WHY I GOT ENGAGED AT 19...💍

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  • @meghanbudrock
    @meghanbudrock 2 ปีที่แล้ว +326

    girl you don’t owe a single soul a explanation on why y’all are getting married “so young/early” . it’s a part of life and if y’all fell in love and know y’all are each others soulmates … why in the world waste time and life and wait til your older . age doesn’t matter .

  • @alexwalton777
    @alexwalton777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I love how she blushes when she talks about her ring👌👌👌

  • @emilylavalley
    @emilylavalley 2 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    you look like you are absolutely GLOWING in this video!! your happiness is so contagious i'm so excited for you two

  • @chelseawaithe3360
    @chelseawaithe3360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    It's okay to make a decision like this when you are happy with a person 😍😍😍😍🤩

  • @brinnhill7982
    @brinnhill7982 2 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    you can feel the excitement watching this video🥲 can’t wait to see the dress and venue and all!

  • @taylormays8750
    @taylormays8750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    So so happy for you and Bradley!!! I hope y'all have the best time planning the wedding and have fun in these few months of being engaged! My boyfriend and I are both 19 as well and we're waiting until we're out of college to get engaged but definitely enjoy all the little moments together and praying for an incredible wedding and a lifetime of happiness for you sweet people!

  • @AVx00
    @AVx00 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I’m 32- I LOVE following you because you literally remind me so so much of myself at your age! And you n Bradley together remind me a ton of my own relationship! I’m here to tell you DON’T wait! My fiancé and I have been together since we were 19 and 13 years later were engaged as of recently but ya know you start with excuses to wait or let family and friends pressure you into waiting because your young you’ll fall into that habit of letting this or that excuse stop you or use as a reason to put it off another year, and before you know it your years down the road and could have been sharing the same name all along. I’d always get nervous about the planning, the costs , we had our two kids and we’d want to focus on them and it’s just like now I look back and think of all the times we very well could have done it lol. When your as strong as you two seem and he’s a sweetheart too, he reminds me alot of my fiancé and how he treats me… Exactly like you said , when you know you know and that’s 100% true . CONGRATS to you both! Love following you, feels like your a little sister or something because we’re so similar💗

  • @saramills1770
    @saramills1770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Can you do a video on tips for moving out and saving money efficiently as well as a general routine of cleaning and keeping your life together throughout the week?❤️

  • @tiffanieleighann
    @tiffanieleighann 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    the way u answered the “why question” i loveee. coming from someone who got married at 18 and engaged at 17, when you know, YOU KNOW! why wait!! tmr isn’t promised, i’d rather spend as much time as his wife as possible then wait for literally no reason other then ppl think i’m “too young”. love has no age 😌❤️‍🔥 so happy for y’all!! this is gonna be a beautiful chapter in yalls life!! wishing you guys many laughs, smiles and adventures!

    • @janebowen3177
      @janebowen3177 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YOU WERE A MINOR

    • @janebowen3177
      @janebowen3177 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      When u got engaged

    • @sabrinanicoara4797
      @sabrinanicoara4797 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@janebowen3177 If her parents were okay with it, then there’s nothing wrong with that. Age doesn’t make a difference in maturity because you can be 30 and still be so immature and irresponsible. I was 18 when I got engaged, and I got married 2 weeks after I turned 19 and it’s been the best thing. I still felt like a kid but we were able to challenge each other to grow in our marriage 😁

  • @saramills1770
    @saramills1770 2 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I want to get married at 18 to the love of my life and I’m so jealous you get to begin your life together now! So sweet I love your videos🥰

  • @polandify1
    @polandify1 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Don't listen to people. My husband and I got married at 22. We've been together 10 years and are high school sweethearts. So we decided to tie the knot. So don't listen to negative people saying "oh that's so young" because what? Are they expecting you to be partying? No life with your husband is 10000000% better than living the party life. I'm happy for you! ♥️

  • @MathildeG
    @MathildeG 2 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I got engaged in February (at 24 years old), and I’m now 25, and will be getting married in June (I’ll be going on 26), I would not have been ready to get married at 19 😅. However, we’re all on a different timeline!

