

  • @notyouraveragebear9326
    @notyouraveragebear9326 4 ปีที่แล้ว +94

    “Identifying” as gay and the actual amount of gay men(DL or Discrete) in this world I’m sure are vastly different lol

    • @danseabreeze1404
      @danseabreeze1404 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Totally agree!

    • @bansheemania1692
      @bansheemania1692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Probably closer to 80%.

    • @patrickaccioly4398
      @patrickaccioly4398 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It’s probably about 10%...

    • @allysonevans2600
      @allysonevans2600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I agree

    • @Edelinejb
      @Edelinejb 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      These percentages are of the people who have came out closet there’s still many in the closet

  • @jeansindhikara1823
    @jeansindhikara1823 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Very very well-done video. You made it interesting by not doing a countdown from 10 to 1 and by including all sorts of interesting related facts. I’m impressed, since I’m usually very critical of you tube videos!

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Maybe it's time to subscribe jean 😉

  • @tastefullyout
    @tastefullyout 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m pretty sure the study he’s using is one on out/open gay people. If he use studies that include those who have sex with the same sex but don’t identify as gay, as well as bisexuals, this video would be drastically different, and I would argue far more accurate.

  • @efandmk3382
    @efandmk3382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    That 4.1% figure is actually the most accurate. Various different studies over the last 60 years or so have consistently come up with similar figures. That 4.1% actually represents about 10% of the male population and about 2.5% of the female population. Taking into account that females are about 52% of the population, then gay people as a whole represent about 4-5% of the population. The reason that is feels like there is a bigger percentage of 'gays" than 4.1% is that 10% of MEN ARE gay. TEN PERCENT.. That's a lot.

  • @stephens9462
    @stephens9462 3 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    Gayest towns I’ve seen are Provincetown, Mass on the end of Cape Cod and Ogunquit, Maine.

    • @Bigmommafluffy
      @Bigmommafluffy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      YEEEEEEES!!!! WE HAVE A WHOLE PRIDE TOWN!!!
      I love Massachusetts!!

  • @fmcevoy1
    @fmcevoy1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Great video! Nick, your singing is improving. (I hope my standup routine is.)
    Now, Karen Mappy: What is she? Metrosexual? LGBTQ-M? (M for "Mappy"?) And all along, I thought her motto was, "My strength is of the strength of ten because my heart is pure."

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      her motto is ME. and my singing is up and down depending on my mood frank :)

  • @TheAudreysdad
    @TheAudreysdad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    You got that a bit wrong when it comes to the beginning of San Francisco’s lgbt community. It’s started in the 1800’s during the gold rush time; when men from all over the country came to California for the gold rush in 1848 which brought over 300,000 men into the state. Many of the men settled in San Francisco in which it became the start of SF being considered the lgbt 🏳️‍🌈 capital.
    There is a general history tour in the Castro District talking about this history of San Francisco.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Huh

    • @TheAudreysdad
      @TheAudreysdad 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nick Johnson you should look up the tour I’m referring to in the Castro District

  • @caroleehubbard8380
    @caroleehubbard8380 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Straight white girl here. Would love to live in a gay city! They have the best taste, lower crime, great architecture, high funding in the arts! Just all around fun'er and clean'r environments!

  • @allewal
    @allewal 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    I thought for sure that Mappy and family would be out shopping on black Friday!

    • @sunilscorpy4594
      @sunilscorpy4594 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I thought Nick would be too. 😂

    • @allewal
      @allewal 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@sunilscorpy4594 LOL!

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      nick doesn't shop. nick hates shopping.

    • @sunilscorpy4594
      @sunilscorpy4594 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@NickJohnson 😂

    • @emilymalden3310
      @emilymalden3310 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Mappy and his peeps are cute.

  • @ccsd0601
    @ccsd0601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    Thought that Chicago and Atlanta would be high on the list.

    • @josephperona2612
      @josephperona2612 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why

    • @brooksboules9032
      @brooksboules9032 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Ya definitely Chicago

    • @vickivalewash5086
      @vickivalewash5086 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Why Chicago?

    • @heliogonzalez2663
      @heliogonzalez2663 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Chicago???
      Nahh

    • @ccsd0601
      @ccsd0601 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm born and raised here in Chicago. Boystown, and a few south side and far north side areas have a nice sized community of LGBT folks.

  • @gregingram4996
    @gregingram4996 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Just remember, those percentages are only the ones who admit to it!

  • @howlinwolf7728
    @howlinwolf7728 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    When did this video "come out"?

