Pile 3 My boss fired me in less than a year. It was a role that required way too much from one person for the pay of less than one of the positions. I did a lot for the org, but they wanted me to do so much that I wouldn’t have work/life balance. So I got fired. My boss definitely wasn’t empathetic, they were more practical and solely focused on results. They were a HUGE people pleaser. It was so annoying because they became a doormat to higher ups and clients. And expected me to be that way and I said no which pissed them off. They were also highly incompetent as a leader, very good at working as an individual on their own projects but did not know how to lead a team, listen and inspire them. My manager worked from early morning to late at night like they had no life, they were always stressed. And got mad at me when I left at 5.
Pile 2 yes i try to avoid the spotlight to prevent jealousy from colleagues, which i already started reveiving which is sad, bc i genuinely care about relationships in the workplace
#2. Jade & sunflower, my 2 favourite things. Yep, my boss is an Aquarian. It's not about impostor syndrome. It's about he never communicates. He knows what he wants, but kinda go back and forth. Because he never communicates, I'm just doing what I can do "to earn my keep". And yes, I am ready to move on. If there were no improvement, I will leave.
#2 amazing.. describes me exactly.. and I felt my creativity must be viewed positively so that’s a validation. The reason I’m hiding is exactly that - the huge toxicity.. I find once I’m visible and or present it just opens the floodgates. I’m trying to hide until I can just gravitate away from these people. I’ve never experienced positive group interactions, it takes a very strong leader to bring people together and not have the most arrogant people take over..
Pile 1 here. Thinking whether I'll resign or be kicked out of the company by the end of the year . I like my boss, he's like a mentor to me. I like my job, or, I used to like it very much. Over the past year however, I 've experienced some issues which have disheartened me. Unkept promises, lack of new opportunities, issues in communications which resulted in me being publicly scolded during work meetings. Besides that, I am going through some challenging situations on my day to day life, so it all added up to poorer work outputs. A few days ago I got scolded again, and I had to redo a material I had worked on for days. I've been told his expectations are very low at the moment, and this really broke me. I feel like I'm disapointing a person who used to vouch for me. A person who has thought me a lot, but at the same time, I feel as if I'm really not competent anymore. I feel he is deeply disappointed, and my feeling is that he has tried to replace me before, but he gave me second chanses Several times, so this might be it. As always, your readings are scarily accurate. Thank you for the insight.❤
Pile 3. Wow it really does resonate, im still quite new in my job, and my manager also newly appointed to take over leading the company, it sure does sounds like your reading, thanks for the reading. Subscribed!
Pile 1. My boss does not respect or understand me. Often, they misinterpret and misconstrue what I say in a negative way, because they are only understanding from a limited perspective. I don't like them, I don't like my coworkers. And they can try to rope me back into the group, but I won't join, I've got other fish to fry.
# 2 .So spot on for my work place environment. My boss is new to her position and at times can be closed off when things are not clear. I hide from the spot light due to the toxic issues with staff. Im a very hard worker and currently in training for a different yet familiar position. A dual role has been highlighted for me which Im ok with. More understanding from my boss with the department Im in would be more helpful to stepping up into this near future role . Blessings from NZ )i(
#2 I recently went to my direct boss to tell them is like to be an employee experience manager ( we don't have this extension of HR at my company ). They know I'm a certified life coach with a desire to help people and often use my creativity to problem solve. I've also expressed a desire to move to a different department. I do believe they are talking it over with upper management and waiting for our HR lady to get back from maturity leave. I felt the reading resonated even though it's a general reading.
Pile 1: TLDR: My boss/"friend" is taking advantage of me by not paying me what I'm owed, so I checked out. I'd love to share. I work at my "friend's" mental health practice where I make less than $26,000 annually (from my previous job) as being a graphic designer and web developer, administrative assistant/babysitter, personal assistant to the boss/work wife, and now I have another role as a biller. I have two degrees and a certificate with over 10 years experience of being a graphic designer and administrative assistant by the way. I cannot get a raise for doing the extra billing role, and I was given the ultimatum of either do the work or leave. For someone who doesn't have any money, he sure manages to leave out of town a lot to either do training or touring. So, I checked out. Finding a job is 10 times more stressful because you have ghost posts, people who want to hire someone internally, scammers, or people want candidates to have 5+ years of experience, but would rather pay you under $15 an hour. I'm stuck and I don't want anything to do with the boss or his company. I told him specifically what I want in order to smooth things over, but he dismissed it. So, there's not a d*mn thing he can do to resolve this, but to get the h*ll out of my face and f*ck off. Yes, I am thankful he provided me a job when I was terminated from the last one due to covid. However, I don't owe him anything. He has been profiting off my hard work such as doing free labor at his "free the babies" organization that kinda flopped, and performing multiple roles at his practice. I'm just mentally tired and hurt from all of this. Never work for your friends.
