Temma responds to fans who broke up with their boyfriend due to their oshi
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 30 ก.ค. 2024
- *This is from Temma's Christmas Eve Marshmallow-reading stream where he asked his viewers to send him love-related episodes
00:00 Maro 1
01:33 Maro 2
02:29 Maro 3
03:43 Bonus
source: 【恋愛トーク】クリスマスイブイブだし恋愛の話がしたい！【岸堂天真/ホロスターズ】 th-cam.com/users/live-QHxqQ1H...
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as expected, temma comes in with the grounded realistic advice. great stuff, i have always appreciated that about him. also lol at the bonus maro...
If you need to hide a simple hobby from your significant others, then it’s not a health relationship. He gave great advice
I like Temma's advice. It's real and he encourages us to be honest too. A relationship can't work without honesty and really if your boyfriend can't accept your hobbies (he doesn't have to participate but at least respect what you like), then that's not a relationship to keep. And yeah, maro 3's ex bf is scum. Better off without him! I hope all 3 maros meet someone even better in their next relationships! Ganbare!
Continue to love our straightforward but earnest chaotic knight wholeheartedly and without shame!
Nah. Depends on the hobby
Tenma's advice was really grounded and realistic, I hope it helped those girls! Also that final marshmallow lmao
I'm married and my wife knows i watch vtuber, do some sc and buy some of their merch.
Though i understand that irl is a priority so i do manage time and knows when i have to be with my wife, but my wife also understand my hobbies and not judging me for that.
I think be open about it from the start, but still give an effort to love your other one is really important. Without effort you will just either bored or hate each other eventually.
That final one is the karma of Temma introducing himself as Roberu as a scapegoat during VCR GTA coming to bite him in the ass, I'm honestly kinda of glad the Kishimen are still dedicated to that bit lol
kishimen remember every bit and every inside joke, even ones temma himself forgets lol
Temma may be a funny and dorky person at times but if you've watched him enough, you'll know that he's actually a very serious and realistic guy. He does not beat around the bush.
to me its the opposite
Case 1: guy got understandably tired of the girl prioritizing her oshi over their relationship so he left. That's on the girl.
Case 2: ngl, that's a really dumb reason to break up. Tenma is right, you shouldn't feel embarrassed about your hobbies.
Case 3: Dude's a prick who was in love with someone else for 5 years yet didn't have the balls to break up with the girl before and then brushes her off like an asshole.
that bonus maro is just peak suntempo fan behavior www
1st story realistic
2nd story embarrassed watching TH-cam content???
3rd story the girl don't deserve that
4th story:😂😂😂
Congratulations, Roberu!
I wasn't expecting that final one at all and I lost it 😂 sasuga kishimen
I'd be surprised and impressed if a lady who isn't even into VTubers but knows that I am confessed her love to me. But I can't really imagine myself lasting long with a lady like that, not with that already stark difference in interests.
As for being found out that I like VTubers, especially HOLOSTARS, I'm not worried about a lady finding that out about me. Heck, I'm not even going to hide how I like VTubers, and I'd be happy to have her getting into these way more decent and creative talents I look up to. But even with how open I want to be about myself, I still have worry about how she'll take how down abyssal I look at, say, the Stars' work sisters and how my fave VTuber is Axel because of how dudebro he is.
And that third Marshmallow...reminds me of how I made myself such a tryhard about relating to my first and previous girlfriend's liking for her favorite artists that I'm not really into or as into as she is. My usual ways of gushing about the ladies didn't help, too. Makes me even more surprised about how we were together for around two years.
And now, I'd like to send special mention to Temma's chuckling here, which feels like something I'd do a lot as I speak stuff like what I wrote here in this comment...and I guess even in general. X"D
I'm getting stitches🤣
Damn this is too real
This is unrelated but why is "好き" always translated as "love" in anime and clips even when it doesn't make sense? Even when you are using it to say you like someone romantically, "love" is such a strong word in English when used romantically to the point people dating don't say it to each other until they are really close.
I don't think it's correct or appropriate to translate someone saying 好き in their first confession to their crush as "love".
Are those just virgin???watch vtuber=NTR????
Well it's an one-sided story ofc so we can't really know if the bfs were petty/insecure, or the gfs were doing way more than just watching/enjoying streams/content. Like if your significant other will rmb their oshis bday instead of yours, are you really in a relationship?
And while virgins who are jerks are real, thinking that virgins are bound to be jerks is a pretty mean thing to do. For one, losing virginity isn't really a decisive thing in stopping childish adults from being, say, cheaters and harassers. And there are people who aren't even interested in having sex. I don't think you'll ever be able to properly recognize an actually decent man if you keep thinking "virgin man = manchild," then.
It's not about ntr. When you are in a relationship your lover may want a certain ammount of attention and time based on their own mentality and some people may feel jealous about someone else (or something else) if they feel unsatisfied. At the end as he said it's better to break a relationship before it's too late. About the 5 years guy i guess it's just an excuse or he doesn't really know how to end a relationship.