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats xx

  • @marleigh7597
    @marleigh7597 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    i can’t wait for the wedding i know you guys are gonna put together something wonderful i can’t wait!! so happy for you guys and the ring is GORGEOUS!!🤍🤩🤩

  • @melaniefiestas5496
    @melaniefiestas5496 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    The eyes chico, they never lie 🥰 we all can see how much in love you guys are through your eyes!! The best wishes for you both ❤️ blessings from Peru 🇵🇪

  • @user-qq1lm4os4w
    @user-qq1lm4os4w 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    YOU ARE GLOWING AND RADIATING SO MUCH HAPPINESS

  • @chemssyelmk7283
    @chemssyelmk7283 2 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I’m so happy for y’all!!you guys are so cuteeee!!!wishing the best for you both

  • @nasadisco_veries
    @nasadisco_veries 2 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm so happy for you and to be honest there is never a perfect time for getting married you need a soul you love and you can feel that they are the one for you. Soooooo happy for you lot's of love and yes flaunt that ring baby girl. 💍❤

  • @ahyanabyrd1068
    @ahyanabyrd1068 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I am really happy for you even though I dont know you personally. I have been watching you since you have been in highschool. I hope your marrige goes well.💜💜💜💜

  • @alexwalton777
    @alexwalton777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    FIRST love you so happy for you guys

  • @aliyahbradley9874
    @aliyahbradley9874 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My parents got married at 18, now 5 kids later they’re both 60 years olds and have never split up or spent a day without each other🤍 love is hard and it takes work but it’s REAL. WHEN YOU KNOW YOU KNOW!!!!!! congrats!☺️

  • @sarahgaskins2517
    @sarahgaskins2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    When you know you know !! Don’t have to explain yourself 💗I get married this Saturday and I’m 20!

    • @OliviaMessler
      @OliviaMessler  2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Aw!! Congrats beautiful 🤍

    • @sarahgaskins2517
      @sarahgaskins2517 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@OliviaMessler 💗thank you!!!

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats xx

  • @alannahsmith4149
    @alannahsmith4149 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love these sit down videos! Feels like I’m just chatting with a best friend x

  • @victoriautt2424
    @victoriautt2424 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Girl don’t worry about what people say. I got married at 18 and my husband was 22, we have been married 8 yrs going on 9!

  • @lilyb9315
    @lilyb9315 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So so so happy for you, and loved seeing how happy and excited you are for you engagement and marriage!

  • @melissacastillo4702
    @melissacastillo4702 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    girl i’m 19 and married too! i love it congrats!

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats xx

  • @keianafenty3576
    @keianafenty3576 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Could you show the process of how you plan the wedding? As young adults

  • @Aj33_
    @Aj33_ 2 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Because your boyfriend fell in love !

  • @darielleflore3322
    @darielleflore3322 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    awe olivia i’m so happy for you! i love how you smile so much by calling him your husband 🤩

  • @sweta5007
    @sweta5007 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Congratulations so happy for youu💜💜

  • @alekrose176
    @alekrose176 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 19 & just got engaged too!! So excited for you

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats xx

  • @Celeste_Hernandez17
    @Celeste_Hernandez17 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I’m honestly so happy for the two of you ❤️

  • @ambervargas335
    @ambervargas335 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    congrats! so happy for you seem like such a nice and genuine person :) wish you the best!

  • @anabeatrizalvespaschoal4350
    @anabeatrizalvespaschoal4350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    GIIIIRRRRLLLLL I’M SO HAPPY FOR YOOOOUUUU!!!💕😆✨

  • @claireduckworth7659
    @claireduckworth7659 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Congrats again on your engagement and your engagement ring is beautiful!

  • @samikshasingh8063
    @samikshasingh8063 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Never clicked on any video as fast as this one!! So so happy for you !!💗💗

  • @Farishah269
    @Farishah269 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATULATIONS AHHH from watching you vlogging in the computer class till getting engaged !! 🤍🤍

  • @cassidywaller6339
    @cassidywaller6339 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wishing you both all of the happiness in the world! 🥰🥰

  • @patrishaverayo1952
    @patrishaverayo1952 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    so happy for you olivia!! do a wedding dress and wedding hair video:)

  • @KayxTee11
    @KayxTee11 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your excitement in this video was so wholesome 🥺💕

  • @Annie-gb7fu
    @Annie-gb7fu 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    ahhhhh so so so happy for you!!!!!!!! who else was expecting it tho!!

  • @jenniferreierson1755
    @jenniferreierson1755 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am beyond excited to see your dress

  • @madipaige28
    @madipaige28 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ahhh i’m so freaking happy for you guys !! y’all are such a cute couple and i’m so happy for y’all!

  • @maggiestrv
    @maggiestrv 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The ring is so stunning 😍

  • @ellemorera
    @ellemorera 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    omg congratulations queen! Wishing you guys a lifetime of love!! Also - pls drop a hair tutorial 😭

  • @alishaondemand
    @alishaondemand 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations. Your hair is FABULOUS!

