Homesickness, Depression and Struggles.

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  • @AfrahAamer
    @AfrahAamer 5 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Dude... "If money can't buy happiness, the lack of it will surely make you sad" is so hard hitting.

    • @kalpakHere
      @kalpakHere 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      The truth in its absolute form. There's no novelty in poverty.

  • @YudiJ
    @YudiJ 5 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Love it! It’s not just philosophy but it’s the perspective you are giving to students which is the best thing!

  • @ameytarfe9597
    @ameytarfe9597 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    Time heals everything. Trust me!

  • @beyoulveyou9461
    @beyoulveyou9461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    Right this moment I'm crying my eyes out 😭😭 it's so painful bearing this alone... depression and anxiety overwhelming 😖. homesickness such a awful feeling. ..probably because I'm mostly alone with my thoughts and insecurities 😭😭

    • @robbykiller2323
      @robbykiller2323 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      How are you now

    • @hemantaneja8467
      @hemantaneja8467 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey how are you ?

    • @raunak1786
      @raunak1786 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aye dude....hope everything turned out alright?

  • @vh2733
    @vh2733 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for taking on something no one knows and no on one sees, thats really important.

    • @ParthVijayvergiya
      @ParthVijayvergiya  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes Vishal, this is a very sensitive topic.
      I am glad I could speak on it :)

  • @tejasviharshwal
    @tejasviharshwal 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You're a gem! Thank you

  • @financialninja3180
    @financialninja3180 5 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    I can understand and empathize for sure. I came to US 23 years ago.. and no, there was no Skype then :) In fact internet was something you accessed only at school! India call used to cost $1.25/min so calls were limited to 10 mins, every alternate week. Plus there were not many Indians back then so it was hard. The good news is that you will get over it. The bad news (or better news depending on your perspective) is that eventually you will feel like a foreigner in India. 2 weeks is the maximum I can live in India. After that I get homesick and cannot wait to get back to US!! SO hang in there and God bless!

  • @palashsharma3686
    @palashsharma3686 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Currently I am experiencing homesickness and loneliness as I am on my internship at IISc, I think your video has helped me a lot.(especially those 10 quotes, I have taken screenshot of them). Very soon I will have to face this kind of homesickness, so an amazing video to know what to do when you are away from home. Kudos.

    • @ParthVijayvergiya
      @ParthVijayvergiya  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I am glad I could be of Palash. Take care man 🔥

  • @vsasank
    @vsasank 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Speaking of Homesick and depression, Can you also please do a video about best time to travel back to India during the course of studying Master's.?

  • @chaiandcoaching
    @chaiandcoaching 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Truth, such truth! Parth you are hitting on some tough realities because the struggle really is real for international students in America. Many come to pursue the American Dream but will quickly realize it’s not what they dreamed up. Good tips on how to deal with the stress!

  • @ElohimWorshiping
    @ElohimWorshiping 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope you are better and no longer depressed

  • @rajpatel3836
    @rajpatel3836 5 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Parth I too understand homesickness, struggles and depression very well as I have been living away from home in residential school since the very beginning. But, the thought that my parents have strived so hard to bring me to that platform helps me overcome all the emotional setbacks.
    👨‍👩‍👧‍👦

  • @sarthakanand7174
    @sarthakanand7174 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Really loved the quotes you used man.

  • @sahilp11
    @sahilp11 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This video deserves only likes, no dislikes! 🙏

  • @kartikg.kartikg
    @kartikg.kartikg 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    No doubt. One of the best and most encouraging, motivating talk i hearded on TH-cam.
    You analyse more than just thinking about your problems. That's building your constructive mentality.
    Keep it up..!

  • @mahendarkagithala3946
    @mahendarkagithala3946 5 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Bro I stay alone
    I miss my kid wife and parents
    It's hard 😔

  • @COOLSHANDI
    @COOLSHANDI 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your efforts are commendable.

  • @hiteshpatil8459
    @hiteshpatil8459 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    dil jit liye ho bhai aap!🙌😢

  • @poetrypoesy3082
    @poetrypoesy3082 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video..you just filled everyone with the positive vibes..unlike other videos who tell with the big caps that "don't come to USA if"

  • @pratikshapatnaik3813
    @pratikshapatnaik3813 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Loved your thoughts and take on it. Thank you for this😊

  • @Zahra-bi4bw
    @Zahra-bi4bw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    But the problem is I don't have good friends 😪

  • @amitjoshi956
    @amitjoshi956 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thanks Parth! This was really informative 😊

  • @anupmulay7681
    @anupmulay7681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great content Parth ! Thank you so much !