  • @poodlewestmister5030
    @poodlewestmister5030 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I came for the info and stayed for the ending music lmao 🤣

  • @kenb3552
    @kenb3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm surprised Washington DC didn't make the list.
    As far as the overall percentage of gay folks in the population - I'm sticking with the Kinsey figure of 10%. It would make sense that that millennials are identifying at a rate of 8.2%. As the societal climate improves with each successive generation, the numbers should be trending upward until the Kinsey 10% is reached. We'll see.

    • @divinagracia8595
      @divinagracia8595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing handsome man❤️

  • @roddanlives2650
    @roddanlives2650 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    What happened in Denver transpired within the last twenty or thirty years. I started noticing in the 90s that the parade kept getting larger and larger.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      It's massive now!

    • @whatsup7535
      @whatsup7535 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      There's something about cold bushy areas, lol

  • @casksj356
    @casksj356 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I lived in Denver for many years and there’s no way their Pride parade is the third largest?! Chicago’s is like ten times bigger! 🤓😅

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      denver claims to have the third biggest. sounds odd though you're right. did you go to chicagos?

    • @Imperial0666
      @Imperial0666 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Chicago is a much larger city.

    • @conradflowers7291
      @conradflowers7291 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Try Toronto Canada pride parade they were the first to marry same sex couple.

  • @rah62
    @rah62 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Any list that doesn't include West Hollywood CA and Wilton Manors FL is flat-out wrong and useless.

  • @steevoridgeline
    @steevoridgeline 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    such great coverage. thank you so much 💕

  • @LolaCrazy2221
    @LolaCrazy2221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I'm surprised Washington D.C. isn't on this list. Also I thought Atlanta would be on this list too I heard Atlanta was #2 behind San Francisco.

    • @caesarsneezer6992
      @caesarsneezer6992 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Washington is a dead zone with no street activity of mention. I'm from there

    • @dagr382
      @dagr382 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      When I was in DC in the 80s it was chockful of gays - lots of them "married" LOL - lots of bars and clubs too.

  • @jkeegan154
    @jkeegan154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I'm shocked NYC and Honolulu didn't make it to the list.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      NYC has a lot obviously

    • @NAT-turners-Revenge
      @NAT-turners-Revenge 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      NYC has a huge population thats y.... their proportion didnt match up but by #'s it is huge

    • @lphilipps
      @lphilipps 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YES! How could you miss NYC...not that there's anything wrong with that.

    • @dvferyance
      @dvferyance 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I was surprised Madison WI did not make the list. But at only 230,000 in population I guess it's not considered big enough for the top 10.

    • @tobithegreat9534
      @tobithegreat9534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      NYC is in the list

  • @jomama5186
    @jomama5186 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are such a trip! I love your sense of humor and fun. It's what the World needs more of that's for sure

  • @Sly88Frye
    @Sly88Frye 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    San Francisco is welcoming to all except for anyone who makes less than 100K a year. I live just an hour North of San Francisco and despite having a progressive point of view, I actually hate San Francisco. I don't know why people are willing to spend so much money to live there when that City sucks so bad. It is impossible to park, traffic sucks although not always, the view of the bay is entirely blocked by Towers upon Towers upon Towers.
    San Francisco has some nice venues to visit, but I would never live there even if I could afford it. Oh yeah and if you do find parking, a lot of places require you to park in expensive parking garage at charges you like $25 a night. Not even in San Jose which is an even larger City do they have parking garages that cost so much.
    And one other thing I forgot to mention was that the pedestrians in San Francisco completely abused The Pedestrian right-of-way and they are constantly crossing the street when it isn't even their turn to cross and the car's turn to move. It's so fucking messed up

    • @dolecrash5802
      @dolecrash5802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sly88Frye it’s the energy. Something about the city draws people. Sort of like why so many people live in NYC.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i hate the cost of living in SF for sure. I have friends who left because of it.

  • @EricaGamet
    @EricaGamet 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    My question is this: Were these cities ranked the gayest or the most full of LGBTQ folks? Because equating gay with trans, for instance, isn't accurate... though if the data was cities with the highest LGBTQ+ folks, then that's all inclusive. I live in Seattle's gayborhood and was glad to see it on the list.

  • @kenb3552
    @kenb3552 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    The video at 11:17 that is supposed to be about San Fran is actually downtown Boston (Trinity Church - you can see the sign right there) ;-)

  • @MsBlake1972
    @MsBlake1972 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Very interesting. And fun to watch.=)

  • @michaelmace924
    @michaelmace924 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I'm sure there's a lot of gay people who don't say they're gay on it surveys.

    • @lovemypups3077
      @lovemypups3077 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Michael I would love to be friends with you

  • @HeronCoyote1234
    @HeronCoyote1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I knew Portland would be up there. I lived there throughout the ‘90s, loved it.