  • @reyannecadima8520
    @reyannecadima8520 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    OMG OMG HUGE CONGRATULATIONS!! God Bless you and your beautiful relationship!

  • @tesswill
    @tesswill 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ahh how are you so beautiful! your amazing and we are all so happy for you. 🤍🤎✨

  • @skyeslifeatm
    @skyeslifeatm 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wishing you both the best of luck 😍

  • @brittanyvick9961
    @brittanyvick9961 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got married 5 days ago and I absolutely love it

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats girl x

  • @daniwilliams1172
    @daniwilliams1172 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats. when i saw it on insta i was so happy for you guys!!

  • @leannbiser9127
    @leannbiser9127 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Please do another video and more with your fiancé Bradley. CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎈🎊!!!! We all love u guys so much!!!!!! 😁😁😁😁

  • @danichaparro1920
    @danichaparro1920 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations beautiful! much happiness and love for both of you

  • @MiriLOVESmakeup1
    @MiriLOVESmakeup1 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATULATIONS 🎉🎈🎊🍾 I agree 100% with you, when you know, you know, there is no reason to waist your time if you w this man is the one for you. Life is too short to wait around and don’t do tomorrow what you can do today. Blessings to you, beautiful girl

  • @arianna1426
    @arianna1426 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Why wasn’t bradly in it

  • @isabellafagundes7298
    @isabellafagundes7298 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    omg you seem so happy. im so happy for you olivia!!! 💞💞

  • @lindsay329
    @lindsay329 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girllll you don't owe a single soul a explanation on why your getting married so young. It's your life not theirs. I'm so happy for you guys

  • @alimasiva1802
    @alimasiva1802 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Soo soo happy for you both ! Congrats for you both and goodluck for your wedding. Im beyond happy ❤🥂

  • @suhanikothari2416
    @suhanikothari2416 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    love you oli

  • @shota716
    @shota716 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I wish you both happiness forever😘

  • @ruppakooner8731
    @ruppakooner8731 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I am so happy for you and Bradley!!.congrase

  • @kiarasinden9808
    @kiarasinden9808 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m so happy for her💗💍 I pray God blesses this beautiful couple and they have many more wonderful memories together!!

  • @destiny5714
    @destiny5714 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats so happy for you ! If you feel ready and prepared for this then it is perfect for you no one can tell you what is right for you at any point in your life

  • @rennie35
    @rennie35 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    so happy for you Olivia!!🤍🤍 xx

  • @shailynnamberconstantino4905
    @shailynnamberconstantino4905 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    how cute !! OMG JANUARY ... that's my bday month!! wish you the best 💕

  • @Ebubechi_Anya
    @Ebubechi_Anya 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations! I definitely agree that life is too short to wait around

  • @opheliedesf.815
    @opheliedesf.815 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congratulations!! So happy for you two💕

  • @b-19tanvimalik26
    @b-19tanvimalik26 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    congratulations ❤️

  • @bbgjordan5665
    @bbgjordan5665 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    SO CUTE!!! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS 💍💗😊

  • @moripiepenbrink4502
    @moripiepenbrink4502 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    ahhh im so happy for uu !! this is crazyy man but congratss ❤️‍🔥

  • @lilajohansen6267
    @lilajohansen6267 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congratulations Olivia

  • @mohammedalaa8006
    @mohammedalaa8006 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I fell bad because your so young girl I mean you have a lot to do alone and this really fateful decision but I wish you all the best and love

  • @sinsterspooky635
    @sinsterspooky635 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    awwe i'm so happy for you girl!!

  • @erinrc03xo
    @erinrc03xo 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Found ur channel and omg I'm so glad I'm not the only one who knows they found their soulmate and wants to get married to them me and my bf haven't been together too long but we know we found the one I'm 19 this year and we've talked about engagment this year! That's completely fine I hope no one judges me for it

  • @shyannray3524
    @shyannray3524 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So happy for you!! congratulations!!❤️

  • @angiebrown4012
    @angiebrown4012 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Plz do a yt vid on ur wedding day that would be so fun

  • @maddysmith2364
    @maddysmith2364 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    how long did you guys date before he proposed no hate just wondering

    • @hgfgghffghhgfghhjhhh
      @hgfgghffghhgfghhjhhh 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      8 months... they moved in together after 2 months...

    • @maddysmith2364
      @maddysmith2364 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hgfgghffghhgfghhjhhh thank you!!!

