Lessons from the TikTok Dater Disaster | Part 1

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  • @khadishab2745
    @khadishab2745 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +282

    From the first couple seconds in I was like Tony is probably crying listening to this 😂. She made every single mistake that you spoke to us about omgg

    • @chameljackson4512
      @chameljackson4512 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Right lol. I was waiting for his video

    • @Rachel-ze8ne
      @Rachel-ze8ne 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      yes!! i was waiting for his discussion!

    • @igtglondon
      @igtglondon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      Tony was giving me a blow for blow commentary as I was watching this train wreck😅😅😅 from the 3B's to online dating, to shacking up and desperation.
      I was not alone

    • @Ninjaturtle9610
      @Ninjaturtle9610 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Same!! I have been waiting for his response😂

    • @shatariawilliams8830
      @shatariawilliams8830 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      My ADHD wouldn’t let me watch it 😩🤦🏽‍♀️ lol but listening to everyone videos I said self. Uncle/Brother Tony Gaskin told us not to be desperate or ignore the red flags 💯🤣🤣

  • @manoniemoments
    @manoniemoments 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +99

    “Desperation in love is a weak emotion, and it produces weak results.”

  • @kiwthebeauty
    @kiwthebeauty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +98

    Tony one thing about RessaTessa - she took full accountability that she just ignore the flags because she just wanted it to be “her turn” and she said her self esteem wasn’t the best. I love she admitted her faults in this.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I appreciated this about her as well, but my heart hurts for her. It still does!😢

  • @jessicascreenwritingservices
    @jessicascreenwritingservices 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +200

    The other thing too Tony is that he was paying all the bills and she had stars in her eyes from that alone. She was easily impressed, which is extremely dangerous

    • @GenChanger
      @GenChanger 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yep. I suspect that at the beginning, he was paying bills using other people's money that he scammed. That's part of the overall scam and always works when the victims themselves are impressionable or greedy.

    • @jessicascreenwritingservices
      @jessicascreenwritingservices 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@GenChanger yeah that’s the only explanation that makes sense because if he was just a temp worker it would explain how he had money to be paying literally ALL the bills. He had to be out here scamming

    • @FitLifebyKC
      @FitLifebyKC 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      ​@@GenChangerjust like the Tinder Swindler.

    • @kiwthebeauty
      @kiwthebeauty 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      But he was paying a 3bdrm for less than $1k and her car note was affordable to him. So he said he rather pay $1400 a month for a permanent place to stay…I think he couldn’t get his own permanent place and couldn’t stay with relatives.

    • @Gomlie1970
      @Gomlie1970 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is sooo true

  • @kimberlym.3754
    @kimberlym.3754 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +173

    “Arena football get paid in peanut butter & jelly sandwiches” 😂😂😂😂

  • @AB-th4xk
    @AB-th4xk 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +129

    I’m single 37 & no kids with a home. I feel much safer than living in an apartment next to tons of strangers in & out.🤷🏽‍♀️If I marry, I’ll rent my home out & keep it in case I ever need to move back. Simple.

    • @Amazing9497
      @Amazing9497 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

      Built/purchased 2 homes prior to meeting my hubby. He was renting when we met, then we purchased a home together and I sold my home. There are always exceptions to the rules Tony teaches, and he says that as well. I’d rather invest in a home than rent at any point in my life, regardless of my marital status.

    • @MayaKanaKa
      @MayaKanaKa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      I understand where he is coming from, it is the ideal but it does not work for everyone. I m single woman, no children and I own my house. It was cheap for me to own than renting in my area. The houses appreciate a lot. When I get married I will rent it out or sell it.

    • @Leovibes8.12
      @Leovibes8.12 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hn8032facts!!

    • @thembisamakhoba1606
      @thembisamakhoba1606 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Totally agree there is absolutely nothing wrong with buying yourself a house. The desire of marriage should not keep u from living life to the full. U cannot not put your life on hold for a man who is not yet there in your life.

