anniversary dinner at home does not go as planned | reflecting on our 3 years in marriage

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  • Thank you for watching, I hope you enjoy this very self explanatory (2b deleted) video and remember to be kind to yourself , always.
    by the way, we got married on the 16th of feb 2019
    subscribe for more and I'll see you soon...
    / mmatemamrsg

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  • @memorymunde4210
    @memorymunde4210 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    Who else is here laughing with me😂😂😂 Ethan is a whole vibe guys, like parents like son, I can't stop watching this 😂😂 happy anniversary my lovely Gavu's.. I love you guys

  • @nsukumaluleke7435
    @nsukumaluleke7435 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    My husband and I always think we’re the only ones going through this, thank you for sharing 🤣🤣

  • @yenziwensele
    @yenziwensele 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    This is the most perfect video I’ve ever seen on TH-cam MrsG I’m literally crying right now😭😭😭

    • @therealpretty8443
      @therealpretty8443 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Indeed, I am 😺this is perfect 👌 100%%

  • @theroaringmomma
    @theroaringmomma 2 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    I love the rawness of this content. It was such a joy to watch.

  • @swazi4769
    @swazi4769 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Love the transparency. This is what married couple's should show if they intend to enhance other people's marriages on social media.
    Now I really honestly love you Mme Mmatema. I've always loved you, but I respect this.

  • @mongwaitshephangkekana4876
    @mongwaitshephangkekana4876 2 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    This was perfect - in such an indescribable way! Even the "mess". Happy anniversary, ba ga Gavu! may the Lord bless you with many more!

  • @goodnessmosehla8362
    @goodnessmosehla8362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Ethan is growing up in such a warm family and i love it....

  • @shibendala6410
    @shibendala6410 2 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    loved the realness of this video even in the mess I could still feel your love and the Beauty that is your marriage,true we should stop comparing ourself to others..a perfect example of Not all the Glitter is Gold..Happy Anniversary the gavu may Good LORD continue to keep you and may he make his face to shine upon you

  • @karabomoube3174
    @karabomoube3174 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    As a man as i am , i am always inspired by Mr Gavu , i am always learning, loving and singing with this channel all the way from Botswana......back to the anniversary😍the last lighting dinner part had me tearing down with tears😥for a fact that it was amazing and teacheable ...i love your marriage Mr&Mrs G and the little G's i am blessed always😘😘😘😘Keep it up Mr Gas well as you Mrs G....

  • @bothomakuku1803
    @bothomakuku1803 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mmatema you have a wonderful husband, i hope you know that. Such a gentleman. Yall make an amazing couple ♥️🥺

  • @lebotjale7083
    @lebotjale7083 2 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You’re doing so well Mmatema. I really and truly enjoy your content. If you ever feel like giving up please remember that there’s a subscriber like me who sternly believes in your work. Happy anniversary to the G’s. May God continue to hold you in the palm of His hand 💕

  • @omphemetsemalinga5282
    @omphemetsemalinga5282 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    And what also warmed my heart was the fact that you guys disagreed in front of the kids AND made up in front of them Argh man, couldn't help but shed a tear...if anything I'm definately taking this to my future kids/family I loved to see all of it...thank you for being so real with us mama,also that man love you,Shu!
    Happy anniversary ❤️

  • @LadyT06
    @LadyT06 2 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    May Koko continue resting in peace🕊!
    *I appreciate your transparency and sharing some of your challenges in marriage😊.This is REAL LIFE not fairytales that are usually shared on SMP!*

  • @gladyskwena5644
    @gladyskwena5644 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ethan wa mpolaya....thats the reality of living with kids. they are part of our lives. just love the way you guys are so real and natural

  • @debramayisela
    @debramayisela 2 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    This is the most perfect video I've ever watched on TH-cam. You celebrated your anniversary so well and it was nothing short of perfection. May God continue to bless your union❤😍