  • @kaitlyn5690
    @kaitlyn5690 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    At the end of the day what matters is what makes you two happy ❤️ don’t worry about the negative people I’m so happy for you both and I wish you guys all the happiness 💕

  • @jaydas8976
    @jaydas8976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I’m sorry for all of the negative comments you’re getting, you don’t deserve them. You don’t owe anyone an explanation for wanting to marry young.

  • @drinkfancytea7624
    @drinkfancytea7624 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your eyeshadow looks great! What pallettes did you use?

  • @LuzLopez-wt1hj
    @LuzLopez-wt1hj 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATULATIONS GIRL

  • @aslynnmaher6601
    @aslynnmaher6601 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    plz make a vid with bradley where he explains all the background stuff and his plans

  • @alexxisvega8977
    @alexxisvega8977 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Age doesn’t matter if your happy and his happy then I think it’s the perfect timing , plus you look so happy ❤️❤️❤️

  • @Nishituber
    @Nishituber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am 20 & single seeing people get married early hurts dude I am not even able to find my boyfriend how the hell you guys find your husband omg am I cursed or what ima sad😭😭😭😭💔

    • @angelis2125
      @angelis2125 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      What are you even talking about??? Why does this generation think that at 20 you should have your life resolved. I am 21 and I have never had a boyfriend or fallen in love but I accept the fact that each person has a personal watch. And other people's achievements are not your defeats. Life is not short, that is a lie that society tells you, so you have to do certain things at certain age (like going to college at 18 BS BS BS). YOU HAVE A LOT OF TIME TO EXPLORE THIS WORLD. Love is neither sought nor found, it just comes into your life in due time. In addition, it is respected that she wants to get married at 19 but people have to understand the responsibility that this implies is not just butterflies and flowers (maybe the first 2 years are but after that time people start knowing their partners and affection is not enough, there is where love becomes a choice) Besides at 19 you dont even know half of yourself, you change and making a decision as big as this stops you from enjoying your PERSONAL freedom. You have a whole world to explore and new people to meet, dont feel stuck nor rushed, some people find their soulmates at 50 years old, etc...

    • @Nishituber
      @Nishituber 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@angelis2125 omg so trueee ❤️✨🫂

    • @Mimi-le7ow
      @Mimi-le7ow 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelis2125 education is important

  • @Icey_SnowyFlakes
    @Icey_SnowyFlakes 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Congrats I’m so happy for you

  • @khatiakiknadze5631
    @khatiakiknadze5631 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Me and my husband were together for 10 years and we engaged in January,this year. I’m 23 years old now😂❤

  • @MariamBoussi78362
    @MariamBoussi78362 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    YES DO A VIDEO WITH BRADLEY

  • @Alyssa715
    @Alyssa715 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We have so much in common I’m 19 to and just got engaged Sunday much love ❤️

    • @abicooks
      @abicooks 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      congrats xx

  • @marywillis500
    @marywillis500 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Love it so happy for you guys 💃

  • @crisob6076
    @crisob6076 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Olivia!! Congratulations to the both of you! It makes mr soo happy! Marriage should be based on LOVE NOT AGE! So dont listen to the hatersss! Wish you a lifetime of happinesss❤️

  • @itscrispina
    @itscrispina 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Girl I love you but I was laughing the entire time he was proposing the way u were crying and laughing had me dying 😂😂😂

  • @lollomua4140
    @lollomua4140 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    What a lovely video I loved it !
    however I finally opened a TH-cam channel too !!! And it is thanks to you, I was able to be myself, do what makes me feel good without caring about people !!!
    you are such an inspiration to me
    🥺💕🌱

  • @jadziak6997
    @jadziak6997 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    CONGRATS!! Never too early or late to do anything (as long as it's legal lol) LOVE is LOVE, and if people can't understand that, your world only has to consist of TWO...well, plus doogie 😃

  • @Nikki.McKee123
    @Nikki.McKee123 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    yess do another video with bradley!!!!!! would love to see itt

  • @jadanicole.
    @jadanicole. 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i’m so happy for you beautiful

  • @albagarciagutierrez5350
    @albagarciagutierrez5350 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    i love you
    you are a very cute couple!

  • @callistaanderson9279
    @callistaanderson9279 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Anyone know how long they have dated for?

  • @sierramarie.r
    @sierramarie.r 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    my birthday is also september 13! i just turned 18! congratulations to you two! i wish only the best!! 💗

  • @la5161
    @la5161 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    I’m so happy for you❤️❤️❤️

  • @cynthiarogan
    @cynthiarogan 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    i love this! pls film another vid w ur fiance !!

  • @kayleymegan2709
    @kayleymegan2709 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Congrats gurl😭💗💗