    • @julianagarces2389
      @julianagarces2389 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think he’s talking to recent grads that are working the corporate grind and looking at investing in a house as the next step in life instead of marriage as the next step. Obviously at 37 you’re at a different place

  • @MeeksGlow
    @MeeksGlow 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +52

    Tony might tell a joke but he will never tell a lie

  • @kimbery_love
    @kimbery_love 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    Tony Gaskins is the big brother I never knew I needed 😂😂😂He has NOT told one lie yetttt☝🏽

  • @sljcsu
    @sljcsu 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    This is why I love Tony!! He broke down a 5 hour series in the 1st 10 minutes of his video!!!!❤

  • @Kaytjackson
    @Kaytjackson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    " you change a couple things and the story wouldn't have happened "! Literally said the samething

  • @ellee.444
    @ellee.444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    The 50 parts are ALL worth it! It was one thing after another.

  • @LizNeptune
    @LizNeptune 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    “Hes a stumbling block for you, you’re a stepping stone for him” WHEW !

  • @scllgst1
    @scllgst1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    🤣😂🤣 she got a book deal coming!! Trust me!!

    • @ChiChick312
      @ChiChick312 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      i am really unsure of who would read that. same story over and over with a different lie

    • @dreadreya
      @dreadreya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Netflix series

  • @tamekaallen7023
    @tamekaallen7023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    The ONLY was you can protect yourself from a narcissist bum is to have STANDARDS! Buying my house 16 years ago while single was the best thing I ever could’ve done. It’s almost paid for and my kids and I will always have a place to come back to. I got married last year and we are in the market for a better house. Ladies, buy that house! It’s not a permanent situation, you can always sell it or rent it out if needed!

  • @graceg9429
    @graceg9429 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    When I first started watching that story, I thought about every reason why Tony said to never do online dating. I was waiting on this video 😂

  • @Kaytjackson
    @Kaytjackson 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    If I had your teachings, it would've saved me almost 20 years of my life!

  • @lelo46
    @lelo46 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    I disagree highly with the buying a house segment.
    I purchased 2 homes over the last 5 years and both have been serving me so well. I am able to live comfortably. Also, the idea that my 1800 is no longer going to someone else mortgage is soooooo satisfying. Once I move from this home, I can easily sell it or rent it out. Which helps me drastically. I wouldn’t dare make any life changing beneficial decisions with a future partner in mind. I really wish you wouldn’t have said that. Prevents a lot of women from homeownership

    • @MrsBrownBombshell
      @MrsBrownBombshell 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly! Have discernment when “said bum” comes along! Duh

    • @dr.majidahsmith9006
      @dr.majidahsmith9006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I disagree with Tony on this also. Renting is throwing away your money. These landlords are not it for me. I'm glad I'm in my own house.

  • @fn4412
    @fn4412 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    💯 Mr. Gaskins..."There are NO GOOD MEN ON ONLINE DATING!!! LADIES, YOU HAVE BEEN WARNED!!!! IT IS ON YOU FROM HERE ON OUT & YOU GET WHAT YOU GET!!!!! PERIOD!!!

  • @tarahbruno3793
    @tarahbruno3793 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Tony told us about online dating since day one! It’s a scam, ladies don’t ever do it

  • @brittenyevans1101
    @brittenyevans1101 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    It was a cautionary tale for many women. And a textbook full of lessons. Tony is right. From the tire blowing out on the first date "divine intervention" . To him moving in after two weeks , all the red flags were there.

  • @PCF09
    @PCF09 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

    "Idc about Yo cousin husband" 🤣🤣🤣 that hurt me. I have a cousin and a friend who met their husbands online

    • @dr.majidahsmith9006
      @dr.majidahsmith9006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I disagree with Tony cause online is a great way to meet people if you are a busy person.

  • @carlottaberry6527
    @carlottaberry6527 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Serial watching while eating dinner. Maaan! You are so right. A few years ago I met a person-and that’s exactly what he was. I already had him “peeped” out. He just didn’t know I already knew he was a narcissistic bum looking for a place to stay. I quietly ghosted him.