Pile 2: you described me and my manager so accurately. The environment was toxic and I ultimately quit despite the great salary. I quit for myself and my manager. She was trying to work with the new environment and I didn’t want to mess her up when I knew I couldn’t function properly in that mess.
Pile 2: Exactly! I work in a really toxic environment, I just try to survive🤪, sometimes I feel she's trying the same jaaaaa I hardly speak to people around cause they're trouble maker must of them. Well, lets see...or maybe not jiiiiii
Pile 3: wow! I wanted to know because my manager has been very hands off since i started a couple of months ago. She is a libra, very people pleasing so it’s hard to *really* know how she thinks/feels. She is very empathetic to everyone but it is hard to really get ahold of her sometimes bc she manages two locations and is very busy. She took on being a leader and has drastically changed everything about the business for the better. I am 5 months into this job and it was challenging because I did have to learn a lot of new things like people skills/organization and time management. I still make mistakes but she has been not putting me down, always offering a helping hand the best she can (promise not always followed up on). But i do have to make mistakes and learn on my own a lot, but she sees that I am persistent and resilient and hard working. I think she sees potential and sees me as an investment. She may view me as hedonistic because i do take breaks when I need them and indulge in fun at the workplace. The mother might have come up because my job requires nurturing and she may see that in me. And she sees my desire to create and watch my skills grow. Anyway this was so accurate and i got a lot out of this. I know I don’t need to worry about where i stand now and there’s a lot of possibilities from here for growth for myself and how i can make a difference where I work ❤ Amazing thank you!
No. 3: And, currently my job is trying to recreate the company from a clean slate. I'm not new to the actual field, but I am new to the new practice that they're implementing. I work as a Preschool Teacher and have been working at this new place for 3-4 months now (so, in this sense, I am a Fool, new), and this place said they implemented Reggio Emilia inspired curriculum in their teaching (traditional teaching schools i find too confining) but I am just burnt out because they have not given us the time to actually teach us how to start implementing it in the classroom. I've actually been calling out at least once this week because I'm just so burnt out from this field. They sell you on the ideal but in reality, it doesn't match and it just burns out teachers because we are not creatively supported to really nourish children in the classroom. HR ISSUE is so real - there are so many problems with the administrative staff that have been there for years, but apparently the owner is trying to clean everything out (what I've heard).
Pile one Me and my mom work at the same hospital, but in different departments with different bosses. My best guess is that rumors started floating around about me an my mom not talking anymore(word spreads fast there lol) and that’s why my boss is viewing things that way lol. Also, love how you say she wants to approach it from a floral place lol. Her name is literally a flower. Thank you! This brought a lot of clarity.
Pile 3- I had a terrible fight with my boss a couple weeks ago where we were shouting at each other, and I'm still shaken. He wants me gone. Interesting that he sees me as a mother, that's out of left field.
Melissa I think this reading was for me. I have been teaching in Michigan and I moved to Vermont and it has been very difficult for me to problem-solve with the team. Their delivery of services is very outdated to me and the boss shed some light on the situation and told many people. It felt like a personal attack. It was a tough year. Very gossipy. I would be interested in a reading to see how I could have communicated better. The schools are very exhausting to me right now...
Pile 2 accurate I am good at what I do at my job but they don't want to tell me how much of an asset i am. so energetically I feel like I'm taking a step back because they want me to break my back do x y and z and not give me my flowers. that I deserve I work beyond my limits because I love my job I love working with people I'm a fast learner but I'm constantly keep getting reminded that my job position is not so important for it to be value but I am needed there. It confusing. I ask for a rise nothing happen but yet I'm needed they value me but don't want to increase my pay and again they don't want to tell me how much of a value I am.. hmmmmm
And not only that I can pick up colleague's trying to compete with me at my workplace I can handle pressure very well I can handle lot of tasks I'm really good at multitasking. co-workers around me is trying to compete and then they get overwhelmed and they start talking crap I just don't like the drama
I was so mad at the situation that I was considered as doing nothing by the other important person of the company. So I was like “Oh fuck u I will find another job to do!”, already tried my best 🙂. I texted my boss that I wanted to quit because I couldnt do what I expected as well as took for granted for what I have done. He comforted me and explained so… its my story
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Pile 3 My boss fired me in less than a year. It was a role that required way too much from one person for the pay of less than one of the positions. I did a lot for the org, but they wanted me to do so much that I wouldn’t have work/life balance. So I got fired. My boss definitely wasn’t empathetic, they were more practical and solely focused on results. They were a HUGE people pleaser. It was so annoying because they became a doormat to higher ups and clients. And expected me to be that way and I said no which pissed them off. They were also highly incompetent as a leader, very good at working as an individual on their own projects but did not know how to lead a team, listen and inspire them. My manager worked from early morning to late at night like they had no life, they were always stressed. And got mad at me when I left at 5.