  • @dinimuluvhu6996
    @dinimuluvhu6996 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Do I still not admire the part where he gives you a gift and say the speech😊

  • @Khanyii_Mahlangu
    @Khanyii_Mahlangu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Oh this is so beautiful 🥺🥺🥺😍😍😍 And I learnt something about marriage … 🙌🙌🙌🙌

  • @ivymathibela2010
    @ivymathibela2010 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Who was chopping onions with me when Mr G gave Mrs G a gift? I love the rawness of this vlog

  • @MMboyi
    @MMboyi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Ethan didn't Wana be left out 😂 lol.. HAPPY ANNIVERSARY Guys 🎊🎉🌹 May God bless u with many more years. Thank u for giving us the real video

  • @pelonomimogotsi832
    @pelonomimogotsi832 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This was real.. a breath of fresh air. There's a lot of "pretending" on here. Thank you for sharing this as it is.
    Happy anniversary to you and Mr G

  • @nickymthelebofu
    @nickymthelebofu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mara guys the authenticity in this channel, the realness. Ai man God bless this marriage,family Nd channel. Love u guys Nd happy Anniversary

  • @portiasekgobela8961
    @portiasekgobela8961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love how real you guys are ,Modimo a le dire ka go loka a shireletse lenyalo la lena....

  • @botshelomokoena363
    @botshelomokoena363 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I love how you guys never pretend and also show us that there some arguments also the solving problem together being intentional and speak well to each other. ❤️ happy anniversary 😌

  • @dimakatso7199
    @dimakatso7199 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    One thing I liked neh you show us you and everything... kids , like argument and you without make up..not dressed up ... I really love it♥️

  • @mphosebopela6001
    @mphosebopela6001 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I have never laughed so hard 😂😂 the little argument reminded me of my relationship and everytime I end an argument is by saying I'm bored 😂😂

  • @samukelenene3842
    @samukelenene3842 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Notification Gang 🔔... We are here.... Happy Anniversary to the Gavu Family... May God give y'all strength to continue loving each other with Agape Love 😍

  • @maleshwanemofokeng2321
    @maleshwanemofokeng2321 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The lesson you delivered to the young wives is powerful ❤️Wow we are learning 😊

  • @mahlogonolophokanoka7183
    @mahlogonolophokanoka7183 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Let me say this is my absolute favorite video in all videos I've watched, why?
    This is real life! This is real marriage! This is how it goes. It's authentic and true sometimes you're happy with your spouse, sometimes you're annoyed by them, your kids don't make it any easier because they are just doing them.
    Bless your beautiful home ❤

  • @boipelomanhe453
    @boipelomanhe453 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    i geniuely appreciate this vlog, what a beautiful marriage. GOD BLESS YOUR UNION

  • @larrisaganya4880
    @larrisaganya4880 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This was beautiful to watch. So heart warming, I cried!

  • @kedibonemositsa2275
    @kedibonemositsa2275 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    This is the reality we love👌 We can relate soooo much. Happy Anniversary the Gavus🎉

  • @nomthandazoxulu9830
    @nomthandazoxulu9830 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Such an imperfectly perfect video! 😂🤍 Happy anniversary guys.

  • @dimphomasehla9280
    @dimphomasehla9280 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    🤣😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 I’m here for Ethan. Happy anniversary Hle lena. Sorry it turned out like this. You are the realest and thank you for that ♥️😂😂😂😂😂😂😂🤣🤣🤣

  • @misspurplerain
    @misspurplerain 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Anniversary to you and Mr G💜This was such a beautiful video to watch. So real🥺💜

  • @mahlomphomapolosi7514
    @mahlomphomapolosi7514 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The Most Authentic Couple on TH-cam goes to The Gavus. ❤️
    Thank you for sharing this in a world full of filters and perfection. We appreciate you

  • @kgomotsosalome5445
    @kgomotsosalome5445 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the way you keep every thing real i love you guys happy anniversary

  • @shanaviap3586
    @shanaviap3586 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are so real and I love that!! Happy Anniversary!