  • @Apoorved
    @Apoorved 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Man, I love this video man! You're doing such an amazing job! Thanks my man! :')

  • @sarthak1314
    @sarthak1314 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Great video.

  • @adityasahi6232
    @adityasahi6232 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    working, studying and also posting things that are really helpful to everyone
    Hats Off...... Great Video. :)

  • @karansrz
    @karansrz 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The things you spoke about friends, money and proper thinking is very true! Can make a whole lot of difference.
    As you said 10 years ago or so there wasn’t WhatsApp calling or any sort of a thing and people used to do masters abroad even then, considering all those things we are extremely lucky, just pick the phone up and you have a million apps to do video call and literally see the person. We take things for granted that’s for sure.

  • @shubhampandey2212
    @shubhampandey2212 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Love you man really Soo helpful thank you..

  • @shreyan9654
    @shreyan9654 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So many valuable guidelines☺👍 thank you❣ And u have come up with all those problems... n reached ur goals👏🏻👏🏻Brave parth💪

  • @ammarmirza1094
    @ammarmirza1094 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Gr8 job parth. U really are an inspiration

  • @FIERCE808
    @FIERCE808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    It was really a useful video :)

  • @aniketmankar63
    @aniketmankar63 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    You always motivate me man.

  • @wildfire282
    @wildfire282 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved it !

  • @pratikchhyaadhikari393
    @pratikchhyaadhikari393 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    So inspiring ❣

  • @pratheekhp2222
    @pratheekhp2222 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Super bro👌u r really doing d best job! Ur suggestions really helped me a lot!! Thank you 👍🙏

  • @adityab4528
    @adityab4528 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Awesome video parth really loved the content and some ways to deal with the negativity. I loved that quotes you written on paper might be helpful in tough time ✌🔥

  • @zshanofficial2229
    @zshanofficial2229 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This Is Motivational 🔥❤️

    • @ParthVijayvergiya
      @ParthVijayvergiya  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hey thanks 🔥

    • @rohanarora6479
      @rohanarora6479 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Can you speak to someone who was not able to get an internship and then was able to get a full time job?

  • @user-sr4tb7tv6f
    @user-sr4tb7tv6f 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Surprising how you find time to study along with YouTubing etc. Plus I think the problem I see with Indians studying abroad is they do not try to make friends from the country they are studying. They always try to stick with the other Indians and only go to India restaurants. My advice would be to make local friends, go out more and learn the local culture. You won’t feel depressed.

  • @prudhvivajja5142
    @prudhvivajja5142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Always great to watch your vedios prath, ☺️.

  • @shivamverma9461
    @shivamverma9461 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I hope you answer 😇😇
    I can't make it out, I am just living 15 days and today I went to a doctor because I fainted crying, and my surroundings are not too good my friends are at their homes with families and I live alone in a room. I feel extremely homesick. Can you please help me out.

  • @akashsunda225
    @akashsunda225 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great video as always!!! You recently visited UIC, can you please share your review on the instagram story or something. I will be there this fall as an undergraduate student, so I would really like your opinion.

  • @shubhajitroy1787
    @shubhajitroy1787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please make a video on how to find a job in US as a software engineer please make a complete video about it. And how hard it is to get !!!

  • @deepthiarya5000
    @deepthiarya5000 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    5th point 👍👍

  • @priyankandatta5644
    @priyankandatta5644 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hello Parth! I hope you answer my question. So thanks in advance. Please tell me which universities are easy for part time job findings for indian students. Like you said its difficult in neu and utd. Can you name some good ranked univs or places where its easy to find part time jobs?

  • @shashanktripathi4761
    @shashanktripathi4761 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    hey parth..
    i have a query regarding these two things:-
    1) how to get an apartment, and what prices would be effective( as in relative to Dallas metropolitan area)?
    2) how and where to book flight tickets, and how to know whether transit visas be required or not??
    kindly help me out man.!!

    • @krajpathak
      @krajpathak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1) 1500 for 3bhk
      2) don't know where but if your layover is greater than 8 hrs then a transit visa is required.

  • @sterinsaji4513
    @sterinsaji4513 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Nyc yellow shirt

  • @ajinkya.sonawane
    @ajinkya.sonawane 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Parth, can you make a video on if it is possible for International students doing MS in US to set up their own startup being on education or work visa?

  • @lucky__verma
    @lucky__verma 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Brother, are we expecting a video on electrical sector for MS in states?

