Neither side was wrong besides her bringing him into her mess with Tim she wanted to wait then changed her mind it just happened after OP broke up with her. For him it looks like she never actually liked him sexually and it hurt his pride knowing she gave another guy the thing he wanted in months when he gave her 3 years of love/loyalty. Its his fault for waiting that long he isn't entitled to her body but he's not wrong in feeling how he felt. She's not in the wrong for changing her mind. She was wrong to lose it then try to run back to OP tho that was fucked up. EDIT finished video: She's the AH op being single invalidated her and she tried rubbing in the fact that she moved on to better thinking OP was still single and the second she found out he wasn't she tried to reel him back into her mess she loved the fact that he didn't move on and it hurt her pride knowing he moved on completely.
I believe it is his fault for entering a relationship despite being aware of the other person's reservations. However, it's understandable that he didn't fully grasp their significance until living with them long term. It's unfortunate for both of them, especially since she compromised her principles soon after their breakup. After a breakup, it's essential to avoid looking back or attempting to reconnect. Relationships end for a reason, and rekindling them often leads to emotional turmoil. The chances of both individuals being emotionally mature enough to rebuild a satisfying relationship after a break are low, making it hardly worth considering and likely to create a toxic cycle. Overall, OP handled the situation with care, It would be interesting to hear her perspective, as she appears to have some lingering thoughts.
Damn, even as an internet troll I have to agree this is a case of "seeing things in black in white" not realizing emotional complexity between individuals
There is always a human aspect involved; some people manage it better than others, but it is always present. Sometimes we agree to things and later realize they aren’t what we truly want to commit to. That’s just life. I believe it's his fault for knowing what he was getting into, yet he wasn't able to abide by the established boundaries. However, I don’t think all the blame can be placed on him. People change, and while the situation could have been handled better, attempting to make something work when two people have fundamentally different views often leads to an unfavorable outcome. They never should have been together in the first place; the best course of action after realizing that is to end the relationship.
Good for him. Don’t look back.
Neither side was wrong besides her bringing him into her mess with Tim she wanted to wait then changed her mind it just happened after OP broke up with her.
For him it looks like she never actually liked him sexually and it hurt his pride knowing she gave another guy the thing he wanted in months when he gave her 3 years of love/loyalty. Its his fault for waiting that long he isn't entitled to her body but he's not wrong in feeling how he felt. She's not in the wrong for changing her mind. She was wrong to lose it then try to run back to OP tho that was fucked up.
EDIT finished video: She's the AH op being single invalidated her and she tried rubbing in the fact that she moved on to better thinking OP was still single and the second she found out he wasn't she tried to reel him back into her mess she loved the fact that he didn't move on and it hurt her pride knowing he moved on completely.
I believe it is his fault for entering a relationship despite being aware of the other person's reservations. However, it's understandable that he didn't fully grasp their significance until living with them long term. It's unfortunate for both of them, especially since she compromised her principles soon after their breakup.
After a breakup, it's essential to avoid looking back or attempting to reconnect. Relationships end for a reason, and rekindling them often leads to emotional turmoil. The chances of both individuals being emotionally mature enough to rebuild a satisfying relationship after a break are low, making it hardly worth considering and likely to create a toxic cycle.
Overall, OP handled the situation with care, It would be interesting to hear her perspective, as she appears to have some lingering thoughts.
an incomplete woman with an incomplete list of principles
Damn, even as a dude I have to agree this is a case of "fragile male ego".
Wym?
Damn, even as an internet troll I have to agree this is a case of "seeing things in black in white" not realizing emotional complexity between individuals
💀💀💀
you know what you are right ... i hope you get what you want ... a woman who doesn't let you touch her .
There is always a human aspect involved; some people manage it better than others, but it is always present. Sometimes we agree to things and later realize they aren’t what we truly want to commit to. That’s just life. I believe it's his fault for knowing what he was getting into, yet he wasn't able to abide by the established boundaries. However, I don’t think all the blame can be placed on him. People change, and while the situation could have been handled better, attempting to make something work when two people have fundamentally different views often leads to an unfavorable outcome. They never should have been together in the first place; the best course of action after realizing that is to end the relationship.
She is glad that he wasn't seeing anyone else because it validated her choice