  • @karies6895
    @karies6895 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Anniversary 😘😘 Loved every bit of this! Raw and Real 💯💯

  • @zamakhabako3626
    @zamakhabako3626 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Love the authenticity! & it definitely wasn't boring ❤ I was having a bad day just before I watched this & thank you for the cheer up, especially Ethan 😅 Happy anniversary 🎉

  • @mubveleli7204
    @mubveleli7204 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Haaah it was a nice vlog ,Ethan is the star ....I see why kids are taken to granny or aunty during anniversary 😆....it was a beautiful vlog

  • @mapuleeunice6981
    @mapuleeunice6981 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Anniversary Gavus... I love you guys so much and thank you so much for this video 😍❤️

  • @MoRay13
    @MoRay13 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    did i not cry, this was beautiful....happy anniversary fam

  • @mpumelelomagoso1315
    @mpumelelomagoso1315 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love this!!!!!!! Happy anniversary Gavu family♥️

  • @mapeuramodike2943
    @mapeuramodike2943 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't regret subscribing to this channel shame!! Happy anniversary to the Gavu's❤

  • @palesampofu8064
    @palesampofu8064 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is literally my life hey. So relatable ❤️❤️HAppy anniversary. May God grace you with many many blissful years

  • @sukoluhlesibanda7812
    @sukoluhlesibanda7812 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Yooh🥺Thank you for being so real with us.🥺❤️Happy belated anniversary family!🥺❤️

  • @kaydeeofficially3181
    @kaydeeofficially3181 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Just saw the notification now now 🤞🏼...I really enjoy watching the videos and I wish you nothing but the best in your marriage and I believe that God has greater plans for guys and he has a purpose why you guys are in this union together ...may the good lord grant you more years and many blessings 🙏💯.. happy anniversary enjoy it to the fullest am so excited to see Ethan and the little princess God bless you let me fetch watching the video then I will come back to comment...Love you guys . #THE GAVU FAMILY ❤️

  • @tlangelanimathebula2916
    @tlangelanimathebula2916 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved everything about this video. Thank you for posting it and the authenticity! Happy Anniversary to you guys. May God continue to bless you guys with many more 🤍

  • @lineonchaba3519
    @lineonchaba3519 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sheba, you show that realness of everything. I love everything about this video. Thank you 😊😘 and Happy anniversary. God continue to grant to you more love and wisdom for many more💐🥂

  • @naomiemilani2362
    @naomiemilani2362 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    We enjoy such imperfect vlogs mama, don’t ever fake it..we fell in love with the real you ❤️🌹

  • @njabuloyethumalaza4761
    @njabuloyethumalaza4761 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    First of all...This was Ethan's video🤣Let's get that out of the way.
    Secondly this was the realest vlog everrrrrr❤️Happy Anniversary Mr & Mrs G.

  • @thokozileomuhle
    @thokozileomuhle 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ncoow this was so beautiful to watch 😭😍❤️ Happy Anniversary you guys ❤️ may God continue blessing your union

  • @modestmed4959
    @modestmed4959 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is by far the best ,real video I have watched in a long time ❤️Thank you.

  • @samukelisiwendlovu4507
    @samukelisiwendlovu4507 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This Channel is so authentic and so relateable love it 😂😂😂👌🏽

  • @risimamabunda2364
    @risimamabunda2364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    All i can say is I love you Mmatema and Happy anniversary!

  • @mamogalesesinyi3376
    @mamogalesesinyi3376 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The realest TH-camr I've ever seen🙌🙌. It was a blissful one to watch, to many more years of a marriage filled with love ❤ . Thank you Mmatema for the amazing content, lesson learnt 🥰🥰

  • @DaughterOfDestinyLinda
    @DaughterOfDestinyLinda 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Anniversary by the way and may God continue to bless your beautiful union❤🙏🏽

  • @reginakapuka2237
    @reginakapuka2237 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Loved every second of this video. Very relatable, very raw, very genuine... arg, love you guys so much.