Pile 2 yes i try to avoid the spotlight to prevent jealousy from colleagues, which i already started reveiving which is sad, bc i genuinely care about relationships in the workplace
Same same
#2:☀️🤞🏻🍀💖 Thank you for the reading❣️😇
Girl, pile 2 confirmations. I was led to hear this reading, thank you so much for this read. It is spot on for me. 💖💯🔥🙏
#2. Jade & sunflower, my 2 favourite things. Yep, my boss is an Aquarian.
It's not about impostor syndrome. It's about he never communicates. He knows what he wants, but kinda go back and forth. Because he never communicates, I'm just doing what I can do "to earn my keep".
And yes, I am ready to move on. If there were no improvement, I will leave.
#2 amazing..
describes me exactly.. and I felt my creativity must be viewed positively so that’s a validation. The reason I’m hiding is exactly that - the huge toxicity.. I find once I’m visible and or present it just opens the floodgates. I’m trying to hide until I can just gravitate away from these people. I’ve never experienced positive group interactions, it takes a very strong leader to bring people together and not have the most arrogant people take over..
Ha ha reading this comment thinking wow I feel the same.. it’s my comment 😂😂
Pile 1 here. Thinking whether I'll resign or be kicked out of the company by the end of the year .
I like my boss, he's like a mentor to me. I like my job, or, I used to like it very much.
Over the past year however, I 've experienced some issues which have disheartened me.
Unkept promises, lack of new opportunities, issues in communications which resulted in me being publicly scolded during work meetings.
Besides that, I am going through some challenging situations on my day to day life, so it all added up to poorer work outputs.
A few days ago I got scolded again, and I had to redo a material I had worked on for days. I've been told his expectations are very low at the moment, and this really broke me.
I feel like I'm disapointing a person who used to vouch for me. A person who has thought me a lot, but at the same time, I feel as if I'm really not competent anymore.
I feel he is deeply disappointed, and my feeling is that he has tried to replace me before, but he gave me second chanses Several times, so this might be it.
As always, your readings are scarily accurate. Thank you for the insight.❤
Pile 3. Wow it really does resonate, im still quite new in my job, and my manager also newly appointed to take over leading the company, it sure does sounds like your reading, thanks for the reading. Subscribed!
Pile 1. My boss does not respect or understand me. Often, they misinterpret and misconstrue what I say in a negative way, because they are only understanding from a limited perspective.
I don't like them, I don't like my coworkers. And they can try to rope me back into the group, but I won't join, I've got other fish to fry.
# 2 .So spot on for my work place environment. My boss is new to her position and at times can be closed off when things are not clear. I hide from the spot light due to the toxic issues with staff. Im a very hard worker and currently in training for a different yet familiar position. A dual role has been highlighted for me which Im ok with. More understanding from my boss with the department Im in would be more helpful to stepping up into this near future role . Blessings from NZ )i(
#2 I recently went to my direct boss to tell them is like to be an employee experience manager ( we don't have this extension of HR at my company ). They know I'm a certified life coach with a desire to help people and often use my creativity to problem solve. I've also expressed a desire to move to a different department. I do believe they are talking it over with upper management and waiting for our HR lady to get back from maturity leave.
I felt the reading resonated even though it's a general reading.
Pile 1: TLDR: My boss/"friend" is taking advantage of me by not paying me what I'm owed, so I checked out.
I'd love to share. I work at my "friend's" mental health practice where I make less than $26,000 annually (from my previous job) as being a graphic designer and web developer, administrative assistant/babysitter, personal assistant to the boss/work wife, and now I have another role as a biller. I have two degrees and a certificate with over 10 years experience of being a graphic designer and administrative assistant by the way. I cannot get a raise for doing the extra billing role, and I was given the ultimatum of either do the work or leave. For someone who doesn't have any money, he sure manages to leave out of town a lot to either do training or touring. So, I checked out.
Finding a job is 10 times more stressful because you have ghost posts, people who want to hire someone internally, scammers, or people want candidates to have 5+ years of experience, but would rather pay you under $15 an hour. I'm stuck and I don't want anything to do with the boss or his company. I told him specifically what I want in order to smooth things over, but he dismissed it. So, there's not a d*mn thing he can do to resolve this, but to get the h*ll out of my face and f*ck off. Yes, I am thankful he provided me a job when I was terminated from the last one due to covid. However, I don't owe him anything. He has been profiting off my hard work such as doing free labor at his "free the babies" organization that kinda flopped, and performing multiple roles at his practice. I'm just mentally tired and hurt from all of this. Never work for your friends.
