Maina : Why can't society accept that some women just don't want to get married? Is it selfishness?

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  • @priscillaw1813
    @priscillaw1813 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    The moment you don't care what society thinks is when you start living. Do what makes you happy; single or married. Just be true to yourself.

  • @maggiemita5457
    @maggiemita5457 3 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Married men should now start wearing uniform coz outside their homes they say they are divorced 😂. Stop blaming the single ladies ati wanna nyemelea.

  • @mpendamuziki
    @mpendamuziki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Marriage is a choice, and no one should ever force you to make a choice you don't want. Two things in this life affects you the rest of your life: who you marry and who you have a child with. Those two things should be chosen carefully or not at all. And it's okay if you don't want either or all. Your peace of mind comes first.

  • @gikonyomercy8068
    @gikonyomercy8068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I love my peace too ,marriage madness is out of this world

    • @janefferwangui4511
      @janefferwangui4511 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Louder please

    • @gikonyomercy8068
      @gikonyomercy8068 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @janeffer, wait until you try this scam called marriage ,you will know better lol..... #my peace comes first

  • @fidekastar5600
    @fidekastar5600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Im not ready to get married in the rest of my life.I don't even dream

  • @joanolisa1
    @joanolisa1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The last caller nailed it. It’s a scam!! 14 years experience 🙂

  • @beatricewangui8343
    @beatricewangui8343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Marriage is by choice nowadays women choose to be happy and peace of mind

    • @OneLove-lc7os
      @OneLove-lc7os 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly 💯

    • @gachaujudy2443
      @gachaujudy2443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly baby girl the moment they choose to be infidel we decided not tolerate their noncence for we value our peace

    • @beatricewangui8343
      @beatricewangui8343 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kenyan men will never agree the fact that ladies can be single us long us we earn we don't do married men, and ur married learn to solve ur issues rather than going out there to seek sympathy

  • @kevohwapipelinetransami4351
    @kevohwapipelinetransami4351 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Great topic

  • @graciendungu3073
    @graciendungu3073 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wakanae hakosi kuwa na Karung'o 😂😂😂

  • @nyarsakwa1492
    @nyarsakwa1492 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Huyo mama anadai wanawake hawawezi ishi peke yao is soo silly, jiongelelee nani

  • @godsfavour5665
    @godsfavour5665 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mmmmh ni wale hawataki kuambiwa or to be corrected when they are wrong .but isokey if she is happy akiwa solo ni sawa

  • @agnesladasha5641
    @agnesladasha5641 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I like to do my own things I don't want stress

  • @user-wr9fn4ny4i
    @user-wr9fn4ny4i 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I understand, and that's the fact that women are independent and doing better than most men, but society will label you differently.Especially when you pass away, the burial site will be different from community to community. The kids you leave behind will also be labeled. I have seen those things with my own eyes.

  • @edwinmbugua7738
    @edwinmbugua7738 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Some ladies pretend a lot these days... The one shouting she needs no man you just give her a kiss and she starts shopping for a wedding gown. and as much as they don't need men, they still get screwed by men even more than the married ones. Stop living in denial.

    • @wanji6932
      @wanji6932 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂😂

    • @annkariuki22
      @annkariuki22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      We need men na hatukatai..but we don't need marriage

  • @bwanamkubwa6839
    @bwanamkubwa6839 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Let them be, so many marriages are staggering a lot with no help but just suffering

  • @nancywacera9869
    @nancywacera9869 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    We don't nyemelea wanaume,,,,,

  • @cikuciku2355
    @cikuciku2355 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It's very simple...I have watched and been watching the marriage madness that I see in our society and sometimes in our families and I end up wondering what's the point of getting married??...I recently watched several videos of some women back home formerly married but after 20 years of marriage they ended up divorcing after living a whole 20 years whole life in hell.....Personaly I don't worship marriages and am a Christian meaning hata boyfriend staki it's waste of time koz some of this men use some women as doormats it's something I see in my surroundings and I have serious self respect for myself ... it's ungodly to sleep around with men....
    Huyo mswahili akae na her opinion it's not making sense...... Marriage doesn't guarantee happiness especially based on the current microwave generation which is full of mpango wa Kando,,,kuchinjana madness and material minded people...Am happy solo period.Am one person who detest matharau and that is one thing mostly I see happening in married people,, and personally I can't stand even a single madharau, I will just woke out of marriage I just can't stand nonsense...Am so happy solo..