  • @NyikoChabalala
    @NyikoChabalala 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This is one of the best vlogs of you guys that I have ever watched, loved it….

  • @samanthatakudzwa8409
    @samanthatakudzwa8409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awww thank you for making us believe that marriage & love are a beautiful thing

  • @tebogomaphutha
    @tebogomaphutha 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    So authentic. Love it, happy anniversary guys.... 🎉 ❤

  • @tlagomohoera6157
    @tlagomohoera6157 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This was perfect in every possible way!
    You've shown us that mess and beauty do coexist 😍❤️. Thank you for your authenticy, it's really needed in this make-belive world we living in. Wishing you God's best in your union❤️

  • @kudzaishantelnhara6693
    @kudzaishantelnhara6693 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No you’re crying…I’m not🥺 this is so cute♥️

  • @Sedi_Maxx
    @Sedi_Maxx 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for your truth. I saw humility, kindness, patience and love in this video. The fruits of the spirit at play🙌 Happy Anniversary the G's🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @fungairatambwa738
    @fungairatambwa738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy anniversary the Gavus, more grace upon your marriage. Lots of love

  • @marylettmuzila8020
    @marylettmuzila8020 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy Anniversary..... I love you guys... Love the authenticity...
    Beautiful mess😍

  • @khanyimaroga
    @khanyimaroga 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man I loved every single moment of this video 😅❤ happy anniversary

  • @emilykamati8770
    @emilykamati8770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Agggg this is the most raw video I have ever watched.
    God bless you so much guys.
    This gives me so much courage knowing that all couples do fight actually hey. We don’t know what really happens behind closed doors. I swear I never thought you guys fight. Not that I condone happiness one sometimes think you’re the only one who has fights in your marriage until you hear or see other people speak.
    I love you guys for your genuineness 🥰

    • @thokozilendlovu7231
      @thokozilendlovu7231 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wow Mmatema May God continue to bless your marriage hle ❤️

  • @nthabi_royaltymasango4915
    @nthabi_royaltymasango4915 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I can't believe iv laughed so hard especially when Ethen stepping on the plate🤣🤣 guy's i have a two year old under my roof I'm feeling so glad that other people do experience this reality 😂😂😂

  • @zaneleledwaba7455
    @zaneleledwaba7455 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Loved everything about this video♥️ Happy anniversary💐🎉 💕

  • @rwellah_anders8623
    @rwellah_anders8623 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    The content👌👌👌happy anniversary to the Gavus🎉🎊

  • @iam_mmathoka
    @iam_mmathoka 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ethan 😫😭😹😹😹😹 he's so adorable mahn 🥰 happy 3years anniversary Mr and Mrs G ❤ may The Good God of All Grace carry yall through your marriage till the Master comes back 🥂❤🔥

  • @nabogasa3446
    @nabogasa3446 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I enjoyed everything, loved Ethan as well he had me on my baby voice aww mann so cute.
    Love the authenticity in the both of you.. happy anniversary

  • @mukutsuripriscilla9166
    @mukutsuripriscilla9166 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    THIS WAS SOOO PERFECT ♥️🥰LOVE LOVE LOVE IT!
    THANK YOU FOR POSTING IT. I LOVE HOW YOU ARE SO REAL AND INTENTIONAL ♥️THIS IS WHAT I CALL THROUGH THICK AND THIN & YOU'RE DEFINITELY NOT FOR SHOW 💯🤞

  • @winnycynthia
    @winnycynthia 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I Love your honesty in.❤️. only few can show people the true reality of what really happens inside those walls.. happy anniversary to you guys.