Pile 2: you described me and my manager so accurately. The environment was toxic and I ultimately quit despite the great salary. I quit for myself and my manager. She was trying to work with the new environment and I didn’t want to mess her up when I knew I couldn’t function properly in that mess.
Pile 2 😊Thank you very much. Love this.🎉
Pile 1 - KM
Pile 2 - CK
2023.04.12
Resonated a lot! Thankss
Pile 2: Exactly! I work in a really toxic environment, I just try to survive🤪, sometimes I feel she's trying the same jaaaaa I hardly speak to people around cause they're trouble maker must of them. Well, lets see...or maybe not jiiiiii
Pile 3
Thank you 🙏
Pile 3: wow! I wanted to know because my manager has been very hands off since i started a couple of months ago. She is a libra, very people pleasing so it’s hard to *really* know how she thinks/feels. She is very empathetic to everyone but it is hard to really get ahold of her sometimes bc she manages two locations and is very busy. She took on being a leader and has drastically changed everything about the business for the better. I am 5 months into this job and it was challenging because I did have to learn a lot of new things like people skills/organization and time management. I still make mistakes but she has been not putting me down, always offering a helping hand the best she can (promise not always followed up on). But i do have to make mistakes and learn on my own a lot, but she sees that I am persistent and resilient and hard working. I think she sees potential and sees me as an investment. She may view me as hedonistic because i do take breaks when I need them and indulge in fun at the workplace. The mother might have come up because my job requires nurturing and she may see that in me. And she sees my desire to create and watch my skills grow.
Anyway this was so accurate and i got a lot out of this. I know I don’t need to worry about where i stand now and there’s a lot of possibilities from here for growth for myself and how i can make a difference where I work ❤
Amazing thank you!
No. 3: And, currently my job is trying to recreate the company from a clean slate. I'm not new to the actual field, but I am new to the new practice that they're implementing. I work as a Preschool Teacher and have been working at this new place for 3-4 months now (so, in this sense, I am a Fool, new), and this place said they implemented Reggio Emilia inspired curriculum in their teaching (traditional teaching schools i find too confining) but I am just burnt out because they have not given us the time to actually teach us how to start implementing it in the classroom. I've actually been calling out at least once this week because I'm just so burnt out from this field. They sell you on the ideal but in reality, it doesn't match and it just burns out teachers because we are not creatively supported to really nourish children in the classroom. HR ISSUE is so real - there are so many problems with the administrative staff that have been there for years, but apparently the owner is trying to clean everything out (what I've heard).
Pile 2, Just started new job
Pile one
Me and my mom work at the same hospital, but in different departments with different bosses. My best guess is that rumors started floating around about me an my mom not talking anymore(word spreads fast there lol) and that’s why my boss is viewing things that way lol.
Also, love how you say she wants to approach it from a floral place lol. Her name is literally a flower. Thank you! This brought a lot of clarity.
Pile 3- I had a terrible fight with my boss a couple weeks ago where we were shouting at each other, and I'm still shaken. He wants me gone. Interesting that he sees me as a mother, that's out of left field.
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Melissa I think this reading was for me. I have been teaching in Michigan and I moved to Vermont and it has been very difficult for me to problem-solve with the team. Their delivery of services is very outdated to me and the boss shed some light on the situation and told many people. It felt like a personal attack. It was a tough year. Very gossipy. I would be interested in a reading to see how I could have communicated better. The schools are very exhausting to me right now...
Pile #3 I just started my job interesting
Pile 2 accurate I am good at what I do at my job but they don't want to tell me how much of an asset i am. so energetically I feel like I'm taking a step back because they want me to break my back do x y and z and not give me my flowers. that I deserve I work beyond my limits because I love my job I love working with people I'm a fast learner but I'm constantly keep getting reminded that my job position is not so important for it to be value but I am needed there. It confusing. I ask for a rise nothing happen but yet I'm needed they value me but don't want to increase my pay and again they don't want to tell me how much of a value I am.. hmmmmm
And not only that I can pick up colleague's trying to compete with me at my workplace I can handle pressure very well I can handle lot of tasks I'm really good at multitasking. co-workers around me is trying to compete and then they get overwhelmed and they start talking crap I just don't like the drama
Thank you
Claiming pile 2 ❤❤❤ I’m Aquarius, too!
2 really useful tips
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Can u do friends as well
I was so mad at the situation that I was considered as doing nothing by the other important person of the company. So I was like “Oh fuck u I will find another job to do!”, already tried my best 🙂. I texted my boss that I wanted to quit because I couldnt do what I expected as well as took for granted for what I have done. He comforted me and explained so… its my story
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