    • @hailemichaelnegesse6770
      @hailemichaelnegesse6770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know Portland Oregon??

    • @HeronCoyote1234
      @HeronCoyote1234 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hailemichaelnegesse6770 it was my favorite city, even though my ex still lives there.

    • @hailemichaelnegesse6770
      @hailemichaelnegesse6770 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      progressiveHeart oh yeah? You live Portland Oregon? I live to

  • @briant3143
    @briant3143 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I’m pretty sure that last scene of a pride parade going by a church was here in Boston. It looks like the back of Trinity Church on Clarenden St. Am I wrong?

  • @CyberOfficer
    @CyberOfficer 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    So many people in the closet too 😂 40% of the guys I meet on Grindr have a wife and kids and are sneaking out.

  • @bellemislang2262
    @bellemislang2262 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Much as I enjoy watching your videos, seems like I always look forward to your singing!🤗What a frustrated singer you are!🤣. But hey, pls don’t despair because for me your singing is like the ‘icing on the cake’! New subscriber here! 🥂🇨🇦

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Belle - who is frustrated? Not me ❤️

  • @ambroset1
    @ambroset1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    People always talk about Atlanta but Atlanta is not on the list

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      i think people are in the closer there.

    • @Prince-pb1vf
      @Prince-pb1vf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm surprised too

    • @kingb6047
      @kingb6047 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Atlanta just has the most black gays

    • @Prince-pb1vf
      @Prince-pb1vf 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@kingb6047 🙌🙌🙌🙌

    • @Imperial0666
      @Imperial0666 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Atlanta should be on that list. I suppose this list is of cities only not metro areas. METRO Atlanta certainly would be either 1 or 2.

  • @kendrahwhyte9960
    @kendrahwhyte9960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nick, Mappy, Mrs. Mappy: Love your channel. The last crowd scene in this video was in Boston, Massachusetts. You see architect H. H. Richardson's masterpiece Trinity Church in Copley Square.

  • @ditto6330
    @ditto6330 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hi Nick!
    I was thinking it would be California?
    Some of the other States that were mentioned I didn't think they would be that highly in numbers.
    Thanks for sharing! Very interesting!

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It's per capita and there's lots of people there :)

  • @SugoiTravelReviews
    @SugoiTravelReviews 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Interesting how some of the best cities to live in the US are also some of the most gay-friendly (eg Portland, Austin), whereas some of the worst cities to live in are the least gay-friendly (eg Memphis, Birmingham). Coincidence?

  • @matthewdackers5903
    @matthewdackers5903 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    🌺Aloha everybody😊 I'm from the Hawaiian Islands where it's very safe to be mahu and in aikane-mahu relationships, marriage, and family life and guaranteed the prejudice would be very low to none at all in Hawaiian society. We are all equal and ohana 🌴🌺🌐🌺🌴💕💯

  • @stephenenders2066
    @stephenenders2066 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I personally think all humans are inherently mixed with alien dna and we are all alittle gaylien.
    The more capable of humans tend to be less stable. So it is a weird myriad of hyper hypo and I think it is misunderstood larger spheres if influence in my opinion.
    I just think everyone needs to be nicer to each other and more aware.
    Like as long as you aren't hurting anyone who cares who you love etc.

  • @Code_blu215
    @Code_blu215 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I would love to attend a gay pride parade in one of these cities 🏳️‍🌈

  • @CO84trucker
    @CO84trucker 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    Grew up near Cleveland OH and Lakewood on the west side is known for 🏳️‍🌈. There's a prominent Catholic all boy high school over there that has sadly had its share of "backdoor" jokes and the like.

    • @jhill8036
      @jhill8036 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Well u know what they say, drop a dollar in Lakewood better kick it too cleveland before u pick it up.

    • @idrip2153
      @idrip2153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@jhill8036 😂 Im dead

    • @bertram46
      @bertram46 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Grew up in Rocky River next to Lakewood. They always joked, if you found a quarter kick it over to River to pick it up!
      OmG I just saw Jill's comment lol and that was said in 60's and 70's
      And who wore white socks in Cleveland?

  • @tomwagstaff7781
    @tomwagstaff7781 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Since I am just catching up on some of your videos, I just watched this once. Since you visit some cities, you should visit Key West during Fantasy Fest (last week in October).

  • @dee8135
    @dee8135 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Been waiting for this video

  • @truerthanyouknow9456
    @truerthanyouknow9456 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was cool. Thank you for making this video. 😊

  • @DAAYFRM510
    @DAAYFRM510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I completely disagree with this stat. Most people are not defined by their sexuality and like to keep it private so wouldn't answer truthfully if asked. I believe most people are bisexual or curious. This doesn't mean they have acted on it but means they have the attraction and thoughts.

