The97sPodcast EP 05 -All Relationships Are Transactional ?

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    The transactional mindset indicates that love is something to be given (when earned), and taken, as opposed to experienced and received. Love's highest ideal, and I would say true nature, is antithetical to transactional mindset because it is completely unconditional.
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ความคิดเห็น • 167

  • @patiencebarasa550
    @patiencebarasa550 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    Who doesn't love Frankie, smart guy!❤

  • @kelvinmuendo1001
    @kelvinmuendo1001 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Trevor ako very underrated Kwa hiyo discussion ya gender equality. Ukimskiza vipoa anamake sense

  • @user-ef9yv4jw9l
    @user-ef9yv4jw9l ปีที่แล้ว +45

    Frank did a good job on the gender equality debate 👏

  • @fellyngatia9045
    @fellyngatia9045 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Frank makes sense ..😂😂anashindwa kureason na ujinga ya trevor

  • @LizzyElly
    @LizzyElly ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Frank is spitting a lot of sense,I always look forward to hear his opinion on every topic,a well prepared man

  • @Flexofficiall1
    @Flexofficiall1 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    Frank's thinking is top tier,,, he has alot of information

  • @Only-leaks254
    @Only-leaks254 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    Daaamn,, gud work dudes,, NA MTURUDISHIE SANETE🔥🔥

    • @Young_ke
      @Young_ke ปีที่แล้ว

      walai Sane_te irudishwe😂😂

  • @eddiekimani1034
    @eddiekimani1034 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Reasoning ya Trevor ndio best hapa

  • @sskamaro3902
    @sskamaro3902 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Convo noma sana. Uyo boy wa kofia ako na potential ya radio

    • @milashe4920
      @milashe4920 ปีที่แล้ว

      Na si wote wanafanya kazi kwa radio😂😂😂😂😂

  • @Lengo06
    @Lengo06 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    From episode 1-5. Keep them coming. Ambieni Trevor hata kwa script hakuna perfect relationship 😂😂

    • @Shanks-L
      @Shanks-L ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Nani alikuacha🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @DianawanjiruKiarie
    @DianawanjiruKiarie ปีที่แล้ว +19

    This guys always hit it at a top notch 💯💯😎

  • @alexlegato3053
    @alexlegato3053 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Hii podcast ni moto😂na ikiongezewa kalala itakua more faiya💥

  • @joyaudrey4312
    @joyaudrey4312 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    But it's true..us ladies from as early as primary school unaambiwa usipatikane na watu wa nduthi...n kugrow up sahi unarealize hao watu wa nduthi most are even better than others who ain't trying...n these people ni watu wa kujituma💯💯..

  • @effiealacia9419
    @effiealacia9419 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Dan: Sa si unajua
    Trevor: Hatujui Dan😂😂

  • @97Abubakar
    @97Abubakar ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My love for Frank 😌❤️....say hae ata

  • @sharonnyaga4512
    @sharonnyaga4512 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    the process of transitioning is really hard, equal genders and gender roles as Africans ndo inatupull back kidogo, unajua mimi kama mdame I am brought up to not take a broke man, have my own money and still be a wife, so its kinda exhausting and very confusing and tiring sana

    • @wairimunjoroge9158
      @wairimunjoroge9158 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      in short, society rn is existing on double standards

  • @biwottk
    @biwottk 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i can relate buana mimi niliwahi date ex flani masake alimwambia date people from your own caliber si izi makondo hazina future....saa iyo nilikuwa naskia kusema meeeeeee alaaniwe uyo mama

  • @winniengambi8223
    @winniengambi8223 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    It's true the reason women hushangilia more when other women wakiwin is because yes, we are in the transition stage where it still feels like yes they got that opportunity, but they worked harder, that is how it feels....and yes, both genders are slowing down that process of accepting this change.

    • @josephgitau4023
      @josephgitau4023 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wewe umepotea😂😆

    • @mr_kuria9
      @mr_kuria9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Name one woman you are proud of, but i guess you are going to google it before or even if you are going to respond. Anyway you women don't support each other. When you guys are saying go girl but in reality you are busy in your husbands house cooking for him. After like 10yrs you'll hear the independent woman saying she is lonely but what do I know? Am not a woman anyways.

    • @winniengambi8223
      @winniengambi8223 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@mr_kuria9 Not far fetched, my mum. I am proud of my mum.

    • @winniengambi8223
      @winniengambi8223 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@mr_kuria9 Also, I think people get the term "independent women" all wrong. Doing or not doing house chores doesn't define independence. Independence means being self sufficient, even when you are with a partner. It means you are liberal-minded and liberal-spirited. It means you can survive on your own, you can make responsible decisions on your own, you can plan on your own life and still work towards it.