  • @julietgeorge2440
    @julietgeorge2440 ปีที่แล้ว

    am so tired can't wait to finish to go home

  • @falguni.bonaparte
    @falguni.bonaparte 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    All quotes 💙

  • @aakriti366
    @aakriti366 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro please give me advice ....how did you start preparing for Purdue university from the senior year of your high school?
    Is it possible to manage money all by ourselves from second year for living and tution fees at Purdue and in Indiana? Or parents have to send it ? If so how much extra should parents must send yearly for undergraduate ?
    Please give me reply . I am aiming for this university since last year (grade 11) . Hope your advice will help me.
    Purdue is my dream.

  • @karanpatil3428
    @karanpatil3428 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    1st to watch!!! 1st to like!❣

  • @affanakela6559
    @affanakela6559 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    6:01, Fook, this is what I tried to explain someone that no matter how good you're how dedicated and how honest you're with what you're doing having plan -B is always a good thing, but as always I've been told many times that it's just you're not honest and dedicated enough 🙄☹️

  • @jimmoriarty622
    @jimmoriarty622 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hey Parth I think a vlog is gonna come next week cuz I see a gopro behind you I a assume it's of you working in time-lapse mode 😏

  • @musicbeast_
    @musicbeast_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    People would rather live in a community with unreasonable claims, than face loneliness with their truth

  • @ubaidshah2591
    @ubaidshah2591 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Please brother do video on how to get admission in usa

  • @divyaah1070
    @divyaah1070 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    👍

  • @himanshukalsana3221
    @himanshukalsana3221 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    plz tell what is right time to go abroad
    Ms or Bs

  • @epicone988
    @epicone988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Below 3 GPA - probation?... why?

    • @pranavpavanify
      @pranavpavanify 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      2.0 for undergrads

    • @epicone988
      @epicone988 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@pranavpavanify ☺️.. thanks man

  • @The_Rolling_Dough
    @The_Rolling_Dough 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi My visa interview is nearby. I had applied to only one University, Rutgers, and got admission hence I didn’t apply to other colleges. So should I say to VO that I applied to only one University? Will that give tge VO a negative impression? What should I do/say?
    Please help anyone. Or does anyone have a similar problem?

  • @iffykhan2009
    @iffykhan2009 ปีที่แล้ว

    Feeling depressed iam far away from home in another country at the age of 19 future tentions..lack of money...want to work to get money..the awful feeling it is. May Allah help All people me too

  • @cheetosgamingyt
    @cheetosgamingyt 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bro u never reply on Instagram!

  • @adityarajput7578
    @adityarajput7578 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You said a student should have a GPA above 3. On a 4 point scale or a 10 point scale?

    • @anprabh1
      @anprabh1 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      America follows the 4 point scale. Hence, 4.

  • @garyrobinson8665
    @garyrobinson8665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Whenever I go on holiday I don't miss my friends or family but I miss my dog.

  • @yashdalsaniya9315
    @yashdalsaniya9315 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro what are the chances of an Indian students to get less than 3 GPA ?
    If the chances are lower, what helps students the most to get around 3.5 GPA or more than that ?

    • @dheeshakti948
      @dheeshakti948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      It’s very rare to get a gpa below 3.0. Once you get into the flow of things you’ll adapt. Also choose courses that you think you can manage and adapt to well. I’ve really never seen anyone getting below 3.0.

    • @yashdalsaniya9315
      @yashdalsaniya9315 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@dheeshakti948 thanks for the reply ! 😊😊😊

  • @vedantwankhede3558
    @vedantwankhede3558 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    In other countries friends are like supporting Drugs

  • @abhijeettiwari1679
    @abhijeettiwari1679 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love the thumbnail 😂😂

  • @nori9779
    @nori9779 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Firstttt!!

  • @vivekbhatia4784
    @vivekbhatia4784 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Bhai tujhe kisi ne bola hai tu Rahul Gandhi jaisa hai looks main

  • @sainikhit5940
    @sainikhit5940 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First view !

  • @I.amRisky
    @I.amRisky ปีที่แล้ว

    i dont think so you went through real depression

  • @nicolemarietarroza
    @nicolemarietarroza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why do u look like Jamie Dornan from fifty shades of grey XD

  • @surajpatil8252
    @surajpatil8252 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First view

  • @harikachowdary2943
    @harikachowdary2943 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Bro please reply to my mail

  • @aaryanpatel5948
    @aaryanpatel5948 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    5:17
    WHY IS AMERICA 🤪😂
    (Sorry I couldn’t control myself)