  • @michaelchitwood389
    @michaelchitwood389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    No ATL?! ODD. Midtown/Morningside and East Atlanta were mad gay in '08 when i lleft

  • @tiffsaver
    @tiffsaver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I believe that San Francisco is still #1., but lots in NYC, and recently, Atlanta.

    • @booniedavillier504
      @booniedavillier504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Recently? Man back in 2005, after Katrina in New Orleans, Fema got us a place for a few months in Atlanta and I've never seen so many gays around town in my life... More than New Orleans! Must be a lot of down low folks in atl.

  • @shannonbradley4699
    @shannonbradley4699 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Interesting, I have been to them all and they are all great. SLC was still a tad too mormy for me though. I lived in San Francisco for a good portion of my adult life and as a straight woman, I LOVED it.

    • @Hippiekinkster
      @Hippiekinkster 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't spend much time in SF in days gone by... I spent a couple weeks in the Haight circa 1973, and I visited a few times after, but as a straight male, I very much appreciated the straight women of SF.

    • @andrewreiss2811
      @andrewreiss2811 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Do you have a problem with morman's shannon? Tread carefully as your comment is discriminatory.

    • @shannonbradley4699
      @shannonbradley4699 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@andrewreiss2811 I sure do. Your "cult" stole my niece Have a great day!.

  • @cherylnguyen95
    @cherylnguyen95 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I'm Australian and I was surprised that Los Angeles CA wasn't top on this list, btw gay is fabulous 🏳️‍🌈

  • @Mondo762
    @Mondo762 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Gender neutral gingerbread person? Gimme a break.

    • @itsokaytobeclownpilled2519
      @itsokaytobeclownpilled2519 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      They had to do it for people kind.

    • @eliezerrabbinowitz4180
      @eliezerrabbinowitz4180 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@itsokaytobeclownpilled2519 lol

    • @connie1wilson
      @connie1wilson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      There are those who identify as cats, unicorns, so they should be gingerbread entities.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      they look good though!

    • @connie1wilson
      @connie1wilson 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Nick Johnson - I don’t care the gender, creature or whatever, if they taste good, who cares!

  • @thomasodonnell9221
    @thomasodonnell9221 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I lived in San Francisco, 1970-89. Many of the older gay men and women were WWII and Korea War veterans. Currently, living in Baltimore's Mount Vernon neighborhood, about as gay as any place. The bar I came out in(1968),
    Leon's, still thrives.

    • @divinagracia8595
      @divinagracia8595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing handsome man❤️

  • @patricktownsend3474
    @patricktownsend3474 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My grandmother (born 1904) stated that the homosexuals ruined the word gay for her- it's how she felt for years- happy, lighthearted and carefree. Then after the 1960's and early 70's she couldn't say I feel gay today because people would think she was on the hunt for a female lover.

    • @lovemypups3077
      @lovemypups3077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Patrick I would love to be friends with you dear

    • @janejustin1788
      @janejustin1788 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣😂

  • @nikoid3631
    @nikoid3631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Next video: The most gun cities in America?

  • @desmondwilliams6327
    @desmondwilliams6327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    What Atlanta, Georgia didn't make the list, wow.

  • @raulantunez4228
    @raulantunez4228 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Boy George’s song though 😂😂😂

  • @igor0155
    @igor0155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    where do the Numbers came from ?
    are there people Walking through the cities and ask everyone If they're gay ? 😂

  • @tiernanlavena
    @tiernanlavena 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I expected to see Philadelphia on the list. I also expected to see San Francisco drop considerably due to it becoming another silicon mecca and outrageously expensive.

  • @chillokapi5225
    @chillokapi5225 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for making this informative video! Now I know which cities to avoid going to

  • @nathanielketchum5597
    @nathanielketchum5597 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Pittsburgh kind of caught me by surprise being ranked the 2nd least gay city in the country. Maybe not in the surrounding areas but inside the city, they are immensely supportive of LGBT.

  • @selispeks
    @selispeks ปีที่แล้ว +2

    New Orleans is the only place ive ever lived where i didnt experience homophobia from strangers. It was amazing.

    • @DissonantShadow
      @DissonantShadow ปีที่แล้ว

      Is it "homophobia" or is it lifestyle disapproval?

    • @netfun8087
      @netfun8087 ปีที่แล้ว

      I did, from a complete stranger who had no reason to get in my business.