    • @mr_kuria9
      @mr_kuria9 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@winniengambi8223 I believe what you just explained is called been a grown up. Everybody needs to satisfy their needs for themselves the term independent brings about the idea of not needing anyone at all. You can't be independent and have a partner, that makes him your b*tch nothing less. My point being you can't be miss independent and have a man by your side. It doesn't work that way one of you have to submit to the other. More so look at your dad and your moms relationship one must submit to the other for it to work and you know it.

  • @kappah2542
    @kappah2542 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    😹cash crop za nyandarua si mliona ni manzi tuh amesupportiwa

  • @rosenimo9759
    @rosenimo9759 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I like Frank's thinking...😊

    • @TetuKE98
      @TetuKE98 ปีที่แล้ว

      Because he has simp features

    • @rosenimo9759
      @rosenimo9759 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@TetuKE98 and why are you bothered??

    • @TetuKE98
      @TetuKE98 ปีที่แล้ว

      We know you love such manipulatable simps

  • @Stayannshista
    @Stayannshista ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Love the show
    Would really want a session with you guys in one of your debates.....i really love such debates❤

  • @joanwanjiru6852
    @joanwanjiru6852 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yeaaa I too think love is transactional..
    Love the way Frank is thinking interms of gender equality 👏

  • @franklinmorara7262
    @franklinmorara7262 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Manze missing the sanete wadau rudisheni hio staff bana

  • @antonnielo
    @antonnielo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Enjoying the podcast

  • @yverfancie7520
    @yverfancie7520 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This channel....'issa to watch' list..😊

  • @betsykariuki2787
    @betsykariuki2787 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    ❤️favourite podcast

  • @ruthogendo2653
    @ruthogendo2653 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    ❤love this show

  • @kajuju3599
    @kajuju3599 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love the show ❤🇰🇪

  • @sheilaramato9477
    @sheilaramato9477 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Love this show❤

  • @rosenimo9759
    @rosenimo9759 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Keep up guys..we also miss sane_te

  • @kinkabu8640
    @kinkabu8640 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    frank na azin zake kila kitu azin 😂😂😂😂😂

    • @kellygithenji-wz8oz
      @kellygithenji-wz8oz ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Kama Dante na "Irregardless"😂😂😂

    • @kinkabu8640
      @kinkabu8640 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@kellygithenji-wz8oz 😂😂😂tuseme n content inaisha

  • @Hey.Its.LowKey
    @Hey.Its.LowKey ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Always a vibe💯

  • @baddiebooo
    @baddiebooo ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I wish Trevor was more open minded
    Like be willing to accommodate other people's ideas and thinking, your thinking is not always right.

    • @michellewanjiku4101
      @michellewanjiku4101 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He's committed to misunderstand Frank's opinions most of the time.

  • @user-ul6mt9sr8q
    @user-ul6mt9sr8q ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hii show nikiweza hata kuwatch ata sijui this guy are more than fun

  • @rosenimo9759
    @rosenimo9759 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The transition is slow on both sides..
    Men want to do 50,50 on the financial side but won't do 50,50 on house chores..
    Women want men to be helping in house chores and still be giving in 100%..
    ..we are just in the denial stage..it depends on how you agree with your partner..
    The western world has the gender equality but African side we are heading there coz we still have the mentality that we have been taught that woman is supposed to be a house wife and a man is supposed to provide 100%..#the african world is changing due to western culture exposure 😊

  • @user-iw6qm7ob4t
    @user-iw6qm7ob4t หลายเดือนก่อน

    You guys are amazing ❤❤❤

  • @jarrynejepkorir9216
    @jarrynejepkorir9216 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Frank is very educated. A smart man💯

  • @stinger_chronicles
    @stinger_chronicles ปีที่แล้ว +2

    mom/Dad I'm MAD😂😂 Trevor hio joke ni kali..ilibidi mpause ndio muelewe😂

  • @kariukimuthii6860
    @kariukimuthii6860 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Someone tell Dante to stop saying "irregardless"😂

  • @iaminvictus7708
    @iaminvictus7708 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    40-42 Adrew ameargue na frank na Dante is just there chilling 😂😂

  • @adongo0
    @adongo0 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hii pod ni kama Flagrant podcast kenyan version sasa. Loved it

  • @Vision-kl3mx
    @Vision-kl3mx ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Frank punguza izo ma azin azin azin azin Kila saa

  • @Ycee__.west._
    @Ycee__.west._ ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Kitu moja sure 👌💯

  • @marywaruguru7640
    @marywaruguru7640 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You guys are vibe😂

  • @wairimunjoroge9158
    @wairimunjoroge9158 ปีที่แล้ว

    i think haijacatch up kwa sababu there are people still hawajaabsorb the new situation. the need ya bado anafightiwa ni juu ka vile frank amesema, still kuna men and also women wenye wanafaa kukaa wakikumbushwa of the new world order. if all of us tuko kwa the same page, hakungekua na need ya women kua bado wanafightiwa kwa sababu at that time hakuna conflicts on the new order

  • @faithidah
    @faithidah ปีที่แล้ว

    Such thinking ya ooh hatutaki kuaccept this transition ndo inamake hii process ya transition inakuwa slow

  • @Nguri1
    @Nguri1 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dante is speaking sense madzeee 😂

  • @mr_kuria9
    @mr_kuria9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The thing is there will never be equality in this life, there can only exist equal opportunities.