  • @rowena6872
    @rowena6872 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Tony's impression on women always gets me 😂😂

  • @sarahjean-paul4979
    @sarahjean-paul4979 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I've been stalking Tony's chanel like a hawk for the past few days. Waiting for this video to pop up!! 🤸🏾‍♀️🤸🏾‍♀️

  • @aubreysellssofl
    @aubreysellssofl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    And he absolutely was trying to see if she would just say…I’ll get the house.

  • @We-Win-n-The-End
    @We-Win-n-The-End 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Brother Tony, I recently met and communicated with for about 2-3 weeks.. One day he called me and told me his 2 year old son's mom lost custody of her son to DSS and told me he wanted the lady at DSS to call me to take in his son because her auntie didn't want to take care of him anymore.. Then he said he would have to stay with him if DSS let him stay with me so he would need to move in with his son.. Brother Tony, I gave him my blessings and prayers and blocked him.. It's horrible out here.. But I honestly prayed for them all because the little man needs both of his parents to be at their best.. I truly pray for the best for them all.. But NEVER 💯

    • @MayaKanaKa
      @MayaKanaKa 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      OMG, did he really have the guts to ask you that?? People are crazy….

  • @MiraclesandMessages333
    @MiraclesandMessages333 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    One thing i can say is thay her humility in telling this situation will definitely exalt her 😂.. she's entering into all kinds of monetization !

  • @thebarbieinvestor5428
    @thebarbieinvestor5428 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    One thing I learned from life and Tony is… DO NOT ONLINE DATE!!!

  • @lydiamyers6234
    @lydiamyers6234 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    I finished it! Was amazing. Glad she told her story. Lord of lessons.

    • @Sherri_326
      @Sherri_326 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Where can I listen?
      Thank you.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Sherri_326Who TF Did I Marry on YT. All 50 videos are all in two videos.

  • @aubreysellssofl
    @aubreysellssofl 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    I’m about to listen to TG part one but I said to myself on Monday…ain’t no way he is going to get thru 52 parts and give us his insight. So I’m already proud of this first video 😂

  • @theamazingallens2324
    @theamazingallens2324 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Tony you hit the nail on the head... I was 20 mins in and said noooo ma'am this can't be real ... I got a summary of it all. Because it was no way I was going to be that vested in that toxic foolishness. I PRAY SHE GET ALL THE HELP SHE NEEDS AND OTHER WOMEN RUN IF THEY IN A SITUATION LIKE THIS BECAUSE I COULDN'T LISTEN PAST 20 MINS 🥴😩

  • @kayjeffs3741
    @kayjeffs3741 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

    I knew Tony was coming with it...he done told yall not to online date nie

    • @intentionalgreatness
      @intentionalgreatness 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      The "nie" took me out😂😂. He sure do tell us everytime.

  • @carisma8662
    @carisma8662 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Theses men are also in person Tony 😮
    However my discernment is so high he was cut within 2 weeks!
    But I agree Tony, no online dating 😊😂

  • @khadishab2745
    @khadishab2745 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +109

    When she said she was sad about not being married after so long, I was thinking that if she had taken the year that she wasted with him to get her body and money right she may have met her husband by now with no trauma... sighh...😢

    • @jessicascreenwritingservices
      @jessicascreenwritingservices 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Right! Those three B’s are essential

    • @Micahsophia
      @Micahsophia 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Exactly her focus was everywhere else but herself

    • @MorganTracyJ
      @MorganTracyJ 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Oopp👀👀

    • @roshellfrancisjones
      @roshellfrancisjones 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Her body and money wasn’t the issue. It was her poor decision making. Women with great bodies and PhDs fall for this crap too! It’s really disappointing that people, including Tony, are attributing what happened to this woman to her looks. Very shallow!