  • @ayarzeev8237
    @ayarzeev8237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I question your sources if this is purely city limits. Both Atlanta and Minneapolis are in the top 4 in terms of percentage for city population.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      This is as a percentage of households and gay population

  • @matthiasthealmighty2519
    @matthiasthealmighty2519 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Really salt lake city, Utah home of the mormons *falls over in complete laughter* that is fucking hilarious

    • @elliefuller3667
      @elliefuller3667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It really is 😂 you’ll see a lot of people from other parts of Utah say that Salt Lake City is terrible, majority of them say that because it is a heavily lgbtq populated city and Mormons pretend to be tolerant of lgbtq people but ultimately they are the same as most other sects of Christianity.

  • @chyinarr
    @chyinarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Thank you for that end statement

  • @chevychase
    @chevychase 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm pretty sure Washington DC, Atlanta, and Chicago should be in the top 10.

  • @dolecrash5802
    @dolecrash5802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    WAIT, WHEN DID A COUNTY OF UTAH BECOME LIBERAL?!? THOUGHT THAT IT WAS THE ONLY ALL CONSERVATIVE STATE

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      salt lake city is changing!

  • @silverandblack9242
    @silverandblack9242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    palm springs ca has waaaaay more gays than any of those cities on this list for sure!

    • @MrPlamor
      @MrPlamor 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @dherrer6294
      @dherrer6294 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That technically would be impossible, only because it's a much much smaller city, therefore a smaller population in general.

    • @silverandblack9242
      @silverandblack9242 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@dherrer6294 per capita bozo

  • @lunaaraujo1622
    @lunaaraujo1622 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Tbh as a trans woman I feel much better living in a small town in America, away from the large popular cities. Believ it or not dating for me is easier too (not that it was ever easy too but anyway lol)

  • @TruckNgamin
    @TruckNgamin 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thanks for the videos Nick.

  • @sharoncrawford3042
    @sharoncrawford3042 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Momon are for the large part are excepting this lifestyle, because they have alot of them at BYU.

  • @marciamusiak4103
    @marciamusiak4103 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I can't believe, Northampton, and Provincetown both in Massachusetts was not on your list. Say WHAT?

    • @gblakev
      @gblakev 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He did say that he was only looking at big cities

  • @luisgtz8873
    @luisgtz8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I'm bi and moved to San Antonio 3 years ago. I need gay friends to hang out with.

    • @chantlmcclary6419
      @chantlmcclary6419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I be ur friend homie 😆.

    • @luisgtz8873
      @luisgtz8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@chantlmcclary6419 Great. I'm in San Antonio Texas bro. And you? I want to go outside and enjoy life.

    • @lovemypups3077
      @lovemypups3077 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Luis I would love to be friends with you

    • @luisgtz8873
      @luisgtz8873 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@lovemypups3077 How can be ge in touch?

  • @bikesandcampswithcats
    @bikesandcampswithcats 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Nick! I have a question about your PSA at the end. Is this a personal story? Another thing: All that music you had was on MTV when it first came to my neighborhood when I was in 8th grade; the first thing I saw on MTV was "Little Red Corvette" and it was at a friend's house because we didn't have that channel (I think MTV came on for those who had Cinemax).

  • @joshgonia8487
    @joshgonia8487 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This should be titled..... 10 WORST cities in America

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mean

    • @Ajdubz_on_yt
      @Ajdubz_on_yt 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Imagine being homophobic

    • @User-eg4ws
      @User-eg4ws 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      You just mad they’re living the best and the richest

  • @AngerThePeople
    @AngerThePeople ปีที่แล้ว

    Love you for doing this!

  • @jaycam6823
    @jaycam6823 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I’m surprised ATL & DC are not on this list

  • @MattWolfe1019
    @MattWolfe1019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Julianne Hough by the way is a country music singer and she's also an actress. Just thought I'd mention it Nick.

    • @NickJohnson
      @NickJohnson  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yes i realized that. she is pretty.

  • @ClaytonAFoster
    @ClaytonAFoster 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    4:46 A gay would not be caught dead living in flyover states unless they are born there lolol

    • @EvySurvived
      @EvySurvived 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      B.S. Northern MN are littered with f@#$

  • @rafaelnunes1150
    @rafaelnunes1150 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I loved this narration

  • @John-ed1lp
    @John-ed1lp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    just saw your video...very educational and interesting...I live in Canada and i would be curious if there is a similar video here or if you would be interested in doing one...In Canada a cutoff city population would be about 500,000...so there's a few cities of note...Halifax, Quebec City, Montreal, Ottawa, Toronto, Winnipeg, Edmonton, Calgary and Vancouver...any notes appreciated

    • @divinagracia8595
      @divinagracia8595 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you doing handsome man❤️