  • @stanleymathenge6206
    @stanleymathenge6206 ปีที่แล้ว

    mrudishe kalala kwa shows zenu.... she was such a vibe

  • @andrewnjuguna8846
    @andrewnjuguna8846 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tuned in👊👊👊👊

  • @syphrosenafula2110
    @syphrosenafula2110 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Kudos gayz munadeserve love❤❤❤❤

  • @backkstreet_tk
    @backkstreet_tk ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mlisema hamtuletei king Kalala 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭

  • @otkk2022
    @otkk2022 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank akona Brains forr Dayss!!

  • @kaykenogo8110
    @kaykenogo8110 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    We have a long way to go when it comes to gender and equality in Kenya. And what that even looks like in our society. Women want to be compensated equally in the workplace and treated with an equal amount of respect and acknowledgement. No special treatment, no fucking participation awards. I just want an equal playing ground. I once knew a guy in my industry who simply could not take instructions from a woman, he would actually just ignore. We would have to speak through other men, to communicate with him. Now that is just ridiculous. At the same time there are women who genuinely believe all women belong at home and not in the work place. There are also certain jobs that prefer hiring a woman to man. Like mortuaries prefer to hire women, because apparently men where known to have sex with the dead bodies. Care takers and nurses are also preferably female.

  • @osendiemmanuel3727
    @osendiemmanuel3727 ปีที่แล้ว

    Poor n rich background ilikuwa on 🔥🔥🔥 malizieni

  • @user-ki9dc9mt9f
    @user-ki9dc9mt9f ปีที่แล้ว

    Frank, I love your mind❣

  • @isaacbwire3414
    @isaacbwire3414 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    😂😂😂mliamua kulima watu points nawasalute

  • @chadwi1k
    @chadwi1k ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Tukiendelea kupigania madem,with time watasupercede machali,tujipate tena tunapigania equality ya machali😁

  • @brianlumumba7116
    @brianlumumba7116 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    First to comment i need a like......😉

  • @elizabethmutheu2315
    @elizabethmutheu2315 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I think independence is going the long way to be self-stable without receiving any favour regarding your gender.

  • @resqiuterkinagu9988
    @resqiuterkinagu9988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mlete kalala plz

  • @briannyerere4374
    @briannyerere4374 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    frank niambie story ya judges in the bible kulikua na women ni point of view tu ndo mbaya we suffering from the viewing point somebody started selling this story to everyone from their point of view and most people are buying it. GENDER EQUALITY NI UPUZI TU ...EXPERIENCE EXPERTISE NA SKILLSET KAMA HUMANS JUU TUKO FREE WORLD.

  • @user-qg4hy5ei9s
    @user-qg4hy5ei9s ปีที่แล้ว +3

    🎉

  • @lucymutinda5936
    @lucymutinda5936 ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤ vile Mimi upenda show za Hawa wasee

  • @CorneliusIndeche
    @CorneliusIndeche 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    fire

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    U guys r 🔥🔥 nawalove❤❤

  • @baddiebooo
    @baddiebooo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Frank is very reasonable btw💯

  • @papichulojnr6242
    @papichulojnr6242 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Threemenarmy💪

  • @emmanuelngugi5778
    @emmanuelngugi5778 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    juu ya gender equality😂😂ekeni dem kwa hio podcast

  • @janetmulatya1599
    @janetmulatya1599 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Big mom bazuu 🤣🤣🤣madam thanos🤣🤣🤣Queen fathela🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @selineimbayi3363
    @selineimbayi3363 ปีที่แล้ว

    The topic is lit

  • @Jace_Don
    @Jace_Don 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    sikuwa nimechekii hii episode lakini imefanya frank ukue na ngoto zangu....mazee like b*tches be always wanting without fighting yet they wanna get in the game....kwanza iyo story ya marks za kuingia machuo inakuwanga ubloody....it should be very simple nyi ndio hamuelewi Tee....if you wanna be in the game fight for the game then

  • @teresiamaina8235
    @teresiamaina8235 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Manze nashinda tu nimechill mpost episode ingine ....