    • @nelsonmatia9574
      @nelsonmatia9574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Who hurt you so badly Mami?😥

    • @cikuciku2355
      @cikuciku2355 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@nelsonmatia9574 nobody and am not hurt it's just that I have watched many videos, have also observed myself for a long time how majority of women are suffering in the name of marriage and surely current marriages has no meaning....It's better to be single and happy and peaceful rather to be married and lonely and hurting....

    • @nelsonmatia9574
      @nelsonmatia9574 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@cikuciku2355 I hope one day you'll find true love. That time you'll never know what hit.

  • @magarematara8919
    @magarematara8919 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    There's one point here,no one is interested with them being single but these are the victims breaking many families snatching married men or young men in spoiling their future with alcohol n petty gifts to satisfy them sexually n when they're done with them wanatupwa out

    • @tafadhalijiheshimu6229
      @tafadhalijiheshimu6229 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      We can feel how you are happily in your madness marriage 😂😂😂. Heal mama

  • @beatemperor777
    @beatemperor777 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aishaaaaaaaa🔥🔥

  • @Mt0t0mzuri
    @Mt0t0mzuri 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Lucy might be experiencing post partum depression....my sista get help ata nimeshtuka! and if not baby blues unakaa na mtu unachukia hivo kwanini??? Empower yourself si lazima uishi na baba wa mtoi

  • @realitycheck9463
    @realitycheck9463 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I support her kwa hivyo mwananaume hajaoa give him a break

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Marriage to me it's a scam I'm extremely sorry 😐😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔😔 that's the bitter truth by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I don't want to get married period by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @africanqueenmo
    @africanqueenmo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The question should be why? If marriage is no longer an attractive option why get married? Men forgot a very important dimension of relationships. Its their job to attract the woman to be his mate for life. That's why a man proposes marriage to a woman. If he doesn't want to be married and doesn't make the effort or if what he is offering as a husband is a controlling mean arrogant or lazy partner then he wont attract a woman to be his wife.

  • @steveirungu3132
    @steveirungu3132 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Marriage is by choice by Steve Irungu Jermaine

  • @fidekastar5600
    @fidekastar5600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maina wewe umeoa ndo tuolewe?marriage is a scam

  • @nellielusitche3416
    @nellielusitche3416 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Men too opt not to marry

  • @larryachiya2475
    @larryachiya2475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Women?Men too. I am 33,not marrying anytime soon. I stopped having sex long ago. No relationship nonsense. Catch me dead doing that silly stuff 🚮

    • @tonymotokali2656
      @tonymotokali2656 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kwa hivo wewe ni mnyongaji hodari?

    • @shizma7917
      @shizma7917 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tonymotokali2656 😜🙂🤗

    • @larryachiya2475
      @larryachiya2475 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@tonymotokali2656 story ya pussy imetoka wapi morio? Ukikomaa akili, utaelewa sex sio mambo yote

    • @fidekastar5600
      @fidekastar5600 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me tooo

    • @jones290886
      @jones290886 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Keep going your own way brother. Let this garden tools sort themselves out. Bravo. #peace, quiet, freedom. No cohabitation, no long term relationship, no marriage.

  • @gachaujudy2443
    @gachaujudy2443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why not men ? They impregnate and run away from responsibilities you find he's a baby dad of more than five with different mother

    • @naomyachieng8444
      @naomyachieng8444 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      1:No man can impregnate you if you don't want
      2:Men never deny planned pregnancies......😎

    • @gachaujudy2443
      @gachaujudy2443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@naomyachieng8444 u have long way to go to be sophisticated and be a woman of understanding for not all single ladies are single by choice

  • @cozzya.m
    @cozzya.m 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The society today gave in so much for the girl child that she forgot her place in marriage. in tradition and the Bible dictates well Women submit to husbands. But the current women want to be the husbands and thus see like men are controlling them. Every woman is entitled to a marriage. and every time a doubt is in to something the devil and a woman is there. ""Genesis 3:1 Did God really say, ‘You must not eat from any tree in the garden??""To you too this applies sir

  • @TheRepublican254
    @TheRepublican254 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    That lady from Pwani said the truth kabisa... No woman can stay without a Man, unless she is lesbian...Lol..