    • @ieshjust16
      @ieshjust16 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ​@roshellfrancisjones her body was definitely a reason this happened

  • @Twister_numba24
    @Twister_numba24 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Tony...... periot!!!!!!! 😂😂😂😂 I entertained online dating for one week last year; I met a nice guy. We talked for two hours on the phone and at the end of the conversation he told me he didn't have a car...I deleted his number and blocked him.😅That was my first and last experience with online dating!!!!!!!!!
    The fact that this woman kept falling for his lies is what made me angry, and I listen to all 52 parts. This man lied about everything about himself, but there were so many red flags. Her desperation would not allow her to accept it. It was horrible.🚩🚩🚩🚩

  • @ChiChick312
    @ChiChick312 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    AGREE. Brains, Body, and Brand should really be worked on before trying to be serious with anyone that might be a good fit

  • @Angie-kn8nd
    @Angie-kn8nd 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thanks for the truth - ladies let’s get out physical, mental and spiritual look together then go out and find your vibrational match

  • @relaxx..idareyou9952
    @relaxx..idareyou9952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Tony be having me crying 🤣 I'm so glad he is covering this.

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Tony said, you shouldn't date until you're 80% where you want to be. Facts! I always say I don't need a boyfriend right now Im working on me.

  • @AngelasTravelAdventures
    @AngelasTravelAdventures 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    I know a few people that me their husbands online and are doing well, I also know people who didn't meet their husbands online and are doing horrible 🤷🏿‍♀️. Regardless of how you meet them, choose wisely , pray about it and TAKE your time.

  • @crispblox3000
    @crispblox3000 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    Ladies, BUY THE HOUSE and trust God to send you a Godly man who will not seek to take advantage of you. Amen (so be it).

    • @MrsBrownBombshell
      @MrsBrownBombshell 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Exactlyyyy!

    • @dr.majidahsmith9006
      @dr.majidahsmith9006 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Amen. I'm not throwing away money renting. These landlords are greedy and can raise rent on you for no reason. As least a mortgage helps you.

  • @Tricey.89
    @Tricey.89 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    All your points are valid (tho I don’t like to say ALLL men that approach women from internet are not good). She moved faster than she could ask question. Great thing is, throughout the 50 episodes she does take accountability to wanting it to be her turn and running past the red flags. She also made a video about a comment that said “do you really thing a VP would go after a woman who look like you?”.

  • @lifeventures6651
    @lifeventures6651 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    LOL! Agreed. U can get through it. She’s a good narrator. I just did it while working, chores, etc. It’s one of the craziest stories I’ve heard yet IF it’s true. Even if it’s not, someone has experienced it with a pathological liar. Phew…yeah she needs to write the book and get paid for it

    • @BellaKayeLLard
      @BellaKayeLLard 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      She definitely is a good narrator! I did watch her on somebody's live but I have a tendency to watch in double time speed.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Tamron Hall said they vetted her story to make sure it was true before they had her on and I imagine Good Morning America did as well! But the level of detail that she had an all 50 videos shows you she’s not lying! Because she would be on video 42 and and refer to a previous video like one through five. You only can do that if you’re telling the truth!

  • @courtnimichelle85
    @courtnimichelle85 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Man….Him trying to get her to drop her guards totally went over my head. You are so right!

  • @tvlacy
    @tvlacy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    "Paid in PB&J samiches. 😂😂😂😂" Tony is a comedian. 😂😂😂

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve been seeing the story go around, but I refuse to get on TikTok, so I just ignored it. But I found it on TH-cam and this is typically not my personality to watch stuff like this, but when I tell you all, I was fully invested after part one. I watched all 7 1/2 hours in one day. Yes, it’s embarrassing but I did! I’m speechless, absolutely speechless!!! I am grateful that I have self-worth!

  • @thasfun
    @thasfun 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    The 1st mistake she made is one a lot of women make. CHASIN' paper. It will always get you caught up in doing stuff you would have never done.