  • @KhanyisileDlamini23
    @KhanyisileDlamini23 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Notification gang🔊🔊we appreciate you Mrs G❤

  • @chantelltalbaard9278
    @chantelltalbaard9278 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I appreciate how real this video is, thank you so much for this
    May God protect and bless your family

  • @Ndjeseye
    @Ndjeseye 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Beautiful mess indeed😍
    Happy Anniversary Fam❤️✨

  • @maphanganomcebo4584
    @maphanganomcebo4584 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy anniversary to you and yours . May the Lord keep you together and sustain you 🥂 to many more happy and beautiful anniversary 😉and more babies 🤪

  • @nompumelelomanyisa9110
    @nompumelelomanyisa9110 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahaha I loved every bit of this, so authentic, it's Ethan for me🤣🙌

  • @tigomosimanyane1804
    @tigomosimanyane1804 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    and this is what i signed up for...you guys are so real 🥰

  • @Simplykaytee
    @Simplykaytee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thanks Mrs G for such a real video ❤️and happy blessed anniversary May God continue to bless your marriage 🙏🌹💐

  • @sharonmalatji
    @sharonmalatji 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    The realness behind this vlog is super amazing, really enjoyed it!!

  • @zickysmug398
    @zickysmug398 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahhhh man Mmatema this was so beautiful 😍 it's real and authentic...happy anniversary Mr and Mrs G

  • @christinahlerato837
    @christinahlerato837 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ethan is my spirit animal🤣🤣🤣🤣The most realest video ever, Vlogs are never perfect🤣

  • @pusosithole6980
    @pusosithole6980 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful ❤❤❤, happy anniversary " The Gavuz ". May u grow old together

  • @LoveAndLife04
    @LoveAndLife04 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this I shared a tear when you did...so genuine so relatable. I love it
    May God continue blessing u and your mirriage😂❤️🥰😘😘

  • @lindiwemasango573
    @lindiwemasango573 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Happy anniversary to you guys I love the reality in you guys

  • @remoneilwetsie4100
    @remoneilwetsie4100 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Its the authenticity for me😭This was so beautiful🥺❤️ Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs G💕

  • @bridelamb2000
    @bridelamb2000 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You guys are likeable, please don't change for anyone❤️

  • @purplepekhan
    @purplepekhan 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Parts of this video totally cracked me up!😂😂😂. I totally get it coz I have two kiddos too. Really love the authenticity. Happy anniversary! May God keep blessing your marriage. ❤️

  • @moroesinkone4294
    @moroesinkone4294 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy Anniversary Mr and Mrs G.🥂 Gogo was a vibe. May her soul continued to rest in peace.

  • @keneiloemyoli
    @keneiloemyoli 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing this. Hubby and I have skipped anniversaries because of the kids so this shows that it's doable

  • @tshepangmokwena8738
    @tshepangmokwena8738 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I loved every minute of this Aus Matema. It's real, so true, so authentic. It hit home😊😭💯

  • @melitahmmusi9560
    @melitahmmusi9560 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This is real and i just love it to the end 😍😍😍😍😍thank you MrsG!!!!

  • @enniehlongwane8731
    @enniehlongwane8731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Issa three years anniversary and God has blessed you with 3more people in your life since your wedding , your husband and two beautiful babies...Mrs G you are blessed 🙌🙌❤ 3 is a lucky number indeed

  • @cherryroadz8836
    @cherryroadz8836 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    no this was beautiful 😭♥️♥️

  • @shokimakamedi
    @shokimakamedi 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Happy anniversary 🎊🎊🎉 May God continue to Sustain the union..❤️🙏

  • @arinahosharon6354
    @arinahosharon6354 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Happy anniversary Mr & Mrs G🥰🥰🤗🤗this was the most funniest and soo real i really love you guys❤🤗

  • @nonkululekomthombeni9201
    @nonkululekomthombeni9201 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mmatemas' vlogs are honestly the best for me. Happy Anniversary, Mr and Mrs Gavu