  • @sophiaalistides6700
    @sophiaalistides6700 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank na az in az az in az in😂😂😂😂😂

  • @alexodera1445
    @alexodera1445 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Independent woman si inaweza kuwa manzi ayuko under provisions of a man

  • @deborahomache2382
    @deborahomache2382 ปีที่แล้ว

    Naonelea nmiongeze kwa hii podcast for gender equity i talk on behalf of women Tafadhali

  • @atmankaranja254
    @atmankaranja254 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Na btw juu ulikuwa msee dedicated kwa church,,, hizo picha hua tunapigwa kwa Kanisa hua zinapelekwa wapi

  • @MellisaAdhiambo
    @MellisaAdhiambo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    aki Trevor na Dante😂😂😂

  • @focusvisualstudio
    @focusvisualstudio ปีที่แล้ว +1

    𝐖𝐀𝐙𝐈𝐓𝐎𝐎𝐎!!!

  • @gideonkipkorir-lu6rb
    @gideonkipkorir-lu6rb ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dante ati pewa tong😂😂

  • @sirog14.
    @sirog14. ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This whole thing of Gender equality iko slow.
    Ukicheki hadi shule, for example university course choice, why would ladies be given lower cutoff points than men?
    Hakuna gender equality, it's ladies being favoured and that makes them even lazy Juu wanajua watapewa priority.
    Equality to me means we go to the same battle field and whoever wins wins.
    Men and women can never be equal. The way we handle situations and control our emotions is very different.
    Women want to be given same priorities as men but tukifika job wanaanza kusema wananyesha wanafaa wapewe Day off for that, seriously?

    • @mr_kuria9
      @mr_kuria9 ปีที่แล้ว

      I hear you my guy and the thing is equality can never exist in this world in all perspectives of life. The only thing they or we should be fighting for is equal opportunity or simply equity.

    • @faithidah
      @faithidah ปีที่แล้ว

      That's why there's a difference between equity and equality...equity is what yall are saying like your view but equality is now provision of equal opportunity

    • @mr_kuria9
      @mr_kuria9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@faithidah I agree with you when it comes to equality that is same opportunity for all. I had it all wrong but women tend to be given a headstart which shouldn't be there at all, if we are competing for the best good looking man of all time then let our own physique define us period!

  • @Balozi-fs7hw
    @Balozi-fs7hw ปีที่แล้ว

    episode 5 n moto , mrudishe Sane -te

  • @serah32
    @serah32 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frankie understands it, Trevor on the other hand is a lost cause as Frankie stated he know what he is saying is true but does not want to agree with him.

  • @Cheche_tete
    @Cheche_tete ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wapi kalala?

  • @stacymukina
    @stacymukina ปีที่แล้ว

    And again it was lit😘

  • @martinkinyanjui8982
    @martinkinyanjui8982 ปีที่แล้ว

    Top notch 💟💥

  • @markochieng5171
    @markochieng5171 ปีที่แล้ว

    Heri ivo kalala hakua hii podcast😂ingekua vita

  • @peterrotumoi622
    @peterrotumoi622 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    the world already transitioned.. ukiangalia hata stats, majority of the graduates from primary to tertiary institutions are female.. the world is woke... ni few elements tu...

  • @kemuntotashie2390
    @kemuntotashie2390 ปีที่แล้ว

    This people finish me😂😂😂😂😂aki nangojanga uploads zao😅😅

  • @albanusmutua5576
    @albanusmutua5576 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ati flirty Carlos 😂😂😂😂🔥🔥

  • @lauraluduba4052
    @lauraluduba4052 ปีที่แล้ว

    Waiting for next episode...

  • @nsoromma7
    @nsoromma7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Frank ❤

  • @wairimunjoroge9158
    @wairimunjoroge9158 ปีที่แล้ว

    Juu ya hio story ya gender, apo kunafaa kua na dem, you know kutetea mbona ako celebrated kujinunulia iphone

  • @brendamwende348
    @brendamwende348 ปีที่แล้ว

    Na mlete kalala bana 🤣🤣

  • @estheronyoni5863
    @estheronyoni5863 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Trevor my husband 😂nikatae nikuroge😂😂😂

  • @paulmaturu9234
    @paulmaturu9234 ปีที่แล้ว

    there is an important role that women rep offer .

  • @karynwaithera2250
    @karynwaithera2250 ปีที่แล้ว

    because you are the man, you are the one chasing or looking for a future wife and not the other way round hence the taking care of the woman

  • @GasGarage_GG
    @GasGarage_GG ปีที่แล้ว

    ukiona dante amenyamaza ujue mambo yamechemka 😂😂

  • @monicahwangechi
    @monicahwangechi ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Nice episode👌
    But you need a lady's perspective in such topics

  • @charliecharlie764
    @charliecharlie764 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dante 'kisa na maana'' ulitoa kwa dj afro,,,,😆😆 hujawai move on😆