  • @kingskidtvbrandiva
    @kingskidtvbrandiva 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    The first thing that I said was “I’ll bet she reads those fictional romance books.” She reminds me of someone that I know that lived their life through those dog gone books.
    Then she lost me when she said she met him online, dated 2 weeks, and moved him in because she didn’t want to quarantine alone. Chile, my brain just couldn’t grasp that concept.smh

  • @cozymelodiccorner
    @cozymelodiccorner 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I've never been this productive while working as I have with listening to her story. It literally reminds me of what I went through with my ex-husband who was also a narcissist. I'm on Part 35 🤣🤣 I have taken additional notes from her story and make sure to avoid doing when I date again. She does take accountability on areas where she know she messed up at and that 's what like about her story as well. It reminds me of your 4 hour live videos because it's very educational and entertaining 🥰🥰🤣

  • @adorekaniyah4741
    @adorekaniyah4741 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    y’all in the comments saying “ oh she knew she was desperate” we are allowed to make mistakes. didn’t know you all were perfect.

  • @esther4844
    @esther4844 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    Yep first red flag was fb dating site! Nope!

  • @beingindymendy
    @beingindymendy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your commentary is making me laugh 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @chandra_d
    @chandra_d 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That man lied about EVERYTHING…it gets worse towards the end.

    • @mymakersdaughter6041
      @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I didn’t think it could get any worse! And then it did in the last few videos! That literally was some messed up stuff that I still can’t wrap my head around! 🤯

  • @beingindymendy
    @beingindymendy 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Everything you said was spot on

  • @brownsugarglamour
    @brownsugarglamour 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    There’s a cliff notes write up if you don’t want to watch all the way through Tony , cause I didn’t 😂😂😂

  • @danyelgarcia3689
    @danyelgarcia3689 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Woah! Please please please listen to some more and comment on it cause you ain't tell one lie. So please do it for us. This is like a cautionary tale and some of us unfortunately got to live it but others of us can hear it and stay far from it.

  • @jay_hovita
    @jay_hovita 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This is funny as hell, Tony 🤣🤣🤣🤣 but I def got the lesson in this one.

  • @MissPrettySweetC
    @MissPrettySweetC 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    😂 Please watch all parts TG!!! It's so interesting. Also the way he looks now is not how he looked then. She said he wore a 3x before he started getting sick.

    • @cozymelodiccorner
      @cozymelodiccorner 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Absolutely!!!🤣🤣

    • @sashabell9871
      @sashabell9871 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      What the name of this TikTok? I would like to check it out myself

    • @dreadreya
      @dreadreya 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@sashabell9871The page is ReesaTeesa and the series is “Who TF did i marry?”

  • @AidaRivera
    @AidaRivera 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    “Don’t online date”
    Tony is speaking facts!!!

  • @Insightful_Locs
    @Insightful_Locs 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I knew Tony was going to make a video about that whole TikTok story😂 and I just knew he was gonna start shitting on online dating 😅😅 but he’s not wrong, 99.9% of guys online are losers

  • @Gloria_All_Day
    @Gloria_All_Day 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Tony, thank you so much for keeping me single. I am happier and happier each day!

  • @kimdavis8397
    @kimdavis8397 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are stating facts...First..there are no men in Atlanta that are serious about relationships, Second:You can't be desperate in 2024.

  • @Carolina480
    @Carolina480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    YES 👏 MEN ARE USERS MEN WILL PRETEND HE CARES FOR YUO BUT HE WANTS YUOR MONEY

  • @kiarasteel9542
    @kiarasteel9542 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    As long as I’ve been watching you, how I missed you telling us not to get a house if we’re single and want marriage 😭 I done messed up already 😂

    • @heyyourebeautiful3867
      @heyyourebeautiful3867 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

      No you didn't. Once you get a husband, he is supposed to buy a place for you two to live. Keep the house (don't add him to it) and rent it out.

    • @kiarasteel9542
      @kiarasteel9542 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heyyourebeautiful3867 🎯🎯🎯 you got it! Idk why that didn’t cross my mind lol thank you so much!

    • @ButterCookie1984
      @ButterCookie1984 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@heyyourebeautiful3867Yes. Exactly. I will be buying my home and will still be looking to marry.

    • @JB-ro7kq
      @JB-ro7kq 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@heyyourebeautiful3867🙌🏾 yesss..Tony trippin a lil on that one

  • @RRthee1
    @RRthee1 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Please watch it all?! 😂😂 It's a lot but your commentary will be priceless! 😭🤭

  • @anik6523
    @anik6523 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    “You’re desperate” is all I kept hearing in ur voicr

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      she admitted that in the first video Tony wasn't lying

    • @anik6523
      @anik6523 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@hellothere8347 yea I must’ve not heard that part cuz in my head I’m like ain’t no way. But Ik in the thick of it it’s easy to be misled.

  • @abigaila2024
    @abigaila2024 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tony you need to watch the story from the women called “the lies he told” she didn’t meet him online. She met him in person, but yes she was desperate too and let him move in lol and she googled everything.

  • @Desie380
    @Desie380 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Is funny because I wanted to hear his feedback😂. This story proved to me Tony is 1,000% right. The entire time I was listening to her I was thinking about Tony 😂

  • @Alysssa_xxo
    @Alysssa_xxo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    tonyyyy!! whole time i was dying laughing thinking bout you and what you been telling us!! SPEAK ON IT!! 🗣️😂😂💯

  • @temekiawilliams8467
    @temekiawilliams8467 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Tony be on it! 😂 i knew he was gone say something about that online dating ❤

  • @aliciamartin5501
    @aliciamartin5501 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    😂😂I'm on my lunch break at work and I just love Tony!! I be waiting to laugh when he imitate others. Keep allowing God to use you!!🙌❤️🙏

  • @maureensimmons
    @maureensimmons 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    "Paid in peanut butter and jelly sandwiches".... I'm done! Bye Tony!!! LOL!!!!

  • @carlottaberry6527
    @carlottaberry6527 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    …401ks, pension, health benefits. They out there and they lookin’! Wow, Tony! You are 110% correct! Lol! So funny! Not complicated at all.

  • @listeningviayoutube7229
    @listeningviayoutube7229 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Tony, FACTS regarding her being desperate and your view about the 99.999% of men who are online "dating".

  • @jehannedufresne3998
    @jehannedufresne3998 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Yesss, Tony you'rw watching this saga! 👏🏽 👏🏽 👏🏽 I think it's worth watching the whole videos; plenty of materrials for TH-cam conten. Might as well ne compensated! Her storytelling is good and the type where I could get my work outs, running errands, did laundry, folded my clean clothes, wash dirty dishes, decluttered my home all while listening. Sister girl helped me get more productive!
    I have a question; with the look compatible theory, the guy is heavy set, 3XL; so by their physics only, why wouldn't they be look compatible?

    • @TheGoodLifeStarterPack
      @TheGoodLifeStarterPack 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think in her case, they were more or less looks compatible, but you have to take all of the facts and circumstances into account: she had a larger home that would have been an asset to someone living in a studio; she had a more stable income; the ability to buy a home on her own; had family and friends/support system that cared about her, etc.
      He had a lot more to gain from their relationship with her, and he guessed right. Rather than fact checking what he told her and looking at his character, she was impressed by his arena football career, VP job, and the bills he paid. All of which was a mirage that blew up in her face. ☹️

    • @jehannedufresne3998
      @jehannedufresne3998 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @sharifa434 yes,,I agree with everything you wrote. I'm still stuck on the looks, though: to me, both of their physical looks together looked compatible. Of course, it didn't help she was desperate 🙄

  • @teenicole288
    @teenicole288 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Play it on double speed so you can get thru it faster😂 I instantly thought of you as soon as she said “I met him online” 🥴

  • @coachjessicarich
    @coachjessicarich 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You only got through a few parts and already got some great points for us. We definitely need your series!

  • @jellygurl27
    @jellygurl27 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tony yoy gotta listen to all the parts because in this story he had money and she didn't. He paid all of her bills in the beginning.

  • @carlottaberry6527
    @carlottaberry6527 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That’s it! “You are trying me….” Get up out my face!

  • @ellee.444
    @ellee.444 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I feel like that’s my life. Change 1-2 things and I wouldn’t have went thru what I went thru 💀💀😂😂

  • @sukithemoon
    @sukithemoon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    12:54 Tony impersonating then stubborn women is so funny 😂😂

  • @danishouse6608
    @danishouse6608 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I usually agree with mostly what Tony says. I’m not gonna not purchase a home because I desire to be married especially if I don’t have any current prospects. When the time comes I can always sale my home and we get something together.

  • @stellabellafontay9366
    @stellabellafontay9366 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The online dating thing...hmmm. I know too many success stories for that to be true. There's definitely an imbalance of good men to good women in online dating but the men aren't all trash. I do appreciate your perspective.

  • @jessikaaubrey2611
    @jessikaaubrey2611 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Finish it Tony!! Please 😂😂😂 just do the playback speed of 1.5x

  • @CurvyKeto
    @CurvyKeto 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    TONYYYYY, thank you for the videos. It helps me get through work. Damn, I need to share my story too, I was green and slow like a turtle for 14 years😂😂😂

  • @CoachCreesh
    @CoachCreesh 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Some of those laughing and judging her have been tricked by a narcissist but are too shame to admit it or they're currently entertaining a sociopath and don't know it or they'll marry or become entangled with a psychopath in the future🤷🏾‍♀️ simply out of their arrogance and ignorance. Wisdon says, istead of judging her, LISTEN and LEARN. These DEMONS are everywhere and they're ROAMING to and fro seeking whom they may devour!

  • @Journeywithsash
    @Journeywithsash 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    😂😂😂😂😂 I have been waiting on Tony’s reaction like crazzyy!!!! 😅

  • @kanydiabradley3202
    @kanydiabradley3202 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It’s crazy that you made a video, as I was watching her and she mentioned she met him on fb, in my head I’m like “tony been saying don’t do no online dating”🤦🏽‍♀️😭

  • @docdugo1409
    @docdugo1409 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The previous wife didn’t online date. The story still happened.

  • @justliss1827
    @justliss1827 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I can't listen to her series. People have posted cliff notes on social media. There were so many red flags. The desperation is crazy. 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @theresapurnell6643
    @theresapurnell6643 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Blessings and Peace 🙏🏽🕊️💖

  • @esther4844
    @esther4844 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I was waiting on your intake on this!😊

  • @jbuggietheoofer3646
    @jbuggietheoofer3646 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    She googled everything after he done ran game for a year. Why she didn’t google arena football in the beginning to see his salary? Plus did she ever go to his place to see how he was living? I think she full of it

  • @PrettyReddTheDoula
    @PrettyReddTheDoula 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I HAVE BEEN WAITING FOR THIS ...Let me get comfortable.

  • @stephaniehall8179
    @stephaniehall8179 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That old saying “I can do bad all by myself”

  • @aeptacon
    @aeptacon 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    @4:09 🤍 Thank you I needed to hear this so I don't feel bad 😅

  • @mymakersdaughter6041
    @mymakersdaughter6041 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love comes in all color shapes and sizes! She’s very attractive and very articulate so I don’t think we should be discussing her weight cause I don’t really think that’s the issue! Now, does she need to lose weight for her health, absolutely! But that doesn’t take away from what seems like a fun personality, a nice smile and a pretty face.

  • @iamallisonalanna
    @iamallisonalanna 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Soon as I saw this video I started laughing before Tony even started talking…. I already know I’m bout to be crying laughing

  • @travelnurseneenee
    @travelnurseneenee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    when i heard about the story, all i could hear is you saying "dating sites is the lions den" 😂😂

  • @thenativeconservationist
    @thenativeconservationist 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I second this because I found my US Legion on Tinder and my friend as well found hers who was Australian. Both yt and we both never dated out before. This was hell on earth for us but God is good. He kept us 🙏🏽
    Never doing both things EVER again.